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  • @MisterSinister47
    @MisterSinister47 22 дня назад +958

    It was on the horizon when Malcolm-X said "Black folks are the only group that calls their Entertainers LEADERS. Other groups don't do that."

    • @K2daMFG
      @K2daMFG 21 день назад +37

      So Reagan and Trump don't ring a bell?

    • @tishie42
      @tishie42 21 день назад +72

      But those 2 actually became political and became leaders. They carry both titles. Just a singer doesn't carry both titles. 😊​@@K2daMFG

    • @K2daMFG
      @K2daMFG 21 день назад +25

      @@tishie42 Reagan wasn't a leader and Trump definitely isn't.
      Cut it out.

    • @krisguyton05
      @krisguyton05 21 день назад

      Lol if the media lies about you constantly and numerous people in the corrupt government want to see you punished or dead…. That usually is a good indicator that they are problem on the right side of history…. Trump is better than what we have in congress and senate and the White House at the moment.

    • @Han78711
      @Han78711 21 день назад

      ​@@K2daMFGpull your pants up and go steal something.

  • @klb9142
    @klb9142 23 дня назад +1126

    I second that motion. I have been long tired of it. I am black, and dirt poor, but have never carried myself in the way that is promoted in black culture. Poverty is not a reason to act like boo boo the fool.

    • @robinly
      @robinly 23 дня назад +29

      Nice. Very nice. I like that.

    • @MinkaSchlossberger4ever
      @MinkaSchlossberger4ever 23 дня назад

      You talk about Yourself as dirt poor. You are decent and intelligent!!! Don t put Yourself down!!! The big Companies have their share in the problem...showing black people mostly as gangster, super-pimp or super-prostitute!!! I am aware, that....like the Kardashians....these are just a few ....but to impressionable young kids, they seem to be the ,,Creme de la Creme" of the US. I like to see good series, movies and musicians with and about black people !!! If You know, and can recommend some, please give examples! I would appreaciate them, and stream them !!!! Regards

    • @1coketogo554
      @1coketogo554 23 дня назад +81

      I'm not black, I'm old. I have spent the greatest part of my life dirt poor too. There were many times for years we were lucky if we could afford to eat 2-3 times a week. Still we wouldn't have taken even an apple that fell of a tree in someone's yard. I get real tired of people saying poverty causes crime.

    • @reactions_with_will
      @reactions_with_will 23 дня назад +20

      Ok this is very simple, we need to consider crimes of desperation. Just think about the video im not racist, "im trying to find a job and ain't nobody call me back yet, now I gotta sell drugs to put food in the cabinets" and this goes for everyone living in poverty. I hope you guys don't think this is solely a problem with black people. We do all the same stuff. Also everyone has the right to be themselves. A person's race does not determine how they should act. Michelleshow actually got mad because Mrlboyd doesn't act ghetto enough, which is a good example of what we're talking about here. We gotta stop focusing so much on race. You do you mrlboyd, hopefully everyone here agrees.

    • @annemiller8227
      @annemiller8227 23 дня назад +43

      Saying you have to steal to eat is just an excuse.
      There are food banks
      There is the SNAP program
      I have been on welfare.
      It's not much and I was VERY poor but I wasn't hungry
      I just couldn't buy a lot
      And food banks don't check your income
      ANYONE can go.
      It's a pitiful selection to be sure
      And you get some WEIRD stuff (canned white asparagus was probably the weirdest I got)
      But I also have lived in 3rd world country.
      If you are hungry NOTHING is too weird or bad to eat unless it's spoiled

  • @bsdguy
    @bsdguy 12 дней назад +46

    She is 1000% right!

  • @ClickyPen0101
    @ClickyPen0101 19 дней назад +141

    I'm a British Caribbean black woman and I'm raising my daughter to think like this wonderful young lady.

    • @phutureproof
      @phutureproof 12 дней назад +4

      Hello fellow British person :) Im a white bloke just so you know, my view on all things is that there are good people and there are bad people, and both of those groups come in all colours and flavours, have a great day and I hope you and your daughter are enjoying the weekend.

    • @cuspofbeauty1402
      @cuspofbeauty1402 4 дня назад +2

      You should encourage your daughter to have original thought, not think like some random girl on the internet who’s being indoctrinated to think like the European. Do better

    • @ClickyPen0101
      @ClickyPen0101 4 дня назад +3

      @@cuspofbeauty1402 No, I'll teach her to respect herself and conduct herself like a lady. She'll treat people the way she'd like to be treated herself.

    • @cuspofbeauty1402
      @cuspofbeauty1402 3 дня назад +1

      Good. It’s one thing when other races come for the ones who are still trying to find their way. It hits different when it’s one of our own blasting us in this light. Be safe out there

    • @paulbucklebuckle4921
      @paulbucklebuckle4921 2 дня назад +2

      Hello from Somerset 😊

  • @BlendedBarbieDoll
    @BlendedBarbieDoll 22 дня назад +473

    This woman is not alone. We stand in agreement and we are tired.

    • @ralft
      @ralft 21 день назад +12

      So let's do something about it. We need a strong movement to counter the narrative

    • @michaeldupree6302
      @michaeldupree6302 20 дней назад

      I agree, our ethnic identity is straight trash

    • @lesliejones7348
      @lesliejones7348 19 дней назад +2

      You got that right 👍

    • @ssgss4iammacabeefu_
      @ssgss4iammacabeefu_ 19 дней назад +5

      Righteousness prospers a nation but wickedness utterly destroys it.

    • @Eiramilah
      @Eiramilah 19 дней назад +1

      It doesn't help that the media eats it up

  • @latanyarucker9091
    @latanyarucker9091 23 дня назад +440

    She tired of it and I am tired of it

    • @dontelindsey5846
      @dontelindsey5846 21 день назад +10

      It's embarrassing tbh. I've taught at several schools and they assume I'm the assistant or the janitor. I'm really tired of it.

    • @jakerolley6018
      @jakerolley6018 21 день назад +3

      So am i...

    • @mickymelton5623
      @mickymelton5623 21 день назад +5

      Pull your pants up and act like you got some sense. BM in North Carolina USA 👏🏿 👏🏿✊🏿

    • @_G1g1_Sw33tz
      @_G1g1_Sw33tz 20 дней назад +2

      I may not be black but I have been so sick & tired of it because I go to a school where some people there always act ghetto

    • @NextWorldVR
      @NextWorldVR 19 дней назад +3

      She _is_ tired of it. If you're going to speak a language you should do it correctly. Otherwise, why didn't you say: "I tired of it"? You pick and choose when to use modifiers? Sometimes yes, sometimes no? All or nothing. With Language, with Ghetto, with Life.

  • @CeresOutpost
    @CeresOutpost 15 дней назад +66

    IMO - American Culture in general is deteriorating. Our country is rotting from the inside out because people are miserable toward each other.

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 11 дней назад +3

      Pushed by our government!!

    • @Joyce-zl4qd
      @Joyce-zl4qd 10 дней назад +3

      democrat culture

    • @RickMcGuire-bl2vs
      @RickMcGuire-bl2vs 10 дней назад +4

      Obama was the first major divider and that type of politics and poor leading has poured gas on it.

    • @truck_yeah_440
      @truck_yeah_440 4 дня назад

      Wrong. White communities aren't deteriorating. Just take a drive out into the suburbs. Seriously. Only black communities.

    • @actually5004
      @actually5004 2 дня назад

      @@RickMcGuire-bl2vs He had a lot of semitic help.

