What it's like to move abroad in your 30s

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @trevormccreary117
    @trevormccreary117 Год назад +24

    I’m 36, heading to Australia in a week on a 417 WHV. Definitely self conscious about my age but excited to give it a whirl. I’ve had a stable career for 13 years but I really feel like I need an adventure before it’s too late. I can always come back to this career but the opportunity to do this is almost gone so here we go!

    • @Sweetsweetraven
      @Sweetsweetraven 9 месяцев назад +1

      And how is it going now?

    • @JohnCo-e4v
      @JohnCo-e4v 2 месяца назад

      I have the same situation. I am turning 34, already have a good career now in my country, I have a less stressful and high paying work from home job. I will probably be getting a 40-50% less than my current salary (monthly) now if I move to other country and it will be a physical job which I am not used to. Unfortunately, I can't bring my work from home job to other country. Regardless I am still thinking to moveout and explore other country. I feel like the risk is between Security (my life now) VS Dream (I don't want to look back 10yrs from now asking myself, What If I went abroad, What experiences would I have be facing.
      Although I can travel a lot but only in Asian country and I am planning to move to Europe.
      I am male and no commitment yet. What do you think should I choose? Security or Dream?
      It could have been more easier to decide if I don't have a comfortable job now.

  • @nikitaletsie9086
    @nikitaletsie9086 5 месяцев назад +5

    Wow this is a great video. Thanks so much for sharing. I'm 34 and since my twenties I've always wanted to go teach in Asia. Now I'm actually in the process of doing so. I know that it's now or never. I'm so excited about it

  • @tarynchessman3042
    @tarynchessman3042 Год назад +9

    Lovely video! Thank you!! I have changed career paths, newly graduated teacher and starting the process to move to Australia, single , in my 30s... to leave the familiar behind is scary, but I have this pull to do this.. it's never too late

  • @businessgal2950
    @businessgal2950 Год назад +13

    Well articulated. I'm in my 30's, switching careers and moving overseas. This was insightful.

  • @ГаянаКоновалова-о9у
    @ГаянаКоновалова-о9у 7 месяцев назад +1

    If I was in my 20-ties, I would defenetely try to move overseas and try myself in another country. But now I have a handful of commitements so the stakes are very high for me. Moreover, I have got 33 new words from your video. Thanks for your natural way of speaking.

  • @Davort08
    @Davort08 Год назад +10

    Nice video! Thank you for sharing your experience.
    I’m almost 32 and I’ve always wanted to move to the US.
    Now that I really have the opportunity to do so I can’t help myself from thinking that “I’m too old” or “it’s not worth it”.
    At the same time I think that maybe the future version of me would say “was I really too old at 32?”.
    I always had this “issue” with my age. I had the same thoughts when I was 25 but if I look backward I can see how silly I was. I guess the same could happen when I’m 40 or 45.
    That being said, I’m still fighting inside, figuring out what the best decision could be. The question I wonder the most is “are you more afraid to take action now or to have regrets when it’s too late?”

    • @mindphys
      @mindphys Год назад +3

      You're the youngest right now that you'll ever be. When you're 62 you'll wish more than anything to be 32 again and that you could take the chance (if you choose not to). If it works out for you then your only regret will be that you didn't do it sooner.

    • @Davort08
      @Davort08 Год назад +1

      @@mindphys Thanks man, very inspiring comment.

    • @yestrech
      @yestrech Год назад +1

      Just do it imo. Good luck!!!!

  • @boceksiadam
    @boceksiadam Год назад +7

    Nice job algorithm! I will be 29 this spring. I've been thinking about moving abroad for a while. I don't have a lot of commitments and domestic situation here in Turkey is pretty grim. I gotta do what I can with a law degree. I'll likely have to get a graduate degree out of field.

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  Год назад

      Glad the algorithm found you 😊 I can only recommend it. If you think you would regret not moving abroad later in life, I'd say give it a shot.

  • @Muhammadusman-sj6yz
    @Muhammadusman-sj6yz Год назад +11

    I am 29 years old and i am confuse that now i should marry or go abroad. this is also a major factor choosing your dreams or marriage in your 30's.

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  Год назад +2

      Big decisions for sure and both an adventure in their own way.

    • @tiana8247
      @tiana8247 3 месяца назад

      Did you decide to travel or stay in your home town?

  • @Harveyhowyagoin
    @Harveyhowyagoin Год назад +2

    Australia is really beautiful, I went there when I was 25, working as a waiter in Brisbane, now I'm in my 30's and still miss the life there.

  • @whatsupbudbud
    @whatsupbudbud Год назад +6

    I'm 33. More and more I think that my life and my friends' will likely diverge as they create families and such whereas I've recently came out of a toxic relationship and lost all want for a family. Plus, I remembered that I love water sports and would love to do kitesurfing more than 3 months a year which is the length of summer here in Eastern Europe. So I'm thinking I should go for a month first. I have a remote job in software but it doesn't pay as much as the southern European countries would mostly require so this is not a piece of cake by a long shot. Still have to try. Maybe will meet someone who will help find a cheaper apartment for rent, recommend a nice place to live, etc. I've traveled in my 20's on a very tight budget and met so many amazing people, so I do know that magic happens when you're abroad alone. It's just so hard after many years of being in your comfort zone to go out again - this is especially true when you're in your 30's and already have acquired some "stuff" that you are fond of. But days spent in darkness by the computer after work or just drinking with friends are not what I want. It seems time wasted.
    Thanks for sharing your story, mate.

