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People Share Their Secret Anonymously (episode 6)
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"today is the two years anniversary of my failed suicide attempt"
speechless.
And grateful.
what a blessing. so proud of her.
I'm so happy for her
guys, it's my anniversary
me- congrats
of my failed suicide attempt
me again- .......
I no joke thought she said it was the 2 year anniversary of her FIANCES suicide attempt. And then freakin just smiles I was like what? haha. My bad.
I'm glad it's a failed attempt
Re: The woman who struggles with vanity, I really wanted her to turn around. I guarantee you she was beautiful.
I was thinking the same.
What is vanity?
Even if she isnt she should understand eveyone at 50 damn near ages besides most asians and TK Kirkland. I know i aint always gonna be handsome and thats cool with me at that point you take on your grandparent role
she hit the wall bruh
@@ladychat3739 Idk I want to know too ;-;
I feel for the Asian guy in the maroon shirt, who says his moms love for him depends on his achievements.
Definitely a woman, but not a mom!
How do you know that he’s Asian?
Edit: ffs people are still replying to my comment *4 months later?*
@@surge1993 you can tell by his hair, skin, and also many parents in Asian culture are similar to what he described.
@@mason4796 that can apply to any race
@@surge1993 and I’m saying it’s more common in Asian culture. I’m Asian. Please don’t try to twist this around to make me seem racist lmao
It's funny how everyone thinks that everybody else's life is perfect, when in reality eveyone is hurting and has secrets.
(Edit) Thank you for 1K likes!!!
This. This so much.
I'm glad I learned this by now and since I'm telling people more openly about weaknesses and struggels, people are way more real with me too. And that's awesome.
I don't think this is true. The majority of people are quite happy and issue free in their lives, and wouldn't really relate to any of this. Another large segment do have issues, but are blissfully lacking in self awareness. The people featured in these videos (and the audience of these videos) are the minority.
👍👍👍👍👍👍
sO SaD
I've personally never ever thought that everybody's life is perfect, to be human is to suffer
The woman who felt insecure about aging... Her beauty doesn't fade, beauty doesn't fade when you get older. You change but you are still beautiful. You just no longer correspond to the ideal of beauty from the media and society that exemplifies that you are only beautiful when you are young. Which is nonsense! Beauty is not about your age!
the wall
I'm really sorry but yes, beauty fades and there's no word that can counter this. This is just a fact. The proof is, she's struggling with it as many women do..
The problem is placing a woman worth in her external beauty, and only this. She lived all her life by being judged and probably judging others regarding physical beauty and now it's fading.. the key is to not do it. Embrace who you are no matter what, you'll both loose the vanity and being judgemental
No! Beauty only fades if you let it. I have seen MANY older, STUNNING woman. Just try, and yes embrace the age, but the beauty will never leave.
Men hit the wall too 🙄 lol
If you're 60, it's perfectly alright to look 60. Don't hide it. Own it. You're a winner in life; look at all the people that didn't make it that far.
The music: sad and depression
The guy talking: so I pissed in the tv and it exploded
Lol
Remember community guidelines no swearing please
Loool
@@shavaarorsolic5394 Do you think anybody would follow that? Everybody should be yourself.
I like how it started too he sounds really sad.
The girl who self harmed a day prior really hit me, I hope she’s fine
Yea same. I really hope shes ok.
Same.
*Can anyone update if she made it to New Zealand or Austria yet?*
Bitshtannica Johnson she’s talking about far-off life plans, not some immediate around the corner thing she had plane tickets for and all her stuff sold already
where in the video is this part bc i cant find it and think im losing my mind
Here's my secret : I hate aubergines
Me too. There isn’t really anything good about me they just know I’m shy so they compliment me rarely people ever mean it.
Gurl that’s just anxiety I got it too😂
@@saturniiiidae u just got anxiety but like me too👀
Everyone reading this you are beautiful. You are loved. Not all things are out of pity, bud,
Your beautiful 🤩
It's crazy how many people struggle with themselves. I really hope those kind humans are gonna be happy again.
Me too, that's how you know you're not alone.
everybody has struggles
Luisa T “every person you meet fights a battle, so be kind.”
honestly i believe everyone is struggling in their own way that's how life works genuenly don't know if I'm wrong
🥰
When the woman that is in love with her best friend said :”I’m not ready for anyone to know”. I felt that.
Jule _gss yeah i have the same problem
Me too
me- wait that's my best friend
friend-*tells secret*
me- *crying emotionally*
i told my best friend i liked her and about a month afterwards she just stopped talking to me..
I think I like my best friend but I know she's straight so...yAy
Her 16 year old said “embrace it. There’s nothing you can do to change it so love who you are. You are beautiful as you are” HELL YES!! Yes!
My secret is:
I've lost myself and don't know who i am anymore. I'm to the point i don't even trust myself. I feel like one day everyone's going to see I'm slowly losing my mind and leave me... I'm terrified that I'll never know who i am and neither will anyone else.
Search for something which you are having fun with and dont think about what others think about you most people will simply forget you and therefore wont judge you.
But after all there is someone who cares about you, the savior of your life.
Look in the mirror.
Ok, one day ur gonna love urself, I can feel it. I get that there’s also the situation where you don’t wanna love urself and don’t wanna trust urself and I get that. But just remember. I love you ❤️
I had this similar problem. I used to watch videos all day long whenever I had time and after years, after living through the screen only the life of other’s I was so confused, i didn`t know I was anymore.
If this or something similar is happening to you I suggest you to stop with the habit that is keeping you from feeling boredom. Embrace boredom and let it guide you towards what intrigue you. I had to stop using almost all internet for more than a month to get somewhere. It wasn’t easy but trust me, it’s worth it.
