There are Tanzanian women that earn more than Tanzanian man and respect their husband. Respect for your husband is a cultural and societal importance in Tanzania.
A Tanzanian coworker was fired after beating his American black wife in the company parking lot. It was rather obvious that she was catching a few licks at home by the way she would come to work looking defeated. This type of behavior is nothing new from my experience.
@@dylanhill1640 _”domestic violence”_ is solely a western invention designed to remove men from power in their homes and give it to a centralized authority(government). The non-western world does not believe in that phony Babylonian nonsense.🤨
Culture is extremely varied, even within countries, in Africa. I will encourage a woman (or man) to really get to know the nuances of the culture of any foreigner that she (or he) wants to get involved with.
As an African woman. This is true. I have lived in 4 different African countries as I have family from many African countries and the culture is different across them.
@@tf5655 That is not the topic. Also, we aren't talking about the morality of what was happening. We are talking about how people could protect themselves from people who might have negative propensities due to their cultural baggage.
I'm ba living in the uk. I'm going to Sa for the first time in August 🎉I'm going to meet my 25 Yr old zulu virgin that I been grooming and molding since she was 21 🥰 i can't wait to meet her in person 🤗
As an African, I know that some men don't have a problem with beating up their women because traditionally it was normal to beat up their wives and they saw their dads beating up their moms. As a foreigner you have to be extra careful of who you date and marry.
The way African American women act they likely deserved it because of a man acted the way they do hands would be thrown. Especially since BW are well known for attacking men not to mention their mouth.
Listening to this conversation as an American man, it seems the African women have no concept of the American woman hitting the man first. This happens all the time, especially because the law in America will automatically see the man as the aggressor. Those women are not innocent, and just might need to understand violence against men will not be tolerated.
You know, there are situations where AA women say things that if they were a man there would be a fight without hesitation. You can't expect everyone to always be in control when you always disrespect a man's manhood. A man will walk away from riches because of being disrespected, a woman won't change that.
Respect goes both ways, and you are just a man, and I am just a woman, equal in every way, says Our Creator, see the problem with the masculine, he has reduced himself to a meathead, (physical power) when his feminine was given to him to balance that physical power, with Wisdom, they were to become one, and that didn’t mean a physical marriage, how do you think single Men and Women and Children, would become balanced? Our Creator told us we are all one family, and Judgement comes on how you treated your family while you were here.
@@deborahgardner7862 what?.. so I mention men being disrespected by their women and this is your response... Also masculinity isn't just about strength....
Love how this channel debunks the "Africa is paradise" type vision. Like once you make it to africa its the end game when its actually where we begin. Africa is amazing but still have internal problems which we hear from these individuals, so it shows you to research snd to find out its not all paradise. You wont immediantly land a trophy wife or husband coming here, you need to understand certain things and have certain things set up
@@NaeNae23 I want to clear this first, I wasn't speaking ill on África The continent that houses many countries and variety of culture. No what I'm saying is, the grass Is not always green on the otherside. There are people who sell us the idea of what I said previous, but it is up to us to do the research and to know that África as continent still needs to work to be done, which if we choose to live in any of the countries we need to be able to support
My question to them would be. Do women in Africa hit their men because they didn't like something their man said? African American women have a tendency to hit men and do it continuously because they know the system protects them. They think they can do the samething over in Africa, and many have gotten a rude awakening.
Man...I have NEVER seen a blk woman hit a blk man, that would be sue e side. Stop making up stuff. Anyway NO one believes you. continuously???? now that's funny...Every blk woman knows even a protection order is meaningless.
African American women hit everyone, not just their men. This is part of their culture. Put their hands on people. Don't you see them in some TV shows where thfy would remove their shoes and jump on people. They love to do that and they are very proud of themselves for doing it
Women put hands on male kids so why shouldn't they get some of it from the men, especially when they are disrespectful, isn't that the reason they hit kids themselves?
Ask your self why devorce rate is high in uzr country USA if u think u are smart in marriage issues. U can't change marriage laws and u expect peace. Devorce after devorce
@@morganbabu3105 Um, find out why black men cause 50% of crime rates while being 6% of the USA population. Trust me, the AA women aren't the issue in Africa. It's the ALWAYS the black men regardless of whether they're in Africa or America or China. Chinese are doing better building infrastructure in Africa.
There is no excuse for anyone to be beaten anywhere. Spousal abuse happens worldwide. Abusers do what they do, no matter how much they make. Folks love using subjects for likes and views? People are the same everywhere. It has nothing to do with money or being from a particular place.
Black women in the USA know our (Black) history of slave patrols, KKK, police brutality as primarily enacted against Black men and have no problem here in the US weaponizing that reality against Black men; sometimes getting Black men killed, incarcerated, money taken or otherwise humiliated. African countries are patriarchal (these educated women know that) however, they can't control themselves in anger and want to treat African men the way they treat and talk to Black American men and that's not going to fly. I'm not condoning the weapon of a women's mouth nor the weapon of a man's hands or fists. Stop it. However, I hope Africa remains patriarchal
American women need to leave their feministic entitlement in the US. Respect the culture of those African men and get along. Be a vocal nagging bugging btch isn't being empowered.
We are not talking about America. They are talking about Traditional man dealing with masculine Western women. AA “modern woman” can go over there with the same nonsense from the western world. Look at the mess that has been created in the United States, because of masculine women.
On thing I noticed you Africans from the content always crying. With all do respect. Y’all can’t hit women. Morally or by law it’s not cool to beat women straight up.💯💯💯💯
There is a difference between Domestic Abuse and Domestic Chastisement. Wife Spanking isn't for everyone but it is Traditional and a Religious practice supported by Common Law and Biblical Law
LOL so they come to Africa thinking they can maniplate and talk crazy to black men in Africa like they do in America and they get a rude awakening? Lesson learned. I don't feel bad for them.
Gbam! People quickly agree that men are stronger, but women forget that physical reality because Netflix has us watching movies where a small girl 70Kg soaking wet will thrash 10 grown men. Be calm, and 80% of violence is eliminated.
@Dahlia R🐾🐾 Jealous? 😂😂😂. Come watch them lie all day on this internet. These women are our mothers, sisters, friends, coworkers. We know these intimately. You gotta be clown to think you know them better than we do. I lot of mothers weren't shit
No, we get that _”balance”_ literally everywhere else in mainstream and social media, ad nauseam. We are sick of hearing from them at this point, because all they do is gaslight and never admit to any fault or take personal responsibility and personal accountability.
If she's disrespectful to the point you want to put hands on her just divorce her. She's supposed to the last person you would want to put hands on. Divorce.
@@UhuruSasa85 doing all that cost money. Money is the main reason for divorce here in the USA. And guess who usually the ones doing the divorcing? Women. So don't tell me what's not the reason.
I wish I could've been in Uganda with my husband there for this wonderful event coming up! Love this podcast. I've watched Mark in Tanzania when King Obutunda went there.. I can't wait to be back home..🥲🇺🇬
You guys speak truth, now a new event went viral! Took her big mouth to Dubai, got into an argument, & raised her voice, passport taken, locked in hail, can do up 1 yr for screaming in public, the man had yet to be charged at the car rental company! I'm happy, she deserves it
Keisha: I came all the way here and you just like the broke Ns I tried to get away from. I have a Masters degree!! King swipe: Who Da fawk you think you talkine tooooo!!!! 👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿
Respect is a two way street. Men and women are different in many ways however if respect is given, respect should be reciprocated. You can’t, my opinion, get what you’re not giving.
Tanzanian men are not knowing for that, are american women treating them like they treat black men in America, cause that won't slide only american except that behaviour
African american women really dont want a traditional African man because traditional African men what the same thing from a women most Black men in America want. And American women fight against that. These women didnt do their homework .
