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“There’s definitely something there”
****toxic masculinity****
DEAD
That killed me😂😂😂
I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU POSTED THIS THE *DAY* BEFORE DAN HOWELL POSTED HIS COMING OUT HJDSHJKHDFJ
just an alternative emo kid I know I thought it was a reaction lol
I’m still blown away like
I’m waiting for it to be a prank
But it’s... not
@@noahfarr2524 I mean, firstly, as he says in the vid, he hasn't been very subtle about it, has he? not to say i expected a coming out vid, bc he seemed very deeply in the closet for all these years, denying the shit out of all the rumours (thanks society), but, as a queer person myself, i defo didn't see him as a straight guy. his sexuality comes as no surprise for me, the video itself does, he decided to drop a bomb of sequins and rainbows on us out of nowhere, but it actually makes me even prouder of him, I know how much courage it cost him. secondly, what do you mean you're """""waiting for it to be a prank""""" lol, weren't he gay, dan would neVER joke about such matters, let alone making a 45min long video about that, he's better than that. also, pretending a sexuality is one of the most disgusting behaviours a person can perform, you really think so low of him?
Mark Darcy I don’t think they thought Dan was pranking them. They probably just meant that they never expected it and was so surprised. What you said was a little rude :(
THE GAYS ARE BEING FED
Xenosyte Games wow
Can we all just agree that Connor is the most adorable human being ever?
It's obvious, everyone already agrees silently
yes, absolutely
Agreed in a human and spiritual level
absolutely
Agreed
One of my favorite memes: "If being gay was a choice, I'd be MORE gay."
are we gonna pretend you didnt purposely do that perfect hair curl? okey.
Idk where she came from or how she got here, but it looks like she's staying for good
@@ConnorFranta We love and support her!
@@ConnorFranta danny zucko who now?
You’re hella cute
You don't understand. I've been trying to achieve that for the past couple of years and here he is, obtaining it ACCIDENTALLY!
“Straight people are valid but also no. Ew”
You never fail to make me smile Connor
-a straight person
@@user-xh6eg1ts1t hey hey. It's okay. You need to breathe, and talk it out with your frined. She for sure loves you no matter what, whether as a friend or more. And you are not fucked up or broken or a freak. You are beautiful, strong, incredibly brave for being able to ask her out, and deserve hapiness, and it's all going to work out, I know it will.
Abigail A wow thanks. That’s really sweet of you to say. I came back to delete my post and I think I still will but really thank you. I kind of needed that. You’re a good person :)
@@user-xh6eg1ts1t no problem, good luck baby
Abigail A so you probably don’t care but the person I was talking about (who no longer has your name, turns out he’s trans) and I are actually dating now and I’m really happy about it. I really love him and I want to thank you for your words cause seriously. They helped. :)
@@user-xh6eg1ts1t of course I care! I'm so happy for the both of you, and it makes me endlessly proud that I was able to help in some way
"Have you seen us? Being this cute has a tendency." ☺😂I love you Connor
Actually he didn't answer but you're right that was clever
On the topic of tolerance vs. acceptance: for me personally, when I look at my parents, I see the difference between tolerance and acceptance very clearly. My dad tolerates my sexuality. He says he doesn't mind me being bi, but also lets me know from time to time that he'd rather see me with a guy than with a girl (not with so many words). My mom accepts me. Asks me about my crushes, boy and girl, never asks if I've seen cute boys around, but cute people. It's little things like this that can make the difference
Very well explained ☺️
"Acceptance" = "I accept and support you as you are, no strings attached."
"Tolerance" = "I am doing YOU a favor by PRETENDING to accept you, as long as you don't stray too far from MY preconceptions about you."
But actually most people try to use acceptance = tolerance so to my knowledge at least it is the same like what is the difference?! Between them really
Yes, this!
Ahmed When they say “I tolerate it” it just low-key makes jt sound as if we were doing a mistake, that’s how I feel about it but yeah! Have a great day. Xx
@@jaken8356 maybe I just tell what I have witness. And just to clarify most people I have been seeing cringe over gay people " specially older people " they not against but they are in deep fear like they think their is something unexpected could happen or bad but they never clear why ?! I really think that some people have a deep fear of gay people.
True though perhaps Tolerance is a pathway to understanding and acceptance eventually for some.
saying someone "tolerates" the LGBTQ+ community is saying "this is MY space. i''ll LET you exist too, i guess."
ACCEPTING them is to say "this is your space too. you belong just as much as I do."
Don't forget EMBRACING
period
no one:
absolutely nobody:
my mind: gay gay and more GAY
I am gay, gay and more gay
@@LuisVlogChannel Same
You just described my mind and my life 😂🏳️🌈
Just came out as Gay!
