FIVE THINGS WISE WOMEN LEARN EARLY Impromptu discussion by RC Blakes
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
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so true. I was married at 25 years old I ran the streets and didn't go home to my husband,I was doing everything but being a wife. My husband at the time was so loving caring and supportive but I did not have the right examples in my life because no one NEVER in my family had a healthy relationship. My husband eventually divorced me when I was 33 he tried his best to put up with me. God removed that man right out of my life and if I could go back I would you cant keep misusing people like God not sleep then cry when they are GONE!!. I'm grateful for this ministry I am healing and loving God and myself more each day !! Thanks, Pastor.
@ Nikky K much respect for sharing your growth journey with us. This will help someone and more importantly you were able to learn and are growing from this experience. Best wishes to you 🙏🏽
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Choose a man of your kind and not your type. Now this is a word...thank you Bishop Blakes!
Let’s Go Unc, I’m in a new relationship and because of your wisdom, our faith, our maturity in waiting for the right person and God as our Center, we are flourishing. Thanks for your guidance along this new journey in my life. He WANTS me, because he’s Waiting on me, he Accepts my flaws, he has shown me that he Needs me and everyday through Communication he shows me that he Treasures me ! You have helped this 43 year old woman Heal, I love you ❤
Congratulations sis❤️💐
Praise God, that's wonderful for you Islandgal!
Love this!
Amen
Congrats my dear. Blessing to u and your husband❤
I Had A Father for 7 years of my Life then He passed away 💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏 So now I have to learn to accept The Fact that God is The Father of the Fatherless 🙏🙏🙏
I seen This right when I needed to I've just lost my dad this makes the second day
Sister 😢my condolences 💐. You’re not alone I lost my father too who was never a dad or a father figure. Prayers for your healing ❤️🩹 too. God bless you
@@carterthegamernoob6128 yes I'm very disappointed at how long I've wasted half of my life with men that was not for me . I've always Loved hard when in relationships and basically was a fool to think being faithful and doing everything I could to satisfy men but all the while I was hurting myself and being a Fool. 💔💔💔💔💔
And the father of those who have been abused by their fathers too
@@chevellebradley totally Identify with you. After many failed relationships now I am just resolving my own value and worth. Good news, it is never to late to become wise. When we totally heal we will be a feminine force to be reckoned with. Self love is the best thing to learn before you can love anyone else so when others aren't loving you the way you deserve, you can easily recognize it.
"You can't pop gum with dentures, they going to fall out"😂. Bishop Blakes I always enjoy listening to your wisdom mixed with humor. Thank you for allowing the Lord to use your wisdom to help make us wiser women.🤗
I've finally learned all these things at age 75!! But better late than never! One problem relating to number 5 on Pastor Blake's list, i.e. learn from one's mother and grandmother - is that these days, motherhood is almost scorned by society in general, and so daughters don't listen with respect to mother's wise and gentle advice. Daughters often learn these things the hard way, much later in life.
I'm glad I listened to my grandmother. Everything she taught us turned out to be the real deal. Listen to your elders, folks. They've already been through what we haven't even thought about yet👌🏿
I appreciate you because I sure learned the hard way. Women please heal yourself to prevent yourself from being someone’s liability.
“Cute and pretty doesn’t last more than 14 days. 😂 “ Pastor, I really enjoy that you are able to convey the truth of your wisdom with awesome comedic relief. I really appreciate this about your teaching style.
May God further exalt you and your family for the deep love and care that you have for us- his people.
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Just turned 26 and you are saving my life , thank you so much pastor ❤
So happy for you. Keep him close by; right beside your religion. 😊
You got that right.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Wasting your youth comes with a serious price. I'm 38, that's one of my biggest fears. I want my own family with children. 🙏🏾
I’m 21 about to turn 22 in a few months and I love this teaching, because time flies so fast people always tell me your young have fun blah blah blah and I’m just like I’m in Gods timing and I don’t have time to waste to just have fun going out wasting my time on superficial stuff I already feel as if I’ve wasted time lol bc it takes some time to figure out who you are and to build that intimate relationship with God. ❤
You are doing great! Please stay the way you are and stay away from jealous men and women. They will project their insecurities onto you because of their shortcomings. Stay blessed and keep listening!❤❤
@@Queen-ConsciousYa thank you ♥️
I didn’t have anyone to learn from so I made all of the mistakes. Thankfully I finally learned from my mistakes, and am helping others through my book series Love Yourself First. It’s never too late ladies. ❤
"When cute and pretty are gone you will need brains and vision"... TRUTH. I tell a version of this to my students allllllllll day everyday. Both female and male, cause being a dumb man aint cute either lol
I came became a product of my envuronment but God kept me had me focused on what I needed ... homeownership savings career I just cant imagine having little kids and no resources and vision in this day and time I feel sorry for these young girls and who don't have anyone or God lord bless your people
I'm in my early 30's and I definitely felt you were talking to my past self. I was young and naive. I had to learn everything the hard way because my mother never told me and my father passed when I was baby. I'm so glad I know now and I'm wiser, I just wish I had a good father figure like you in my life to save me from life's harsh lesson.