  • @meed8738
    @meed8738 21 день назад +66

    My husband and I said the same thing. We watched this video and both were like “I’m glad someone has finally said it”. Mind you we are both black American

  • @belleami7675
    @belleami7675 21 день назад +389

    HALLELUJAH!!! 🖐🏾 Black folks with sense, culture, morality, manners and decorum STAND UP!

  • @loveyouamyw
    @loveyouamyw 23 дня назад +262

    The Young Lady is Absolutely Correct.

  • @csmith9248
    @csmith9248 21 день назад +38

    “ I need a soldier “ “ gotta get a ruff neck” Independent. We let the music industry tell our young men to be thugs and our young ladies to be uppity and mouthy and only respect money.

    • @uncleruckusnorelation6705
      @uncleruckusnorelation6705 20 дней назад +2

      uppity women are not mouthy or a baby mama

    • @csmith9248
      @csmith9248 17 дней назад

      @@uncleruckusnorelation6705 😳

    • @spillaking
      @spillaking 3 дня назад +2

      We don't have organizations to produce positive content

    • @bezzyranx9839
      @bezzyranx9839 2 дня назад

      They’ve taught our women to be materialistic whores that’s what’s happened!!

    • @jasminlove3251
      @jasminlove3251 21 час назад

      @@spillakingwe can still as a collective can stop supporting mainstream artist and and support conscious rappers and music artists that are self made.

  • @senectutecato3987
    @senectutecato3987 20 дней назад +92

    I am a retired teacher of English (White). Most of my 35 years of teaching took place in Harlem and the East New York section of Brooklyn. I always had very talented students who would do poorly in class, or on test. Every time I would talk to them about it, I received the same answer: "I don't want my friends calling me Acting White". That is a cultural problem.

    • @RickMcGuire-bl2vs
      @RickMcGuire-bl2vs 10 дней назад +1

      They wanted the bar set so low that they would not need to put out any effort.

    • @mskaiser33
      @mskaiser33 9 дней назад +2

      That is why I sent my children to predominantly white school because I wanted them to know that playing with Legos and playing cello the cello is normal. My children didn't ingest rap music that did not reflect true depiction of the black experiences.

    • @JeezWhiz1
      @JeezWhiz1 4 дня назад +4

      I'm a retired black teacher who taught in Harlem. That 'acting white' criticism is an example of crabs in a barrel.

    • @RickMcGuire-bl2vs
      @RickMcGuire-bl2vs 4 дня назад +1

      @@JeezWhiz1 Not sure what you mean,could you be specific? That expression is new to me.

    • @gregorylatta8159
      @gregorylatta8159 3 дня назад

      The absurd implication is that education is a white thing.

  • @Stanwize
    @Stanwize 23 дня назад +553

    The reason its so disproportionate is becuase the culture generates a ridiculous amount of money. If the communities stoped buying this garbage and chose to eschew materialism and hedonism we would all be in a very different place.

    • @Dakingsnake
      @Dakingsnake 23 дня назад

      It doesnt matter because theyve commercialized so much of black life that other cultures graft onto
      It promote and project it while being completely insulated from the reality and economic basis for it

    • @eyelessnosea1413
      @eyelessnosea1413 23 дня назад +6

      Si it's everyone else's fault??

    • @sailirish7
      @sailirish7 23 дня назад +29

      @@eyelessnosea1413 I don't think he is implying there is no place for personal responsibility here, just that it's very difficult to swim upstream.

    • @Dakingsnake
      @Dakingsnake 23 дня назад

      @@eyelessnosea1413 isnt your reason for fleeing your country like a coward your own fault? Not the cartels or your governments?

    • @MBNHedger
      @MBNHedger 22 дня назад +47

      Rephrase. A ridiculous amount of money is generated from the culture. You get a handful of rappers and athletes and a slightly larger handful of criminal agents that make any thing even resembling "wealth." Add them all together... a few thousand people that could be considered "rich" by living that lifestyle. None of them attaining anything lasting.
      Everyone else trying it is self-destructively poor... but that doesnt stop the imagery of said lifestyle being sold, globally. Its not just black communities that need to stop buying into that culture. Its not just black communities that need to eschew materialism and hedonism. Its just that the black community is used as the icon of these specific cultural ales and has internalized these specific aspects as the entirety of their cultural contribution.

  • @bernicejohnson1732
    @bernicejohnson1732 23 дня назад +268

    I’m a black American baby boomers and what I see on tv shows it’s like I can’t relate I’ve never been in a community that act like this , most people are working and have no time for this crap nor want to indulge in it .

    • @marylacken4016
      @marylacken4016 22 дня назад

      I am german and experienced black culture only on social media and mainstream media. And yes, I thought all african americans were just these crazy half naked ghetto people.
      Now I have been to the US and all I have seen were very decent well educated black people. They were " acting white" as I was told.
      Thank you for putting it right.

    • @lesliejones7348
      @lesliejones7348 21 день назад +4

      I'm a boomer to but we lost these last two generations unfortunately so we gotta use tuff luv at this point no matter what if we're serious enough to do what's got to be done to make a correction!!

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 21 день назад +8

      I'm a millennial and feel lost. I grew up where most adults were born in the early 70s and prior. The undesirables existed, but it didn't seem as prevalent before.

    • @lesliejones7348
      @lesliejones7348 20 дней назад +1

      @@tias.6675 exactly correct!!👍

    • @NextWorldVR
      @NextWorldVR 19 дней назад +2

      ​@@tias.6675 Exactly, (i am Gen X) ... Undesirables were one or two out of ten. Now they seem like 5-6 out of ten. I saw an Asian/Pacific islander sort of guy with his pants hanging off his butt yesterday. I literally looked down at the ground and shook my head in disbelief.

  • @the5thhouse_
    @the5thhouse_ 20 дней назад +35

    Cheers Sis! Thanks for speaking up. 🙏🏼👍🏼👏🏽
    And Candace Owens got a lot of heat from black media outlets /celebrities/ the black community and she's been saying this for at least the last 8 years

  • @Abednego504
    @Abednego504 20 дней назад +41

    Question is, why is the black community (as a whole) so afraid to rise up against it? 🤔

    • @soshady9572
      @soshady9572 20 дней назад

      Indeed.

    • @merrymeadow5226
      @merrymeadow5226 19 дней назад +5

      Because snitches get Stitches or shot in a drive by…And don’t talk to detectives or police to solve cases.

    • @soshady9572
      @soshady9572 19 дней назад

      @@merrymeadow5226 ,what a garbage way to live.
      Living in fear of the lunatic criminals living everywhere around you.

    • @engineerandy7
      @engineerandy7 18 дней назад +7

      @@merrymeadow5226 You do agree that "labeling" good neighbors and concerned citizens as "snitches" is a weak and subhuman way to justify ones, "mental illness" right?

    • @gotmesom
      @gotmesom 16 дней назад +8

      cause then they say they actin yt. LOL can't make this stuff up. It's almost like they dont want to do better, they want to be worse.

  • @jenny-im9gc
    @jenny-im9gc 23 дня назад +188

    She is right. There are many well achieved, educated, married black couples and women out here. Yet they view us all on the same negative narrative.

