SAME, currently doing a depression deep clean and all day i have been doing 10 minutes of cleaning 5 minutes looking for a video or relaxing and this is the first video in hours that someones room looks anything like mine. All these girls post cleaning videos and while i appreciate it and know im not their target demo its so frustrating seeing like a few things out of place instead of a full mess.
I have the same problem it’s actually really real for me I literally just don’t know where to start and I break down but it makes me so stressed when I look at it all
Listen girlfriend, I've been in the SAME situation when I lived in poverty and had extreme depression. Luckily I escaped poverty and now I'm super nutty about my room being clean. I always keep it clean at all times! Major congrats!
Girl I live with my boyfriend and we both have raging depression and I also have a really bad shopping problem apparently 😂 but what helps me is: make your bed first. Pick up all garbage, put all clothes on bed, put everything else where it belongs, sort clothes
I have depression. I am middle schooler And this helps honestly like like making lists stress me out a lot, so are you usually just play something that involves around the thing that I’m doing? It will help me so much.
HEY! I noticed when you were talking about that Maui bracelet and keeping things as souvenirs I do that too! But here’s a tip: get a couple of mason jars and fill them with all those souvenirs. Movie ticket stubs, concert tickets, broken bracelets, notes from high school classes, etc. It’s actually really cool looking and you can use them as decorations in your room! Some people paint the outsides but I like to be able to see all the things i’ve collected in the jars when I look at them on my shelf:)
@@JuliaFase love you too Julia !!!! I have mental illness diagnosed with borderline personality disorder depression severe anxiety disorder and adhd. So I totally get it!!! I think ur awesome!!! Ur room looks beautiful!!!
Girl... you are not alone with this! Depression, anxiety and ADD popped up after I had kids and I went from a semi neat room to clothes everywhere. It’s hard to start this overwhelming- daunting task. Proud of you !
this reminded me of myself so much. i get so so overwhelmed so easily so for the past year i’ve had such a hard time keeping up with habits i know i NEED to keep up with like cleaning my room etc. it’s actually shocking how much your mental health affects literally every single thing around you. This was a very inspiring video though, because this is the first video like this i’ve ever watched while looking for inspiration and actually 100% related too. Thank you 😁
Honestly, my room is there too, or worse. I’ve tried for months but I can never because I look at it and think “I let it get to here?” This video gave me so much motivation to clean. Thank you.
i honestly felt this , i’ve been dealing with hereditary and clinical depression for a few years now and whenever i have a collapse everything is completely cluttered including my car, but cleaning makes me a little happier
i appreciate your sharing this vid and your vulnerability in doing so. i went undiagnosed with adhd, depression, and anxiety until mid 30s. diagnosis and treatment changed my life but i still fall back into pits of depression. digging myself out of one right now and listening to your vid while cleaning my house. just wanted to thank you for sharing this and i hope you are doing well and thriving.
Thanks for the motivation! Here’s a tip for anyone who needs it: If you find your room getting really messy frequently, it’s usually a lack of organization. Take time and try to organize and come up with a better routine! I swear by this rule. It helps a BINCH!
I deal with depression also and I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed, the way I clean is by sorting so for example, 1.Bed 2.clothes 3rd. Beaty ofc you can do it in any order that's easiest for you!
I'm been there before where I've been too depressed to clean my room and it gets so messy to the point it's overwhelming but I swear once it's cleaned it's the best feeling!
You are such a beautiful girl. I admire your strength and bravery in being so vulnerable. I'm the type of person who looks like I have my s*** together on the outside, but on the inside.... yeeeaaah.... my room looks like your room before you got started. Your progress is amazing, and I'm so proud of you! I really hope you feel better soon!
I’ve got some organizing to tackle (drawers of junk) Just want things cleaned up for the rest of the time I’ll be where I am and videos like this help me stay motivated, so!!
I know I personally struggle with keeping my room clean too, mental health is a huge part of it. I am so proud of you:) I have your video on as I try and finish cleaning my room!
