FRENCH WOMEN NEVER HAVE BAD HAIR DAYS I Here's Why

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  • In this fun video, I'm sharing all the French women beauty secrets: French women never have bad hair days and here's why. Let's talk about hair products, hair styles, and hairdresser ❤️ Don't forget to support this channel by subscribing: bit.ly/2UON6Y4
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Комментарии • 487

  • @ms.frederique
    @ms.frederique  3 года назад +49

    My lovelies, I hope you will love this fun video and have a good laugh 😂 big kisses 😘

    • @MsBaby1959
      @MsBaby1959 3 года назад +2

      Frédérique Bros I really enjoyed it, your videos are all fun, big kiss Frédérique, so happy for you, you have reached over 70,000 subscribers :)))👍🏻😍🍀🥂

    • @christinemartin741
      @christinemartin741 3 года назад +1

      Les cheveux courts de vont très bien 😉

    • @claudiahaagen7783
      @claudiahaagen7783 3 года назад +1

      Hi, I really liked the Video a lot. Yes, I have cried several times 🤣

    • @nanelizabethjorgensen7971
      @nanelizabethjorgensen7971 3 года назад +2

      Frederique! Your hair really does look fantastic! So much _joie de vivre_ , too! You said to tell about a time you went to a hairdresser and cried. Once when I was going to University for the first time, my aunt who lived in San Francisco, across from my place in Berkeley, decided to give me a present of going to a nice salon in her neighborhood that she loved. So I went there and I really did tell the nice lady what I liked. Well, it turned out that she totally got it wrong and thought I looked like Cher so she gave me a classic Cher haircut. I was mortified. For one thing I was a kind of shy and unassuming type and if anything I tend towards the natural . This was _ultra unnatural!!_ Also I had to go back to her house and face my aunt while pretending to like it ( tears over.) I have to say, some of my very best experiences with hair, did happen in France. In Paris, Nice, Hyères and a little transplanted guy who moved from Malibu to my neighborhood near in le Gard. He's a great combo -- a Hollywood /French hairdresser! ~~ ❤️ bisous!

  • @melissaganger
    @melissaganger 3 года назад +43

    You are like my fabulous auntie! So needed you in my life 💋

  • @camerachica73
    @camerachica73 3 года назад +88

    I'm British and I went to a french hairdresser in the south of France as a one off, but the cut and colour were so amazing that I now fly back there once or twice a year! My budget isn't the type of budget that allows for international travel just for a haircut, but it's so worth it!

    • @raptimitra2672
      @raptimitra2672 3 года назад +5

      That is serious investment for hair! Once I moved out of my home town for nearly two years and I didn't cut my hair for two years! I came back and went to same parlor and the same person to cut my hair!

    • @Beckiner67
      @Beckiner67 3 года назад

      Wonderful!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +5

      Wow that’s commitment good for you x

    • @camerachica73
      @camerachica73 3 года назад +12

      @@ms.frederique It's not too bad if you can work out the flights - they can be around £70 for a day return trip London to Nice, so it's enough to spend a few hours in the hair salon, have a nice lunch, look around shops, quick walk on the sea front and then back to the airport. When I get back I feel like I've had a mini-break! It is a bit extravagant but it's worth it for how good I feel compared to depressed and crying when I've been lumbered with a terrible haircut!

    • @MsBaby1959
      @MsBaby1959 3 года назад +2

      camerachica73 Sounds heavenly 😍👍🏻

  • @rachelplank21
    @rachelplank21 3 года назад +28

    Thank you for telling everyone to SAY SOMETHING if they don't like their hair! We can't do anything about if if we don't know. ♥️

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie 3 года назад +35

    I've had to cut my own hair since I was about 16. Every so often I try going to a hairdresser but they just can't seem to deal with my naturally wavy thick 'Viking' hair. I come out looking scalped, and one gave me a 'Karen' cut with a ton of product. I don't know why it's so hard. When I was a landscape gardener I never left anyone's hedge looking like that.

    • @betsyhazel
      @betsyhazel 3 года назад +2

      Me too...learned to cut my own thick wavy hair in long layers coz hairdressers have no idea how to handle wavy/curly hair that they either want to cut it way too short or straighten it to death😩

    • @tallisinwonderland4724
      @tallisinwonderland4724 3 года назад

      Can I ask where your are from? I’m starting to think I may have Viking hair from your comment 🤣

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      Hahahah Viking hair?

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 3 года назад

      @@ms.frederique Yes.... back in the late 70's this strawberry blonde had an 'afro', no chemicals or anything. I was the first in my school to have a hair pick :) How I longed for straight fine hair....

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 года назад +4

      I've cut my own hair for 40 years because every time I got a professional haircut, the hairdresser would grimace and say, "Ew, who cut your hair last time?" So I decided that if nobody could do a decent job, I could just as well do a bad job myself for free.

