Current situation. They blame it all on themselves when it's really only me creating the issues for us. He doesn't realize what he says, I'm not stupid. He's just blind and doesn't realize that he wants to leave. But it'll happen sooner or later.
To write a song about not loving someone in such a sad melody, to let the other party down in a soothing way, to ease the pain in the most delicate way.
fAshSon I think it's best done in a mean way because then at least you can have a reason to dislike the person and get over them. If you get let down easy there's no closure it just feels like you weren't good enough even though everything was perfect.
*Here is GOOD NEWS:* Jesus Christ died on a cross to save people from their sin according to the bible(God's word). Then Jesus rose from the dead, 3 days later, thus defeating death. Anyone who believes this will not perish but will have everlasting life.
WOW! there are a lot of break up songs but almost all of them are the abandoned person's point of view but this song describes the "bad guy"s feelings. That's why it's unique.
As someone who experienced both perspectives I say it's equal, if not the person who is leaving gets the heavier weight. Getting left unexpectedly is temporary but a sharp pain. But being the one to leave, you built up the relationship with the person only to leave and having a constant thought at the back of your head that your relationship even as friends could never be the same. It haunts you for way much longer. It still does to me till this day.
@@Katz1123 But being the one that get dumped can change you forever.. I'll never trust anyone the same way with my feelings. It's putting yourself into a relationship and then the other person just fall out of love. Then you fall out of love with yourself too. And it takes years to heal, to build yourself again, years and years. But it will always depend on the sensitivity of a person. Every scenario is different, every feeling is different. It is not really comparable, and I think what I just wrote earlier on is what I needed to get off my chest. Sorry. But I'm posting it anyway
it left me for weeks wondering if I did better n stuff , i couldnt sleep either . it’s a pain that hasn’t left me and i don’t think it will for a long time either. it just really haunts you , and mine came without any warning , and that left me with “did he ever love me” n stuff lmao it’s intense :(
-. Katz .- I would have to disagree and say the one getting dumped hurts more. If you fall out of love with someone, its painful and ending things are difficult but eventually you’ll move on quicker because your feelings have already. Meanwhile, if you still love that person, then it’ll be harder for you to deal with especially since you’ve probably noticed signs already. Watching someone fall out of love with you and but staying until they break it off because you love them is truly difficult.
what people don't realize is that its hard to reject someone to. You don't want him/her to be sad but you can't really give them what they want because you just can't dictate to your heart whom to love. "This is what I really feel. I don't love you" sums it up
“I don’t even want to say sorry or ask for forgiveness.” This, on the contrary, isn’t cruel. Falling out of love with someone isn’t a crime. It doesn’t make you a bad person. Yes, it’s painful and unbearable, but what can you do? Stay with someone out of obligation and condemn both of you to misery? Being honest, even if it’s brutally honest, is always the best option. If you lie, you’re only going to prolong the pain. And also hold that person back from finding someone who will truly love them. That’s just it.
Thank you. I really needed to read this. I'm falling out of love with my girlfriend and I feel that I am a horrible person, and it hurts me so much because I don't want to hurt her but at the same time I don't want to stay with her...
@Inês Constante You’re not a horrible person. It happens sometimes but that doesn’t mean that the person that isn’t in love with the other is bad. I don’t know you but I don’t think it is bad to not love someone else anymore. If you haven’t told her, then you should tell her as soon as possible (if you are really sure that you don’t want to be with her anymore). If you have already then I hope you both are okay and don’t have anything against each other. I haven’t been in a relationship but I know it’s bad if people end in bad terms. It hurts both people so if I ever do have a boyfriend and I don’t love them anymore, I’ll try to end it on good terms so none of us hate the other. I don’t know if what I am saying make sense. I’m just typing as I think. Anyway you should just be honest to yourself and if you are sure that you don’t love them anymore, you should end it before they get their hopes high.
The fact that they captured the message of "I don't love you, and there's no reason". Sometimes even if an answer or an explanation is demanded, it's nice to hear that it's okay to not have one.
I've been in a painful situation recently. The person I liked confessed to me. I saw this coming for a while and I would've confessed to him first if I wanted to. But I held back for such a long time because college applications are coming up, and I don't want to juggle a relationship. I've worked too hard the past years to be distracted now. I took a night to think about it before I rejected him, and believe me when I say that night was torture. The next day, I gave him a very simple answer because if I said more I would've fell apart. It took everything to not cry when I saw his face. I wanted to hug him like he's a scared little child, but I thought about what I worked for these past years, and when he questioned why I'm going against both of our feelings, I answered in a more serious tone because I know that he has been working just as hard. It's been a week now. I thought rejecting him will free me from emotional burden, but it only dragged me down. I don't know where to go to for release, but this song gave quite a similar message I've trying to give myself. I don't love him.
I can slowly feel my boyfriend of one year falling out of love with me. I can already feel it, but I don’t think he’s realized yet. The fear of loosing him is making me so irrational but I’m even more scared that these feelings are going to push him away faster. All I can really do right now is quietly watch him distance himself from me and slowly prepare myself for his disappearance. Because of this song, I’m sure it’s gonna feel like deja vu when he breaks up with me.
I've never been in your position and have no right to say this, but I think you should fight for your love for him. I don't think you should give up just yet. But if you still feel him falling out, I think you should talk it over with him. Then you should decide if you should still continue your relationship. From my experience, I don't fear of losing people close to me because I believe if they are truly worthy, they will stay in my life. If not, then I will find better people that I can share happiness with. In the end, you do what you think is right and what will make you happy. Best of luck.
I was trying to turn up the volume but instead turned up the brightness, it was late at night so the blinding screen sent me into a screaming fit and this song played as I slowly collapsed to the ground.
This is the exact approach that I was thinking this song's perspective was coming from. Kinda like, moving on and trying, but also asking oneself the statement and question of, "I don't love you". It can be perceived from both ways, but either way, I'm crying T-T
Grace Natalia true..i really need to hear this,its been 1month i didnt cntect her,but i still keep remember her,and i wish with this song i could forgive and forget her,even i know im the only one hurt..and she not ..
It hurts to fall out too. It hurt to break another soul just because you can't give them what they want. You want them happy but you can't reciprocate the feelings they want to give to you. Telling someone you don't love him or her anymore is difficult especially when you made them felt like you do. It's very hard and it hurts too.
Exactly what I experienced, I want the best for her, but what she wanted was me. It hurts a lot seeing the person you once loved almost beg for you to stay.
I always thought the concept of listening to a sad song when you feel sad is weird, because why would you want to surround yourself with even more sadness in a time of melancholy? After listening to this song, I think it might be because, in a time of heartbreak, we want something to accompany us in our pain.
It's the catharsis. Sometimes you just need that push from an external source to fully embrace and let out all the sadness inside you, until you're empty and exhausted. Once that's done, you're more ready to pick up the pieces and move on.
I prefer the person I love to tell me directly like this in a soft way, instead of giving me false hope and crush it like it was nothing... It hurts more than knowing the truth from the start.
True. I'm in this situation right now. I cry all the time and don't know what to do. When I ask him if he likes me or not, he didn't reply to my text until now. I HATE HIM!!!!
Have u ever been in a situation where you have to unlove him because he is happier with someone else and u just had to give up all the feelings that built up in u ?
i think it hits the worst when you both loved each other but cant be together, and the feelings died for each other. not even a confession happen, just a love story that never began
I'm slowly losing feelings from him.. He's such an innocent kindhearted guy I'm sure every girl would love him ..i just don't know what's happening to me I feel horrible I can't break his heart but I can't stand being fake either ..i've always hated ppl who leave the ones they once said they loved and wondered why would they do that but now I'm on the edge to be one of them I can't describe how much I hate myself for this ..
Finally a song with a different prospective. All the breakup songs that I’ve heard are all about the person being rejected and suffering because of it. But we never heard the other point of view. It’s beautiful and intense, deep and relatable. A masterpiece 💪🏻
This is three yrs ago, but coz i arrived here from a cover by a member of the group I listen to, I want to say a song from them that also shares a story of breaking up with the other because"love is not enough, i am me and you are you" in hopes of having a good closure. The song is new and the title is "LEAVE".