Wtf
U are who u are
U have a name and u live
Idk why ppl can't love themselves
@@mzin536 people can't love themselves when they've faced the amount of trauma they have in their life. Some of us look in the mirror and can't even recognize ourselves. It's not about loving ourselves it's about not recognizing ourselves
Hearing people tell their secrets makes me feel more accepted and less ashamed of being myself.
You have the same profile picture as my school email account
@@sushicat3576 it is
That's right, it turns out we are all on the same boat.
same
Me too
Huge respect for that 16 year-old daughter that told her mother to embrace her beauty and who she is. We will all look different when we grow but that won't change anything because we're all beautiful human beings.
the wall
Yes and I believe that are Beauty dose not fade because we are all always beautiful/handsome in are own ways
:’)
she commented and saw the video!
Ikr it made me cry
that girl who said she was selfish is so amazing being able to recognise a problem is extremely hard and also accepting it and trying to fix it is incredible
I honestly wonder if she really is "selfish", though. That term is very subjective as it is, but also, some people have unrealistically high expectations of themselves when it comes to how much they should put others first and how "good" of a person they are. This can also be furthered by certain religious teachings and upbringings. So she may be less "selfish" than other people yet just think she is particularly selfish.
Thank you. As someone who's recognized so many issues within the last 2 years about myself, ive never been more determined to change. And have been!
The woman who said she wanted to die when her brother did. THAT BROKE ME. I’ve been in that exact situation and felt the same. Happened in 2012 and sometimes I still feel that way.
Me too! My brother passed in 2012 as well...i remember looking into the mirror after hearing the tragic news and freaking out because we look so much alike. He was like a limb i lost that day. i'm sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry.
Me too. My brother passed away in 2009 and when I heard about it I felt like my world ended that day. I just wanted to die with him. He was my favorite person in the world and I still feel that hole inside of me that his death left me.
Mine died in 1989 right before I turned19. I felt the same way.
I'm sorry for All of the people in this comment section. I hope you all are better now your brother/sister/relative/friend or WHOEVER has passed away. Stay strong
I feel so bad for the guy who has trust issues with his mum :(
I know someone just like his mom I feel really bad for him
hes probably asian. I;m asian and I also have issues with my mom. I know she loves me but, whenever I don't get good grades or not as good grades as my sisters she will always make me feel bad about myself. I know she is just trying to push me to do better but still it hurts to be compared with your sisters, knowing you'll never be good enough. Recently she has stopped doing that, but it just hurts even more because I feel like she has given up on me.
mei redmond i relate i dont have sisters but recently my older cousin got 97.7 in 10th grade boards and she just wants me too get 97.8 nothing less
Apparantly she wants me to get the most marks scored in boards in the whole family title
And i am here wanting to be a hollywood actor but she doesnt want me too
She doesnt think i can do it
Mahi Singhvi Same here
My cousin brother got 96%marks in boards and my mom wants me to get 97%or above than him. (I'm not so good in studies ).
I really don't want to be a doctor which my mom wants me to become. My dream is to become a dancer. I don't think she will ever accept it
Vandana kumari ik it is really sad tbh
my secret is that I feel lonely. I wish I had close friendships and a good relationship with my family and I envy those who do.
Maybe focus on yourself, learn to self love and do self care❤ treat yourself, it feels amazing! Go have a spa day for yourself, random vacation and explore the world(safely and with precaution). Life is too short to worry about everything, spoil yourself and maybe along the way you'll find out new things about yourself! Best of luck😃
I don’t know if you’ll see this, but I can be your friend. I know how it feels being lonely and no one deserves to feel that way. If not, I hope you find a good and close friend who loves you. Be yourself and that’s what makes you unique.
You are not alone !!!
Same here. That's why I don't use Facebook.
that’s why I avoid social media
My secret is that I'm only alive for my son. I've been severely depressed since my ex wife left me
One of my close friends committed suicide about 1 year ago. I struggled with that burden ever since, wishing that he knew someone cared enough and always feeling guilty over his death. Even if it for your son get help
Please open up to someone, get help
Please get help 🙏
Thank God for your son!! Happy you still alive
@@BG-pr1rx thank you ❤️
I don´t think that beauty fades. It just changes.
I think beauty fades. With each child, I become less beautiful. Unlike the woman, I dont struggle with it. I just know with birth there's death
super cute outlook
There's peak beauty in a mainstream sense.
Oh my God you're genius
Why is nobody talking about the guy who said that it feels like he's in a hole that's soon will swallow him? I started to cry by this, I hope with all my heart that he gets the help he needs
i also cried because for me it hit close to home😔
@@iam.anastasiaa Yeah, I've felt that way too. But I hope you're getting the support you need and doing okay with everything going on and also staying safe. We don't know eachother but if you need someone to talk to I'm here❤(Instagram: Wilmahelin).
Yeah that touched me on a personal level
oh my god..... thst just shook me!!!
@Ivan Snyder yeah..
And I know you put weak between quotation marks but I just want to clarify to everyone; feeling like this or admiting it is not weak or even a sign of weakness! It's really strong to be able to ask for help or open up about it, but at the same time you're not weak if you don't feel like you're ready to talk about it either. You take it in your own time but I really advice everybody to try and talk to someone, even if it's a stranger or someone close to you, just someone, I know how hard it can be but it helps ♡
"When my brother died, i wanted to die too"
That one really hit me
My big brother and best friend died two years ago, my mom passed 3 months later... I'm still miserable.
Chrissy Killarney im so sorry. I cant even imagine
Thanks. Really, it means a lot.
Same
My twin sister passed away. I definitely understand this. I’m ok, but it’s a struggle at times.
I honestly feel like humanity has gotten so bad that a 49-year-old doesn't even feel comfortable or pretty enough in her own skin. It's so sad. One mean thing can ruin someone else's life and people struggle.
