How to Handle Criticism: A Philosopher's Guide

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025

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  • @FlameAlchemist16
    @FlameAlchemist16 16 дней назад +39

    A word of appreciation here: Don’t discontinue posting these walking philosophical videos. I really enjoy their relaxing aesthetics and how they create a pleasant vibe with your persona and wisdom combined.

  • @benbusinovski2937
    @benbusinovski2937 16 дней назад +38

    What people say is always a reflection of themselves.

    • @lesleyblackner2323
      @lesleyblackner2323 16 дней назад +6

      Yes, Jonathan is dealing with the projections of many jealous individuals. I think Jonathan's delivery is fabulous. I listened to all the Girard lectures and loved them. Don't let the haters win!

    • @nothinghalo8
      @nothinghalo8 16 дней назад

      "All cruelty springs from weakness"

  • @entrophybound
    @entrophybound 16 дней назад +4

    That's a balanced philosophical treatment of this minor but prominent speck of the human experience: How to deal with haters. Thank you, and I wish you the best.

  • @mianilsson3550
    @mianilsson3550 16 дней назад +4

    Johnathan is so charismatic, charming and reasonable, that we can, with pleasure, see him like the actor!!!

  • @danmslacker6782
    @danmslacker6782 16 дней назад +10

    You will never catch a hater doing more than you.

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 13 дней назад

      Biggest cope I’ve ever seen. Let’s pretend I’m a hater, do you truly believe there’s nothing I’m doing that’s more or better than you? Do you really think you’re better in every aspect of life? Surely you know that’s a preposterous claim.

    • @sleepwalker_9
      @sleepwalker_9 12 дней назад

      @@BadMannerKorea its not a rule, but often you see criticisms be projections of people's own faults and frustrations. i think the phrase points to that occurence

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 12 дней назад

      @@sleepwalker_9 You often do? You can’t possibly know that. You’ve analyzed these people’s lives, or conducted a proper sampling, to come to that conclusion? Nope. You haven’t. Regardless, the OP said “NEVER”, so it’s clearly a false claim by default.

    • @sleepwalker_9
      @sleepwalker_9 12 дней назад

      @@BadMannerKorea bro OP didnt present a scientifical claim chill lol. its just a popular expression thats all

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 12 дней назад

      @@sleepwalker_9 Oh so it’s not scientific, and is merely an expression?
      I know, thanks. I rest my case.

  • @willg348
    @willg348 16 дней назад +1

    Really appreciate that you apply philosophy to such real and everyday human conditions. You’re doing a lot of good things for a lot of people in your discussions, Johnathan! 😇

  • @StPetersAnglicanChurch-j3q
    @StPetersAnglicanChurch-j3q 16 дней назад +3

    Brilliant! What great modeling of humility and thoughtful confidence! Keep going, young sage!

  • @TraceyODP
    @TraceyODP 9 дней назад +1

    You accomplished a handful of different things here, perhaps most meaningfully, you’re showing by example. I’ve watched the first sessions of the Girard series (with the others to follow) and I admit I flinched at the delivery, and smiled at the set, but it would be impossible to simply “sum up” the presentation as robotic or overly formal because at the very moment I’m noticing it, I’m recognizing I have been on both ends of the rehearsed presentation spectrum, feeling stiff when I’m over prepared or fearful of leaving out important points or missing the best articulation of them when I’m free-wheeling it. I love the walking videos and its nice to hear the comfort and spontaneity but there are some statements you make in the Girard series that are so well crafted, and which hold together so beautifully, I am glad you made sure to say them exactly because they brought the idea alive. They were more than accurate, they were concise and succinct in a memorable way. I also appreciate the time the two of you put in rehearsing. It’s a lot of work - I know. The other thing you did here was you took in the criticism with a good mix of vulnerability (open mindedness) and confidence, agreeing where you agreed but sticking with your choice for the purpose it served. You addressed the topic of managing criticism by saying “I’ll go first” then you tried on others perspective with curiosity but also with resilience. Well done. I don’t love the stiffness of the Girard presentations either but the quality of many of those statements and phrases makes me think you got it right doing them carefully rather than casually. As far as the set showing respect to the topic, I’m fine with that too. It’s worth dressing for. Thank you for the good work. I appreciate it.

    • @bi.johnathan
      @bi.johnathan  8 дней назад

      thanks for this Tracey :) I'm glad you resonated.

