Probably the most important and relevant video I’ve watched to date on narcissists for me personally. It’s the getting him out of my head which is the hardest. I know I’m supplying him with him being in my mind still even though I’m in no contact and have been for over a year. Experienced a hoover last weekend from a new number. Ignored. Plus calls. Also ignored. I know I need to live my best life. Be happy. He put me on the shelf but I’m not his Woody any more. He can go play with his new toy, Buzz Lightyear. I’m no one’s option. I was doing great before the hoover attempt. I’m not gonna lie it has set me back a bit but I’ve maintained no contact and I’ve got this far and there really is no going back. Going back to what anyway? Nothing! Cos there was no one there anyway just a fake person who wears a mask, manipulates, lies, deceives and betrays. Thanks Joe.
It’s so subtle, insidious. It’s like they are making a movie and you are in it and you don’t even know that your in it. And it’s secretively not a love movie, it’s a scary movie of a horror show. Why’s that? Becuz they need that feeling to survive. I wish I was lying, but I am not.👈🏻
@@helenmcclay2622 that’s why it’s told they will never change and keep repeating the same thing over and over again. As I have been saying since I figured all this out. They, themselves are their own worst enemies 👈🏻
He hovered me with “despite our differences” as if we just had a “misunderstanding” 😂 … no you gave me a VICIOUS and EVIL temporary discard not thinking I would actually be fed up and LEAVE 🤣
Same, he stood me up for a date, no call no text- I also did not say anything- I later found out he went to a party instead- 2 weeks later and he acts like this is no big deal and feels victimized that I ended it
@@KP-tn9cq Well, there’s so many factors that come into play. His hoover was a little delayed because he was healing from leg surgery. The discard happened because I wanted to be there for him for his surgery, he pushed me away. I asked for a compromise, at least tell me what time, where, (I was planning to send him a care package). “i told you I’m good, no need to question my goodness, I told you to stop or I will remove you until I heal…Don’t need no worry mindset around me you stress me the day before my surgery” when I tell you I was so nice and loving, and previously he told me I can share my feelings just do in a better. I made every effort to, but I refuse to be silenced. He blocked me. I returned the block for 2 weeks, then unblocked started watching his stories all he did was post things to hurt me. Sorry, so to answer your question about 90 DAYS before he came back right when he healed. But no apology, just a “happy holidays… take care… hope your doing great” He normally send flowers, shows up at my door but he didn’t this time. Only send the text. Which I ignored, no response. I know he thinks I will eventually come back. I miss him alot but I’m staying strong! !
@@KP-tn9cqbut now since the 2 week mark after the initial discard. I don’t check any of his socials and been FULLY no contact, going on 6 months! I feel so proud of myself of how strong I am. I pushed through without getting into another relationship, I stayed away, focused on my own personal growth, working out, more hobbies, starting more businesses travel, I look good. He is definitely watching me I see it on TikTok in viewers.
@@KP-tn9cq I blocked him for about 2 weeks, so I am unsure if he hoovered during that time. 90 days before I got this Hoover. I ignored and haven’t heard from him since.
