I have ASPD, I was diagnosed in the Navy. When I was younger, I was misdiagnosed with ADD for misbehaving but I believe it roots for my father being in and out of my life. Growing up in school isolating myself from people.
I was brought in at six 😂 Forced In-diagnose but I was called psychopath In force - treatment I myself battle with other issues I hate 😂 Still didn’t change me For further conclusion I’m curious may I ask questions ?
Individuals diagnosis of ADHD have a much higher likelihood of an ASPD as adults, because it contributes to social failures our ADHD often makes as outcast growing up.
ASPD is one of the most frustratingly misunderstood disorders especially because of the pop-psychology. There becomes such a focus on the drama, or like you mentioned with the DSM-V's approach, focus on the external actions, that discussions on the core of these dysregulations become buried. Thank you for providing such a clear and digestible analysis. Hopefully more attention can come to you soon! :)
I don't think it's misunderstood at all. Long story short, anybody who has ASPD was an angry kid who grew up being an angry adult. Who also didn't see anything wrong with doing bad things. It is very much understood that the external actions, regardless of the core of the dysregulation, are still not ok. They know what they're doing is bad. But lack the ability to FEEL bad about doing it. So it just becomes a pattern of behavior that escalates over time. They just do not care about ANYthing but pleasing themselves. That much is derived from the Anti-Social part. The personality disorder is that "just who you are" part. Personality is who you are as a person. Disorder means it negatively impacts your life. Though in this case it isn't a disorder for whoever has it. It's a disorder for everyone else around. They wonder why people act and treat them differently. Or always lash back at them. But fail to realize it's their own poor behavior that causes the push back. They've learned that they will continue getting away with their behavior as long as people still justify it. You never have to learn if you've never been taught the lesson. So when you do or say something that challenges them, they have to fight to maintain their superiority. Because then they would have no choice but to face the consequences of their actions. They would then have to be held accountable for their poor behavior(s). As long as they maintain their superiority they sit above their responsibilities. Any dips below that by being told what they don't want to hear are snaps back to reality. Cold, hard, scary reality. The reality that they WILL be severely punished
I've been diagnosed with BPD and just today I was talking to Mt psych and have 5 of the 7 traits for ASPD. He didn't "diagnose" me ASPD but itsnin my chart and may be added official as a diagnosis in the future. This video helped understand where I'm at. Thank you.
I have all of these traits and I know I'm a bad person but many people reassure me that I'm great and I've been blessed with love my entire life. If only people knew. (And believe me it's not like I want to be this way, I'm not exactly a malicious person but I have problems with my emotions and I am very quick to extreme anger and I tend to deflect almost all criticism) This video summed up some of my personality traits so accurately but I think it's good because I feel more educated and self aware and maybe that can help me with improving myself in the future. Thank you for the lesson!
It absolutely can and I am so proud of you for being willing to recognize and acknowledge your undesirable traits. I always tell people “you gotta put your monsters on a leash” That’s how you become a better person, but you can’t put them on a leash if you refuse to admit that they are there, so you have taken the first step in admitting that there are monsters. You’ve taken a look at them and now you can start putting them on a leash. I’m telling you I used to be a horrible person. I feel like I probably still kind of am but I know that I treat people much better than I used to and I when I recognize those bad thoughts and behaviors coming out I tell myself to put my toys away. I say nope, because I know that, even though I feel justified, it’s going to harm others and that I not entitled to do certain things I feel like doing to others . I’m so proud of you. You stand a chance & the people around you will feel loved by you - you’re not a terrible person .
Heyy, I wish your videos got a lot more views, you reallyyyy deserve them! I can sense that you really do research thoroughly, simplify it effectively, and note genuinely interesting nuances that help us contexualize it all practically. I am doing my masters right now and these videos are such a treat in helping me consolidate what I know and learn more too!
i'm a minor, so i believe i cannot get an official diagnosis, but i think i have aspd. i display all the traits you listed, and have been doing my research for some weeks now. i also show STRONG signs of narcissistic personality disorder
I posted on reddit a few days ago about my lack of empathy and lack of emotions and someone mentioned ASPD. I tick 7/8 of the DSM criteria and don't know what to do now. I'm tired of expressing fake emotions like when I say I'm proud of someone, and tired of pretending to care if someone I'm close to is sick or near death.