Watching your video makes me a bit more motivated! I’ve got more time with my new job to clean & organize my room again but haven’t with my mental health! Trust me I get it! Watching these type of videos help lots! 💜
This video is so good! I am now gonna clean up my room in a minute lol. I’m just so happy that I’m not the only one with a very messy room, it’s so hard for me to keep it clean and my room is small 😭 I am so proud of you cleaning up your room depression is the worse and I pray that one day you will not have depression no more ❤️
bestie there’s nothing embarrassing about this and it’s not a stupid video. I watch these every time I get around to cleaning my room and I run out of videos like that. so if you ever want to record yourself cleaning your room PLEASE DO because I really need those all the time😭
i literally do the same thing with the “souvenir” stuff too😭😭 i thought i was alone, i keep stuff thinking im gonna make little memory projects with them but they just end up sitting in the corner of my room in a baggie LMAOO. thank you for this that is honestly so relieving to know that someone else experiences what i experience💘
So proud of you!!! Depression the worst and so hard to find motivation , I get it!!!! I have 3 kids and since mu 3rd I have struggled with motivation but love it when I get it all done too
I don't have depression but sometime get my room messy as well as I am not in mood or tired. So its ok Don't blame yourself, you have problem with health. It like if you blame your self when you have poor belly. Not everything and always we can control on our life. LOVE yourself no matter what. Accept yourself with plus and minus . NO one is perfect and we don't need to be perfect. We need to be human . It means we have right to feel bad and sad xx
You don't have to be embarrassed for having a messy room! I can relate to this sm and I get the struggle. this video somehow inspired me to clean my room :) sending you sm love :)
While watching ur vdo i was crying throughout idk why and then u started crying *relatable moment 😂😭 i will also try to clean my room ♥️thanku for the video
Blessings to you and your family. This is the first time I came across your channel… It’s great to know I’m not the only one who goes through this… We got this to everyone who knows what it’s like….💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🌸💐🌼🌻🦋
Depression is real believe me !! I’m a 23(going on 24)yr oldmom of 4 and pregnant with baby #5 and my husband helps the best he can but somehow we have those days where we don’t want to do nothing at all . I love to clean at night when everyone is gone to bed or when my first 2 kids are in school and I’m home with the small 2 but it’s still hard!!! But we got this !!!! NOBODY IS PERFECT!!! NO HOUSE IS PERFECTLY CLEAN!!!! So proud of you!!!! You got this love!!! We all do❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hope you over come your depression, and once you clean it just keep it tidy; so you won't have to do a big cleaning again. Sending you love and light, you are brave to share with us! 😊🙏🏾
I watched this video yesterday and today was actually the 1st day in like a year that I cleaned my room, you r such a motivation! Thank u! If u didn’t make this video the next time my room would be clean would be in a year… when I go to college and my room needs to be empty 😣
My room is a complete disaster. You can’t see my floor. Seeing a video like this that matches my room like 40%, makes me feel like I can clean it. Thank you for sharing your pit, mines so bad!
Well done! I’m trying to clean my room I have anger issues and this video helped me a lot to understand that there pepole like me that gets upset a lot what u am trying to say is thank you for uploading this ❤️ it helped me alot keep doing what ur doing stay safe archer xx
Julia, don't be discouraged. Cleaning motivation hack, start with the floor and categorize things. I have major depression and ADHD and I always start with the clothes because everything is so much easier and you feel motivated once you can walk. I'm a horrible messsssss and my whole house looks like this at least once a week. It happens, don't feel bad or embarrassed you just have to put your foot down and find a system that works for you. You don't have to be perfect, perfection is a lie.
