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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024
  • I talk about growing up gay, my coming out experiences and what I'd say to anyone going through it too!
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Комментарии • 45 тыс.

  • @TheQueerTailor
    @TheQueerTailor 5 лет назад +3339

    Dan: 45 minute essay with illustrations
    Phil: just eight minutes of being wholesome

    • @brayermoth
      @brayermoth 5 лет назад +56

      Leah Sauter Dan faced a more complex struggle and did something artful and very true to him. Phil’s story wasn’t something he felt needed the depth that Dan gave. Both are lovely and I’m proud and happy for them

  • @lindseyfuller1030
    @lindseyfuller1030 5 лет назад +8068

    dan- its ok to be you. labels dont have to define you
    phil- hot shirtless guy wanna kiss

    • @beepcat3760
      @beepcat3760 5 лет назад +34

      Lindsey Fuller LMFAOOOOO

    • @fru1tpunk965
      @fru1tpunk965 5 лет назад +14

      LMAO

    • @fangurks
      @fangurks 5 лет назад +2

      @Cheese Whiz Twenty One Pilots!

    • @hedaya8094
      @hedaya8094 5 лет назад +1

      i still think about this comment regularly and wheeze

    • @goopster8956
      @goopster8956 5 лет назад

      MOOD

  • @sockpudding3985
    @sockpudding3985 5 лет назад +9497

    dan: chapters, 45 min video, dark themes
    phil: so, men, amiright ??

    • @spookyskyes7661
      @spookyskyes7661 5 лет назад +47

      RIGHT

    • @samsev
      @samsev 5 лет назад +20

      💀true

    • @person1232
      @person1232 5 лет назад +8

      IKR!

    • @rivasnuria2158
      @rivasnuria2158 5 лет назад +4

      HAHHAHAHHAHAHA

    • @shiroi201
      @shiroi201 5 лет назад +49

      Ikr? 😂 but it's very fitting cause dan is the deep waffle-y one and phil usually keeps it light 😁

  • @danidkg4071
    @danidkg4071 4 года назад +4601

    you're so brave for coming out as a ginger

  • @taylordawson7947
    @taylordawson7947 5 лет назад +2182

    Phil: happy, positive, keeping it straight to the point.
    Dan: emotional, dramatic and long recount of his whole life story.
    This seems about right. We are all so proud of both of you legends!!

  • @Mia-wz4xo
    @Mia-wz4xo 5 лет назад +2734

    Dan: 45 minute video
    Phil: 7 minutes video
    And we love both of them just as much

    • @prylledie
      @prylledie 5 лет назад +31

      They had completely different experiences which is wild. Dan grew up with most of his peers not accepting him, whereas Phil's peers were generally more accepting

    • @Mia-wz4xo
      @Mia-wz4xo 5 лет назад +5

      @@prylledie I know, the comment was ment to show how even though they came out differently and have gone through different things, we still love them just as much (this is meant non sarcastically)

    • @Mia-wz4xo
      @Mia-wz4xo 5 лет назад

      @Libra's Library phils was so chaiotic it was wonderful

  • @mayalambert1678
    @mayalambert1678 5 лет назад +2994

    Dan’s video: in-depth, emotional and lengthy
    Phil’s video: upbeat, short and lightHearted
    So proud ♥️🏳️‍🌈

    • @Zelenia
      @Zelenia 5 лет назад +61

      Definition of their personalities. XD

    • @femke6313
      @femke6313 5 лет назад +25

      It represents their personality to a T

    • @jonnae1999
      @jonnae1999 5 лет назад +9

      was gonna say the exact same thing hahaha. Ying and yang

  • @audzbxn6278
    @audzbxn6278 4 года назад +4413

    phil's ex-girlfriend: **kisses phil**
    phil: sO GEOGRAPHY HOMEWORK

    • @zayalorin9491
      @zayalorin9491 3 года назад +10

      why are there no replies 😂 i love this comment

    • @audzbxn6278
      @audzbxn6278 3 года назад +11

      @@zayalorin9491 tHANK YOU for reminding me this comment exists omg I completely forgot about it- wait how did I get that many likes lmaooo. also, thanks!! :)))

    • @zayalorin9491
      @zayalorin9491 3 года назад +5

      @@audzbxn6278 aw np lmaooo

    • @audzbxn6278
      @audzbxn6278 3 года назад +3

      @@zayalorin9491

    • @mirroreclipsed3954
      @mirroreclipsed3954 3 года назад +4

      I cackled

  • @gweener8597
    @gweener8597 5 лет назад +11747

    dan: I was bullied
    phil: I turn ginger in the sunmer

    • @willhoe3272
      @willhoe3272 5 лет назад +239

      this video is just too much Phil being Phil

    • @shelhatesyou
      @shelhatesyou 5 лет назад +96

      i’m sorry but “sunmer” made me cackle

    • @alexandra-yc3of
      @alexandra-yc3of 5 лет назад +64

      he’s like edward cullen but instead turning sparkly he turns ginger

    • @Bryson.c
      @Bryson.c 5 лет назад +4

      I was expecting it from Phil but with dan ?!?!?!?!?!!!!!?