Bro get help and find a different way of expressing those without hurting anyone you will thank me later because if you dont and express those irresponsibly you will regret it just dont
It's not necessary to have ASPD if some of the symptoms matches your personality, there are many more criteria for the diagnosis to be made. If you are having any problem, for proper diagnosis you should visit a professional psychologist or psychiatrist. However, very gald that you atleast opened up about this, and tried to know yourself better. Wish you a best!!!
@@ggaz683 what? Did i say that? Im just saying not to hurt people because i know a friend who has ASPD she recently tried to stab her ex bf and also asked a 15 year old to go drink alcohol shes 16 btw and thats not the end of what she did she never felt bad about those she hurts and you dont have to fake empathy but dont just hurt others just cuz you dont feel guilty about it
My son havs gone through a lot. He doesn't have this and I have identified what he mostly has. But honestly, I do not need to put a label to his condition. In mental health, several disorders/conditions overlap symptoms, since they are the same. There's lots of dangerously misdiagnosed people around. Treatments are kind of the same with CBT or DBT, plus medication. Even same medications are used to treat several of those conditions. And have terrible side effects. Each head is a world. So treatment, is supposed to affect each one differently. I do believe more in holistic, natural treatments, with the will power and complete cooperation of the patient and his close support team members. It doesn't provide my son any benefit, to put a label on his heart and soul, that will not change anything positively, but will add more pressure on his self image and strong emotions. Just love, good care, the best support and discipline on his holistic treatment and daily moments of prayer, with God's will.....will do better. ❤
Just broke up with someone like this. Has some good qualities but they are Dr Jekyll/Mr Hyde and even the so called sense of humor is mostly aggression. I'm done. I deserve better than this pain dumped on me from someone else's generations of family abusive systems
So? I am retrospective identification.and still exibit some of these criterias.i want mention the design for living for in the 12 concepts of serve,12 traditions,and 12 steps program.has helped shape me.its so forgiving and so much room for growth and error.and never exclusive.
I work with someone who has this. He is a pathological liar and never takes responsibility. He knows he shouldn't do certain things and does them anyway. When questioned, he always says "I didn't know" or "I didn't say that". He throws his little tantrums and talks to himself when he's angry. I stay away from him and don't speak to him unless i have to.
We are people too. It’s unbelievably exhausting living like this. Please don’t slander us. It’d be much better if you talked to him and try to get him the help he needs.
I very know that i have many of the Symptoms you listet. But i also know that the Society is the one who fucked me up. In my home and in my safe spaces like when im alone in the forest i am ok. but i can't keep up to people, the most don't deserve it better. there are so many narcissistic, egoistic and gaslighting people in this world that its sickening to live around them. i hope i find more peace in another city soon, less population, less bullshit that affect my personality
sometimes i do understand people with aspd why they act a certain way.. i don't like people too. maybe thats because of my social anxiety.. but i know most people are messed up.. and i have inward anger myself but i don't lash out to people sometimes i wish i could.. society is totally messed up! i like being alone then I'm with other people..
Is it really true that aspd is more often seen in men or women? Or is it that the way it is tested can diagnose male better than female? I've seen the same with other disorders, where girls just masked better than boys and therefore it was common knowledge that it affects males more than females... Until a study conducted realized that tests were just not fit for both male and female, tests were not as universal as people thought.
If you really had it you wouldn’t be scared lmao please stop looking for attention. I’m 18 and I was diagnosed 5 days ago. I don’t think there’s a damn thing wrong with me when there actually is. Diagnosis didn’t change a thing
@@parasitophobia still….others MUST protect their own well being. It’s unfortunate, but one will never “love” them out of this disorder….it’s acceptance of what it is…and DISTANCE. One can still love someone from a farrrrrrrr distance and zero involvement in their life
My husband has aspd and he's a full blown acid LIAR!!!! In and out of prison, which he's in prison now. I keep thinking things are going to change but I highly doubt he'll ever have any empathy. When he says he loves me, it's just another lie. :(
I have ASPD, I was diagnosed in the Navy. When I was younger, I was misdiagnosed with ADD for misbehaving but I believe it roots for my father being in and out of my life. Growing up in school isolating myself from people.
