My Dad was a dark triad monster. He tried to have me killed. He turned my family and friends against me. It was a nightmare. He is dead now, and I have everything back...but let me tell you this: Run from a dark triad personality. They are evil, dangerous, methodical, and deadly. I speak from experience, I am still trying to wrap my head around it.
Oof. My family (yes myself included) have dark triad traits particularly narcissism and a general lack of empathy...they are more apathetic than anything. My older sister when i got my license tried to stab me because she couldnt drive. Ive always felt different from them but i know i have some of the same traits. I wish them long and happy lives but im not seeing or talking to them again.
@@spencervance8484 I have traits too, minimal traits according to my counselor. But my bad behavior in the past, makes sense, knowing what I know now. Just like you, I have a family member that I don’t have contact with because I know now, what’s going on with her. We have to protect ourselves, right? Good luck to you Spencer.
I've had several "bosses" who fit this description - but one time me and the other coworkers got together and got one of the toxic bosses fired. It's a unknown rule in businesses that if all of the workers report a supervisor to personnel than it has to be investigated - well personnel did investigate this supervisor and she got fired. Happiest day of my life and I now have my pension because we got rid of this supervisor. She would call each of us in her office, shut the door and critizize every single thing we did and put us on probation - 3 probations can get you fired but this woman didn't care about any of us.
GoopBrain, that is so honerable of you! Please do get all the help you can! We all have issues we need help with! But being humble enough to get it make all the difference! I know in my life my relationship with the LORD JESUS (Prince of peace) has brought me much freedom and healing as well as forgiveness! Sending you love and prayers for hope and peace! 💞🙏💞
Everyone has some degree of a dark triad in their personality; however, not all have light triad traits and those without light traits are the predators we see doing life sentences with NO empathy or conscious...no HUMANITY. That you've decided to honestly look at yourself tells me you're far more light than dark triad. I doubt a truly dark triad has much concern about their personality. They don't have the problem, nothing to work on, and no need to spend time in introspective examination of their personality; everyone else is the problem.
@@irishkat2516 my problem is less that everyone else is the problem, its that everyone INCLUDING myself is the problem. i know myself and can honestly say i have little to no empathy unless it is for my own gains
Yes, I was involved with a narcissist, so I identify completely with this scenario very significantly. Thank GOD I am not longer involved with this so called individual!!!
1:07 13. LURING CO-WORKERS INTO WILD BEHAVIORS OR SEDUCING COWORKERS OR SUPERVISORS INTO ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS 1:39 12. BULLYING OR CRITICIZING COWORKERS TO DISTRACT FOCUS AWAY FROM TASKS 2:24 11. THEY FIGHT AGAINST AUTHORITY FIGURES, RULES, AND THE STATUS QUO 2:52 10. THEY ACT IN WAYS THAT SHOW "MORA DISENGAGEMENT" 4:01 9. THEY DON'T TAKE CRITICISM WELL 4:25 8. THEY MAKE QUICK SHORT-TERM DECISIONS WITHOUT CONSIDERING THE CONSEQUENCES 4:58 7. THEY COMPETE, NOT COOPERATE 5:38 6. THEY SEEK REVENGE 6:21 5. THEY USE MANIPULATION TO REACH GOALS 6:57 4. THEY DON'T SHARE KNOWLEDGE 7:27 3. THEY TRY TO CONTROL OR MINIMIZE OTHER PEOPLE'S INFLUENCE 8:03 2. THEY'LL "SCRAPEGOAT" THOSE WHO DON'T BOOST THEIR EGOS 8:35 1. THEY ACTIVELY PROMOTE THEMSELVES
Of course people who commit violence and fraud have problems with authority. But so do regular, honest people who recognize that if an ordinary person with these dark traits can harm others, then someone in a position of power with these dark traits can do much more damage. And power doesn’t just attract corrupt people; it also corrupts all but those with the strongest character who gain it.
It is. The only challenge is to learn to use it for good. Never for offense, only defense,and only to help others as well. Comes completely easy to use to evil. No challenge. If it wasn't for my faith. I would be very different person today.
I believe that every one has 1 or 2 or even 3 of those traits " at least" and i beileve people sometimes have good resons for it, and i beileve with introspection u won't even notice how bad people are, and rather fix urself and ur surroundings are going to be fixed without effort, just stop observing people and there faults and start recognising ur faults and preferences so that u define ur boundaries and stand for urself
Blameshift and rage at others to stop any discussion they prefer not to have bc they caused it. Present as superficial charm but shallow. Cannot explain things further because they're repeating a sentence someone else said.