    • @nateuhhh
      @nateuhhh 5 лет назад +3

      This comment made me wheeze djajsjsja s u n m e r

  • @parise.7197
    @parise.7197 5 лет назад +6009

    Dan: 45 minute masterpiece
    Phil: 7 minute masterpiece
    Both Dan and Phil: ARE SUPER BRAVE TO SHARE THIS WITH US AND FILLED WITH MY LOVE AND APPRECIATION

    • @vjivjvjrxtxt
      @vjivjvjrxtxt 5 лет назад +7

      Lol 420 likes

    • @mygayrats
      @mygayrats 4 года назад +10

      Phil's story was just a bit calmer 🤷‍♂️♥️♥️

    • @zer0.pdf1
      @zer0.pdf1 4 года назад +25

      wait...
      phil came out..
      dan came out..
      *W A I T*

    • @ms.antithesis
      @ms.antithesis 4 года назад +11

      They both came out within a month of eachother, after living with eachother most of their adult lives....i mean they never disproved the fan theories

    • @naomi-art-stuff
      @naomi-art-stuff 4 года назад +18

      @@zer0.pdf1 dan literally said in his video that him and phil are more than friends but they want to keep things private

  • @kellymcmahan2094
    @kellymcmahan2094 5 лет назад +5509

    Pride month: *coming to an end*
    Phil: *I dONT THiNK SO*

    • @kellymcmahan2094
      @kellymcmahan2094 5 лет назад +14

      Rebecca Lambe 🔊Phil Lester says every month is pride month

    • @archerwarren4984
      @archerwarren4984 5 лет назад +3

      Phil and Thomas Sanders lmao 😂

    • @riley._.5332
      @riley._.5332 5 лет назад +2

      @@archerwarren4984 I was about to day the same thing 😂😂😂😂

    • @renward8789
      @renward8789 5 лет назад +6

      Only Phil decides when pride month ends

    • @angelaguevara9500
      @angelaguevara9500 5 лет назад

      Kelly McMahan Pride month is stupid

  • @nervous_ghost
    @nervous_ghost 4 года назад +7128

    I love how dan was probably the one to film Phil in the wardrobe

    • @rowieowo
      @rowieowo 4 года назад +527

      Honestly I don't know why people aren't talking about the fact that it could have been Dan that giggled in the background smh

    • @cryptidliam8452
      @cryptidliam8452 4 года назад +141

      The lack of movement makes me think a tripod?

    • @kmations4049
      @kmations4049 4 года назад +24

      Emo Snof i know i was thinking that

    • @NightsLeaf
      @NightsLeaf 4 года назад +94

      why do you care more about dan in a video that isnt about him

    • @julianapaul1244
      @julianapaul1244 4 года назад +33

      Leaf & Watermelon you are the only person I have seen say something and I respect that

  • @muminpappa6628
    @muminpappa6628 5 лет назад +4734

    Dan : 45 min video about his sexuality, explaining his thoughts, struggles and experiences in great detail
    Phil: yeah what he said

    • @myahitt1247
      @myahitt1247 5 лет назад +41

      gjiminiegb right?!😂 they’re both precious

    • @riana698
      @riana698 5 лет назад +6

      V original

    • @supeerJed
      @supeerJed 5 лет назад +13

      I love how happy Phil is 🤩

    • @brooke3721
      @brooke3721 5 лет назад +1

      it really be like that

  • @sallycooley7650
    @sallycooley7650 5 лет назад +2753

    dan: 45 min video chronicalling his life story of pain and oppression
    phil: yeah, same

  • @digitalxolive
    @digitalxolive 5 лет назад +5033

    I love how both Phil and Dan came out about their sexuality in completely different ways but still with their personalities being shown. We love u Phil on THATS ON PERIODT

    • @annabelledeery497
      @annabelledeery497 5 лет назад +38

      Right! they did it in different ways but it was equally as powerful 💞

    • @samcuppert6488
      @samcuppert6488 5 лет назад +10

      They are just perfectly fine the way They are. I grew up with them being my iconic heroes. And nothing in this world would ever change that. They'll always have the most special place in my Heart.

    • @olihasnolife5454
      @olihasnolife5454 5 лет назад

      Oli hey we have the same name, that’s all

    • @ollie8015
      @ollie8015 5 лет назад

      next. their wedding video

  • @yesitisolga3557
    @yesitisolga3557 4 года назад +474

    i love how he talks about being gay the same way he would talk about being attacked by the squirrel - not making a big deal out of it, it's so comforting when you still struggle to accept that it's completely normal part of you, just like your hair color

  • @omniipotence
    @omniipotence 5 лет назад +16666

    dan literally made a documentary and phil just drinks out of a vase i literally can't

    • @sukatidi
      @sukatidi 5 лет назад +9

      HDHSJSJHAHAHAHA

    • @yesouioo
      @yesouioo 5 лет назад +150

      It’s so their aesthetics

    • @kiwisoup1863
      @kiwisoup1863 5 лет назад +119

      it literally shows their personalities i-

    • @gabbyfelicetti3186
      @gabbyfelicetti3186 5 лет назад +71

      That is their personalities in a nutshell

    • @kaitlyn2295
      @kaitlyn2295 5 лет назад +16

      It's perfect

  • @annabaker6762
    @annabaker6762 5 лет назад +8390

    dan: hour long documentary
    phil: seriously considered posting a 5 secondlong clip and calling it a day

    • @whyarewealive20
      @whyarewealive20 5 лет назад +42

      .i wanted to like this, but i saw the likes it had and appreciated it.

    • @MoistCrumpet
      @MoistCrumpet 5 лет назад +18

      That's why I love him.

    • @stressed_cosplays
      @stressed_cosplays 5 лет назад +38

      I was kinda upset Phil's wasn't as long, but he said what he needed to, and that's all. Short and sweet

    • @TheOrochimaruhater
      @TheOrochimaruhater 5 лет назад +61

      I mean... that's their personalities in a nutshell honestly. XD

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 5 лет назад +22

      I don't watch these guys but thought I'd take a look at the videos everyone was talking about this pride month. Gotta say, I very much appreciate the brevity. Much can be said in a "short" amount of time. I've got to save the 45 minute video to watch another day and even then it won't get my full attention unfortunately. So gotta say, I like this video.

  • @rebelrot9398
    @rebelrot9398 5 лет назад +18276

    i feel sad that phil felt the need to hide this from us. all of the bullying against gingers really has an effect on people's lives.

  • @mishapenmoonmoth
    @mishapenmoonmoth 4 года назад +2275

    **wipes away tear** *it’s been 9 months and i’m still so proud of him*

    • @kailye1017
      @kailye1017 4 года назад +28

      **wipes away tear** its been a year, and i still think that it was just a fever dream that we all collectively had that dnp ACTUALLY came out

    • @mishapenmoonmoth
      @mishapenmoonmoth 4 года назад +7

      Logan Roof *imagine still being ignorant in 2020*

    • @lysscummins3881
      @lysscummins3881 4 года назад +1

      Logan Roof why are you mentioning politics...

