My dad died..

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  • Опубликовано: 22 сен 2024

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  • @KurtHugoSchneider
    @KurtHugoSchneider 4 года назад +1758

    My heart goes out to you and your family Tiffany ❤️ Every time I met your father it was a pleasure

    • @muskie7896
      @muskie7896 4 года назад +2

      My dad is still safe :D

    • @Code3EmergencyVideosEurope
      @Code3EmergencyVideosEurope 4 года назад +20

      @@muskie7896 this is just a lil bit rude.. just saying

    • @angel_rose275
      @angel_rose275 4 года назад +11

      @@muskie7896 How can you say such a thing.

    • @hanayang9928
      @hanayang9928 3 года назад +12

      @@muskie7896 What the hell is wrong with you?! How can you say such a thing about something like this?? That was so heartless and you should be ashamed of yourself for even THINKING to say such a thing.

    • @KishuuMochii
      @KishuuMochii 3 года назад +2

      ❤️

  • @cobuspotgieter
    @cobuspotgieter 4 года назад +1595

    It feels weird pressing "like" on this video. I'm only pressing like for your incredible strength and vulnerability in sharing this. You are amazing, just like your dad. Love you so much babe. Here for you ❤️

    • @RobertsCaly
      @RobertsCaly 4 года назад +11

      My exact thoughts / feelings while hitting “like” on this as well. I had to think of it as an acknowledgement of her strength & the sending of some virtual love / hugs.💕

    • @emmalee4520
      @emmalee4520 4 года назад +4

      I completely agree with both of you

    • @omarhany404
      @omarhany404 4 года назад +2

      Totally agree

    • @nmallon
      @nmallon 2 года назад

      uwu

    • @Razhali
      @Razhali 2 года назад +1

      I always feel like that when I watch true crime docs. Like I want to 👍for the narrator or creator of the channel cause they fid so well portraying the event or how they showed their own emotions throughout the narration but then I want to 👎because of the event/story itself because I can't condone that behavior or support it and make people think it's OK cause of all the likes the video gets and the clout the people in the story get for what they did. So I decide to just not respond with 👍or👎

  • @snickersloveyou8000
    @snickersloveyou8000 4 года назад +18

    I am 19 y/o and I lost my mom this year to lung cancer. She was a single mother and I was her only child. It’s absolutely the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life. I have been able to cope by thinking of all the happy memories I had with my mom and making sure that I never think of the...”what if..” “I could have done this better” and all the negative things. Just remember how much you parent loved you and that they are always going to be watching over you

    • @nicoletaoniga4272
      @nicoletaoniga4272 4 года назад

      😢🌹I lost my father when I was 19, I'm so sorry for your loss! Is hard to let go I know, it takes time to heal and you go tru different stages off grief! I don't know how it is on the other side, the only thing I know is that is hard to say goodbye! I'm 42 now have my own famyly I guess time has a way to help us heal and continue our life, make new memory's and live happy as our dear parents that are no longer with us will whan too! Your mother loved you soo much and she will whant you to be happy, always remember that! 🌹❤️

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @sismj6455
      @sismj6455 6 месяцев назад

      @@JonathanGilliesRight comment but wrong platform dude. Offer up kind words instead of hell and damnation in this situ. The word says we're to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.(Matt. 20:16).

  • @megannicole
    @megannicole 4 года назад +908

    I’m so sorry for your loss❤️been thinking of you and your fam a lot. Sending you all the love.

    • @731lilkash
      @731lilkash 4 года назад +3

      but that is really sad tho heaven has got another angel

    • @edenmaria
      @edenmaria 4 года назад +10

      nlf choppa what the hell is wrong with you?