It would be helpful if you talked about the signs again but not applied to a workplace environment. Sleeping with the boss for example cannot be applied in all circumstances. Many of these examples are workplace environments and cannot be applied in other areas of life.
Omg.. all along i thought my husband only a narcisst. Thanks to this vid, my mind enlighten me to more aware and study his actions. These 3 combi personalities is so sucks.
It would be really interesting to hear another video about people in leadership who have these traits: either political or wealthy political donors or CEOs.
Authority is just those who's made a point in their lives to uphold the rules, doesn't mean they're right and doesn't mean we should follow. Does this make me dark? Or just a thinking individual.
Dark Triad individuals who are in management positions or positions of authority do not like us critical thinking people. They never like it when we question things and think about what's best for ourselves. It's always all about them. Very abusive.
I'm facing someone with an acute problem as mentioned. Unfortunately the org will have to face the consequences. It's a wrong choice made by management.
Ya we are this perfectly extra special. I sensed you were not able to comprehend this I’m few comments . Understand where you coming from. But Defently yes we are gods best creation😊😊
This video made me sad I just realised that i'm a bad person. tbh I actually have some of these signs. im just asking can someone change himself. cause i dont really want me to hurt anyone.
My father! My mother was a Narcissist! She always said she was a bully had been her whole life. My father was very abusive. Emotionally. pyschologically physically and sexually! Mother was distant. generally most 5imest I felt neglected.
CHT2, please recognize there is always hope for healing! Although it appears you are stuck, reach out for help! This is the first sign of healing! In my life my relationship with Jesus Christ brought forgiveness, healing, and hope! Since then I've learned how my triggers affected my choices and decisions greatly! But real healing is a process! Awareness that the little child in you was always precious and simply in need of affirmation! So be gentle with yourself as you heal! Sending prayers and love! 💞🙏💞
My 9th grade US history teacher was a straight up narcissist. She exhibited all of the traits. I also met a psychopath nearly a year ago, and he was sexually harassing me.
Seek counseling from a trained and well qualified psychiatrist. Religion IS NOT the answer nor will it solve any issues as god will be administered by the unholy. Where people gather in the name of religion, the devil is in attendance too.
#13 doing it #12 I could be #11 definitely #10 probably #9 it depends on the subject #8 definitely #7 definitely #6 definitely #5 I could do it #4 sometimes #3 definitely #2 definitely #1 definitely
Here i am listening to this video and reading comments. It took me an hour to realise this is to sway women into seeing things that they would have never seen otherwise. Women out there do your self a favour and read a book on the subject. This is a man hating video. It is quite evident considering only women in the comment section making claims. I would like to see a video about manipulating women in relationships and why they act in this way. But i get the feeling we will not go down that path here. Women please do not look for traits that really are not there. (Stay content).
The current Philippine president has *ALL* three personality traits decribed in the video. He has totally divided the country and is up to this moment, destroying the ethics and morality of many Filipinos for nearly whole term of his rule (6 years) with his *drug-induced* rants. Many, particularly the youth, thinks what he is doing is right and emulating what he is doing.
And if my color is considered offensive or someone believes that is why I was hired. This video sounds mean and not nice. I hope that no one gets hurt.
First, my advice is not to give anyone who you sense is narcissistic an 'audience'. Don't ever value their opinion so much that their attention or flattery is of any consequence to you. When these types try hostile heavy-handed confrontations with you SHOCK THE HELL OUT OF them by staying calm & slightly &/or calling the police on them. They are afraid to answer to authority that has video rolling & the ability to check up on their possible prison or jail time background. Record in a journal the time, date & details of any effort these creepy jerks try to do to affect your life negatively. This way you have documentation of the sequences of events. Lastly, These psychos know it isn't wise to alienate everyone so they will make friends with the weaker more gullible followers who they are helpful & generous to so there will be someone to stick up for them. If 2 or more of these work together it isn't hard to turn them against each other either. They aren't smart people. I was married to one for 13 years who made up board games with rules he thought only HE could win by. I played against him only 3 times. I won all 3 times. I noticed 2 weeks later he just tore up the board game & threw it out with the trash.
I want dignity. What is wrong with that? I don’t want a romantic relationship. I wish for respect. This video is confusing. I thought my eyebrows had to do with it according to this doctor on RUclips. I feel hurt.
This is a terrible list. All th attributes you mentioned are actually good traits - but they have to be wielded deftly by someone as infallible and magnificent as myself. The average peasant would never understand.
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My Dad was a dark triad monster. He tried to have me killed. He turned my family and friends against me. It was a nightmare. He is dead now, and I have everything back...but let me tell you this:
Run from a dark triad personality. They are evil, dangerous, methodical, and deadly.