No contact, no social media-even job boards, blocked-phone and email, moved away. No hovering here. I’m happy dancing 💃 right off the face of the earth…
A message received from the ex “ok, have a good life. It is a pity because I was actually starting to tell myself I missed you” who even are these people? The arrogance they have. I spent years trying to fit in to his life and show him I loved him.. gave up in the end. So over it. Go NC and stay there.. these people are not only living in their own BS but their arrogance in their words to you is another level! Unreal. Stay away. Never ever ever go back. Thanks Joe. ❤
It’s about their « prime aims». 1: Control over others minds/emotions 2: To harvest narcissistic supply with a hoover In their mind the victim belongs to them like a asset. It don’t matter if it has been a week, month, year, 10 years. They look at the victim in the same way a healthy person look’s at a video game. When they are tired of playing the game they simply put it back on the shelf, and play a new exiting game ( a new victim) it may take years and they want to play the old game again. They find out it’s gone and get furrious!. Their most important strategy is to discard the victim with no closure. So the victim feels a craveing to close the « loop», to heal, resolve problems . But the victim forget, denial, don’t see the facts ( red flags). The drama, problems where all created by the narcissist!. The is the confusion, missunderstanding, pain, suffering, problems where the whole point for the narcissist!. That is they are sadists, who enjoy the victims suffering. All they want is for the victim to break down mentaly and fail in life. This is their prime aim!. When the victim moves on. And show that they can do the « no contact». The narcissist get’s furious!. This is their worst nightmare. That is even when we delete them/block them on the phone social media after they have discarded us they get filled with rage. This is the only way to win against the narcissist. To be ignored, forgotten, seen in the clear light is their worst nightmare.
Really great post! 👍 Very informative & very true. Blocking phone #, online accounts, including the "fake accounts," deleting everything, & going no-contact is the path.
@@SagittariusBabe87 This is highly important " no contact" is the only thing the narcissist fear. They want you to stalk them. To " just check up on them" on social media. This is what they are planning for. They stage their whole online personality for YOU ( us), and their other victims ( trust me you are not their only victim). The no contact gives the control back in you hands. They silent treated, discarded us. But now they can no longer return for fuel/supply.
@@ezdeezytube The crazy thing is that this how they see the victim. As a game to be played. And when they are bored, they simply toss the victim like trash or " shelf" the victim for future consumption. The narcissist is constantly " low" on energy. So they need to recharge with fresh supply of new victims with a higher " dose" of potency. That is they need a target with higher status, more sexy, cooler, richer, more popular, more exiting and so on. When they are sucked dry they move on to the next. The only time the narcissist thinks of doing a hoover on a former victim is when they are low on supply. If they have supply the victim is not on the narcissists mind at all. many victims fail to understand this part. And it is the most important part. That is the total lack of empathy. The victim was only a source supply for narcissist ( like a battery) . That is all they " miss", when ever they are thinking of the victim. Or they might panic if they notice the victim has moved on ( lack of control, fear that the victim will forget them, fear that the victim will be better than them, or think they are better). But as a rule, in the narcissists mind the victim belongs to the narcissist forever. Even if it has gone 10 years, they can do a hoover. To get out of the FOG it is important to start seeing the narcissist as they see us!. That is they are not a person with a autentic personality. They are just a robot, who are following the programming that the narcissism dictates for them. They can`t change it. And have no will of their own. In the same way as a heroin addict will do what ever it takes to get drugs. The narcissist will do what ever it takes to get supply, and control over their victim. The supply we provide ( validation, and beeing a punshing bag for their insults, rage, irritation ),is all they care about. When they have drained us, they simply toss us like trash
Going through a tough break up currently, I didn't see it at the time but I can see clear as day now that she's a narcissist. I always thought she was just childish & immature. We were coming up on 6 years and she would always instigate arguments and threaten the relationship, she wouldn't want to sit down and talk our problems out, just escalate it more. She wouldn't take accountability. Separated me from all my close friends, made me unfriend any female friend off social media & In the end she ended the relationship for a truly RIDICULOUS reason and held all the power, I would beg & plead for her to take me back, I spoiled her one day and she would pull back HARD the next & she loved that attention but continued to refuse to work it out, it boggled not just me but her family also as to what it was that she was doing and it became so clear she was toying with me and stringing me along. She gaslit me and herself into thinking she was right and I was the bad guy in the relationship & suddenly started following all these guys and posting pictures with cleavage & TikToks feeding into her delusion, Posted many things to look for attention from other men. It was like she flipped a switch. She turned everyone we know against me to make herself look like the brave one for leaving. So much more, it clicked finally when she tried to tell me to come around weekly to take care of a dog we both loved but ultimately was completely hers, she wanted to keep me in the back pocket while she was doing all of this. but stumbling upon your channel is the best thing that's ever happened to me, you saved me from continuing to put her on a pedestal and continue to be toyed with, thank you. & for regularly uploading you are god sent my friend.
