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@@TheJoshSpeaks Throw yourself into your hobbies, post selfies with friends, makes you a million times more attractive. But hate it when they do the whole "sorry ive been kidnapped by aliens", it's like "I didn't ask why it's fine darling"
I’m loving this weeks category! My biggest weakness with crushes is texting them, I always have a problem when it comes to this, these are really helping out though, thank you for doing this :)
My crush left me on read Wednesday but I still think I have a chance. I'm from NY but she lives in FL, where I go to college. I've known her in August and she's super nice. She invited me to events she was attending when I asked her what she was up to. I'm gonna wait until next Wednesday to text her to not appear desperate. If she's not interested, so be it. Losers quit, winners try.
Maybe girls should just tell you how they feel instead of trying to make guys read their mind over a text message or no text message. The problem is girls lack basic communication skills and they have since the dawn of time so that'll never change. So just be happy and do you and the less you care about the result the more happier and successful you'll be.
'The problem is girls lack basic communication skills ' I noticed this too but how come? They are talking the whole day long to their girlfriends, yet when they have to converse with a guy they can't make anything up except 'hi'?
I don't think with that attitude your fond to get a response. I don't think anyone thinks that anyone can read their mind over text. I realize myself that sometimes I just reply shortly and move on with my day. It's nothing deep until one gets that infatuated with it. That's when you need to self reflect and think again. In other words no one needs to change for anyone bc you don't like the way they do certain things. That doesn't just apply to dating.
males and females are different and usually are interested in different things. When girls interact with guys, they might not have a lot to relate to. So it makes it easier for them to chat with other girls. I can imagine it would be difficult for them to chat with a guy even if they like them so they may feel insecure or nervous. Another thing is that if they get the feeling a guy likes them, but don't feel the same way, it puts a lot of pressure on them to say how they really feel. they're afraid of hurting their feelings or afraid they will get angry and end up harassing them.
There's a woman I am interested in and although she lives in Poland, and I live in the UK, we both have gone past the stages of audio messages and video calls. But I have learned that if she does not respond she is busy; sometimes she will inform me of her plans, I also tell her boring parts of the day - going to the post office, having a hair cut, she asked questions on both
Hey josh, this video really helped man! Thank you so much! I absolutely suck at texting girls, it’s almost pitiful with me but you have given me hope!✌🏼
Been going through this i have been through all of that started since a month ago it directly said this person is not available at this time messaged sent failed took their chat out can’t reach out to them anymore it upset me i feeling everything you said inside I feel drained and cry every day why would hug me in person and they were sweet then they take their chat out on Facebook messenger that breaks my heart
Hey that's a great topic to cover, I'm going to be doing a bunch of videos on starting college sometime in August so stay tuned. When do you start school?
At this point in my life I don't want to video call because the expression on my face might reveal that my present State of Mind this is not what I would like it to be
Alright so I was wondering why my crush wasn't texting me back but today she told one of my best friends that's her friend too she siad i was being to clingy and didn't give more than 5 mins but I texted 1 hour after every time just trying to help u guys don't be clingy.
Yes I was always moving the first move I even phone her up and she never got back to me it's a cruel treatment and I tried but it was never good enough so a few weeks and then got fed up of silly mind games and deleted her number and Im getting streetwise now
If there is one thing that REALLY annoys me is when I play it cool and the girl STILL says, "oo sorry I've not been touched i've been asleep for 24 hours", to which I respond by saying "I've been asleep for 72 hours, beat that sweetheart", cause unless i've asked the question then her not texting back should not be the topic of the conversation. As James Tusk would say, it's not a very, "socially calibrated" thing to do.
Im in a situation that involves this. Im trying to get closer than friends with this girl, and we hangout, but shes just kinda slow to text more often than not. She’s coming over to decorate cookies and watch a movie Wednesday. Im just worried Im putting all this effort into something that wont grow what I would like it to be. Any thoughts and tips to ease the anxiety is loved! This video helped me for sure
Hey josh can you please do a video about how people can unadd you or unfollow you on social media and you don't know why they did because you are for sure you haven't done anything to them ? Thanks Josh. It'll truly be appreciated.