It hurts when you know that the other person is slowly starting to not love you and you can’t do anything about it so you just sit and wait for the end of your relationship and pretend that you know nothing because a small part of you don’t want to believe what is happening..
Honestly from looking at the title I thought it was about denying your feelings for someone who clearly doesn't love you so you say "I don't love you" as a lie. But now reading the lyrics, It seems like you want to reject them not too nicely and not too rudely. All you can say is I don't love you and there's no reason other than simply not falling in love with them just like they did with you. Although the way they sang this song sounds like they're(the singers) the ones getting their heartbroken, it feels like they sang it this way because not only is it unfortunate for the confesser but it's also unfortunate for the one getting confessed to. There are big chances that this relationship as friends would be broken forever. Although their hearts don't ache anymore for the person getting rejected, they also can't help but feel that it's unfortunate to lose their friendship. They can't even say sorry because even if they did it wouldn't change the way they feel over the other party and it makes me think that they don't want to make the person think that their feelings gave them a burden. To me The way they forwardly say "I don't love you" so many times hurts my heart but in a way it makes me close these feelings and makes me able to move on.
OnePieceIsDaAwesome Sorry always is the hardest word to say. In any case of rejecting confession from someone, how could they know who got more heartbroken than other. It had better fall in love w Mr/Mrs Right whenever you could have chance b/c it is an invaluable gift for you and only you.
OnePieceIsDaAwesome you couldn't have explained it more accurately. Unrequited love is painful for the rejecter too. Having experienced this situation recently it truly hurts that i lost a good friend. But more than anything it hurts that i unintentionally hurt a wonderful person that i love- just not in a romantic way..
I think the hardest thing to tell someone is that you fell out of love for them. Telling someone you love them is already hard, but saying that it doesn't exist anymore is way harder and absolutely painful to the person you'd tell it to and for yourself since hurting someone is not easy.
Some might think you’re being cruel for pushing away the person who loves you but they don’t realize is that you’re doing it because you know they deserve someone better than you and admitting it was never easy.
You know..they deserve someone better they moment u let go..once u truly love someone u should love them with no boundaries and not compare yourself with another partner. You should be the right person and try to stay that. They say a real man doesnt make his girl cry. That also count for the girl ofcourse. So keep her/him happy untill the end. A healthy relationship should have this from both sides to make it work
Cheri za You know what sucks more? That we can spend years on relationships then just one day your love comes up to you and tells you that they never loved you. That's why I don't want relationships. To just realise that they never loved you...is just heartbraking.
I feel bad because I'm the person who said "I don't love you" to my ex who loved me a lot, but I'm going to take this song as an advice, I won't say sorry anymore.
Just dont be in relationship..its hurt..its killing you..i never been into relationship after 9 years..until im ready..im ready to get married..i met this guy...i thought we are perfectly for to each other...bcs we love the same thing..but one thing i forgot..i forgot to remind myself i will get hurt again..n yes..im hurting now
When i broke up with my ex few years ago, i just send this song to him. I dont know how to explain that i dont love him anymore. We together almost 10 years. He everything for me. But one day, that feeling gone. I dont know why. I dont have another friend (man) coz for me he enough for me, i dont need anyone else. 1 year i try to love him back, but that feeling never comeback. I'm really tired struggling with my feeling. And i let him go. Now he married and i still single. Never regret, atleast he found his forever. And im happy for him
having a relationship end, it coming from the latter side, I want to take it as a person finally letting someone go. I know it isn't, but being able to say " I don't love you" to someone who broke your heart , being healed enough and letting go bitterness or sadness, the "no other reason" being the fact time passes... it's reassuring, in a way.
Same. I see it as letting go of someone who was once apart of your life. It's about finding closure within yourself, even if the other person never gave you any sort of closure.
for me this song is just about moving on, either through ending a relationship or getting over someone. time eventually lessens the pain or the emotions that you have of someone that you cared for. at some point in dating or post breakup, you realize that you don't care as much about the other person... that you just don't love them anymore. I like the simplified reason, it's exhausting when people demand the reason why they're breaking up.
I also agree its about letting go and moving on. Today I finally moved on from loving someone who would never feel the same way and this song definitely explains the feeling and just trying to move on and heal.
I don't think anyone really cares for this update, but I guess it's more for me. I didn't look for a "substitute" or replacement. I hung out with friends, I experienced so many different things. Developed fleeting crushes on amazing guys, but still wanted to be single. I still on, but today something possessed me to look at his Instagram. He gained weight LOL. Is what I want to say, but he's happy. I'm happy. We're on two different paths and I know today I don't have to look towards again. What I felt for him was real and so new and strange. But I'm proud to say I don't love him anymore." I don't love you" Any person who stumbles across this, I hope you can do the same one day
I loved him, but he didn't love me. So that we could be friends again and get rid of the awkwardness between us, I told him "I don't love you anymore". I was able to smile and get through the day just fine seeing him again but then when I got home, I found myself crying alone. As long as I keep telling myself that I don't love him anymore, I'm sure I'll come to feel that way.
I have to admit that for my heart, bcz it’s true and I don’t have to lie ab it. Eventhough, he don’t love me, I always want him to be happy all the time. And I know, oneday I can forget that feelings.
It's hard falling out of love knowing that you're inflicting such pain on somebody you once loved, you may not love them but you still care. You can't force yourself to love someone, and it's better spitting the bitter truth than to live a lie for the sake of someone else's happiness, inflicting harm against you and the person you once loved. It's not easy for any side.
this song hurts like hell, especially when you can somewhat relate to it. But for me, I have to listen to this song every time I remember him. I need this song to tell me that I need to let go and move on. I need this song to help me face and realize the reality. Yes, it’s sad. Yes, it hurts. But it’s better than holding on to something that isn’t even there anymore.
Dealing with a break-up and seeing him with another looking so happy hurts a lot. Like even before we broke up, I would literally burst into tears out of fear and panic but he just doesn't seem to care. I would literally not be okay and he wouldn't care. Unless someone obliges him to do so. I knew at that point he probably didn't love me anymore. And he really doesn't anymore.
Summer Hanne im going through this rn after 4 years of relationship and it hurts so bad, and seeing as this comment was made a year ago I hope you’re better now.
lali mendes And I’m in that situation rn after 10 years of relationship. Seeing him happy makes me hurts so bad but I can’t do anything to heal my broken soul 😭
Sarah Ann I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I’ve never felt heartbreak so I don’t know what to say but I hope that you can get through this because the pain will not be forever. Even if it feels like that will never be true.
I've been in an unrequited love for 2 years already and It seems that I can't let go of him no matter what. Listening to this song felt like he was talking to me directly and asking me to give up on him.
Exactly. I feel like when you fall in love you only see their good qualities. Loving someone means you accept them for who they are and learn to live their imperfections as well.