I agree. I am in my early 40s and feel the same way. I am glad that my husband eventually found me after I worked on myself. I appreciate these videos for being real and honest.
Consider Bishop Blakes your 'spiritual' father. 😊
You have to love the Very Wise Bishop Blakes !!!
Yes ! Cute and Pretty don’t pay bills thanks RC Blakes I have to write that down 💯
It’s a shame when we try to compete with the sins of a man, to say we can sin just like them. “I can sleep around just like a man can.” That’s not power. That’s degradation at its finest. We should be encouraging men to honor their bodies vs competing to dishonor our own.
Wow, I wish I knew wise things when I was younger. Childhood trauma clouded a lot of things for me for a very long time.
A woman of his type vs a woman of his *kind* WORD!
Thank you for this, I’m
Learning that I’m a wise woman at only 24. So much knowledge I’ve gained from watching your channel !
You are blessed to get this early
My parents were poor examples my dad was an abusive alcohol and my mom was emotionally unavailable so they didn’t teach me. I’m unlearning my toxic behavior at 45.
I began learning from him at 47. As for a husband, hope God has saved the best for last for us.
@@Pacifica74 I’m beginning to think the same
” the wise women usually don’t get a-lot of reactions from normal men” WOW ! So good…
Bishop I’m not playing with no men out here I’m single and free working on me! With Jesus on my side everything will work out fine. I’m going to make it see you at the top
Firstly, thank you Pastor Blakes for your teachings and pursuing your purpose! You and your wife are truly a blessing! As a 51-year old woman, let me tell you truly wising up at a later age is a painful pill to swallow because I can’t get that time wasted and my youth back. I have struggled to forgive myself for my past mistakes with men. I was never promiscuous by a long shot but I stayed in relationships snd situationships that I should have never entertained even for a day way too long. My type was absolutely not my kind. Thankfully, I at least got my education (engineer with masters degree) and am able to support myself and my 2 children (twins conceived via sperm donor in my 40s…very hard decision but very thankful for my children and I am getting to experience motherhood). I always dated professional men but looking good on paper does not translate to having good character and being husband material in of itself. I had to do a lot of inner work including therapy, prayer, and listening to messages like this one heal and be whole enough to be able to even recognize a good man but I wish I had done that younger. I counsel my nieces and young cousins to not make the same mistakes. I hope they are really listening. I have not given up on marriage but there are certainly more marriageable men available in your 20s than in your 40s and 50s.
You said it so well. You're giving good counsel 👏writing it on the tablets of my heart 🌹
Please don’t buy into the narrative that women in their 40s, 50s and up can’t find love. There are plenty of good men that are our age and not married ( for various reasons). I am 51 as well and a widow and feel confident that if you are whole, feminine and enjoy life you will find love easily actually. We are seasoned and it does not take people in our age group to make their minds up. Stay encouraged sis 💕💕
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@@LovelyVibrations Excellent advice, sister.
@@LovelyVibrations absolutely.
Hands down I don’t need anything else but THIS 🎉. I get a daily dose of RC Blakes if I don’t do anything else!
I’m just getting to the point of knowing myself, what I even actually want and what direction I want to go in at 34. I’m sad about wasted time and staying in low value relationships way to long but I’m going in a great direction now. I look forward to the future. ❤
I PROMISE TO GOD EVER SINCE I'VE HEARD PASTOR RC. BLAKES HE'S TOUCH MY SOUL WITH WISDOM ❤️ I WISH I COULD'VE HEARD THIS WISDOM 40 YEARS AGO 😭😭😭😭😭 I WOULD'VE SAVED MY HEART FROM ALL THESE HEART ACHES AND SOULTIES CONNECTIONS. LORD JESUS NOW HERE I AM 51 YEARS OLD AND ALL A MESS NOT SURE IF I WOULD EVER EXPERIENCE A REAL TRUE GOD-FEARING HUSBAND WOW OH WELL FATHER GOD HAVE YOUR WAY ANYHOW 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Never give up hope
Yes, me too. People don't take the time to share like this in real life, so we have to be "raised" by pre-recorded messages from people we've never met. But God bless the internet for that. He allowed it so that we who are hungry for wisdom can access it regardless of who we know or don't know.
