Why would op soon to be ex wife think op would set himself up for her to cheat again and destroy any amount of self respect he has build up after his wife left
Because of his past behaviour (he would always apologised but she never did) and the way he reacted to her announcing she was leaving him, she fully believed he was weak and would be grateful to have her back. Fortunately her fallback plan ended up falling on her.
@@dinkyd1533it’s kinda funny that if she had stayed when he begged, she would have a place to stay. But she abandoned him because she didn’t want him or need him. Then the next day she needs him and wants him to take her back.
Why do people that cheat always want to hug you after it's out in the open? Really? In this moment your still choosing to make yourself feel better. Do you ever think of any one else?
I never understood cheaters whose sole reason for staying in a marriage is stability/a safe option, but then turn around and drop into something so uncertain without even the bare minimum background checking
That's what it is: stability. Happened to me. Instead of coming clean and saying she loved someone else, she hid it. She wanted that thrilling rush of the new relationship (rather than approaching me and saying "hey, let's work on us. I need "). She wanted the income stability. She wanted all the perks of being married to me (i.e., the nice house, the good income). But there is some justice in this world. She lost her job shortly after leaving and he lost his a few years later. They are still together. The working theory is that they are going to "PROVE" that what they did was right. I hope they make each other miserable in the attempt. Nearly 20 years after, I still, occasionally, feel rage at her for betraying me. But, she got what she wanted, and in her mind, that made it all okay. I have rebuilt myself from the ashes of her betrayal. I'm married to a wonderful woman and have two awesome kids who are a blessing I can't begin to express how thankful I am for. They say the best revenge is living a wonderful life. I got it all, and all she has is him.
It’s precisely because “stability” isn’t exciting. The newness and uncertainty of an affair gives a thrill that they were intentionally avoiding in their marriage choice. And they get caught up in the excitement and thrill, which becomes a form of drug that clouds their thinking. Leading them to make stupid choices like this.
A woman will not tell u anything untill they are certain. You are the safety net. They only let go when they are sure that they can leave without any backlash.
Love is fleeting for a lot of people. Never attach yourself so deeply to a person that it’ll shatter you if they end up betraying or losing interest in you; life is impermanent after all. Just enjoy what you can, but learn to let things go.
Love is not a passive verb. You don't "fall" into or out of love. Falling is passive. Love is an action verb. It requires effort. Do loving things for your partner. Express your love with words and actions.
Why do cheaters always blame the victim in their life doesn't go well? Like Amy cheated on Op And when her affair partner left her and OP said no you can't come back she blames him. I don't understand it!
she probably was blaming him for not taking her back and essentially leaving her homeless... which is an Insane amount of guilt-tripping over what was essentially her stupid decisions💀
"I'll make it up to you!" How? How do you unbreak the plate that was thrown against the wall? How to you uncrumple the piece of paper that was thrown in the trash? How do you repair those spiritually crafted bonds that YOU shredded? You can't. It's not possible. Not humanly possible.
😂😂 was she for real a young man with no kids and never been married she thinks that he will go for her and at the age that she is now is just one big joke the man wants to have kids and she can't safety have any if she still can he wants a young woman not an old one 😂😂
It's okay to love your woman, but never be *in* love with her. Otherwise this will happen. OP even recognizes that he loved her more than she loved him, and he was always the stereotypical husband who apologized for everything, even when she was at fault. Women treat you better when they know you won't put up with their disrespect and you don't *need* to be with them. That's difference between loving and being in love.
Soo hung up on the being of the story buddy that feeling didn't last as it usually does short period of begging and pleading the wayward spouse then those feeling fade
Light your path forward from the light of the bridges SHE set ablaze behind you. It would be one thing if she came to you and said.. look I dont love you any more this isnt working for me and want out. You could have handled it in a civilized manner, yeah it would still hurt but you cant force some one to love you. But the utter disrespect she showed by cheatting and then planing her exit shows her utter disrespect for you and your kids. You owe her nothing. !!!
When Justice and Karma come together as a team the music they make is simply legendary. Opie's ex-wife literally nuked her entire existence from orbit. Oh my god, LOL! Hilarious Karma and justice
I can't keep reading. Normally I give the guy the benefit of doubt when cheated on, but this guys powers of reasoning are severely lacking...when he started questioning himself for being 50 and her going after a young model and not reasoning that road runs in both directions, I had to stop reading. It's no wonder some guys get cheated on...this dude is f'ing clueless. At least he had the smarts to move on after she left him...surprisingly.
So he was still in simp mode n couldn't ignore her n was allowing her access to be able 2 disrespect him? Man tf up, no contact n stand on business. All this emotional trash from op like stfu.
u can understand why tho, right? People react to situations differently, many others in the world would most likely react the same way 🤷 An evil world we live in but it’s true
What is this with men crying in these stories? They must have been written by women. I haven't cried since I was a little child other than from allergies. There are tons of other ways a man can release his pain and frustration.