Yes, the "I want to talk to you about something next week" is spot on! So you spend the entire week thinking. And you get reduced to a ball of anxiety. Smh! 🙄
This is the « waiting bait». They get to control your for a week. That is this trick is a mix of bait and a silent treatment. The trick is to not communicate with the narcissist at all. That is no communication. No excuses, no explainations. Simply give them nothing
I remember talking to this guy who said the girl that he loved texted him, "I have something very important to tell you tomorrow." The next day she texted, "I never want to see you again." I told him to count his blessings! I also told him to do absolutely nothing at all, not a thing! I'm sure she was just reveling in the power she thought she had over him.
Don’t take the bait!. Delete the narcissist. Give them nothing!. Even if they have discarded you. Still do the « no contact». A total deletion on all social media, block on the phone, don’t talk about them In real life ( only with therapist, online with the community,), If they call hang up the phone. Zero explainations, don’t look for closure from the narcissist. Don’t think that the narcissist has forgotten about you. In their mind you belong to them forever!. They want you to think about them years, decades after they are gone. Your attention, validation, thoughts about them do matter to them. That is the secret they don’t want you to know. Follow the information over. And stopp feeding the monster any more fuel/supply!. You can do it!. You are not alone in this war. Yeas it is a war!. Fight back!. Use the « total no contact» weapon. It’s the only thing they are affraid of
Is it the confusion, tendency to blame yourself? It sure is for me. Knowing this helps me. It also helped me not to think in "all good or all bad" and I let go of the anger, but remind myself that good relationships don't feel this confusing. They also don't cost so much energy.
Recognize your part. You let it happen. The red flags were there. Get educated. No contact. You can’t miss a person who doesn’t exist. The goal is to learn the lesson and never let it happen again.
The hoovering and flying monkeys she sent angered me more than the betrayal itself. Like how dare you try to weasel your way back in after leaving abruptly and coldly. Making up lies about me to isolate me. Then trying to make me feel guilty for what YOU did. These people are callous and completely delusional. "I know I wasted your time, money, affection and gave it all to someone else. Then humiliated you after dismantling you. But can we just talk?!" 😂 Don't take them back ever again. And If you're being smeared after rejecting the hoover. Stay strong and STAY AWAY. You may lose some people to their lies but they will see the narcissist for what they are eventually.
The mind of a Narcissistic person is a haunted mansion. Who would stay with a Nimrod and think it going to end well. It never does unless you leave and ended yourself...Get Out N Stay Out
I got a protective order bc I know there is no limit. He was mortified when I did that. So he watches, waiting for the order to be up but I’m going to renew it. He needs to know not ever. Sending messages and such through family & friends. I will continue to ignore.
Supplied him well, cannot do it anymore, now he is ghosting me 😢 yes he lives in me, he has a bonding to me, I am no contact. Great video Joe, thank you, also felt his energy which made me cry, but not at the moment. I deeply loved him, but I am moving on .... still struggling.
Iv heard that they will never give you a divorce. so his daughter asked me about that. i said who are you and who is he im a widow and that is what he will make me. im satisfied with that hes dead to me. Thanks for this 💙
Good morning Joe! ☕️ The fastest way to lose weight and lighten your load…get rid of the Cluster B and drop everything that does not belong to you. Without awareness, sure you start off with a crumb or two out of empathy and or pity, but next thing you know…those crumbs turn into an elephant with a circus tent on its ass! Monkeys sling shit! Lions are unleashed! And Medusa appears! Cut the chords, Disappear into the shadows, Learn, Live!