I've told her today "i don't love you" She cried and i left. I still remember the promised I made. To put a smile on her beautiful face, make her happy and never make her cry. I'm sorry, I broke all of that promises today. Because of this love, the disapproval of my "blood" this relationship will never work and end up hurting you even more. Good bye " i'm sorry and i love you"
Wow a lot of people share their perspective here So here i go, i personally connect to this song not because i fall out of love, but because i have to lie to her so she can get married to another man that she also love. When we were dating her parents didn't really accept our relationship because i was still a college student and her parents have arranged her to get married to their friend son and they're hoping that maybe what we have only temporary, it wasn't, she told me that she love me and so do i, i never expected that to happen, but after she got introduce to the other guy she started going out with him and i let her in hoping that it's only to make her parents happy. I know what i did is stupid and maybe you people will say that we can work it out, but in all honesty i have to let her go. She loves him, i don't know if she loved me more but i know that i have to let her go so she can be happy. Her parents already arranged her to marry him so there's really nothing i can do but to lie to her and say that i don't love her anymore. Sometimes i wish life is like a movie where we can do the impossible like go against her parents and we go live on our own but i know we can't do that, maybe lying to her that day is the right choice, at least she's happy and I'm finally fine now😊
@@ajazahmedkhan2939 i did let her go, but it was for the best and i don't feel any romantic feelings for her anymore but more of a big brother protective feeling and we still remain as friends, me and her husband are best friend now and everything is working better than i could've ever imagined I still haven't found anyone yet but there's a couple dates for me here and there, but... everything's fine for me I'm planning to stay single for a while living my life to the fullest
I'm just crying because I understand how painful it is to not love someone anymore. the song is just extremely powerful emotionally and made me actually feel strong emotions. it's something not many songs can do to me but this one did it. I love it so much ❤💓💔
I don't know if i already commented here or not, but since a lot of ppl are sharing their perspective, here's mine: i don't think the singers are sad or anything, i feel like they just lost interest in their once called lover just like that. The spark isn't there anymore, and they feel like a stranger to them for the sole reason that the feelings of love have vanished just like that. They are feeling neutral, not sad, and not really happy. But they don't love them enough anymore to care about how they feel. This sounds kinda harsh, but as someone who's been there, it's a weird feeling, but it only feels right to tell the other person you just don't love them anymore. And you're not sad about it.
"Its too late to move back, yet too early to move on" That's never hits me hard until this one day we broke up, it hard for me too... Knowing you still love me, knowing deep inside i still love you, but slowly i feel like something is not the same as before. Is it me or you the one who's changing?? I don't know.. I love you when you don't love me, you love me when i'm falling out in love. I still can remember the day i said " I don't love you anymore" , i still can remember that day you trying hard to not crying, I still can remember the way you said *It's Ok* . I'm sorry to wasted our time on this bulls*it, i'm so sorry to met you, I'm so sorry to know you, I'm so sorry to fall in love with you, I'm so sorry to falling out in love with you, *I'm sorry for everything* yeah i know it's won't change anything if i say this again, but i still want to be back to those lovely time, it's too late, but too early to move on :')
Ayu Zainuddin bullet coming thro.... SHARPER THAN A KNIFE WOULD BLEED U UHG HAHAhhahaa 😂😂😂😂 so tru. Undeniably true Oh. And; to those second heros who just too perfect perfectly loving caring but u still can't get the girl in the end.
i just broke up with my boyfriend last night, and suddenly this video in my suggestion.. i don't know, my angel try to tell me something trough it.. and make me feel better now.. thankyou 💗
RUclips recommended brought me here and this song relates so hard now to how I feel in my current relationship, it makes me so sad to think of the potential we shared in the beginning.
Sometimes falling out of love is something we can't control. There were times we wanted to bring back the same light but we just cant. There were times we fool ourselves just to not hurt someone but staying doesnt make us feel any better.
This must what he wanted to tell me all along but afraid to put it in a blunt way. Though I already knew it, like how it is stated in the song. Though it hurts, but somehow it sets you free.
I thought I wouldn't be able to relate to this song because I've never been in a relationship but knowing the full lyrics it also applies to my one-sided love of 15 years. We've been classmates since kids and never thought I'd fall in love with him but it suddenly happened in our 2nd year of high school. I know he likes someone so I avoided him at all costs because I don't want him to know how I feel but because we've been friends since we're little he still cared for me. It's been hard for me to move on because of how he sincerely cares for me as a friend until now but imagining him saying this to me "I don't love you, there's no other reason" and knowing that he doesn't really have to say sorry or feel bad about my broken heart because it's my own feelings, it still hurts like hell. Recently, my sister told me that he secretly asked my sister if I swing the other way because they never see me getting into a relationship. It hit me hard. I think it's a sign that I really need to give him up now. Glad to have been in love with him for all those years though.
This just makes me wanna cry. You shouldn't force yourself to love someone, (if you saw the MV) its just torture for you and makes you feel like you are lying to that person. Even though that person is happy, is it really love?
I just confessed to him, I'm such an idiot. I'm explicitly stupid. He doesn't like me that way, labeled me as a "good friend." damn it, I can't stop crying
Girl I fell in love with a boy who's in a relationship and he keeps giving me hopes or maybe I see it as such and I confessed to him and all he said was your my friends haha I feel so broke and I see him everyday with his gf holding hand and kissing ....it sucks
Think of it this way, you didnt lose him in your life and he still wants you to be in his. It truly hurt because you want more but I hope in the future youll see that if you truly like him, youll want him to be happy whether or not he's with you or someone else. Also, confessing is really big and he'll definetly be astonished that you can be honest/have self confidence. Please dont beat yourself up!! I sound so old 😅😅
OMG I can't believe this. I knew this song ages ago! I forgot what it was called and didnt know who sang it. I should've known because I always loved listening to urban zakapa. OMG thanks for appearing on my feed 😭
i’ve read a lot of stories here but from my perspective, i think this song conveys the message of how one is not afraid to let go of the person they don’t love instead of keeping them for their sake because you should learn to love yourself and think of yourself first and foremost before anything else. it will hurt the other person for a while but it’s better to say the truth that deceive someone with a lie and time will heal everything for sure so it’s also very hopeful. this song expresses not only the sadness but a positive message as well which is why i find it so healing and beautiful.
at first when I saw this song in my playlist and didn’t know the meaning of it, I thought it was about heartbreak and denying your feelings for someone who has broken your heart, and I thought that there’s no way in hell that it could be something relatable to me. there’s this person I know who has confessed how much they love me and how I’ve healed them, and I wish I could feel the same. I want and I’m trying to love them, but I can’t and there’s no reason. this song is the best thing that has happened to my life, it’s so comforting in such an uncomfortable situation.
[Verse 1] 무슨 말을 할까 어디서부터 어떻게 고개만 떨구는 나 그런 날 바라보는 너 그 어색한 침묵 [Pre-Chorus] 널 사랑하지 않아 너도 알고 있겠지만 눈물 흘리는 너의 모습에도 내 마음 아프지가 않아 [Chorus] 널 사랑하지 않아 다른 이유는 없어 미안하다는 말도 용서해 달란 말도 하고 싶지 않아 [Post-Chorus] 그냥 그게 전부야 이게 내 진심인거야 널 사랑하지 않아 널 사랑하지 않아 [Pre-Chorus] 널 사랑하지 않아 너도 알고 있겠지만 눈물 흘리는 너의 모습에도 내 마음 아프지가 않아 [Chorus] 널 사랑하지 않아 다른 이유는 없어 미안하다는 말도 용서해 달란 말도 하고 싶지 않아 [Post-Chorus] 그냥 그게 전부야 이제 내 진심인거야 널 사랑하지 않아 널 사랑하지 않아 [Chorus] 널 사랑하지 않아 다른 이유는 없어 미안하다는 말도 용서해 달란 말도 하고 싶지 않아 [Post-Chorus] 그냥 그게 전부야 이게 내 진심인거야 널 사랑하지 않아 널 사랑하지 않아
I'm in love with someone special to me. we're so good friends before, i feel special when I'm with him. I didn't notice my feelings with him until he met his dream girl, soon they're getting married but I can't even tell him how i feel for the fear of losing him.. I always listen to this song, I want to brainwash myself that I DON'T LOVE YOU, I DON'T LOVE YOU. though it's clear that I Love you.
Hi, you will move on. I also did that too. He got married and had a child. We are still good friends. Its nice to have him as my friend instead of being awkward strangers. Well it hurts at first of course but everything will be fine!
