He move on to where ? Hopefully he don't get no settlement out of her hopefully she's smarter than that and he don't get no money out of the divorce. Look like his ex-wife is waiting for some money to pour in they will benefit if Jennifer Jennifer Lopez money and her good heart and have a gambling problem and his ex nosy that they will probably broke that's why he was living in the guest room whoever heard of a man living in the guest room I'm being a bachelor
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
@@kwoylee5617 - I think he'd be better off as a writer/director instead of an actor because he doesn't like the spotlight and maybe that's part of why he always looks so miserable.
@@appetizerssushi7121 JLO fabricated the rumor only to make herself look like a victim and clear her path to reconnect with Ben again. It was revealed later that jlo was actually flirting with Ben while still in a relationship with arod.
@@rashmita916 Well geez 😒! I didn’t know that, I was too young. I just hope that they all can become better people. Ben, seems to be a serious problem too but the media isn’t making it seem that way
She needs a lawyer to protect her money's remember her first ex walked out with $1 million Dollars or more and Ben and his ex-wife don't mind digging into that money they look like hustlers because of his gambling problem I guess they both broke and they jump into Jennifer Lopez good heart money
The divorce should be easy, they were married for 2 years. If they are intelligent they should walk away with each other money and not ask for anything from either of them. She should keep her money and Ben should keep he’s money. Very simple
They bought 60 million dollar home, spent at least 10 million for renovation, not mentioning joint projects (she filmed 2 movies Ben’s production company is behind) and more. It aint that simple
He always looked that way that's why he does Gamble and drink and hang out with his baby's ex baby's mom fill up their pockets of moneys 💰 from other people's settlement it must have been a frame.
Actually everything she touched she's able to reveal it. So anything that's not genuine it's going to come out to the light. I'm pretty much band was hungry for money with his gambling. But your dumbass is then leave them alone. And these dumb paparazzi making money out of other people love alike. People like that should not even get paid. For overdoing it. And his ex baby mom clown she was always clowning around find out what he could pocket out of Jennifer Lopez success because she's making twice their money put together I'm pretty sure Ben was running low
Everything was real but they were under attack by the media you ain't got nothing else to do but cause conflict you got nobody and y'all don't want no one to prosper especially the races
All that cash 💸 she threw away on weddings, houses vacations etc was nothing but a hugh waste. I wonder how many hungry kids or lives could have been saved or other worthy causes that 💸 could have impacted.
@@StephanieWinter-os5en - Yes! That's what I don't understand, why did he get back into a relationship with her and suddenly decide that it's not working? Seems a bit cruel and humiliating.
@@Ava2969ny because he's a man child! Doesn't know what or who makes him happy because he doesn't really know what happiness means! What a waste of her time with a man who she was obsessed with loving him!
@Ava2969ny the timing he left April 26th matches the P Diddy raid and sex tapes revealed. Ben didn't want the potential legal and scandal mess around his kids, and embarrassed about her more shocking past he didn't know.
Yes, she should have never gone back to an ex. there's always the possibilty of baggage and when you extend your trust the second time, it's a huge risk. There's a saying, "when someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them," and move on.
I think a lot of people were routing for them to make it; they had already been through failed relationships, so it would have been nice if they worked harder to keep the marriage going.
Oh puleez! I don't think people cared as much as she thinks they did. They were just as annoying this time around as they were twenty years ago. It's clear after that cringy documentary that she's delusional and she cares more about convincing the world of their so called love story than actually developing anything of substance with anyone.
I remember last time they were together. She was devastated when they broke up. He was not. You could see it..running around flirting with a married Jennifer Garner in interviews..Jlo married him to have her day! You cant make someone love you no matter how pretty you are and no matter how hard you try..just sad
I'm not saying this about all of them, but men with huge egos can be the biggest @ssholes to women; but every guy who secretly enjoys shitting on a woman, by humiliating her, usually pays through karma. I've seen it many times.
J Lo is a wonderful actress. She is not a wonderful wife. Some people just are not. The hard part is the kids ,bouncing from their mother’s relationships, house to house. I hope they’re ok.