Happy Pride everyone!
I'm proud of you! I hope all went well. ❤
Yep it’s gone great, I’m very happy now, Thanks for all the love everyone!
Xxx
James Stubbs ahhh congrats!! 🌈❤️
Hey, congrats! Happy for you!
James Stubbs i’m so proud of you!!! :D
Got a notification “gay gay and more gay” and clicked immediately
Yaasss me too!
Omg same lol
not even kidding i could listen to you talk all day
like u could rant about bagels for 18 hrs and i'd be all ears
Love the video, and I entirely agree with you on the "dealing with people who condemn you to Hell" 😂😂 it's funny af
the sweater matches the artwork in the background and its SO SATISFYING also great video thank u
"connor franta just posted a video"
me: *stops anything I'm doing at the moment and pay full attention to connor*
Dan Howell came out, this is officially the best pride yet
Phil also came out! Not officially and he didint make a video or say what he was, but he said he was planning on making a video at some point! I is hyped!
sharkboi when and where did he say he was going to make a video?
And now Phil has also made a video coming out
I am 24 right now and sadly I haven't been able to come out yet and honestly, I don't think that I will ever be. I live and I grew up in a very conservative, narrow minded and religious country. Being gay is a constant battle. I have to protect myself and stand up for my rights on the daily. The Bullying and all the hate that I've been getting since childhood is quiet harsh and overwhelming. The amount of hate and rejection that our community gets not only in countries like mine, but everywhere else is something that I will never understand. It is a real hassle but you gotta move forward and be strong, cause in the end of the day, no matter what your sexual orientation is, your gender, religion or ethnicity, life will always be harsh on you so you just gotta face it and be strong. Hope one day I will found the courage to accept myself and be proud of who I am. Your channel definitely helped me to be more confident and less ashamed of myself, so I want to thank you for that. Sending you much love and of course to all the victims of homophobia outthere. You are not alone ❤💙💚💛💜💖
just know that there are definitely people accepting you even if you don't think so! sending love x
I'll be thinking of you!! Always remember that even in the hard time the community has your back😊🏳️🌈
@@yellow.rainboots ❤❤❤❤
@@hannah-wd9qn thank you so much. ❤❤❤❤
Only you can know when/if it is safe for you to come out to your family and community, but please be proud in your heart and know that you are perfect just the way you are. Sending #MamaBear hugs!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
It's so sad that even in 2019 we still have to be cautious just holding hands in public. Or be wary that someone might get physically aggressive just because the person you're holding hands with is the same sex. It makes me so mad
Yea, especially regarding the recent news of a gang beating up a lesbian couple for sitting together on the bus. People are complete idiots
@@bimboification they actually beat them up because they wouldn't kiss for them. The abusers were like 15. It makes me sick
9:50 I can already see the Wattpad stories being written at this moment
He try a job application to acting basically he plays a lone striker role here
I'm dead lmao
"You're going to hell!"
"See you there!"
Maryland outlawed Conversion Therapy!
Pazzie Anne Knexx Yas my state is finally getting with the program lol.
@@jordan9224 , yep!
Pazzie Anne Knexx Hooray!
We stan Maryland
Him answering Gay Questions is probably my favorite videos
Why ?!
@@ahmedelmogi5113 I personally find it fascinating and I love how he is able to be more open with himself and us feelings vs. 5-6 years ago. Its also very entertaining
@@parise.7197 1st thankx for ur lovely answer 2nd to me when he talk about accept vs tolerance then he explain by rolling his head and eyes that was clever/ priceless to watch , 3rd I think in general he his open but sometimes he plays around like he didn't answer the question why do you think people are afraid of gays ?! And he a void answering.
@@ahmedelmogi5113 Yeah, that is true. He still is a human, so I guess sometimes theres stuff he might just avoid or just doesnt have a good answer for. I did also like his answer for acceptance vs. Tolerance
@@parise.7197 ya probably you're right, and I think people use acceptance = tolerance as the same meaning in most cases .
Hitting the 1 year anniversary on my first ever relationship
❤🧡💛💚💙💜
aw congrats to you both!
wake up to my bisexual flag being delivered and this video 💕 my day is officially gAY
edit: wow this many likes - and people say i’m not relatable 🙄😂
I want to like this comment but I don't want to ruin he perfect amount of likes🏳️🌈💞
Katie Winchester 😂
@@alilsunflowerr How many likes was it? 69? 100? 420? 666?
I've been trying to find a good site to buy a pride flag from. Do you have any suggestions or did you get it from like Amazon or eBay?