    • @OlliGarch
      @OlliGarch 22 дня назад +13

      As a white man I agree with you. I know many very outstanding black people who are great people and have made a good life for themselves. I look up to them. I made a lot of mistakes in my younger days and am still feeling the repercussions. ❤❤❤

    • @nw6866
      @nw6866 22 дня назад +18

      It's all they see because look at what is promoted. The media goes for the drama to make it look like it's representative of us all. I hate not being treated individually, especially when I'm grouped because our sub culture's voice is louder than the actual black culture which honestly is different depending on where and how you were raised. It's almost like success is frowned on. You have people like Diddy and rappers promoting the thug culture in music and pushing black women who are not indicative of most black women as being representative what is supposed to be desirable. That term our own worst enemy certainly jumps out. The victim mentality has to go and the enablers need to realize how much harm they are doing. When people see black people constantly being arrested or acting stupid over and over, they tend to start generalizing. The regular black people need to be louder because the sub culture and self-appointed leaders who never call out the bad and only care when a white person does something to a black person have taken over for far too long. The damage is irrevocable.

    • @OlliGarch
      @OlliGarch 22 дня назад +1

      @@nw6866 well said. Thank you. ✌️✌️✌️❤️❤️❤️. We must all come together with love and try to change this.

    • @christophjohnson3777
      @christophjohnson3777 22 дня назад

      Married successful black folk are "acting white" according to the narrative.

    • @thedowagerd.2431
      @thedowagerd.2431 21 день назад +7

      I became aware of the successful Black middle class through high end magazines like Towne and Country. They LIVE! LOL!

  • @michaelpettersson4919
    @michaelpettersson4919 23 дня назад +748

    Your problem is indeed that a tiny subculture are allowed to represent all black culture. That isn't right.

    • @KirkLee1983
      @KirkLee1983 23 дня назад +82

      Tiny?! It's like 90%. Everyday I get on youtube they are all over the news BIG TIME.

    • @reactions_with_will
      @reactions_with_will 23 дня назад +42

      Your absolutely right, as mass shooters are way more likely to be white, but that isn't a good representation of white people. They ain't doing that because there white, and black people aren't being lawless because there black. A lot of people focus to much on race. What we should be talking about, is the society they came from. Not saying there not responsible for there own actions of course. But we also have to consider what led them down That path. The movie Gran Torino, is a great example of that. If he had grown up in a different society, he probably would have never tried to steel anyone's car. And even consider joining a gang.

    • @chesterlestrange7725
      @chesterlestrange7725 23 дня назад +27

      Tiny?

    • @Cars_and_Games
      @Cars_and_Games 23 дня назад

      ​@@chesterlestrange7725 Yes, tiny. Or you all inbred school shooters? (You aren't)

    • @jonny5143
      @jonny5143 23 дня назад

      ​@@reactions_with_willactually most mass shooters are black based on the statistics of shooting 4 or more people.

  • @mymommalife8259
    @mymommalife8259 15 дней назад +10

    I also feel this same way towards my Hispanic and Latino culture.

  • @user-fh5yv1wq3g
    @user-fh5yv1wq3g 16 дней назад +8

    She's 100% right ! Popular African-American culture derived from the projects.. which was popularized and glorify through rap and hip-hop culture. Which turned African-American communities Across America into one big projects.

    • @TyrantsAlwaysPerish
      @TyrantsAlwaysPerish 23 минуты назад

      But who paid those rappers and made that art form make violence and hood activities popular?

  • @louie5187
    @louie5187 23 дня назад +299

    She has a valid point. It’s a shame you can’t vocalize this very positive black message.
    I feel her frustration. Very bright young lady. Great content.

    • @mikerichmond7973
      @mikerichmond7973 23 дня назад +1

      It's the female half of the account typing. But, we both completely agree.

    • @ilongfordarkness
      @ilongfordarkness 23 дня назад +6

      Yeah you have to be able to criticize. We probably aren't going to wish away gang trash behavior from getting a lot of views, but on the flip side we need to be able to say: that's not most people and that's not cool. It's not culture it's trash and criminal. It's this moral and cultural relativism that's infested everything. No its isn't just part of the beautiful rainbow of cultures that places in the middle east will stone women for going outside without a male relative. Its barbaric. People, imo need to be able to say it like it is, you might not agree but we don't have to pretend everything is equal all the time.

    • @Bundalaba
      @Bundalaba 22 дня назад

      The real trouble is they are targeting YOUTH while mass training the WEAK MINDED .
      Trouble is during the Islamophobic propaganda you guys QUIET or even part of it, but NOW you understand .
      So can we finally stand together as people facing manipulative oppression ?

    • @genejohnson3508
      @genejohnson3508 22 дня назад

      The African-American Culture is going the way of The Dodo because of immigration -- whether it be legal immigration, illegal immigration or chain migration . . We simply will hold no significance -- societal and political -- in the eyes of too many people in this country . . . .

    • @oyeoye5037
      @oyeoye5037 22 дня назад +2

      If everyone voices this opinion, they can’t stop everyone…

  • @lisaqualls5719
    @lisaqualls5719 22 дня назад +103

    I concur with her message. I get tired of being bullied for calling out this trash behavior.

    • @T00124
      @T00124 19 дней назад

      Agreed. Where I’m from, Delaware and Southern Chester County, PA, it is “part of the plan” for yt and mixed Latino folk to disagree and look down on calling it out when one of us says something.

  • @pmonpl
    @pmonpl 20 дней назад +13

    She is correct, we've allowed trauma and bad behavior to become qualifier for blackness, we also celebrate them as being normal and real. Its exhausting trying to explain that hood behavior does not constitute realnes but rudeness and lack of social training. I miss the days when women and men practiced social decorum. Everything she said is on point.

  • @Demsky83
    @Demsky83 20 дней назад +16

    We don’t control the media but we can definitely control our own behaviors.

    • @GoldSkye
      @GoldSkye 19 дней назад +1

      Time to be questioning of messages and agendas.

    • @Mike_H76
      @Mike_H76 15 дней назад

      Hell yes, and question mindsets and narratives too!

    • @anng7514
      @anng7514 15 дней назад

      Indeed, personal responsibility.

  • @APilgrimInAFallenWorld2030
    @APilgrimInAFallenWorld2030 23 дня назад +114

    The only way to stop the worst from being your representative, is to shine light on the best and condemn and shame the worst!

    • @sharonsmith4245
      @sharonsmith4245 23 дня назад +5

      Absolutely!!! Good insight, excellent plan of action!

    • @AB1B1
      @AB1B1 22 дня назад +10

      Easier said than done, especially when you own no major media outlets.

    • @vmbay2212
      @vmbay2212 22 дня назад

      Black folks didn’t Own any of the Media Outlets back during the civil rights movement and word of mouth did plenty for us

    • @draahpsquad3592
      @draahpsquad3592 22 дня назад +8

      Starts with BET...and black radio. It's at gutter levels and we keep supporting...

    • @draahpsquad3592
      @draahpsquad3592 22 дня назад +7

      ​@AB1B1 not consuming what they are serving is the only way.

  • @travisdavis3816
    @travisdavis3816 23 дня назад +130

    This message needs to be spread

    • @T.Harry79
      @T.Harry79 23 дня назад +6

      On multiple platforms aside from RUclips.

    • @essenceofauset7272
      @essenceofauset7272 23 дня назад +2

      To have an honest conversation would be to hold a lot of Black People with influence to that same standard.
      We have the Religious Leaders connected to immorality
      We have the political figures in bed with the government
      We have the teachers being replaced by grifters.
      Are we really judging people by their character or by their presentation?

    • @itsgreat7150
      @itsgreat7150 22 дня назад

      Let’s be honest. This You Tube will be forgetting as soon as we turn it off. And everything returns back to the same old same old.
      Babies out of wedlock.
      Black people deleting each other.
      Black calling each other the N-word on all platforms.
      White people saying black people dislike each other more than we dislike them.