@@chicaneries as the person you are can you feel remorse 😂😂 just curious
Psychopath.
I was brought in at six 😂
Forced
In-diagnose but I was called psychopath
In force - treatment
I myself battle with other issues I hate 😂
Still didn’t change me
For further conclusion I’m curious
may I ask questions ?
@@HappilyDivine Yes I prefer you to be inquisitive.
Individuals diagnosis of ADHD have a much higher likelihood of an ASPD as adults, because it contributes to social failures our ADHD often makes as outcast growing up.
@@CT-vn8me Do you a reference to that? I’d like to read more about it myself
ASPD is one of the most frustratingly misunderstood disorders especially because of the pop-psychology. There becomes such a focus on the drama, or like you mentioned with the DSM-V's approach, focus on the external actions, that discussions on the core of these dysregulations become buried. Thank you for providing such a clear and digestible analysis. Hopefully more attention can come to you soon! :)
I don't think it's misunderstood at all. Long story short, anybody who has ASPD was an angry kid who grew up being an angry adult. Who also didn't see anything wrong with doing bad things.
It is very much understood that the external actions, regardless of the core of the dysregulation, are still not ok. They know what they're doing is bad. But lack the ability to FEEL bad about doing it. So it just becomes a pattern of behavior that escalates over time. They just do not care about ANYthing but pleasing themselves. That much is derived from the Anti-Social part. The personality disorder is that "just who you are" part. Personality is who you are as a person. Disorder means it negatively impacts your life. Though in this case it isn't a disorder for whoever has it. It's a disorder for everyone else around.
They wonder why people act and treat them differently. Or always lash back at them. But fail to realize it's their own poor behavior that causes the push back. They've learned that they will continue getting away with their behavior as long as people still justify it. You never have to learn if you've never been taught the lesson.
So when you do or say something that challenges them, they have to fight to maintain their superiority. Because then they would have no choice but to face the consequences of their actions. They would then have to be held accountable for their poor behavior(s). As long as they maintain their superiority they sit above their responsibilities. Any dips below that by being told what they don't want to hear are snaps back to reality. Cold, hard, scary reality. The reality that they WILL be severely punished
Diagnosed at 21. Used to be worse, now things are getting better
I've been diagnosed with BPD and just today I was talking to Mt psych and have 5 of the 7 traits for ASPD. He didn't "diagnose" me ASPD but itsnin my chart and may be added official as a diagnosis in the future. This video helped understand where I'm at. Thank you.
which criteria
you sound more like a narcissist
i had a stroke reading that
I have all of these traits and I know I'm a bad person but many people reassure me that I'm great and I've been blessed with love my entire life. If only people knew. (And believe me it's not like I want to be this way, I'm not exactly a malicious person but I have problems with my emotions and I am very quick to extreme anger and I tend to deflect almost all criticism) This video summed up some of my personality traits so accurately but I think it's good because I feel more educated and self aware and maybe that can help me with improving myself in the future. Thank you for the lesson!
It absolutely can and I am so proud of you for being willing to recognize and acknowledge your undesirable traits. I always tell people “you gotta put your monsters on a leash” That’s how you become a better person, but you can’t put them on a leash if you refuse to admit that they are there, so you have taken the first step in admitting that there are monsters. You’ve taken a look at them and now you can start putting them on a leash. I’m telling you I used to be a horrible person. I feel like I probably still kind of am but I know that I treat people much better than I used to and I when I recognize those bad thoughts and behaviors coming out I tell myself to put my toys away. I say nope, because I know that, even though I feel justified, it’s going to harm others and that I not entitled to do certain things I feel like doing to others . I’m so proud of you. You stand a chance & the people around you will feel loved by you - you’re not a terrible person .
You are not bad you are different
As someone with ASPD-
This is really good and didn't piss me off immediately lmao💜
I like... Actually understand myself a bit better
would you feel guilt placing a baby in a blender
Same
@@cokesloth lol no
@@tempyx3214 epic
@@cokesloth wouldn't really say its epic
I'm so glad I found your channel. Very clear concise and straight to it. Thank you so much sir!