  • @chrisnielsen7450
    @chrisnielsen7450 16 дней назад

    Your content is high quality, well intended, and very enjoyable. Don’t let anyone get you down.

  • @concertoinx9070
    @concertoinx9070 16 дней назад

    I see this as a sensitivity-specificity problem: for detecting good criticism, the first half of the video talks about being specific, and the second half talks about being sensitive. The key assumption in the first is that we *are* able to make character judgements of other people. The assumption in the second half is that Amour-propre helps us more than it hurts us, even if it shares with reason the effect of giving you a different perspective. I think it's up to us to specifically know or at least make our own bets on who's likely to be worth listening to in different contexts, and to know which environments make Amour-propre a net positive.
    Regardless, simply giving nuance to the topic of receiving criticism is an important step. It helps me be patient and not rush to an emotional decision that I could regret later. I appreciate this video a lot.

  • @anibalalvarez3807
    @anibalalvarez3807 16 дней назад +4

    I love your content. I discovered your channel a bit ago and I'm getting caught up with your earlier videos.

  • @smusz
    @smusz 16 дней назад +1

    We all define our "good", it's what allows us to sleep. You are a fighter and shaman, you will change with your growth, do not pay attention to the noise young man -it's meant to distract you from your mission.

  • @arta6987
    @arta6987 15 дней назад +1

    Your cadence has bits of Michael Sugrue in his own famous video on Meditations. Hope that's a compliment. These walking casual videos are also so great please keep these up, truly a pleasure.

  • @awake8806
    @awake8806 16 дней назад

    Thank you for the ‘rant’. It’s good to hear you kept the settings, props, and the clothes. Most often, people don’t know the real reason they don’t resonate with a performance so they pick on elements that have nothing to do with these reasons. I don’t take a lot of pleasure from praises but criticisms really affects me more than they should

  • @user-iq9vx2wx8x
    @user-iq9vx2wx8x 15 дней назад +1

    I'll admit it took me several videos to warm to the style of presentation, both long and short forms, thinking them a bit too staged and detracting from the messages. Time restrictions gave me the limited times of only being able to listen while driving, and I enjoyed the content without the distractions. I'm now viewing again, but I am seeing the videos in a different light. Maybe it was my preconceptions about what to expect initially, but I appreciate them now. Thank you, please don't stop. 🙏❤

  • @Neonomide
    @Neonomide 16 дней назад +1

    Excellent points, agreed.

  • @victorramirez9197
    @victorramirez9197 15 дней назад

    My 2 cents
    The power of hate and evil must exist. It's tempting it's alluring it's easy it's seductive.
    The power of love and good and truth is difficult and a constant uphill battle. One cannot exist without the other.
    Thank you for your videos

  • @celinnesu
    @celinnesu 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this! Also I love your Girard lectures! It was tasteful and definitely fitting for the lecture

  • @enriqueaviles4130
    @enriqueaviles4130 15 дней назад

    I like the setting and the clothing. Don't listen to people's low quality opinions. Keep doing what you're doing with humility.

  • @AbrahamMapatano
    @AbrahamMapatano 14 дней назад

    It's usually a lack of peace within us that causes us to look outwards for disorder.

  • @Psyfertospsb
    @Psyfertospsb 16 дней назад +2

    It’s very cool that you practice what you preach so to speak. Philosophy not just as intellectual masturbation but as a tool for daily life. I like it my fellow Chinese brother.

  • @Essaia
    @Essaia 16 дней назад +1

    Just discovered you today, very cool channel, thanks for also posting your own reflections :) also i love the "i just gave a lecture on Marcus"😂

  • @isiddiqui5162
    @isiddiqui5162 16 дней назад

    Honestly, I'm so agreeable as a personality I wonder if I can ever totally stray from opinions of others being a significant part of my choices. If the pursuit of total IDGAF is really possible.
    A heuristic I use in the moment if I'm being attacked unfairly is..."if a dog barks at me on the road, do I bark back"

  • @friesNcoke
    @friesNcoke 16 дней назад +1

    Good stuff. Thanks!

  • @ObserverObserved24
    @ObserverObserved24 6 дней назад

    Excellent videos. Also we have to remember trbsferrence and projection. I.E. haters gonna hate. Lovers gonna love. Keep ot up Bro.

  • @NYCoinResearch
    @NYCoinResearch 15 дней назад

    Also, keep producing videos as you see fit. People fall in love with the style of their content creators. Hate just means you are producing things people care about.