So so true - evil evil evil. When x comes to my house unwanted - main electricity ⚡️ box switches itself off, broken glasses and broken Rosaries 📿- Lord have mercy - evil is here without a doubt
Mines tried to use our adult son being in a minor accident. To get me to unblock her telling him to tell me. That we need some communication for just in case he gets in an accident again lol. I told him I don’t have a response and I’m keeping her blocked, going on 2 months now. Best feeling ever!!
Good morning ! 🌞 cup of joe ☕☕with Joe and his a new video is perfect way to start a new day.! Combination of a beautiful images of the nature, calming voice and well explained subject of the video, makes Joe's videos very different from other stuff . Thank you for magic of Joe B. House ! 🤗❤
🤷♀️Same thing happened to me and then I was contacted indirectly about 4-5 months later.?. Narcissist rage or injury maybe? A normal person trying to understand a crazy person. Waste of time. Run away and don’t look back!
Hes blocked on messenger and on his phone number. He put a post on FB saying. I have 3 rules, DON'T LIE TO ME, DON'T USE ME, AND IF YOU'RE TIRED OF ME LEAVE ME ALONE.!!! Absolutely unbelievable exactly what they do why would they put a post like that up? Weirdos hoping i would see it . ?
Scream funny if you have studied narcissism and become enlightened. Eventually, you will realize that you can easily create your own closure. Forget getting closure from a narcissist. It's much simpler than that. I don't understand why the experts say the narc. wants you thinking of them, when clearly, you are not at all, but rather they are the one obsessing over you. Because of their toxicity, they are the ones entangled, while you have completely moved on (because you are healthy and whole).
Question , what are some of the steps these people take once you’ve let them go for the 3rd time. Do they kinda feel like they have enough nerve to come back for a Hoover based on the fact that the victim has already taken them back twice? Does their pride take over? Assuming their victim has figured them out… Can someone give me an answer? 🙏
@@soular13-gz8ej If you let them , narc would go back and forth 7 times on average, till you have nothing to offer and hardly can make through the day. So ⛔💯
Hillary Clinton said that once. That Donald trump was living rent free in his head when he thought about her. Everything I found out about this I will never ever look at politics how I use to. It’s a game changer in my book.😦
Nothing by scandals and corruption allegations with the Clintons. The Clinton Foundation was just a hair short of total fraud, over 300 million dollars went to the Clintons. Chelsea Clinton looks just like Webster Hubbell, Hillary's former law partner. The plastic surgeries on her face to change her resemblance from Hubbell has not help. Bill Clinton's name keeps coming up on the Epstein's island on underage girls sexual exploitation allegations after 20+ visits. Bill Clinton's name is on the list.
Probably the most important and relevant video I’ve watched to date on narcissists for me personally. It’s the getting him out of my head which is the hardest. I know I’m supplying him with him being in my mind still even though I’m in no contact and have been for over a year. Experienced a hoover last weekend from a new number. Ignored. Plus calls. Also ignored. I know I need to live my best life. Be happy. He put me on the shelf but I’m not his Woody any more. He can go play with his new toy, Buzz Lightyear. I’m no one’s option. I was doing great before the hoover attempt. I’m not gonna lie it has set me back a bit but I’ve maintained no contact and I’ve got this far and there really is no going back. Going back to what anyway? Nothing! Cos there was no one there anyway just a fake person who wears a mask, manipulates, lies, deceives and betrays. Thanks Joe.
It’s so subtle, insidious. It’s like they are making a movie and you are in it and you don’t even know that your in it. And it’s secretively not a love movie, it’s a scary movie of a horror show. Why’s that? Becuz they need that feeling to survive. I wish I was lying, but I am not.👈🏻
Its a vampire flick
Its what they are.
@@helenmcclay2622Yup. Sucking your life from you.