I learned a lot more in ur video abt AsPD than other 14 minute videos especially the bits abt the reasoning and rationalizing behind the behavior👍ty!
Heyy, I wish your videos got a lot more views, you reallyyyy deserve them! I can sense that you really do research thoroughly, simplify it effectively, and note genuinely interesting nuances that help us contexualize it all practically. I am doing my masters right now and these videos are such a treat in helping me consolidate what I know and learn more too!
Thank you for making this video I am a high functioning sociopath so this doesn't relate to me as much but I do appreciate it
i'm a minor, so i believe i cannot get an official diagnosis, but i think i have aspd. i display all the traits you listed, and have been doing my research for some weeks now.
i also show STRONG signs of narcissistic personality disorder
Take care of yourself and don’t hurt other people.
Your videos have helped me so much with my university exams! Thanks for all your effort 🙂
I posted on reddit a few days ago about my lack of empathy and lack of emotions and someone mentioned ASPD. I tick 7/8 of the DSM criteria and don't know what to do now. I'm tired of expressing fake emotions like when I say I'm proud of someone, and tired of pretending to care if someone I'm close to is sick or near death.
Bro get help and find a different way of expressing those without hurting anyone you will thank me later because if you dont and express those irresponsibly you will regret it just dont
Lack of empathy and emotion is not the main thing in ASPD its criminal and anti social behavior
It's not necessary to have ASPD if some of the symptoms matches your personality, there are many more criteria for the diagnosis to be made. If you are having any problem, for proper diagnosis you should visit a professional psychologist or psychiatrist. However, very gald that you atleast opened up about this, and tried to know yourself better. Wish you a best!!!
@@wanwan3864 You want to force them to fake empathy to make other people feel better?
@@ggaz683 what? Did i say that? Im just saying not to hurt people because i know a friend who has ASPD she recently tried to stab her ex bf and also asked a 15 year old to go drink alcohol shes 16 btw and thats not the end of what she did she never felt bad about those she hurts and you dont have to fake empathy but dont just hurt others just cuz you dont feel guilty about it
Eye opening. My spouse now 50-100 days in the slammer. Mom malignant narcissist and Dad died when she was 18. Virtually parent less as a young adult.
My son havs gone through a lot. He doesn't have this and I have identified what he mostly has. But honestly, I do not need to put a label to his condition. In mental health, several disorders/conditions overlap symptoms, since they are the same. There's lots of dangerously misdiagnosed people around. Treatments are kind of the same with CBT or DBT, plus medication. Even same medications are used to treat several of those conditions. And have terrible side effects. Each head is a world. So treatment, is supposed to affect each one differently. I do believe more in holistic, natural treatments, with the will power and complete cooperation of the patient and his close support team members. It doesn't provide my son any benefit, to put a label on his heart and soul, that will not change anything positively, but will add more pressure on his self image and strong emotions. Just love, good care, the best support and discipline on his holistic treatment and daily moments of prayer, with God's will.....will do better. ❤
Just broke up with someone like this. Has some good qualities but they are Dr Jekyll/Mr Hyde and even the so called sense of humor is mostly aggression. I'm done. I deserve better than this pain dumped on me from someone else's generations of family abusive systems
So? I am retrospective identification.and still exibit some of these criterias.i want mention the design for living for in the 12 concepts of serve,12 traditions,and 12 steps program.has helped shape me.its so forgiving and so much room for growth and error.and never exclusive.
I work with someone who has this. He is a pathological liar and never takes responsibility. He knows he shouldn't do certain things and does them anyway. When questioned, he always says "I didn't know" or "I didn't say that". He throws his little tantrums and talks to himself when he's angry. I stay away from him and don't speak to him unless i have to.
We are people too. It’s unbelievably exhausting living like this. Please don’t slander us. It’d be much better if you talked to him and try to get him the help he needs.
I don't know if I might have this or if I'm just a really terrible person
Thank you 😊
Hey, any chance you of you doing videos on both Histrionic and Narcissistic PD?