    • @burnttoast6629
      @burnttoast6629 4 года назад +1

      OMG HELLO FELLOW 5SOS FAN-

    • @lysscummins3881
      @lysscummins3881 4 года назад +1

      Logan Roof but like.... it’s out of nowhere.. this is someone’s coming out video uh....

  • @soph7952
    @soph7952 5 лет назад +12602

    dans video: *describes his first crush in a beautiful and poetic way*
    phils video: hot shirtless surfer dude kiss me

  • @darkredeemer8
    @darkredeemer8 5 лет назад +1455

    Dan: makes forty-five minute video consisting of chapters/phases and rainbow motifs
    Phil: raps, jokes about making the video five seconds, and reveals his true hair color
    Both: Brave as hell and inspirational
    Congrats to both of you!

  • @claudiafernando9645
    @claudiafernando9645 5 лет назад +5742

    it's crazy how everyone sleeps differently, some sleep on their back, their side, their stomach, but all of yall sleep on phil's talent

    • @mayawhitaker7519
      @mayawhitaker7519 5 лет назад +18

      Claudia Fernando 👏👏👏

    • @isaahanderson5788
      @isaahanderson5788 5 лет назад +61

      louDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

    • @roroo
      @roroo 5 лет назад +18

      and that's just on that 🤧

    • @D4N4Y4
      @D4N4Y4 5 лет назад +4

      THIS IS AMAZING. LOUDER, LOUDER NOW!!

    • @malwaolejnik1366
      @malwaolejnik1366 5 лет назад +2

      oh big mood

  • @JayusChaos
    @JayusChaos 4 года назад +11028

    Phil: “I’m gay :3”
    Me: so proud of you for coming out!
    Phil: “my hair isn’t naturally black!”
    Me: OH SHI-

    • @peepeepoopoo2259
      @peepeepoopoo2259 4 года назад +337

      I was literally more surprised that his hair wasn’t naturally black than the fact that he’s gay, but I’m sure we were-

    • @trademistakes4439
      @trademistakes4439 4 года назад +15

      REMINGTON AND EMERSON !!!

    • @lostsouls1919
      @lostsouls1919 4 года назад +15

      Dan: a whole lecture

    • @milk_bread1592
      @milk_bread1592 4 года назад +4

      RUBBISH! (From the internet is here)

    • @tatianawifall9713
      @tatianawifall9713 4 года назад +6

      @JacketSlutThatsPalayeRoyaleObsessed we love some good palaye royale themed comments

  • @iluuvcheeze
    @iluuvcheeze 5 лет назад +2648

    Dan: 45:29
    Phil: 7:45
    Both valid, just people have different story's👌🏻

    • @hayleyz3578
      @hayleyz3578 5 лет назад +4

      stories*

    • @iluuvcheeze
      @iluuvcheeze 5 лет назад +1

      @@user-nv3sh5jh3p i think yes...? Well i hope so at least. Maybe next vid will be "giving the people what they want part 2"

    • @iluuvcheeze
      @iluuvcheeze 5 лет назад

      @@hayleyz3578 oops

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 5 лет назад +6

      Eugene: a whole ass dance number 🤣

  • @sundog_01
    @sundog_01 5 лет назад +2814

    Dan: *comes out in a 45 minute video, extremely emotional and informational*
    Phil: wig, same

  • @lilyfielding2462
    @lilyfielding2462 5 лет назад +1536

    I feel like there videos describe who they are, Phil is very energetic and somewhat comedic and Dan is a 50 minute long storyteller who wears sparkly jackets

  • @vibeyvibevibes
    @vibeyvibevibes 5 лет назад +845

    This whole video just radiates captain holt energy and I’m living for it

    • @mcbrodz1663
      @mcbrodz1663 4 года назад +6

      Holy Namjoon give jimin some jams not rly at all

    • @ctrlko0785
      @ctrlko0785 4 года назад +2

      Yes.

    • @Skate4Pls
      @Skate4Pls 4 года назад +10

      Ah yes, sideboob...
      This was super cringy cuz I like dudes

    • @avarobloxnoob
      @avarobloxnoob 4 года назад +1

      omg yes 😭😭

    • @AliAhmed-ms4fc
      @AliAhmed-ms4fc 4 года назад +4

      Phil read your comment in his recent video

  • @olliedied
    @olliedied 5 лет назад +15369

    Ive been waiting for him to admit his hair is naturally ginger for years god damn it

  • @beth7132
    @beth7132 5 лет назад +2720

    dan: *makes a 45 minute video which is v emotional but happy at the same time*
    phil: same

  • @scratchedcds
    @scratchedcds 5 лет назад +5995

    Dan:
    45 minutes of deep conversation about being accepted in a society
    _Phil: heyimgayitsprettygreatkbye_

  • @finnfire2038
    @finnfire2038 5 лет назад +3806

    When you suddenly remember Dan going on a 5 min rant on how he loved ginger hair

    • @tiffanyascencio9269
      @tiffanyascencio9269 4 года назад +17

      100th like:>

    • @finnfire2038
      @finnfire2038 4 года назад +19

      Tiffany Ascencio thx usually I don’t get passed 3

    • @clayrin52
      @clayrin52 4 года назад +139

      Didn't the guy he liked in his class have blue eyes too?