  • @swinginsteel8519
    @swinginsteel8519 16 дней назад

    Seeing the hate you got on X reminded me why I’m so lucky I don’t have to share my knowledge or wisdom. That’s society’s loss, not mine.

  • @djparn007
    @djparn007 16 дней назад

    Thank you, Jonathan.

  • @lesleyblackner2323
    @lesleyblackner2323 16 дней назад

    People are really petty. It's easy to attack. As my step father used say, you aren't making a difference unless someone is ticked off at you.

  • @vorkiin1552
    @vorkiin1552 16 дней назад +1

    It would be interesting to learn about beauty, aesthetics and style from a philosophical point of view.

  • @Good2bBetter
    @Good2bBetter 9 дней назад

    Reminds me of Kipling's poem "If"

  • @Vampyr_000
    @Vampyr_000 16 дней назад +1

    I am often hated, and find myself struggling against the authorities of this world, I think I'm met with great resistance because of what I am capable of. Its like the god of this world or the god of the matrix doesn't like Man. To it, it is 666. The beast. the gods I think never liked Man. But Wisdom is our gift, to me it is a God and a liberator. Wisdom is powerful.

  • @meta-q8552
    @meta-q8552 16 дней назад +2

    he brother ! saw urs work on wittter fiirst ! one day i will meet u in person !

  • @shaunlindsey6467
    @shaunlindsey6467 16 дней назад

    The higher you go the harder you crash to the ground.

  • @carlumaliv
    @carlumaliv 13 дней назад

    Is the bluish tint on your videos a deliberate choice?
    I don't know I feel like it can be better without the filters but that's just me.
    Kudos to these types of videos- 'really enjoying the format.

  • @CarlosBernard0
    @CarlosBernard0 16 дней назад

    You're getting better at it

  • @HarmanKong
    @HarmanKong 16 дней назад

    Brilliant 👏

  • @sliceofloving
    @sliceofloving 9 дней назад

    I fw the swag dont let the haters phase u lmao

  • @adentroelviento
    @adentroelviento 16 дней назад

    Good one! (although don't you delight in praise) 😋
    'Most conflict is self-conflict. The circumstance doesn't produce pain: it reveals it'

  • @Marcus-Lim
    @Marcus-Lim 16 дней назад +1

    I like your sweater, looks soft

  • @Vampyr_000
    @Vampyr_000 16 дней назад +3

    Neitzche said he was most to be envied, even though he was the loneliest. Humans are sad creatures. They're full of envy. Even the angels attack Man. Man has too much authority when turned into a god.

  • @sliceofloving
    @sliceofloving 9 дней назад

    If they have to stoop low, to feel above you, theres more wrong w them than you.

  • @Californiansurfer
    @Californiansurfer 16 дней назад

    I graduated High school 1982. I worked at mechanic on cars and it was my passion, as I got older I wanted to learn more. 1990. I was majoring in psychology and remember taking a philosophy class and it open my eyes. The class challenged my religion and mind set.. Life experience is greatest teacher, living your life first then go to college later.
    PhD doesnt mean shit….. Life experience 😅😅

    • @Zack-xz1ph
      @Zack-xz1ph 16 дней назад

      I would if they didn't jack up tuition so much I'll never be able to pay it off

  • @PermaFrost810
    @PermaFrost810 6 дней назад

    I was surprised by the vicious negative comments on the Shorts I read on your channel. The longer videos require attention and thought so that should tell you something about the commentor. It’s so easy to judge.

  • @ANoirsurblanc
    @ANoirsurblanc 16 дней назад

    this one is correctly titled, as usual ; only the other two small ones are bizarrely titled, as if their titles corresponded to your camera's standard archive name

  • @ChenRuoyu-s3n
    @ChenRuoyu-s3n 7 дней назад

    BTW, 好喜欢运镜~ 兜一些哲学的圈圈❤ 散步帮助我思考~

  • @BarelyProfitable
    @BarelyProfitable 16 дней назад

    Nah I don’t think it was robotic, it was good 👍🏻

  • @wex2808
    @wex2808 13 дней назад

    nice video

  • @jeremyjackson7429
    @jeremyjackson7429 16 дней назад +9

    Honestly, I find many of the "Greats" to be overrated. It’s highly unlikely that half the greatest minds in philosophy just all happened to be concentrated in Ancient Greece. More realistically, their influence is a result of historical preservation and cultural dominance rather than unparalleled brilliance. Plenty of philosophers from other continents & time periods that never get talked about because they weren't at the right place at the right time.