When you go to another place you must do your research and understand the good and bad things and this is EVERYWHERE(Africa,UK,USA,LatinAmerica,Asia etc). Then you have to make a choice and decide if you want to be there or not. Also, remember everyone that this is human nature and not a case of men vs woman or different countries. This has nothing to do with the subject but I LOVE AFRICA.
It really irritates me to see a man, who ran from the the US, go across the water, and act like he knows African American women, in your whole life, I don’t care how long you live, you won’t meet every African American woman, individualize the women you chose, don’t make her a collective. If that’s the woman you attract then theirs something wrong with the frequency you’re emitting. Let’s not sit in an entire different country, and act like the men in America don’t create the women they get. And these people believe you because you came from America, what they need to do, is read up on current Black American Men, from Black American Sista’s. The thing is you don’t want to do better, you want to generalize all Black Women, when in the States we’re working on individualizing the Black Man, and we expect the same courtesy, because like I said earlier, I will never meet every Black man, no matter how long I live. Be mindful of judgement, you can only speak on the women you know, anything else, is something you heard.
It’s a generalization that holds merit. Get out of your feelings if you are not the general. If you are, which by reading your comment, the general fits you spot on. Maybe do a deep dive and make some changes.
@@StoicBachelor Well, you f-cking men will be alone if you think you going to run everything in the house and more importantly the wife, we have a right to want things too in our life. , wants, and personal desires is not over for the woman just because she marries.
The comments on AA women was balanced and critical for anyone who may end up marring a traditional A man... The whole point of the podcast is generalities and not individual circumstances.. If this does not apply to you then live-ur-movie luv...
I'm a Nigerian American who grew up in Nigeria, Europe, The Carribean, The Middle East, I've seen Men put their hands on women and I've never condoned it, and never will, you can disagree and still have respect for eachother as soon as a man puts his hands on a woman he has reduced himself to loser in other words he has become less than a man and any woman that accepts that has low esteem just as the man who beats her no real man who considers himself a gentleman and a God fearing Christian with morals will ever hit his wife, only men with no morals and low esteem do such and such men I have no love and respect for and want nothing to do with such men.
IF YOU VERBALLY ABUSE YOUR HUSBAND IN AFRICA, HE HAS THE RIGHT TO CONTROL YOUR TONGUE BY SPANKING YOU LIKE A SPOILED CHILD UNTIL YOU DESIST FROM ABUSING HIM VERBALLY OR QUIT IF YOU CANT CHANGE. WOMEN BRING UNNECESSARY DRAMA INTO THEIR RELATIONSHIPS THRU VERBAL ABUSE. RESPECT THE MAN, HOLD YOUR TONGUE AND MOST AFRICAN MEN WILL NEVER JUST HIT YOU.
@@tonybantu9427 You're an evidence of a bad man or should I say a bad husband. I pity women in your life. No man has any right to hit someone else daughter or sons. If you support abusive men you should also support abusive women or are you thinking is only the female that can be beaten?
Critics of the Passport Bros be silent about this..what's going on with them Passport Sistas..they having hell with Ghanaian and Nigerian men they Married also..they guys have other wives..but folks just talk about how bad Black America men are.🤔
Thank you my man you said everything with facts men and other country do not play this s*** they do not want masculine women of America That's why they don't come over here to get them she really thought just because she had money she's going to walk all over this dude nah I would have did the same thing she lucky she made it out of the country of live
This channel speaks a lot about African American women and rarely has AA women to join the discussion. And unfortunately women get beat by men in every country. Stop making AA women a focus point without representation to get more views. Ohshay, you are spot on about many topics but you come from a point of hurt and being jaded when speaking of AA women. Deal with that pain. Signed with love, from an African American Woman.
Money is not power. American woman think that money gives them power. Power is strength. Man have more strength, so we will always have the power no matter how they think about it. So respect is always paramount
Strength , status , family name , and money are all ingredients for power in West Africa for sure. It's a balancing act. You can't have no strength , just some decent money , no status in the society , and no tribal or family name of respect and think you are moving any mountains in Africa ... Other than maybe in the United States of South Africa.
Instead of focusing on "exit plans" and calling police... how about western women check their western attitudes when they enter Africa... i would think this may be a easier solution
Get out as fast as you can. At least for the Kids sake. Don't get gas lighted to live in fear and terror. I'm African and do not take such nonsense. Be independent and bring something to the table whether man or woman.
How about males all over the world learn that a real man would never beat up a woman? Mature adults should be able to settle differences respectfully, without one trying to use violence to get their way.
My father never put his hands on my mother. My mother never put her hands on my father. Is there some reason that this level of civility can't be expected and found outside of the United States?
@LoveViolet Flowers, that was your parents. There's plenty of men who are abused by their wives physically. There are men in the same situation with their girlfriends and don't retaliate. There's a false pretense that it only goes one way. I've lived abroad and the women are different. Not saying there's not any good women in the US, but it's slim pickings.
As an African men, some of us have a different view on how a woman should behave. It’s not even just conservative or traditional it’s just an antiquated way of looking at women and there is no changing them. They will resort to violence naturally. So please women do your due diligence in vetting us men so you can avoid those kind of brothers. I’m very conservative myself raised by conservative parents who whooped me but never ever resorted to violence between themselves. I don’t believe in getting physical with your partner, it’s the lowest place you can go to. At the same time I believe in women being gracious and as feminine as to understand when to speak and when to stay calm. But the consequence or fear should never be on a physical level.
The Passport Bros go after whyte women...The black American women went after blk men and got the same blk man...The black American women should have went after whyte overseas men.
Great podcast as always guys. Outa should have been in this one especially. Bring him on for part 2. To give a no-holds-barred African man's perspective. 😄
She said, "they're beaten or mistreated and they can't handle that" - as in, can't handle being beaten/mistreated??? 🤔 A woman SHOULD be able to "handle" that???
I will not handle any man beating/hitting me. He won’t hit again. I’ll find the closet object and beat him to the floor. He will think twice the next time.😅
@@lindadrinks-johnson1904 And you shouldn’t HAVE TOO either. But this is what western women asked for when they didn’t respect a really good black American.
@@lindadrinks-johnson1904 you need to grow up you think you could hold your own against a man in a situation where he is not holding back and he is not the least bit concerned about what will happen if he mops the floor with you. You women are going to learn. Most men in the USA are actually good dudes who for a long time fought and worked hard to give you the best in the world, but now many of y’all are just so awful and disrespectful and sinful as fuck.
@@evonnereed9268 Stop overreacting. The woman shouldn't disrespect the man. You thought that you would have an easier time in Africa but you learned otherwise. You had it easier with Black-American men but you FCUKED that up royally. You don't qualify to marry most non-Black men, so now you're in a conundrum. There is absolutely no man on planet Earth that a stank-attitude woman (like yourself) can get along with. There's a reason why Asian women are the most desired women outside of being with non-Asian men; they are feminine, fit, friendly and cooperative. Most Black men would prefer to be with our own race of women, but many of you disqualify yourself for being healthy life partners. You're just going to have to buy a dog and die alone.
Every man does that that's not exclusive to African Muslim man when their women get out of line they'll beat them Hispanic man whether we'll get our live. We'll beat them h*** even white men will do it
@@joshuaj.chinda9873 its not a cultural thing here because of all the laws against it here in America so its not the same hell its not common like in Africa and doesn't happen as much
My father is Tanzanian and has been married for 45 years. I have never seen him raise a hand to my mother. Violent and abusive people just exist in their world, and they come from different countries and backgrounds.
I’m older, late 40’s, but wanted to chime in. As an AA woman who’s been stabbed by my ex… of course I don’t agree with ANY sort of violence. I do believe some AA women from the Hood have much to be desired in the feminine, agreeable and submissive department. It’s hard for them to not fight when that’s all they know. Growing up in a community where resources are low, education is weak and jobs are menial - they become of product of their environment. They don’t know any better. But, not all AA women are like this. Not at all. There are some beautiful AA who’d make beautiful mates.