@@trickytreyperfected1482 420 😂
Teacher: Describe yourself in 3 words
Me: Gay, gay, and more gay
Me: Gay, lesbian and homosexual
That is 5 words
😂
Happy pride to everyone!! 🌈
~sincerely, an accepting straight ally
thank you!!
thanks b
Z COLE WE NEED MORE OF U!!!
I agree!!!
here here!
The curl in the middle of his forehead has given me happiness for at least the next 80 years
can we just appreciate how soft Connor looks in yellow 😍💛
holy crap, where did all these likes come from??? thank you!
S O F T B O i
Can we appreciate how soft Connor looks in anything, honestly?
agreed u w u
Kailey Taylor okay, TRUE
Connor: gay gay gay and more gay
Daniel Howell: AND MORE GAY
“Have you ever just tried being straight?” I don’t know. Have you ever tried being gay? It’s amazing
Alice Kingsley that question was mine ❤️
Well... did you??
Alice Kingsley yeees ❤️😂
this is actually my first pride as bisexual love your videos you’re so inspiring💜
Pride is what I feel seeing this
Let me say this a millionth time YOU LOOK SO FRICKIN' CUTE IN YELLOW
How was it pretending to be straight in high school?
Not great. Especially with friends who try to set you up.
Wow, I hope things are better now🙏❤️
I've been out of high school for two weeks and out to a few of my friends for one and a half months, so yeah, it's been a good month. 🌈
My heart broke when you said that you get a little scared when you hold hands with a boy. Cause it’s such a wholesome cute thing that everybody deserves to partake in without worry. 💔
* sees title *
🤔 Hmm.. I'm more like the Nsync song:
BI, BI, BI! 😏
Yee me too but more like pan,pan,pan😶
samE
@@eden7544 Cool!
@@Bailey-jr8is Nice!!
Wow 👏👏
Why is it in June? Also Dan Howell just came out today! Love him so much 💕
Princess Megan .pride month is in June because it’s in memory of a historical event, you can google stonewall riots to find out more
i was having a mental breakdown and this video instantly put a smile on my face
I came out a while ago but sometimes I feel like I don’t fit in because I’m gay. These videos help me so much, you don’t even know! Even though I’ve never met you, I always feel like you’re supporting me, and I just want to say thank you. You’re amazing!
He's literally the most underrated youtuber. He deserves so much for talking about things that matter .❤️❤️
doing my best to use this platform for good! 👊🏻❤️
@@ConnorFranta I love you 😍😍😍!
That curly lock of hair on his forehead is messing with my system. Why are gay guys so adorable?!
THE SHUT UP AND DRIVE REFERENCE SKDJSKDJ that lip sync changed my life PLS
I remember I was in a hotel room for some work thing when I came out and my friend was in the room across the hall. After I watched it, I knew I just KNEW I had witness HISTORY so I ran across and we watching it over.. and over...... and over again.........
ConnorFranta omg !! i remember it as well, it was 2016, every thursday (i think?) i would watch every episode of all stars 2 LIVE, it was the one time i missed it because i didn’t have a charger for my cellphone. i cried and went to sleep. the next day i watched it on my computer, my jaw DROPPED when i saw the lip sync, i thought to myself “THIS IS THE ONE I HAD TO MISS? FOR GOD’S SAKE”. they both stayed, i cried happy tears, and watched it over and over again. 💓💓
You should definitely be an official LGBT+ speaker Connor 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I thought GSA stood for “Gay Service Announcement” lol
lmao i love that
The first OG youtuber I have ever watched and genuinely enjoy. Love Connor always 💛
Why isn't there a LOVE button 😩
Can’t believe this video was posted a couple days before Dan Howell, and Eugene Lee Yang came out!!!!
C
He answered my question that makes me really happy ack (mine was thoughts on pansexuality?)
Our usernames are meant to be oml
@@youhaveveryprettyears omg they are
Love this thread
@@aizaasmr join the trash club then
@@aizaasmr trash club trash club trASH CLUB TRASH CLUB TR-
I came out to my parents this week and they took it badly but that isn’t gonna stop me going to pride with my girlfriend and it’s not gonna change who I am, thank you for being an inspiration xx
Connor being a queen?
I'm here for it
I am turning 16 this year, and I think my first pride will be the day after my birthday!!! I am so excited 👏🏻🥰✨🌈
You've helped me a lot to find out what my mind and heart wants, I'm pan and i thank you a lot for making me feel confortable in my own skin no matter what!!
btw lovely curls, you look amazingly cute con!