It’s about time you show yourself some self respect Jlo. You have been disrespected by Ben Affleck in so many ways so many times. She obviously tried hard to hold on to it, but damn hasn’t she learned when a man wants you nothing can take him away but if he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay, yup not even a sexy body…. Girl ugh
There was no double doubt they had to do it the first time it's not much they could have done but that time and the second time came in the same way people just got bothering them and making them feel discomfort no respect
we don’t know what went on behind closed doors in their marriage. My personal opinion…… All the double standard comments blow my mind. These men are the one’s that propose, and their behavior is never held accountable for what they do. She’s definitely not the only woman to be on her third or fourth marriage. Men do it all the time, leave, go have a kid & rush into another relationship. Hell her ex hubby on his fourth marriage and just had his seventh child. all of a sudden the woman needs to be single, she needs therapy, ect. Good for her she can permanently close this chapter of Bennifer!!!
I think the very recent photos of Ben apparently "glowing" whilst out with Jennifer Garner and their children and commentary suggesting there were no official reports of them reuniting (ie strongly hinting that they looked "together" in those pix) were the final straw. The final humiliation. She was probably made aware of the photos just before they landed and that's why the divorce papers were filed without an Attorney - she went and did it immediately, so there were no delays waiting for an Attorney.
Jennifer Garner homewreck8ng for a second time! How could they have a marriage? She was there every other day! Please Garner no prize and sneaky always has been, she is no better than jlo but everyone e seems to think she is perfect ? Ben a loss cause, jlo never marry again and never think of affleck again!
That's a tension seeking divorce filing. I will predict it will withdrawn. There is noway she would seriously file a divorce paper by herself without lawyers.
Stop blaming her. 1. He wooed her and he proposed to her (twice) 2. He wrote on the ring “Not going anywhere” 3. He said in an interview that this is a beautiful story and maybe someday he will write a book about it. 4. He said that this time she can do whatever she wants, he will not interfere with her. 5. He came up with the title "The Greatest Love Story Never Told" 6. He said that he would compromise. But everyone blames Jennifer. Jennifer is a very loving and naive. My heart hurts for her. Be emphatic
I'm not a jlo fan but Ben is not a good plan. He is now Garner to help him playing the victim in this marriage. This behaviour is so bad : jlo should move on and enjoy his life escaping from this type of marriage.
I don't think she was gullible...I think Ben is a bit of an @sshole in certain ways...if guys with no money often act like their the prize in a relationship, imagine dating a Hollywood star.
Ben about to have a lot more free time and energy to hop back in that director's chair and deliver another 🔥 film. I think bro needs to just be married to the work for a while
@@AmericanObserver-kq7yeno she didn't! He stopped their wedding 4 days before it was scheduled. He fell in love with Garner while engaged to Jlo while he & Garner made Daredevil together. She divorced her husband Foley soon after the movie..dated her Alien costar Varten for a short time while waiting for Ben & Jlo to break up which they did. Dinner for Five was notorious for showing when Garner showed she was in love with Affleck flirting with him notoriously. Soon after she & Affleck were dating..she got pregnant & they married. Ben left her for Garner & had a family with her instead of Jlo who was supposed to be his wife! If that's not a stab in the back I don't know what is!😳🤔👎🏼🖤💔
Any man that is made to feel like he's the prize will eventually use that his advantage. I'm not sure if he ever felt the same depth of love that she felt for him, and with a guy with his ego and a woman with her ego...difficult to make that work.
Well he must have felt something writing those love letters, pining for her over the last 20 yrs... But then he said his biggest regret in life was his divorce from Jennifer Garner...so who the hell knows just how he thinks, really, one complicated dude isn't he? 20 yrs of love letters, to exit after 2 yrs of marriage..🤔
@@wakanda6754 - that's what makes this entire 2-year relationship odd. If he had been writing her for years, why not work on the marriage instead of getting divorced? He sure is complicated.
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
I feel so sad for her bc she went through this embarrassment and heartbreak again. I looked up to her as a Latina growing up but her love life and this last year has been so hard to see because she’s not getting it right. She looked so skinny like never before and I know she wasn’t eating much. I just picture her in my mind’s eye very sad and heartbroken - you can see it in her face. And I think of her kids who have been through so much. Money is not enough, even her family have stood behind her so many times in all her weddings and relationships and step kids. I hope she takes the time to reflect. And Ben? I don’t even know about him. Idk.
She needs to just stop dating for a while and just focus on healing. Sometimes when people constantly date, they repeat the same bad decisions because they haven't healed. Hopefully she will do some inner work so she can choose the right person for her
Justice for for Nathania Rubens Shoot in New York in 1999 allegedly by “Diddy” Combs, his former girlfriend *Jennifer Lopez* and rapper Jamal “Shyne” Barrow.