I speak from experience, I am still trying to wrap my head around it.
Oof. My family (yes myself included) have dark triad traits particularly narcissism and a general lack of empathy...they are more apathetic than anything. My older sister when i got my license tried to stab me because she couldnt drive. Ive always felt different from them but i know i have some of the same traits. I wish them long and happy lives but im not seeing or talking to them again.
@@spencervance8484 I have traits too, minimal traits according to my counselor. But my bad behavior in the past, makes sense, knowing what I know now. Just like you, I have a family member that I don’t have contact with because I know now, what’s going on with her. We have to protect ourselves, right? Good luck to you Spencer.
In my perception too
I've had several "bosses" who fit this description - but one time me and the other coworkers got together and got one of the toxic bosses fired. It's a unknown rule in businesses that if all of the workers report a supervisor to personnel than it has to be investigated - well personnel did investigate this supervisor and she got fired. Happiest day of my life and I now have my pension because we got rid of this supervisor. She would call each of us in her office, shut the door and critizize every single thing we did and put us on probation - 3 probations can get you fired but this woman didn't care about any of us.
That's one of the good outcomes of these psychos. Once their actions are investigated the higher-ups want to be rid of them.
I've known so many people like this, I'm like a dark triad magnet :s
Stay save
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Self knowledge is key.
Strange. Me too
My life’s story. Cheers internet stranger and may you be able to find peace in this world.
My ex. He is everything you described, it’s a shame.
you are not innocent though, although you dont realise it you will share many of the same traits, we do attract similar people to ourselves.
@@hindenberg507 she is a narcisisst
I'm watching this so I can better understand myself. I hurt the people closest to me and I want to stop :/
GoopBrain, that is so honerable of you! Please do get all the help you can! We all have issues we need help with! But being humble enough to get it make all the difference!
I know in my life my relationship with the LORD JESUS (Prince of peace) has brought me much freedom and healing as well as forgiveness! Sending you love and prayers for hope and peace! 💞🙏💞
Sending encouragement your way… consider seeking God… I searched for decades and resisted Christianity, I hope you will include that in your search 🙏
You are doing what you can
I'm watching this video for myself
I believe introspection is important for self improvement
same to be fair and im not proud to say that i see a lot of this in myself
Everyone has some degree of a dark triad in their personality; however, not all have light triad traits and those without light traits are the predators we see doing life sentences with NO empathy or conscious...no HUMANITY. That you've decided to honestly look at yourself tells me you're far more light than dark triad. I doubt a truly dark triad has much concern about their personality. They don't have the problem, nothing to work on, and no need to spend time in introspective examination of their personality; everyone else is the problem.
@@irishkat2516 my problem is less that everyone else is the problem, its that everyone INCLUDING myself is the problem. i know myself and can honestly say i have little to no empathy unless it is for my own gains
Damn. I ran into many of these beasts. It truly is a toxic plague. Grateful that I'm highly intuitive because I can sense BS from a mile away.
Yes, I was involved with a narcissist, so I identify completely with this scenario very significantly. Thank GOD I am not longer involved with this so called individual!!!
1:07 13. LURING CO-WORKERS INTO WILD BEHAVIORS OR SEDUCING COWORKERS OR SUPERVISORS INTO ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
1:39 12. BULLYING OR CRITICIZING COWORKERS TO DISTRACT FOCUS AWAY FROM TASKS
2:24 11. THEY FIGHT AGAINST AUTHORITY FIGURES, RULES, AND THE STATUS QUO
2:52 10. THEY ACT IN WAYS THAT SHOW "MORA DISENGAGEMENT"
4:01 9. THEY DON'T TAKE CRITICISM WELL
4:25 8. THEY MAKE QUICK SHORT-TERM DECISIONS WITHOUT CONSIDERING THE CONSEQUENCES
4:58 7. THEY COMPETE, NOT COOPERATE
5:38 6. THEY SEEK REVENGE
6:21 5. THEY USE MANIPULATION TO REACH GOALS
6:57 4. THEY DON'T SHARE KNOWLEDGE
7:27 3. THEY TRY TO CONTROL OR MINIMIZE OTHER PEOPLE'S INFLUENCE
8:03 2. THEY'LL "SCRAPEGOAT" THOSE WHO DON'T BOOST THEIR EGOS
8:35 1. THEY ACTIVELY PROMOTE THEMSELVES
Thank you. That saved me 10 minutes, which is helpful as I'm having bad anxiety.
Number 11 just means that you choose to think for yourself rather than mindlessly thinking and doing as you are told.