  • @penna1778
    @penna1778 20 дней назад +17

    What this young lady is saying it’s absolutely true , I’m a old lady and threw out my life the black community I see in California has gotten worse and worse .. destroying there own neighborhoods treating there children mean but just I seen and could never understand why.

  • @catiecatylee
    @catiecatylee 13 дней назад +6

    About time someone finally spoke the truth…society is done with all the excuses…people judge people by their actions and behaviors, not what their skin color is. Time to just be a normal responsible human being with good values…

  • @GutPyle
    @GutPyle 23 дня назад +217

    I live in a predominantly black neighborhood. None of my black neighbors present themselves as the "culture' we are force-fed nonstop via media. They are peaceful, hardworking people proud of their homes, and I just don't see the behavior we're told is prevalent.

    • @sharonsmith4245
      @sharonsmith4245 23 дня назад

      Right....that's because water seeks it's own level, and fortunately you my friend live upstream. Birds of a feather flock together....and of course the biggest of the chicken heads are those promoting this degenerative display....the bottom feeders that they are. Hopefully, they never come to a neighborhood near you.

    • @mikelarry2602
      @mikelarry2602 22 дня назад +4

      Why do you tolerate the media ?

    • @dangreene3895
      @dangreene3895 22 дня назад +14

      My sister and brother in law live in a very upper class neighborhood , which is primarily black and it is not in that neighborhood either . Oh yeah I'm white , which I guess you probably figured out .

    • @MastaRankynz
      @MastaRankynz 22 дня назад +29

      Now go to the predominantly Black HUD housing neighborhood and let me know what that looks like.

    • @draahpsquad3592
      @draahpsquad3592 22 дня назад +11

      Until the hordes show up at spring break...or grand openings. It's real.

  • @carolperkins1070
    @carolperkins1070 23 дня назад +201

    she is right,I don't watch blacks acting that way.

    • @sirennoir258
      @sirennoir258 22 дня назад +2

      You find yourself not looking at much black media at a huh.

    • @djaytv1621
      @djaytv1621 22 дня назад

      @@sirennoir258hell yeah it’s fucking stupid the sexy reds n stuff

    • @agentblack3090
      @agentblack3090 22 дня назад +6

      We find ourselves not being able to decipher your poorly constructed sentence.

    • @anthonyhosea8780
      @anthonyhosea8780 22 дня назад

      ​@@sirennoir258​​ How'd u fail at both being an asshole troll & completing a full sentence?? 🤔😆 CHOP!!
      U know damn well what she was saying. She doesn't see everyday blk ppl acting like they do in blk media. Period.

    • @koolsmoothfan
      @koolsmoothfan 21 день назад +3

      facts, she is correct

  • @bleedwolf5
    @bleedwolf5 21 день назад +21

    The images of us being Savages hold the race back!

    • @naijabaeade
      @naijabaeade 17 дней назад

      I don’t think it was intended as a joke but by far the most hilarious comment 😂 and it’s not worth addressing to me because I’d have to do so to an audience of the opinion that our image within race is at issue rather than the motive for and institutionalization of race being at issue.
      Somewhere, we lost them folks, our right minds. The minds that the first freed people had and maintained right through the middle 20th centuries. Minds capable of sculpting the society all U.S. residents live in, despite opposition, on a dignified level of policy and without conformity and most successfully-together. What happened? What is happening beloved that in this hour we’re solely focused on advancement through conformity as if we’re too thick to comprehend that the entire blueprint and policy within WAS FORMED for the sole purpose of disadvantaging us 😂 I mean a disadvantaged population striving for advancement within the population that disadvantages them based on the blueprint created for this purpose INSANITY and we turn on each other too…
      I mean if I’m a racist white man who stumbles upon this video I’m as happy as slave owner bidding on an auction block because you lot sound wayyyyyyy more lost than the enslaved Africans I sat back and had build blueprint I’d enslave them in…
      Think about what you’re saying: Suki with the good coocie is socioeconomically holding you back 😁 in what way? Also google her net worth 😁 if this woman’s actions and others like her or even the net worth of the most God Awful black rappers… are what’s holding us back as a race… well than we’re not 💩 to begin with and we deserve to be set back!!
      Cowardess, Ignorance and Polarization have never and will never promote advancement for ‘our race’.
      Lemme get off this video I see I’ve accidentally stumbled into the old world of front porches and lemonade conversation as the world is in shambles 🥴😅

    • @kurt1391
      @kurt1391 11 дней назад

      No, it's not the perception that is the issue--it's the reality that is the problem. The stats , crime and otherwise, don't lie. The media, if anything, try to hide the race of the perps. Some why guy shoots up a mall, and it's all over the place, but some black guy does it, and crickets. There really is a ghetto problem, and when (if) that gets solved, the race won't be held back.

    • @RickMcGuire-bl2vs
      @RickMcGuire-bl2vs 10 дней назад +1

      Those smash n grab videos on every towns local news aint helping w that.

    • @GeorgeSoroshasenteredthechat
      @GeorgeSoroshasenteredthechat 6 дней назад +1

      @@RickMcGuire-bl2vs Yep, yet to see a gang of other races pulling that shite.

  • @58frascatti
    @58frascatti 21 день назад +17

    OMG! I’ve been thinking the same thing about white culture! Could it be possible that normal people of ALL cultures have bought the biggest lie imaginable? Maybe we ‘normies’ have allowed ourselves to believe that the loud trash is actually representative of the MAJORITY of us? God bless that young woman for saying it out loud. We white people are rather out of fashion nowadays, and the ones I do see on social media I wouldn’t be caught dead with. But the people I know and live amongst are just plain, good, hardworking people who are afraid to speak plainly for fear of being caught in the damn trip wires that surround us. When did we surrender the high ground to these idiots? That lady’s inspirational, and so are you for platforming her. Thank you both.

  • @chompachangas
    @chompachangas 21 день назад +74

    I get a sense that American culture in general has been deteriorating, but it affects different groups different ways. Great vid.

    • @Mike_H76
      @Mike_H76 15 дней назад +1

      Looked at your page to see if you are American... so entirely off topic, but I'd watch an hour long video of that adorable pup shredding cardboard! Give Skeeter some belly rubs from me, please!

    • @chompachangas
      @chompachangas 15 дней назад +1

      @@Mike_H76 Thanks, he's the best boy!

    • @dr.paulramphal1474
      @dr.paulramphal1474 12 дней назад +1

      Mike, may I respectfully ask you why it would matter if he was American or not, given the observational aspect of his comment? Do you think that the rest of the world is not capable of making valid observations about American culture, given the ubiquitous and invasive nature of your culture?

    • @Mike_H76
      @Mike_H76 11 дней назад

      @@dr.paulramphal1474
      Absolutely. Our political figureheads and the media narrative are not representative of the "boots on the ground" life of your average American. Add in the immature, ignorant, and arrogant "social" media comments and it looks like we're all a bunch of savages running around with machine guns committing mass murders.
      I wouldn't say that the eyes on us is because we're intentionally invasive. In a large part, I'd much rather people did NOT watch what is going on here. We have our imperfections like anywhere else, but they are amplified under a microscope.

    • @Mike_H76
      @Mike_H76 11 дней назад +1

      @@dr.paulramphal1474
      On that note, I'd kindly ask that you refrain from words with more than two syllables... umbiquietalness??? Kidding, though the idea that we are horribly uneducated is also pervasive. I could give a couple of examples of distorted media representation (mass shootings, mostly) but you're a doctor so you probably know and I trust the visage of everything that everyone presents on the interwebs!