I thought that he had given her the flowers to celebrate some career milestone...and there's no way Ben could want or need any of Jen's money...do you recall that he has an oscar? and he is still in demand as an actor, so I don't think it had anything to do with money.
IMO I don't think she feels that she needs a man to complete her...she's way too successful to be that small-minded. I do think that she has some issues with being alone; which many people struggle with, more so men than women.
He seems like a complicated dude. Doom and gloom. I think that Jennifer really loved him and wanted that Happy Ending, but men like Ben are never going to give you that.
@@Ava2969ny Well he wasn't very kind to Jennifer Garner publicly decimating her when he got together with JLO. Then JLO released those private letters he wrote her, allegedly how much he loved her all these years, that was a poke for Garner, look how much he loved me while he was married to you..Why does Garner even acknowledge him after all that shows she has very little self esteem left..
Both should remain unmarried and stop wasting people’s time.
Who’s time did they waste?
@@lostwoods5687 Each other's.😂😂😂
@@lostwoods5687everyone that went to the wedding
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ABSOLUTELY 👍🏼
I think Ben allowed her to file, so she does not look bad, since he is the one who initially moved out.
absolutely
She does this everytime she divorces someone. Jlo has to always be shown as the one that breaks up first
@@krisj827 so High School
He move on to where ? Hopefully he don't get no settlement out of her hopefully she's smarter than that and he don't get no money out of the divorce. Look like his ex-wife is waiting for some money to pour in they will benefit if Jennifer Jennifer Lopez money and her good heart and have a gambling problem and his ex nosy that they will probably broke that's why he was living in the guest room whoever heard of a man living in the guest room I'm being a bachelor
@@krisj827 exactly. She always manipulates the media into making her look like the one who walked. It's BS
She doesn’t need a lawyer to file divorce she has enough experience!!
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That’s exactly what I was thinking, she’s done this three times prior! She knew exactly what to do
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It was doomed from the start. They are both too in love with themselves to be in love with someone else.
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
Maybe so. It's sad because of the children specifically JLO n Mark Anthony's children. My heart goes out to them.
@@kimwalter8753 @Love11904 Sadly, even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.
@@kimwalter8753 @Love11904 Sadly, even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.
Not really. JLo needs 24/7/365 affirmations, attention and showered with praise. She's an attention seeker.
Why do high profile celebs even bother getting married in the first place???
I know right???
The wedding lol a big narcissistic event for them 😅
Narcissistic supply
Not for love but for attention on tv
It's all for attention/publicity stunt nowadays, and that's why I don't believe in celebrity relationships and marriages.
Life is not a fairytale. Her scolding him in public and revealing intimate details of their lives drew the line.
I think life can be a fairytale but starts within ❤
Wow when did she scold him in public?
Diddy did her in 😮
I really y'all draw the line you're always in people's business this ain't no damn novel
She didn’t scold him public lol, who knows what the reasons why they got married in the first place
Her upcoming documentary: “JLO: The greatest divorce story told again and again and again and again.”
😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
Yea JLO movies suck so she gets married over and over
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Her poor children being around this nonsense
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thankfully she has several houses otherwise imagine the rotation of men through JLos bedroom the children we would have to endure :(
I truly feel sorry for her kids.
The kids got close to so many men. Definitely going to have abandonment issues!!! Horrible. They’ll meet another man real soon…
I know! Smh
Oh no I didn’t see this coming, said nobody😂
Ahahaha
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Exactly
Now I get another chance at jlo
Jennifer Garner is a treasure ❤
So many people predicted they were going to divorce in 2 years and look it happened.
Ben loves Matt
J-Lo loves J-Lo and can't turn it off.
On the dot
Yeah thanks for the hate
For being nosey 🤪👃
She’ll be married again by next summer
Lol probably marry a musician and have another album coming out after that
@@whocares4464 She'll probs date a young back up dancer
Agree...
I'll say by Christmas.
Diddy is single I hear
GOOD! Ben looked absolutely miserable the entire time we all saw it coming from a mile away😅
He always looks miserable.
Are we supposed to feel sorry for Ben??? NOPE he left the wrong Jen
No y'all's just being racist and causing problem
@@kwoylee5617 - I think he'd be better off as a writer/director instead of an actor because he doesn't like the spotlight and maybe that's part of why he always looks so miserable.
If it didn't work the first time 99% of time it ain't going to work second time around!