Girl idk if you still check these comments, but this video has helped me so much, my depression has been so bad and i just haven’t had the energy clean and this video makes me feel human as well as gives me some boost to clean, thank you girl truly 💕💕💕
Aww ☺️ praying for you sweetie pie. I’ve dealt with depression all my life. And I mean ALL my life. I wasn’t taught to keep it neat and clean and now I’m learning .. yeah, at 29 lol. You’re not abnormal, actually the total opposite. VERY VERY normal! Remember, the world isn’t posting on instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook their bad and terrible days.. but they STILL have them. God bless you honey 🥰🥰🥰💖💖💜
Right on. I stumbled upon this video from typing "clean my room" looking for motivation. Nice! I checked you channel and will definitely help with parenting my 10 year old. Thanks for sharing! Gotta go set my room up! Lol
i came across ya video (looking at room shit) this video is so helpful .. like down to the tears ! girl i feeeeeel you lol ... this whole video im like SAME lol 🤦🏽♀️.. YOU DID THAT SHIT ! 💪🏾
My room is very very messy too, and it makes me so embarrassed, but knowing that others are cleaning their room like me, it makes me motivated
aww yay im so glad
Yes. Also,eyy wilbur pfp!!
SAME, currently doing a depression deep clean and all day i have been doing 10 minutes of cleaning 5 minutes looking for a video or relaxing and this is the first video in hours that someones room looks anything like mine. All these girls post cleaning videos and while i appreciate it and know im not their target demo its so frustrating seeing like a few things out of place instead of a full mess.
Im so proud of you! depression is the worst, but you did amazing!
thank you!!!
I love it
IM SO PROUD OF YOU
I have the same problem it’s actually really real for me I literally just don’t know where to start and I break down but it makes me so stressed when I look at it all
Listen girlfriend, I've been in the SAME situation when I lived in poverty and had extreme depression. Luckily I escaped poverty and now I'm super nutty about my room being clean. I always keep it clean at all times! Major congrats!
Congrats to you! 👏🏼🎉💜
Girl I live with my boyfriend and we both have raging depression and I also have a really bad shopping problem apparently 😂 but what helps me is: make your bed first. Pick up all garbage, put all clothes on bed, put everything else where it belongs, sort clothes
girl meeeee i don’t have any room for more clothes and shoes yet i keep buying themmm!
The same here 😬😰
Yeah I do that too thanks for advice but I don’t live with my boyfriend ❤😂🎉
I have depression. I am middle schooler And this helps honestly like like making lists stress me out a lot, so are you usually just play something that involves around the thing that I’m doing? It will help me so much.
Having a messy room is common Julia! Nobody will get upset with you lol!
Same
HEY! I noticed when you were talking about that Maui bracelet and keeping things as souvenirs I do that too! But here’s a tip: get a couple of mason jars and fill them with all those souvenirs. Movie ticket stubs, concert tickets, broken bracelets, notes from high school classes, etc. It’s actually really cool looking and you can use them as decorations in your room! Some people paint the outsides but I like to be able to see all the things i’ve collected in the jars when I look at them on my shelf:)
omg thats a great idea! thank yoU!
Alternatively, you could take pictures of the items to put in your journal, or in a scrapbook. I like the mason jar idea!
so proud of you girl. your room is actually sooo cute I love it!
aw thank you so much 🥺
I am with u girl my place is a mess so I know the depression thing. U inspired me to clean thank u!!! U have nothing to feel ashamed about!!
awww love you!!!!!!
@@JuliaFase love you too Julia !!!! I have mental illness diagnosed with borderline personality disorder depression severe anxiety disorder and adhd. So I totally get it!!! I think ur awesome!!! Ur room looks beautiful!!!
Girl... you are not alone with this! Depression, anxiety and ADD popped up after I had kids and I went from a semi neat room to clothes everywhere. It’s hard to start this overwhelming- daunting task. Proud of you !
Normal cleaning vids never help me because their rooms are always spotless 😭 depression pit videos are so much more relatable to me
lol thank you
this reminded me of myself so much. i get so so overwhelmed so easily so for the past year i’ve had such a hard time keeping up with habits i know i NEED to keep up with like cleaning my room etc. it’s actually shocking how much your mental health affects literally every single thing around you. This was a very inspiring video though, because this is the first video like this i’ve ever watched while looking for inspiration and actually 100% related too. Thank you 😁
Honestly, my room is there too, or worse. I’ve tried for months but I can never because I look at it and think “I let it get to here?” This video gave me so much motivation to clean. Thank you.
I love how realistic this is, I just cleaned my room and it took me two days! Proud of you 🤍
proud of you too!!!
