Are You Sabotaging Your Happiness? The Key Habits That Drive Success in Love & Life
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
- Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Join them as they dive deep into the themes of building radical confidence and mastering emotional maturity. Lisa shares transformative insights on navigating relationships, redefining personal value systems, and the surprising impact of toxic gratitude.
In this interview, we discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:59 How Do You Define Confidence?
04:21 Believe You’re Capable
07:21 Admitting You’re Unhappy
13:40 The Frame of Reference
17:03 Everything Is A Risk
25:09 Non-Negotiables in A Relationship
32:08 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships
38:57 Who Leads? Who Follows?
46:53 Conflicting Value System
52:24 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise
56:48 Growth Mindset With Your Partner
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0:40 😅
Started listening to your full podcasts 3 days ago. Love the content. I appreciate Lisa’s perspective and guidance. Things that resonated with me:
-frame of reference
-emotional maturity in relationship and expressing our moments of weakness. Playing doubles we win together and we lose together.
-how to practice building internal confidence
Still listening… 30 mins in 😃
Omg. As a single woman. It has been wild crossing paths with men who wants me to lead EVERYTHING! Conversations, date planning, the pace, the place, literally everything!!! I refuse to submit and lead a man!! I’m also experiencing the male perspective of women being a “helpmate” for a man’s stability!!! Like dude no, your stability is your individual responsibility, as well as my own. I’m not interested in raising my mate. I would rather he be emotionally, physically and financially stable, prior to the relationship. When I share my values, beliefs and perspectives on healthy, reciprocal relationships, I notice they’re being challenged, misunderstood and suppressed!! Omg I just ranted. 😅Thanks for this conversation. Pray for me! 😅
Girl sending a big high five ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️rant heard, accepted, supported and recognized
So obviously you ran into the same trap every time you chose your partner - perhaps you should check your mental patterns and look for a grown up male 🙋♂️👍
It’s so easy to feel how genuine she is and how she lived every experience and advice she’s giving
My historical relationships were not healthy. I gave too much of my self, changing to accommodate his needs, even if it led to my unhappiness. Most recently, I've been on a journey of healing and learning to prioritize my needs. I feel ready for "the one". This was a timely discussion, helping me to think about those conversations that need to be had early on, to ensure we both enjoy a fulfilling relationship. Thank you 💝
The toxic gratitude is a new concept to me and makes a lot of sense
❤Lisa Bilyeu is the smart, witt, open and brave to tell the truth from being without in the common circle, i agree.
One need to love oneself and also being at home with one's own weakness and limitation before i can love others
This woman is my row model... I am watching her husbands podcasts for the last 2 years. He mentioned several times that he is success thanks to his wife... It was so inspirational as I said to myself, wow I would like to know more and learn how can I be my partners muse. She is amazing.
What's the name of his podcast?
@@Ravengal101 Impact Theory.
The tennis analogy is brilliant! The goal is to keep the ball in play.
After watching this video I understand many things about women. And what they actually needed.
Adore Lisa ❤ we need women like her in our lives! Fantastic to see channel growth, it’ll hit over 3M this year 🎉
These ppl are not doctors. They are ppl that made it in business and talk about what's worked for them. Period.
Business influencer leader doctors LMAO
🤗Yes and that’s the beauty of it, ordinary people becoming extraordinary people by seeing what works for them to bring on a successful happy life. Thanks!!!
Exactly, all they do is share common sense. However we can still appreciate them as fellow human beings and enjoy listening to their lived experiences.
I agree with you🎉🎉🎉@@nancysmith3400
I haven’t watched the video yet but this woman is my absolute favorite
Sure, what I learned is one more green flag to put on my list of green flags , it is that subject of being considerate of the absoulute importance of transition times from from one part of life to another part of life . Two thumbs way up. This is why a man needs the nurturing nature of a good woman because without that , life is mostly ruff sailing .
I love her. Thank you darling!!
Thank you for sharing this!! We love Lisa!!! She’s so fly and inspirational!!! ✨💖✨
If a man said to me my work is more important than my family, I would just leave him. He’s got his priorities all messed up.
Thank you, Lisa, I learn so much from you today.
Lisa is so so well spoken and wise. what a refreshing conversation you two had. i loved this ep!
Refreshing podcast episode going to this May 2024! So much to learn the confidence & to prioritize the right things. Keep up the good work Jay
Thank you❤ this is so on time.