Of course people who commit violence and fraud have problems with authority. But so do regular, honest people who recognize that if an ordinary person with these dark traits can harm others, then someone in a position of power with these dark traits can do much more damage. And power doesn’t just attract corrupt people; it also corrupts all but those with the strongest character who gain it.
most men learn to just do ,to keep the peace.
@@ohevshalomel sounds like whole. Dems and libs party members. Look at the president and hkamalla
@@johnjcc9884 Imagine thinking democrats and republicans are different lmao
OUTSTANDING.
Now, " WHY are you lying to me ?? "
That's pretty cool. Machiavellianism sounds like a super power.
It is. The only challenge is to learn to use it for good. Never for offense, only defense,and only to help others as well.
Comes completely easy to use to evil.
No challenge.
If it wasn't for my faith. I would be very different person today.
Thank you again. This is very enlightening.
LOVE This channel!! So Informative & needed!!! Thank you?
Thank you Debra!
Don't ever date someone whom abusing your privacy
I believe that every one has 1 or 2 or even 3 of those traits " at least" and i beileve people sometimes have good resons for it, and i beileve with introspection u won't even notice how bad people are, and rather fix urself and ur surroundings are going to be fixed without effort, just stop observing people and there faults and start recognising ur faults and preferences so that u define ur boundaries and stand for urself
Blameshift and rage at others to stop any discussion they prefer not to have bc they caused it. Present as superficial charm but shallow. Cannot explain things further because they're repeating a sentence someone else said.
It would be helpful if you talked about the signs again but not applied to a workplace environment. Sleeping with the boss for example cannot be applied in all circumstances. Many of these examples are workplace environments and cannot be applied in other areas of life.
Omg.. all along i thought my husband only a narcisst. Thanks to this vid, my mind enlighten me to more aware and study his actions. These 3 combi personalities is so sucks.
I recognize this in my son and am getting a glood of his dad and grandpa as well the years i was in that.
We all live in a dangerous world with psychopath, narcissist, and a dark size what is left for the good people may I take care of myself
A true Machiavelli would plan out what would happen.
I know someone with many of these traits.
It would be really interesting to hear another video about people in leadership who have these traits: either political or wealthy political donors or CEOs.
Narc s have a strong foothold in religion bc so many priests are enablers, flying monkeys in collars & are straight up sadistic themselves.
Authority is just those who's made a point in their lives to uphold the rules, doesn't mean they're right and doesn't mean we should follow.
Does this make me dark? Or just a thinking individual.
More of a thinking individual some rules look unjust and breaking them doesn't make you bad you just think different such as my self
To society you seem dark because they dont want people actually thinking for themselves so label it so.
Dark Triad individuals who are in management positions or positions of authority do not like us critical thinking people. They never like it when we question things and think about what's best for ourselves. It's always all about them. Very abusive.
I'm facing someone with an acute problem as mentioned. Unfortunately the org will have to face the consequences. It's a wrong choice made by management.
In the past, we were only taught about difficult people who sabotage in the workplace. This brings up a whole new scary meaning for me.
It destroys the organisation and harmless people's reputation.
My son does all of this. I fear what he will do to others.
My third daughter....scary!!
i might have a dark personality. I only use it against bullies to make them regret not to bully me.
Ditto. The bullies fear me for that reason
Ya we are this perfectly extra special. I sensed you were not able to comprehend this I’m few comments . Understand where you coming from. But Defently yes we are gods best creation😊😊
I’m glad I let go of toxic coworkers
This video made me sad I just realised that i'm a bad person. tbh I actually have some of these signs. im just asking can someone change himself. cause i dont really want me to hurt anyone.
Number 6 … been there done that
People with those type of personality is no match for me n I'm glad I don't have one of them issues
I think we all are like this somehow
My father! My mother was a Narcissist! She always said she was a bully had been her whole life. My father was very abusive. Emotionally. pyschologically physically and sexually! Mother was distant. generally most 5imest I felt neglected.
It was not fun having a dark triad father. I hid a lot. I'm now a dark empath. Sad isn't it.
Story of my life
CHT2, please recognize there is always hope for healing! Although it appears you are stuck, reach out for help! This is the first sign of healing!
In my life my relationship with Jesus Christ brought forgiveness, healing, and hope! Since then I've learned how my triggers affected my choices and decisions greatly! But real healing is a process!
Awareness that the little child in you was always precious and simply in need of affirmation! So be gentle with yourself as you heal!
Sending prayers and love! 💞🙏💞
My 9th grade US history teacher was a straight up narcissist. She exhibited all of the traits. I also met a psychopath nearly a year ago, and he was sexually harassing me.
Good for you
@@klearamadani6125 ???
