You knew they were gonna go zij her, why didn’t you just go get her that day that you told her to hide? You two could’ve gotten married but you chose to keep waiting even though you knew how your brother would be or what he would do to win you. And since she had your kid, why didn’t you two just fight to be together? I hate how passive Hmong people are. Sometimes it is the cultural practices that are oppressive but sometimes you just gotta stop being passive and do something for yourself. In this case, you didn’t really have anything to stop you except your lack of effort. You snooze you lose. It’s unfortunate that she got caught up in you being so passive
tus mi txiv tsev.peb mob siab heev li os. thov neb ob niam txiv pab hlub 2 koj tus tub thiab.koj tus tub nws niam os nawb.can yuav nkim tag nws ib tiam kiag os.tu siab kawg li
This is a sad story. People should learn to see if from the perspective of when this happened. This was from a time of not ours. It is always easier said than done for some of us.
Agree!!! Back then its always saving face. They had no rights, you either listen to your elders or they don't get a fu*k about you especially in his case bc his mom is not the favorite wife. He didn't have a choice. No one knows his pain better than himself.
YEAH back then maybe harder but NOW it’s open door, the (old man) got a choice to bring his son to the states but he didn’t disclosed if he will or will not sponsor the son! If he cannot love the ex Gf, he can at least love the son!!
This guy is as bad as his step brother and his dad. He’s no hero. At the intro, he complained that his dad didn’t love him, but he did the same to his own son, knowing that no one loves his son because he is his son :(
Yim mloog yim npau taws yim Xeeb txob rau tus txiv tsev no, ua tsis taus txiv kiag. Koj hlub tsis tau tus niam los tseem hlub tsis tau tus tub thiab, what a lesser!
Ntshe neb yeej tsi yog ntawv txij nkawm thiab. Thiaj li tsi yuav es pheej tos thiab tos. Nrog tus hluas nkauj tu siab kawg. Vim ua neej tsi tau tus yus hlub mus ib sim neej
Tus niam tij ntawm zaj dab neeg pab koj tu siab tag ib sim os yug los xiam tiam lawm tiag kuv los xav ib yam li koj thiab tsis sib tau lawm ces txiav txim siab tsis tos lwm tiam lawm lub neej lwj siab tso tseg txij tiam no, txua ntaj huab txhib pleev quav qaib dub quas kom nyias mus nyias hxhob sib nrhiav lawm 💘💘💘
Koj cov nyiaj koj xa ntawv cas tsis xa rau koj tus tub os kwv tij vim nws tsis muaj txim cia li rau tsim ho xa rau yus tus yeeb ncuab xyov koj xav li cas
Wow! What a story. If you loved her, you would have fought for her. I don't understand why you didn't marry her already when you knew your brother was going to find a way to force her to marry him.
The older brother carries karma that he created by himself..... all his life and made everyone suffers with him.... sad.... but he deserved it. Hopefully he changed once passed on.... be reborn to be better person.
This story should not ending without your son. I want to know why you sounds like you didn’t care for your son? You should show your love to your son too he needs love from you.
😇Npam coj cov 👿phem👹 dua toj, dua dawm, Lawm😎👏. Es thov kom koj tus pojniam nrog koj hlub koj tus neeg (tub) uas nws xaiv tsis tau los yug es raug los nyob lub neej lwjsiab ntawv__ib zaug, no nawb.🤞🤞 Vim nej twb raug tsim txom siab ntsws txaus txaus los yuav tag nej tiag, tiag li lawm💔💔 Kuv ntseeg tau tias yog tig tau rov qab mus rau sij hawm ntawv, Koj yeej muab nws yuav kiag los lawm, es tsis mloog cia luag luam yus li txhua zaus, no nawb💔. Es ntshe hnub no nej txhua tus twb tsis muaj tug tau puas siab ntsws tsus xws hnub no nej raug lawm..🤍.
What i don't understand is, u knew your older brother was pursuing her and was setting traps to brideknap her, but u did nothing to protect her. U should have snatch her right away as soon as u knew that, but u didn't. U snoozed u loose. I feel sad for her and the innocent son. Both brothers are jerks.