@@davidwalker4216 please, I wasn’t making excuses for bad behavior just saying although America is the land of milk and honey - some people never get the milk or the honey and it manifest in other ways.
IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT SOME MEN CHOOSE TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON WOMEN, BUT THIS DOES NOT JUST HAPPEN IN AFRICA. IT HAPPENS ALL OVER THE GLOBE AND IT'S SAD AND UNFORTUNATE.
Some countries there's not even any repercussions like there is in America. You don't even have to hit a woman to get arrested in America. You can just grab them and get arrested. In Arab countries men can beat their wives and do zero jail time.
Who is really moving to Africa and what for exactly?? I'm not going to a place people are fleeing every min of everyday😆😆😆 If Africa was so great they wouldn't be fleeing.
@@oceejekwam6829not necessarily; in western culture a man can get arrested immediately just by the accusation. In Africa, culturally law enforcement might stay out of domestic issues.
@@monica62888 neighbors, family members, religious and community leaders do way more to resolve relationships conflicts in Africa than law enforcement, counselors, and don’t get me started on attorneys who just want the bag either way, in the west. As for calling 911 and having men locked up or given warnings including staying away, a lot of women still get maimed. My point is that it’s best to figure out what the two of you want from one another and try to be respectful. Or stay alone.
@@LetsTravellChannel 1. In Africa, culturally law enforcement might stay out of domestic issues. 2. neighbors, family members, religious and community leaders do way more to resolve relationships conflicts in Africa. WHICH IS IT do they stay out or resolve conflicts. By the way, I have always thought men can do anything they want in Africa.
i dont feel sorry for these modern women ass getting beat, they too out of pocket. they dont know how to resoect a man ever since men gave them a fair game to earn,now they think they are a man now,smdh
An American woman coming to any part of Africa to marry should understand there is cultural difference...because both of you are "blacks" does not mean you aren't 'difference'. If they can work around that they have chances of enjoying their wedlock. American women won't take nonsense of African men, and please dear African men, if you are marrying American women, make sure you pay her bride price. Insist on paying, whatever it is please, be a man because if you don't your Sacred Ancestors won't forgive you.
No matter it happens traditionally. Pain is pain. What's with the hitting. Don't you know it hurts the body. Even where it's accepted, the woman still try to get it to stop. BECAUSE IT HURTS 😞 Men is in shock if the woman hits them. Wow!
I'm here in Dar and i noticed these dusties Immediately. I'm glad I didnt come here looking for one bc I noticed how insincere they are and not very smart.
When American woman looks for relationship abroad they are not looking for a man to provide as the same there is for a man he's not looking for a woman to provide. They are looking for romance which tends to workout different for women. For many foreign men have no problem looking for women outside the marriage. 🧐❓
It doesn't apply anywhere else their behavior she would be real feminine when she goes overseas because men don't play that s*** I seen the documentaries that whole feminist s*** don't fly trust me don't even talk about that s*** cuz they know they'll be dealt with and there's nobody there too protect them from their bad behavior
Domestic violence and child abuse crosses boundaries and is prevalent globally. It's a control and dominance issue and upbringing and society. It's across all economic and class populations. It's as prevalent in the US as it is in Africa. People even get killed especially if they try to leave. I worked at a Women's Shelter in the US and I saw it all really sad 😭
@@thejookking Talk to you like you are just the shit they stepped in on their way to the market. come with an attitude like they are just better than you.
@@thejookking many sistas in the USA trash talk an act a fool in public are pure disrespectful by majority, they think that stank attitude willfully be tolerated in a society of patriarchy hah , their gonna find out the hard way as always an it’s unnecessary for themselves to walk dead into a culture were they think they can have it their way with the gov protecting them, foolishly they do not care to have any humility conservativeness or self control
There is a big difference between African men vs Black American men. As a Black woman who was married to a Ghanian, they don't appreciate being cussed out. We are used to cussing Black American men out, & they run off. But African men don't run off, they kick in bathroom doors.
What you call running off... is him making a wise decision not to hurt you while also avoiding to fall into the trap of a racist prison system that work hand and hand with BW as soon as she plays the crying victim while calling the cops. African men can't even fathom or mentally process that type of double crossing, sinister backstabbing activity 😅
Material conditions cannot be the sole determinate of who is in charge of what! The Creator has given us gudeance as to our roles and responsibilities across culture and circumstance. If a woman makes a more money than her man it doesn’t mean he does not say over certain things and just because a man makes more money doesn’t give him the right to be mean to her.
I agree that the prospect of women traveling abroad to meet a husband is dangerous unless they are adept at the mating culture of that country. This is particularly true for older and/or independent women who are set in their ways. Foreign men are far more traditional in the ancient ways of their culture, and modernity can be offensive to their sensibility. As it stands, modern men of the West have a hard time with so-called "independent women," and I would be hard-pressed to believe it wouldn't be even more difficult for foreign men, especially in cultures in which gentility is not a part of their custom. In general, men whose confidence is attached to their ego are prone to defensiveness, as bruising their ego is apt to be easy, and it takes little to trigger them. Men who are confident in their masculinity are less inclined to be bothered by the display of independence or strength in the modern woman. Confident men understand that these qualities in a woman don't take away from his masculinity and, in fact, find it interestingly challenging to find common ground with such a personality, as he sees the advantage of having a sound woman. He usually has mastered the art of disarming her and bringing out her gentler side. The truth is that strong women are looking for such a man, and their belligerence is often an expression of their frustration in not finding one.
This is a worldwide issue ever 11 mins. a woman is killed by her mate. But why, are we not telling men not to beat women. Not once did they say to men ... you shouldn't beat a women. ... only saying to women to look out for themselves...placing 100% of the responsibility on the woman.
I have noticed that even there African women don't want to be held accountable for their actions. They want the power to destroy their marriage, children and family and nothing to be done physically. "Don't hit me, even if I keep doing wrong by you and the children."
Interesting....I have witnessed the opposite. Love my African brothers and have several disaporan friends who got married here and are in beautiful relationships. My man is sweet also😊.
Why are there no black american woman from the west speaking on these topics. This is a one sided conversation with Oshay speaking on black women from the west. It's like me having a podcast saying well black american men do etcetera.
Because they want to sell the idea of, they can always have better than the aboriginal black American men, and they don’t have to settle with us, if we can divest, so can they a bunch of BS
My wife makes twice the amount I make but I run the finance in the house because I am better at money management. She has full access to every penny we have and can spend at her leisure but better be willing to have a discussion about it either pre or post spending if necessary and that goes both ways. it's called mutual respect.
I am a Tanzanian , and old enough to know both side living in the west and in Tanzania. Normally the beating does not happen if a lady put 100% respect to her husband. The moment you disrespect your man wooohhhh lord have messy. Most Tanzania girls are very traditional and put respect 100%. If you are in Tanzania you better come correct otherwise you won’t like it.
@@Defi247 - That is not the proper order of things! Men come from women and are of their design. Even in the Bible it says that the Kingdom of heaven is the reverse of the kingdoms of men!
@@purpleiris6489 you obviously don't read the Bible. The first woman came from a man. Second, the order in the Bible is YAH/GOD, YAHUSHA(Jesus), Man, Woman, child(ren). Sooooo....sorry, not sorry. Women need to know there is respect that women have been REQUIRED to give the men. He doesn't have the right to abuse her in NO WAY. But women, we talk too damn much sometimes!
I guess I'm totally westernized because if a man raises his hands to me period he's asking for an early demise. I WILL NOT ALLOW ANY MAN TO HIT ME EVER!!