It’s her fault for being vain, stop being so full of yourself…
@@dolph8008 bro what? Did we watch the same video? How tf was that your takeaway
I honestly feel like throughout history it's been a struggle, not just now. But there's more messages out there and with social media and all the ads for how youre supposed to look it's made it additionally harder to accept ourselves. Aging seems hard for a lot of people.
@@user-ds8yj6hc6vshe literally said she struggled with vanity. Stop being so obsessed with your image. To the point you get emotional about it? Ridiculous
@@dolph8008 maybe because society pressures women about their looks? Maybe cause girls growing up are told they need to dress and act a certain way to be feminine, attractive, desirable? Looks matter. Sure we don’t wanna admit it cause it sucks ass but they do. People judge you first by your appearance. Women who are aging and go through natural processes and wrinkle are made to feel ugly and unloved as well. Makeup is marketed to cover those things because it’s seen as something to be ashamed of. Sorry it upsets her I guess
The two year anniversary of a failed suicide attempt and she still has the intestinal fortitude to turn around and show her face, speaks more than volumes. I bet she has a novels worth of information to share. What you do with your channel is more than inspirational, it's emotional and amazing. Thank you for letting these people share their stories and hardships. It makes it easier for those of us going through hardships to accept we aren't alone. 💝
I may not be in front of that microphone but I would still like to share my story: When I was twelve years old my dad went away with friends for a weekend, he was in Spain. My mom was out for dinner with friends and I had to eat dinner with my fifteen year old sister. We had a fight at the dinnertable and then she want upstairs to take a bath. When I was sitting on our couch downstairs I got a text from her saying: “ I’m sorry I’m always so mean to you, I love you!” At the time I was a mad twelve year old and I was so stubborn that I did not want to say sorry to her so I replied saying: “ok”. She slit her wrists in the bathtub. I’m struggling keeping the thoughts that it was my fault under. It turned out she was dealing with depression. I would do anything to say I love you one last time.
Nonono I'm sorry I know u don't know me, but I hope your ok and living a good life
I’m sorry.
It’s not your fault.
Its not your fault, sorry it happened to you, i hope she is in a better place now
Thank you guys! ❤️
I feel bad for the all the people that have mental illness.
When you live in a primarily toxic society, it's normal.
It is pain man.. it’s torturing and some people can’t see it and don’t understand it. My secret is that everyday I wanna commit suicide but I just can’t. My family.
I've not had it confirmed, but I'm 100% sure that I have GAD. It's so hard worrying about anything and everything all the time. I can't remember any time that I was relaxed and not tense.
I'm lucky to not have any life threatening mental illnesses and to those who do have it please just read what I have to say.
Whatever is causing it, just remember the hardest part is dealing with it. The feeling you'll get when you beat it is the best feeling you'll ever experience.
It may not seem like it, but billions of people want you to succeed. You matter and life is the best gift you've ever gotten
Barack Obama I’m in the exact same situation
GamingX Smoking please don’t do that man. I know I’ll be another person saying “don’t do it,” but please don’t commit bro. There is so much more to life than killing yourself. I hope you get through it man. I’m here for you. 🖤🙏🏼
the woman that struggles with vanity is a great example of why we as a society should move away from beauty being interconnected with self worth. beauty is a commodity and it isn’t alway a great investment. i.e not everybody is beautiful but everybody is valid.
I love how the daughter told her mother to embrace it rather than telling her sweet nothings to comfort her. She was blunt, and it helped.
“When my brother died I wanted to die with him too” that one was hard to hear 🥺
yes. It hurt.
I am sending you love and healing 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i cried
❤️❤️
Aryana Bonds in so, so sorry❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭sending prayers
To the woman that's talking about getting older and not being comfortable with herself I can only pray that my daughter will be exactly like yours she sounds like a charm!
i understand that this 16 year old daughter may be great example of a daughter but please try and embrace and love your own daughter for who she is and not what or who she could be. I am 16 and in a few years will be starting my first job in a nursery,although i am going into studying my a level subjects I understand based on my training and research up to now but also being a teenager myself that every child needs to be appreciated. So please go to your son/daughter and tell them"You are a gem" and give them a nice,loving hug. To me this is exactly what parenting should be.
@@shivaspillai8128 my daughter is more than a gem. She is the best living being on this planet!
@@shivaspillai8128 and I tell her everyday that she loved and beautiful. She is only 2
@@shivaspillai8128 I'm 22 and I have 2 brothers. 17 and 15. You know what? I'm proud of them and I'm proud of you. I was exchange student in USA last year. I supposed to go back this June but Unfortunately, Mr. Trump suspended the visas so I'm very disappointed because Internship is very important for me. That's for my future. But I think God has a better plans and Life goes on. One failure can't stop me for my dreams. You're still young and you're very right. All parents should be more affectionate to their childrens.
@@shivaspillai8128 don't ever tell me that I don't embrace my own. I do others too.
2:38 really hit home. I’m turning 20 soon and so my age isn’t the issue but never feeling beautiful is definitely one of them. For as long as I can remember I have felt ugly and idk where those insecurities started. But her message was definitely appreciated. Embrace who you are at every moment.
Hi I’m Nathan and I’m 14, my secret is that I just feel really lonely inside and that all the people around me don’t really love me, and I just always feel depressed. It’s something I never told anyone cause I’m always afraid and just never no how to say it, so I hope saying it here will just help me a little, if anyone sees this thank you for taking the time to hear my story. ❤️
hey nathan. just know that there are people out there that care for you
Im sure there is atleast ONE person who loves you! If its not family member, it can be a friend or anybody else. But Im sure someone loves you!
Hi Nathan 🤗🤗🤗
i honestly believe the aging "non-beautiful" woman was actually very beautiful.