I am one healing from the heart for lack of wisdom in my earlier years. To God be the Glory.
🤣😂 Bishop RC Blakes you really snatching wigs out here!
Men with money does not produce substance we have to take our worth into consideration knowing we are worthy, I'm 28 and I'm on this journey I wish I had this awakening sooner .However I remind myself that it's never late and I'm thankful for the breakthrough. More work to do😊❤ And I'm ready and willing.
Whew Bishop, you’re on Fire🔥 coming fresh off vacation‼️‼️‼️
I am delighted that God started to push me out of the club scene around my late 20s. I started seeing no purpose in drinking being in a dimly lit room screaming when your favorite song hit the speakers. I just couldn't do it anymore. Let me not get started on the clowns in a crown. Thank you Jesus for His grace and mercy. My self discovery started to emerge then. Glad I am what the world considers "odd". In my past, "my type" destroyed me. God is raising up a Kingdom spouse that is "my kind".
I Couldn’t have worded it any other way… god bless you on your journey
This man speaks absolutel truth
1. Find yourself first
2. Don’t follow your “type” (Sexual attraction), find your “kind” instead
3. Wasting your youth on things that don’t matter
4. Cute and pretty don’t pay bills (Brains and vision)
5. Your mama and grandma knew better
Speaking truth!!! Now that I'm wiser I know what's my type, for me your character, & what fits me as a godly humble woman. Because I truly know who I am.
“Intelligence is beautiful for life“ Whew. I FELT that ! 21:09
Thank you Bishop ! This video is a true GEM !
Pastor is dropping gems 💎
You can’t pop no gum with no dentures! Omg! Good stuff sir! Wish I watch this when I was in my early 30’s.
Hello all, excited hear what Bishop has for us tonite.
Thank you Pastor, I am learning so much for you. 38 and still praying for God's grace and blessing of a good man. It's been a journey but with your wisdom it has forced me to be reflective and make some changes.
Thank you for a wise message. We would have to agree to disagree on the marriage age. I believe you can marry at any age. Ladies, please don't count yourself out because you are over 30. We all deserve all the best life offers as long as we work within.
💯. I agree. I think this is a false narrative that women at a certain age should not expect the best! Wrong!!! We should expect the best if we are whole, virtuous and not wasting our time on nonsense!
Tanisha Mitchell please remember GOD BLESSES AT ALL AGES AND STAGES!!!! A flaw of humanity is ageism. Love that is right and blessed is GREAT at any age.
THIS REVELATION JUST CHANGED MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!! "im looking for my kind" MY GOD! *speaks in tongue* 🙌🏽
Not waist training!! Pastor I dying laughing!! Tell the truth!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Dear Mr RC Blakes, I agree with most of things you said in this video. But I must say that every woman is different and have different path. I am in my mid 30ties, single. And I was wifey from the start of my relationship journey. Also, I have three women my age around me that are single, but not because they were loose or promiscuous, they have high education and good career. They have car, flat and good salary. They are also wifey vibe, and they are really good women (sometimes too good). But almost every guy they met just wanted to have fun and not to take responsibility for the relationship. So, I can't agree that women who are not married and are beyond 30 years old are not wise. According to you, it looks like it was wiser to married right after every kind of high school and be a wife. And us who worked hard and studied, and go to the education and building career, we are now looking stupid. It's not good to judge people like that. Guess what? All my promiscuous female
acquaintances married first and pretty young. So, usually women that are left single are not just with loose history, but also women who are now financially stable and educated but single. No hard feelings, take care! God bless you!
Thank you sis! I had the same sentiment listening to this.
I usually feel hopeful after listening to RC Blakes but this time I felt utterly deflated and like I’m a failure for being a God fearing woman in my 30’s and only now feeling ready for marriage.
Agree with this! I think @bishop may need to tackle address this at some point - there is a growing cohort of late 20s - mid 30s women who have done things “right” and still aren’t married! So what, are we all loose?? 😂
That's true I was thinking the same thing . Not every woman squandered their 20s by sleeping around, clubbing or by being promiscuous. Some of us had standard from the start and still got passed by. Due to the same exact standards that we are told to have (in which I always will stand by) but I was thinking like the "marrying years" will not be the same for everyone and it doesn't mean that the sister did anything wrong if she was the one waiting longer. Bishop is my dawg lol but I didn't agree with some things that were said on this one. Like you said the ones I saw married early and young were the woman who were spread eagle (tony gaskins term) but no judgement just evaluation. God still have something greater and better instore. It may take longer but it will be worth it!