I don't know why you didn't take responsibility for your son, even after knowing he lived a hard life under your brother. It's too bad you didn't just marry your then girlfriend bc you could've saved her from all this pain.
Kj yog ib tus txiv neej ua ts tau txiv. Kj twb paub meej2 tias kj tus half brother tseem mus tham nws kj tsim nyog yuav ua dabtsi lawm. Kj tseem cia nws mus yuav tau kj tus hluas nkawv thiab. Txais tau tias kj xav siv nws xwb tsi xa yuav. Tsi tas li tus menyuam twb yog kj tus kj tseem ntshai qhia teb chaws. Qhia tau tias kj yeej tsi yog ib tug txiv neej yawg. Kj tsim nyog tos kj tus tub tuaj Nyob teb chaws meka vim txhua2 yam yog neb ob leej ua rau tus niam tsev no lub neeg. Pab hlub Tus niam tsev no tag ib sim hluas nkaujub neej tsi muaj chaws vam.
That's what your brother gets for wanting your girl...pregnant with your child. But for you two not getting each other, I blame you. You knew the chances of you not getting her was high since you already saw them taking action to go zij her. Yet, you still lay low.
I don’t understand why you didn’t marry your girlfriend when you knew your brother said he was gonna go force her to marry him?????? And why didn’t you go get her when your brother brought her home????? You must not love her!!! You didn’t care about your son either. You were not man enough to stand up for yourself.
Txoj hmoo nyob ntawm koj tabsis koj qeeb thiab ruam koj thiaj plam nws. koj twb paub los koj tseem tias tos tso. koj niag tij laus yeej txhob txwm ua kom neb tsis txhob sib tau xwb. Kheev lam tij laug tuag peb tagkis ces twb tsis raug tsim los ntev npaum no li os. pab tu siab kawg.
It is very good story conversation, but the descriptions look like a song title. Why? Because when I saw Sij Hawm Hlub Koj Dua Tsis Muaj Lawm, I think that it is very good song so I click it and listen it's not. However, it is so beautiful interesting story Mrs. Niam Ntsuab Teev.
What a tragic love story 💔 😢 Tus txiv tsev you waited too long should've had married her. I don't feel sorry for your step brother he's evil. I hope you both can move on in this lifetime.
Koj los npwb txaus koj. Koj tij laug los lim hiam txaus koj tij laug. Yog zam tau cia zam mus yog zam tsis tau ces kav tsij ua yeeb ncuab kom txog hnub tuag.
Mloog zaj neej neeg no tus txiv tsev no tsis yog tus neeg hlub tiag os yog nws yog neeg zoo thiab nws twb paub tus siab mob siab npaum li nws hais nws twb tsi tau ib tee ntshav rau tus poj niam no txawm hais tias nws tsis hlub tus niam los tseem tshuav nws teev ntshav nws yuav tsum hlub thiaj li tsim nyog qhov nws tau tsim muaj os
My heart hurts for this couple. The way the Hmong ways are...so many broken up love stories. Broken relationships. Broken hearts. Broken spirits their whole lives without those they truly loved and then they just die. Mob siab ua luaj.
Zoo li niag txiv aub no tseem hlub nws niag tij laug dev tshaj nws tus tub lawm thiab. Tseem ntshai2 tsam tus tub paub thiab nws mas thiaj tsim nyog swb nws tij laug dev
This story makes me MAD!! The old man got no love for his ex girlfriend but at least show some love for his lost son!!! Something is WRONG with this family!! BAD BAD men genes, no sympathy for women’s feelings!! I would HATE to marry into this family. What the ex girlfriend said ….I AGREED 100%!!!!!!
The brother and the father are a real piece of work. Hmoob people are so lack of common sense and decency. Uneducated has a little bit to do with it but our behavior are natural born n we are one of the minority group that doesn't like to follow any others from their example that's why where ever we live, we always behind other groups of everything. Still, keep our hope high, change takes century to achieve. No one but only ourself can fix our behavior for the better by admitting it
Eb N ntsuab teev xav kom tej zaj neej tu siab kho siab li no. Koj tso tso tej nyuag music los yog suab ncas phim rau lub sij hawm koj tab tom tham thiab ma yuam ua tsaug
It's sad, but if you know that son is yours, you should help him. He must have suffered so much because of your mistakes. You knew they were going to steal her for marriage, but you just waited. You are not a man, but a coward. Hopefully you'll make up to your ex and son by loving them.