    • @731lilkash
      @731lilkash 4 года назад

      eden wut you mean

    • @edenmaria
      @edenmaria 4 года назад +2

      nlf choppa you said “shut up she needs to suck it up” :/

    • @731lilkash
      @731lilkash 4 года назад

      eden so

  • @nataliariveraa8739
    @nataliariveraa8739 4 года назад +148

    I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @reiraxshin27
    @reiraxshin27 4 года назад +155

    I don't know if anyone can ever 'get over' or 'process' a parent's death entirely. My mom lost her dad and that was when I was still a baby. 27 years later, everytime she would talk about it, she would still cry and say "I'm still my dad's little girl." My heart goes out to you Tiffany and your family. I've been watching you since I was a teenager and I definitely can tell how proud your dad is of you. The fact that he was ready to go tells me that. You're so loved, Tiffany. Forever.

    • @sharondingle1607
      @sharondingle1607 4 года назад

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @monicabohn2476
      @monicabohn2476 3 года назад

      I agree...you never really "get over" the loss. I lost my mom 4 years ago and I have just learned to live with the pain of missing her as best as I can. I will probably be like your mom and still tear up when I talk about her years from now.

    • @gregoireansari6651
      @gregoireansari6651 3 года назад +1

      Take off the mask

    • @llllIllIIl
      @llllIllIIl 3 года назад

      LOL

    • @rekreks
      @rekreks 2 года назад

      @@llllIllIIl how is this funny?

  • @caithartmusic
    @caithartmusic 4 года назад +512

    So sorry for your loss, Tiffany. Sending so much love to you and your family ❤️

    • @thestalkarcheryarrows
      @thestalkarcheryarrows 4 года назад +3

      Stay strong 💪🏽

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @SachaStevenson
    @SachaStevenson 4 года назад +399

    So sorry for your loss. He's lucky to have lived a nice life and to see you grow up. Every birthday is a blessing really. May you quickly find peace in what has happened. Wish you the best Tiffany.

    • @jariahrebi6445
      @jariahrebi6445 4 года назад +1

      Yes stay strong tiffany
      Btw you guys both is my idol

    • @keanedaffa9201
      @keanedaffa9201 4 года назад

      whoa, hi Sacha!

    • @maaikelohuis4833
      @maaikelohuis4833 4 года назад

      im so sorry for your loss❤️

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @lancerussell7482
      @lancerussell7482 2 года назад

      @@JonathanGillies no one cares stop talking with your skinny self

  • @amrisher3370
    @amrisher3370 3 года назад +19

    I lost my grandpa at the age of 10 and it’s been almost 3 years. And still till this day it still hurts to talk about him. It helps to cry and and about him.❤️❤️

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад +2

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @lilcrip8358
      @lilcrip8358 3 года назад

      LOL WHAT HAPPENED? HE FELL OFF THE BED XDXDXDXDXDXDXD

  • @ravennblackfire7393
    @ravennblackfire7393 4 года назад +115

    When I lost my daughter eleven years ago, I thought my life was over. I didn't know how things could go on without her. But I really focused on just taking things one day at a time and making sure to take care of myself. I also allowed myself the time and space that I needed to grieve and heal. Eventually, a month had gone by. And then a year. And then five years. Losing my daughter taught me to appreciate the small moments and to make them special. I have a four year old little girl now and we turn something small like watching a movie into a grand adventure. Popcorn and a blanket fort. My best advice is to not let anyone tell you when you are done grieving. Because grief is a process and everyone experiences it differently. Just hang in there and take care of yourself. You have a lot of people who love you.

    • @crazylittlefreakzzz
      @crazylittlefreakzzz 4 года назад +4

      That just made think that, deeply, you actually never stop grieving, somehow.
      So there's these times when you randomly start feeling sad about old things that have happened in your life and you're like 'hmm, interesting'. But hey, that's not entirely bad in the end. Sometimes felling extremely sad may even feel spiritual, like you're honouring all your human experiences, your world experiences, life! experiences, [earthly experiences]. So you let them all in. All the feelings in your body, and just cling on to that feeling of grattitude, even for all the worst bad times, and you realize that it's all precious material to work with. It's all your history, and you honour it by making the best out of what you have.
      Even in the daily little things, there is always plenty of different energies and states of mind, ways of outtering your inner self and perceiving others.
      And as an awesome friend of mine said to me some days ago,
      "Si no te sentís plena y satisfecha con tu vida, al menos una cosa tiene que cambiar".
      And that puzzle piece fell into place. Its actually easy, simple, the 'one step at a time' cliché phrase started really making sense of the big digference it really does. It never seemed so clear to me.
      So I went ahead and decided that that one thing was putting on new hair. Extensiones.
      Best decision in life.
      Ahre xd
      I can feel
      ... , joyfull, perky, angry, uncomfortable, accelerated, mad, exstatic, dancy, goofy, , , ,
      (go ahead and continue in the comments, gogogo!)
      , , determined, enthusiastic, , playful,
      (you can also get dark, don't mind me ;)
      ...