U cant see her
@@discoszn6403 That's the point lol
But she didnt show Her face
@Minimal that's what I was thinking; this is quite shallow and sad that's she doesn't see herself as beautiful inside.
beauty isn't just the outside y'all
My secret is, I was sexually assaulted as a child, and instead of being afraid of sex, it made me want to have more and more, and I grew up having hypersexuality, porn addiction, alcool, drug and ptsd. I've slept with many people compulsively, it was like a drug I needed, but after it made me feel more depressed, ashamed of myself and self-loathing for years. I'm in an healthy relationship now, knowing it was a totally normal way of dealing with trauma, but sometimes still feel ashamed, it's very hard to forgive myself, just trying to live in the present moment
wow, God bless you 💖 you can get three this
You are beautiful, you are strong , you are brave .. keep your head up .. I know what you’re going through . I believe in you . Peace ✌️
IM sorry to hear that
You are STRONG and you are an amazing person to find it in you to stop. Quitting from having an addiction is extremely hard and Finding it in you to own up for it is a very courageous act. You are an inspiration to all who have been in your place and as you continue to share your story, you will be helping people who are lost, and afraid.......YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!
Here is a heart for you: ♥️
my secret is:
my dad doesn't know that i know he's been smoking for the last 2 years, even though he lied to me saying he quit
That's a hard one
same
Damn
I spent 6 years begging him to stop, and he did. Now he uses it as an excuse for his extreme drinking problem
my dad does too,
i was crying and told my mom that i didn’t want him to die, so he should quit. then he walked in and heard it.
i was so embarrassed and she said “well, tell him that then.” i did, and he was so embarrassed too. to this day he still hasn’t quit.
my secret is that: i struggle, with anxiety and i am struggling with school and my family, and i feel like i am stuck in a big black whole and i cant get out. I also have another secret, for the last 4 years, i have liked my bestfriend.. 🙂
makenna west hole *** and I’m soo sorry 🥺🥺🥺 I hope you get better...time
Hi. I hope you have someone you can talk to. Some possibilities:
- friends
- counselling teacher
- therapist
- if your country has it: an anonymous helpline you can call
holy shit I’m in the exact same situation, including the best friend part
The man speaking about feeling like his mother’s love is only “ conditional” really hit me in the heart.
I guess he was Asian
Asian parents love is "sometimes" conditional which is very common here!
I relate. The second i came out as transgender to my moms family her love was gone. She started abusing me emotionally and isolating me from friends. Before I came out to her side of the family she could ignore it but now she can’t. But I know that once I leave I’ll be happier and if she gets on the train or stays at the train station but I’ll be happy no matter what.
I know... asian parents.
Please don’t think I’m racist I have asian parents who do this too, but I fortunately know they still love me
@@flimsyenthusiasm5769 I am so sorry. Hopefully you will be able to leave soon (if you have t already) 💖
Conditional love is NOT love. I sincerely hope for your sake that you will be able to find the strength and courage to be yourself and to do what makes YOU happy. Your life belongs to YOU! Regarding love: Love yourself first and foremost.
My secret is that I'm scared to show people I love them.
Don't, give all the love possible, you have an endless amount of it! Sometimes you may not get it back, but it feels so good to give it and who knows, with all the love you give you might convince someone to keep it going!
This Is the first time I see someone I can finally relate to on that one. Ashley
Me too 😔
It's because you're young! The more you live...the more you'll want to make up for any mistakes/resistance. Also, we should be careful, sometimes! 😁
@@ashh8893 it's an Ashley thing I guess😕
The 49 year old woman just stirred something inside of me. I relate. I’m only 27 but I’ve had whatever the opposite of a glow up is in adulthood. My nose kept growing, I developed acne for the first time in my life in my mid-20’s, my legs just keep getting fatter, etc. I feel like I peaked at 21, looks wise, and man that fucking sucks because I’m still young but it also fucking sucks because I hate that it’s forced me to realize that I was vain and didn’t realize it. I was insecure at 21, I didn’t thing I was super pretty or anything, but looking back now I was super confident compared to now. I thought I was average then, I didn’t realize it could get worse.
This videos actually teach me how to never judge people and always be kind to them no matter what they are and do
Aw the food lady was beautiful and radiant!!! 💕
yes she was 🥺♡︎
I agree
ill remain anonymous
*walks joyfully*
Stop
She's gorgeous
the last girl: "he looks sexier in new clothes"
Thoraya: "Imagine how sexy he'd look in our merch"
Hahaha 🤣🤣
My secret: My dog has been run over and eaten a bunch of chocolate stuff and is still alive. So what I'm trying to say is my dog is actually god
The FBI wants to know your location
Seriously though, dogs are tough cookies. My dog ate chocolate and tinfoil, and once got bit in the tongue so hard it was basically pierced. From what I heard, there was a ton of blood everywhere.
Á Ĺ Ļ H Ă Ï Ł J Ë Ş Û Ş Đ Ø Ğ
My dog ate a rock while monching on grass.. He is alive and looks healthy lol
Dog=God
My secret is that :
In 2006 I move from Oregon to Maryland, I told my dad I was going back for a few months to my country to visit my mother and I will be back to live with my aunt in California after that . He drove me to the airport, we said good bye and he left me there. I Took the flight to Maryland and disappeared for 11 years, but before all this happened I met this guy in a chat room and we started to call each other every night, eventually I decided that I don't want to live with my father and half sisters which I never seen before coming to the US. So I talked to this guy and I explain that I hate living with my dad and his family. I tell him that I need to get the fuck out of that house He said that I can come live with him....I started to gather all my belongings and even throw things I won't need in the garbage, and mailed all my clothing and stuff to him. So when I took that flight I just had this carry on bag and a backpack. I literally disappeared! My mom and dad didn't know where I was or anything. Then I arrived to BWI airport and the guy was there waiting for me......we got married in 2007 and still together to this day, It wasn't until 2018 that I reached my father and told him that I'm fine, I'm not death and that I got married and had a baby. He was shocked because he thought that I was a lesbian just because I loved T.a.t.U music and I was really weird and liked strange things....Yes sure he probably imagined myself being lesbian for 11 years going from girl to girl and doing drugs or whatever crazy scenario of my life. But I'm happy Healthy and I still don't want him or anyone from that family next to me. I never had him in my childhood, I don't know that to have a father is because I never had a father figure or protection. I didn't need him in my teen years I don't want him in my adult life.