Niam ntsuab teev aw kuv ntxub cov neej neeg no os kuv mob siab dhau os😍
Tu siab ua luaj
You knew they were gonna go zij her, why didn’t you just go get her that day that you told her to hide? You two could’ve gotten married but you chose to keep waiting even though you knew how your brother would be or what he would do to win you. And since she had your kid, why didn’t you two just fight to be together? I hate how passive Hmong people are.
Sometimes it is the cultural practices that are oppressive but sometimes you just gotta stop being passive and do something for yourself. In this case, you didn’t really have anything to stop you except your lack of effort. You snooze you lose. It’s unfortunate that she got caught up in you being so passive
No one to blame but blame yourself Mr. Loser!
Hmong man like that r sorry ass. Its sad that they have to wait. Hmong story sorry tshaj li.
Thaum no mas ruam tiag tiag. Exactly what you just said. He knew yet he didn't do shit. Pathetic!!
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Remember that he was a teenager. Teenagers don't make the best decisions..they don't even make good decisions 😂
koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus tub thiab os. Phem zoo los nws yog koj roj koj ntsha.
Zaj neej neeg no yuav tsum tis npe tias vim kuv qeeb siab wb thiaj plam
No yuav tsum tis lub npe tias "Vim kuv ruam kuv tub thiaj raug luag yuam"
tus mi txiv tsev.peb mob siab heev li os. thov neb ob niam txiv pab hlub 2 koj tus tub thiab.koj tus tub nws niam os nawb.can yuav nkim tag nws ib tiam kiag os.tu siab kawg li
Those of you saying he is dumb, remember that this was way back then. It wasn't in America where there are laws! So dam disrespectful.
This is a sad story. People should learn to see if from the perspective of when this happened. This was from a time of not ours. It is always easier said than done for some of us.
Agreed 💯 some people just talk without thinking or putting themselves in that situation.
Agree!!! Back then its always saving face. They had no rights, you either listen to your elders or they don't get a fu*k about you especially in his case bc his mom is not the favorite wife. He didn't have a choice. No one knows his pain better than himself.
YEAH back then maybe harder but NOW it’s open door, the (old man) got a choice to bring his son to the states but he didn’t disclosed if he will or will not sponsor the son! If he cannot love the ex Gf, he can at least love the son!!
Like mother like son, nyiam txeeb luag tug
I feel bad for this gal, her while life is ruined forever.
Koj Txiv thiab koj Niag tij laug dev siab phem tsis tsim nyob hlub . Koj tseem mus hlub. Cais yog tsim koj tsis txaus . Txhob muab thuam ua rau peb pab koj npau taws. Tiag sis koj twb ho zoo2 siab cais nyem qhuav ntxim xwb .
I feel so bad for this lady, her whole life, miserable and unloved.
Hais tau tu siab kawg li
Ib txoj kev hlub g tau sib tso li e cia li g sib tau ce ntshe leej twg lo yeej nco yeej mob siab
😭😭😭😭cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os me tub aw
Tu tu siab li o
Zaj neej neeg no cag yuav tus siab ua luaj lis o
Niam ntsuab teev aw lawv neej neeg muab rau kj hai tu siab kawg nrog lawv tu siab mob siab los kua muag kawg li os
This guy is as bad as his step brother and his dad. He’s no hero. At the intro, he complained that his dad didn’t love him, but he did the same to his own son, knowing that no one loves his son because he is his son :(
I agree piss me off
Hlub koj tus tub mog
Tus txiv dev ntawv npam es thiaj tuag mos..hos koj nav g muaj lub siab hlub koj tus tub thiab na koj g tsim nyog ua nws txiv thiab o tus txiv tsev
Kav tsij xa nyiaj mus hlub koj tus tub.