  • @TheQNSzzz
    @TheQNSzzz 3 года назад +16

    I cut my own hair - it is a little shorter than yours and I started to tuck my hair behind my ear like you. Such a small adjustment makes me look more chic. Fab tips, thank you lovely lady xx

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      Always xx

    • @vkngwmn6636
      @vkngwmn6636 3 года назад +1

      I learned to trim my own hair but pay a lot for great color and highlites

  • @debbieanderson6740
    @debbieanderson6740 3 года назад +18

    My mom took me to her hair dresser when I was 12 years old for a perm and cut. I even had a picture. I was horrified! The hair ladies said that it was so adorable but I hated it. Trauma as a kid.

    • @5DNRG
      @5DNRG 3 года назад +2

      I was traumatized too in 7th grade when Mom chopped off all my hair, horrifying to me. I now cant stand short hair on me, sadly.

    • @vkngwmn6636
      @vkngwmn6636 3 года назад +1

      perms are OUTDATED

  • @deedeeblanscet4433
    @deedeeblanscet4433 3 года назад +8

    I’ve cried many times. It was usually after a perm in the 80s.

  • @cherylgates9439
    @cherylgates9439 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have never cried but I did ask, after a bad hair cut, "Are you proud for me to walk out of here looking like this?!" She didn't get a tip...

  • @Houseofpurebeauty
    @Houseofpurebeauty 2 года назад +6

    I am a hairstylist in the USA. We are taught British haircuts in school and in all the classes/workshops we attend. I have been trained in French hair cutting through Candy Shaw Academy in Georgia. It’s very easy for the guest to style. The whole concept is about softness and cutting in angles that lay beautifully. I love it!

  • @vaL-kv6uy
    @vaL-kv6uy 2 года назад +1

    Yes, I have cried after hairdressers insistent did it her way. Never went back there. Since then, I've given specific Not to do's - some hairdressers criticize me for being picky but I don't care because they obviously don't care about making me happy with what they do to my hair.
    Unfortunately in USA, you still have to pay $ even though you hate what the hairdresser did.

  • @Mamabella59
    @Mamabella59 3 года назад +9

    Yes, Yes, Yes! I cried one big time as a teen when I asked my mother to take me to this new trending salon in midtown NYC. I had lovely long hair and just wanted an "angle cut" which was popular then where they just cut an angle in the front meeting the back but not cutting the hair short. The hair dresser said she new exactly what I wanted but no. I saw my mothers face through the mirror and then the hair dresser brought my hair to the front. She cut it across. No style. I cried my way home with mom and next day was Easter Sunday and I didn't know how to hide my shorter unstyled hair from my dad who loved my long hair. So yes, it was very disappointing to me and my family especially that I had to take my graduation pictures for high school with that hair. Well it grew back.

    • @martinezdirce9225
      @martinezdirce9225 3 года назад

      So similar to what happened to me; it may seem trivial to many but for a teenager who was already going through a rough path (in my case) was really traumatizing….

  • @rubydoo3307
    @rubydoo3307 2 года назад +4

    I was getting sick of these 'French' videos. But a fellow Aussie suggested your channel, and honestly you helped me so much, the simple, European look is my favourite, and you helped me understand how to speak to my hair dresser, how to understand my hair. This is what I want when I search for French sensibilities.

  • @karencarr7760
    @karencarr7760 3 года назад +9

    You have great hair Frederique! I’ve had a French hair dresser for about 10 years now and I LOVE him. Never disappoints. Great hair tips. Thank you, 😘

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +1

      Lucky you and thank you for the compliment 😜

  • @dixiehurley3599
    @dixiehurley3599 3 года назад +6

    I just had a new haircut a few weeks ago a shag , but I use no heat to dry it I let it dry naturally and immediately noticed it was getting wavy as it dried , so I started scrunching it with my hands and it got quite wavy after it dried totally ! I was so surprised in a pleasant way ! I had naturally curly wavy hair as a child , an have not seen a wave at all in my hair since I was about eighteen years of age . I guess that no one I ever got a haircut from knew how to cut it properly for me . But this young woman who just cut my hair a few weeks ago did a wonderful thing for me , An now at age sixty five I suddenly have my waves an curls all back ! I cried in a good An happy way . I’m just so happy because I think it’s the prettiest my hair has ever looked since childhood .

  • @jasmincordelia5477
    @jasmincordelia5477 3 года назад +3

    I did cry after stepping out of the hair salon more than once !🤭

  • @gutsandgrittv5076
    @gutsandgrittv5076 3 месяца назад +1

    I only cried when I tried to dye my own hair.