Why a messy room
Everyone has a messy room at some point mines always a mess
me 2!
Same
i honestly felt this , i’ve been dealing with hereditary and clinical depression for a few years now and whenever i have a collapse everything is completely cluttered including my car, but cleaning makes me a little happier
aw i’m sorry to hear that, i’m glad you found a good outlet to help a little bit ❤️❤️ hope u have a great day
your sooo prettyyy omgggg
i appreciate your sharing this vid and your vulnerability in doing so. i went undiagnosed with adhd, depression, and anxiety until mid 30s. diagnosis and treatment changed my life but i still fall back into pits of depression. digging myself out of one right now and listening to your vid while cleaning my house. just wanted to thank you for sharing this and i hope you are doing well and thriving.
aw thank you so much! im wishing you the best
So proud of you! Currently watching this relating so much but it’s giving me the motivation to tackle my depression room right now:))
i’m rooting for you!
Keep up the great work! I'm glad you are being kind to yourself. I hope you have an fruitful second half of this year 🙂
omg just came out of my depression episode and bedrotting days, thank you for posting this for motivation! starting now!!!
Thanks for the motivation! Here’s a tip for anyone who needs it:
If you find your room getting really messy frequently, it’s usually a lack of organization. Take time and try to organize and come up with a better routine! I swear by this rule. It helps a BINCH!
*meant bunch not binch*
I deal with depression also and I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed, the way I clean is by sorting so for example, 1.Bed 2.clothes 3rd. Beaty ofc you can do it in any order that's easiest for you!
Nobody’s judging baby❤️ you did great it looks amazing and helped me clean my own room so thank you if anything🥺
thank you so much!!!
I'm been there before where I've been too depressed to clean my room and it gets so messy to the point it's overwhelming but I swear once it's cleaned it's the best feeling!
seriously !!! mines messy already!! need motivation 🙌🏼
So proud of you for cleaning, I know it can be really hard with mental health stuff going on but you did it! Also super cute pajamas in the end
thank you!!
the random crying fit was the realist thing i have ever seen ❤❤
You are such a beautiful girl. I admire your strength and bravery in being so vulnerable. I'm the type of person who looks like I have my s*** together on the outside, but on the inside.... yeeeaaah.... my room looks like your room before you got started. Your progress is amazing, and I'm so proud of you! I really hope you feel better soon!
seeing that other people relate to the things i feel really helps with my mental state. it gets hard but we will get thu it together! thanks girlyyy
of course! stay strong love
you have the prettiest room perioddd
omg thank uuuu
i am so proud of you girl! I been watching these videos, because I am trying to get energy & motivation to clean mine.
My room looks like that and I'm watching this to clean my room too! It's helping alot
yayyy
I’ve got some organizing to tackle (drawers of junk)
Just want things cleaned up for the rest of the time I’ll be where I am and videos like this help me stay motivated, so!!
I know I personally struggle with keeping my room clean too, mental health is a huge part of it. I am so proud of you:) I have your video on as I try and finish cleaning my room!
It makes you feel so much better once it’s clean
Watching your video makes me a bit more motivated! I’ve got more time with my new job to clean & organize my room again but haven’t with my mental health! Trust me I get it! Watching these type of videos help lots! 💜
I'm so proud of you depression sucks I'm glad you got it clean
This video is so good! I am now gonna clean up my room in a minute lol. I’m just so happy that I’m not the only one with a very messy room, it’s so hard for me to keep it clean and my room is small 😭 I am so proud of you cleaning up your room depression is the worse and I pray that one day you will not have depression no more ❤️
thank you so much!! good luck cleaning your room!
bestie there’s nothing embarrassing about this and it’s not a stupid video. I watch these every time I get around to cleaning my room and I run out of videos like that. so if you ever want to record yourself cleaning your room PLEASE DO because I really need those all the time😭
omg thank youuuu it’s already so messy again!!!
Before your room was messy but after it was cleaned it looks great 👍 🤗
So proud of you! This really helped me clean my room as well 💖
yay!!!
i literally do the same thing with the “souvenir” stuff too😭😭 i thought i was alone, i keep stuff thinking im gonna make little memory projects with them but they just end up sitting in the corner of my room in a baggie LMAOO. thank you for this that is honestly so relieving to know that someone else experiences what i experience💘
aw im glad we arent alone in that!