Listen, I had the best day of my life last night. Me and my crush got into an argument but mid way through she told me she liked me and we both freaked out. And lmao my life is so much better
I just recently texted my crush on ig letting her know I like her stories pertaining to cooking and commend her to going to college. We never met in person, but we have a mutual friend that we both know. At the end of my message I wrote, "I'd like to get to know you more if that's ok. Cause I think you're interesting." You think that might have turned her off? It's been two days since I sent it, and she hasn't replied back. Honestly, I am freaking out. Help?
She always one of the first people that views my stories and likes my posts, she saw the dm after 5 days and it's its been 27 days and hasn't responded 😔
My crush doesn't respond to me either but still watches my Snapchat stories? Sounds like she still wants to know what I'm up to in life?? Hmmmm. What's your take on that josh?
This is happening with me. She just replied and now she stopped even looking at my texts. I tries many times but it's seems she is not interested. I am sad but not angry at her. I can understand that she don't want to talk and I respect her decision. So I stopped texting her on fb. But it's painful for me. At least girls should clearly say that they don't want to talk. They intentionally create a sense of suspense.
My gf just suddenly stopped texting back we were doing fine and texting each other and its been about an hour since she texted me last sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo thx anyways but i tried ecerything but hey maybe she is busy cus we werent even arguing
Good video helpful info for sure. I send messages to to my crush from time to time so I’m not blowing up her inbox. We have a bit of history so it is a bit frustrating to occasionally not get a response. As u said, I can’t be jumping to conclusions though
I'm having this problem right now. The girl that I'm texting and calling. Hasn't even respond to my text or my calls. So I'm gonna wait until she responds back or call back. And plus I'm trying to figure out if there's something wrong with her phone
I feel like I’m bothering my friend too much and I didn’t get a single response from him yet and it’s been a day now I don’t want to bother him too much
I have a crush on this girl and she told me her and her ex had a bad break up and We started talking a little bit and I told her that I liked her and Now she’s leaving me on seen and idk if she is not interested in me or playing hard to get, she was showing interest in me before and damn I just want her back
My crush told me that constant greeting of "good morning" "good afternoon" and "good evening" is becoming awkward...well I was shocked when I read that...well Josh is it really awkward to say greetings constantly even if she doesn't reply?
If they don't text you back send them an obscene text back using the F bomb then meet someone else who answers all your text and shows interest in you.
Hi josh IDK if you made a video about this topic but I recently confessed to this girl who I spended time with building such relationship with her, she said to just be friends and I stated what I wanted meaning I told her that I dont see her that way and that a friendship like such wont work and that I was glad to met her and gave told her to have a good day and walked away . what now did I do good on responding to that rejection? and what now what do I do
I feel like the calling with a short question is a bit too aggressive. these days, people don’t call much. They usually only call when they are planning stuff that might be too complicated over text. Otherwise, they text. That’s the main form of communication these days. In my case (use this for reference), i know my crush a lot more now and havent asked her out yet because we started talking in second semester. Starting conversations can get pretty hard because i don’t have anything much to say most of the time. At this point i’m not entirely sure what is next. Idk if i should ask her to hang out. The weird thing is that we talk using snapchat and rarely message one another with the message app. We don’t really talk about all that much usually which is probably a sign that i should go ahead and ask her to hang out 🤷🏻♂️ still not sure about it.
Ethanolol just do it. What's the worse that can happen with asking her. When you take her out to do something you'll have something to do for fun to add more layer of conversation with her.
I'm so late but yeah she doesnt really respond to my messages but she did give me her number so idk if she likes me back and I called once and I ask to go to the movies and she said yes.