You’re really brave for explaining your story (yes i read all of it). also good job sticking it out in your marriage. i hope you are doing well and staying safe through quarantine 💗
@@iam.anastasiaa Yes, Thank you... You Be safe and sound too ,❤️❤️❤️
Oh thats a cool story
God bless you you are so brave to make that decision I hope you and your husband together with your baby live a happy healthy long life 💝🥰
@@ohnolarzy Thank you... 😊❤️
So is nobody going to talk about the guy who peed his TV?
i felt so bad for laughing but that secret had me SCREAMING
Hahahaa I was with full attention listening to all rather more not funny but like secrets that make us realize life is not easy and a struggle etc until he started saying his, and I just started laughing out. Hahaha, that timing...
Haha yes I was about to cry with all the stories and then the pee story made me laugh so much 🤣
giggle
RIGHT!! 😂😂😂 i don’t rlly know if i should laugh or not 😂
I love you all! I hope you are doing well and staying safe
You too :)
You too!!
:)
Thoraya Maronesy yup
YOU too!
Your videos impact us all thank you
My secret is that I'm depressed but people think I'm the most happiest person out there.
I had a good friend just like you, lost him 1 year ago. Stay strong and keep fighting the depression
I heard a quote saying "The people who are most understanding are often the ones most hurt."
How you doin now?
these videos remind me that I'm not the only one struggling
the guy that said he has trust issues with his mum , i have that too :(
edit : thanks for the likes 🥺🥺 ily all 🥰
irizxo you will get through it! I believe in you!
everyone can relate, but im sorry if it's really tough for you💜
Yeah same with me :(
me too
Me too ♥️
The fact that girl acknowledges she’s selfish is a good step foward
I am an older person who has mistakenly thought that all these beautiful young people couldn't have a care in the world. I now weep for all the hurt and harm these people have gone through, or continue to go through. If you're reading this, I applaud your courage!
I’m in love with my best friend but when I told her she reacted bad so I told her it was a joke. I’m lesbian btw and I just want someone out there that understands me
That must've felt terrible! I hope you're doing okay, stay strong
I'm so sorry you had to experience that! I hope your feeling better
7:35 the way she says “i will...remain anonymous” and walks off had me rolling
Sameee dude
The girl who said that she’s really selfish even though it may not seem like it and she’s trying to fix that every day really spoke to me because I struggle with that too.
Apparently, people who think that they are selfish are actually the least selfish of all.
JenzAr unfortunately that isn’t the case for me 😂
I can relate, I know I am really selfish and I try to hide it but at the same time, I don't want to change it. It's weird.
Same, and all of my friends think I’m such a good person when I know that’s not true at all 💔
@@dinkylinky2552 selfish how though? Being selfish is a bad trait to have but I want to know the full story
Honestly I knew everyone struggled with something behind closed doors, but it's so heartbreaking hearing the pain in their voices... I'm a writer, so I am always looking for inspiration and always give my characters a bad life because no one is perfect and nobody has perfect lives. But actually hearing the emotion in people is different than writing it
Everyone: self stories
One guy: I PEED IN A TV
The girl in the blue hoodie..turned sideways, thinking she should show her face, decided against it ❣️
When
@@misatoholic 5:45
Wicked Jester chill 🙄
@Wicked Jester Why
What is weong with this comment section?
I would be way to scared cause I feel like people I know would still recognize me even if I don't turn around.
i do think about that. has anyone ever questioned one of these people who walk away. i would prob show my face but it would depend it what i said.
Even if they do know its you hopefully they take the time to sympathize with you rather than attack you
Yeah, they could look at their hair and their clothes and people who know them watching could think, “Hey, so-and-so wears that.”
@@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 Especially if you have tattoos
And could probably tell by voices too
my secret is that i struggle with a lot of anxiety and it’s only gotten worse but i’m too afraid to ask my mom to see a counselor. also my brothers think that i fake it for attention
Don’t be afraid, you are strong! I want you to fight your anxiety with 110% effort!! I believe in you!
thanks, i feel nice to have people cheering me on. and btw i did reach out to my school counselor and i hope that it will stop soon
@@iwishiwerealexturner4449 I hope so too! I’m slowly getting more mental health issues but helping other people feel better makes me feel better.
@@shfhjdhdudyevrv yeah, i’m sorry that your mental health is slowly decreasing, it’s sad watching yourself and others mental health just plummet and i know that my friends were concerned about me and they wanted me to get help. they saw my pain and wanted me to feel better. i don’t know how old you are but i’m 13 and i just wanna say that life sucks and it’s painful to go through all of this crap that’s in your head.
@@iwishiwerealexturner4449 luckily it’s not too bad. I’ve just been getting a little more paranoid and insecure but I’ve been feeling better today so hopefully I stay in a good mood! The holidays are coming up so I’m pretty happy!
Wow this project is so brilliant! For the first time I fully get the concept of common humanity. It's powerful to get to know people's stories, feels like such a privilege. Thank you to those who shared, thank you Thoraya for your effort in connecting people👏👏
To the girl who doesn’t have contact with her dad: my daughter hasn’t responded to me in 6 months. I wait every minute of every day for her. Reach out, time is wasting.