If Americans know to behave and conduct themselves the right way then u will see how others will respect, and don’t expect others to change when u cannot set the right pace, be a light
You really need to define what behaving and conducting yourselves the right way is. Because it differs for every country. And in Tanzania, if you are a foreigner and go out of your way to be nice/kind with people, folks WILL see that as an opportunity to swindle or use you.
Don't lump us in with African American women we don't get along for a reason anymore and black American men wouldn't be ignoring them In droves if we did.
I don't care what race, culture or background that a man comes from. Any of them are capable of beating your behind if not also killing you. Women need to be careful. And at the same time not provoking that man either. Everyone has their limits.
No they don’t ever get tired because they make money off of black people’s pain and dysfunction. It’s an easy grift, but so sad when it’s your own people.
Because diaspora people are extremely fawked up due to Westernism and colonialism/neocolonialism. Until Westernism goes away or becomes less of a global factor, relationship issues in the diaspora will *_always_* be popular.
I can't believe people are actually discussing domestic abuse and violence like its something you should expect with a "traditional man" GTFO with that
I think that what's going on is, there is a type of toxic black women from here in the States, bringing that toxic energy there, under the illusion that they can run that game there and end up being surprised. The young brotha, during his interview, made a key point regarding his assessments. And that key point was how a lot of Black American women getting involved with Tanzanian men, thinking that they can control the relationship are in for a surprise. Control is the key word.
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I think someone said along the lines of “you can’t be a non traditional women expecting a traditional man!”
a traditional man? that's a myth....by the way what is a traditional man, sounds kind of scary to me.
So women getting their ass beat is traditional. Psychopath!
@@evonnereed9268village man. A man from the interior.
@@analyticalmindset What do they do to be called a traditional man because African tradition is polygamy....
@@evonnereed9268 shut up 😂
I think they watched too much 90 day fiancé and still want to marry younger foreigner men. Honesty, dating tv shows needs to be stop permanently.
They will learn today. 😂 😂 😂
ABW are the most gullible Americans. They tailor their lives to social media and reality TV 😂
Unless ALL the contestants are black and the production is 100% run by us.
There are Tanzanian women that earn more than Tanzanian man and respect their husband. Respect for your husband is a cultural and societal importance in Tanzania.
And those men beat the women regardless and speaking up for yourself is not a good reason for a man to hit a woman. It’s still unacceptable.
@TheRenaissanceAmazon No, they do not. You just made that up.
Those Tanazian women already know that any perceived disrespect to their husband they will get their A$$ beat!!! 😂
Thank you! Just goes to show how warped and demonic the Western woman's r. #EndisSoon
A Tanzanian coworker was fired after beating his American black wife in the company parking lot. It was rather obvious that she was catching a few licks at home by the way she would come to work looking defeated. This type of behavior is nothing new from my experience.
You are not telling both sides
@@davidwalker4216 Everyone deserves a relationship free from domestic violence.
@@dylanhill1640 _”domestic violence”_ is solely a western invention designed to remove men from power in their homes and give it to a centralized authority(government).
The non-western world does not believe in that phony Babylonian nonsense.🤨
Her mouth was probably reckless
@@dylanhill1640 She was definitely being rude and combative.
Culture is extremely varied, even within countries, in Africa.
I will encourage a woman (or man) to really get to know the nuances of the culture of any foreigner that she (or he) wants to get involved with.
Common sense is the same everywhere
@@coldhardtruth333 common sense ironically isn’t really all that common.
Which is unfortunate😑
As an African woman. This is true. I have lived in 4 different African countries as I have family from many African countries and the culture is different across them.
Nothing said about the brutality against AA and Tanzanian women. Smh
@@tf5655
That is not the topic.
Also, we aren't talking about the morality of what was happening. We are talking about how people could protect themselves from people who might have negative propensities due to their cultural baggage.
No woman or man should be beaten I love this podcast I’m a Zulu from South Africa I love you guys ❤
Another South African here🇿🇦❤
Me too 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Isn't SA the global capital of domestic violence?
I'm ba living in the uk. I'm going to Sa for the first time in August 🎉I'm going to meet my 25 Yr old zulu virgin that I been grooming and molding since she was 21 🥰 i can't wait to meet her in person 🤗
❣ from SA KZN, I agree. Better to just walk away guys I know at times we get disrespected and provoked
As an African, I know that some men don't have a problem with beating up their women because traditionally it was normal to beat up their wives and they saw their dads beating up their moms. As a foreigner you have to be extra careful of who you date and marry.
The way African American women act they likely deserved it because of a man acted the way they do hands would be thrown. Especially since BW are well known for attacking men not to mention their mouth.
That's true everywhere. Why don't African women marry American men?
@@iamredeemed73 Both don't have the same upbringing.
That isn't traditional 😂 that's from Islam. Go research your history..
@@stevelawson1388 Domestic violence ain't religion specific.
Listening to this conversation as an American man, it seems the African women have no concept of the American woman hitting the man first. This happens all the time, especially because the law in America will automatically see the man as the aggressor. Those women are not innocent, and just might need to understand violence against men will not be tolerated.
I agree
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Yep they’ll figure it out
They do because i know African women who don't just hit, they are very disrespectful to their husbands also.
You know, there are situations where AA women say things that if they were a man there would be a fight without hesitation. You can't expect everyone to always be in control when you always disrespect a man's manhood. A man will walk away from riches because of being disrespected, a woman won't change that.
Respect goes both ways, and you are just a man, and I am just a woman, equal in every way, says Our Creator, see the problem with the masculine, he has reduced himself to a meathead, (physical power) when his feminine was given to him to balance that physical power, with Wisdom, they were to become one, and that didn’t mean a physical marriage, how do you think single Men and Women and Children, would become balanced? Our Creator told us we are all one family, and Judgement comes on how you treated your family while you were here.
@@deborahgardner7862 cap , yall not equal , yall ask for permission to be so
@@deborahgardner7862 what?.. so I mention men being disrespected by their women and this is your response... Also masculinity isn't just about strength....
Yes...their tongue are toxic.
@@deborahgardner7862 your "creator" explicitly states that men and women are NOT equal, and reality manifests this. Learn how to punctuate 💯
Love how this channel debunks the "Africa is paradise" type vision. Like once you make it to africa its the end game when its actually where we begin.
Africa is amazing but still have internal problems which we hear from these individuals, so it shows you to research snd to find out its not all paradise. You wont immediantly land a trophy wife or husband coming here, you need to understand certain things and have certain things set up
Africa has BEEN corrupt…who in the world would move there?
What country is a Utopia? I would rather live in Africa than be slaughtered by those that call themselves police.
@@NaeNae23 I'd rather stay where women have rights. It's definitely not Africa.
@@NaeNae23 I want to clear this first, I wasn't speaking ill on África The continent that houses many countries and variety of culture.
No what I'm saying is, the grass Is not always green on the otherside. There are people who sell us the idea of what I said previous, but it is up to us to do the research and to know that África as continent still needs to work to be done, which if we choose to live in any of the countries we need to be able to support
@Tonya Md
Then don't travel at ALL since you're implying that you cannot behave yourself abroad.
My question to them would be. Do women in Africa hit their men because they didn't like something their man said? African American women have a tendency to hit men and do it continuously because they know the system protects them. They think they can do the samething over in Africa, and many have gotten a rude awakening.
Check out Ghanian and Nigerian women " I will slap you".
Man...I have NEVER seen a blk woman hit a blk man, that would be sue e side.
Stop making up stuff. Anyway NO one believes you. continuously???? now that's funny...Every blk woman knows even a protection order is meaningless.
AA women are the biggest perpetrators of intimate partner violence and intimate partner homicide out of all groups of women. Non-western men hit back.