    • @rgCA_01123
      @rgCA_01123 4 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience of great loss ❤ A mother's love endures all, but now your younger daughter will have so many precious moments with you until you can all be united as one ❤🙏✝️ Your love is special ❤ Your daughters are among the luckiest ❤ May God be with you and protect you and your family ❤🙏✝️ I want to come back and share a link with you to another artist's song to her children ❤ ❤❤ *edit to add song link* no disrespect to Tiffany and her AMAZING talent, I just thought you would really enjoy this song with your daughter ♥ ruclips.net/video/n88EHf_ocoQ/видео.html

  • @dmingthing
    @dmingthing 4 года назад +400

    Sending all the love and condolences from here in Malaysia to you and the family Tiffany. Take your time, one step a day,

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @lancerussell7482
      @lancerussell7482 2 года назад

      @@JonathanGillies No one cares 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

    • @HanafiHair
      @HanafiHair 2 года назад +1

      @@JonathanGillies Why do our sins have to be borne by others. Even though it is our sin that we commit. Your religion may be misleading. Every human being will get their own reward in the hereafter. Will not be borne by others. Christ will not bear the sins of you all. Sins will be forgiven by God if you change into a good person and do not repeat the same sins. That is why God created heaven and hell. Heaven for good people. Hell for the bad guys.

  • @annaliseheron94
    @annaliseheron94 4 года назад +42

    This poor poor girl, she has gone through so much these last few years, from losing Christina..... to now her Dad. I’m so sorry. Stay strong xxxx

    • @AjayKumar-ps8tc
      @AjayKumar-ps8tc 3 года назад +1

      Who's Christina?

    • @lukestephens773
      @lukestephens773 3 года назад +4

      @@AjayKumar-ps8tc Christina Grimmie. She was a singer who mainly uploaded covers and original songs on RUclips. She collaborated with Tiffany on a cover a while back, and they became friends. Christina was shot while at a meet and greet by a deranged fan and passed away in 2016

    • @annaliseheron94
      @annaliseheron94 3 года назад +3

      @@AjayKumar-ps8tc Christina Grimmie. She was a famous RUclips singer/gamer. Passed away at a gig. They were close x

    • @lancerussell7482
      @lancerussell7482 2 года назад

      @@lukestephens773 bro like no one cares about this shut up

  • @klaudiavuthitrami9991
    @klaudiavuthitrami9991 4 года назад +77

    I am so SO sorry, I can’t even imagine the pain you’re dealing with right now. Stay strong, sweetheart. You are NOT alone. And never will be. Your father will look after you from Heaven💖.

  • @NuhaBahadeen
    @NuhaBahadeen 4 года назад +187

    I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 I'm sending you & your family so much love. May his soul rest in peace 🙏❤️

  • @asimplethought8976
    @asimplethought8976 4 года назад +48

    The hardest part is always waking up and remembering that this is all real. I went through that when my mom passed away. I am sending endless love and prayers to your family.

    • @shreyakanojiya4744
      @shreyakanojiya4744 Год назад

      May her soul rest in peace. Sending all the love and healing. Stay strong ❤

  • @taylor3175
    @taylor3175 4 года назад +48

    i am so sorry for your loss, he will be in all our hearts. fly high angel 👼🥺🕊

  • @fakenewb
    @fakenewb 4 года назад +143

    Stay strong Tiffany! ❤ May your father find peace!