I hear it. 💯
I disagree third time is the charm lol
@@fadumonor868 like I said 99%
@@fadumonor868yea but not with the same person 3 times fool
@@david-l8h thank you for setting this nimrod straight somebody always gotta Contest the truth!
Alex Rodriquez is somewhere rubbing his hands together like yes you can’t rebound me like Ben I play baseball not basketball 😂😂😂
Alex cheated on her though
@@appetizerssushi7121 She got her karma, she STARTED cheating on Chris Judd WITH Ben Affleck when she met him on the set of the film so,there.
@@appetizerssushi7121 JLO fabricated the rumor only to make herself look like a victim and clear her path to reconnect with Ben again. It was revealed later that jlo was actually flirting with Ben while still in a relationship with arod.
World is full of cheaters. Always keep tabs on your significant other. They might seem like the most loyal but the tide can turn one day 🌊
@@rashmita916 Well geez 😒! I didn’t know that, I was too young. I just hope that they all can become better people. Ben, seems to be a serious problem too but the media isn’t making it seem that way
Why does she need a lawyer? She probably knows those legal papers like the back of her hand…..😂😂😂
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She needs a lawyer to protect her money's remember her first ex walked out with $1 million Dollars or more and Ben and his ex-wife don't mind digging into that money they look like hustlers because of his gambling problem I guess they both broke and they jump into Jennifer Lopez good heart money
JLo divorced so many times that courts decided now to give divorce papers along with marriage license😂😂 saves time
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Funny if it weren't true.
Besides Ross, from a friends, her divorce attorney will always have work 😅😅😅😅
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She can’t even go back to the block. They don’t know her 😂😂😂😂
That doc was crazy. "I grew up in this house!" 😂 That man probably lived there since the 70s.
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Be nice lady!
You can live there in the 70s because Jennifer Lopez was only going on one
JLo needs to love herself and leave men alone.
She just did an album and movie called 'This is me...now' she dedicated to honoring herself. 😂😂Pretty sure she's got the loving herself part covered.
Have fun loving yourself with no family 😂😂😂
Jlo us making a lot of ppls miserable. Just retire and go away...
Edited version... JLO IS MAKING A LOT OF PEOPLE'S LIFE MISERABLE. ... PLEASE JUST RETIRE AND GO AWAY. GEEZ!!!!
@@300apesyou don't need a family to be happy fool
The divorce should be easy, they were married for 2 years. If they are intelligent they should walk away with each other money and not ask for anything from either of them. She should keep her money and Ben should keep he’s money. Very simple
I completely agree with you.
I completely agree with you.
She was married for less time and had to pay millions in settlement before. She is sad and needs to stay single.
Ikr
They bought 60 million dollar home, spent at least 10 million for renovation, not mentioning joint projects (she filmed 2 movies Ben’s production company is behind) and more. It aint that simple
He started to look like he was relapsing from his body language and appearance.
He always looked that way that's why he does Gamble and drink and hang out with his baby's ex baby's mom fill up their pockets of moneys 💰 from other people's settlement it must have been a frame.
He did look miserable most of the times.
😂she made him that unhappy eh😂
The melody behind this, like we're suppose to feel effected 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 the internet is crazy. On to the next youtube video.
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Why do the headlines keep making sure to highlight that SHE filed when we ALL know HE left HER months ago!!
all about her pride
I think she waited for the 2 year mark because it wouldn’t make her look so bad with a 1 year marriage
I knew it wouldn't last
JLo wants the record for divorce in Hollywood 😂
She was trying to make it work out it is what it is
She’s in love with being in love
Somethings wrong
and herself
Well you have to feel love to be in love
Then she should only date a new man ever month this should fill her void.
Sorry but she ain't like you 😆
Jennifer Garner helps homeless people in parking lots. Jennifer Lopez helps herself
@@Neverland4747 ain't that true sad but it is
Ben shouldn’t have screwed around on Jen Garner and should’ve gotten sober
Shut up hater. Jlo is a big philanthropist, she donates much more than trifle garner
Jennifer Garner is just as toxic a mess as them. Ppl are blinded by the facade apparently...
Ben left sweet beautiful Jen for a psycho narcissist Jen Big MISTAKE
What’s this , like 5 divorces? Engagements ?Lady just stop
It's 4 divorces ,6 engagements...the most I get is one engagement and one marriage ...some women have all the luck
The next guy that marries JLo know your her bitch and expendable in 2 years or less
@@Carousel5883😅
Elisabeth Taylor married 9 or so? Jlo must catch up.