Thaub pab koj txaj muag dhau...tseem coj tuaj piav rau peb mloog thiab
vim koj lub siab qeeb xwb koj thiaj plam tus koj hlub ua ib siab os mog tej zaum neb hmoov tsis sawm os
Nrog nkawv tu siab vim nkawv sib sib hlub los tsis sib tau.
😴 😴😴😴😴
I feel so bad for her and her son. You need to reach out to your son too and love him. He is your son but seem like you don’t want him either. :(
Koj ua siab deb dhau lawm os txhob tu siab
Yim mloog yim npau taws yim Xeeb txob rau tus txiv tsev no, ua tsis taus txiv kiag. Koj hlub tsis tau tus niam los tseem hlub tsis tau tus tub thiab, what a lesser!
This guy doesn't even trying to help his son.
Kj zaj neej neeg zoo hv li os ua rau kv lo lo kuas muag li lm os
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Ntshe neb yeej tsi yog ntawv txij nkawm thiab. Thiaj li tsi yuav es pheej tos thiab tos. Nrog tus hluas nkauj tu siab kawg. Vim ua neej tsi tau tus yus hlub mus ib sim neej
Brother if I was you you got get her on that day that you went tell her.
He is not a man left his girl and never care for his poor son
Tij laug siabbphem niam yau Los siab phem.pab hluas nkauj tu siab
What a beautifully, sad love story. I wish we could see who they are behind this story.
Tus niam tij ntawm zaj dab neeg pab koj tu siab tag ib sim os yug los xiam tiam lawm tiag kuv los xav ib yam li koj thiab tsis sib tau lawm ces txiav txim siab tsis tos lwm tiam lawm lub neej lwj siab tso tseg txij tiam no, txua ntaj huab txhib pleev quav qaib dub quas kom nyias mus nyias hxhob sib nrhiav lawm 💘💘💘
This author does not have any back bone, he let his half brother gets everything he has.
Tus siab kawg
Koj cov nyiaj koj xa ntawv cas tsis xa rau koj tus tub os kwv tij vim nws tsis muaj txim cia li rau tsim ho xa rau yus tus yeeb ncuab xyov koj xav li cas
Koj Ruam dhau lawm twb paub tias Lawv Twb zov2 tsis tawm tseem Yuav tos noj peb 30 Hnub xiab 3 ces yeej Yog koj Yeej tshwj CIA Rau koj Niag tij Laug xwb os, Cas Kuv mas chim Rau koj xwb os 🙏🙏🙏
Wow! What a story. If you loved her, you would have fought for her. I don't understand why you didn't marry her already when you knew your brother was going to find a way to force her to marry him.
Rr
The older brother carries karma that he created by himself..... all his life and made everyone suffers with him.... sad.... but he deserved it. Hopefully he changed once passed on.... be reborn to be better person.
This story should not ending without your son. I want to know why you sounds like you didn’t care for your son? You should show your love to your son too he needs love from you.
😪😪😪😪😪😭😭😭😭
Koj tij laug ntxim nyog tuag lawm tabsi koj yuav tau hlub koj tus tub nawb
Cas yuav pab tu siab ua luaj li na
Tu txiv siab phem dhau e npam nw thiaj tuag lawm o
😇Npam coj cov 👿phem👹 dua toj, dua dawm, Lawm😎👏. Es thov kom koj tus pojniam nrog koj hlub koj tus neeg (tub) uas nws xaiv tsis tau los yug es raug los nyob lub neej lwjsiab ntawv__ib zaug, no nawb.🤞🤞
Vim nej twb raug tsim txom siab ntsws txaus txaus los yuav tag nej tiag, tiag li lawm💔💔
Kuv ntseeg tau tias yog tig tau rov qab mus rau sij hawm ntawv, Koj yeej muab nws yuav kiag los lawm, es tsis mloog cia luag luam yus li txhua zaus, no nawb💔.
Es ntshe hnub no nej txhua tus twb tsis muaj tug tau puas siab ntsws tsus xws hnub no nej raug lawm..🤍.