Stories. But if something is true I have a doubt. Is that the way they treat an "expected to cry" husband? Astonished depressed enraged ok. But crying and begging is no man thing and not very efficient in interacting with women.
Gota be idiot of the century left her husband with nothing and didn’t talk to the other guy if he wanted her to move in like how dumb is she and how the hell she fool him for two years being so dumb lmao
Love is fleeting for a lot of people. Never attach yourself so deeply to a person that it’ll shatter you if they end up betraying or losing interest in you; life is impermanent after all. Just enjoy what you can, but learn to let things go.
Exactly! I understand it's good to love, but too much of everything isn't good! So don't over love the person, that's why he was so overwhelmed by the situation earlier.
Why would op soon to be ex wife think op would set himself up for her to cheat again and destroy any amount of self respect he has build up after his wife left
Because of his past behaviour (he would always apologised but she never did) and the way he reacted to her announcing she was leaving him, she fully believed he was weak and would be grateful to have her back. Fortunately her fallback plan ended up falling on her.
@@dinkyd1533it’s kinda funny that if she had stayed when he begged, she would have a place to stay. But she abandoned him because she didn’t want him or need him. Then the next day she needs him and wants him to take her back.
because he was a simp through out the marriage that's why
Women think that we men are stupid human beings.
What a fool, he should have thrown a party and celebrated.
I would say to the wife "Boohoo. Cry me a river. This is completely on you. Go away and stay awsy".
Why do people that cheat always want to hug you after it's out in the open? Really? In this moment your still choosing to make yourself feel better. Do you ever think of any one else?
I never understood cheaters whose sole reason for staying in a marriage is stability/a safe option, but then turn around and drop into something so uncertain without even the bare minimum background checking
She's a failed Cake Eater.
That's what it is: stability. Happened to me. Instead of coming clean and saying she loved someone else, she hid it. She wanted that thrilling rush of the new relationship (rather than approaching me and saying "hey, let's work on us. I need "). She wanted the income stability. She wanted all the perks of being married to me (i.e., the nice house, the good income). But there is some justice in this world. She lost her job shortly after leaving and he lost his a few years later. They are still together. The working theory is that they are going to "PROVE" that what they did was right. I hope they make each other miserable in the attempt. Nearly 20 years after, I still, occasionally, feel rage at her for betraying me. But, she got what she wanted, and in her mind, that made it all okay. I have rebuilt myself from the ashes of her betrayal. I'm married to a wonderful woman and have two awesome kids who are a blessing I can't begin to express how thankful I am for. They say the best revenge is living a wonderful life. I got it all, and all she has is him.
It’s precisely because “stability” isn’t exciting. The newness and uncertainty of an affair gives a thrill that they were intentionally avoiding in their marriage choice.
And they get caught up in the excitement and thrill, which becomes a form of drug that clouds their thinking. Leading them to make stupid choices like this.
Aint it like this nowadays? They leave thinking they can do better until reality hits and now they wanna backtrack
Agreed. Hypergamy
Women have always been like this, it’s in their DNA. That’s why you pump and dump or rent.
How dumb why would he give you another chance wasn't she the one that said she was in a loveless marriage well now she can go find her love
She was in a “loveless” marriage because she didn’t love her husband and she didn’t even try to acknowledge what he was doing to love her.
A woman will not tell u anything untill they are certain. You are the safety net. They only let go when they are sure that they can leave without any backlash.
She was pulling a whole gas truck on him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never give a manipulator gas lighting cheater a second chance. Don't do the pick-me dance. You are the second choice, her / his second option.
Love is fleeting for a lot of people. Never attach yourself so deeply to a person that it’ll shatter you if they end up betraying or losing interest in you; life is impermanent after all. Just enjoy what you can, but learn to let things go.
Love is not a passive verb. You don't "fall" into or out of love. Falling is passive.
Love is an action verb. It requires effort. Do loving things for your partner. Express your love with words and actions.
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall but still insist that the WALL didn't exist! 😂
Hump her dump her ..
Acting like this at almost 50, lmao
Monkey-brancher falls off a higher branch, and gravity asserts reality. Doofus dust-mop earns the hate.
"He's a single guy, but still solid"???? The fuck does that mean??
Why do cheaters always blame the victim in their life doesn't go well? Like Amy cheated on Op And when her affair partner left her and OP said no you can't come back she blames him. I don't understand it!
she probably was blaming him for not taking her back and essentially leaving her homeless... which is an Insane amount of guilt-tripping over what was essentially her stupid decisions💀
All I can say it OP is a great father.
"I'll make it up to you!" How? How do you unbreak the plate that was thrown against the wall? How to you uncrumple the piece of paper that was thrown in the trash? How do you repair those spiritually crafted bonds that YOU shredded? You can't. It's not possible. Not humanly possible.
She did it herself..