  • @SH-qp3qc
    @SH-qp3qc 3 года назад +6

    Hair, indeed. I wore my hair very short (pixie) while I was working, due to early morning sport and getting to the office on time. Retired now, decided to grow out shoulder length, which is thick wavy and frizzy. Had no idea what to do with it. By accident, I was in an unexpected situation (hospital stay) where I had no hair products, no hair drier, no hair brush for 5 days. Washed my hair, let it dry naturally and wow I discovered my hair wasn’t frizzy, it was curly. Had already stopped colouring and was grey. Even today, at an appointment the reception staff said ‘wow love your curly grey hair’. Nature gave me this hair, I just had to let it dictate the style rather than trying unsuccessfully to force something else. Hair products of course and regular trims.

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 года назад +1

      Yes! I found that my hair loves it best when I don't comb it at all after I wash it, just let it dry and then comb it with a widetooth comb. It looks better, and instead of spending 20 minutes to comb the knots out while it's wet, it takes 10 seconds when it's dry. Not kidding.

  • @alana6806
    @alana6806 3 года назад +6

    A pain in the derrière. It’s exactly what we are at salons! J’adore !

  • @Nadiaweisz
    @Nadiaweisz Год назад +2

    Yes.. I’ve cried so much after salon trying to find a stylist that does how I ask!

  • @KMMC7349
    @KMMC7349 3 года назад +3

    I have very curly hair, most of my life its been to the middle of my back.... twice.... TWICE..... I've had hairdressers cut it to my shoulders when I went in for a trim! All because they don't know how to cut curls! I do it myself now.

  • @MaryFparker95
    @MaryFparker95 3 года назад +7

    I started cutting my own hair to save money an so far I haven't made myself cry (yet!) I did cut it weird once but fortunately my hair is curly so you couldn't really tell once I styled it.

  • @iahorvath
    @iahorvath 3 года назад +6

    Oh, I cried many times...I went through about 20 hairdressers before I found one that I have been faithful to for the past 10 years. I was very honest with this last hairdresser because I was tired of jumping from one hairdresser to another. He really appreciated my honesty and I have gone back twice to have him adjust my hair after a cut - he also never charged me. He insists that I come back if I'm not happy...and I never looked back! I am very happy with him. They want to keep a client so it's important to be honest. Love you Frédérique!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +2

      Love you too and I’m glad you found the right hairdresser that’s gold xxx

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 3 года назад +4

    Love you with the short hair! WOOT WOOT! Sassy!

  • @carolavant3778
    @carolavant3778 3 года назад +3

    Oh, yes - Massive tears! I wanted a perm and told the hairdresser that my hair takes an "S" wave in five minutes. She didn't listen and lfter 5 minutes I started hollering for her - she was taking a break! If I could have put the neutralizer on myself, I would have, but needless to say, she left the solution in for 10 minutes! Burned my hair so badly that it actually broke off in places!!

  • @suzanstorm2982
    @suzanstorm2982 3 года назад +4

    I think we have all cried! Cuts, perms, you name it.
    I too have had every color and style of hair - but I love the change. Mychair is also naturally white/ silver. People think i have it colored this way. That is my biggest money saver.

  • @lisaduplessis6856
    @lisaduplessis6856 3 года назад +1

    i love your hair colour. would you share the shade with us? during lockdown you did it yourself...what product and shade did you use?

  • @sharoncathcart
    @sharoncathcart 3 года назад +4

    I have definitely cried. I went in with a photograph and gave clear instructions about the length; the hairdresser cut it significantly shorter than the photo and my instructions, and when I asked "Why did you do something totally different from what I wanted," she said "I thought it would look better this way." I left in tears; I had a business meeting to attend that evening, and went in feeling very low indeed. I received many compliments on the hairdo, but I did not like it ... and so they did not matter. The one saving grace is that hair grows ... and I never went back to that salon.
    I now have a hairdresser I've been with for nearly 20 years. As you say, it takes time to build that relationship.

    • @karylmorgan7320
      @karylmorgan7320 4 месяца назад

      I moved from Virginia to Utah, from humidity to dry. Finding a good hairdresser in a new town with new climate conditions is hard. I can style my fine hair much better thsn any hairdresser but I need color and cut.

  • @elenikominos7404
    @elenikominos7404 3 года назад +1

    I am a Hairdresser and whenever someone says "Surprise Me"...I say "I hate Surprises,let's work out some Guidelines"...😊

  • @AngelaHansraj
    @AngelaHansraj 3 года назад +6

    I’ve been surprise so many times too many tears😂 do you have good products for thin hair for volume can you please do a video❤️

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +7

      I have terrible thin hair but I will do a video yes

  • @eliwilliamson7849
    @eliwilliamson7849 3 года назад +6

    Cried a.lot over my haircuts through the years especially the ones from my mother.

  • @joannlessner1551
    @joannlessner1551 3 года назад +2

    Cried more times than not. Never go anymore. Learned to cut my own hair, if I make a mistake at least I don't have to pay for it!