I strongly think that this song should be at a certain point in the korean drama "Queen for Seven Days". It matches the story perfectly as this could convey a lie and a fake "i don't love you" which actually means "i love you, i miss you, but our love can't be". Such a powerful song with great emotions.
i just cried listening to this song because its so relevant to what i’m going through right now. i started slowly falling out of love with my boyfriend and only really really recently it just really hit me that i dont love him anymore. i know that he still loves me, and a lot, and despite everything we’ve been through i’ve been happy with him so i’m not too sure what happened, really. it’s taking me a lot to tell him because despite not loving him anymore i don’t wanna hurt him. this is the first time i hear a song from this point of view and finding this at this time seems like a crazy coincidence. i’m gonna tell him soon because i can’t keep pretending and the longer it goes on the more it’ll hurt him and it’s not okay, i just can’t bring myself to do it.
as someone who always seem to fail reciprocating feelings, i relate to this song so much... that feeling where you tried to love him back because you don’t want to hurt him but you really can’t, really sucks. then you’ll beat yourself up for hurting yet another person who genuinely loved you.
wow i was studying and this came on. i was like 'oh It sounds nice. what's it called maybe I'll save it to my playlist. it would make a nice ringtone.' and then lo and behold another thing to tell me how little love is left in my life. -_- just love crying at 3 am because I'm sleep deprived and dead inside. but you can bet i still saved it to my playlist.
In my opinion, this song never talk about how he/her fell out of love instead It speaks so loud that 'I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH BUT I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LEFT YOU AND THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO TELL YOU'. Because the only valid (powerful) reason to leave someone is by telling them that you do not love them. Nobody confess they don't love someone anymore with so much emotion. In this song, they sang so desperate as if telling how much they love that person if I don't understand the language. I guess the person need to protect his/her lover by leaving them but also heartbroken by how they had to lie and they can't be with each other anymore.
even when i see you crying my heart doesnt ache anymore.....what a sad song....listening to this song in the middle of the night...forever my fav song!!!!
Lmao, I listen to them to be sad, to cry and let everything out, I wish people would understand that emotions can't really be controlled and anything could trigger a specific feeling
I think it's better to let someone that you don't love anymore to go. Just dont make someone love you leave you. Imagine how much burden, pain they need to face to decide to leave someone they love.
Reading the English translations breaks my heart. Listening to this song just breaks my heart. It even reminds of the second leads in dramas I watched. 😭😭❤️❤️😂
I met this person. As we became close, I don't know how to put this into word , but I know that I don't want to lose him. The truth is we're both know. I knew from the very beginning someday that this will not happen. I hope you're happy and healthy. I'm praying and rooting for you.
Princess 지지 I just read the first lines of your message and I understood that your wife had an affair so I felt sorry for you but finally this is the name of a drama XD
This song actually makes me very happy. Realizing that you are finally out of love with the person and being able to leave them for your own happiness is bravery in itself. For the boy that was still in love with me even when he had a girlfriend. I am apologetic. Not to myself but because you were unable to be happy even in such a caring relationship. Not being able to be yourself and true to her. So I'm happy. This song kind of states it all. That I don't want to say sorry to you, nor do I feel the need to cry
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I think the worst is watching someone slowly fall out of love with you, because you know before they even do
You so ryt and there nothing we can do even if we gave them the 🌎
That hurt
Current situation. They blame it all on themselves when it's really only me creating the issues for us.
He doesn't realize what he says, I'm not stupid.
He's just blind and doesn't realize that he wants to leave.
But it'll happen sooner or later.
I know a song like that. Try listening to Spoiler by Epik High. It's about someone who noticed how someone fell out of love.
Yeah. Then finding the courage to let go. So the person won't need to feel burdened anymore 😢
To write a song about not loving someone in such a sad melody, to let the other party down in a soothing way, to ease the pain in the most delicate way.
this is one of the most beautiful comments i've ever read
+Daesung Mars i agree
Still, The pain won't be eased even with the sweetest way of saying that .. because there is no sweet way of saying such a thing :) ... sadly ...
fAshSon I think it's best done in a mean way because then at least you can have a reason to dislike the person and get over them. If you get let down easy there's no closure it just feels like you weren't good enough even though everything was perfect.
Zeinabou Adaou what?
When you listen to this song and read the comments but you can't relate because no one has ever loved you- 💓
Its okayy there still a lot of times for love ♥️
Same
:) i love you
Thats true
Can relate so hard
If someone I loved sang this to me, I think my heart would shatter into pieces.
Elizabeth Edwin same.
Elizabeth Edwin Same... As long as it included subtitles.
*Here is GOOD NEWS:*
Jesus Christ died on a cross to save people from their sin according to the bible(God's word). Then Jesus rose from the dead, 3 days later, thus defeating death. Anyone who believes this will not perish but will have everlasting life.
I remember of someone I love even this person didn't sing that to me.
You'll be fined as long as you don't read the sub titles. 😂😂😂
Realizing you just don’t feel the same way anymore hurts the most especially if you know that person still loves you
hjs shit.
Can't relate
fax
cherrybomb my shitty situation
@@halleyana28 same sigh*
WOW! there are a lot of break up songs but almost all of them are the abandoned person's point of view but this song describes the "bad guy"s feelings. That's why it's unique.
agreed
you check out day6-how can I say. it also talks about the bad guy preceptive
@@Niniidoll myday? :)
@@cinniemon yupppp, hbu?
@@Niniidoll same hahah
I think it is a lot harder when you still love the person and they don't love u anymore
As someone who experienced both perspectives I say it's equal, if not the person who is leaving gets the heavier weight. Getting left unexpectedly is temporary but a sharp pain. But being the one to leave, you built up the relationship with the person only to leave and having a constant thought at the back of your head that your relationship even as friends could never be the same. It haunts you for way much longer. It still does to me till this day.
@@Katz1123 But being the one that get dumped can change you forever.. I'll never trust anyone the same way with my feelings. It's putting yourself into a relationship and then the other person just fall out of love. Then you fall out of love with yourself too. And it takes years to heal, to build yourself again, years and years. But it will always depend on the sensitivity of a person. Every scenario is different, every feeling is different. It is not really comparable, and I think what I just wrote earlier on is what I needed to get off my chest. Sorry. But I'm posting it anyway
Having someone leave you makes me wonder whether did they ever love me or were just trying to force themselves into the relationship
it left me for weeks wondering if I did better n stuff , i couldnt sleep either . it’s a pain that hasn’t left me and i don’t think it will for a long time either. it just really haunts you , and mine came without any warning , and that left me with “did he ever love me” n stuff lmao it’s intense :(
-. Katz .- I would have to disagree and say the one getting dumped hurts more. If you fall out of love with someone, its painful and ending things are difficult but eventually you’ll move on quicker because your feelings have already. Meanwhile, if you still love that person, then it’ll be harder for you to deal with especially since you’ve probably noticed signs already. Watching someone fall out of love with you and but staying until they break it off because you love them is truly difficult.
what people don't realize is that its hard to reject someone to. You don't want him/her to be sad but you can't really give them what they want because you just can't dictate to your heart whom to love.
"This is what I really feel. I don't love you" sums it up
ARMY
💯💯💯
exactly T-T
Thats truee but its so hard to tell the truth and it ended up him hating me :/
Exactly. And it feels conceited to me to ask someone else how to let someone down gently.
“I don’t even want to say sorry or ask for forgiveness.” This, on the contrary, isn’t cruel. Falling out of love with someone isn’t a crime. It doesn’t make you a bad person. Yes, it’s painful and unbearable, but what can you do? Stay with someone out of obligation and condemn both of you to misery?
Being honest, even if it’s brutally honest, is always the best option. If you lie, you’re only going to prolong the pain. And also hold that person back from finding someone who will truly love them.
That’s just it.
true ;( that was better than stay with the person and continue giving them fake hopes
this is the push that I needed. thank you :)
What you are saying is true but in some cases a salvageable hypocrisy is better than murderous honesty.
Thank you. I really needed to read this. I'm falling out of love with my girlfriend and I feel that I am a horrible person, and it hurts me so much because I don't want to hurt her but at the same time I don't want to stay with her...