  • @amandagray9871
    @amandagray9871 4 года назад +27

    I lost my Dad suddenly about four years ago. As with you, it was the hardest thing I ever went through. But as you go through it, it eventually gets easier every day. He’ll always be with you, but the pain will lessen and the joy of memories of him will come to your heart. I promise.

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @Yessrey03021
      @Yessrey03021 Год назад

      Haha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheSoundsofJason
    @TheSoundsofJason 4 года назад +97

    I'm sorry for your loss Tiffany, I can't imagine what you're going through. We'll all be here to support you through everything.

  • @DebbyArts
    @DebbyArts 4 года назад +224

    Stay Strong Tiffany, you are such a beautiful soul ! sending love ❤️

  • @xio2632
    @xio2632 4 года назад +22

    My dad passed recently too and it has been the hardest thing I have gone trough. Stay strong❤️

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @lancerussell7482
      @lancerussell7482 2 года назад

      @@JonathanGillies good for you who cares

    • @brianabrown9612
      @brianabrown9612 2 года назад

      @@lancerussell7482 hey don’t talk to him like that

  • @MiscMitz
    @MiscMitz 4 года назад +74

    My mother was just diagnosed with cancer as well. Please know that we understand if you need time to reflect and gather yourself. Lots of love and prayers!

    • @cherrynicholem
      @cherrynicholem 4 года назад +6

      Sending love your way too. I’m very sorry.

    • @MiscMitz
      @MiscMitz 4 года назад +1

      @@cherrynicholem thank you so much. They removed her gallbladder. She's going back soon to check to see if they got it all. Here's hoping.

    • @TheVideogirl9
      @TheVideogirl9 4 года назад +1

      Sending a best wishes to your mom

    • @MiscMitz
      @MiscMitz 4 года назад

      @@TheVideogirl9 thank you

  • @52341
    @52341 4 года назад +83

    Tiffany, my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time

  • @divineokon1244
    @divineokon1244 Год назад +2

    Yesterday, July 11, 2023, my dad died of liver cancer and I'm grieving. I fully understand what you're going through.

  • @md2k8
    @md2k8 4 года назад +48

    Condolences to the loss of Tiffany Alvord's father. May he rest in peace.

  • @arizanaks9962
    @arizanaks9962 4 года назад +117

    I lost my dad in December 2019 due to liver cancer. He was my biggest fan and my best friend too. Its hard being there and watching how ur parent dies day by day and u cant do anything to help. What I can tell u is that it’s not gonna get easier, you’re just gonna learn how to live without him. It still hasnt wrapped around my head that hes not gonna see me graduate, get married, get my first job and its been 9 months... but what makes it easier to cope with it is just working harder to at least know that if he was here he would be more than proud. Take ur time to grieve, to be sad, to cry for hours. Its all part of losing someone, a parent especially. I wish u all the best. Keep being so strong💙

    • @AlmeSwart
      @AlmeSwart 4 года назад +3

      I related to your post so much. I lost my dad in December 2019 too due to lung cancer. I never fathomed how much pain a person can endure during a time like that. I also grieve him in two ways - missing talking to him and anticipating how painful future memories will be without him. This all being said, I never realized how much strength I had until this moment. After it happened I didn't think that I will ever be able to function properly again... but as time goes by, you get used to life without them. As you said, it doesn't get easier... you just have to get used to it. Thank you for commenting on this for everyone to read. It makes us feel less alone.

    • @kerttupeura6116
      @kerttupeura6116 4 года назад +1

      I completely agree with both of you. I lost my stepmom in January this year due to breast cancer. Lately I have been able to see how surviving from the tasks of the daily life has slowly become easier from those chaotic first few months but the pain itself, the grief of losing her, hasn't eased and never will. Like you said, we just learn to bear the pain. The people we love mark us so permanently and the loss of them is so profound that we aren't even supposed to be able to continue life the same way we could before. Thank you for sharing your stories. Sending energy for everyone struggling with loss at the moment

    • @omarhany404
      @omarhany404 4 года назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure he's more than proud of you right now❤

    • @notme6753
      @notme6753 4 года назад

      I'm so sorry for those who lost loved ones specially on a month of December. Christmas is something I look forward to every year. Im just happy most of the time during that time of the year so it must have been really hard on you guys to lose a loved one on a month of December.
      I lost my one and only grandma this year and my family decided not to put up the tree this year. This is one Christmas I will not be looking forward to 😔

  • @DirkSorensby
    @DirkSorensby Год назад +2

    Heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you Tiffany, to this day.