@@iluvsubliminals 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
im sorry about him doing that to you but your comment sounds like you think all psychopaths do that... like i have never done that...
@@onerustyboy9786 Same. I might've killed a few people before, but as a fellow psycho, I'd never go as far as sexually harassing someone. 😔
My doctor said that I am a Dark Triad
The end justifies the means , ill remember that
Oh, yes!
Oh this was good and very on point👍👍👍👍👍
Evidently I have the dark triad personality. But I'm not vengeful.
I really need help this anxiety and psycho and agoraphobia is killing me am too young to go through this what do I do please I need help
Seek counseling from a trained and well qualified psychiatrist. Religion IS NOT the answer nor will it solve any issues as god will be administered by the unholy. Where people gather in the name of religion, the devil is in attendance too.
#13 doing it
#12 I could be
#11 definitely
#10 probably
#9 it depends on the subject
#8 definitely
#7 definitely
#6 definitely
#5 I could do it
#4 sometimes
#3 definitely
#2 definitely
#1 definitely
I’m doing 13 too 🤣
Here i am listening to this video and reading comments. It took me an hour to realise this is to sway women into seeing things that they would have never seen otherwise. Women out there do your self a favour and read a book on the subject. This is a man hating video. It is quite evident considering only women in the comment section making claims. I would like to see a video about manipulating women in relationships and why they act in this way. But i get the feeling we will not go down that path here. Women please do not look for traits that really are not there. (Stay content).
These tips only work if the manipulator its so dumb and let you know you are being manipulated
cant argue with this comment.
Yes but the more you educate yourself about these clowns, the more you will repel them from you.
The current Philippine president has *ALL* three personality traits decribed in the video.
He has totally divided the country and is up to this moment, destroying the ethics and morality of many Filipinos for nearly whole term of his rule (6 years) with his *drug-induced* rants. Many, particularly the youth, thinks what he is doing is right and emulating what he is doing.
Numerous Politicians are members of the Dark Triad
And don't forget to include the former US potus, DJT. True nutter that one.
@@annecort9590 i still have a trump poster and hat
Yup sure do
I must really be messing you up. If you're watching me, I guarantee you will become traumatized. 😂😂😂😂
I'm the black triad. Even darker then the dark
This video is talking about me
All so true.
Here comes the comments of all the people who think “it’s not me, it’s the rest of the world”.
I am very much aware i have dark triad personality traits.
And if my color is considered offensive or someone believes that is why I was hired. This video sounds mean and not nice. I hope that no one gets hurt.
My father
Also accusation s
thanks 🎉😮😢😊
First, my advice is not to give anyone who you sense is narcissistic an 'audience'. Don't ever value their opinion so much that their attention or flattery is of any consequence to you. When these types try hostile heavy-handed confrontations with you SHOCK THE HELL OUT OF them by staying calm & slightly &/or calling the police on them. They are afraid to answer to authority that has video rolling & the ability to check up on their possible prison or jail time background. Record in a journal the time, date & details of any effort these creepy jerks try to do to affect your life negatively. This way you have documentation of the sequences of events. Lastly, These psychos know it isn't wise to alienate everyone so they will make friends with the weaker more gullible followers who they are helpful & generous to so there will be someone to stick up for them. If 2 or more of these work together it isn't hard to turn them against each other either. They aren't smart people. I was married to one for 13 years who made up board games with rules he thought only HE could win by. I played against him only 3 times. I won all 3 times. I noticed 2 weeks later he just tore up the board game & threw it out with the trash.
I have a dark triad
How does someone treat this?
I want dignity. What is wrong with that? I don’t want a romantic relationship. I wish for respect. This video is confusing. I thought my eyebrows had to do with it according to this doctor on RUclips. I feel hurt.
??
This is descriptive of politicians
What can I do I think am a psychopath it scares me I just want to revenge Am scared I need help please
You’re naming things that I have seen I. So many people. So basically everyone is a dark triad 😂😂😂
Boris Johnson. Read ‘Just Boris’ by Sonia Purnell
That’s me
Willaurprotsky
Donald J. Trump.
They sound litty
Yes I do to my daughter KaylaECotes
DARKNESS SIDE = MACHIAVELLI POLITICS
My dad's a narcoleptic I so get it
Trophy colleagues and scape goats . Interesting
This is a terrible list. All th attributes you mentioned are actually good traits - but they have to be wielded deftly by someone as infallible and magnificent as myself. The average peasant would never understand.
Narcissist.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Meh.
Number 10: James Comey
Donald Trump fits all 13 signs 😮
Donald Trump came to mind with every sign in this list.
Fake
Thank you for the Info .. blessed
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