Matt is a Chad....and Chad did what Chad's always do
😂😂 was she for real a young man with no kids and never been married she thinks that he will go for her and at the age that she is now is just one big joke the man wants to have kids and she can't safety have any if she still can he wants a young woman not an old one 😂😂
The best move my boy 👏👏👏👏👏
I stopped this wimp immediately
What goes around, comes around 😌
Tells you exactly who she really is
The wife throwed away her happy life and marriage for a cheap thrill. What she did is a definite situation of play stupid games win stupid prizes.
the fact she wants something back that she threw away is funny...asinine but funny 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾
She’s delusional.
🤣🤣🤣
BACKFIRE!!!
No man should ever beg or cry for a woman 😅
It's okay to love your woman, but never be *in* love with her. Otherwise this will happen. OP even recognizes that he loved her more than she loved him, and he was always the stereotypical husband who apologized for everything, even when she was at fault.
Women treat you better when they know you won't put up with their disrespect and you don't *need* to be with them. That's difference between loving and being in love.
You would think at 50 years old people would know better.
The fool begs a cheating wife not to leave. What a spineless wimp. Pathetic story.
Soo hung up on the being of the story buddy that feeling didn't last as it usually does short period of begging and pleading the wayward spouse then those feeling fade
@@pokemonwhiteIlove If the story starts out abysmally awful, don't aspect people to put up with your garbage and continue.
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cute panda cub ❤❤😊😊
why don't u block her after all she does is blame him for her affair and insults him? what an idiot
Light your path forward from the light of the bridges SHE set ablaze behind you. It would be one thing if she came to you and said.. look I dont love you any more this isnt working for me and want out. You could have handled it in a civilized manner, yeah it would still hurt but you cant force some one to love you. But the utter disrespect she showed by cheatting and then planing her exit shows her utter disrespect for you and your kids. You owe her nothing. !!!
...ap was 4ish when she got married...
When Justice and Karma come together as a team the music they make is simply legendary. Opie's ex-wife literally nuked her entire existence from orbit. Oh my god, LOL! Hilarious Karma and justice
I can't keep reading. Normally I give the guy the benefit of doubt when cheated on, but this guys powers of reasoning are severely lacking...when he started questioning himself for being 50 and her going after a young model and not reasoning that road runs in both directions, I had to stop reading. It's no wonder some guys get cheated on...this dude is f'ing clueless. At least he had the smarts to move on after she left him...surprisingly.
I’m judging,I’m judging hard.
All that crying and nice guy stuff doesn’t help a
Thing
People are allowed to have emotions bro
No one ever said to "not have emotions" but don't fully emote if it can harm U or lead to a bad decision@@halfwolf66
Never put a woman on a pedestal. Get a spine and move on.
Exactly! When you put a woman on a pedestal she will always look down on you
@@jakepreston2885 was gonna say this, but glad to see others think so too. Treat them like an equal, not as a goddess or whatever
10:18 You don't know why...(lol)- it's how she perceives you. LegendZimpe
This is a cool channel...I'm subscribing...
Dont beg.. ever…. But I do understand.
Hit the Gym
So he was still in simp mode n couldn't ignore her n was allowing her access to be able 2 disrespect him? Man tf up, no contact n stand on business. All this emotional trash from op like stfu.
u can understand why tho, right? People react to situations differently, many others in the world would most likely react the same way 🤷
An evil world we live in but it’s true
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i just can't stand these simp stories. phuck that, i'm out. for da algo!!
What is this with men crying in these stories? They must have been written by women. I haven't cried since I was a little child other than from allergies. There are tons of other ways a man can release his pain and frustration.
So have you ever been cheated on? Why aren't men allowed to cry? You're perpetuating an idea thay has killed so many men.
I cried when my son died. Is that legitimate reason?
@@johnthompson457 ideas like this infuriate me. Crying is a natural emotion everyone should express.
@@nickhutcheson8580 agreed. And the dude has the audacity to say that crying from their allergies is ok.
@johnthompson457 lol right? I didn't know allergies could make a man cry haha
Stories. But if something is true I have a doubt. Is that the way they treat an "expected to cry" husband? Astonished depressed enraged ok. But crying and begging is no man thing and not very efficient in interacting with women.
Interesting story. Delusional older women are quite humorous. Took the husband a bit to get himself together, but that is understandable.
dummy
If your first instinct is to try to keep a cheater spouse and not hunt the AP down, you're a different man than I am.
This seems to be the average woman playbook.
Gota be idiot of the century left her husband with nothing and didn’t talk to the other guy if he wanted her to move in like how dumb is she and how the hell she fool him for two years being so dumb lmao
alta storia insignificante e tragicomica,dal finale scontato,,,,,, divorzio
Love is fleeting for a lot of people. Never attach yourself so deeply to a person that it’ll shatter you if they end up betraying or losing interest in you; life is impermanent after all. Just enjoy what you can, but learn to let things go.
This guy is a straight up simp.
Exactly! I understand it's good to love, but too much of everything isn't good! So don't over love the person, that's why he was so overwhelmed by the situation earlier.