@@helenmcclay2622 that’s why it’s told they will never change and keep repeating the same thing over and over again. As I have been saying since I figured all this out. They, themselves are their own worst enemies 👈🏻
Facts! 💥
My x Pathological psycho narc is Hell on wheels 🛞
He hovered me with “despite our differences” as if we just had a “misunderstanding” 😂 … no you gave me a VICIOUS and EVIL temporary discard not thinking I would actually be fed up and LEAVE 🤣
Same, he stood me up for a date, no call no text- I also did not say anything- I later found out he went to a party instead- 2 weeks later and he acts like this is no big deal and feels victimized that I ended it
How long after the discard did he come back? Was it completely no contact during that time?
@@KP-tn9cq
Well, there’s so many factors that come into play. His hoover was a little delayed because he was healing from leg surgery. The discard happened because I wanted to be there for him for his surgery, he pushed me away. I asked for a compromise, at least tell me what time, where, (I was planning to send him a care package). “i told you I’m good, no need to question my goodness, I told you to stop or I will remove you until I heal…Don’t need no worry mindset around me you stress me the day before my surgery” when I tell you I was so nice and loving, and previously he told me I can share my feelings just do in a better. I made every effort to, but I refuse to be silenced. He blocked me. I returned the block for 2 weeks, then unblocked started watching his stories all he did was post things to hurt me.
Sorry, so to answer your question about 90 DAYS before he came back right when he healed. But no apology, just a “happy holidays… take care… hope your doing great”
He normally send flowers, shows up at my door but he didn’t this time. Only send the text. Which I ignored, no response.
I know he thinks I will eventually come back. I miss him alot but I’m staying strong! !
@@KP-tn9cqbut now since the 2 week mark after the initial discard. I don’t check any of his socials and been FULLY no contact, going on 6 months! I feel so proud of myself of how strong I am. I pushed through without getting into another relationship, I stayed away, focused on my own personal growth, working out, more hobbies, starting more businesses travel, I look good. He is definitely watching me I see it on TikTok in viewers.
@@KP-tn9cq
I blocked him for about 2 weeks, so I am unsure if he hoovered during that time. 90 days before I got this Hoover. I ignored and haven’t heard from him since.
No contact, no social media-even job boards, blocked-phone and email, moved away. No hovering here. I’m happy dancing 💃 right off the face of the earth…
A message received from the ex “ok, have a good life. It is a pity because I was actually starting to tell myself I missed you” who even are these people? The arrogance they have. I spent years trying to fit in to his life and show him I loved him.. gave up in the end. So over it. Go NC and stay there.. these people are not only living in their own BS but their arrogance in their words to you is another level! Unreal. Stay away. Never ever ever go back. Thanks Joe. ❤
They are hell on wheels 🛞 hell bound to bring Chaos & destruction at all levels - it’s unbelievable
It’s about their « prime aims».
1: Control over others minds/emotions
2: To harvest narcissistic supply with a hoover
In their mind the victim belongs to them like a asset. It don’t matter if it has been a week, month, year, 10 years.
They look at the victim in the same way a healthy person look’s at a video game. When they are tired of playing the game they simply put it back on the shelf, and play a new exiting game ( a new victim) it may take years and they want to play the old game again. They find out it’s gone and get furrious!.
Their most important strategy is to discard the victim with no closure. So the victim feels a craveing to close the « loop», to heal, resolve problems . But the victim forget, denial, don’t see the facts ( red flags).
The drama, problems where all created by the narcissist!. The is the confusion, missunderstanding, pain, suffering, problems where the whole point for the narcissist!. That is they are sadists, who enjoy the victims suffering. All they want is for the victim to break down mentaly and fail in life. This is their prime aim!.
When the victim moves on. And show that they can do the « no contact». The narcissist get’s furious!. This is their worst nightmare.
That is even when we delete them/block them on the phone social media after they have discarded us they get filled with rage.
This is the only way to win against the narcissist. To be ignored, forgotten, seen in the clear light is their worst nightmare.
Really great post! 👍 Very informative & very true. Blocking phone #, online accounts, including the "fake accounts," deleting everything, & going no-contact is the path.