  • @RedOfficial
    @RedOfficial 4 года назад +130

    I’m so so sorry it’s genuinely the worst thing anyone can go through. I lost my hero in 2016 and I miss him still to this day. He will he so proud of you and how he raised such a beautifully talented young woman he was at peace with this he lived his purpose. Sending you love xxx

    • @sharondingle1607
      @sharondingle1607 4 года назад +1

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @windblown7898
    @windblown7898 4 года назад +42

    This poor baby girl my heart is breaking for her.

  • @sandrasmith3451
    @sandrasmith3451 4 года назад +4

    Dear sweet girl, there is never a good time to lose a parent. I lost my Dad later in life and I grieved as if I hadn’t had much time with him. The pain will lessen over time but you will always grieve and miss him. This experience will deepen your ability to love. I cried every day for a long time. Grief for me came in waves. I would be fine and then I would cry. What a wonderful Dad you have...he will always be your Dad even if you can’t see him.😢❤️

  • @alyssabernal
    @alyssabernal 4 года назад +190

    So sorry for your loss baby girl. Praying for you.

  • @ayaaburoken3044
    @ayaaburoken3044 4 года назад +131

    "Collateral Beauty" is a great movie that talks about loss. You should definitely watch it.
    May your dad rest in peace.

    • @TiffanyAlvord
      @TiffanyAlvord  4 года назад +43

      Thank you for the recommendation. I'll check it out

    • @brandonslomls
      @brandonslomls 4 года назад

      @@TiffanyAlvord I'm so sorry we will put ur father in my family's prayers ❤❤❤🥺🥺🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 stay strong love xx I'm here for u If u need me love you so much

  • @Ashley92090
    @Ashley92090 4 года назад +12

    I lost my dad in June. I understand your grief and I hope you find peace soon ❤️

    • @Yessrey03021
      @Yessrey03021 Год назад

      Haha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ashley92090
      @Ashley92090 Год назад

      @@Yessrey03021 why laugh

  • @theekshanabandara9293
    @theekshanabandara9293 4 года назад +55

    Your father is a lucky person. He is a guy who died in peace, and his soul is resting in peace!
    Everything will be okay with time. He's always living inside your heart! ❤

  • @ZephyrsTuneOfficial
    @ZephyrsTuneOfficial 4 года назад +44

    Hi Tiffany, I hope you are doing better and better each day. I lost my mother to breast cancer when I was 6 and my father has gone through cancer twice. Lots of it huh? I know what you’re feeling and I want you to know there are so many out there who know what it is like and you are not alone. I’ve been watching for 7 years and I appreciate you. We’re here for you! Thank You. Sincerely, Ryan

  • @hannahlawrence
    @hannahlawrence 4 года назад +15

    I’m beyond sorry, my heart hurts watching this. Life isn’t fair. I’m praying for you and your family. Much love to you.

  • @Pally604
    @Pally604 4 года назад +31

    You were the one that got me through it. You were barely starting and had the time to talk to individuals back then I guess. So I'll say what you said to me 8 years ago. Fight on and make them proud. Let their dreams live through you. She wouldn't want you to suffer so keep her with you always and make the world what they wanted it to be. Keep helping others and sharing a smile.
    I don't remember exact words but you knew them. Make him proud and never let him leave your heart. You don't have to stop asking "what would ___ do?" Its always good to look up the stages of grief. Everyone goes through them differently at their own speed but its best to understand them as there is no avoiding them. The anger stages tend to break families and friends apart so if someone is going through it then try not to lash back. Just give space. I love you Tiffany Alvord. We all do. And we only know you on this side of the screen. So I know he loved you more than anyone could imagine. I wish your family well. Take it easy Tiffany and don't worry about uploading. The RUclips algorithm bs can suck it! Maybe we can ban together and hit your comeback video hard to get you trending again
    "Help those around you. Be strong, be kind, be there. Everyone's life is hard in some way. You never know what they're going through. Help them anyway" without you helping me i wouldn't have helped more people than I care to say. I wouldn't have remember any of her words...