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  Год назад +2

      Thanks so much for sharing your story! There‘s always a bit of risk but it sounds like you have the right mindset 🙌

  • @abigaillarion9365
    @abigaillarion9365 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing! I'm 35, and my husband and I are moving from the States to Germany this autumn.

  • @rishi870
    @rishi870 Год назад

    Such a nicely narrated video! Thank you for sharing your amazing experience.

  • @TheASHLEYSMITHY
    @TheASHLEYSMITHY 4 месяца назад +1

    My biggest fear is moving somewhere where I don't know anyone and having to make new friends, as I'm suffer from anxiety.

  • @ShondaD_
    @ShondaD_ Год назад +2

    Soon to be 38 and it’s like I’m overthinking moving abroad, because I have a car that I’m trying to figure out what to do with. I’d like to go to Portugal or Costa Rica.

  • @gallaghim
    @gallaghim 9 месяцев назад

    Interesting video, I appreciate the insight. I'm actually in my mid 40s, based in Melbourne, but have been wanting to move back to the UK for a long time. Back in 2018 I even had a one way ticket booked, but I got scared.. The thing is, the want to do it remains but I think I'm afraid of having to solely rely on myself. I say this because if I could move with a friend, or if I had a girlfriend or even my brother, I'd feel much more confident about it. But it just being me? Frightening. Which I think is down to low levels of confidence and probably a history negative-thinking. But I also know that I need a big change.
    I left the UK with my parents when I was 17 and been in Australia ever since. But I miss the UK and want to experience it as an adult. I do have dual citizenship, which is undeniably an advantage. But I worry over what could go wrong (running out of money, difficulty finding work with my age, etc.). At the end of the day I'll either do it or I won't do it. I am thinking of doing it mid 2025 and saving up as much as I can.
    Thanks for the insight, though we're different ages I could relate to what you were saying.

  • @steinarslettedal2606
    @steinarslettedal2606 Год назад

    Wow, that was inspiring. Thank you✌️🌅

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  Год назад

      Thank you, mate. Really appreciate it 🙌

  • @mediaula491
    @mediaula491 2 года назад

    Love this video mate ;) Keep it up, We are also going soon to Australia just to visit

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  2 года назад +2

      Thank you!! Let me know in case you come to Melbourne and we can grab a coffee. 🙌

  • @missy6361
    @missy6361 Год назад +2

    Hey! Great video. Considering moving to Canada soon. Really afraid of the friends part you mentioned at the start of the video.

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  Год назад +3

      Don't let that stop you. It may be a bit scary at first but things will fall always into place somehow 😊

    • @tytraulich4987
      @tytraulich4987 Год назад

      GL affording a home in Canada.

    • @jaspreetsodhi
      @jaspreetsodhi Год назад

      Earn money and go back lol

    • @bitcoininaminute5008
      @bitcoininaminute5008 Год назад

      Canada is one of the last countries someone should think of moving to. It's on a steep decline and for at least the next two years, it will be a hopeless fall (maybe the 2025 election will change things--maybe haha)

    • @missy6361
      @missy6361 Год назад

      @@bitcoininaminute5008 do you live there?

  • @proudlycanadian3023
    @proudlycanadian3023 2 года назад +1

    Hey Mann, wie geht's? Herzlichen Glückwunsch zu deinem perfekten Erfolg! Dürfen wir bitte deine australische Staatsbürgerschaftszeremonie sehen, wenn du es schaffst? Wenn nicht, dann herzlichen Glückwunsch zum Erhalt der Staatsbürgerschaft oder zur erfolgreichen Sicherung der Daueraufenthaltsgenehmigung!

  • @tankevurpa
    @tankevurpa Год назад

    I have always been late with everything in life. So now when I am 40 years old, its only now that I am thinking of moving abroad. But it kinda feels too late, as always...

  • @MyYoutube-my3ok
    @MyYoutube-my3ok Год назад +1

    I'm 16 and I'm planning how im going to travel the world in my 30s lol

  • @ignacio.v
    @ignacio.v 2 года назад +1

    Wow, i don’t know how the RUclips algorithm works, but i am 31 and already got my WHV for Australia lol (i did NZ in 2016, amazing experience). But now i am planning to work on my industry (industrial engineer/ project manager / or anything really)
    Is there a visa that i should consider after my whv expires? (As i cannot extend it for longer due to my age) How did you manage to stay resourceful? (Online courses/ youtube learning)
    And if you have any great websites for job search in Australia i would highly appreciate it! (Other than LinkedIn haha)
    Nice video btw, it was much needed as most of my friends are following the normal-life-path hahaha, is great to know that you can still follow adventure when everyone around you might think is craaazy haha
    Cheers!

    • @DanJacobs
      @DanJacobs  2 года назад +1

      That’s awesome! The magical ways of the RUclips algorithm 😅 Glad it found you!
      I would definitely check whether you can be sponsored by your employer once you found a job. The eligible job list got reduced a few years ago but might have grown since the pandemic again as Australia’s economy is heavily relying on immigration. After my WHV expired I took a detour via a student visa and then became a permanent resident via the partner visa route.
      The biggest job search site in Australia apart from Linkedin is seek.com.au That‘s where I found my job.
      Good luck with your move. I‘m so excited for you 🙌

  • @kennedywaitheru377
    @kennedywaitheru377 Год назад

    I moved in my 30s and it's not easy 😂😂😂😂in australia SA

    • @tiana8247
      @tiana8247 3 месяца назад

      What industry are you in? Did you move solo or with a partner? Considering bringing my partner back to Australia but I’m not sure he’s really that keen, though there is so much more opportunity for his career there than our small town in the US.