Jlo has been overratted her entire career...she can disappear now
Yea everything she touch goes bad 😂
Actually everything she touched she's able to reveal it. So anything that's not genuine it's going to come out to the light. I'm pretty much band was hungry for money with his gambling. But your dumbass is then leave them alone. And these dumb paparazzi making money out of other people love alike. People like that should not even get paid. For overdoing it. And his ex baby mom clown she was always clowning around find out what he could pocket out of Jennifer Lopez success because she's making twice their money put together I'm pretty sure Ben was running low
Being married to an alcoholic is a lifelong struggle.
Being married to a portorican is even worse...lol
Being married to a narcissist is a life long struggle 😅
Alcoholic narcissist is not a fairytale!
I don't think JG would allow him near their children if he was still drinking.
Being married to a narcissistic serial cheater like JLo isn't any walk in the park either.
In my opinion they had a fake relationship. They did everything for the camera. Nothing about their relationship was real.
The only thing real was her obsession over him. He realized he married his stalker.
I believe it from Jlo's side but not Ben. I think he just got caught up and just wanted to be happy
Everything was real but they were under attack by the media you ain't got nothing else to do but cause conflict you got nobody and y'all don't want no one to prosper especially the races
Well if it was not real they made a loser mess more outa there personalities. I think it was real grasping on to the past but did not work
That man hasn't been happy with her for a while! No one is surprised. Ben has been walking around looking like a hostage 😂
And was always miserable looking too 😂
Hasn't been unhappy? So he's been happy...
@@Holychickendinner oops 😬
@@C3POSkywalkerR2D2not true. He looks happy with JG NOW.
@@C3POSkywalkerR2D2 Maybe. Maybe not. All I said he looks happy when he's out w JG.
Jlo just loves wedding and wedding gowns. She is gonna do it again, again, and again until she dies
That's what they agreed on so she don't looked dumped
Exactly. We all know he left her MONTHS ago
Facts. This is just like her. Always trying to manipulate the headlines to make herself look better.
J Lo & Ben are fools.
Why ?
The least surprised person is Jennifer Garner!
Jennifer Lopez just stay single!
👩🏽🦱 She won’t.
How about just stay lost.
No no don't stay single who care what people say they don't sleep with you keep doing what makes you happy never give up
So you stay by yourself
Why was she want to stay alone you won't
I don’t think Ben spent or lost any money on her she’s the one that lost on him sad to say…
All that cash 💸 she threw away on weddings, houses vacations etc was nothing but a hugh waste.
I wonder how many hungry kids or lives could have been saved or other worthy causes that 💸 could have impacted.
Lol like they give a crap lol she's Jenny from the block lol messy hair and all just running and gunning
There wouldn't be any hungry kids if poor women
would stop having babies they can't support.
@@whocares4464exactly what I thought, she only cared that she would have enough money ❣️
Oh please. Spend your own time and money to help the hungry kids and don't be concern with how other people spend their money.
Not to mention her paying 20 Million on creating that movie documentary that FLOPPED.. 🙄
You can't force a man to love you .
He chased her, made promises, knew what he was getting into and bailed.
@@StephanieWinter-os5en - Yes! That's what I don't understand, why did he get back into a relationship with her and suddenly decide that it's not working? Seems a bit cruel and humiliating.
@@Ava2969ny because he's a man child! Doesn't know what or who makes him happy because he doesn't really know what happiness means! What a waste of her time with a man who she was obsessed with loving him!
@Ava2969ny the timing he left April 26th matches the P Diddy raid and sex tapes revealed. Ben didn't want the potential legal and scandal mess around his kids, and embarrassed about her more shocking past he didn't know.
@@bklynsteph66 - that seems plausible. Has to be heartbreaking for her because she has always said he was "the one."
Ben was a gentleman letting her to decide when she want to tell to the world the news. Today finally was the day. 🤷🏻♀️
Exactly. We all know he left her MONTHS ago.
Maybe Jlou should get together with someone from "The Block" 😂😂😂😂
she has already done the block..
Maybe just stay single
@@Di-hz2dz 🙊😂😂
She did. She married a poor waiter and a poor backup dancer before
JLo is the new Liz Taylor 😢
Don't even put them in the same sentence.
Not even. Liz had class and actual talent.
Funny I was thinking the same thing......loll
@@trawlins396 Liz stole Debbie Reynolds' husband... how is that 'classy'?