A big reason old laws are still in the books is not because people agree with them, but that it is very difficult to repeal a law in most cases so the legislatures see it not worth the effort. The percentage of the state legislatures needed to repeal laws is usually higher than needed to pass laws. So a solution to the conversion therapy issue is sometimes adding a clause in non discrimination or lgbt protection laws to address the certain issue, basically voiding the previous law.
I came out to my parents Sunday after my first pride Saturday night and I’ve never felt better. Feels so good to finally be me
What you said about tolerance really helped me. My friend told me she would tolerate me being queer after suggesting I should go to therapy(conversion therapy), and liked me being in a gay relationship to me being a drug addict.
When explaining to some of the more accepting people in my life why this was so hurtful they told me I should be glad that I was not rejected and that tolerance=acceptance... but tolerance isn’t acceptance.
That friend of yours, that's not even tolerance that she's showing, that's just ignorance. (Had to say it)
For me, i believes tolerance does not equal to acceptance. However, i do believes tolerance lead toward acceptance (at least in some scenarios) it's just how people interpret it.
Like the example connor used, "i dont agree with your ways, but i won't stop you, i still tolerate you." Doesn't necessarily means a bad way. There's also a sense of respect there instead of being completely against the idea that particular someone had. (This is TOTALLY different that what your friend did to you)
But all of it comes to how you're gonna use the word, saying the word 'tolerate' itself in general isn't really a good idea as there are others suitable word. In a way, tolerate can also be seen as 'pity'(?) Which is also not a good way to put it.
@@Gummeyy I agree that her original behavior was not tolerant and that she was indeed ignorant. She now tolerates that I am queer as in she doesn't agree with me but she does nothing to stop me.
Don't get me wrong tolerance is better than forthcoming hatred, and like you said in some cases tolerance can lead towards acceptance. But I think tolerance leads to acceptance in cases where someone is willing to change.
She will never change. She doesn't want to. It hurts but sometimes even if you give someone all your love and friendship they just don't care about you. That is ultimately what happened with her. She thinks that she loves me (as a friend) but when she couldn't accept me it was clear that she didn't care about me she only valued what she gained from me.
tolerance is better than hatred or violence, but it is not accepting somebody for who they are, and to me at least, tolerance from a loved one is just as hurtful as hate from all the random people I've encountered. Tolerance (as I've seen from many people not just this one girl) is the bare minimum, it means you are physically safe, but not emotionally safe. Even when tolerance is meant in a "good" way, it can never truly be in a positive way, because the word tolerance it self has a negative connotation.
I loveeeee this Connor, and you! also I like your new editing style it seems slightly different.
Ah thank you for noticing and I'm glad you liked it!
omg omg omg omg omg @@ConnorFranta
thank you for this and unrelated but I LOVE YOUR SWEATER
My questionssssssss AREN’T THERE!!!
But frankly omg I live for this content king🌈
Connor, I remember crying while I watched your coming out video years ago. I was heartbroken by your tears then but looking at you now, my happy sunshine, makes me beyond happy. You deserve all the RomCom love, a tight hug & I'd hold your hand too! Happy Pride, loves! x (& yes, tolerance is utter bull) 🏳️🌈
Ah dang I have to leave for work literally right now. But love you Connor, I'll be back to watch later!
connor is the king of positivity and is absolutely lovely oml
Been waiting for a new video and couldn't be happier it's this
Connor:
saying sweet things about pansexuality
Me, a pansexual:
Sofie Ahlquist Rimbæklund Nielsen
Me, finding another pansexual:
Me, having two pansexual friends and being happy that people are accepting them:
This is so cute, I’ve watched you for years! Ever since I was about 13 (maybe younger)and I’m 18 now...
I’ve missed seeing you pop up, hope you’re doing well? ❤️
glad to still have you around! I'm only popping on when I have something important to say/highlight or when I'm feeling a bit silly, so I'm doing pretty great ☺️
ConnorFranta well it’s great to see the videos, and they still make me smile and laugh like they use to 😇 it’s also amazing to hear you’re well, and congratulations for all things you have achieved, especially your book! Love it🙌
Throw back to when I sobbed in a bothroom stall at school watching your coming out video. I grew up not even knowing gay was a thing and you helped me validate a lot of feelings i had. It’s not an easy road but I’m grateful for the content you make because it makes accepting myself easier and easier even if it seems impossible. You were the first RUclipsr I ever watched and I’m so so so happy to see how far you’ve come. ☺️💛
Connor: you can never be gay enough
Me:...*gasp* TRUUUUUUUE
Lily Cargill haha i asked that question lol :)
I’ve always felt the same about tolerance! Tolerance to me has always been how you treat things you don’t like, or wish weren’t that way, or find to be a burden but you can’t get rid of it. I’m not cool with being tolerated. My existence and who I’m attracted to isn’t burdening anyone.