  • @demikeproductions
    @demikeproductions 16 дней назад

    Can anyone link me to Jonathan’s talks or videos on Seneca. I thought I heard him say in the Marcus Aurelius lecture that he had some videos on Seneca. If you see this Jonathan - New follower and I truly enjoy your perspectives on philosophy

  • @IanSachs-de8ry
    @IanSachs-de8ry 16 дней назад

    Where’s that jacket from, it looks great

  • @theconservativeone2690
    @theconservativeone2690 15 дней назад

    When men didn't have an answer to Death and suffering, they formulated the story of God. And when some people don't have a response to criticism they formulate this kind of story of HANDLING.

  • @MorganShalom-y7l
    @MorganShalom-y7l 16 дней назад

    The Giradian lectures really required high concentration, but the aesthetic, the dress code were 🔥.
    Am always looking out in your comment section too, I would be very glad to see some "light hearted" comments and hopefully some humor as well😋🫡

  • @mikailmaqsood818
    @mikailmaqsood818 15 дней назад

    is this at Cornell University's North Campus? I can recognize that area!!

  • @warriorhealer
    @warriorhealer 13 дней назад

    If someone doesn't like the setting of your choice, they should stop watching your videos and watch something else in casuals. Accept that your videos are not for them. For me, I love watching your videos. I'm sure they are many who do so too. Keep making videos however you want. Even if you have just 10 audience members listening to you attentively, that's more important than a thousand people who are just doomscrolling.

  • @LostChantz
    @LostChantz 16 дней назад +2

    What are you doing at Cornell? Guest lecture?

    • @jtmwanakhu
      @jtmwanakhu 16 дней назад

      I was wondering where this beautiful campus is

  • @NYCoinResearch
    @NYCoinResearch 15 дней назад +1

    Why the difference between comments of short term and long term? With long term, people care to listen to you for at least 1 hour. To spend that amount of time, people must care. 10 to 15 minutes isn't much commitment of time. It just changes the composition of your audience. Still love your content nonetheless.

  • @ZACLIPS_7
    @ZACLIPS_7 9 дней назад

    From where to start philosophy, any book?

  • @devonnorris1586
    @devonnorris1586 16 дней назад

    I wonder if you ever get tempted to say something stupid 😂

  • @sifisomahlangu3986
    @sifisomahlangu3986 16 дней назад

    If it's not from me don't take it seriously

  • @jol166
    @jol166 14 дней назад

    Handsome 😍🥰😘

  • @abcd123906
    @abcd123906 16 дней назад

    People who hate you are just jealous 😂 “Resentment!” Nietzsche.

  • @chrischaves5116
    @chrischaves5116 15 дней назад

    What campus did you fill this on Jonathan?

  • @theeyesofanimmigrant4442
    @theeyesofanimmigrant4442 16 дней назад

    Do you know how to properly deal with the Cold?

  • @Max-xn2dq
    @Max-xn2dq 16 дней назад

    Be right back I need to add my totally legit oxford degree and jane street internship to my profile so my critique has validity /s 😆

  • @seansmith7256
    @seansmith7256 16 дней назад +2

    this video makes me want to wear a suit😂

  • @MorganShalom-y7l
    @MorganShalom-y7l 16 дней назад

    People here, can anyone briefly take me through the relationship between philosophy and suffering. Or thinking and suffering.
    Thanks

  • @simossosias3727
    @simossosias3727 16 дней назад

    Cultivate Apathy, it brings νηνεμία. Since you plan to learn Greek check Epicurus and the Stoics again.

  • @trungguqin1578
    @trungguqin1578 15 дней назад

    🟡🔵🔴

  • @tonyhathuc
    @tonyhathuc 16 дней назад

    6th comment!

  • @ScottKuruFreedom
    @ScottKuruFreedom 15 дней назад +1

    Love the video but you really need some chapstick man.

  • @Zack-xz1ph
    @Zack-xz1ph 16 дней назад

    so you don't consider Stoicism "cope" anymore?

  • @Bibbo8844hdbks
    @Bibbo8844hdbks 15 дней назад

    Yeah, but what are you gonna do about your face?

  • @chrisnielsen7450
    @chrisnielsen7450 16 дней назад

    Your content is high quality, well intended, and very enjoyable. Don’t let anyone get you down.