Poj laid Tham kwv hajtseem musdeev tij thiab thiaj zoo lino ntag
Yuav tau tij Los Haj tseem khuvximkwvthiab ne
He should have married her first :-(
What i don't understand is, u knew your older brother was pursuing her and was setting traps to brideknap her, but u did nothing to protect her. U should have snatch her right away as soon as u knew that, but u didn't. U snoozed u loose. I feel sad for her and the innocent son. Both brothers are jerks.
Tus Txiv Ntxawm kuv xav Kom koj hlub hlub koj teev Ntshav xwb os
I don't know why you didn't take responsibility for your son, even after knowing he lived a hard life under your brother. It's too bad you didn't just marry your then girlfriend bc you could've saved her from all this pain.
If it was me, I forgot the older brother and not fund the dad’s funeral. He is one cruel human beings.
Kj yog ib tus txiv neej ua ts tau txiv. Kj twb paub meej2 tias kj tus half brother tseem mus tham nws kj tsim nyog yuav ua dabtsi lawm. Kj tseem cia nws mus yuav tau kj tus hluas nkawv thiab. Txais tau tias kj xav siv nws xwb tsi xa yuav. Tsi tas li tus menyuam twb yog kj tus kj tseem ntshai qhia teb chaws. Qhia tau tias kj yeej tsi yog ib tug txiv neej yawg. Kj tsim nyog tos kj tus tub tuaj Nyob teb chaws meka vim txhua2 yam yog neb ob leej ua rau tus niam tsev no lub neeg. Pab hlub Tus niam tsev no tag ib sim hluas nkaujub neej tsi muaj chaws vam.
That's what your brother gets for wanting your girl...pregnant with your child. But for you two not getting each other, I blame you. You knew the chances of you not getting her was high since you already saw them taking action to go zij her. Yet, you still lay low.
Zoo mloog heev. Ua tsaug ntau.
I don’t understand why you didn’t marry your girlfriend when you knew your brother said he was gonna go force her to marry him?????? And why didn’t you go get her when your brother brought her home????? You must not love her!!! You didn’t care about your son either. You were not man enough to stand up for yourself.
He got no balls to man up!!!
Tus tijlaug mas limhiam tshaj plaws.
It’s the two brother Fault not the girl
Hmoob Story koj tus tij laug phem txaus tos nws txeeb koj tus hluas nkauj!
Txoj hmoo nyob ntawm koj tabsis koj qeeb thiab ruam koj thiaj plam nws. koj twb paub los koj tseem tias tos tso. koj niag tij laus yeej txhob txwm ua kom neb tsis txhob sib tau xwb. Kheev lam tij laug tuag peb tagkis ces twb tsis raug tsim los ntev npaum no li os. pab tu siab kawg.
You have to fight what is right. Stand up and be a man!
How sad!!
Omg!!!! Cas kuv yuav dhuav cov neej
Neeg 75 no ua luaj
Kv twb mloog g tau li os niam laus aw
It is very good story conversation, but the descriptions look like a song title. Why? Because when I saw Sij Hawm Hlub Koj Dua Tsis Muaj Lawm, I think that it is very good song so I click it and listen it's not. However, it is so beautiful interesting story Mrs. Niam Ntsuab Teev.
Tim koj xwb twg ntiav koj hom mus yuav tij laug hwv .tsawg sawm tsawg sawm no xwb
Npam lawd neb ob niam txiv cais sib Phim kawg Tham ob Leeg ais yuav ib tug thaum kawg
Tiab su lauj
What a tragic love story 💔 😢 Tus txiv tsev you waited too long should've had married her. I don't feel sorry for your step brother he's evil. I hope you both can move on in this lifetime.
ruam tshaj ruam kj na twb paub lawv yuav yuav yu g mu coj ua ntej na xav muab kj ncaws
I dont hear anything about him supporting his son. Didnt even give any money to his son. Lol
Right. I don't think he even care about his son bc he got his own kids now.