Do you realize how many women hold their children away from the father's. There's millions of father's that would love to see their kids but cant. Until they have a social media presence there's not a whole lot a lot of them can do about it. Even then most kids are so brainwashed against them. I never knew my father. My mom always demonized him for leaving growing up. Her side was that she got pregnant and as soon as he found out he disappeared. He went back to Mexico to be with his real family she said. From talking to older family members that were adults at the time I found out that he was actually around when I was a baby. Apparently my mom was screwing his 3 or 4 roommates as well because he refused to marry her. ( can't imagine why) He left because he didn't think I was his. I have extremely vague memories of going in for a DNA test. I know the state it was issued in as of current will only put a fathers name if he signs an affidavit himself, is married to the mother, or there's a positive match DNA test. I never seen my birth certificate until I turned 18 and got my drivers license I was so surprised that there was a name in the father slot.... It's a rather common first last name and there's no middle name. I want to find him so bad but I have no idea where to look. I was told that when I was about 12-13 that he had come seeking me through the courts by my step dad. He was also grooming me at the time my mother never mentioned a word to me about it. So I have no idea if it's even true or if it was just a grooming mind game. I'm so fucked up by my moms deceit. 15 years later at the age of 28 I can't stop thinking if he came to me and if so why she wouldn't even allow us to meet. But at the same time I hadn't asked anyone else about my baby years. It wasn't until my senior year of high school I actually asked about my dad we hadn't talked about him since I was little. More or less when I went to school and realized father's day was a thing and I was like " what?! These other kids have moms AND dads?" Anyways as soon as I brought it up her whole body stiffened she turned around asked "why?" I knew I wasn't gonna get any answers. Believe me when I say the military could not get the truth out of this woman. I once made reference to the perm she had when I was in 5th grade that she did AT HOME I helped take the rods out even. She was adamant she has never had a perm even when I went and found a picture of her with it and showed her she still denied ever having a perm in her life. The only hope that I have at this point is mailing in tubes of spit to various websites and hoping and praying that a family member on his side does as well. For all I know maybe that's all the hope the other side has too
Why don’t you reach out?
@sarah j. I never knew my dad until I was 14. The first 7 years, my mom and grandmother sent his parents letters, but they kept it from him. They kept the fact he had a daughter from him. After he did know, he felt too shy and nervous to get to know me or reach out. My dad felt like that I wouldn't want to know him after all these years, or felt like I wouldn't accept him later on, because he wasn't there at first. It wouldn't have been true, but my dad is a kinda shy man, so I understand those years. The reason we now know each other is because his now wife pushed him to get to know me.
It's not always the fault of the parent that doesn't have contact with the child, sometimes it's their family, or girl- or boyfriend that keeps them away for selfish reasons. My dad and I have a great connection, but his parents (they're not worth being called my grandparents) still act as if I don't exist
My dad seems like he doesn’t really care for me so I don’t text him anymore but all I have to say is that You should text her or call her because that will make her day..
I wish I would have reached out more to my father. Now I really regret not doing it because he passed away a month ago and I wish I could see him one more time
Everyone: I’m gay. I hate my parents. I don’t believe in my family’s religion. I attempted suicide. I’m leaving my husband.
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The one guy: My TV exploded because I pee’d on it.
that other guy: *so i got a butt tattoo*
I thought the same thing.. lol, but.. it's a free space right??
that guy: there’s tequila in my drink
NO ONE BETTER LIKE THIS COMMENT MORE IT'S AT 420!
Yeah the guys sure took it far less seriously than the women.
My secret is that I struggle staying alive and doing simple things. I distance myself socially, but at the same time I just need a hug. I’m distancing myself because I want to die. I don’t want to be a burden anymore. The only thing that I’ll do before dying, is having the chance to hug someone again.
hug
i hug you, i love you. i’m with you ❤️
@@nyxx_0077 Thanks that helps
To the man struggling with his mother: I feel this. My mother died a few years ago and I used to believe when she died the problem would die with her. It didn’t. I had to work hard to forgive her. It took a year and a half of prayer/meditation. You can set boundaries and free yourself now. I feel like I wasted so much of my life chasing love I was never going to get. Sending ❤.
My secret is that....
I don't know how to be myself. Every time I try, I get scared and say what I think people would like me to say.
Are you young? I was the same way when I was in middle school. And then in high school I just stopped caring. Well I always was myself but I always was super scared about what people think. These days I don't give 2 shits because if those people judge you on you being yourself then you shouldn't care about their opinion in the first place. And if ur a dude I'd workout, people seem a bit reluctant to make fun of you then haha
It gets easier with age. I'm 30 and I find it much easier now than I did 10 years ago. Hang in there.
I cried while reading this. I feel the same way. It’s come to the point where I don’t even know who I am anymore. If you ever met me in person you would see the character traits of everyone of my past friends, but you wouldn’t see me. I have no idea how to act like myself, so I try so hard to copy others and be popular, but I’m still a piece of shit, and people still hate me and I still hate me.
That’s my secret
@@gracesmyth8561 try to discover yourself. See what kinds of things you like. Try hobbies. Ignore judgy peoples opinions. How do they affect you? Overall just don't try. Just make everything a natural response, don't think about what you're going to have to fake. I'm still dealing with self hate, though i have to say, I think its pretty common. We know ourselves the most, of course we dislike everything about us the most. I've been dealing with this weird feeling that I'm better than everyone else (which is toxic) and that im worse than everyone at the same time (which is even worse). The point I'm trying to make is that you will judge yourself harsher than anything else. You want to be perfect, who doesn't. But we shouldn't compare ourselves to other people and if those people don't like you for who you naturally are, then fuck em and leave.