What do I do if they live in a different state she called me once and we talked and it was awkward and we never called again and only Snapchat and text
Lols even you stand out from others she's not going to like you just like that. If she's not into you whatever you do you're are nothing to her so just find another girl who likes you not hate and ignore you
Ok it was the last day of 9th grade I was depressed because I didn't even get to know her but still we did talk for a while then I told her to sign a paper so then I wouldn't forget about her and she asked me when she was done what was my phone number. In my head I was like O M G my dreams came true lol then she texted me and we had a conversation for the 3 hours and then when I noticed I was like damnnnnn then I had to go somewhere and I told her I had then the next day she never answered....
My Crush And I have Talked a Lot Of Time But Sometimes She Doesnt Reply To My "Hi" then should I regularly keep texting her, hoping For A reply For Josh
Ive send a dm to a girl I like ( not to ask for a date, but just to talk about a topic we both seem to like). It is 3 days ago and according to instagram she hasnt read it yet ( it doesnt show the "read" sign) . What is best to do?
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QUESTION: Has someone you texted before ever just stopped responding to your messages? Leave your comment below!
I need help is there any website were I can talk to u
Hi josh i think we should talk soon just left the area
Self respect is more important than crush
When your crush says she is busy for a while and doesn’t text you but reacts to a post 😔
When your friend and your crush are busy to hang out with you (kinda sus🤨🤔)
I've been in that situation many times. I used to get mad at them but now it's just whatever
That's probably the most natural response after it happens. Sometimes they don't respond, whatever.
The Josh Speaks right
Lol just happened to me first time
I’ve come to josh for advice
@@TheJoshSpeaks Throw yourself into your hobbies, post selfies with friends, makes you a million times more attractive. But hate it when they do the whole "sorry ive been kidnapped by aliens", it's like "I didn't ask why it's fine darling"
Dont be clingy. Its simple. If they dont reply all day, it is fine. If you start getting angry, they won't want to know you.
My crush left me on seen and replied 1 week later, makes sense lolol.
Least you got a reply. Most people usually never get anything lol 😬
@@Samuel2oh9 i waited a fucking week for a response from my crush. What do i get? FUCKING NOTHING.
The other side is you're giving her space and shows you're able to hold your own, plus it gives you a weeks' worth of things to talk about
josh youve helped me get my first girlfreind !!
I’m loving this weeks category! My biggest weakness with crushes is texting them, I always have a problem when it comes to this, these are really helping out though, thank you for doing this :)
Awesome Finch, check out the playlist at the end of the video which is a listing of my best texting videos!
The Josh Speaks I will go check it out
This is really gonna help dude keep killin it
Thanks man!
My crush left me on read Wednesday but I still think I have a chance. I'm from NY but she lives in FL, where I go to college. I've known her in August and she's super nice. She invited me to events she was attending when I asked her what she was up to. I'm gonna wait until next Wednesday to text her to not appear desperate. If she's not interested, so be it. Losers quit, winners try.
Maybe girls should just tell you how they feel instead of trying to make guys read their mind over a text message or no text message. The problem is girls lack basic communication skills and they have since the dawn of time so that'll never change. So just be happy and do you and the less you care about the result the more happier and successful you'll be.
Exactly they don't give a straight forward yes or no
'The problem is girls lack basic communication skills ' I noticed this too but how come? They are talking the whole day long to their girlfriends, yet when they have to converse with a guy they can't make anything up except 'hi'?
I don't think with that attitude your fond to get a response. I don't think anyone thinks that anyone can read their mind over text. I realize myself that sometimes I just reply shortly and move on with my day. It's nothing deep until one gets that infatuated with it. That's when you need to self reflect and think again. In other words no one needs to change for anyone bc you don't like the way they do certain things. That doesn't just apply to dating.
males and females are different and usually are interested in different things. When girls interact with guys, they might not have a lot to relate to. So it makes it easier for them to chat with other girls. I can imagine it would be difficult for them to chat with a guy even if they like them so they may feel insecure or nervous. Another thing is that if they get the feeling a guy likes them, but don't feel the same way, it puts a lot of pressure on them to say how they really feel. they're afraid of hurting their feelings or afraid they will get angry and end up harassing them.