African American women hit everyone, not just their men. This is part of their culture. Put their hands on people. Don't you see them in some TV shows where thfy would remove their shoes and jump on people. They love to do that and they are very proud of themselves for doing it
African women know they will be beaten mercilessly if they go around hitting men.
In England and America men say it’s bad. But the rest of the world puts hands on women.
They don’t put hands on women but they may put hands on toxic and stubborn verbally abusive women
The rest of the world? Dude men don’t do that .. only very select few are crazy to do that and they deserve each other ..
Women put hands on male kids so why shouldn't they get some of it from the men, especially when they are disrespectful, isn't that the reason they hit kids themselves?
Ask your self why devorce rate is high in uzr country USA if u think u are smart in marriage issues. U can't change marriage laws and u expect peace. Devorce after devorce
@@morganbabu3105 Um, find out why black men cause 50% of crime rates while being 6% of the USA population. Trust me, the AA women aren't the issue in Africa. It's the ALWAYS the black men regardless of whether they're in Africa or America or China. Chinese are doing better building infrastructure in Africa.
There is no excuse for anyone to be beaten anywhere. Spousal abuse happens worldwide.
Abusers do what they do, no matter how much they make.
Folks love using subjects for likes and views?
People are the same everywhere. It has nothing to do with money or being from a particular place.
Black women in the USA know our (Black) history of slave patrols, KKK, police brutality as primarily enacted against Black men and have no problem here in the US weaponizing that reality against Black men; sometimes getting Black men killed, incarcerated, money taken or otherwise humiliated. African countries are patriarchal (these educated women know that) however, they can't control themselves in anger and want to treat African men the way they treat and talk to Black American men and that's not going to fly. I'm not condoning the weapon of a women's mouth nor the weapon of a man's hands or fists. Stop it. However, I hope Africa remains patriarchal
Exactly
American women need to leave their feministic entitlement in the US. Respect the culture of those African men and get along. Be a vocal nagging bugging btch isn't being empowered.
Don’t be stupid , that’s not what she said ..
Nah know ur place
Mark didnt stereotype Tanzania men. He basically gave you a small case study of 7 women.
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We are not talking about America. They are talking about Traditional man dealing with masculine Western women. AA “modern woman” can go over there with the same nonsense from the western world. Look at the mess that has been created in the United States, because of masculine women.
Just like how everyone has its faults but always try to label the whole NIgeria.
On thing I noticed you Africans from the content always crying. With all do respect. Y’all can’t hit women. Morally or by law it’s not cool to beat women straight up.💯💯💯💯
There's no reason to put your hands on anyone to hurt them that you claim you love! They don't have to put up with being abused!
There is a difference between Domestic Abuse and Domestic Chastisement. Wife Spanking isn't for everyone but it is Traditional and a Religious practice supported by Common Law and Biblical Law
LOL so they come to Africa thinking they can maniplate and talk crazy to black men in Africa like they do in America and they get a rude awakening? Lesson learned. I don't feel bad for them.
Fucked up and found out. 😂
Real quick 😂😂😂
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Yep...same blk man.
Gbam! People quickly agree that men are stronger, but women forget that physical reality because Netflix has us watching movies where a small girl 70Kg soaking wet will thrash 10 grown men. Be calm, and 80% of violence is eliminated.
Why y'all got that lady in a chokehold on the thumbnail though!? I can't breathe 🤣😂💀
Freaking hilarious
The dude in the orange shirt is a straight hater of American sisters. He’s completely dramatic.
Thank you for posting this. That is so scary. It's important to know.
You should have had a Black American woman on to give her point of view and balance the discussion.
Bro, we already know the mind set of AAW. Lol
Can't put any stock in anything they say. We go by what they do.
@@demetriusevans4139 well why are you discussing them and watching discussions about them. Sounds like your sorry behind is jealous to me.
@Dahlia R🐾🐾 Jealous? 😂😂😂. Come watch them lie all day on this internet. These women are our mothers, sisters, friends, coworkers. We know these intimately. You gotta be clown to think you know them better than we do. I lot of mothers weren't shit
No, we get that _”balance”_ literally everywhere else in mainstream and social media, ad nauseam.
We are sick of hearing from them at this point, because all they do is gaslight and never admit to any fault or take personal responsibility and personal accountability.
Kudos to you as you spoke directly on the topic. You didn't "skirt around the edges". 👏
Thanks 🙏
If she's disrespectful to the point you want to put hands on her just divorce her. She's supposed to the last person you would want to put hands on. Divorce.
Or just get some self-control, counselling, or therapy. That’s not a reason to get a divorce imo.
@@UhuruSasa85 doing all that cost money. Money is the main reason for divorce here in the USA. And guess who usually the ones doing the divorcing? Women. So don't tell me what's not the reason.
Don't get married.
Nope. Only pathetic western men handle things that way
I wish I could've been in Uganda with my husband there for this wonderful event coming up! Love this podcast. I've watched Mark in Tanzania when King Obutunda went there.. I can't wait to be back home..🥲🇺🇬
We will have another one in September or October ❤️❤️❤️
You guys speak truth, now a new event went viral! Took her big mouth to Dubai, got into an argument, & raised her voice, passport taken, locked in hail, can do up 1 yr for screaming in public, the man had yet to be charged at the car rental company! I'm happy, she deserves it
Alot of our sista come to Africa and hook up with these kwame long stroke 💦thinking they can control them and then get a rude awakening...
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Kwame what!!!, Man that is funny....
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Keisha: I came all the way here and you just like the broke Ns I tried to get away from. I have a Masters degree!!
King swipe: Who Da fawk you think you talkine tooooo!!!! 👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿
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Respect is a two way street. Men and women are different in many ways however if respect is given, respect should be reciprocated. You can’t, my opinion, get what you’re not giving.
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Tanzanian men are not knowing for that, are american women treating them like they treat black men in America, cause that won't slide only american except that behaviour
African american women really dont want a traditional African man because traditional African men what the same thing from a women most Black men in America want. And American women fight against that. These women didnt do their homework .
When you go to another place you must do your research and understand the good and bad things and this is EVERYWHERE(Africa,UK,USA,LatinAmerica,Asia etc). Then you have to make a choice and decide if you want to be there or not. Also, remember everyone that this is human nature and not a case of men vs woman or different countries. This has nothing to do with the subject but I LOVE AFRICA.
NO ONE DOES THAT IN AMERICA. Please
Great show, side note just downloaded DJ Maintains new album it’s 🔥🔥🔥
New subscriber. Much needed topic!
It really irritates me to see a man, who ran from the the US, go across the water, and act like he knows African American women, in your whole life, I don’t care how long you live, you won’t meet every African American woman, individualize the women you chose, don’t make her a collective. If that’s the woman you attract then theirs something wrong with the frequency you’re emitting. Let’s not sit in an entire different country, and act like the men in America don’t create the women they get. And these people believe you because you came from America, what they need to do, is read up on current Black American Men, from Black American Sista’s. The thing is you don’t want to do better, you want to generalize all Black Women, when in the States we’re working on individualizing the Black Man, and we expect the same courtesy, because like I said earlier, I will never meet every Black man, no matter how long I live. Be mindful of judgement, you can only speak on the women you know, anything else, is something you heard.
It’s a generalization that holds merit. Get out of your feelings if you are not the general. If you are, which by reading your comment, the general fits you spot on. Maybe do a deep dive and make some changes.
Did you say ran from the US? So people that go to other countries are running? I'm assuming you live and would never leave the US
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@@StoicBachelor Well, you f-cking men will be alone if you think you going to run everything in the house and more importantly the wife, we have a right to want things too in our life. , wants, and personal desires is not over for the woman just because she marries.
The comments on AA women was balanced and critical for anyone who may end up marring a traditional A man...
The whole point of the podcast is generalities and not individual circumstances..
If this does not apply to you then live-ur-movie luv...