  • @jennystoker2270
    @jennystoker2270 4 года назад +21

    I am so sorry. Losing a parent is one of the most difficult things to go through. I lost my dad when I was 9. I am now 18 and in college. The only thing that I can think of would be to just hold onto all of the memories with your dad. Never ever let those go. Spend time with your family. Talk about him and his life, and don’t be afraid to cry. I am so sorry. I wish that no one had to feel the pain of losing your parent. 💛

    • @AllySheehan
      @AllySheehan 4 года назад

      sending you the biggest hug

  • @jetduongofficial
    @jetduongofficial 3 года назад +1

    I am very sorry for your loss. I feel you as I lost my dad in December 2020 too. I admire your strength and courage to share your feelings. Your dad sounds like a great man and loving father. I am very sure he felt loved and is very proud of you.

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @ElineVera
    @ElineVera 4 года назад +138

    I’m so sorry for your loss Tiffany. Sending digital hugs to you and your family ♥️

  • @abrahamg290
    @abrahamg290 4 года назад +27

    “No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. I am not afraid, but the sensation is like being afraid. The same fluttering in the stomach, the same restlessness, the yawning. I keep on swallowing. At other times it feels like being mildly drunk, or concussed. There is a sort of invisible blanket between the world and me. I find it hard to take in what anyone says. Or perhaps, hard to want to take it in. It is so uninteresting. Yet I want the others to be about me. I dread the moments when the house is empty. If only they would talk to one another and not to me.”
    A quote from C.S. Lewis’ book “A Grief Observed” which are reflections on the experience of bereavement after the loss of his wife.
    I think this would be a tough read but hopefully an edifying one. Even though I don’t know you personally or I didn’t know your father personally, I grieve with you. God Bless you and your family.

  • @LisaCover
    @LisaCover Год назад +1

    My dad died 10 days ago. I've been his nurse for 3 months, from the diagnosis to his death. I got hope till the end that he would be okay. But it didn't go as I've expected. I miss him so much. This feeling of emptiness is so heavy.

  • @alicialow6885
    @alicialow6885 4 года назад +31

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May your dad rest in peace. Stay strong Tiffany.

  • @ViThuyNguyen
    @ViThuyNguyen 4 года назад +41

    Tiffany,
    🥺 I am so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose a dad to Liver Cancer. My dad has passed away last year 💔.

    • @TiffanyAlvord
      @TiffanyAlvord  4 года назад +25

      I'm so sorry for your loss as well

    • @mattieporter1458
      @mattieporter1458 4 года назад +1

      I lost my grandmother I no have it feels

    • @ViThuyNguyen
      @ViThuyNguyen 4 года назад

      Tiffany Alvord,
      Thank you so much 😥💔. Losing my dad was the most hardest thing I have ever went through. I hate Cancer it kills our loves ones. Yes it is so cruel. 🤗 Big hugs.

    • @edvinaalan177
      @edvinaalan177 4 года назад +1

      Awww I am so sorry for you 💔 so sad

  • @melissamcgee1020
    @melissamcgee1020 4 года назад +2

    My heart goes out to you and your family during this painful time. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in May 2018 and was given 1 year. He passed away with hospice at home in August 2019 and still to this day I am trying to process life without my best friend. One thing I can say is remembering all the memories and laughter shared with your dad will allow you to keep his memory alive. I can assure you even though you may feel like this nightmare will never be over just know your dad will always be where ever you are.