I was waiting for her to text back and this video pooped up on my home page. Thanks Josh. Love your videos man. It really helps
There's a woman I am interested in and although she lives in Poland, and I live in the UK, we both have gone past the stages of audio messages and video calls. But I have learned that if she does not respond she is busy; sometimes she will inform me of her plans, I also tell her boring parts of the day - going to the post office, having a hair cut, she asked questions on both
Hey josh, this video really helped man! Thank you so much! I absolutely suck at texting girls, it’s almost pitiful with me but you have given me hope!✌🏼
No problem Kyle, I'm happy it was helpful
Been going through this i have been through all of that started since a month ago it directly said this person is not available at this time messaged sent failed took their chat out can’t reach out to them anymore it upset me i feeling everything you said inside I feel drained and cry every day why would hug me in person and they were sweet then they take their chat out on Facebook messenger that breaks my heart
Better days are coming Lindesey they dont deserve you, some people are just manipulative or cowardly.
Summary: very busy and bored: Fact
Also: men, you need to be pacient
Women, same as men
basically, in a nutshell
Some guys are too nice and patient and don’t reply I’ve been there 🤦🏽♂️
@@officialMemoacc oof man you 2 yrs late
I Will speak to you in a second-she said
Me:okay
One week later:nothing
What happened ?
@@nathanjohndeleon8242 nothing id guess
What happened?
Could you do a video on how to or where to meet girls for young adults, such as at uni/college or something please? Cheers
Hey that's a great topic to cover, I'm going to be doing a bunch of videos on starting college sometime in August so stay tuned. When do you start school?
The Josh Speaks Awesome to hear will be looking forward to the video. I'm about a halfway through my course but still time to find someone
Excactly what happened to me with a girl thx for the vid
Ahh I hope this video helps you out then
Literally happened to me earlier thanks for the video josh
No problem Jay, I got you
At this point in my life I don't want to video call because the expression on my face might reveal that my present State of Mind this is not what I would like it to be
Damn you took the first like josh i see you
haha you got me there!
the first 5 questions rlly hit me hard lmao
Alright so I was wondering why my crush wasn't texting me back but today she told one of my best friends that's her friend too she siad i was being to clingy and didn't give more than 5 mins but I texted 1 hour after every time just trying to help u guys don't be clingy.
#notificationsquad in the house!
woo hoo! #notificationsquad has arrived.
Anthony bet im in #notificationsquad
Yes I was always moving the first move I even phone her up and she never got back to me it's a cruel treatment and I tried but it was never good enough so a few weeks and then got fed up of silly mind games and deleted her number and Im getting streetwise now
The thumbnail kill me💀🤣
Thx josh this really helped my situation
Awesome, I'm happy it was helpful!
Ok so my crush told me that I’m annoying😂😂😭😭... I was pissed lol
Hey broda your videos are helping me alot. Thnx for being there as a big broda and helping me out through your videos.
Don’t keep texting wait for a day or two it makes you look desperate if you keep texting her
If there is one thing that REALLY annoys me is when I play it cool and the girl STILL says, "oo sorry I've not been touched i've been asleep for 24 hours", to which I respond by saying "I've been asleep for 72 hours, beat that sweetheart", cause unless i've asked the question then her not texting back should not be the topic of the conversation.
As James Tusk would say, it's not a very, "socially calibrated" thing to do.
Im in a situation that involves this. Im trying to get closer than friends with this girl, and we hangout, but shes just kinda slow to text more often than not. She’s coming over to decorate cookies and watch a movie Wednesday. Im just worried Im putting all this effort into something that wont grow what I would like it to be. Any thoughts and tips to ease the anxiety is loved! This video helped me for sure
Hey josh do you a video on how to get someone to like you back
Hey I made this video all about how to get your crush to like you in middle school, check it out: ruclips.net/video/4L62g_JeRcE/видео.html
You’re the best
Thanks Eric!
I don't know why but when you started talking I imagined you to be an animated character.