  • @the_resourceful
    @the_resourceful 3 года назад +2

    I cut my own hair. No, not a professional and it's hit or miss, but what the hell. It grows and I am not trying to impress anyone but myself. And I too have been through different lengths, colors styles, etc... I am lucky to have, at 58, retained my brunette hair without need of coloring. Very few greys! Good genes.😁
    Btw..the only time I cried was when I razored my locks into a crew with bangs. So stupid!!! Boo hoo. Wore a beret daily for 3 months straight. Lol.

  • @marionandrews176
    @marionandrews176 3 года назад +2

    I have cried. I now take multiple photos to the salon and explain exactly what I DO NOT want before I explain and show my stylist what I DO want. Then it all depends on the skill of the stylist. Cornstarch, especially organic, used sparingly, works better than dry shampoo to absorb oils.

  • @susanschreyer7654
    @susanschreyer7654 3 года назад +6

    Oh, yes! I can sympathize with crying after a haircut! It was part of my life as a curly-girl until I finally found the right person. She and I were a team for over 25 years until she moved to another part of the country. I miss her terribly, and haven't yet found the right person. However, I embrace my curly hair and have learned how to take care of it. No more crying!

    • @tanyaeve9498
      @tanyaeve9498 3 года назад +1

      Not all hairdressers can cut curly hair for sure!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      No more crying go girl

    • @SueRosalie
      @SueRosalie 2 года назад +1

      I have a new hairdresser now - she is French from Paris and trained in Curly Girl Method - dry haircut then wash and diffuse dry and some further curl by curl final trim - takes 1.5 hours - my hair is fabulous and you only need to go back every 4-5 months

    • @SueRosalie
      @SueRosalie 2 года назад

      @@tanyaeve9498 it used to be standard part of training but isn't any more so you have to seek out people who are trained to cut curly hair dry and curl by curl - each curl clump is cut blunt on the ends, there is never any thinning or slicing or razoring which is damaging to curly hair

    • @tanyaeve9498
      @tanyaeve9498 2 года назад

      @@SueRosalie absolutely! I think the trend for straightening hair hasn't helped. Your hairdresser sounds fab.

  • @Framboise2007
    @Framboise2007 3 года назад +1

    Oh yes. Frederic Fekkai cut my hair when he was an assistant in NY. He was 24, I was 21. I wanted my first post college sophisticated young lady cut. He did not listen to me. Later on he was known to cut all hair into a standard bob. I didn't cry, I went to the salon owner and blew up with how this idiot didn't listen to his client. He blamed his lack of English, It took two years to grow out, no exaggeration. When he got famous, his clientele was Martha Stewart who always looked like a sheep dog and John F. Kennedy Jr who despite was handsome his hair always looked like a helmet. Everyone in the business knew he couldn't cut hair, it was all marketing. The salon returned my money and gave me a voucher for another cut. Those were the days before the internet so the only way to complain (and probably the politest way) was to express yourself in person. Sorry to go on so long. Love you and your channel so much.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +1

      Wow I love your long sorry thank you xxxx

  • @hankaklapczynska4954
    @hankaklapczynska4954 2 года назад

    I think I never cried so I consider myself lucky!!! I guess I was always like...yeah it is just hair it will grow back...

  • @Myriel67
    @Myriel67 8 месяцев назад

    Yes 😂, well I didn’t cry! But I came home from hair dresser few times very depressed. And I get very angry. It was a nightmare.
    Last time I wanted to “kill” the hair dresser was in October 2023. Went to get a highlights and when I came home…. Nothing!!! I payed much and no one could see the highlights!!
    Incredible!! Here in Kyoto Japanese hair dressers doesn’t know to style a European hair. I told him every time use a big brush when you dry my hair. He started and after few minutes he changed the tound brush to some flat. The result was; every single time I came out of hair saloon with frizzy hair. 🥵😡I showed pictures, I draw on paper exactly what I want. But nothing!
    Next time I will try to find some other!!

  • @SusanBame
    @SusanBame 3 года назад +1

    My first experience at a salon was in West Virginia, VERY rural West Virginia, in the 1970s when I was a teenager and the hippie movement was the in thing. I came out of the salon looking like a 70-year-old (from the 1970s in rural West Virginia). Think early Dolly Parton.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      oh no but thank you Dolly for making me laugh :)

  • @karylmorgan7320
    @karylmorgan7320 4 месяца назад

    Because you have never lived on the US East Coast with 95% humidity.

  • @barbaradieckmann9020
    @barbaradieckmann9020 Год назад

    What about very short pixie cuts. I grew up with many French singers in Europe who had plenty pixie cuts and looked adorable. Now that I’m 78 I’m going back to that style because it’s easy and no fuss. I do Like a bit of French class on my hair. What to do???