I'm a Nigerian American who grew up in Nigeria, Europe, The Carribean, The Middle East, I've seen Men put their hands on women and I've never condoned it, and never will, you can disagree and still have respect for eachother as soon as a man puts his hands on a woman he has reduced himself to loser in other words he has become less than a man and any woman that accepts that has low esteem just as the man who beats her no real man who considers himself a gentleman and a God fearing Christian with morals will ever hit his wife, only men with no morals and low esteem do such and such men I have no love and respect for and want nothing to do with such men.
IF YOU VERBALLY ABUSE YOUR HUSBAND IN AFRICA, HE HAS THE RIGHT TO CONTROL YOUR TONGUE BY SPANKING YOU LIKE A SPOILED CHILD UNTIL YOU DESIST FROM ABUSING HIM VERBALLY OR QUIT IF YOU CANT CHANGE. WOMEN BRING UNNECESSARY DRAMA INTO THEIR RELATIONSHIPS THRU VERBAL ABUSE. RESPECT THE MAN, HOLD YOUR TONGUE AND MOST AFRICAN MEN WILL NEVER JUST HIT YOU.
@@tonybantu9427 You're an evidence of a bad man or should I say a bad husband. I pity women in your life. No man has any right to hit someone else daughter or sons. If you support abusive men you should also support abusive women or are you thinking is only the female that can be beaten?
I'm not a Christian man but a black male atheist and never been with no woman of course will never put hands on any woman
Do you draw the line at self defense or do you not condone violence at all.
@@tonybantu9427 why are you yelling, she's his wife not his child. Don't hit anyone unless your life is in danger. How barbaric do you sound ✌🏾
Critics of the Passport Bros be silent about this..what's going on with them Passport Sistas..they having hell with Ghanaian and Nigerian men they Married also..they guys have other wives..but folks just talk about how bad Black America men are.🤔
It's the media. Now our eyes are sharpened. 😂 😂
Thank you my man you said everything with facts men and other country do not play this s*** they do not want masculine women of America That's why they don't come over here to get them she really thought just because she had money she's going to walk all over this dude nah I would have did the same thing she lucky she made it out of the country of live
The mistake blk women are making is a blk man is the same blk man all over the world...they should have chose better...they should have known better.
Pls, stop this is Tanzania not Nigeria or Ghana. In Nigeria we hate domestic violence. Only 20% of passport bros are genuine the rate are .....
I love her perspective!!!!!! She is very balanced, real and on point. I appreciate her.
This channel speaks a lot about African American women and rarely has AA women to join the discussion. And unfortunately women get beat by men in every country. Stop making AA women a focus point without representation to get more views. Ohshay, you are spot on about many topics but you come from a point of hurt and being jaded when speaking of AA women. Deal with that pain. Signed with love, from an African American Woman.
Money is not power. American woman think that money gives them power. Power is strength. Man have more strength, so we will always have the power no matter how they think about it. So respect is always paramount
Bullets have strength and law enforcement.
Men have muscles to dominate...hmmm....therefore, she better cower or else she gets the old one two....
@@jamdoll8660 bullets were made by men and law enforcement!! Men were conceived to be a brutal force and power. That’s just genetics
You will get shot in America. Women carry guns and shoot well
Strength , status , family name , and money are all ingredients for power in West Africa for sure. It's a balancing act. You can't have no strength , just some decent money , no status in the society , and no tribal or family name of respect and think you are moving any mountains in Africa ... Other than maybe in the United States of South Africa.
Instead of focusing on "exit plans" and calling police... how about western women check their western attitudes when they enter Africa... i would think this may be a easier solution
Get out as fast as you can. At least for the Kids sake. Don't get gas lighted to live in fear and terror. I'm African and do not take such nonsense. Be independent and bring something to the table whether man or woman.
western attitudes? oh...expecting to speak, yeah, ok. stop expecting to have some rights...got it.
How about males all over the world learn that a real man would never beat up a woman? Mature adults should be able to settle differences respectfully, without one trying to use violence to get their way.
My father never put his hands on my mother. My mother never put her hands on my father. Is there some reason that this level of civility can't be expected and found outside of the United States?
@LoveViolet Flowers, that was your parents. There's plenty of men who are abused by their wives physically. There are men in the same situation with their girlfriends and don't retaliate. There's a false pretense that it only goes one way. I've lived abroad and the women are different. Not saying there's not any good women in the US, but it's slim pickings.
As an African men, some of us have a different view on how a woman should behave. It’s not even just conservative or traditional it’s just an antiquated way of looking at women and there is no changing them. They will resort to violence naturally. So please women do your due diligence in vetting us men so you can avoid those kind of brothers. I’m very conservative myself raised by conservative parents who whooped me but never ever resorted to violence between themselves. I don’t believe in getting physical with your partner, it’s the lowest place you can go to.
At the same time I believe in women being gracious and as feminine as to understand when to speak and when to stay calm. But the consequence or fear should never be on a physical level.
Black American men are who better. You have a culture of violence where you shoot each other more than any other demography
No they will not resort to violence naturally. What bullshyt os that? These isolated incidents. Don’t be fcking stupid ..
That's right, a man can kill a woman, his bare hands!!! Coming from a black american woman!!!
No one over talking the other person 🙌🏾 you mean we can listen 👂🏾 clearly. That alone is a prime contrast of the dysfunction we deal with.
The black American women thought they could be like Passport Bros. and end up getting their asses handed to them!🤔🤔
Bingo! Culture slap.
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That's rich coming from BM that have been unalived and given STDs by prostitutes in third world countries.
The Passport Bros go after whyte women...The black American women went after blk men and got the same blk man...The black American women should have went after whyte overseas men.
@@evonnereed9268 what’s wrong with the ones that are in the USA 🇺🇸?
Looks like they found their Kang. 😂
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You are right...same blk man.
Congrats on your Africa Day Celebration. I hope all goes well with the gathering 🙏🏾
Great show ‼️👍🏽👍🏽
This is great that your informing people
Great podcast as always guys. Outa should have been in this one especially. Bring him on for part 2. To give a no-holds-barred African man's perspective. 😄
American women getting a reality check…
Exactly
AA women cant have that attitude in africa
How white of you.
What attitude...questioning the husband, wanting something, looking him in the eyes, speaking without be spoken to, acting like a grown up,
I don’t think it’s about the attitude I think it’s about the cultural difference u kno.
She said, "they're beaten or mistreated and they can't handle that" - as in, can't handle being beaten/mistreated??? 🤔 A woman SHOULD be able to "handle" that???
I will not handle any man beating/hitting me. He won’t hit again. I’ll find the closet object and beat him to the floor. He will think twice the next time.😅
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And you shouldn’t HAVE TOO either.
But this is what western women asked for when they didn’t respect a really good black American.
@@lindadrinks-johnson1904 you need to grow up you think you could hold your own against a man in a situation where he is not holding back and he is not the least bit concerned about what will happen if he mops the floor with you. You women are going to learn. Most men in the USA are actually good dudes who for a long time fought and worked hard to give you the best in the world, but now many of y’all are just so awful and disrespectful and sinful as fuck.
@@tinman6182 So the wife shouldn't speak, want anything or question the husband for the rest of her life if she marry? F...that
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Stop overreacting.
The woman shouldn't disrespect the man.
You thought that you would have an easier time in Africa but you learned otherwise.
You had it easier with Black-American men but you FCUKED that up royally.
You don't qualify to marry most non-Black men, so now you're in a conundrum.
There is absolutely no man on planet Earth that a stank-attitude woman (like yourself) can get along with.
There's a reason why Asian women are the most desired women outside of being with non-Asian men; they are feminine, fit, friendly and cooperative.
Most Black men would prefer to be with our own race of women, but many of you disqualify yourself for being healthy life partners.