Zain thank you so much 🥺I’m working on it, and things are sorta getting better
My secret is that I’m afraid that no one will ever love me like I love people and that I’m secretly hurting bc I give out a ton of advice and I’m kinda like the person everyone runs to for advice and I can’t give any out anymore bc I’m burnt out... I have so many more
I know how you feel I've been there. Sometimes it's hard to hold it together. I know with myself I dont really show my emotions or struggles atleast not completely, never really feels like other people care. But keep on being a good person and you'll find happiness and contentment I'm sure of it
Girll
This is me
You gotta realise that people like us who always give out (great) advice have a superpower, which is we rarely need to rely on anyone else for profound insight on our issues and problems. In other words we can be our own therapist and hold our own without rely on other's council.
I've currently cut off all the people in my life whom I give advice to because they don't ever follow it which frustrates me. I'm planning on starting over with a new selfless group of people in my life.
I hope you can do the same or find a similar remedy❤
So am I 😕
3:32
Your inside Beauty will never fade!!
If u treat people how u want to be treated and if u have to STOP what your doing to take care of a loved one and sacrifice everything to help them..like a sick family member or a loved one,your inner beauty,your character will NEVER FADE!!!
The girl who said “food is a big struggle for me” is literally soooooo pretty 🥺
"I will remain anonymous". Her walk off was freaking hilarious as well!! I freaking LOVE her! LMFAOO
I laughed so hard
"I stole food"
"I will remain anonymous"
**walks in a funky mood**
Everyone else: talking about deep issues
That one guy: I urinated in the back of the TV and it exploded
LOL what
Haha I know right, that has to be embarrasing, but what an experience😂😂
The music made it funnier 😂
Well he didn't tell his mother about it so I don't think that it is a thing to laugh
There's also the other guy: "Shit happens tatooed on my ass"
In a way, that tatoo is the one answer he can say to everyone that realizes his secret and ask "Why?"
"Because... Shit happened"
HAHAHAHAH mannnnn that was funny sorry
I’m going to say this here....I’m a survivor of sexual assault and it still happens sometimes uh my step dad has sexually assaulted me many times and I’ve never told anyone because they will tell my mom and I can tell my mom is happy with him but she doesn’t know that ur husband is a child predator(he has done this to both my step sisters to)
this is amazing, i love watching these and learning about people’s experiences, and knowing im not alone
My secret is: I think I'm depressed, and ive never tried to get help, and I'm scared that I actually like how sadness feels, and that's why.
I know the feeling.
When I was depressed my therapist explained to me that feeling depressed or sad can have a addictional feeling, it gives 'comfort'. That's why it can be hard to battle/come out of a depression, because in our brain it causes the same chemistrial reaction like an addiction would (if that makes sense, sorry English isn't my mother tongue).
i also like how sadness feels actually i have been on medication for depression for 3 year and now i have started feeling depressed again and have started liking the sadness
I thought it was weird, because I didn't made any effort to be happy because I liked how it felt, I simply didn't want to be happy, but being happy is better! I promise
Wow! I thougth I was the only one 🤔
My secret is that I'm afraid of growing up
Same I'm 15
Omg same🥺I thought I was the only one.
Same
I said the same thing when I was young and I hated my 20's....I'm now in my 30's and I have never loved life so much!!!
Same
as an Asian and getting appreciation from your mother even if I fail to achieve something is something that i am grateful of.... very grateful of
I've been sitting her reading the comment...all I have to say is that even though I dont know anyone of you, I love you and I love that you persevered though the tough times to share your stories on here. You all are perfect in your own way. ❤❤❤
I feel terrible for the woman who is scared of losing her beauty, “embrace it” is such a great motto for many people struggling w body image
No self criticism, just self acceptance, the key to self love.
Anyone reading, you're not alone.. no matter how dark it seems right now, it WILL pass. The dawn always comes just after the darkest part of night.❤
thank you
thanks u are great!
Thank you. I really needed that.
I am so happy to be reading this and it making me happy about you encouraging others to not give up! Trust me guys there is light at the end of the tunnel, I am so proud to say I finally reached the light.
Thanks
Beauty has always been in the heart people only have been programmed to love others that are beautiful on the outside but true love comes from loving someone from what's within
PLEASE UPLOAD AGAIN, IM SO INSPIRED BY YOU. IT PUSHES ME TO KEEP GOING 😢💜
There is a 90% chance that the people who didn't show they face would still be identified ....
Lmao.... I had the same thought
It’s the principle of telling a secret. They know that, it’s having the courage to look at the camera and say it, not about if anyone would know who you are.
Thought the same thing.
by people who know them, but for us they would always remain a stranger :)
@@bomboospaghetti4121 yeah lol
My secret is: I was sexually abused by a teacher for a year when I was eleven. It wrecked me more years afterwards; and I blocked it out to the point that I didn't realize it was abuse for five years after that. I self harmed for years, and passively attempted suicide. He hurt my friend, too, and I don't know how to forgive him and to come to terms with it.
My partner was the only person I ever told, and I'm safe now. I never want my parents to know. It'd just hurt them.
You should tell someone, like the police, imagine all the kids he abused
Adam -_- like it being a girl teacher makes it alright? Wtf.
I think it’d be better if you told someone
Since if they did it to you they would’ve did it to someone else
But, it’s your choice.
Adam -_- 1: no it wasn’t, they said “he” and 2: what the hell is wrong with you? Sexual abuse is sexual abuse. You know why it’s hard for guys to come out about sexual assault? It’s because pricks like you think that it’s cool to get assaulted by a girl. Thinking they want it or something. No, any kind of sexual abuse is sexual abuse no matter what. They were 11, he should go to prison for pedophilia. Not be celebrated and hyped up
Adam -_- making a joke when someone literally said they attempted suicide. I hope when you go to hell you are tortured forever and are fully aware of what’s happening to you.