  • @f.m.a.7383
    @f.m.a.7383 2 года назад

    Thank you! An informative and enjoyable video : )

  • @sophiel9421
    @sophiel9421 3 года назад +2

    What a great video (again) thank you Frederique 😘

  • @reikolinde16
    @reikolinde16 2 года назад

    Yes I have cried. My regular hairdresser was putting highlights (foil) on my hair while gabbing on the phone. My skin started to burn and I tried to flag him down. He gave me the “one minute” finger and continued to gab. When he finally came to me and opened the foil on my bangs to check processing, the foil just came off in his hand - complete with my hair. I was bald where I should have had bangs, complete with burned skin. I cried not because I had to wear scarves/caps for a long time but because he still charged me full price and I didn’t have the nerve to NOT TIP HIM! Talk about low self esteem! I have a new hairdresser and do not highlight my hair any longer. 😁

  • @vessyioannou259
    @vessyioannou259 Год назад

    Hi Frederique just an update on my hair. I have found a hairdresser which I like going only for the hair cut and wash. I no longer cut my hair by myself. You are going to like him he is Italian from Sydney and in Sydney. He knows better than me about how to cut ✂️ 🙃 my hair. So i just say couple of words and let him do the magic 🎩 ✨️ 🎶.

  • @urScorpioLady
    @urScorpioLady 3 года назад +2

    Omg I cried this one time I will never forget Hahha 🙈🙈 I told her exactly what I wanted and she didn’t deliver

  • @newempress256
    @newempress256 Год назад

    I love your style. You think like me. Im around people in canada that think they look great. I was called plain but they had no knowledge of body shape, colour season. I have been to 13 hairdressers since i moved here in Vancouver and no one cut it good. Ontario I didnt have a problem. Here! Its different. They have bad style here too. Sorry but its crazy. I never thought it would be this bad. 😟

  • @theresaskrzynski9916
    @theresaskrzynski9916 2 года назад

    More than once unfortunately. Once went to get a trim and she took off 9 inches!! Went to get my hair cut to one "length" but I said one "layer", and that is exactly what l got... half of my hair (one layer) was cut shorter than the rest!! Perms and/or coloring? Gawd!!!

  • @gingersnaps9674
    @gingersnaps9674 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for all your videos! I love your sense of humor and tips! You have reignited my love for dressing up and caring for myself - I wish I had a friend like you nearby.

  • @newempress256
    @newempress256 Год назад

    Thats how I learned. I made enough mistakes.

  • @littletez85
    @littletez85 2 года назад

    Do french women go totally natural with their hair? Do they like graying? I've stopped coloring my hair a few years back bit people always ask me if I got highlights. I love my hair! I have a short pixie cut.

  • @ThundermansThunder
    @ThundermansThunder 2 года назад

    Funny, I have always been that picky with my hair as an American man, but that came to an end by necessity after I had a life-altering accident that limits my ability to deal with hair as I used to. My father was almost a picky with his hair, too. Personally, I think the longer hairstyles look best on you. "What is it?" you said, while holding up bottle that looks like blood. That was funny! 🤣

  • @jodicaron5749
    @jodicaron5749 2 года назад

    oh yes, I have cried about bad hair jobs! oy. Once I was going to a wedding. I asked for my waist length hair to be cut to shoulder length - this was all specified over the phone before the appointment. The salon I went to is a very chic place with high awards, and many superb staff. The woman who cut my hair did a wonderful job. Then I wanted it all in an updo - something pretty. First one person tried - she gave up. Then the award winning store owner came to do it - she failed miserably. Then another male stylist dropped his tools and his client and came swishing over. He used an entire bottle of "Ice Mist" and backcombed everything out - I looked like a lion! Then he crunched it into a terrible french roll. I was charged an exorbitant fee. We were late for the wedding. The next day took 3 bottles of conditioner and over 5 hours for me to get all the knots out. It was terrible! And I looked silly to boot!

  • @janemackrell3733
    @janemackrell3733 2 года назад

    I cry many times after visits to the hairdresser!! It started when I was 8 years old and they ‘set’ my hair in rollers. My hair was naturally curly! At 10 my hair was cut short like Mia Farrow - except I didn’t look like Mia Farrow - I cried! I had a perm to straighten my hair - I cried. I had my hair layered - I cried. I like it at the moment. I only cried recently when my hairdresser went on maternity leave 😉😉

  • @vessyioannou259
    @vessyioannou259 3 года назад

    I find dry shampoo not good for my hair there is nothing like freshly washed hair. My mother was cutting my hair or I should say shaved it so now I have long hair I like your length too but pixie is not that good for me every time my hair is dirty I want to cut it when is clean I am glad I didn't cut it. The problem is I use too much shampoo and conditioner which gets expensive. I am transitioning from brown color to my grey natural I find I look a lot older with the grey but if I color it myself with supermarket dye fades too quickly. I don't want to get the virus and even now we don't have corona virus cases I think the virus will comeback like in Europe and USA

  • @necabibi3558
    @necabibi3558 2 года назад

    I lived in the south of France. And I always wondered why french women had such bad hair. Like they didn't do anything to their hair like not even brushing it.