You're just going to have to buy a dog and die alone.
Emasculating doesn't travel well.....proceed with caution
Moral of the story is African men beat their women to keep their women in line
Just like everywhere else
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@@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew Yes in America they do as well.
Every man does that that's not exclusive to African Muslim man when their women get out of line they'll beat them Hispanic man whether we'll get our live. We'll beat them h*** even white men will do it
@@joshuaj.chinda9873 its not a cultural thing here because of all the laws against it here in America so its not the same hell its not common like in Africa and doesn't happen as much
Another Great informative Show !!
“Side chick positions Available only” if you go to Tanzania older with no partner and expect a money man. Your accomplishments won’t matter!
It matters to those poor men. They have nothing
As a Tanzanian woman my heart reaches out to those ladies truth is Tanzanians have a calm demeanor for a man to beat you must have provoked him
If she was AA most likely she provoked him 😂, our women are the worst sometimes
@@nashambenyisrael7689 Exactly, she ef'd around and found out!
All Tanzanians? No exceptions?😇😇😇
@@nashambenyisrael7689 Very true!💯
My father is Tanzanian and has been married for 45 years. I have never seen him raise a hand to my mother. Violent and abusive people just exist in their world, and they come from different countries and backgrounds.
I’m older, late 40’s, but wanted to chime in. As an AA woman who’s been stabbed by my ex… of course I don’t agree with ANY sort of violence.
I do believe some AA women from the Hood have much to be desired in the feminine, agreeable and submissive department. It’s hard for them to not fight when that’s all they know. Growing up in a community where resources are low, education is weak and jobs are menial - they become of product of their environment. They don’t know any better.
But, not all AA women are like this. Not at all. There are some beautiful AA who’d make beautiful mates.
About 2 or 3 in every inner city but yeah you right
No excuse
@@davidwalker4216 please, I wasn’t making excuses for bad behavior just saying although America is the land of milk and honey - some people never get the milk or the honey and it manifest in other ways.
@@solelyreviewsbytishastarr1394 a lack of self control
Women initiate 80% of DV cases Women put their hands on their husbands more in marriages then the opposite
IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT SOME MEN CHOOSE TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON WOMEN, BUT THIS DOES NOT JUST HAPPEN IN AFRICA. IT HAPPENS ALL OVER THE GLOBE AND IT'S SAD AND UNFORTUNATE.
Exactly!
All over the world, but there is no protection for the women...like the said it's a harsh reality that no one will protect them.
Some countries there's not even any repercussions like there is in America. You don't even have to hit a woman to get arrested in America. You can just grab them and get arrested. In Arab countries men can beat their wives and do zero jail time.
They need to have some manners
Who is really moving to Africa and what for exactly?? I'm not going to a place people are fleeing every min of everyday😆😆😆 If Africa was so great they wouldn't be fleeing.
Different cultures🇯🇲
Domestic abuse occurs within the same culture too.
@@oceejekwam6829 Absolutely...
@@oceejekwam6829not necessarily; in western culture a man can get arrested immediately just by the accusation. In Africa, culturally law enforcement might stay out of domestic issues.
@@monica62888 neighbors, family members, religious and community leaders do way more to resolve relationships conflicts in Africa than law enforcement, counselors, and don’t get me started on attorneys who just want the bag either way, in the west. As for calling 911 and having men locked up or given warnings including staying away, a lot of women still get maimed. My point is that it’s best to figure out what the two of you want from one another and try to be respectful. Or stay alone.
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1. In Africa, culturally law enforcement might stay out of domestic issues.
2. neighbors, family members, religious and community leaders do way more to resolve relationships conflicts in Africa.
WHICH IS IT do they stay out or resolve conflicts.
By the way, I have always thought men can do anything they want in Africa.
Yes bring mark on the show pls 🙌
Talking about Tanzanian men as though African American men don't beat their women!
No man with his strength should put his hands on a woman period!!!
I don’t know why African American women thought black men from another country would be any different
i dont feel sorry for these modern women ass getting beat, they too out of pocket. they dont know how to resoect a man ever since men gave them a fair game to earn,now they think they are a man now,smdh
I feel sorry for the AA woman my mom used to be abused by my dad it’s the saddest thing ever .I’m from South Africa
AA women are rude and disrespectful. You can't do all that to an African man in Africa.
I'll be in Sa 🇿🇦 in August 🎉
AA women commit just as much dv as men do. Yall gotta stop this false narrative they they're these angels
I feel sorry for any man that has to deal with a belligerent AA woman who has never learned to be a cooperative spouse.
She deserved it
An American woman coming to any part of Africa to marry should understand there is cultural difference...because both of you are "blacks" does not mean you aren't 'difference'. If they can work around that they have chances of enjoying their wedlock. American women won't take nonsense of African men, and please dear African men, if you are marrying American women, make sure you pay her bride price. Insist on paying, whatever it is please, be a man because if you don't your Sacred Ancestors won't forgive you.
No matter it happens traditionally. Pain is pain. What's with the hitting. Don't you know it hurts the body. Even where it's accepted, the woman still try to get it to stop. BECAUSE IT HURTS 😞 Men is in shock if the woman hits them. Wow!
I'm here in Dar and i noticed these dusties Immediately. I'm glad I didnt come here looking for one bc I noticed how insincere they are and not very smart.
Oh.. what if it's vice versa 😊
When American woman looks for relationship abroad they are not looking for a man to provide as the same there is for a man he's not looking for a woman to provide. They are looking for romance which tends to workout different for women. For many foreign men have no problem looking for women outside the marriage. 🧐❓
3 world men will beat an unruly women. Every where on this planet. This is why feminism doesn’t translate well in the world
It doesn't apply anywhere else their behavior she would be real feminine when she goes overseas because men don't play that s*** I seen the documentaries that whole feminist s*** don't fly trust me don't even talk about that s*** cuz they know they'll be dealt with and there's nobody there too protect them from their bad behavior
What did five fingers say to the face smack
@@PhoenixRising82672 I'm over here dying of laughter 🤣😂😭🥲😅 Dave Chappelle
Domestic violence and child abuse crosses boundaries and is prevalent globally. It's a control and dominance issue and upbringing and society. It's across all economic and class populations. It's as prevalent in the US as it is in Africa. People even get killed especially if they try to leave. I worked at a Women's Shelter in the US and I saw it all really sad 😭
Sorry, but I seen the disrespectful mouths on these Black-American sistas.
I don't feel sorry for them.
@@thejookking Talk to you like you are just the shit they stepped in on their way to the market. come with an attitude like they are just better than you.
@@thejookking many sistas in the USA trash talk an act a fool in public are pure disrespectful by majority, they think that stank attitude willfully be tolerated in a society of patriarchy hah , their gonna find out the hard way as always an it’s unnecessary for themselves to walk dead into a culture were they think they can have it their way with the gov protecting them, foolishly they do not care to have any humility conservativeness or self control
STOP THE CAP!!!!🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
@@thejookking Disrespectful mouths only hurt males with weak egos. I hope your boyfriend in jail shows you what disrespectful looks like.
There is a big difference between African men vs Black American men. As a Black woman who was married to a Ghanian, they don't appreciate being cussed out. We are used to cussing Black American men out, & they run off. But African men don't run off, they kick in bathroom doors.
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What you call running off... is him making a wise decision not to hurt you
while also avoiding to fall into the trap of a racist prison system that work hand and hand with BW as soon as she plays the crying victim while calling the cops.
African men can't even fathom or mentally process that type of double crossing, sinister backstabbing activity 😅
yes house broken@@christianbrown6469
Material conditions cannot be the sole determinate of who is in charge of what! The Creator has given us gudeance as to our roles and responsibilities across culture and circumstance. If a woman makes a more money than her man it doesn’t mean he does not say over certain things and just because a man makes more money doesn’t give him the right to be mean to her.