@@jartober I was referring to their multiple marriages, not their acting/entertaining abilities.
Jlo can get them but cant keep them
She has been ran threw! She can't pair bond with a man that thang been dugg out!😂
Because she holds on too tight. She doesn't understand how to let someone love her freely without control.
She can't kept a man
I think it has something to do w Diddy. Ben left her a few weeks after Diddy's house got raided.
@@trawlins396Thats dif part of it
I think she really loved him. That sucks, as a hopeless romantic I was rooting for them, but I guess that’s why you shouldn’t go back to an ex.
Yes, she should have never gone back to an ex. there's always the possibilty of baggage and when you extend your trust the second time, it's a huge risk. There's a saying, "when someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them," and move on.
Does this mean we're near the end of hearing about this never ending saga?
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They'll get re-married a couple more times.
I did not want this relationship🤣🤣You can just see at the onset it was not going to work🤣🤣
I can you wish someone to not be happily married, very wicked
I think a lot of people were routing for them to make it; they had already been through failed relationships, so it would have been nice if they worked harder to keep the marriage going.
Oh puleez! I don't think people cared as much as she thinks they did. They were just as annoying this time around as they were twenty years ago. It's clear after that cringy documentary that she's delusional and she cares more about convincing the world of their so called love story than actually developing anything of substance with anyone.
Together they went through $$$$$$$. What a waste.
I remember last time they were together. She was devastated when they broke up. He was not. You could see it..running around flirting with a married Jennifer Garner in interviews..Jlo married him to have her day! You cant make someone love you no matter how pretty you are and no matter how hard you try..just sad
I'm not saying this about all of them, but men with huge egos can be the biggest @ssholes to women; but every guy who secretly enjoys shitting on a woman, by humiliating her, usually pays through karma. I've seen it many times.
ARod dodged a bullet
Alexander Rodriguez should be thankful he didn't marry J Lo. Didn't she just product a documentary call "The Greatest Love Story Never Told"
Embarrassing!🤣
Yes she did. Called Ben the biggest love of her life. AND she made the CD about their new romance. That's why we all know she didn't leave him.
To say "this is the day love died" is just plain stupid
This is so heartbreaking. I hope she’s able to move forward and begin healing now.
J Lo is a wonderful actress. She is not a wonderful wife. Some people just are not. The hard part is the kids ,bouncing from their mother’s relationships, house to house. I hope they’re ok.
Wonderful actress? 😂
They gave it another shot. Wasn’t mean to be 😢
It’s about time you show yourself some self respect Jlo. You have been disrespected by Ben Affleck in so many ways so many times. She obviously tried hard to hold on to it, but damn hasn’t she learned when a man wants you nothing can take him away but if he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay, yup not even a sexy body…. Girl ugh
I feel sorry for her. We are so quick to judge. She's probably devastated. I hope she cam find peace in this difficult time.
Knew when they got married.. it wasn't meant to be. Never double back.
There was no double doubt they had to do it the first time it's not much they could have done but that time and the second time came in the same way people just got bothering them and making them feel discomfort no respect
we don’t know what went on behind closed doors in their marriage.
My personal opinion…… All the double standard comments blow my mind. These men are the one’s that propose, and their behavior is never held accountable for what they do. She’s definitely not the only woman to be on her third or fourth marriage. Men do it all the time, leave, go have a kid & rush into another relationship. Hell her ex hubby on his fourth marriage and just had his seventh child. all of a sudden the woman needs to be single, she needs therapy, ect. Good for her she can permanently close this chapter of Bennifer!!!
Who really cares?
Right❣️
@Mistymountains
You clearly do. Enough to comment.🤷🏾♀️🤦🏻♀️🥴
My dog cares
Amen...
Everyone who watched this video cares or they wouldn't watch the video
I think the very recent photos of Ben apparently "glowing" whilst out with Jennifer Garner and their children and commentary suggesting there were no official reports of them reuniting (ie strongly hinting that they looked "together" in those pix) were the final straw. The final humiliation. She was probably made aware of the photos just before they landed and that's why the divorce papers were filed without an Attorney - she went and did it immediately, so there were no delays waiting for an Attorney.
I bet they'll get back together.
I am pretty sure, JLo got an advice from a lawyer, before filing the divorce papers without a lawyer. She is no fool.