@Inês Constante You’re not a horrible person. It happens sometimes but that doesn’t mean that the person that isn’t in love with the other is bad. I don’t know you but I don’t think it is bad to not love someone else anymore. If you haven’t told her, then you should tell her as soon as possible (if you are really sure that you don’t want to be with her anymore). If you have already then I hope you both are okay and don’t have anything against each other. I haven’t been in a relationship but I know it’s bad if people end in bad terms. It hurts both people so if I ever do have a boyfriend and I don’t love them anymore, I’ll try to end it on good terms so none of us hate the other. I don’t know if what I am saying make sense. I’m just typing as I think. Anyway you should just be honest to yourself and if you are sure that you don’t love them anymore, you should end it before they get their hopes high.
The fact that they captured the message of "I don't love you, and there's no reason". Sometimes even if an answer or an explanation is demanded, it's nice to hear that it's okay to not have one.
It's always hard when you realise you don't love someone anymore. But see the love they have for you.
I can relate so much. It's so heart wrenching.
yup im in the midle of that situation right now this guy love me but i just cant love him that felt is already gone
Elaine Lewis the amount of pity i feel is extreme
yeah i feel u
I've been in a painful situation recently. The person I liked confessed to me. I saw this coming for a while and I would've confessed to him first if I wanted to. But I held back for such a long time because college applications are coming up, and I don't want to juggle a relationship. I've worked too hard the past years to be distracted now. I took a night to think about it before I rejected him, and believe me when I say that night was torture. The next day, I gave him a very simple answer because if I said more I would've fell apart. It took everything to not cry when I saw his face. I wanted to hug him like he's a scared little child, but I thought about what I worked for these past years, and when he questioned why I'm going against both of our feelings, I answered in a more serious tone because I know that he has been working just as hard. It's been a week now. I thought rejecting him will free me from emotional burden, but it only dragged me down. I don't know where to go to for release, but this song gave quite a similar message I've trying to give myself. I don't love him.
I can slowly feel my boyfriend of one year falling out of love with me. I can already feel it, but I don’t think he’s realized yet. The fear of loosing him is making me so irrational but I’m even more scared that these feelings are going to push him away faster. All I can really do right now is quietly watch him distance himself from me and slowly prepare myself for his disappearance. Because of this song, I’m sure it’s gonna feel like deja vu when he breaks up with me.
Girl... 😢
😢
😭
This is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry.
I've never been in your position and have no right to say this, but I think you should fight for your love for him. I don't think you should give up just yet. But if you still feel him falling out, I think you should talk it over with him. Then you should decide if you should still continue your relationship. From my experience, I don't fear of losing people close to me because I believe if they are truly worthy, they will stay in my life. If not, then I will find better people that I can share happiness with. In the end, you do what you think is right and what will make you happy. Best of luck.
I was trying to turn up the volume but instead turned up the brightness, it was late at night so the blinding screen sent me into a screaming fit and this song played as I slowly collapsed to the ground.
Taco Loco 😂😂😂😂😂LOL
😂😂😂😂
Taco Loco You poor thing oml 😂
your computer doesnt love you XD
I was feeling super sh*tty and sad but this comment made me smile. Haha thank you for being you XD
The theme song of every second lead character in kdramas😢
True
Hahahaha I know it's sad but this just made me laugh.
don't remind me 😭😭🥺
Why did this make me laugh? But yeah that's true
Hi Jung Goo
I think this song is good to be listened when you’re moving on..
keep repeating “I don’t love you” until you don’t love him/her for real..
Yeap i did it tho its worked but he hates me so much now :/
This is the exact approach that I was thinking this song's perspective was coming from. Kinda like, moving on and trying, but also asking oneself the statement and question of, "I don't love you". It can be perceived from both ways, but either way, I'm crying T-T
it’s not how it works. the more you keep telling yourself that you don’t love him/her anymore, the more their name stuck on your head
Grace Natalia true..i really need to hear this,its been 1month i didnt cntect her,but i still keep remember her,and i wish with this song i could forgive and forget her,even i know im the only one hurt..and she not ..
@@nxvrmnnvm1632 true I've been telling that yo myself and then realised that I've been lying to myself all this time
It hurts to fall out too. It hurt to break another soul just because you can't give them what they want. You want them happy but you can't reciprocate the feelings they want to give to you. Telling someone you don't love him or her anymore is difficult especially when you made them felt like you do. It's very hard and it hurts too.
Exactly what I experienced, I want the best for her, but what she wanted was me. It hurts a lot seeing the person you once loved almost beg for you to stay.
:(
What exactly am currently feeling
I understand this completely, I had to tell him so he wouldn't get hurt more, thinking that I did love him.
I always thought the concept of listening to a sad song when you feel sad is weird, because why would you want to surround yourself with even more sadness in a time of melancholy?
After listening to this song, I think it might be because, in a time of heartbreak, we want something to accompany us in our pain.
indeed
Sadly true😔
It same when you're in a happy mood, u would never listen sad song.
It's the catharsis. Sometimes you just need that push from an external source to fully embrace and let out all the sadness inside you, until you're empty and exhausted. Once that's done, you're more ready to pick up the pieces and move on.
Falling in love is easy but staying in love isn’t.
Falling in love is not a choice but staying is.
It's even more sadder if the lyrics are lies
ow damn
y u do diz
Y u...😭
Y u😭😭😭
😭😭
I prefer the person I love to tell me directly like this in a soft way, instead of giving me false hope and crush it like it was nothing... It hurts more than knowing the truth from the start.
True. I'm in this situation right now. I cry all the time and don't know what to do. When I ask him if he likes me or not, he didn't reply to my text until now. I HATE HIM!!!!
Have u ever been in a situation where you have to unlove him because he is happier with someone else and u just had to give up all the feelings that built up in u ?
YES, AND ALL I GONNA DO IS TO BE HURT IN SILENCE.
😭😭😭
When your recommendation list actually works
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Jeungri Oppa K POOPER!!!
J Hope Trash hell yeah boi!
annyeong fellow kpooper!!!
i think it hits the worst when you both loved each other but cant be together, and the feelings died for each other. not even a confession happen, just a love story that never began
:)
The anime '5 centimers per second' perfectly expresses what you've described
bruh T_T
never thought id have to live this but...
update: i got backstabbed, my "friend" is dating him now :( he moved on and im stuck
I'm slowly losing feelings from him.. He's such an innocent kindhearted guy I'm sure every girl would love him ..i just don't know what's happening to me I feel horrible I can't break his heart but I can't stand being fake either ..i've always hated ppl who leave the ones they once said they loved and wondered why would they do that but now I'm on the edge to be one of them I can't describe how much I hate myself for this ..
Finally a song with a different prospective. All the breakup songs that I’ve heard are all about the person being rejected and suffering because of it. But we never heard the other point of view. It’s beautiful and intense, deep and relatable. A masterpiece 💪🏻
This is three yrs ago, but coz i arrived here from a cover by a member of the group I listen to, I want to say a song from them that also shares a story of breaking up with the other because"love is not enough, i am me and you are you" in hopes of having a good closure. The song is new and the title is "LEAVE".
It hurts when you know that the other person is slowly starting to not love you and you can’t do anything about it so you just sit and wait for the end of your relationship and pretend that you know nothing because a small part of you don’t want to believe what is happening..
True..
That's what I feel 💔💔 and he left me... 😭😭
You can do this boo.
This one really has the worst feeling youu will get to someone you love
Honestly from looking at the title I thought it was about denying your feelings for someone who clearly doesn't love you so you say "I don't love you" as a lie. But now reading the lyrics, It seems like you want to reject them not too nicely and not too rudely. All you can say is I don't love you and there's no reason other than simply not falling in love with them just like they did with you. Although the way they sang this song sounds like they're(the singers) the ones getting their heartbroken, it feels like they sang it this way because not only is it unfortunate for the confesser but it's also unfortunate for the one getting confessed to. There are big chances that this relationship as friends would be broken forever. Although their hearts don't ache anymore for the person getting rejected, they also can't help but feel that it's unfortunate to lose their friendship. They can't even say sorry because even if they did it wouldn't change the way they feel over the other party and it makes me think that they don't want to make the person think that their feelings gave them a burden.