BW you are not BM quit trying to be us. Y’all cannot do what we do and vice versa‼️
They won’t stop trying though.
Just like the mayo people, the sistahood lives to spite nature, God, and heaven itself😕
You want to be US 🇺🇸
The lady in the background gave some wise insight...
I respect ladies but beyatches will get a stkrong pzimp backhand blessed by the ancestors
Respect Tanzania
I agree that the prospect of women traveling abroad to meet a husband is dangerous unless they are adept at the mating culture of that country. This is particularly true for older and/or independent women who are set in their ways. Foreign men are far more traditional in the ancient ways of their culture, and modernity can be offensive to their sensibility. As it stands, modern men of the West have a hard time with so-called "independent women," and I would be hard-pressed to believe it wouldn't be even more difficult for foreign men, especially in cultures in which gentility is not a part of their custom. In general, men whose confidence is attached to their ego are prone to defensiveness, as bruising their ego is apt to be easy, and it takes little to trigger them. Men who are confident in their masculinity are less inclined to be bothered by the display of independence or strength in the modern woman. Confident men understand that these qualities in a woman don't take away from his masculinity and, in fact, find it interestingly challenging to find common ground with such a personality, as he sees the advantage of having a sound woman. He usually has mastered the art of disarming her and bringing out her gentler side. The truth is that strong women are looking for such a man, and their belligerence is often an expression of their frustration in not finding one.
You're views are very western, a masculine woman will have problems in Africa that's the end of it....
Let them so they can find out how good they have it here
@@PhoenixRising82672 Perhaps, providing they survive...
@@PhoenixRising82672we need to be able to spiritually discern such matters because it shouldn't take DV to find out, God forbid.
That's been happening for years
Take that attitude to most Middle Eastern countries and see what happens. In some non western countries women are seen not heard.
Last but not least leave Mark meets Africa alone he’s a Good Guy one of the best of us,, u need to carry the weight of your words alone.
This is a worldwide issue ever 11 mins. a woman is killed by her mate. But why, are we not telling men not to beat women. Not once did they say to men ... you shouldn't beat a women. ... only saying to women to look out for themselves...placing 100% of the responsibility on the woman.
are you serious???? they literally said: WE DO NOT SUPPORT DV. Go back and listen. They specifically said that.
I have noticed that even there African women don't want to be held accountable for their actions. They want the power to destroy their marriage, children and family and nothing to be done physically. "Don't hit me, even if I keep doing wrong by you and the children."
Interesting....I have witnessed the opposite. Love my African brothers and have several disaporan friends who got married here and are in beautiful relationships. My man is sweet also😊.
Don't Leave,, you bvv should stay for more🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊
The girl said that the American women come looking for Bush Niggras😂😂😂😂 I'm dead
Have an exit plan because police will tell you go home this is not Europe, this is not America, and yes have an exit plan for real.
It just shows women there have no rights and are not protected. I'll stay where I'm at. America.
Weather you are in Tanzania or not men has no right to be beating women
Why are there no black american woman from the west speaking on these topics. This is a one sided conversation with Oshay speaking on black women from the west.
It's like me having a podcast saying well black american men do etcetera.
Because they won't speak on it. They're embarrassed and will never admit they were wrong. Women are too prideful. They just take the ass whooping.
Because they want to sell the idea of, they can always have better than the aboriginal black American men, and they don’t have to settle with us, if we can divest, so can they a bunch of BS
The African pick me women are saying they can take a beating and will take a beating....WTF
@@evonnereed9268 You kno that’s not what they saying 😂 Now this is where we land on a cultural difference……
African American women are flying to Ghana in their hundreds looking for their African king, God help them 😳😳
Why? it’s a poor country, with the economy going down the drain..people are suffering there…🤷🏾
My wife makes twice the amount I make but I run the finance in the house because I am better at money management. She has full access to every penny we have and can spend at her leisure but better be willing to have a discussion about it either pre or post spending if necessary and that goes both ways. it's called mutual respect.
If I treat you right . I can beat you right lol 😂
I am a Tanzanian , and old enough to know both side living in the west and in Tanzania. Normally the beating does not happen if a lady put 100% respect to her husband. The moment you disrespect your man wooohhhh lord have messy. Most Tanzania girls are very traditional and put respect 100%. If you are in Tanzania you better come correct otherwise you won’t like it.
Exactly as it should be. The proper order of nature.
@@Defi247 - That is not the proper order of things! Men come from women and are of their design. Even in the Bible it says that the Kingdom of heaven is the reverse of the kingdoms of men!
@@purpleiris6489 you obviously don't read the Bible. The first woman came from a man. Second, the order in the Bible is YAH/GOD, YAHUSHA(Jesus), Man, Woman, child(ren). Sooooo....sorry, not sorry. Women need to know there is respect that women have been REQUIRED to give the men. He doesn't have the right to abuse her in NO WAY. But women, we talk too damn much sometimes!
@@robinnewmanburton 👏👏
I guess I'm totally westernized because if a man raises his hands to me period he's asking for an early demise. I WILL NOT ALLOW ANY MAN TO HIT ME EVER!!
If Americans know to behave and conduct themselves the right way then u will see how others will respect, and don’t expect others to change when u cannot set the right pace, be a light
If you're not married with a mindset like that (not to mention your beautiful face) then something is seriously wrong with the world.
You really need to define what behaving and conducting yourselves the right way is. Because it differs for every country. And in Tanzania, if you are a foreigner and go out of your way to be nice/kind with people, folks WILL see that as an opportunity to swindle or use you.
Don't lump us in with African American women we don't get along for a reason anymore and black American men wouldn't be ignoring them In droves if we did.
@@Yahnax2823 agree
I don't care what race, culture or background that a man comes from. Any of them are capable of beating your behind if not also killing you. Women need to be careful. And at the same time not provoking that man either. Everyone has their limits.
Gregory Isaac "and mi seh oooh wat ah beeeeaten" 😂😂😂
Y’all never get tired of negative argumentative conversations? 😂 legit question to black people.
These are issues facing repats in the diaspora. You start a channel and show us how it is done
No they don’t ever get tired because they make money off of black people’s pain and dysfunction. It’s an easy grift, but so sad when it’s your own people.
Because diaspora people are extremely fawked up due to Westernism and colonialism/neocolonialism.
Until Westernism goes away or becomes less of a global factor, relationship issues in the diaspora will *_always_* be popular.
Hit western female dogs in the comment section right now. Lol.
I feel so sad for AA women cause it seems like even most AA men do not want to be with them.
GUESS WHAT DIASPORA WOMEN, THE MOVIE COMING TO AMERICA IS A FANTASY... WELL THEY CASE COMING TO AFRICA... HEY GREAT MOVIE IDEA.. I NEED 15%.. lol
Movie 😂??? People are using hollyweird to migrate??? How is that possible?
@@LetsTravellChannel I WAS JUST JOKING LOL
@@yahdaniel8664 me too 😜
@@LetsTravellChannel They don't read books, they watch movies.
AA women don’t respect Men who make more than them, they don’t respect Men doesn’t matter your status or what you make.
I can't believe people are actually discussing domestic abuse and violence like its something you should expect with a "traditional man" GTFO with that
I think that what's going on is, there is a type of toxic black women from here in the States, bringing that toxic energy there, under the illusion that they can run that game there and end up being surprised. The young brotha, during his interview, made a key point regarding his assessments. And that key point was how a lot of Black American women getting involved with Tanzanian men, thinking that they can control the relationship are in for a surprise. Control is the key word.
And she found out about being put in her place
And you are very right .. I'm from America and our woman have become very masculine and needs to do a lot of retraining and healing
@@PhoenixRising82672You're the cowardly type that like to abuse women. 🤕🥴