What if she sometimes doesn’t respond but we are very flirty in school. Is she JSUT prob busy,
Yeah some girls I text they don't seem to reply but they read the message... but still wondering if I should give up and move on
please help me josh ;(
my crush texted me “Hey” and i texted 3 hours later “Hi” and she not responding :(
now its been over 7 hours
Move on bro she don’t deserve you
Thank you McLovin
Hey josh can you please do a video about how people can unadd you or unfollow you on social media and you don't know why they did because you are for sure you haven't done anything to them ? Thanks Josh. It'll truly be appreciated.
I said “hey wyd” and she didn’t respond the I FaceTimed her and she declined right off the bat, and about 2 hours later she FaceTimed me...confused
Why would you facetime after she didnt respond, she obviously was busy at that time if she called you back afterwards
Dont say "hey wyd" that means you are probably 14.
Listen, I had the best day of my life last night. Me and my crush got into an argument but mid way through she told me she liked me and we both freaked out. And lmao my life is so much better
I just recently texted my crush on ig letting her know I like her stories pertaining to cooking and commend her to going to college. We never met in person, but we have a mutual friend that we both know. At the end of my message I wrote, "I'd like to get to know you more if that's ok. Cause I think you're interesting." You think that might have turned her off? It's been two days since I sent it, and she hasn't replied back. Honestly, I am freaking out. Help?
She always one of the first people that views my stories and likes my posts, she saw the dm after 5 days and it's its been 27 days and hasn't responded 😔
Josh this is a very good and helpful video thank you very much for sharing videos talking about how to be my best self keep up the good work👍🏻
I texted my crush something I think is hard to respond to, any icebreakers or anything to make it seem less awkward...What shall I do?
"if you see them in the hallway...."
NOPE... not while COVID19
Yes
my girlfreind is jealous about me being close to one of her freinds What do i do
Thanks josh 🙏🏼
My crush doesn't respond to me either but still watches my Snapchat stories? Sounds like she still wants to know what I'm up to in life?? Hmmmm. What's your take on that josh?
This is happening with me.
She just replied and now she stopped even looking at my texts.
I tries many times but it's seems she is not interested.
I am sad but not angry at her.
I can understand that she don't want to talk and I respect her decision.
So I stopped texting her on fb.
But it's painful for me.
At least girls should clearly say that they don't want to talk.
They intentionally create a sense of suspense.
thanks bro thanks thanks thanks u are the best josh
My crush has a job but not sure if she is working today or just busy doing something at home
Wow your voice
Am the same my crush doesn't reply me back I need help Josh👍
My gf just suddenly stopped texting back we were doing fine and texting each other and its been about an hour since she texted me last sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo thx anyways but i tried ecerything but hey maybe she is busy cus we werent even arguing
Good video helpful info for sure. I send messages to to my crush from time to time so I’m not blowing up her inbox. We have a bit of history so it is a bit frustrating to occasionally not get a response. As u said, I can’t be jumping to conclusions though
I'm having this problem right now. The girl that I'm texting and calling. Hasn't even respond to my text or my calls. So I'm gonna wait until she responds back or call back. And plus I'm trying to figure out if there's something wrong with her phone
How did that work out so far
I feel like I’m bothering my friend too much and I didn’t get a single response from him yet and it’s been a day now I don’t want to bother him too much
Good video josh
Thanks, glad it was helpful!
I have a crush on this girl and she told me her and her ex had a bad break up and We started talking a little bit and I told her that I liked her and Now she’s leaving me on seen and idk if she is not interested in me or playing hard to get, she was showing interest in me before and damn I just want her back
Been here done that
Texting should be just for setting up dates. Not conversation.
My crush told me that constant greeting of "good morning" "good afternoon" and "good evening" is becoming awkward...well I was shocked when I read that...well Josh is it really awkward to say greetings constantly even if she doesn't reply?