Tus tij laug thov koj pab hlub koj tus tub txhawb nws lub neej kom tsim tias koj yog nws txiv ib zaug nws yug los yeej tsis tau kev hlub los ntawm leej txiv .nws twb tu siab txog ntua hnub paub tias koj yog nws txiv nws yeej zoo siab twj ywm qhia tsis rau leej twg li os
cas tsis tuaj kom ntxov me ntsi es yus ho dim plaws txoj niag kev lwj siab no thaum ntxov thiab lau
Mus yuav los ua niam yau los mas
Nej tseem xa nyiaj mus pub rau niag dev laug ntawv thiab?!! Yog kuv mas, kuv twb tsis xa ib npib liab pub rau lawv kiag!!!
Hi nyob zoo o
Zoo tshaj plaws... ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag. Cas tsis ntxov tuag lau. Tsim nyog tuag ntev lawm. Thov mus saib thiab mus hlub tus tub
The life of many wives is horrible. Many sad lives ruin due to this disgusting practice. Poor lady and her son suffered a lifetime.
This is your son, your blood you should love him regardless. If you know your evil brother doesn't love him.
Koj tsis tshuav lawv nqis lawm nas cas koj tseem xas nyiaj mu pam nws thiab yog yuav hlub ces hlib txij koj tu tub xwb os
So sad!!!
Koj los npwb txaus koj. Koj tij laug los lim hiam txaus koj tij laug. Yog zam tau cia zam mus yog zam tsis tau ces kav tsij ua yeeb ncuab kom txog hnub tuag.
Mloog zaj neej neeg no tus txiv tsev no tsis yog tus neeg hlub tiag os yog nws yog neeg zoo thiab nws twb paub tus siab mob siab npaum li nws hais nws twb tsi tau ib tee ntshav rau tus poj niam no txawm hais tias nws tsis hlub tus niam los tseem tshuav nws teev ntshav nws yuav tsum hlub thiaj li tsim nyog qhov nws tau tsim muaj os
Tsov tom ntsij muag no yog kuv ma mog ua kawg ntawv kuv xua ncaw taw kom ua nwg pob tsaig zij log lo twb tsi qhuav kuv siab
Well you test drive that camry first 😂
Listen to this story make me mad. Why in the world like he seem to not helping his son at all. Make me more mad to him.
Tos luag saib tsis taus koj los koj yeej ua tau tsis tsimnyog rau luag fwm.
Kev npam caum tau, zoo kawg.
My heart hurts for this couple. The way the Hmong ways are...so many broken up love stories. Broken relationships. Broken hearts. Broken spirits their whole lives without those they truly loved and then they just die. Mob siab ua luaj.
Cas koj hos tsis hlub koj tus tub thiab txawb nus lub neej kom zoo
Zoo li koj twb g xav lee koj tus tub li
Zoo li niag txiv aub no tseem hlub nws niag tij laug dev tshaj nws tus tub lawm thiab. Tseem ntshai2 tsam tus tub paub thiab nws mas thiaj tsim nyog swb nws tij laug dev
Such a sad ending..
This story makes me MAD!! The old man got no love for his ex girlfriend but at least show some love for his lost son!!! Something is WRONG with this family!! BAD BAD men genes, no sympathy for women’s feelings!! I would HATE to marry into this family. What the ex girlfriend said ….I AGREED 100%!!!!!!
The brother and the father are a real piece of work. Hmoob people are so lack of common sense and decency. Uneducated has a little bit to do with it but our behavior are natural born n we are one of the minority group that doesn't like to follow any others from their example that's why where ever we live, we always behind other groups of everything. Still, keep our hope high, change takes century to achieve. No one but only ourself can fix our behavior for the better by admitting it
so sad
Eb N ntsuab teev xav kom tej zaj neej tu siab kho siab li no. Koj tso tso tej nyuag music los yog suab ncas phim rau lub sij hawm koj tab tom tham thiab ma yuam ua tsaug
It's sad, but if you know that son is yours, you should help him. He must have suffered so much because of your mistakes. You knew they were going to steal her for marriage, but you just waited. You are not a man, but a coward. Hopefully you'll make up to your ex and son by loving them.
Siab phem dhau es npam xwb. I have no remorse for your step brother. He deserved what he got.
Yep! Step brother got his karma.