    • @foyi707
      @foyi707 4 года назад +81

      Isabel Weaver they didn't go to school together Phil is from the north Dan isnt stop shipping them theyre real people

    • @clayrin52
      @clayrin52 4 года назад +46

      @@foyi707 I know but in Dan's vid he talks about liking a boy with blue eyes

  • @frog_teef
    @frog_teef 5 лет назад +6683

    Dan: *45 minute emotional video*
    phil: so men are hot

  • @alycigelnik3231
    @alycigelnik3231 5 лет назад +1348

    honestly Phil following Dan’s 45 minute production with a 5 second clip on the last day of pride month would have been everything. This is still perfect tho

  • @b1nkbonk
    @b1nkbonk 5 лет назад +3325

    dan: hour long video, serious and professional.
    phil: memes himself and breaks knee on a door

    • @elizas7692
      @elizas7692 5 лет назад +5

      #2 in trending in America

    • @MnemonicHeadTrip
      @MnemonicHeadTrip 5 лет назад

      I wonder who’s telling the truth

    • @climbingstill9503
      @climbingstill9503 5 лет назад +2

      Dan: dark morose background
      Phil: positive and sweet white background

  • @laylawicks
    @laylawicks 5 лет назад +3566

    phil's friends: wow i wanna be him
    phil: wow i wanna kiss him
    phil's self induced homophobia: *stop, you have violated the law!*
    *edit*
    hi! so.. phil read this comment out in his coming out - a year later video. i just wanna let you guys know dan and phil are my heroes and i 100% love them and support with my whole heart. i'm so happy phil noticed my comment and i love him and dan so much. i thank them for being such an amazing inspiration to me and so many others in the fandom. i love u guys so much ✨

  • @nateuhhh
    @nateuhhh 5 лет назад +1990

    Phil, we still love you for who you are,
    hecking ginger-

    • @namelessghoulette6258
      @namelessghoulette6258 5 лет назад +7

      i feel personally attacked

    • @scholliski
      @scholliski 5 лет назад +10

      Is it bad that I laughed

    • @cecilia78065
      @cecilia78065 5 лет назад +5

      I'm sorry, I just don't see how it's seen as "acceptable" or something to be "celebrated". DESGOHSTAHNG

    • @yeehawjigsaw6579
      @yeehawjigsaw6579 5 лет назад +4

      @@cecilia78065 who doesn't know how to flush the toilet after they've done a *_SHET_* ?????
      *_-DISGOHSTANG-_*

  • @teddy3809
    @teddy3809 5 лет назад +3453

    dan: 45 mins
    Phil: 7 mins
    I feel like that sums up their personalities perfectly.

    • @haylyryanlilyjane
      @haylyryanlilyjane 5 лет назад +5

      Ahahaha totally agree!

    • @heyitsjazzi
      @heyitsjazzi 5 лет назад +4

      Hayly Ryan Lily Jane I wanted to comment something like this but you made it perfect so I’ll just agree 😂

    • @WTDU456
      @WTDU456 5 лет назад +1

      Daisy plocharczyk indeed it does

    • @Dee-iw5yq
      @Dee-iw5yq 5 лет назад

      Daisy plocharczyk 😂 true

    • @vera_nika2
      @vera_nika2 5 лет назад +2

      And I like them both for that.

  • @izzymcguire5518
    @izzymcguire5518 5 лет назад +7120

    dan: creates a whole documentary of his life and growing up and describes each phase of his life
    phil: i like guys

    • @cyisnotokay469
      @cyisnotokay469 5 лет назад +129

      honestly, im both lmaoo like one time I came out and I literally had a two-hour long convo about being trans and what it means and then like I told one of my friends and I was like "lmao I'm a dude he/him bitch"

    • @idontknowwhattonamemyaccou7086
      @idontknowwhattonamemyaccou7086 5 лет назад +60

      And they were both equally amazing!

    • @sofieturesson
      @sofieturesson 5 лет назад +25

      Hahaha yeah, to be fair though, Dan did have "more" to share about what had happened to him.

    • @alleycat2297
      @alleycat2297 5 лет назад +28

      he's just out here: i like Dudes. men. the male of the species. i like guys. i like. bros. very much. yes. dudes. bros. men. guys.

    • @martylovesu
      @martylovesu 5 лет назад +4

      tag urself im phil

  • @renward8789
    @renward8789 4 года назад +900

    bro this is what motivated me to come out to my dad. And he’s been super supportive! He even offered to buy me a binder which is a HUGE step from how he used to respond.

  • @pulchrachao
    @pulchrachao 5 лет назад +981

    "I thought I'd grow out of it"
    *voice deepens*
    I did not.
    I grew INTO it.

    • @haileybate5472
      @haileybate5472 5 лет назад

      Magical Soul ok but that was me once i finally accepted my sexuality

  • @lemon_bowl1667
    @lemon_bowl1667 5 лет назад +758

    “This isn’t my natural hair color...”
    GASP NO
    IM SHOOK

    • @annagraham6204
      @annagraham6204 2 года назад +1

      Coming out by Mel Lester. Rip his knees? Seriously doubt that.

  • @mira0h
    @mira0h 5 лет назад +4622

    _Don't worry Phil, we love you even if_
    *your hair is not naturally dark.*

    • @queenzaz3428
      @queenzaz3428 5 лет назад +8

      I like ur profial pic
      (Jimin)

    • @erikacharleston9135
      @erikacharleston9135 5 лет назад +3

      Lorena l I love your profile pic 😍

    • @lulululu0613
      @lulululu0613 5 лет назад +3

      nice icon

    • @lov3natii
      @lov3natii 5 лет назад +1

      Fellow jimin

    • @katiem7939
      @katiem7939 5 лет назад

      I know everyone else commented about ur profile pic but it is great

  • @leomrrsh
    @leomrrsh 4 года назад +928

    Me watching dans coming out: * crying intensify’s *
    Me watching Phil’s : * laughing intensifys *

  • @jessb7592
    @jessb7592 5 лет назад +989

    “I had some girlfriends”
    Correction
    “2 for awhile”
    Correction
    “One week each”

    • @miagillispie1177
      @miagillispie1177 5 лет назад +6

      Jess B
      me (a lesbian): i’ve had some boyfriends
      correction
      “2 boyfriends”
      correction
      “that both lasted a week at most”

  • @hedysf
    @hedysf 5 лет назад +4900

    Dan's hour long video: supportive and loving comments
    Phil's 7 minutes video: lol he ginger

  • @annabellekim4072
    @annabellekim4072 5 лет назад +5779

    Both videos are completely different, but both are masterpieces and fit their personalities completely.