  • @booklassygarrahan3929
    @booklassygarrahan3929 2 года назад

    When you have a great stylist that you have established a rapport with, you don't have to say much, thank goodness.
    I had a hairdresser turn my hair green and chemically burn my scalp. I didn't pay her, but I had to get someone else to save it. 🙄

  • @norahdelagarza775
    @norahdelagarza775 3 года назад

    Some women damage their hair by constantly trying something different bc they want their hair to look like someone else's or they want to change from straight to curly or curly to straight. Best tip: don't mess with what you've got. Say yes to hair masks, oils or conditioners to help your hair look it's best instead of different from what God gave you.

  • @GloriaHoulihan
    @GloriaHoulihan 5 месяцев назад

    I don't mind a male or female hairdresser as long as they are good at what they do to your hair. I lived in the countryside of France and struggled to find a hairdresser. No women locally had good haircuts or colour of any kind. Paris is a very different situation to rural parts of the country I think. I will try a hair mask. Never done one.

  • @beautyintheeyeoflarissa5889
    @beautyintheeyeoflarissa5889 3 года назад

    I 💖 Leonor Greyl Masque Fleurs de Jasmin!

  • @vkngwmn6636
    @vkngwmn6636 3 года назад

    Only once and she fixed my hair the same day...my hair came out green...

  • @coockiekat
    @coockiekat Год назад

    Why no wigs/ hair extensions? What if you lose hair due to age or alopecia? Or you have very thin hair? I thought it`s all about what we feel is good for us? You so natural and minimal, right? So why it is ok to get fillers and botox but not ok to wear hair extension or a wig?

  • @lisarachwellness535
    @lisarachwellness535 3 года назад +4

    I could listen to you all day!! You are hilarious and so down to earth, love your videos! 🥰

  • @ohgeezhannah
    @ohgeezhannah 3 года назад +3

    Ohhhhh my goodness thank you for the spiel on hairdressers! I am one myself in the south in the USA (known for manners and politeness, haha!), and it blows my mind how people are afraid to ask for an adjustment if there’s something they don’t like, especially when it’s usually a simple tweak or fix if you’ve done a thorough consultation in the first place. Ladies, you hairdresser wants to please you, be honest with them! 😊

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      Thank you lovely ☺️

    • @jasminflowerz1710
      @jasminflowerz1710 2 года назад +1

      In my experience, most get annoyed and snappy. It seems like the frustration of the job, dealing with the clients, weighs on them... so they lose patience. It's hard to find hair a hairdresser that's not like this. Also want good tips, regardless of mediocre service/ job.

  • @SusanBame
    @SusanBame 3 года назад +2

    Your hair is gorgeous. Whatever youʻre doing, keep doing it -- and thanks for sharing your tips!

  • @helenhurst6168
    @helenhurst6168 2 года назад

    Many times I cried when I was younger

  • @elizabethwilk9615
    @elizabethwilk9615 2 года назад

    Love you but I lived in France and plenty of women have bad hair days.

  • @carly10347
    @carly10347 3 года назад +3

    Why did you move to Australia? Could you do a pro/con video of a French person's experience in Australia? :)

    • @elluc1510
      @elluc1510 3 года назад +1

      She has made a q & a video.. And explained about it.. I think several months ago .. Check her videos

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      Check my video Q and a

  • @sierrawave
    @sierrawave 3 года назад +1

    If you have medium brown hair and can’t find dry shampoo that isn’t light-colored, you can use cacao, which is unprocessed chocolate powder. Cocoa is processed and may have chemicals added. So use cacao, it soaks up oils and smells great! I just tap it on my roots with a cotton round and brush it in.

  • @isbellewells4031
    @isbellewells4031 3 года назад +2

    I asked my hairdresser if Victoria’s Secret waves were possible with a perm. She said yes which surprised me because I didn’t think it was possible. I saw her putting some small curlers in my hair and I asked her why and she said so it wouldn’t all look exactly the same. My hair came out looking like Elaine on the early years of Seinfeld. I cried immediately. The owner was there and washed my hair out immediately and so it left a bit of perm but nothing crazy. I felt bad because I had gone to this hairdresser for years but omg.

  • @elligilberg1564
    @elligilberg1564 3 года назад +2

    Yes, I cried once when the hair dresser decided that a short bob was what I needed. I asked for a long bob, well below my chin, but that’s not what I walked out with. It was such a shock because I had never had short hair before! (It did not suit my face). I will always remember that experience.