Super proud of you! I know that’s so hard but you did it
thank you!!
@@JuliaFase 👍
i honestly feel like you would judge my room, ur room is so much more cleaner compared to mine but this gives me motivation so thank you
Don’t apologize for ur room girl. Ur so pretty btw :)
Don’t be embarrassed! I came to this video for motivation to clean my own room!
So proud of you!!! Depression the worst and so hard to find motivation , I get it!!!! I have 3 kids and since mu 3rd I have struggled with motivation but love it when I get it all done too
I don't have depression but sometime get my room messy as well as I am not in mood or tired. So its ok Don't blame yourself, you have problem with health. It like if you blame your self when you have poor belly. Not everything and always we can control on our life. LOVE yourself no matter what. Accept yourself with plus and minus . NO one is perfect and we don't need to be perfect. We need to be human . It means we have right to feel bad and sad xx
This is soooo relatable!!! I love it this is exactly how I clean
You don't have to be embarrassed for having a messy room! I can relate to this sm and I get the struggle. this video somehow inspired me to clean my room :) sending you sm love :)
aw thank you so much
about the loose powder: buy a desk pad! i got one from ikea for like $6 because i'm scared of messing up my desk when i do my makeup
thank you!!
I can so relate I’m literally watching this to have motivation to clean my room ❤
I love your decorations and the furniture
aw thank you!!!
While watching ur vdo i was crying throughout idk why and then u started crying *relatable moment 😂😭 i will also try to clean my room ♥️thanku for the video
awwww sending u loveee
Proud of you!! It’s difficult to start but keep going!! ❤️
Blessings to you and your family. This is the first time I came across your channel… It’s great to know I’m not the only one who goes through this… We got this to everyone who knows what it’s like….💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🌸💐🌼🌻🦋
So proud of you! Took me three days to clean my room since I do step by step or else I will be super overwhelmed!
Depression is real believe me !! I’m a 23(going on 24)yr oldmom of 4 and pregnant with baby #5 and my husband helps the best he can but somehow we have those days where we don’t want to do nothing at all . I love to clean at night when everyone is gone to bed or when my first 2 kids are in school and I’m home with the small 2 but it’s still hard!!! But we got this !!!! NOBODY IS PERFECT!!! NO HOUSE IS PERFECTLY CLEAN!!!! So proud of you!!!! You got this love!!! We all do❤️❤️❤️❤️
omg you sound like you’re taking on a lot!! wishing you the best & a healthy pregnancy!
You did awesome! I love your room!! 💕
You and me both girly, depression took over me and that’s literally why I’m here watching because I need Inspo Ive decided it’s time😪😊
Many thanks for this video! Depression is terrible but we can fight it!
yes!!!!!!
I’m here feeling the same watching your video to get motivation and my room looks just like that but today is the day I’m getting up!
yay! im so proud of you!
This gave me so much motivation ty so much now my room is clean😀😀
omg yay
I'm so happy for you that you can even fight the depression and clean your room☺️
thank you!!
I have seen people’s bedroom worster than mine and you tubers on the internet ❤😂 my room is now a mess too lol 😂
Hope you over come your depression, and once you clean it just keep it tidy; so you won't have to do a big cleaning again. Sending you love and light, you are brave to share with us! 😊🙏🏾
I watched this video yesterday and today was actually the 1st day in like a year that I cleaned my room, you r such a motivation! Thank u! If u didn’t make this video the next time my room would be clean would be in a year… when I go to college and my room needs to be empty 😣
aw im so proud of you!
My room is a complete disaster. You can’t see my floor. Seeing a video like this that matches my room like 40%, makes me feel like I can clean it. Thank you for sharing your pit, mines so bad!
this motivated me so much thank you for making this!!! 💗
awww thank u!!
im just *OBSESSED* with depression pit it explains me 🤍💀
I love the aesthetic/decor of your room 😍
thank you!!!)