To me The way they forwardly say "I don't love you" so many times hurts my heart but in a way it makes me close these feelings and makes me able to move on.
OnePieceIsDaAwesome well said, my friend. Reading this while listening to the song made my heart ache ❤
OnePieceIsDaAwesome Sorry always is the hardest word to say. In any case of rejecting confession from someone, how could they know who got more heartbroken than other. It had better fall in love w Mr/Mrs Right whenever you could have chance b/c it is an invaluable gift for you and only you.
OnePieceIsDaAwesome idk why but this made me cry. Nicely said
It's just happened to me.. we can't go back to how we were. Pretending like nothing happens just make things worst.
OnePieceIsDaAwesome you couldn't have explained it more accurately. Unrequited love is painful for the rejecter too. Having experienced this situation recently it truly hurts that i lost a good friend. But more than anything it hurts that i unintentionally hurt a wonderful person that i love- just not in a romantic way..
I think the hardest thing to tell someone is that you fell out of love for them. Telling someone you love them is already hard, but saying that it doesn't exist anymore is way harder and absolutely painful to the person you'd tell it to and for yourself since hurting someone is not easy.
I just saw this in my suggestions. And I don't regret it ;-;
Zayida Esmeralda Sameee
Zayida Esmeralda Me too😢
same
same here
Same!!
This is when you’re stuck between “I’m sorry I can’t love you back” and “Should I apologize for how I feel?”
Some might think you’re being cruel for pushing away the person who loves you but they don’t realize is that you’re doing it because you know they deserve someone better than you and admitting it was never easy.
You know..they deserve someone better they moment u let go..once u truly love someone u should love them with no boundaries and not compare yourself with another partner. You should be the right person and try to stay that. They say a real man doesnt make his girl cry. That also count for the girl ofcourse. So keep her/him happy untill the end. A healthy relationship should have this from both sides to make it work
Agree with you
Yes...i've done the same thing to someone...because honesty id better than false hope..
@@shadysaar sometimes people just dont work long term even if they fall in love at one point. break ups are normal
this song remind me of my past relationships... it so painful to realize that love can fade even we give our best to our lover...
Cheri za feeling the same way here
Cheri za You know what sucks more? That we can spend years on relationships then just one day your love comes up to you and tells you that they never loved you. That's why I don't want relationships. To just realise that they never loved you...is just heartbraking.
Because sometimes even though you gave your best, best is still not enough for them
BTS Kookie's Lily and on top of that you waisted precious years.
I feel bad because I'm the person who said "I don't love you" to my ex who loved me a lot, but I'm going to take this song as an advice, I won't say sorry anymore.
Why am I crying I haven’t even been in a relationship wtf 🤧😢😭😭
Same😂😂but its weird that we still understand it when we never experienced these kind of feelings xD
Good for u
Same sis 😭🙈
Just dont be in relationship..its hurt..its killing you..i never been into relationship after 9 years..until im ready..im ready to get married..i met this guy...i thought we are perfectly for to each other...bcs we love the same thing..but one thing i forgot..i forgot to remind myself i will get hurt again..n yes..im hurting now
@@gingerblue7774 stay strong honey...
When i broke up with my ex few years ago, i just send this song to him. I dont know how to explain that i dont love him anymore. We together almost 10 years. He everything for me. But one day, that feeling gone. I dont know why. I dont have another friend (man) coz for me he enough for me, i dont need anyone else. 1 year i try to love him back, but that feeling never comeback. I'm really tired struggling with my feeling. And i let him go. Now he married and i still single. Never regret, atleast he found his forever. And im happy for him
I felt the same😭😭 i tried to love him back. But the feeling never return
you're a good person and you too will find happiness
I know this feeling
having a relationship end, it coming from the latter side, I want to take it as a person finally letting someone go. I know it isn't, but being able to say " I don't love you" to someone who broke your heart , being healed enough and letting go bitterness or sadness, the "no other reason" being the fact time passes... it's reassuring, in a way.
Same. I see it as letting go of someone who was once apart of your life. It's about finding closure within yourself, even if the other person never gave you any sort of closure.
for me this song is just about moving on, either through ending a relationship or getting over someone. time eventually lessens the pain or the emotions that you have of someone that you cared for. at some point in dating or post breakup, you realize that you don't care as much about the other person... that you just don't love them anymore. I like the simplified reason, it's exhausting when people demand the reason why they're breaking up.
I also agree its about letting go and moving on. Today I finally moved on from loving someone who would never feel the same way and this song definitely explains the feeling and just trying to move on and heal.
Hope you're okay. Stay strong.
I don't think anyone really cares for this update, but I guess it's more for me. I didn't look for a "substitute" or replacement. I hung out with friends, I experienced so many different things. Developed fleeting crushes on amazing guys, but still wanted to be single. I still on, but today something possessed me to look at his Instagram. He gained weight LOL.
Is what I want to say, but he's happy. I'm happy. We're on two different paths and I know today I don't have to look towards again. What I felt for him was real and so new and strange. But I'm proud to say I don't love him anymore." I don't love you"
Any person who stumbles across this, I hope you can do the same one day
"I don't love You." itself are a sad lyric.. this song get me the feels 😭
I have been both the 'singer' and the 'hearer' of this song. Both equally painful experiences, beautifully captured in one song ❤
I loved him, but he didn't love me. So that we could be friends again and get rid of the awkwardness between us, I told him "I don't love you anymore". I was able to smile and get through the day just fine seeing him again but then when I got home, I found myself crying alone. As long as I keep telling myself that I don't love him anymore, I'm sure I'll come to feel that way.
LovelyMNGurl02 How is it now? Are you still friends with him?
Same..
I have to admit that for my heart, bcz it’s true and I don’t have to lie ab it. Eventhough, he don’t love me, I always want him to be happy all the time. And I know, oneday I can forget that feelings.
The most raw song I have ever heard.
vanntaehyung gordon ramsay: did someone just say *raaaAAWW*???
It's hard falling out of love knowing that you're inflicting such pain on somebody you once loved, you may not love them but you still care. You can't force yourself to love someone, and it's better spitting the bitter truth than to live a lie for the sake of someone else's happiness, inflicting harm against you and the person you once loved. It's not easy for any side.
this song hurts like hell, especially when you can somewhat relate to it. But for me, I have to listen to this song every time I remember him. I need this song to tell me that I need to let go and move on. I need this song to help me face and realize the reality. Yes, it’s sad. Yes, it hurts. But it’s better than holding on to something that isn’t even there anymore.
❤️💔 hope it heals now
Dealing with a break-up and seeing him with another looking so happy hurts a lot. Like even before we broke up, I would literally burst into tears out of fear and panic but he just doesn't seem to care. I would literally not be okay and he wouldn't care. Unless someone obliges him to do so.
I knew at that point he probably didn't love me anymore.
And he really doesn't anymore.
Summer Hanne im going through this rn after 4 years of relationship and it hurts so bad, and seeing as this comment was made a year ago I hope you’re better now.
lali mendes And I’m in that situation rn after 10 years of relationship. Seeing him happy makes me hurts so bad but I can’t do anything to heal my broken soul 😭
Sarah Ann are you doing better now?
Trulys Wish maybe. But there are time to time, I cried myself to bed because of memories that I cannot erase. 😭
Sarah Ann I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I’ve never felt heartbreak so I don’t know what to say but I hope that you can get through this because the pain will not be forever. Even if it feels like that will never be true.
When Park jeongwoo & Jihoon sang this on Treasure map .
I can't still get over it!
That's why I'm here
Same
Same😂
me too
Same here it has been a year 🥺
I've been in an unrequited love for 2 years already and It seems that I can't let go of him no matter what. Listening to this song felt like he was talking to me directly and asking me to give up on him.
Arrah Mallari i feel u
It's okay to sometimes just give up. If he needs it and you truly love him...then you have to let him go.
ikr...
i feel you 😑😢
the very reason why i also listen to this
_That's why I had a trust problem. Even I believe them, they will broke my heart. Again_
The idea of falling in love also implies that you can fall out of love. You can love someone but not be in love with them. And that’s okay.