The video game analogy is great.
@@SagittariusBabe87 This is highly important " no contact" is the only thing the narcissist fear. They want you to stalk them. To " just check up on them" on social media. This is what they are planning for. They stage their whole online personality for YOU ( us), and their other victims ( trust me you are not their only victim).
The no contact gives the control back in you hands. They silent treated, discarded us. But now they can no longer return for fuel/supply.
Eve n an AVO won’t stop the x narc - the next stop for him is jail
@@ezdeezytube The crazy thing is that this how they see the victim. As a game to be played. And when they are bored, they simply toss the victim like trash or " shelf" the victim for future consumption.
The narcissist is constantly " low" on energy. So they need to recharge with fresh supply of new victims with a higher " dose" of potency. That is they need a target with higher status, more sexy, cooler, richer, more popular, more exiting and so on. When they are sucked dry they move on to the next.
The only time the narcissist thinks of doing a hoover on a former victim is when they are low on supply. If they have supply the victim is not on the narcissists mind at all.
many victims fail to understand this part. And it is the most important part. That is the total lack of empathy. The victim was only a source supply for narcissist ( like a battery) . That is all they " miss", when ever they are thinking of the victim. Or they might panic if they notice the victim has moved on ( lack of control, fear that the victim will forget them, fear that the victim will be better than them, or think they are better).
But as a rule, in the narcissists mind the victim belongs to the narcissist forever. Even if it has gone 10 years, they can do a hoover.
To get out of the FOG it is important to start seeing the narcissist as they see us!. That is they are not a person with a autentic personality. They are just a robot, who are following the programming that the narcissism dictates for them. They can`t change it. And have no will of their own. In the same way as a heroin addict will do what ever it takes to get drugs. The narcissist will do what ever it takes to get supply, and control over their victim.
The supply we provide ( validation, and beeing a punshing bag for their insults, rage, irritation ),is all they care about. When they have drained us, they simply toss us like trash
Going through a tough break up currently, I didn't see it at the time but I can see clear as day now that she's a narcissist. I always thought she was just childish & immature. We were coming up on 6 years and she would always instigate arguments and threaten the relationship, she wouldn't want to sit down and talk our problems out, just escalate it more. She wouldn't take accountability. Separated me from all my close friends, made me unfriend any female friend off social media & In the end she ended the relationship for a truly RIDICULOUS reason and held all the power, I would beg & plead for her to take me back, I spoiled her one day and she would pull back HARD the next & she loved that attention but continued to refuse to work it out, it boggled not just me but her family also as to what it was that she was doing and it became so clear she was toying with me and stringing me along. She gaslit me and herself into thinking she was right and I was the bad guy in the relationship & suddenly started following all these guys and posting pictures with cleavage & TikToks feeding into her delusion, Posted many things to look for attention from other men. It was like she flipped a switch. She turned everyone we know against me to make herself look like the brave one for leaving. So much more, it clicked finally when she tried to tell me to come around weekly to take care of a dog we both loved but ultimately was completely hers, she wanted to keep me in the back pocket while she was doing all of this. but stumbling upon your channel is the best thing that's ever happened to me, you saved me from continuing to put her on a pedestal and continue to be toyed with, thank you. & for regularly uploading you are god sent my friend.
❤
Yes, the "I want to talk to you about something next week" is spot on! So you spend the entire week thinking. And you get reduced to a ball of anxiety. Smh! 🙄
This is the « waiting bait». They get to control your for a week. That is this trick is a mix of bait and a silent treatment.
The trick is to not communicate with the narcissist at all. That is no communication. No excuses, no explainations. Simply give them nothing
I remember talking to this guy who said the girl that he loved texted him, "I have something very important to tell you tomorrow." The next day she texted, "I never want to see you again." I told him to count his blessings! I also told him to do absolutely nothing at all, not a thing! I'm sure she was just reveling in the power she thought she had over him.