I concur with this. I am actually the contrary to your situation, I got married at 23, then had my son, I am currently raising my son single-handedly. I did everything by the book and yet here I am.
In hindsight, I wish I had stayed and not gotten married until I was at least 30, even at the ripe age of 33, I cannot honestly say that I am ready for marriage. I would not encourage anyone to get married in their 20's because those are meant to be building years. Marriage is a nice to have, but it's not essential, being educated, being financially independent and self-development is far more important than marriage because it provides you with security and a gift of choice. Studies also show that people who marry later on in life, have a far better chance of being happily married and less likely to get divorced.
Here's what I know, life has no instruction manual, you can do all the right things and still get it wrong. Marriage is a gift from God, if God has assigned you a husband, your husband will find you at the age of 20 or at the age of 200. God's timing is perfect timing. Women should not feel pressured to lock down a mate by an X - age, women should feel pressured to find God's given purpose for their lives. It's also important to note that marriage is not on the cards for all of us, and that too is okay to be honest. Live your life and trust in God and His timing for your life, not all buds bloom at the same time.
I pray that every women garners God's wisdom to understand God's assignment and purpose, that we be bestowed with discernment and an explosive pursuit of what God has individually set aside for each one of us.
@@sophiangobeni6523 The last paragraph was beautifully written. You ma’am are POETIC! Thank you for this!
Daddy dearest. This is a WORD if I ever heard one. God bless you. Ladies listen up. It doesn't get realer than this. We are blessed to hear this.
Bishop your teachings are right on❤❤ Ladies listen❤❤ Bishop is trying to guide you in the right direction to keep you from many heartaches ❤❤
Booommm! BRAINS AND VISION!!!!! Its why in the 20 years of marriage...I pursued Jesus relentlessly ...received 2 degrees... successful prison ministry 15 plus years....Brains and Vision....AMEN!!
i love a man with good conversation
who is sensitive
men who can’t communicate or argue over nothing are nothing lol
So true. Smacking In the face with reality. I wish I heard you at 20 years old. I had a severely broken consciousness. My father broke all trust/security/safety and I searched for love with wrong people all my life until almost 5 years ago. I started changing because God intervened and for my children. No longer with a “clown with a crown” as you like to say. Im healing, if I’m supposed to be with Jesus forever in this world as well as eternity, and have no other person on earth that I do long for someday, than that is going to have to be enough because His grace is sufficient. Thank you Pastor Blake’s and Lisa! Im also working on my BSN. I love life today. 💜
However, some of the wisest women are in geographical areas with men who were playing at 20 and are still playing at 70x its like a desert.
What you say is so true. Thank you for this message.
LOL! I am listening Pastor....I departed from your teachings years ago because I was not ready to receive! But I made my way back to your channel and I have been blessed by it! No longer dealing with a malipulating narcissist...all thanks to God and your teachings❤
You are so right! It is when you don’t know yourself that you succumb to anyone. Women need to make truly finding themselves as their first priority before trying to pursue a relationship with a man.
I am 28 years old and this message spoke to my soul! I’m so glad I found your channel! God led me here! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🥺
*AND* you have to be fortunate and blessed enough to encounter men who are serious about you and have their goals and vision set. A woman can be ready and wise like this in her youth but it takes TWO to make it happen. It has to be the right place, the right time, the right encounter, the right man & woman. Every man I observed between 16 - present, I never considered marriage material. Men get a pass for being "men" and women are blamed when they end up left behind and empty handed.
Hey!!! It is very important to work on our bodies for a lifetime too for the health of our joints and overall physical health!!!
Hey everyone! Uncle R.C. is about to bring it! I so appreciate him! 🙏🏾💕
Sipping on my tea, and listening intently!
May God bless you richly RC for your ministry to women in particular. I am 59 and wish I had received this counsel 40 years ago but God is able and I am still benefiting from your wise instruction may God bless you for your faithfulness to him and to open your mouth for those who need to hear these words may God bless you and those who hear them!
Thanks Unk! We needed this - we neeeeddd more men in our community like you !
I feel like time has passed me by .. but the past is the past and yourr truly a blessing
Or maybe it hasn't, Sarah was childless until the age of 90.