Hi
Exactly. I feel like when you fall in love you only see their good qualities. Loving someone means you accept them for who they are and learn to live their imperfections as well.
This got 100,000 views the day after my video for Hyuna's Run and Run got 100,000 views. Thanks again, everyone :)
This song always breaks my heart, I always have tears in my eyes and my heart hurts
Gon
^^
i love how the designs and colors in this video are very minimal that looking at it makes the song feel sadder
I've told her today "i don't love you" She cried and i left. I still remember the promised I made. To put a smile on her beautiful face, make her happy and never make her cry. I'm sorry, I broke all of that promises today. Because of this love, the disapproval of my "blood" this relationship will never work and end up hurting you even more. Good bye " i'm sorry and i love you"
this is why I love Korean Songs.. its grammar and the way they talk, I don't know how to explain it, but it feels like I'm listen to poetry.
mokonafun I think it's what k indie is for that's why I love it
this song is so sad..human's heart changed.. that's just the truth to embrace
Wow a lot of people share their perspective here
So here i go, i personally connect to this song not because i fall out of love, but because i have to lie to her so she can get married to another man that she also love. When we were dating her parents didn't really accept our relationship because i was still a college student and her parents have arranged her to get married to their friend son and they're hoping that maybe what we have only temporary, it wasn't, she told me that she love me and so do i, i never expected that to happen, but after she got introduce to the other guy she started going out with him and i let her in hoping that it's only to make her parents happy.
I know what i did is stupid and maybe you people will say that we can work it out, but in all honesty i have to let her go. She loves him, i don't know if she loved me more but i know that i have to let her go so she can be happy. Her parents already arranged her to marry him so there's really nothing i can do but to lie to her and say that i don't love her anymore.
Sometimes i wish life is like a movie where we can do the impossible like go against her parents and we go live on our own but i know we can't do that, maybe lying to her that day is the right choice, at least she's happy and I'm finally fine now😊
So you would just give up on her
Your a strong one I hope you find a person who would deserve your love
🤗
@@ajazahmedkhan2939 i did let her go, but it was for the best and i don't feel any romantic feelings for her anymore but more of a big brother protective feeling and we still remain as friends, me and her husband are best friend now and everything is working better than i could've ever imagined
I still haven't found anyone yet but there's a couple dates for me here and there, but... everything's fine for me
I'm planning to stay single for a while living my life to the fullest
I bow down to your sacrifice, it must've been very hard on you.
I'm just crying because I understand how painful it is to not love someone anymore. the song is just extremely powerful emotionally and made me actually feel strong emotions. it's something not many songs can do to me but this one did it. I love it so much ❤💓💔
I don't know if i already commented here or not, but since a lot of ppl are sharing their perspective, here's mine: i don't think the singers are sad or anything, i feel like they just lost interest in their once called lover just like that. The spark isn't there anymore, and they feel like a stranger to them for the sole reason that the feelings of love have vanished just like that. They are feeling neutral, not sad, and not really happy. But they don't love them enough anymore to care about how they feel. This sounds kinda harsh, but as someone who's been there, it's a weird feeling, but it only feels right to tell the other person you just don't love them anymore. And you're not sad about it.
"Its too late to move back, yet too early to move on"
That's never hits me hard until this one day we broke up, it hard for me too... Knowing you still love me, knowing deep inside i still love you, but slowly i feel like something is not the same as before. Is it me or you the one who's changing?? I don't know.. I love you when you don't love me, you love me when i'm falling out in love. I still can remember the day i said " I don't love you anymore" , i still can remember that day you trying hard to not crying, I still can remember the way you said *It's Ok* . I'm sorry to wasted our time on this bulls*it, i'm so sorry to met you, I'm so sorry to know you, I'm so sorry to fall in love with you, I'm so sorry to falling out in love with you, *I'm sorry for everything* yeah i know it's won't change anything if i say this again, but i still want to be back to those lovely time, it's too late, but too early to move on :')
tinykpop multifandomtrash maybe u should like tell this to them
To all the second leads in drama verse, this song is dedicated to you pwahahaha
Ayu Zainuddin hahahahahahahahahahahahah you sir, need more likes
Fucking savage 😂😂😂😂😂
Ayu Zainuddin savage
Ayu Zainuddin omg so evil 😂
Ayu Zainuddin bullet coming thro.... SHARPER THAN A KNIFE WOULD BLEED U UHG HAHAhhahaa 😂😂😂😂 so tru. Undeniably true
Oh. And; to those second heros who just too perfect perfectly loving caring but u still can't get the girl in the end.
basically its ji soo lmao
i just broke up with my boyfriend last night, and suddenly this video in my suggestion.. i don't know, my angel try to tell me something trough it.. and make me feel better now.. thankyou 💗
Csodálatos dal köszönöm! Akkor is szeretettel gondolok rá, ha tényleg így gondolja.❤
Urban Zakapa brought me here.....
SAME...
I'veBeenChris same...
I'veBeenChris I found this by myself...
Av Aaclmm great job, just don't cry.lol
I'veBeenChris eat Jin brought me here..
RUclips recommended brought me here and this song relates so hard now to how I feel in my current relationship, it makes me so sad to think of the potential we shared in the beginning.
Damn 5 months later and I'm back listening to this song, thinking of the same guy 😭😭
Same here :(
same
Sometimes falling out of love is something we can't control. There were times we wanted to bring back the same light but we just cant. There were times we fool ourselves just to not hurt someone but staying doesnt make us feel any better.
This must what he wanted to tell me all along but afraid to put it in a blunt way. Though I already knew it, like how it is stated in the song. Though it hurts, but somehow it sets you free.
I can't even relate to this song and it's making me tear up :,) stupid feelings
feline fury oh god. me too.
feline fury it just feels like this song is what someone would sing to me haha
I can't even relate but I cried a whole ass river.
Same
I thought I wouldn't be able to relate to this song because I've never been in a relationship but knowing the full lyrics it also applies to my one-sided love of 15 years. We've been classmates since kids and never thought I'd fall in love with him but it suddenly happened in our 2nd year of high school. I know he likes someone so I avoided him at all costs because I don't want him to know how I feel but because we've been friends since we're little he still cared for me. It's been hard for me to move on because of how he sincerely cares for me as a friend until now but imagining him saying this to me "I don't love you, there's no other reason" and knowing that he doesn't really have to say sorry or feel bad about my broken heart because it's my own feelings, it still hurts like hell. Recently, my sister told me that he secretly asked my sister if I swing the other way because they never see me getting into a relationship. It hit me hard. I think it's a sign that I really need to give him up now. Glad to have been in love with him for all those years though.
This just makes me wanna cry. You shouldn't force yourself to love someone, (if you saw the MV) its just torture for you and makes you feel like you are lying to that person. Even though that person is happy, is it really love?
I know but im scared even more to tell the truth :(( and now he hates me of course
I just confessed to him, I'm such an idiot. I'm explicitly stupid. He doesn't like me that way, labeled me as a "good friend." damn it, I can't stop crying
Janine Roqueza thank you ♡ ;(
You'll find someone better than him:)
Girl I fell in love with a boy who's in a relationship and he keeps giving me hopes or maybe I see it as such and I confessed to him and all he said was your my friends haha I feel so broke and I see him everyday with his gf holding hand and kissing ....it sucks
Think of it this way, you didnt lose him in your life and he still wants you to be in his. It truly hurt because you want more but I hope in the future youll see that if you truly like him, youll want him to be happy whether or not he's with you or someone else.
Also, confessing is really big and he'll definetly be astonished that you can be honest/have self confidence. Please dont beat yourself up!!
I sound so old 😅😅
Yeahh me too. I feel you what an idiot . Maybe i just learnt that i never confessed ever and never ever fall for someone again. :(.