I have similar story, religious upbringing, feeling that I’m not grateful etc. But luckily, I also started to hear MY voice that I’m not happy.
This interview is one of your best @Jay
Love this!! This is not just for couple or potential couple, however for singles too. This expand’s one’s mindset and growth into further thinking and not always being emotional. Love you both! Can wait for the next one.
You are doing an amazing job.❤
This was soooo good!! Thank you!
Absolutely amazing interview!!! Thank you both.
We need part2 please ❤❤❤loved this episode
Hello
Jay Shetty thanks for this conversation... Thank you Lisa it's good to always risk 😂😂😂
I love this episode!
This one hit different I love this perspective completely ❤it
What an insightful conversation. Definitely learnt a lot 🎉❤
She is really very strong 💪
My favorite episode so far!
amazing podcast keep up the good work i am fan.
Thanks bro for sharing us valuable content ...i really enjoy your all podcast that are helpful for me ❤
❤❤❤ I do love this episode, thank you for it
We’ll see where they are 5yrs..10 yrs. All the best.
Ooouuu this collab is awesome!!!!
Nice conversation 👍👍👍👍👍. 💓
Love Lisa
Motivation
Happy people don't end up being pushed into a bunch of garbage that makes them unhappier than they were when the trouble started to begin with.😊
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What a combination. 😲 😱
TRUTH ❤
FINALLY 🙌
56:55 true
Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of life and blessings to me and my family $14,120.47 weekly profit Our lord Jesus have lifted up my Life!!!🙏❤❤❤
Well, the investment-advisor that guides me is..
I Met Mrs Cathie Wood last year for the first time at a church program, where she greeted a friend of mine also a church member, and fortunately for me, we exchanged contact and got along. What God cannot do, doesn't exist" I truly believe this word 100 percent❤❤❤
😱Sounds familiar, I have heard her name on several occasions.. and both her success stories in the wall Street journal!!!
I started pretty low though, $500 thereabouts. The returns came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Cathie Wood, you're a miracle
Make a note regarding your interest in investing
58:01yes
When we ask our other half for help do we have to tell them it's not their fault even though the conversation and everything in world isn't about them?Really enjoyed this episode.
Who’s podcast is this
Where are the 5 questions at the end of the last videos?
Thanks ❤️
A single man pepper him self 😁
It’s one thing in being a housewife, it’s another thing to be someone’s Butler. I feel like she took it to the max when there was no need to go quite that far! He can fetch his own clothes.Mothering is never healthy.
She's giving an extreme image of the housewife while reasonably helping your family to have a stable calm life is a success
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Western world. 120 hours worked in a week. People are willing to give up everything for money. That's called greediness.
On the other hand I have to admit that loosing yourself is the most unhappy thing we can do. But the balance is very important.
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Working 120h a week 😅😅😅😅 that leves you 7h a day for sleep eat shower is you work everyday day of the week 🤟
32:21 what is going on!
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55:32 👍🤍
Loved and respected 🫡❤️
Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 ❤❤❤ till kingdom come
I had the most delicious bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwich that I couldn't swallow because it was burned, dry, shattered glass that turned saw dust in my mouth.😅
Я то счастлив это моя стихия со здоровьем проблемы и доставить меня надо именно в США
In all these conversations, it sounds to me like the woman had to adjust for the man. I think that's kind of the life this lady wanted, to be led by her man. But is there a good relationship we can look up to where the woman didnt have to adjust or let go of her dream, of having children like for this lady for example, and instead both partners found a midpoint?
Did she say she wanted kids? Some women have kids and really regret having the kids.
Didn't she find a larger watch?
Brilliant. She's a queen ❤️
who is she?
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Please let your viewers chose to subscribe or not to your channel !
Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 till kingdom come
I guarantee that Tom does not want Postmates. He wants you to cook for him.
The reason why she is happy to let Tom lead, is because he would be just as happy to let her lead. In most relationships, this is not the case.
Are we really making a big deal of a man that is not upset because his partner is not he’s maid anymore?! 😅
Both of them pronouncing " needs" of Lost Generation.
Luckily other examples out there.
I get the feeling she has given up of new life, bb, because her husband is selfish and lazy. She wont be a single mom m-f, she is a single woman i guess. Dont give up your dreams, life bc of a man. 😮😢 i would rather stay and live single strong and honest😮😇
Good for her but this episode was a waste of time.
People still listen to this fraud?
fraud
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