Deadass rn so that's why I'm here lol
Pretty hard to do during to COVID
This is so helpful low key to me thanks JoSH
If they don't text you back send them an obscene text back using the F bomb then meet someone else who answers all your text and shows interest in you.
Hi josh IDK if you made a video about this topic but I recently confessed to this girl who I spended time with building such relationship with her, she said to just be friends and I stated what I wanted meaning I told her that I dont see her that way and that a friendship like such wont work and that I was glad to met her and gave told her to have a good day and walked away . what now did I do good on responding to that rejection? and what now what do I do
It’s been almost 2 days no response 😂 getting ready to remove
6 days here homie
She said she would call me today but didn’t and now it’s late at night and I texted her a few hours ago idk what to do
what if the girl you wanna talk to doesn’t even know you and you don’t see them in person
I am always waiting for someone who texts me first
wow u know ur stuff
Don't freak out
Don't worry.
Maybe she's busy
It's so weird, my Crush instantly answers my questions on a group chat, but when it is a personal message she doesn't respond :(
I feel like the calling with a short question is a bit too aggressive. these days, people don’t call much. They usually only call when they are planning stuff that might be too complicated over text. Otherwise, they text. That’s the main form of communication these days.
In my case (use this for reference), i know my crush a lot more now and havent asked her out yet because we started talking in second semester.
Starting conversations can get pretty hard because i don’t have anything much to say most of the time.
At this point i’m not entirely sure what is next. Idk if i should ask her to hang out. The weird thing is that we talk using snapchat and rarely message one another with the message app. We don’t really talk about all that much usually which is probably a sign that i should go ahead and ask her to hang out 🤷🏻♂️ still not sure about it.
Ethanolol just do it. What's the worse that can happen with asking her. When you take her out to do something you'll have something to do for fun to add more layer of conversation with her.
I'm so late but yeah she doesnt really respond to my messages but she did give me her number so idk if she likes me back and I called once and I ask to go to the movies and she said yes.
How should I ask out my crush tomorrow Josh in person please let me know im soo scared I need your support
But she wasn’t busy. I dm’d her while she was scrolling through insta for a long time.
Yeah that happend to me
What do I do if they live in a different state she called me once and we talked and it was awkward and we never called again and only Snapchat and text
Lols even you stand out from others she's not going to like you just like that. If she's not into you whatever you do you're are nothing to her so just find another girl who likes you not hate and ignore you
What if she don't pick up the call cuz she don't like it!?🤔......
I text her and snap her sometimes and I am just so confused we talk in person quit a bit and it seems chill but then on the phone she never responds
What about if you can’t never see them
What if u like a girl but the girl doesnt like u back.
U move on
Time is money , no time for such things I have better things to do 🗿
Ok it was the last day of 9th grade I was depressed because I didn't even get to know her but still we did talk for a while then I told her to sign a paper so then I wouldn't forget about her and she asked me when she was done what was my phone number. In my head I was like O M G my dreams came true lol then she texted me and we had a conversation for the 3 hours and then when I noticed I was like damnnnnn then I had to go somewhere and I told her I had then the next day she never answered....
If I don't get a reply back from a girl in less than 24 hours, I'm getting rid of her, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
Do you reply to every message you get within 24 hours as well?
@TheJoshSpeaks Typically yes.
Hey josh how to deal with people mocking me??
He's so shy that's why he didn't reply. He know he stare at me in college and he's scare if i ask him about this.
My Crush And I have Talked a Lot Of Time But Sometimes She Doesnt Reply To My "Hi" then should I regularly keep texting her, hoping For A reply For Josh
Ive send a dm to a girl I like ( not to ask for a date, but just to talk about a topic we both seem to like). It is 3 days ago and according to instagram she hasnt read it yet ( it doesnt show the "read" sign) . What is best to do?
If my crush doesn't text back it's OK ain't gonna break my heart
hiiii
hey Elizabeth!
Everytime me and my crush see eachother we laugh a lot especially her but she is just leaving me on seen on whatsapp.Do I have a chance?
Too late, i freaked out. Its fine though