  • @BayonneJoe35
    @BayonneJoe35 23 дня назад +102

    She has a great point. I want to speak to my own experience. I am Italian. The Mob and The Mafia were pushed heavily as I was growing up. So, what did I want to be as I was growing up? It sent me down a bad path, especially because I lacked a strong role model to look up to. I made a lot of mistakes influenced by outside forces. I take all responsibility for anything I have done but you are very impressionable when you are young, and it took a hold of me. It took a lot of rock bottom for me to wake up.

    • @Uriahsgrandma
      @Uriahsgrandma 21 день назад +1

      I never felt that black women were heard properly.

    • @jeromethames1225
      @jeromethames1225 21 день назад +2

      @@Uriahsgrandmahuh. All y’all did was shit on BM all throughout the 80’s. Now it’s our turn to step up

    • @Uriahsgrandma
      @Uriahsgrandma 17 дней назад

      @@jeromethames1225 who you mean y’all? Do you know me? Boy) go play in traffic.

  • @Commo_Chief
    @Commo_Chief 14 дней назад +5

    Whether we want to admit it or not, we are perpetuating the image too much. We need to change. They aren’t going to do it for us. It’s on us. And I’m tired of seeing it too.

  • @matthewheupel8960
    @matthewheupel8960 14 дней назад +3

    America absolutely NEEDS more people like her standing up and saying "that's not black culture". As a white man who lives in a predominantly white area, it's easy to forget that what we see in the media doesn't accurately represent the truth. I'm not racist, but I don't want to be surrounded by what I'm seeing in the media, that's why I live in the boonies. I'm sure I represent a lot of others too. What makes societies work is common values. Forcing acceptance of differences will always fail without common values. And if our common values are being drowned out by what makes it into the media then there isn't much hope. I love your channel and I applaud this girl for voicing her opinion. We need more of this if we're going to get past this stupid race issue.

  • @trent5501
    @trent5501 22 дня назад +73

    as a black man she's absolute right , its the new minstrel show it its mostly our people who are the show runners.

    • @misslady5029
      @misslady5029 22 дня назад +2

      That's exactly what it is today! Unfortunately, we can't escape the same narrative of our forefathers. One of us represents all of us! Trust me, we're not all the same....😢

    • @LadyIarConnacht
      @LadyIarConnacht 21 день назад +3

      You know, that's a good point. The original minstrels were very much honored and well-paid. Black face started because pioneer towns weren't wealthy enough to attract actual black minstrel shows. But I wonder how many people thought the minstrels were important leaders and that we should all imitate them. Didn't we know they were only entertainers, and when did that change?

    • @user-dk3up2nl1m
      @user-dk3up2nl1m 20 дней назад

      I like when girls twerk it!

    • @GoldSkye
      @GoldSkye 19 дней назад +4

      Black folks tend to be very easily influenced and propagandized. You see it in our obsession with brands like Nike and Gucci

    • @rastahill748
      @rastahill748 12 дней назад

      You dont speak for BM as a whole, I hate when yall say that like yall the spokesmen of the whole race.

  • @BamaBlitz17
    @BamaBlitz17 23 дня назад +75

    I applaud this very intellectual, beautiful young lady for standing up for what she believes and showing some accountability and most of all dignity.

    • @adamdelarozza1985
      @adamdelarozza1985 21 день назад

      Me too; it would of been better with out the weave wig; that's disrepecting their culture also...

  • @dante340
    @dante340 19 дней назад +68

    I'm just sick and tired of being around other racial groups and always subconsciously feeling like I need to prove I'm "one of the good ones." ...I'm tired of it, man.

    • @motown163
      @motown163 19 дней назад +1

      I hear you. I feel this daily. A constant struggle and tiring.

    • @andrewilliams6367
      @andrewilliams6367 13 дней назад +3

      Man I had a coworker, older Italian guy who always use to come up to me and this other black guy we worked with and say “you guys are one of the good ones” and one day I checked him on it and said “what do you mean one of the good ones” and he stops for a second and then says “oh I mean one of the better younger men in this generation” in my head I was like oh that was a smooth cover up. I left it alone cause I didn’t want to cause drama at work but he never said it to us again after that day.

    • @Joyce-zl4qd
      @Joyce-zl4qd 10 дней назад

      ...or having the bad ones always bringing up Trump or white cops or a white kid that did something wrong. We talking bout the race as a whole. No other race will let immigrants come into their neighborhood and open businesses and give their money to them every day all day. Other races put money back into their own.

    • @Joyce-zl4qd
      @Joyce-zl4qd 10 дней назад +4

      @@andrewilliams6367 was he wrong?? You should be angry at your own race for allowing the culture to fall and no trying to uphold it. Why you get mad at someone who can see the truth

    • @andrewilliams6367
      @andrewilliams6367 10 дней назад +2

      @@Joyce-zl4qd not even gonna waist my time on you with an actual response to the nonsense you just typed. Have a good life.

  • @kirstiedonaldson3686
    @kirstiedonaldson3686 3 дня назад +1

    I am Black British, and I agree with you 1000%. It saddens me so much that the world gets the worst of African American culture, when there is so much to admire. I have taken so much inspiration from your leaders, your unity, your spirituality, strength and resilience. At tough times in my life, African American women on RUclips have motivated me to keep going, along with your music! Please know that some of us see who you truly are, keep up the fight.

  • @HollyFoxAdventures
    @HollyFoxAdventures 23 дня назад +84

    Really good line "you have the ability to escape whatever mental prison you are in"

  • @juliacarlstad4437
    @juliacarlstad4437 23 дня назад +108

    White woman here... On the block I live on there are Asians, Hispanics, and blacks. Everyone here is working class. The 3 black families that are on my street are very hard working people. There are stereotypes in every community and race. So glad you posted this.

    • @AB1B1
      @AB1B1 22 дня назад

      Black stereotypes, they make sure to plaster that all over the media.

    • @genejohnson3508
      @genejohnson3508 22 дня назад

      The African-American Culture is going the way of The Dodo because of immigration -- whether it be legal immigration, illegal immigration or chain migration . . We simply will hold no significance -- societal and political -- in the eyes of too many people in this country . . . .

    • @user-es3ep7un8g
      @user-es3ep7un8g 22 дня назад +14

      There are stereotypes because it is seen every day. I have seen this behavior in every state I have been. Whether it be restaurants, stores, or concerts. If the behavior doesn't stop neither will the stereotypes.

    • @neojazzgospel
      @neojazzgospel 22 дня назад +13

      @@user-es3ep7un8g It’s still unfair to assume that an entire race of people are all the same. We are not a monolithic race.

    • @AfriqueNY
      @AfriqueNY 21 день назад +7

      ​@@neojazzgospelfairness has nothing to do with it. Take a stroll through the projects or ask the people who work there. Look at all the top entertainers and what they promote. Taylor Swift isn't saying she sliding on the opps in every song.

  • @elchato1590
    @elchato1590 20 дней назад +5

    Television destroyed all of our culture...

  • @seth101-hv4st
    @seth101-hv4st 21 день назад +59

    The biggest problem is big business glorifying, encouraging and profiting from the worst and most destructive behavior in the black community.

    • @jashary15
      @jashary15 21 день назад

      But the people who produce this garbage don't live in the Black Community.