If Jennifer Garner reunites with that man after those emails to Jennifer Lopez she would be the bigger fool. Ben is NOT a prize.@@meghanmisaliar
@@bawnfordays73wait for it! It will happen!😳🤔😉
Jennifer Garner homewreck8ng for a second time! How could they have a marriage? She was there every other day! Please Garner no prize and sneaky always has been, she is no better than jlo but everyone e seems to think she is perfect ? Ben a loss cause, jlo never marry again and never think of affleck again!
She don't need an attorney after 3 divorces.. she is basically an expert in divorce lol 😂
Exactly she should start a web business on do it yourself divorce
Nobody thought love died..Any sane person knew that it wouldn't work.
thats women dont need to be married shes too much of a narcissist, just have a BF and call it a day
That's a tension seeking divorce filing. I will predict it will withdrawn. There is noway she would seriously file a divorce paper by herself without lawyers.
Stop blaming her.
1. He wooed her and he proposed to her (twice)
2. He wrote on the ring “Not going anywhere”
3. He said in an interview that this is a beautiful story and maybe someday he will write a book about it.
4. He said that this time she can do whatever she wants, he will not interfere with her.
5. He came up with the title "The Greatest Love Story Never Told"
6. He said that he would compromise.
But everyone blames Jennifer. Jennifer is a very loving and naive. My heart hurts for her. Be emphatic
@@karids934 you're not living in REALITY.
No guy should fall in love with JLo cause she will never love you back
Yeah like madonna is doing. Dating fresh blood but never marrying one 😂
I'm not a jlo fan but Ben is not a good plan. He is now Garner to help him playing the victim in this marriage. This behaviour is so bad : jlo should move on and enjoy his life escaping from this type of marriage.
She shared his love letters with anyone who wanted to see them! Zero respect
He was over her but her publicist ensured she was the one calling the shots.
How can she be so gullible?
She's always been obsessed with him.
I don't think she was gullible...I think Ben is a bit of an @sshole in certain ways...if guys with no money often act like their the prize in a relationship, imagine dating a Hollywood star.
Fr. He is an alcoholic who is totally codependent on his ex wife...who he did some nastyyy cheating on. He's gross.
Has she announced who she will marry next?
😂
😅😅
Give it a few days. May be on Friday. 😂
Announcement being edited now
How ridiculous to not have a prenup
Kanye told us not to be a punk and have a prenup.
We want prenup.
Jenny from the block is for the streets
😂
She's been humiliated enough
She did it 5 times already to her self . GTFOH!
Good!!! It’s karma! She has humiliated so many other people so that’s what she gets! 😂
This is karma for what she did to Arod
The key word here is "finally." They both need to take a long look at "single" now.
Garner is also a contributor. Pretentious to be helping but gaining Ben for herself..
Ben about to have a lot more free time and energy to hop back in that director's chair and deliver another 🔥 film. I think bro needs to just be married to the work for a while
I agree...for some people it's just better to devote yourself to your career.
HE DOGGED HER OUT 20 YEARS AGO SHE SHOULD'VE NEVER GOTTEN BACK WITH HIM! AND THEY SHOULD'VE HAD AN IRONCLAD PRENUP!
👩🏽🦱 He didn’t dog her out. Search online how their first relationship was, and how it ended. SHE dogged him out!
@@AmericanObserver-kq7yeno she didn't! He stopped their wedding 4 days before it was scheduled. He fell in love with Garner while engaged to Jlo while he & Garner made Daredevil together. She divorced her husband Foley soon after the movie..dated her Alien costar Varten for a short time while waiting for Ben & Jlo to break up which they did. Dinner for Five was notorious for showing when Garner showed she was in love with Affleck flirting with him notoriously. Soon after she & Affleck were dating..she got pregnant & they married. Ben left her for Garner & had a family with her instead of Jlo who was supposed to be his wife! If that's not a stab in the back I don't know what is!😳🤔👎🏼🖤💔
Any man that is made to feel like he's the prize will eventually use that his advantage. I'm not sure if he ever felt the same depth of love that she felt for him, and with a guy with his ego and a woman with her ego...difficult to make that work.
Well he must have felt something writing those love letters, pining for her over the last 20 yrs...
But then he said his biggest regret in life was his divorce from Jennifer Garner...so who the hell knows just how he thinks, really, one complicated dude isn't he?
20 yrs of love letters, to exit after 2 yrs of marriage..🤔
@@wakanda6754 - that's what makes this entire 2-year relationship odd. If he had been writing her for years, why not work on the marriage instead of getting divorced? He sure is complicated.