  • @elizabeth.bolton
    @elizabeth.bolton 5 лет назад +607

    **phil drinking out of a vase** I have to tell you somethin

  • @valerienguyen7508
    @valerienguyen7508 5 лет назад +2102

    Wow when he said his video about his sexuality would be low-key and short, he wasn't kidding lol

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 5 лет назад +49

      That's why I like him though. He just doesn't make a big deal out of anything most people would make a bigger deal out of

    • @inuyashabombom
      @inuyashabombom 5 лет назад +9

      I love him

  • @rascally_fiend
    @rascally_fiend 5 лет назад +1801

    the fact that this isn’t trending is a federal crime

  • @parise.7197
    @parise.7197 5 лет назад +3193

    DAN AND PHILS VIDEOS ARE BOTH EQUALLY AMAZING AND WE SHOULD STILL RESPECT THEIR PRIVATE LIVES

  • @asafupps
    @asafupps 4 года назад +3711

    I came out to my mom by saying “i Am AtTrAcTeD tO tHe FeMaLeS”

    • @asthecrowflies8944
      @asthecrowflies8944 4 года назад +54

      I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC MORIARTY IS BEST

    • @asafupps
      @asafupps 4 года назад +18

      @@asthecrowflies8944 Aaaa! Thank youu

    • @daisy6545
      @daisy6545 4 года назад +149

      Me age 12: mum what if I liked girls
      My mum: just cause your friend does doesnt mean you do
      Me age 15 when a cute girl Walks in the room: *intense bisexual panic*

    • @matildamillard5321
      @matildamillard5321 4 года назад +9

      Moriarty ....... yes

    • @daisy6545
      @daisy6545 4 года назад +5

      Holy your pfp

  • @andreaaa_76
    @andreaaa_76 5 лет назад +5742

    Dan: *Super inspiring 45 minute video*
    Phil: *Chill 7 minute video*

  • @jasmine-km2lv
    @jasmine-km2lv 5 лет назад +12797

    girl: i bet hes thinking about other girls...
    phil: _so geography homework_

  • @miasky8026
    @miasky8026 5 лет назад +2638

    dan: makes emotional heartfelt video about him coming to terms with his sexuality
    phil: what up peeps i’m gAyayYy

  • @pikagirl283
    @pikagirl283 4 года назад +450

    I really admire Phil's straightforwardness, chill attitude and his one-of-a-kind creativity in this video
    but for real, I pressed the like button because he had the ultimately genius idea to add everyone into an MSN group chat to solve his problem. Shit, think how much drama for other people could be solved using the same way!!!

  • @laura-vq6zc
    @laura-vq6zc 5 лет назад +1553

    phil did have a "crush" on buffy, which is the gayest girl crush anyone could have

  • @tavvy7332
    @tavvy7332 5 лет назад +7763

    dan: posts a 45 minute long video talking about his pain and insecurities
    eugene: makes a breathtaking dance routine to express his own pain
    phil: yeehaw

    • @bagels3956
      @bagels3956 5 лет назад +158

      [Everyone liked that]

    • @madelynk.gilmore6939
      @madelynk.gilmore6939 5 лет назад +37

      I’m Phil

    • @alecowo785
      @alecowo785 5 лет назад +105

      They r all valid I'm v proud of them

    • @jayswizzy4252
      @jayswizzy4252 5 лет назад +52

      Lil nas: yeehaw

    • @rayrayisoncocaine8927
      @rayrayisoncocaine8927 5 лет назад +47

      it really doesn't have to be painful. for some people like phil it's just something that they realised about themselves and were able to share with the people around them that turned out to be supportive, unlike dan, for example, who wasn't that lucky and struggled a long time, so he has more to tell.

  • @kylecoleman6948
    @kylecoleman6948 5 лет назад +1675

    Phil’s video: *chill, funny, not meant to be super emotional*
    Me: *cries anyway*

  • @Cheeesters
    @Cheeesters 4 года назад +674

    Phil: The world is becoming a better place!
    2020: *exists*

    • @katedoesstuffs
      @katedoesstuffs 4 года назад +6

      BRUH

    • @real_lampcap
      @real_lampcap 4 года назад +1

      Oml bro 💀

    • @islawinley4676
      @islawinley4676 4 года назад +1

      brO

    • @gabsmazzon692
      @gabsmazzon692 4 года назад +6

      turns out the future wasn't so so bright

    • @real_lampcap
      @real_lampcap 4 года назад +7

      Bro you just got featured in Phil's new video. Lmao I was like I'm pretty sure I saw that comment b4 lol 😂

  • @annabellegrace206
    @annabellegrace206 5 лет назад +3824

    honestly, imagine if he only uploaded that 5 second clip of the cupboard, i would’ve still be as proud as i am right now watching this video

    • @alexgrace9217
      @alexgrace9217 5 лет назад +39

      I think the video would have been perfectly as good

    • @samisaviolet
      @samisaviolet 5 лет назад +2

      bellagrace SAMEE

    • @eggstronauts69
      @eggstronauts69 5 лет назад +19

      i remember joking about that happening in like 2014 so the demon phannie in me lowkey wishes he would've. i definitely enjoy this video having a bit more explanation though

    • @microwbird
      @microwbird 5 лет назад +6

      ah fuck i'd like your comment but you have 666 likes and I just can't ruin that

    • @tinaffable
      @tinaffable 5 лет назад +1

      That would have been a legendary video lol

  • @wafa6377
    @wafa6377 5 лет назад +10876

    Everyone on dans video: omg dan I’m crying so proud so poetic
    Everyone here: I KNEW HE WAS GINGER
    *so proud*

    • @toastjuice3687
      @toastjuice3687 5 лет назад +11

      Planetz *crafting

    • @annabelledodd-sutton3427
      @annabelledodd-sutton3427 5 лет назад +31

      Everyone here who has seen harry potter: OMG I KNEW HE WAS RON

    • @zenzudraws
      @zenzudraws 5 лет назад +1

      jack pls notice me lol that's amazing and just frickin awesome

    • @dududu185
      @dududu185 5 лет назад +2

      Just showing you how many likes you got

    • @maddie-ur6ig
      @maddie-ur6ig 5 лет назад +7

      you can't hide those ginger eyebrows from the world phil

  • @sydnyethescienceguy1059
    @sydnyethescienceguy1059 5 лет назад +1491

    Dan: posts 45 minute video going into deep detail about his childhood
    Phil: Man me too 🏳️‍🌈
    UPDATE // why does this have so many likes 0-0

  • @mabel6085
    @mabel6085 4 года назад +194

    a year since this video came out and it has really helped me accept who i am so thank you. so much. we love you Phil.