  • @malupet1142
    @malupet1142 Год назад

    I guess I never have to worry about having natural hair when I live there.

  • @terryheaton31
    @terryheaton31 3 года назад +3

    I asked for a “body wave” . I looked like “ Annie” with blond hair. Not good

  • @deniseb2571
    @deniseb2571 3 года назад +14

    Oh yes I have cried once or twice from a bad hair cut. It's so demoralizing.

  • @goldenrain87
    @goldenrain87 3 года назад

    I did cry once after visiting a hairdresser . I wanted to have a nice ash blonde and walked out with green hair 😩

  • @pjk1714
    @pjk1714 3 года назад +1

    Stylist hard to find that understand my hair. When I do, they are great and last 10 to 14 years usually.
    I like you limit washing, use oils and leave in products, avoid heavy setting creams or spray.
    I've had a couple bad situation but each I stand up for myself or in one case told them to stop. It took two stylists to fix that one after.
    Remember what works and advise stylist to not do techniques that don't, like texturing or excessive heat.
    If I trim my own, like during lockdowns, I always tell stylist so they evaluate before cutting.
    Thank you for the tips.

  • @heidismith3678
    @heidismith3678 2 года назад

    I only wash my hair twice a week too, the more oily the hair the better, it is like a natural hair product lol!

  • @cubbyoharaclose4562
    @cubbyoharaclose4562 3 года назад +2

    I cried when an apprentice hairdresser left a perming solution on my hair, unsupervised and my hair turned to jelly. Literally. 😱🤯😫

  • @Venus77x
    @Venus77x 3 года назад +1

    I cried at 13 when I asked for my long long hair to be cut into a shoulder length bob and the male hairdresser cut it short like it had been cut around a bowl for a template! I cried for months, that was 45 years ago 🤭

  • @manuellestpierre5600
    @manuellestpierre5600 3 года назад +1

    I cried more then 4 times after going to salon so now I just do it myself 😂

  • @trishbresolin8212
    @trishbresolin8212 3 года назад +2

    Oh yes. Once in my thirties I remember going and asking for highlights. Now, my hair is as dark as yours. What she gave me made me look like I had gray hair! It was awful and I cried all night! Fortunately I called the next day and she fixed it for me 😀

  • @alana6806
    @alana6806 3 года назад +1

    I’m in Canada, and yes was shocked after a hair blow dry at a local salon... Since I just do my hair myself

  • @vkngwmn6636
    @vkngwmn6636 3 года назад +1

    I actually had my hair done today...at a salon run by a French woman (she loves to say everything that she hasn't done is MOCHE ! lol) and she usually does a great job w the color and highlites but she's EXPENSIVE!!!

  • @anitab2398
    @anitab2398 3 года назад +5

    I cried immediately as she turned me to the mirror. I told her that that was not what I asked for

  • @she_likes_her_style
    @she_likes_her_style 3 года назад +2

    Oh my, I have cried MANY times after a hairdresser visit! the last time was Feb this year, went in for highlights and came out like MARILYN MONROE!! I swear! I was so shocked I nearly fell off the chair! how on earth could a few natural looking highlights turn into a bright white blond all over! I cried, then cried some more, rang a friend who persuaded me to ring the hairdresser back and tell her she needed to fix it...it got toned down but I basically had to live with THAT hair all through lock down and only got it sorted last week!! I can tell you this time I was painfully clear about what I wanted, had photos, styles, and IT TURNED OUT PERFECT! I gave that hairdresser a second chance where once I just wouldn't have went back ever again. (also back in the early 90s once asked for a concave bob only to have the back of my head shaved !!! ARGGGGH cue more tears - it took 6 MONTHS to grow out!!! and usually I come home from hairdresser and style it myself all over again because I do a better job..... Frederieque, look at what you started with this video! LOL ! but we have to laugh these things off right? :-)

  • @daivabaniene3815
    @daivabaniene3815 3 года назад +2

    Good evening Frederique! We can tell you feel very good today.😁 Me too! I always wanted thick and curly long hair. People who has that and are straightening them every day makes me crazy!😬 But as you say, people always want what they don't have and don't appreciate what they do have-it's just a human nature. I didn't experimented much with my hair to be honest, I regret a few permanents in my youth (because of strong chemicals they used back then), but I liked my short hair when I was a teenager. Very first time I colored my hair I was 33 and I colored in red...My hairdresser was shocked about my choice, but when I said I am going thru divorce, she didn't question my choice anymore. After that I stopped any coloring, I don't have any grey hair to cover and I have very healthy, shiny hair, so what is the point?
    I never left my hairdresser crying or unhappy, it's always opposite actually, I guess I am the best client-always happy and satisfied. 😌 My sister on another hand had much more problems with her hairdressers. Once I went with her to the hairdresser, my sister has a blond hair, but she wanted to have a highlights. The hairdresser put too much chemicals on her hair and it became very curly like a permanent (she has a very straight hair). I was shocked, never saw that before, then she was trying to fix it with a lot of balsams and oils, but it didn't really helped after a few days she started to lose a lot of hair. My daughter on another hand has a lot and thick hair very long one untill her waist and she is going to cut half and go platinum blond in a few days, will see about the results...🤔🙄