Randomly saw this in my recommended and now I’m in love
OMG I can't believe this. I knew this song ages ago! I forgot what it was called and didnt know who sang it. I should've known because I always loved listening to urban zakapa. OMG thanks for appearing on my feed 😭
this works equally as well when a friendship ends
i’ve read a lot of stories here but from my perspective, i think this song conveys the message of how one is not afraid to let go of the person they don’t love instead of keeping them for their sake because you should learn to love yourself and think of yourself first and foremost before anything else. it will hurt the other person for a while but it’s better to say the truth that deceive someone with a lie and time will heal everything for sure so it’s also very hopeful. this song expresses not only the sadness but a positive message as well which is why i find it so healing and beautiful.
Even after hearing this song countless of times throughout the years it’s still as beautiful and powerful as the first time I heard it 💛
Now I know why he never said sorry
He just
Doesn't love me
DNA...
ARMYYYY
ARMY UNITEEE! And I’m really sorry about that. I hope that you find someone who will return your feelings someday.
Hwaiting!
Agree with you.. he never say sorry to me because he never love me.. 😥
So this is the reason ..
Why I never think about this before
this song hits hard when you’re in love.
at first when I saw this song in my playlist and didn’t know the meaning of it, I thought it was about heartbreak and denying your feelings for someone who has broken your heart, and I thought that there’s no way in hell that it could be something relatable to me. there’s this person I know who has confessed how much they love me and how I’ve healed them, and I wish I could feel the same. I want and I’m trying to love them, but I can’t and there’s no reason. this song is the best thing that has happened to my life, it’s so comforting in such an uncomfortable situation.
[Verse 1]
무슨 말을 할까
어디서부터 어떻게
고개만 떨구는 나
그런 날 바라보는 너
그 어색한 침묵
[Pre-Chorus]
널 사랑하지 않아
너도 알고 있겠지만
눈물 흘리는 너의 모습에도 내 마음
아프지가 않아
[Chorus]
널 사랑하지 않아
다른 이유는 없어
미안하다는 말도
용서해 달란 말도
하고 싶지 않아
[Post-Chorus]
그냥 그게 전부야
이게 내 진심인거야
널 사랑하지 않아
널 사랑하지 않아
[Pre-Chorus]
널 사랑하지 않아
너도 알고 있겠지만
눈물 흘리는 너의 모습에도 내 마음
아프지가 않아
[Chorus]
널 사랑하지 않아
다른 이유는 없어
미안하다는 말도
용서해 달란 말도 하고 싶지 않아
[Post-Chorus]
그냥 그게 전부야
이제 내 진심인거야
널 사랑하지 않아
널 사랑하지 않아
[Chorus]
널 사랑하지 않아
다른 이유는 없어
미안하다는 말도
용서해 달란 말도
하고 싶지 않아
[Post-Chorus]
그냥 그게 전부야
이게 내 진심인거야
널 사랑하지 않아
널 사랑하지 않아
Genie😢😢 i can now understand what you really feel while you sang this song..
beautiful. im crying rn
haha I agree, it's an amazing song. their voices give me chills.
I'm in love with someone special to me. we're so good friends before, i feel special when I'm with him.
I didn't notice my feelings with him until he met his dream girl, soon they're getting married but I can't even tell him how i feel for the fear of losing him..
I always listen to this song, I want to brainwash myself that I DON'T LOVE YOU, I DON'T LOVE YOU.
though it's clear that I Love you.
Hi, you will move on. I also did that too. He got married and had a child. We are still good friends. Its nice to have him as my friend instead of being awkward strangers. Well it hurts at first of course but everything will be fine!
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I didn't search for this and I'm glad that I found it. It's a gem!
I strongly think that this song should be at a certain point in the korean drama "Queen for Seven Days". It matches the story perfectly as this could convey a lie and a fake "i don't love you" which actually means "i love you, i miss you, but our love can't be". Such a powerful song with great emotions.
how sad to be the unwanted one, I'm kinda love-hate this song..
chanim d 💔
i just cried listening to this song because its so relevant to what i’m going through right now. i started slowly falling out of love with my boyfriend and only really really recently it just really hit me that i dont love him anymore. i know that he still loves me, and a lot, and despite everything we’ve been through i’ve been happy with him so i’m not too sure what happened, really. it’s taking me a lot to tell him because despite not loving him anymore i don’t wanna hurt him. this is the first time i hear a song from this point of view and finding this at this time seems like a crazy coincidence. i’m gonna tell him soon because i can’t keep pretending and the longer it goes on the more it’ll hurt him and it’s not okay, i just can’t bring myself to do it.
so did you tell him?
How does youtube recommendations know I'm this hurt? Now they gave me a song I don't even relate on since I've never even fallen in love ㅠㅠ
as someone who always seem to fail reciprocating feelings, i relate to this song so much... that feeling where you tried to love him back because you don’t want to hurt him but you really can’t, really sucks. then you’ll beat yourself up for hurting yet another person who genuinely loved you.
wow i was studying and this came on. i was like 'oh It sounds nice. what's it called maybe I'll save it to my playlist. it would make a nice ringtone.' and then lo and behold another thing to tell me how little love is left in my life. -_- just love crying at 3 am because I'm sleep deprived and dead inside. but you can bet i still saved it to my playlist.
Relistening to this song 6 years later and it’s still a gem
In my opinion, this song never talk about how he/her fell out of love instead It speaks so loud that 'I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH BUT I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LEFT YOU AND THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO TELL YOU'. Because the only valid (powerful) reason to leave someone is by telling them that you do not love them.
Nobody confess they don't love someone anymore with so much emotion.
In this song, they sang so desperate as if telling how much they love that person if I don't understand the language. I guess the person need to protect his/her lover by leaving them but also heartbroken by how they had to lie and they can't be with each other anymore.
even when i see you crying my heart doesnt ache anymore.....what a sad song....listening to this song in the middle of the night...forever my fav song!!!!
i wish people would understand that sad songs don't make you sad, it should lessen the pain in your heart or help you cope with the pain
Lmao, I listen to them to be sad, to cry and let everything out, I wish people would understand that emotions can't really be controlled and anything could trigger a specific feeling
I think it's better to let someone that you don't love anymore to go. Just dont make someone love you leave you. Imagine how much burden, pain they need to face to decide to leave someone they love.
I'm here after I listened TREASURE 's Jeong Woo and Ji Hoon singing this
Wow this is such a good song
Why didn't I know this
Reading the English translations breaks my heart. Listening to this song just breaks my heart. It even reminds of the second leads in dramas I watched. 😭😭❤️❤️😂
This song is more painful than a slap in the face. It hurts most especially when it comes from someone you love the most.
I met this person.
As we became close, I don't know how to put this into word , but I know that I don't want to lose him. The truth is we're both know. I knew from the very beginning someday that this will not happen. I hope you're happy and healthy. I'm praying and rooting for you.
This's so perfect I'm crying
here because of This Week My Wife Is Having An Affair
Princess 지지 I'm really sorry to hear that! Please recover soon fam D:
nojin bae I feel stupid
Princess 지지 me too!!that drama is so sad
Princess 지지 I just read the first lines of your message and I understood that your wife had an affair so I felt sorry for you but finally this is the name of a drama XD
Princess 지지 oh so this song is from that drama? I knew I heard it somewhere.
I’ve been looking for a song with this kind of message because this is exactly how I feel. 고마워요. 🙇🏻♀️
This song actually makes me very happy. Realizing that you are finally out of love with the person and being able to leave them for your own happiness is bravery in itself. For the boy that was still in love with me even when he had a girlfriend. I am apologetic. Not to myself but because you were unable to be happy even in such a caring relationship. Not being able to be yourself and true to her. So I'm happy. This song kind of states it all. That I don't want to say sorry to you, nor do I feel the need to cry
It's not that i don't love you anymore. I just can't love you no more.
It's not like it's hurting me anymore, it just i feel nothing at all
I hope everyone who's hurting that stumbles upon this video will find healing. You guys are worthy of true, never ending love. 💖