I very know that i have many of the Symptoms you listet. But i also know that the Society is the one who fucked me up. In my home and in my safe spaces like when im alone in the forest i am ok. but i can't keep up to people, the most don't deserve it better. there are so many narcissistic, egoistic and gaslighting people in this world that its sickening to live around them.
i hope i find more peace in another city soon, less population, less bullshit that affect my personality
of course, it's always the others fault.
sometimes i do understand people with aspd why they act a certain way.. i don't like people too. maybe thats because of my social anxiety.. but i know most people are messed up.. and i have inward anger myself but i don't lash out to people sometimes i wish i could.. society is totally messed up! i like being alone then I'm with other people..
My aggression is actually self inflicted
I'm in cluster b heavy.. mostly borderline but..
Thanks
4:56 o.o
*looks in mirror*
So
Cluster 🐝 huh?
Ahhh yes the loneliness I'm very familiar with that literally since the first year of school, and the aggression was also there. Family dysfunction
I’m a minor, but my therapist said there’s a HUGE chance I’ll be diagnosed with ASPD as soon as I turn 18
Why
Is it really true that aspd is more often seen in men or women? Or is it that the way it is tested can diagnose male better than female?
I've seen the same with other disorders, where girls just masked better than boys and therefore it was common knowledge that it affects males more than females... Until a study conducted realized that tests were just not fit for both male and female, tests were not as universal as people thought.
Did you say lack of having both biological parents??
can someone tell me the song at the end please?
I have it. I’m scared for my life. I’m 23
If you really had it you wouldn’t be scared lmao please stop looking for attention. I’m 18 and I was diagnosed 5 days ago. I don’t think there’s a damn thing wrong with me when there actually is. Diagnosis didn’t change a thing
I think one person i know person has it . What should i do. It perfectly fit him
understand he's human and struggling. keep him accountable for his behavior but don't see him as evil or heartless
@@dominosquash but he is heartless evil.
most of people with aspd are heartless and evil.
@@vilemrudolfm4438 they’re still people even with them appearing ‘heartless’ or ‘evil’ , it’s something they can’t really control
@@parasitophobia still….others MUST protect their own well being. It’s unfortunate, but one will never “love” them out of this disorder….it’s acceptance of what it is…and DISTANCE. One can still love someone from a farrrrrrrr distance and zero involvement in their life
Nice
If I was diagnosed with ODD as a child does it mean I have ASPD now?
Not necessarily, diagnosis like ADHD and ASD can also have ODD as kids or even adults. There's a lot of reasons behind ODD, not just ASPD
6:20
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I dropped something and had an apoxysm and hit my head with the butt of a lighter to try to justify my wronging of the thing I dropped
Cool story bro
Thanks for the info! researching my spouses behavior, After considering narcissism, Maybe BPD but that would be a reach, PPD, still not sure LOL
You cant diagnose someone based off of youtube, be careful doing so. Go to a clinical professional.
my father may have undiagnosed aspd and my life is hell lol
Can you file for SSI
yes
Shout out to my fellow sadists!
Some people are just have no sense of morality other than “I want” , everyone else be damned.
So, wall street sharks
Sometimes wall street sharks but other times they are gang members or video game addicted recluses.
Vernon Carel
My husband has aspd and he's a full blown acid LIAR!!!! In and out of prison, which he's in prison now. I keep thinking things are going to change but I highly doubt he'll ever have any empathy. When he says he loves me, it's just another lie. :(
They keep callin me bipolar or schitzoaffected - i an uncatchable, and unpunishable!
Wow. Guess this is me.
The person lives an EVIL Groundhog day...repeating everyday. 100,% scheming always.
Someone have a word with caffcass
😢
Sounds like 2 well known couples , I know of .
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Miller Helen Wilson Donna Robinson Linda
8:11 mmmhm
Is this a disability?
it's an disorder
it's an advantage
@@shinmon5695 baased
Kinda
Whag about for women? This seems like male behaviors and I think my ex wife has aspd
women can also have aspd.
These people need to be locked up
Why? What law was broken?
@@ggaz683 stalking sexual harrisment and a few other things
@@lenorjohnson319 What?😂You want to lock up everyone with ASPD because of one really bad apple? That's not only a bad idea but also immoral.
so you'd lock people up for having a disorder?
I don't know what to say. I check everything on the acid liar. List