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing Daiva xx

  • @doxtraxstudios1408
    @doxtraxstudios1408 3 года назад +1

    I have never cried from a job that a hairdresser has done but I sure did when I tried to do highlights myself using a home kit. Eeeks! My hairdresser fixed it for me the very next day and didn't even give me a bad time for trying it myself.

  • @ccadvisor489
    @ccadvisor489 3 года назад +2

    I love Nuxe dry oil for hair and skin. I have done very short hair cuts and I have had very long hair styles. I have never cried at least, not so far.😊

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      They smell delicious but why test on animals 🧐

  • @rishikapaul4740
    @rishikapaul4740 3 года назад +1

    Looks like RUclips has understood my weakness.

  • @TheFifileigh
    @TheFifileigh 3 года назад +4

    i usually take a picture from a fashion magazine with the same or similar haircut to give them an idea what I want.

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 года назад +1

      I tried that. All I got was an argument that she couldn't get that look with my hair. Now I do it myself.

    • @Shaara1
      @Shaara1 3 года назад

      @@edennis3202 Typical. If they can't do it they say it's because your hair can't be done like that.

    • @Shaara1
      @Shaara1 3 года назад

      They can see completely different on the same picture.

  • @natalie73animals
    @natalie73animals 3 года назад +1

    I've cried about five times when hairdressers jacked up my hair. Needless to say, I never give them a second chance. So, five different hairdressers never saw me again. Ever!

    • @theresaskrzynski9916
      @theresaskrzynski9916 2 года назад +1

      Same here. I did return to a new salon owner twice (benefit of the doubt) & she screwed it up so bad l had to let it "grow out" for over a year!!!

  • @robinmcgann3777
    @robinmcgann3777 3 года назад +1

    I love my hairdresser/colorist. She's the first one to tell me that I could EITHER have color or a perm, not both at the same time or I would ruin my hair, that I was trying to MAKE my hair do stuff that it wasn't right for it. No bad hairstyles after that bit of wisdom.. In my youth, I've had many a bad cut because I always wanted something that my hair wouldn't do or that was so high maintenance that I wouldn't keep it up. That's on me. Also, when you need a life change, the first thing women do is cut their hair - DON'T DO IT! Examine WHY you want to do it. Maybe you need a vacation, maybe you need to change jobs. If, after reflection, you still want to change your style, go for it. It's hair, It grows.

  • @robinmcgann3777
    @robinmcgann3777 3 года назад

    Oh, yes, and if you ask your hairdresser how he/she is doing and they tear up and launch into a complaint about how miserable their life is...RUN!!! RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!

  • @SpiritSpeakerLillian
    @SpiritSpeakerLillian 3 года назад

    I cried when I was pregnant with my first baby and the woman cut my hair so short I looked like Rod Stewart.

  • @kathyburrows269
    @kathyburrows269 3 месяца назад

    I love all your videos. What subject I never see is how to style and when to wear socks. Tights...stockings..pantihose. should socks show? Bare legs or not in cooler months? Short boots with ankle length skirt? Please make a video about that...I've never found these tips ❤

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 месяца назад

      I live in Indonesia no socks hahaha

  • @MassielMancebo
    @MassielMancebo 3 года назад +2

    Omg the pixie with the swept bang on you was just chefs kiss! Perfect!

  • @martinezdirce9225
    @martinezdirce9225 3 года назад

    It doesn’t suit me but I’ve always loved the « garçon « or « carré « French hairstyle…. Of course I’ve cried after once at 17 I asked for a trim and they act left me with garçon cut…. No way to fix that 🥲😂

  • @carolinasusini2601
    @carolinasusini2601 3 года назад

    Hello Frédérique!!! I´m not French (half of my family is from French descent though) but I have experimented a lot with my hair, cuts, colours, curls, etc. I had a lot of fun fortunately!!! Nowadays I am much more traditional but I take really good care of my hair. I have order the face massage, hope it will help me. Could you tell me about the nail polish you are using in the video? Thank you so much!!!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 года назад

      this is an old video no idea sorry :)

  • @giselal2403
    @giselal2403 3 года назад +1

    Pixie cut looked great on you! Thanks for the fun video!

  • @marionwinski1323
    @marionwinski1323 3 года назад

    Hi Federica, i like your narrative way to speak. I agree with you about your content. Keep going! Well done.
    Love Marion from Germany