Thank you so much, RC Blakes. God bless you! ❤
RC Blake's you make a lot of sense you really do God bless you or see Blake's your wife Lisa Blake's and your family I love all of you
Yes my Grandmother always told me a Woman cannot do what men Do!!!! I was taught to be a Woman with morals integrity yes Preach
My Daddy taught me as a little girl that I was the Gem not because of my looks but my morals & character that a man provide protect I was truly blessed
SO TRUE!
Man! ……I WISH I had listened to the Wisdom of my dear mother. She’s gone on to be with the Lord now but she knew what she was talking about and did teach me about the importance of getting to “know a person, not just let him play over your body,”She’d say, but….. I didn’t listen.
IF only I had listened to her; not my friends, not immature boys and men or the deception of the devil and the world, I’d have saved myself some unnecessary drama and heartache.
If you are a young woman, please listen to Mr. Blakes in this message. Save yourself! Not just sexually but mentally and emotionally as well.
Trust me baby girl, at the end of the day or the end of your life, it’s just not worth it! It’s NOT.
Very good teaching Bishop Blakes. I believe you are doing a great job by educating the females to make wise decisions with the help of God
I'm sorry Chevelle for your loss. You are wise to see God as the ultimate father. I do pray that more men see the heart of a woman that a man who loves, provides and protects knows and does his role can heal the woman because so many fathers wouldn't or couldn't. I love RC Blakes.
I got married at 26 and had a child with him at 28 but unfortunately he was the wrong man for me. I was so broken at the time I didn’t see it.
It's the LIVER AND KIDNEY SQUEEZE FOR ME😂🤣😅😆😆🤣😂😅🤣😅
Dear Jesus, please give me a husband who is my kind and my type. Thanks in advance Amen.
Period. Amen
Brains & vision 🙌🏾
Being a Beautiful,intelligence/smart and goodly woman is powerful. Looks are the icing on the cake
Tammy Williams thank you pastor you preaching better than we were responding God bless you thank you for sharing.
Pastor I'm hearing you about making the distinction of "my type" and "my kind" . Its tough but I'm determined to get it right. This needs to be a lesson at school
Thank you for the wisdom bishop God bless you and 1st lady 🙏see at the top.
Beautiful message.
What should you do when you are over 40 and made some of these mistakes? We must go on and face our reality, God is by our side, sisters! It's never too late to change. ❤️
Thank you for this message Bishop. I wish I had this guidance two decades ago. Now I’m trying to share this with my 21yo so she will get and keep the husband and family she desires.
You are so talented, and are a gift to humanity!
Thank u for this beautiful message! All young & old ppl need to listen to u & take heed!!!
God Bless this man.
Thank you so much for recording this message. Very valuable information. God bless you and lady Lisa.
Bishop Blakes keepin it real now😅👏🏿👏🏿💯thank you sir!
Thank u ONCE AGAIN👉👑 Mr.& Mrs. Blakes❤️
😂😂😂 "Can't pop no gum with dentures. They'll fall out."🤣🤣
You are absolutely right, learn to be your own best friends
FACTS!!! Ladies listen up..
Thank God for you, Pastor RC Blakes
I truly appreciate the straightforward teachings, I’m learning so much from your ministry that not was taught to me from my own father, And I’m taking heed.
Thank you RC Blakes Jr.
For me no one is inferior to me however many of us on the discovery of self will entertain some that are just not of our kind ,yes experience teaches wisdom.
Rc Blakes bless
Thank you pastor Blakes❤ I'm 29 with 3 kids. Thank you for your wisdom! I love this spiritual journey🙏💜💜💜💜
“Hot girl summer turned into hot girl winter” 😂😂😂 Uncle funny w/o even trying.
One of the best videos yet! You know exactly what you are saying is the truth!
Bishop Blakes I could sit and listen to you all day everyday and this teaching is so powerful yet funny 😂 I've literally laughed out loud in many parts of the message. Thank you for the grace to communicate in a way that many women need to hear. Some of the truths are hard but if taken on board they're healing to the soul and life changing. Thank you for this powerful ministry 🙏
I really needed to hear this!! Thank you so much ❤️ you’re like the father I’ve never had
Pastor said “ you can’t pop gum with dentures in!” Lol this tickle me so much!!! 😂 thanks
Thank you for allowing God to use you to be "Blessed to be a Blessing !"
You can do all the right things and it still not going to make the right man appear. You know how many wonderful women I know that are still single out here. I think you just have to be happy with self and enjoy your family and friends. You can’t make the right person show up in your life just because you want them too.
I totally agree.