@@myutube5882 and what did that guy do? Tried to get her back, right?
something triggered me and i started going down the rabbit hole again...this helped me get out...thank you
Don’t take the bait!. Delete the narcissist. Give them nothing!.
Even if they have discarded you. Still do the « no contact». A total deletion on all social media, block on the phone, don’t talk about them In real life ( only with therapist, online with the community,), If they call hang up the phone.
Zero explainations, don’t look for closure from the narcissist.
Don’t think that the narcissist has forgotten about you. In their mind you belong to them forever!. They want you to think about them years, decades after they are gone.
Your attention, validation, thoughts about them do matter to them. That is the secret they don’t want you to know.
Follow the information over. And stopp feeding the monster any more fuel/supply!.
You can do it!. You are not alone in this war. Yeas it is a war!. Fight back!. Use the « total no contact» weapon. It’s the only thing they are affraid of
@S.O.W_musictherapy thank you!
@S.O.W_musictherapy that is funny that is one of the things i did...just the lyrics really was good therapy...thanks i will
Is it the confusion, tendency to blame yourself? It sure is for me. Knowing this helps me. It also helped me not to think in "all good or all bad" and I let go of the anger, but remind myself that good relationships don't feel this confusing. They also don't cost so much energy.
Recognize your part. You let it happen. The red flags were there. Get educated. No contact. You can’t miss a person who doesn’t exist. The goal is to learn the lesson and never let it happen again.
Good advice
Their kryptonite is relevance. It's how they get a sense of value. Depriving them of it is how they lose a sense of value.
How can you deprive them of their kryptonite?
@@ritapeters1330 by ignoring them.
@@soloman747 ah oK, yes, thank you, I am no contact
The hoovering and flying monkeys she sent angered me more than the betrayal itself. Like how dare you try to weasel your way back in after leaving abruptly and coldly. Making up lies about me to isolate me. Then trying to make me feel guilty for what YOU did. These people are callous and completely delusional. "I know I wasted your time, money, affection and gave it all to someone else. Then humiliated you after dismantling you. But can we just talk?!" 😂 Don't take them back ever again. And If you're being smeared after rejecting the hoover. Stay strong and STAY AWAY. You may lose some people to their lies but they will see the narcissist for what they are eventually.
The mind of a Narcissistic person is a haunted mansion. Who would stay with a Nimrod and think it going to end well. It never does unless you leave and ended yourself...Get Out N Stay Out
Right, don't take it personally! Consider the source - a narcissist!
I got a protective order bc I know there is no limit. He was mortified when I did that. So he watches, waiting for the order to be up but I’m going to renew it. He needs to know not ever. Sending messages and such through family & friends. I will continue to ignore.
Please stay safe 🙏❤️
I have a AVO now - hopefully he go to jail or keep away from me
Supplied him well, cannot do it anymore, now he is ghosting me 😢 yes he lives in me, he has a bonding to me, I am no contact.
Great video Joe, thank you, also felt his energy which made me cry, but not at the moment. I deeply loved him, but I am moving on .... still struggling.
Iv heard that they will never give you a divorce. so his daughter asked me about that. i said who are you and who is he im a widow and that is what he will make me. im satisfied with that hes dead to me. Thanks for this 💙
Good morning Joe! ☕️
The fastest way to lose weight and lighten your load…get rid of the Cluster B and drop everything that does not belong to you.
Without awareness, sure you start off with a crumb or two out of empathy and or pity, but next thing you know…those crumbs turn into an elephant with a circus tent on its ass!
Monkeys sling shit!
Lions are unleashed!
And Medusa appears!
Cut the chords,
Disappear into the shadows,
Learn,
Live!
So so true - evil evil evil. When x comes to my house unwanted - main electricity ⚡️ box switches itself off, broken glasses and broken Rosaries 📿- Lord have mercy - evil is here without a doubt
@@katielung6515 The Cluster and The Empath is a battle of the soul; armor up!