  • @formes.
    @formes. 5 лет назад +13116

    Girl: *leans into kiss*
    Phil: *high fives her face*

    • @samburgerhelper4753
      @samburgerhelper4753 5 лет назад +37

      Heeelium andioop

    • @lilyg4206
      @lilyg4206 5 лет назад +66

      “Oops”

    • @jasmina9453
      @jasmina9453 5 лет назад +119

      *phils mind* : I have my geography homework to do...yep I gotta go do it now

    • @zenzero6833
      @zenzero6833 5 лет назад +40

      He doesn’t slap. Just firm high five

    • @darwinfinch8900
      @darwinfinch8900 5 лет назад +58

      Like that part of the MCR music video for IM NOT OKAY (trust me). When Frank is about to kiss the cheerleader but then ends up picking something out if her eye and then just gets up and walks away

  • @anklyosaurus1666
    @anklyosaurus1666 5 лет назад +4263

    Dan: professional, emotional video eliminating homophobia in 45 minutes.
    Phil: kils his knee, makes his self into memes, and tells us about his hair.

    • @srisarvanichills5616
      @srisarvanichills5616 5 лет назад +43

      And vase

    • @pandapotato1617
      @pandapotato1617 4 года назад +9

      Dacey Marston I don’t think Dan eliminated homophobia, it’ll most likely always exist

    • @sherridow-singleton7681
      @sherridow-singleton7681 4 года назад +2

      @@pandapotato1617 facts he Weak as Hell

    • @forgemakesstuff2734
      @forgemakesstuff2734 4 года назад +7

      Dacey Marston
      And yet, somehow they both manage to make me happy in my cold, possibly bi soul

    • @tmyers951
      @tmyers951 4 года назад +1

      both are valid

  • @qualiie
    @qualiie 5 лет назад +11033

    dans video: 45 minutes
    phils video: 7 minutes
    the tea: *both are equally valid you sporks*

    • @taliab70
      @taliab70 5 лет назад +39

      I believe you mean *sporks not forks :)

    • @qualiie
      @qualiie 5 лет назад +9

      @@taliab70 yesss haha

    • @sol503
      @sol503 5 лет назад +11

      @little toad its a sPORK-

    • @jordyn2442
      @jordyn2442 5 лет назад +1

      little toad hahaha I thought of that too

    • @jackinblack19
      @jackinblack19 5 лет назад

      People who un ironically say “the tea” don’t deserve human rights

  • @m3tall1ca04
    @m3tall1ca04 4 года назад +156

    I'm so glad this is in my recommendations again
    Phil's video: *valid*
    Dan's video: *valid*

  • @maggotslvt
    @maggotslvt 5 лет назад +3415

    Dan’s video: love and acceptance and showing tons of love
    Phil’s video: ginger jokes

  • @yayitsria
    @yayitsria 5 лет назад +21251

    it’s fine phil we accept you even if you’re a ginger

  • @thejoyintrying
    @thejoyintrying 5 лет назад +4337

    "I wanted to go on an actual date" Phil lester, you wholesome bean

    • @elbear5000
      @elbear5000 5 лет назад +23

      He's so precious

    • @totorodud
      @totorodud 5 лет назад +1

      @@elbear5000 more than yeong gi?? :0

    • @ariaaaa
      @ariaaaa 5 лет назад +5

      Idk why but I read the phil Lester how Dan said how Phil was a genius In the impossible game

    • @thejoyintrying
      @thejoyintrying 5 лет назад

      @@ariaaaa Now I read it that way 😂😂😂

  • @boredtsarpunkfan6932
    @boredtsarpunkfan6932 4 года назад +455

    my friend and i found an article that said "it's okay if parents react poorly to their child being lgbt, they are mourning." exsqueeze me, neither of us died the moment we announced we like girls.

    • @thelivewiresofficial
      @thelivewiresofficial 4 года назад +58

      Yes we did. We died BECAUSE GIRLS ARE TOO GORGEOUS TO HANDLE

    • @reesegriffin7707
      @reesegriffin7707 4 года назад +13

      @@thelivewiresofficial HONESTLY THO

    • @rainbowangel5264
      @rainbowangel5264 3 года назад +5

      **me being straight** so... Do I leave the room or....

    • @TheLadyIntegra
      @TheLadyIntegra 2 года назад +2

      aren't they mourning their hypothetical biological grandkids?

    • @Sabrina-sc1db
      @Sabrina-sc1db 2 года назад +8

      @@TheLadyIntegra gay people can still have kids (sure not with their partner but they can still be biological for them, not to mention, even if you have a kid and isn't your blood, that's your kid, you're raising them)

  • @koreantrash9982
    @koreantrash9982 5 лет назад +1018

    Lmao all the comments about phil's ginger hair...
    But on a real note, lemme just stay that it's so beautiful how differently Dan, Eugene, and Phil came out in their videos. Different personalities all connected by a similar preference 💕

  • @mle_mae
    @mle_mae 5 лет назад +11955

    Also, this explains why Dan and Phil were so terrible at getting Dil a girlfriend in Sims.