My secret is that i think that my parents dont realize that they hurt me when the show me videos of kids younger that me and say you could have been like this if you tried harder and that they always yell at me for getting a bad grade even though I try really hard but they give me so much anxiety and stress over it I can’t ever focus. 😞
Es increíble que con tantas diferencias, no importa el idioma, las dificultades y dolor que generan son iguales. Gracias Thoraya
“In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.” - George Orwell
Much respect to that military man for learning the truth and then spreading it. Very difficult to do. If he turned around into the camera, you could very well bet that the military would be harassing him and his family right now.
Stop Playing The Game I had nothing but positive experiences in the military....myself and my family. So I guess it is an individual choice how you feel.
@@barbieblueyestx8917 or maybe it depends on where they send you and what you see there...
barbie Blueyestx not really about the experience. I’m sure you had a good experience but the function of our military is to play world police for the bankers and the elite. CIA steals opium from Afghanistan (through the use of the military) and then puts it out on black market. We occupy and bomb several countries for no reason. They have a right to hate us. This is why 9/11 happened. Even before Bush’s wars, we were still heavily present in the Middle East. The military is merely obedient tools used to accomplish the goals of the wealthy and powerful. This is why the guy in the video says what he says
Yes, kudos to the man! He is brave. The world should know what the military does.
@@stopplayingthegame preach!!!
Re: the girl who self harmed and the only thing keeping her going is the idea of retiring in New Zealand/Australia, come to N.Z! We’d love to have you! Nau Mai haere mai ki Aotearoa!
I want to come too!!
@Dilara Eroglu I think she meant Australia? idk
Oh yeah nz is amazing!
Siana Whatarau yeah! All of us Kiwi’s would love to have her!
Haha exactly what I was going to write!
The woman who spoke about the inner struggles with aging really touched me. I think a video on the beauty that can be found in aging would make a wonderful video topic for your channel 🌹❤
To the girl who said she self-harmed and got through it by imagining retiring in New Zealand or Austria, I believe you are my soulmate lol. And somehow, some way I hope you see this comment.
Things can and will get better, guys. Hang in there. Much love to you all who are going through a rough time. I'm right there with ya.
my secret is i’m afraid of commitment and i’ve never had a boyfriend (only guys i’ve flirted with) because i’m too afraid of hurting someone
Me too
Most of us are afraid of commitment but we still commit. Sometimes we get hurt, sometimes we hurt someone and hopefully - one day - we'll commit to the right person and find peace. It's rarely easy but when you do find that peace it's all going to be worth it. I don't usually leave these kinds of comments but for some reason I just felt I needed to.
You'll find the person who is worth loving. Let it happen don't rush these things.
@@fredrik354 thanks
I used to think I didn't date people because I was afraid to hurt them, but then I realized that that meant I already knew it wouldn't last... so actually I now know that I'm afraid that people will hurt me...
It's very interesting how people's lives are so different. From someone's secret being that they almost committed suicide to someone's secret being as simple as getting a tattoo.
Welp here’s some of my secrets.
1. My family’s catholic, something I’ve never really wanted to be apart of, but I don’t want to tell anyone because I love my grandparents, they’re very religious and I’m afraid to tell them especially because I don’t want them to hate me or drift away from me.
2. I am bi curios at the moment but I’m very afraid of that.
3. I was diagnosed with anxiety, however when the therapist was asking me to figure out, I lied about questions because I don’t want people to worry about me.
I appreciate everyones honesty.. we're all dealing with something, we're all human and we all have feelings.
Love the girl who turned around after talking about her food and vanity issues. Definitely a step in the right direction! You go girl!
My secret is that I hide my depression from my family because I'm scared that they would say I'm faking it
I feel that...
Try this mantra: Nam myoho renghe kyo
I believe you..
.generally people who really suffer from depression never like to talk about it because they are scare..
The people who always said they are depressed generally just want attention and don't want people to leave them...I ''dated'' a guy who was like that.....manipulative
if they actually care or can help you than they won't think that
Same I had that fear too and when I got the courage to tell them they didn't believe me and were like you have everything in your life , how can you be depressed stop over reacting , stop being sensitive you are good .
This just goes to show that everyone has problems, even the person you think is perfect, so be kind to everyone as you don’t know what struggles they are dealing with.
I love how everybody is putting in their secrets when I can’t think about anything but how lucky people are to be in such nice weather
looks like balboa park san diego and yes the weather is perfect in southern california, but california is really tough because its expensive and overcrowded
I think that knowing that you're selfish means that problem is already halfway finished. Those who are really selfish don't realize they are.
or they now it and think it´s something to be proud of
Yes I really applaud for her self acknowledgement
I’m someone who is very selfish at times but I have a hard time trying to change it
Or they might not even be selfish. A lot of people are just too kind and for example do everything for others but still feel horribly "selfish" for practicing just basic selfcare or putting healthy boundaries.
@@CharXena true, my narcissistic family members have conditioned me from a young age into thinking I was selfish. Now as I'm older I've realised I have zero boundaries and I give too much to the wrong people
My secret is I never know what I am, what my qualities are, and if my perception of myself are just fake thoughts.
Me too. It's like I have plastic memories of who I'm or what I did. My perception of my body and the people around me change everytime. I don't know anymore what I'm or what I want.
Ps: I'm 13.
Me too......
You might have BPD weather or not this is true I hope that you can get help and start to feel better 🧡🧡🧡
Holly shit ..never as someone spoken words that fit so perfectly with me
Same..it's like i don't understand myself
Am 14
Did anyone else notice the woman who said that she had stopped wearing shorts was wearing shorts? i hope that means she's feeling better about herself and doing better now. I hope she's wearing swimsuits and loves herself.
The aging thing really got to me. She was talking to me.