    • @chunktruffleshuffle1606
      @chunktruffleshuffle1606 20 дней назад +3

      They profit from it because there is an audience for it. Change what the audience wants to see

    • @allanluis3696
      @allanluis3696 20 дней назад +3

      @@chunktruffleshuffle1606 white America has always enjoyed minstrel shows. Nothing has changed sir

    • @chunktruffleshuffle1606
      @chunktruffleshuffle1606 20 дней назад +3

      @@allanluis3696 so I am the white puppet master making half my city of Philly act like clowns? Or maybe I'm just sitting back watching what folks do to themselves

    • @cinattra
      @cinattra 20 дней назад

      ​@@chunktruffleshuffle1606yep, now yt America is reaping what they sowed. Y'all undermined black Americans and this is the result.

  • @3wheel_motion
    @3wheel_motion 22 дня назад +99

    She is not wrong, we’re headed in wrong direction and have been for a while now.

    • @genejohnson3508
      @genejohnson3508 22 дня назад

      The African-American Culture is going the way of The Dodo because of immigration -- whether it be legal immigration, illegal immigration or chain migration . . We simply will hold no significance -- societal and political -- in the eyes of too many people in this country . . . .

  • @user-qo9tz8pq3d
    @user-qo9tz8pq3d 23 дня назад +178

    I don't know who that young lady is, but I believe she will be a great mother.

    • @sharonsmith4245
      @sharonsmith4245 23 дня назад +20

      Yes, which is another entity we need in our communities, along with QUALIFIED Leaders!

    • @GladwinAbel
      @GladwinAbel 23 дня назад +16

      It’s always the ones deemed as “nerdy” that are the most self concious and educated. Brothers if you want a good black woman look out for the sistas that are quiet and wear glasses not just have a fat ass or nice figure. This ain’t long ago anymore we need to value character other than beauty in modern times.

    • @sunsoza8320
      @sunsoza8320 22 дня назад +2

      ​@@GladwinAbel image is important always but behavior is the main indicator n also speech. Iv seen women who look like her who fully support n defend the ratchet culture in the name of women's empowerment. But then wanna get confused when men that she is attracted too reject her.

    • @rupatiwari5923
      @rupatiwari5923 21 день назад

      ​@@GladwinAbel Fani Willis....

  • @glk2227
    @glk2227 20 дней назад +3

    This is the absolute truth, I’ve been trying for years to put this thought together in my head because I didn’t know if I was crazy or not…now I know I’m not alone. When we know better, we’re supposed to do better, but we do the total opposite!!! SAD 😢

  • @jamesgui3733
    @jamesgui3733 21 день назад +2

    Beautifully said. Good on her for being brave

  • @earlofdrumer1851
    @earlofdrumer1851 21 день назад +47

    Selfish people are selfish. Don't expect them to have any grace, morality, or humility.

    • @kirabarsmith9353
      @kirabarsmith9353 17 дней назад

      Over 90% of people are narcissists, which isn't a surprise under a demonic system.

    • @naijabaeade
      @naijabaeade 17 дней назад

      Agreed.

  • @khenley7100
    @khenley7100 23 дня назад +103

    Censorship is real!!

    • @gt4real377
      @gt4real377 23 дня назад +3

      If you are under the contact it's not ! RUclips is a contact that you agree to. You can say what you want but not on here .

    • @0bsmith0
      @0bsmith0 22 дня назад +4

      Yes, RUclips is the worst for that.

    • @phutureproof
      @phutureproof 12 дней назад

      @@gt4real377 contract?

  • @tredinabrown2249
    @tredinabrown2249 3 дня назад +1

    LIVE RIGHTEOUSLY! POINT BLANK PERIOD.

  • @ceciliawells1099
    @ceciliawells1099 19 минут назад

    THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING TRUTH ❤

  • @gioiapharo7433
    @gioiapharo7433 23 дня назад +104

    Tired Of Social Media Manipulating Speech

  • @toniyoung5131
    @toniyoung5131 10 дней назад +1

    I'm glad to see this in my feed 13 days later. Im a white Scottish woman, my daughter is engaged to a black American. He is a great example of a decent person, of any colour or nationality and he has been welcomed into our family. We look forward to his bi annual visits, (they take turn about yearly to visit each other) We hope he will be able to come to live in Scotland , when his mother's health issues are resolved.

  • @joshuaramos7836
    @joshuaramos7836 17 дней назад +4

    It's not just Black culture. All culture is dying. America's worst is shining in the media

    • @rustythecrown9317
      @rustythecrown9317 8 дней назад

      Their media is told to sensationalise everything by the billionaire owners... more discord for the masses distracts from their foulness.

  • @Dan-440
    @Dan-440 22 дня назад +16

    Begin by refusing to protect those who break the law.

  • @selvarajsubrammanian9242
    @selvarajsubrammanian9242 23 дня назад +35

    Devil control the rappers, rappers control the people

    • @dannydaniel8975
      @dannydaniel8975 21 день назад

      B.s. Mexico is worse. Much worse. They just don't come to the internet with a speech about it like blk people do.

    • @Lionheart_He-Man
      @Lionheart_He-Man 20 дней назад

      Who are the ‘devils’?
      When you peel back the facade of who OWNS the media, then you will know WHO is really behind this?
      Hint, it’s a race/religious group none of us are allowed to criticize.

  • @damianbiondo812
    @damianbiondo812 15 дней назад +1

    I"m so glad to hear black folk saying this. I thought it was just me, and my liberal guilt was running wild. I'm a white man and a lover of jazz, easily one of the finest contributions to world culture that American Blacks are principally responsible for. I also play in a weekly billiards league at a local pool hall -- admittedly not the most cultured locale to spend time, but i love the game. -I cannot believe my ears when I hear popular black music these days. Every time gangster rap comes over the music system, my heart breaks. So many young people have no access to the greatness that is (dare I say "was") Black music. Go take a moment and compare John Coltrane's -_-A Love Supreme_-_- literally a search for God in the altissimo register of a tenor saxophone pursued by a recovering heroine addict who wanted only to become a saint with whatever time he had remaining after finding sobriety -- with just about any offering from the rap world these days. The rappers now worship the darkness and have lost the light. If Coltrane is not your thing, then go compare Aretha Franklin's "Respect" with Cardi B's "WAP." Talk about degeneracy. What the heck happened. y'all? Out of purely selfish motives, I want the greatness of Black culture back. There is so much beauty being lost, a beauty that can only come from a people that had to overcome so much hardship. How do we get that back?

  • @aarontaylor7677
    @aarontaylor7677 19 дней назад +3

    It we had strong responsible men at home we can solve that problem overnight. A lack of strong families that doesn't glorify bad behavior is our main problem.

  • @NomDePlume955
    @NomDePlume955 23 дня назад +67

    As a person of mixed race this is a very tough topic. But one that is true and needs to be addressed more. I'm glad to see black people are starting to get sick of it too. (And don't you worry I hit the like button)

  • @GlennLRiggs
    @GlennLRiggs 23 дня назад +45

    A very intelligent young lady...I seen and served with some of the best Black Men in early sixties but it changed severely in mid seventies through out my retirement in 1990...Black people need to listen to this young woman.

  • @nothingoutoftheordinary5217
    @nothingoutoftheordinary5217 3 дня назад +2

    I'm a dark skinned black woman. It is so hard to make friends because I do not act accordingly to the black cultural standards, and my features run every other racial groups away due to how they THINK all black people act.
    It's annoying.

  • @nate5eplayer574
    @nate5eplayer574 15 дней назад +1

    Change only starts after “knowing there needs to be change.”

  • @naomiruthsingleton4034
    @naomiruthsingleton4034 23 дня назад +37

    She is right
    I know because I feel the same way. I'm so tired of seeing our culture and who we are as a people diminished to wild. loud, sexually charged and directionless. I often feel they portray us as ignorant.