  • @riphvnter
    @riphvnter 5 лет назад +3394

    i literally love how lowkey and casual this is, it’s actually quite comforting ❤️

    • @Zombae13
      @Zombae13 4 года назад +1

      I like your song 😎 you should do more 👌✌️

    • @annanapsyo1771
      @annanapsyo1771 4 года назад

      yes!
      also hi i love ur bass covers

  • @brayleemarlowe
    @brayleemarlowe 5 лет назад +649

    To the people who disliked this video, I am here to eat your shoulders

    • @oftheundersea
      @oftheundersea 5 лет назад +13

      uH-

    • @rowieowo
      @rowieowo 4 года назад +26

      I m h e r e t o u s e m y s k i n n i n g t o o l s c o m e b a c k p h i l i p

    • @kailawnder9742
      @kailawnder9742 4 года назад +19

      i just spat violently what have you done

    • @brayleemarlowe
      @brayleemarlowe 4 года назад +4

      Kitten Butts I’m so sorry

    • @morgolig6095
      @morgolig6095 4 года назад +15

      I a m h e r e t o e a t y o u r k n e e c a p s

  • @vannahmills6484
    @vannahmills6484 5 лет назад +839

    FIRST DAN. THEN EUGENE. NOW THE PLANT BOI!? yay.

  • @ro.3855
    @ro.3855 5 лет назад +1694

    Dan: beautiful, hour long video detailing his life 🖤🖤
    Phil: *breaks knee on the door*

  • @Me-pe8eb
    @Me-pe8eb 5 лет назад +1207

    I love how casual the video is. Like as if he's taking about his plants or something. It's super cool

  • @wing.dingding
    @wing.dingding 4 года назад +200

    I'm just realizing how sad it is that you missed the opportunity to just blow the announcement moose

  • @alexbazzelle377
    @alexbazzelle377 5 лет назад +792

    Phil's friends after he came out: "as long as you don't fancy me or anything"
    Phil, being the savage lad he is: "yeah you wish"

  • @heathergunn9235
    @heathergunn9235 5 лет назад +720

    Dan: comes out
    Me: oh okay
    Phil: comes out
    Me: oh okay

  • @milkteamachine
    @milkteamachine 5 лет назад +2933

    "WOw, that sideboob, wish I could see more"
    Phil, blending in seamlessly with the heteros.

    • @mynameisasecret5320
      @mynameisasecret5320 5 лет назад +16

      *exactly*

    • @robynlouiseearl5562
      @robynlouiseearl5562 5 лет назад +9

      milkamilla you say heteros as if we’re some sort of gang or cult lmao

    • @kitkat1321
      @kitkat1321 5 лет назад +17

      milkamilla Like Captain Holt off Brooklyn Nine Nine.

    • @jeannebrdt
      @jeannebrdt 5 лет назад +5

      Kitkat 13 had that exact image in my head

    • @milkteamachine
      @milkteamachine 5 лет назад +7

      @@robynlouiseearl5562 You mean, you aren't??

  • @kds02
    @kds02 10 месяцев назад +19

    the thumbnail is so unserious😭 it makes me chuckle every rewatch

  • @kimseungmin17
    @kimseungmin17 5 лет назад +5834

    Phil it was obvious my dude..
    your eyebrows been ginger, bud..

  • @tiredarchivist2703
    @tiredarchivist2703 5 лет назад +4817

    Proud of you Phil. I know how hard it is to live as a ginger

  • @wingedbunny6211
    @wingedbunny6211 5 лет назад +1413

    I love how both Dan and Phil made their videos special to themselves. They both reflect their personalities so well and are both works of art!

    • @sweeperboy
      @sweeperboy 5 лет назад +71

      Heh, agreed. I love how Phil left it to the very last day of Pride month and that it was a kinda "by the way" and "no big deal" type of video. It's SO Phil.

    • @mattthatratt
      @mattthatratt 5 лет назад +31

      I was thinking that and you're absolutely right. they're purely art just because of how special and personal they are, even for something they posted online for everyone to see. overall, both of them made me so proud of these guys and I'm so happy they have each other and I know they understand they have all of us too.

  • @pot-ay-topot-ah-to4325
    @pot-ay-topot-ah-to4325 4 года назад +109

    can we take a moment to appreciate phil? because phil deserves all the love we have. there are few people with a genuine heart of gold, but he has one. i’m a fairly recent dan and phil fan, but i’m here to stay. keep being beautiful, guys

  • @nova__4608
    @nova__4608 5 лет назад +10570

    Dan: *goes through emotional trauma and comes out*
    Phil:*gets drunk and comes out*

    • @leylinehowell3640
      @leylinehowell3640 5 лет назад +241

      There is two kind of people on this world😂😂😂

    • @nova__4608
      @nova__4608 5 лет назад +116

      @@leylinehowell3640 and the two kinds of people are Dan and Phil

    • @kokisaichi
      @kokisaichi 5 лет назад +185

      *_You're either a Dan or you're a Phil._*

    • @Whale-Shark-Katie
      @Whale-Shark-Katie 5 лет назад +17

      ZiggySparsh I’ll take Dan

    • @peterdaly00
      @peterdaly00 5 лет назад +35

      tag yourself im phil

  • @Yddet12345
    @Yddet12345 5 лет назад +1840

    Dan: 45 min very deep video
    Phil: 7 min short but amazing video

    • @rennarice3623
      @rennarice3623 5 лет назад +20

      Sums them up perfectly

    • @taikaj4804
      @taikaj4804 5 лет назад +9

      they dont call him AmazingPhil for nothin

    • @dylanmyszker9568
      @dylanmyszker9568 5 лет назад +3

      yddet1234567890. That’s why he’s Amazing Phil

    • @aracelijames1197
      @aracelijames1197 5 лет назад +3

      It honestly speaks to how their personalities differ

    • @bloochy7230
      @bloochy7230 5 лет назад +2

      I mean that 5 second clip would have been enough as well

  • @lemongutz9112
    @lemongutz9112 5 лет назад +3180

    how does he know if his hair goes ginger in the sun if he never goes outside? *confused noises*

    • @samievans6891
      @samievans6891 5 лет назад +73

      Maybe that's why he doesn't go outside...