Stay alert!
Stay alive!
Stay strong!
Peace ✌️
Mines tried to use our adult son being in a minor accident. To get me to unblock her telling him to tell me. That we need some communication for just in case he gets in an accident again lol. I told him I don’t have a response and I’m keeping her blocked, going on 2 months now. Best feeling ever!!
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Hi, lioubovgrant! ☕☕☕❤️❤️❤️ I agree
@@SagittariusBabe87 Hello Sarab. Glad that you agree. Have a great day ! 🤗❤
@@lioubovgrant1935 Yes, and I enjoy your posts! Thank you, and you too! ☺️❤️❤️
I imagine this narcissist I had a short situationship with as an ugly GREMLIN!! I feel pity for them!!
Why did he threaten to go to the police if I contacted him again
🤷♀️Same thing happened to me and then I was contacted indirectly about 4-5 months later.?. Narcissist rage or injury maybe? A normal person trying to understand a crazy person. Waste of time. Run away and don’t look back!
Narky wants to feel important all powerful all superior. They bluff alot
Hes blocked on messenger and on his phone number. He put a post on FB saying. I have 3 rules, DON'T LIE TO ME, DON'T USE ME, AND IF YOU'RE TIRED OF ME LEAVE ME ALONE.!!! Absolutely unbelievable exactly what they do why would they put a post like that up? Weirdos hoping i would see it . ?
Wow...spot on...!
Another excellent podcast on the world of a narcissist. Certainly helping me. Good work.❤
It makes sense, thank you.
My narc said that he needs me!
Are you back with him?
Scream funny if you have studied narcissism and become enlightened. Eventually, you will realize that you can easily create your own closure. Forget getting closure from a narcissist. It's much simpler than that.
I don't understand why the experts say the narc. wants you thinking of them, when clearly, you are not at all, but rather they are the one obsessing over you. Because of their toxicity, they are the ones entangled, while you have completely moved on (because you are healthy and whole).
Just the supply - not the person.
Good point. But it baffles, as there is easier supply. @@helenmcclay2622
@@helenmcclay2622 maybe with pure narcisissts, but avoidants with some narcisstic traits can mean you as a person
I really anjoy your videos. Thank you so much. So cosy and comfortable.
Great content! I’m really enjoying your delivery.
He can't come back if hes blocked on messenger and ive blocked his phone number . ?
I don’t care to the point of not being able to finish this video.
Why could you not finish it? Because you know it all?
Question , what are some of the steps these people take once you’ve let them go for the 3rd time. Do they kinda feel like they have enough nerve to come back for a Hoover based on the fact that the victim has already taken them back twice? Does their pride take over? Assuming their victim has figured them out…
Can someone give me an answer? 🙏
They will go as many times as you let them. So dont let it, ball is in your court !
Ok, Thank you 🙏
That is true
@@soular13-gz8ej If you let them , narc would go back and forth 7 times on average, till you have nothing to offer and hardly can make through the day. So ⛔💯
@@lioubovgrant1935 that is crazy smh
@@soular13-gz8ej 🤗
Hillary Clinton said that once. That Donald trump was living rent free in his head when he thought about her. Everything I found out about this I will never ever look at politics how I use to. It’s a game changer in my book.😦
Nothing by scandals and corruption allegations with the Clintons. The Clinton Foundation was just a hair short of total fraud, over 300 million dollars went to the Clintons. Chelsea Clinton looks just like Webster Hubbell, Hillary's former law partner. The plastic surgeries on her face to change her resemblance from Hubbell has not help. Bill Clinton's name keeps coming up on the Epstein's island on underage girls sexual exploitation allegations after 20+ visits. Bill Clinton's name is on the list.
I think it’s actually the opposite scenario. She couldn’t handle losing the election to him.
@@debbiehepler2007 I agree
Her head***
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