    • @Neillybob63
      @Neillybob63 22 дня назад +5

      Go look what happened at Howard University's graduation ceremony a few days ago and get back to us on why some people might be prone to believe the negative portrayals..... and theses are supposed to be the 'best and brightest ' of your people......or are you just gonna blame that on social media and whitey too?

    • @silverdawnintx
      @silverdawnintx 22 дня назад +1

      @@Neillybob63 Good point.

  • @kirkemrick808
    @kirkemrick808 23 дня назад +59

    Let it play, this is important and RUclips should welcome correct views.

    • @reactions_with_will
      @reactions_with_will 23 дня назад +5

      They should welcome incorrect views as well. Just think if im wrong about something, how could i ever be corrected if im not allowed to voice that opinion ?

    • @tonywilliams-cc8mg
      @tonywilliams-cc8mg 21 день назад +1

      ❤ luv it😎

  • @ruffinc1783
    @ruffinc1783 20 дней назад +3

    I grew up in the. South, I've been sick and tired of the black sub culture.

    • @YourLoveableBard
      @YourLoveableBard 19 дней назад

      Bro being from LA Nola area. Shits retarded and unecessary. Hated growin up in it.

  • @Chubbaknuckles
    @Chubbaknuckles 20 дней назад +2

    Its deteriorating and spreading at the same time.

  • @Cam-ik3kf
    @Cam-ik3kf 22 дня назад +36

    I’m from the ghetto and I applaud you! Keep doing and speaking the truth!

  • @gilbertrodriguezjr5508
    @gilbertrodriguezjr5508 23 дня назад +29

    Greatest point was the fact paraphrasing no one pushes trash to the forefront of their culture 😢

  • @tyguenot1394
    @tyguenot1394 20 дней назад

    Completely agree with nearly every video I've watched of yours. Thank you for continuing to post.

  • @adamwebster1666
    @adamwebster1666 15 дней назад +2

    This was a great video by an eloquent and gorgeous young woman.
    The tone of her skin has nothing to do with it, it is literally the least important piece of a persons identity. Allowing “thug culture” to be called “black culture” is what got us here. See also “black” music, films, leaders and politicians. True greatness doesn’t need the qualifier.

  • @ccpIsTrash
    @ccpIsTrash 23 дня назад +28

    I completely agree. I never grew up around people that were like that. Even so, i never understood why not being ghetto was a negative thing. I was always told by other black people that i was from the " wrong side of the tracks" or i thought i was too good. Acting ghetto isnt okay. Happy others feel the same.

    • @Quezo103
      @Quezo103 23 дня назад +1

      Your story is a lil confusing...if you never grew up in the ghetto who told you that you were from the wrong side of the tracks?

    • @sharonsmith4245
      @sharonsmith4245 23 дня назад +2

      @Quezo103 I think you may of misunderstood, he never said he didn't grow up in the black community "hood". What he said was that he wasn't raised to be ghetto. There is a big difference. You can be from a place and not be of that place.

    • @timvoorhees8102
      @timvoorhees8102 22 дня назад

      ​@@Quezo103the same folks who have put all their stat points into ego and none into self reflection.
      Ghetto mindrot hates whenever a black person is successful. they dont like to see anything that reminds them that, for the mist part, they are doing nothing for themselves.
      so the only thing left is that you must be not black enough, too "white", a traitor, or not from the hood like any if that is a bad thing, because losers hate seeing others winning

    • @carlahart4590
      @carlahart4590 22 дня назад

      It’s sad that anyone would want to labeled as ghetto….?

  • @lonnievannatter2612
    @lonnievannatter2612 23 дня назад +30

    I am a white American you are extremely right...I have lived NYC and is indeed overly done. I never had any problem with any race I think this is an American problem that needs to be fixed. I live in WV and we also have a reputation that isn't deserved and a lot of people do not know our history...We are West Virginia not Virginia we remained loyal to the Union and earned are state hood because we believed in what was right...We were and are anti slavery I have met black people all over the country and they have been nothing but respectful. This is a American problem that needs to be fixed now!!!!!!

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 21 день назад

      There's like 12 Black Americans in NY, most of the other people are children of immigrants. 2 different groups.

  • @thetruth257
    @thetruth257 20 дней назад +1

    MrLBoyd, thanks for being here & thanks for being you, really appreciate you.

  • @AScrapOfKindness
    @AScrapOfKindness 20 дней назад

    Thank you for highlighting this extremely important video. You are the second person I have found to do it and am seeking others to also support. Blessings...

  • @user-ly1ds8gu1t
    @user-ly1ds8gu1t 23 дня назад +21

    A true lady nothing like a lady with morals and class.

  • @ajdynamo6866
    @ajdynamo6866 23 дня назад +122

    Getting real tired of RUclips's BS. Too much censorship and the ads are getting outrageous. They're even slowing down computers with adblock.

    • @Loveaintreal
      @Loveaintreal 23 дня назад +15

      Me too it's like they are extremely desperate with the ads and just be deleting comments for no reason. If all my favorites can go to rumble I would DEAD YT for good

    • @MrMikeDao
      @MrMikeDao 22 дня назад +3

      ​@@Loveaintrealevery video sharing website will eventually come to ads and more of it. Whos going to pay for the hardware keeping the videos like these and the people constantly updating and fixing the app?

    • @Loveaintreal
      @Loveaintreal 22 дня назад +7

      @@MrMikeDao I understand but damn 6 ads in a 10 minute video they over killing it. Then these ads with our people the music and ignorance I can't believe they let be sponsors it's like damn y'all got billions of dollars is YT THAT desperate

    • @Neillybob63
      @Neillybob63 22 дня назад +4

      Ad-free RUclips Premium is a thing..... no really, it is!

    • @Loveaintreal
      @Loveaintreal 22 дня назад

      @@Neillybob63 😲 really I didn't know how can I buy it I'm ready to reach in my pockets and make them more rich where can I sign up

  • @anthonynock9939
    @anthonynock9939 20 дней назад +2

    Amen to that Truth!

  • @magdamoller6118
    @magdamoller6118 3 дня назад +1

    You should not be punished... you should be praised

  • @Alteringrealitystudios
    @Alteringrealitystudios 23 дня назад +18

    And on that note when people used to ask me why I was talking white I would ask them why were they talking stupid.

  • @terrellthomas128
    @terrellthomas128 22 дня назад +48

    I have noted for decades that being "rachet" (wretched) is a virtue in black pop culture. Unfortunately many of us don't or won't acknowledge how damaging it has been. Making a laughing stock of themselves. "I'm not a musician! I make music!" "I don't think! What is that?!"

    • @JosephChandler-vd1cs
      @JosephChandler-vd1cs 21 день назад

      "Ratchet" came from "Wretched "? OK that explains it for me. I had no idea where that word came from, and nobody could explain it to me.

    • @erianpeterson3431
      @erianpeterson3431 21 день назад +1

      You just described the pink sauce lady to a 'T' 😂

    • @mortenolsquad
      @mortenolsquad 21 день назад +1

      Rachet is not a virtue in black pop culture, it's one in gangsta culture, especially, in the GANGSTA RAP...

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 20 дней назад

      ​@@JosephChandler-vd1csmaybe like nobody knows Chile is already a country, nobody knows a ratchet is already a lever tool with gears

  • @manueljgjr2060
    @manueljgjr2060 20 дней назад

    I appreciate this video so much. Thank you for posting this. 👍🏾

  • @barryyoung713
    @barryyoung713 День назад

    Shes speaking NOTHING But TRUTH!