    • @steviespark
      @steviespark 5 лет назад +19

      @@samievans6891 gasp

    • @Zara-fc8xq
      @Zara-fc8xq 5 лет назад +3

      Lemon Gutz true

    • @marianna380
      @marianna380 5 лет назад +2

      The noises your looking for are "hmmmmm"

    • @charlierocks
      @charlierocks 5 лет назад +1

      *Le gasp* your right!!

  • @hannahmuxlow3607
    @hannahmuxlow3607 5 лет назад +592

    The favourite time I came out, I was sitting at a table with some friends of mine during class and one guy was talking about going for his road test. I said, "Wow, you should totally drive me to lunch." His buddy was like "Oooh, you two, lunch together? *suggestive eyebrow raise*" I turned to him and said, "Josh honey, I'm a lesbian." We all laughed and I remember it fondly.

    • @kalyanigollamudi759
      @kalyanigollamudi759 4 года назад +32

      Aww, that’s sounds like such a sweet and casual way to come out!! Love this story.

    • @Error_180
      @Error_180 4 года назад +40

      the way i came out was:
      my friend group was playing 'sit on the pole' and someone said 'sit on the pole if youre gay' and i sat on the pole.

    • @kmations4049
      @kmations4049 4 года назад +20

      I was sitting at my table and i wanted to come out as bi and my friend was supporting me and talking me through it and last minute I shouted “IMBI” and they all just walked away from the lunch table and did their daily business and said “thats fine whatever”
      But my mom said she failed as a parent and said if the one I married was female she wouldn’t support it so fun 👍✌️

    • @tonydarcy7475
      @tonydarcy7475 4 года назад +13

      Wow. Usually I’m just having a conversation and one of my friends ask me a question about girls and I just awkwardly say “I’m actually gay” and they stare at me like I have two heads for about 5 seconds.

    • @RF-mc8cx
      @RF-mc8cx 4 года назад +9

      @Kmations
      I hope things improve for you! 💕

  • @veronicathompson257
    @veronicathompson257 5 лет назад +12444

    Dan: *has a whole documentary about his sexuality*
    Phil: I like men, cya later

    • @-v-4249
      @-v-4249 5 лет назад +44

      Right

    • @madelyn2064
      @madelyn2064 5 лет назад +130

      I love this, haha! Also, sooo proud of the both!! ❤💛💚💙💜

    • @lurker784
      @lurker784 5 лет назад +10

      Madelyn HAHAAHAHAHAH

    • @Doink935
      @Doink935 5 лет назад +9

      😂😂😂😭

    • @ravensteward40
      @ravensteward40 5 лет назад +8

      FOR REAL 😂

  • @shxlby2710
    @shxlby2710 5 лет назад +3785

    Dans video- super thoughtful and made me cry
    Phils video- made me smile nonstop

  • @seraph2208
    @seraph2208 5 лет назад +14654

    Dan’s video: Perfect video
    Phil’s video: Perfect video

    • @Etheletter300
      @Etheletter300 4 года назад +68

      Put it thougher: ya get a too perfect videos

    • @Khloe-ol1px
      @Khloe-ol1px 4 года назад +31

      @@Etheletter300 two*
      Sorry I had too

    • @frankisnot1148
      @frankisnot1148 4 года назад +16

      LOUDER

    • @nalinikratzin9334
      @nalinikratzin9334 4 года назад +33

      @@Khloe-ol1px well then I have to tell you: *to in your last sentence....

    • @Khloe-ol1px
      @Khloe-ol1px 4 года назад +18

      @@nalinikratzin9334 AHHH im a hypocrite

  • @user-ky5bv1se2y
    @user-ky5bv1se2y 4 года назад +248

    Phil: and I um *cough* spent the night alot
    Me: WHAT

  • @didibeck11
    @didibeck11 5 лет назад +3697

    dan: 45 min sad story read seriously
    phil: 15 min meme story of gayness

  • @Whitemocha-eg
    @Whitemocha-eg 5 лет назад +4526

    I can’t believe most people didn’t know Phil was ginger

    • @speni4
      @speni4 5 лет назад +21

      ikr

    • @anniebellec
      @anniebellec 5 лет назад +13

      Yeah I've literally known forever

    • @kelseyfriend1726
      @kelseyfriend1726 5 лет назад +31

      Eryn Ronaldson honestly yeah. Ginger roots in vids where his hair has grown out. Also the song from II where he says “he’s secretly a ginge”

    • @bianxanicole8395
      @bianxanicole8395 5 лет назад +50

      his eyebrows say it all

    • @bluejay8422
      @bluejay8422 5 лет назад +11

      @@kelseyfriend1726 Pretty sure he's referenced it a few times really fast?

  • @aneonomys7606
    @aneonomys7606 5 лет назад +2678

    Phil...
    We accept u...
    My best friend is a ginger too❤💛💚💙💜

    • @bunni3492
      @bunni3492 5 лет назад +1

      ane onomys my brother is lol

    • @MerkieAE
      @MerkieAE 5 лет назад +1

      100 likes a minutes wtf

    • @morganrhaye5758
      @morganrhaye5758 5 лет назад +1

      ane onomys I’m ginger, help

    • @Sarah239A
      @Sarah239A 5 лет назад +2

      My mom is, I just dye my hair red😜

    • @charlottebuxton2066
      @charlottebuxton2066 5 лет назад +1

      Sidenote I love how you missed the orange in the rainbow of hearts but the comment was about gingers (orange)

  • @j.oc05
    @j.oc05 4 года назад +81

    "The world is gradually becoming a better place." i'm wHEEZING

    • @schneckchenblau442
      @schneckchenblau442 3 года назад +2

      @Martha Speaks I mean have you lived through 2020 lol

    • @schneckchenblau442
      @schneckchenblau442 3 года назад +1

      @Martha Speaks Of course the present is most of the time better than most of the past; that is why the comment above was a joke Phil said "the world is becoming a better place" in context of self love and acceptance and then a lot of people made the joke taking the "the world is becoming a better place" out of context bc 2020 was compared to 2019 a total shitshow so in that context 2020 the world did barley become a better place.