Everyone saw this coming but Jen and Ben.
She will get married by next week! Men in out of her house, just saying.
I don’t think she’ll wait that long
This isn't the day love died. It's the day reality and stop playing in our face, and I told you so set in. No one was rooting for them 4 real!
next boyfriend will be curious about her "look at me " documentary and bens letter. i hope she burns those letters today
Right. Since she literally just told the whole world that he was her only true love lol
This man humiliated her again. She must never get back together with him
Ben is a man-baby. Not marriage material. It's amazing he's had the amount of success he has.
They shouldn't have gotten married in the first place they should have just kept dating each other!
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
I feel so sad for her bc she went through this embarrassment and heartbreak again. I looked up to her as a Latina growing up but her love life and this last year has been so hard to see because she’s not getting it right. She looked so skinny like never before and I know she wasn’t eating much. I just picture her in my mind’s eye very sad and heartbroken - you can see it in her face. And I think of her kids who have been through so much. Money is not enough, even her family have stood behind her so many times in all her weddings and relationships and step kids. I hope she takes the time to reflect. And Ben? I don’t even know about him. Idk.
Poor kids.......they suffer from one relationship to the next.....
Wow you think too much get help
@@craigjohnson5570Hi! This is a weird and funny reaction to empathy! Hope this helps.
She needs to just stop dating for a while and just focus on healing. Sometimes when people constantly date, they repeat the same bad decisions because they haven't healed. Hopefully she will do some inner work so she can choose the right person for her
@@KayciazWorld agreed!
Why the background music? It’s annoying
Its funny. Reminds me of the unnecessary cheesy background music on Basketball Wives
Justice for for Nathania Rubens
Shoot in New York in 1999 allegedly by “Diddy” Combs, his former girlfriend *Jennifer Lopez* and rapper Jamal “Shyne” Barrow.
Filed on your wedding (#2) date...nasty.
Consider the source
@@Buddy-tq4ly Agree.
Oh that was just a coincidence lol
Why would she marry a guy that had someone give her flowers when she was married you know the guy has no belief in marriage. Just wants money.
I thought that he had given her the flowers to celebrate some career milestone...and there's no way Ben could want or need any of Jen's money...do you recall that he has an oscar? and he is still in demand as an actor, so I don't think it had anything to do with money.
Jennifer is one of those women who needs a man to complete them.
IMO I don't think she feels that she needs a man to complete her...she's way too successful to be that small-minded. I do think that she has some issues with being alone; which many people struggle with, more so men than women.
I’m shocked 🙀…….. NOT!!!
He let her do it 1st when he really wanted the divorce in the 1st place. She didn't want this. So sad
Yes girl! Because you are living in her mansion?? What kind of toilet 🚽 paper she uses?? Smh 🤦♂️
@@angeldelvalle120 Scott toilet paper that's what she uses!
@@angeldelvalle120oh please. He left her in April!!
@@kaylam449exactly. Everyone knows he's the one who left first! After the Diddy raid!
Am I the only one who was rooting for them? 😅
Yes! 😂
Probably
If it didn’t work the first time it normally won’t work again
He seems like a complicated dude. Doom and gloom. I think that Jennifer really loved him and wanted that Happy Ending, but men like Ben are never going to give you that.
Agreed. He does come across as complicated and willful...likely difficult to live with.
@@Ava2969ny
Well he wasn't very kind to Jennifer Garner publicly decimating her when he got together with JLO.
Then JLO released those private letters he wrote her, allegedly how much he loved her all these years, that was a poke for Garner, look how much he loved me while he was married to you..Why does Garner even acknowledge him after all that shows she has very little self esteem left..
Jlo should know that marriage isn't for everyone...stop trying to force it girl...
Next week she will be with someone else!
Interesting..each August 20th was like a ‘do i still love you?’ confirmation
Ms Lopez …. Marriage isn’t for you!! Being divorced 4 times isn’t funny. Love your self and focus on yourself BEFORE you get involved again!!
Maybe the real problem is that she loves herself too much.
@@LelazebDidn’t Rodriquez say she loves the idea of ‘being in love’. lol
Well you go ahead and sit around and wait for to meet me charming see if that's going to guarantee you anything's
Just a few more and you’ll be like Elizabeth Taylor what a great legacy for your career
It's sad, regardless their fame and money. I think they actually believed it would work. They deserve to be happy.
Oh like you would know