  • @TheWolfeDen
    @TheWolfeDen 22 дня назад +31

    I was recently in a mental health hospital for wanting to unalive myself, came home yesterday. I noticed that a lot of the other black folks in there with me had a really strong victim mentality and were often aggressive and distasteful toward the staff and other patients. If there was a problem on the unit, it was usually one of them and they blamed everyone else for the consequences. They were walking stereotypes. It became really clear, regardless of why they were in there, who was willing to do the work to get better and who wasn't. It felt like the only thing I could do be kind, keep my distance, and pray for them in private.

    • @CreativeIdeasbyDee
      @CreativeIdeasbyDee 20 дней назад +5

      God bless you and keep your head up, you sound like you have a kind heart. I pray you find peace, seek the Lord Jesus Christ because he loves us and cares 🙏🏾

    • @EternalMusic5
      @EternalMusic5 20 дней назад +2

      You are loved 🤗

  • @rayrayg100
    @rayrayg100 21 день назад +65

    This is the problem when you don't control your own image.

    • @migueld8970
      @migueld8970 20 дней назад +5

      Kevin Samuals had a good video on this.

    • @firewater365
      @firewater365 17 дней назад +4

      I’d say the problem is when you don’t control your anger or sperm/egg.

    • @RickMcGuire-bl2vs
      @RickMcGuire-bl2vs 10 дней назад

      Orrrr when you dont even recognize that you DO control your own image. That might be the problem,lol.

  • @ExaltedDuck
    @ExaltedDuck 21 день назад +1

    Thank you for having this conversation. As an outsider looking back it saddens me to see what's happened to your culture over the last 60 to 80 years. And to see it happen to Latinos shortly after and to see it happening to whites and all other nations of America. We must not let Decay and rock be the way that we Define ourselves. Bless you brother.

  • @gayles76
    @gayles76 10 дней назад +1

    Who is controlling the media, and why is the worst of the worst of black people promoted?

    • @Firearcher4
      @Firearcher4 9 дней назад

      I can answer question easily. Its not Whites, or blacks or Hispanics. Its those folks with the funny hats who can never ever be criticisized about anything. That same group hates us all and promotes the racial divide. WJSE Play unscramble the word

  • @juanvelez6483
    @juanvelez6483 22 дня назад +16

    Deteriorating? is already rotten.

  • @RottenPineGames
    @RottenPineGames 22 дня назад +29

    I have always said "Hating someone for the color of their skin is a stupid ass reason to hate someone. Just spend 5 minutes with a person and they will give you a much better reason to hate them."

  • @shomariwilliams9502
    @shomariwilliams9502 11 дней назад

    This is a fantastic video and you’ve brought to light a lot of how I’ve personally felt. Keep up the great work in calling out the unpopular topics that are usually the “elephants” in the room.

  • @Gracie-SavedByGrace
    @Gracie-SavedByGrace 20 дней назад

    Always appreciate your positive message.

  • @rhiannasanford6160
    @rhiannasanford6160 23 дня назад +21

    She's speaking so many facts. And I feel her pain. I get talked about for pushing back on this very thing ALL THE TIME.

    • @user-ix5gf2on1w
      @user-ix5gf2on1w 23 дня назад

      Your whole country was stolen the majority of black people are portrayed as agreeing with slavery by constantly saying the N word maybe start there!

    • @genejohnson3508
      @genejohnson3508 22 дня назад

      The African-American Culture is going the way of The Dodo because of immigration -- whether it be legal immigration, illegal immigration or chain migration . . We simply will hold no significance -- societal and political -- in the eyes of too many people in this country . . . .

  • @freelanzr
    @freelanzr 23 дня назад +35

    Fathers in the home raising the kids is the solution... Governments will always try to replace the parents. This is across all sub-cultures, just has a head-start in some groups, but all peoples and cultures are targeted and are at risk from the authoritarian types that want and believe they should own your freedom and autonomy.

    • @jerry42023
      @jerry42023 23 дня назад +6

      BINGO

    • @jenny-im9gc
      @jenny-im9gc 23 дня назад

      There are many black men at home, but they are not recognized. Government cannot get rid of your husband, the woman do for food stamps and housing

    • @izzycrybaby1164
      @izzycrybaby1164 23 дня назад

      Unfortunately women have been incentivized to break up families and file for divorce in 80% of divorce cases, and our women are the main ones biting the bait. If we're being honest, our women are primarily the problem. And the govt will never fix this because they just want their cut of child support. Shit is stupid.

    • @sandiebulysse3800
      @sandiebulysse3800 21 день назад +3

      It’s not just fathers in the home, educated, loving fathers as well as a village aka family

    • @KenH-pm2lh
      @KenH-pm2lh 19 дней назад

      Just a father in the home isn’t enough. He has to be mature, stable, loving, sympathetic and emotional. Some blk men see these traits as weak.

  • @heatherferguson9589
    @heatherferguson9589 5 дней назад

    Great video!! Keep them up!

  • @jayumble8390
    @jayumble8390 20 дней назад +1

    I'm in total agreement. Thank you for this.

  • @aolegion35
    @aolegion35 22 дня назад +21

    Funny thing is the "hood" didn't even used to be the way it is now. It's actually gotten worse. As someone who did grow up in the inner city. I've seen the moral decay of the last 2 decades.

    • @yo3rdtier128
      @yo3rdtier128 18 дней назад

      I live in the hood and most nights it’s so quiet you can here a pin drop. Stop speaking on situations you don’t live. You live in the suburbs, and 1 of the reasons “hoods” got that way because blks like you wanted to live around whte people. Oreo

  • @user-fs9yv4hl5f
    @user-fs9yv4hl5f 23 дня назад +14

    It seems that not enough of us collectively know how to handle success. Black culture achieved more success when we struggled decades ago. Just look at our history in America. Now that we have many Black millionaires and billionaires, all we see is mass consumerism and infighting. We have no “New Black Wall Street” or enough business models of that nature to show any real progress. Even many our so-called leaders and role models are unfit to represent us as a people. A house divided cannot stand”…

    • @CONTRACTOR_SG3
      @CONTRACTOR_SG3 22 дня назад

      Its because NOW black excellence is just making money BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY so now we got scammer, drug dealers and hoes that make money telling us we need to do what they do

  • @MilGrip76
    @MilGrip76 20 дней назад +2

    I am very white, and when Biden extended his hand to Cardi B, to put a face to Black America, and pull more votes, it made me literally sick to my stomach. I was ashamed and embarrassed for a demographic that I do not represent. How did we get to this? There are a lot of varying issues to tackle.

    • @marieuzes
      @marieuzes 18 дней назад

      Yes!! I felt exactly the same way. I was mortified on behalf of my wonderful responsible ethical black friends. I felt sick to my stomach. How dare Biden make such an offensive assumption.

  • @triaschools8451
    @triaschools8451 20 дней назад

    Keep doing what you are doing! I discovered this video on my timeline!

  • @monkhworth1030
    @monkhworth1030 22 дня назад +29

    Biden sat down and talk to Cardi B as a black representative and we said nothing ... they can never take us serious.

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi 21 день назад +7

      Many of us did say something but our voices were drowned out.

    • @futurefarms3440
      @futurefarms3440 20 дней назад

      So you think they don't know what they are doing by inviting Cardi B? You think they don't know where to find a Serious person?? White Power Speaks in Code...it's a Code When they Call on Cardi B or Kanye...

    • @vhoneyx
      @vhoneyx 20 дней назад

      She also is not even AA!!

    • @siakakebe
      @siakakebe 19 дней назад

      They truly think we are imbeciles