YOU ARE SOOO PRETTY!
U did GOOD!! U kept at it!!
Well done! I’m trying to clean my room I have anger issues and this video helped me a lot to understand that there pepole like me that gets upset a lot what u am trying to say is thank you for uploading this ❤️ it helped me alot keep doing what ur doing stay safe archer xx
aw i’m so glad ! we are all in this together !
I’m a guy and you are not Alone I go through it too and I’m proud of you keep shining 🙌🏼💯 good channel by the way :)
i saw the crystals and stopped questioning the depression
what do you mean?
@@JuliaFase fr what
My room is the same right now and watching this helped motivate myself to clean up so thank you!!!
yay!! i’m so glad!! i just finished cleaning my room again too!
Julia, don't be discouraged. Cleaning motivation hack, start with the floor and categorize things. I have major depression and ADHD and I always start with the clothes because everything is so much easier and you feel motivated once you can walk. I'm a horrible messsssss and my whole house looks like this at least once a week. It happens, don't feel bad or embarrassed you just have to put your foot down and find a system that works for you. You don't have to be perfect, perfection is a lie.
Having depression I just have no motivation to do anything but when I do something I'm extremely proud of myself
sometimes surviving the day takes up all our energy! im also proud of you
You are so hard on yourself, girlie! Please be kind to yourself. So proud of you. Love!
aw thank you 🥺
Girl idk if you still check these comments, but this video has helped me so much, my depression has been so bad and i just haven’t had the energy clean and this video makes me feel human as well as gives me some boost to clean, thank you girl truly 💕💕💕
aw love thank you so much ! i hope you find peace and light soon💞💞💞 and yes, of course i look at these comments 🥰🥰
i've been there with all the negative self talk, i wish you a good journey through that, you can do it, take your time 💖
aw thank you so much!
Aww ☺️ praying for you sweetie pie. I’ve dealt with depression all my life. And I mean ALL my life. I wasn’t taught to keep it neat and clean and now I’m learning .. yeah, at 29 lol. You’re not abnormal, actually the total opposite. VERY VERY normal! Remember, the world isn’t posting on instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook their bad and terrible days.. but they STILL have them. God bless you honey 🥰🥰🥰💖💖💜
aw thank you so much 💕💕💕
so happy for you!! it looks good. keep your head up beautiful
i’m so proud girlie 🥺 this looks amazing. you got this! keep moving forward! 💪🏻❤️
thank you!!!
Right on. I stumbled upon this video from typing "clean my room" looking for motivation. Nice! I checked you channel and will definitely help with parenting my 10 year old. Thanks for sharing! Gotta go set my room up! Lol
first of all, i hope you’re doing well right now.
and secondly; girl, you look like absolutely stunning! there’s no need for you to think otherwise.
aww thank you so so much this comment just made my day 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@@JuliaFase ofcc! :D
i'm glad it made you happy! 💕
Love uuuu ❤️❤️❤️
It happens depression is ROUGH I’m so proud of u
thank you!!!!!
Girl, I feel you I am just like you I just can’t clean my room. And I will never judge you about your room. Because I have the same problem
Well done, good job. It's so good to see you feel better now!
I was cleaning my room yesterday and idk why but I found wrappers for. Like 1 year ago-
Where did you your vanity and desk, please and thank you!! your room is gorgeous btw
both from pottery barn teen!!!
Your room isn't as bad as some that I've seen. It's good you took the initiative to clean.
I have depression too and my room has looked like that I cleaned it once 2 days later it was messy so I’m proud of u
I’m so proud of you keep pushing forward 🥰
lovee u
i came across ya video (looking at room shit) this video is so helpful .. like down to the tears ! girl i feeeeeel you lol ... this whole video im like SAME lol 🤦🏽♀️.. YOU DID THAT SHIT ! 💪🏾
thank you!!!!!
We or most of us have been there! You are very brave to show everyone! Watching to get ideas because I moved & need todo this TODAY
Where’d you get your bed frame ! 😍😍 SO CUTE
arhaus !! 💕💕
we are such the same also i love your kids keep up the good work!!
thank you!!