*i see Connor... i see gay... i click!* 🦄🌈🖤
❤🧡💛💚💙💜
At first I thought you meant you see Connor which means you see gay like Connor equals gay and I laughed so hard
“how do you handle people that condemn you to hell?”
*you need to calm down by taylor swift starts playing*
Thanks for putting my exact feelings on tolerance vs acceptance into words! Also, pleeeeease try drag! You'd look stunning no matter how you're done up, just bc of your energy tbh.
Watching it back, I wasn't as eloquent as I could have been, but I'm glad my POV was understood haha
For drag, aw ty. I just.. need to know! It's calling me!
@@ConnorFranta lol you were more eloquent than I would've been. Also, I gotta say that you were one of the people who helped me come out as bi/pan about a year and a half ago. So thanks for doing these types of videos!
connor is so pure and wholesome ur videos always make me smile
❤ ❤ ❤
hi i’m a baby bi and this title is me in a nutshell ksjsksk
baby bi would make a great musician name
ConnorFranta why thank you i will begin my musical career now. also ilysm 💕
"I want to look head to toe gorgeous"
BUT YOU ALREADY ARE CONNOR.
with Love, from Paris.
being in the closet hurts like hell but watching this video made my day somewhat bearable thanks Connor and love you
This is weird but it's the first time I've heard "straight people are valid", it felt kinda nice.
Happy pride month 🏳️🌈
Right? It was kinda nice. We don’t need it (I think we, I’m sorta always questioning oof) but that’s kinda what makes it so sweet :) Happy Pride! 🏳️🌈🌈🏳️🌈🌈🏳️🌈🌈
I studied toleration as part of my masters last year and most scholars who wrote on it, that I came across, would say to tolerate something would be to hate it and there would often be a degree of disgust directed towards the subject of your toleration. Once I learnt about this and the real meaning behind toleration, it really opened my eyes! So you’re definitely right in feeling uncomfortable with the ‘toleration of LGBT’
You are such a mood😂
This just brightened my day
omg. as an la queer person.... holy shit do i relate sooooo much to the “are you scared of holding a boy’s hand” part
the title is my head 24/7
'Where did you have your first gay kiss?' Well, I think everyone knows the answer to that AND who it was with! But Connor, one positive aspect about the breakup with him is that he wrote a song about it! I suppose one could be proud of that!
you can never have enough gay in your life.
Have a great week Connor 💙
i’m bi and came out to my friends in december and I was crying and shaking because I was so scared but they were so supportive!!!
Annie Coe proud of you!
You're literally my icon OMG THANKS FOR THIS!!🌈🏳️🌈
That answer to that last question about feeling too gay was so good. I feel like people are always telling me “oh you don’t seem gay”. I’m just living me life and I also like girls. That’s all there is to it.
I literally live and breathe Connor Franta. I adore you so much - you’re the cutest human to exist. I love you 🥰 happy pride month mr gay 🏳️🌈 xo
"Wow I love him"
- me every 2 seconds
ME
1). Your q&a’s are my favourite
2). I know it took you a long time to edit but it was worth it...the video is amazing from anaesthetics down to your funny mood 🤪
3). How good do you look in yellow, please?!
4). Hello to the curl of dreams who is absolutely THRIVING
5). ILY. Thankyou 💛
after watching any vid of urs I just feel soooo good about myself and in general like literally full of life, so thank you for that. also, I can't over the fact that ur literally the cutest human being. love you lots x
Yayyyyyyy ❤️I needed this after today you have no idea thx for brightening up my day🙂
Edit: aww thx so much for all the likes didn’t expect it thx again
he’s such a cinnamon roll and i’m here for it
This made my day. I love this so much!! I needed this ❤💜💙
A a gay/person with respect for others, thank you lots for making this video! Also your ascetic and color-matching with your background is to *die* for.
Loved this video!!
Also sidenote: that sweater reminds me of Arthur lol
ahhhhh I love these so much ❤️ crazy how rollercoaster-y self acceptance is! I’ve always “accepted my queerness” but I recently realized that I might have just been tolerating it. Ready for that to change!
9:47 "I would love to meet a runner boi"
Me: *Time to get back into running again!*
Trey Atkins another reason why I can’t wait to get the hell out of Maryland. I didn’t hear about this, when did it happen?
you are too pure for this world
That laugh at 4:34! I don't think I've ever heard you laugh like that before. Kinda cute💛
I marched with The Trevor Project this year at LA Pride and I never would’ve if it wasn’t for Connor.