    • @shreyakanojiya4744
      @shreyakanojiya4744 Год назад

      May his soul rest in peace. Sending all the love and healing. Stay strong ❤

  • @CierraLuvs
    @CierraLuvs 4 года назад +148

    In December of 2011, I took my mom to the emergency room because she wasn't feeling well (my mom NEVER got sick). They said she had a mass on her lung and said it was pnemonia. A couple months later, she was feeling better but still felt off. She went back to her primary and it turned out she was in stage 4 lung cancer. She had 6 months.
    From that point on, everything was a blur. I'm an only child, my parents were divorced and therefore I had to deal with everything (from Dr appointments to giving her an IV at home) all.while.still trying to work full time. I ended up losing my job because they said I was missing too much time for something that would "eventually die anyways." Almost had the cops called because of my reaction.
    The week leading up to her death was hard. The night before, she sent me home. Told me to stay with the cats and spend some time with my then boyfriend and she'd see me soon. She didn't say tomorrow. That next morning, I got the call.
    There isn't anything in this world that can help.you understand because that's how death is. But what does help is surrounding yourself with love. Talking about the good times and keeping his memory alive.
    Losing a parent is an unexplainable pain but I promise.over time you learn to cope.
    I'm sorry about your father. I'm here if you need someone even though we are strangers.

    • @maanya1843
      @maanya1843 4 года назад +7

      I'm really sorry about your loss

    • @maanya1843
      @maanya1843 4 года назад +7

      You're very strong . Having to go through all this alone is devastating. I can't even imagine how it felt

    • @The90sSociety
      @The90sSociety 4 года назад +4

      Our story is scarily similar.

    • @AllySheehan
      @AllySheehan 4 года назад +3

      I'm an only child too and my dad has cancer. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
      This is hard in any case but not having siblings for support is ten times harder

    • @omarhany404
      @omarhany404 4 года назад +2

      I'm really sorry for your loss. Stay strong

  • @nakshathrar3800
    @nakshathrar3800 4 года назад +25

    I am truly truly very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the pain.

  • @emilyjohnson1706
    @emilyjohnson1706 4 года назад +10

    I lost my dad back in November of 2019 and grief is a life long process that I’m still going through just know that it gets better and worse deepening on the day and that there is no right or wrong way to feel or grieve, it’s a complicated process.

    • @Yessrey03021
      @Yessrey03021 Год назад

      Haha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gmcavalheiro1
    @gmcavalheiro1 4 года назад +17

    Stay strong Tiffany, we are here for you ❤️ always

  • @mollygreeley2691
    @mollygreeley2691 4 года назад +6

    I lost my dad 2 years ago now. It’s a never ending journey of grief. I read a book, “ it’s ok to not be ok” and that was something I enjoyed

  • @TheBlueEyedOriginal
    @TheBlueEyedOriginal 3 года назад +14

    My mother died at the beginning of April unexpectedly. I have been doing the “365 days of grief” that the local funeral home offered through emails. The funeral home is eaton funeral service, so you could sign up for it too. It gives you bite size pieces to help you process versus reading a book where it throws it all at you at once.

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @llllIllIIl
      @llllIllIIl 3 года назад

      hahahha

  • @eeooooee2234
    @eeooooee2234 4 года назад +17

    About 10 years ago my father died. I’m 22, I know right now nothing I say will make any slight difference into how you feel right now but I want you to know and pray you believe that things do get better and you will feel better. And when I say better I don’t mean you forget your father I mean that you learn to live and live life beyond the loss most people can’t imagine. You’ll remember all the memories you have with a smile on your face instead of sadness in your heart. While I type this I’m crying for you and your family but please read what I say and trust that it is true. Your father like mine is looking down on us right now with such pride.❤️

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @gmcavalheiro1
    @gmcavalheiro1 4 года назад +18

    I’m so sorry Tiffany, sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daasianboi
    @daasianboi 3 года назад +4

    I am sorry for your loss. My father died awhile back unexpectedly. One of the things that kept me sane was Astro physics, we have gone through a big bang before but what if the big crunch(things comes back to singularity) causes another big bang and that we have been living out our lives doing the same thing over and over again. I hope I get to see my dad again this way. We really never get over a love ones death, but living and doing what they would have liked for us keeps them alive.

    • @adityasarkar2749
      @adityasarkar2749 3 года назад +1

      Am sorry 🙏

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @sophiemo1270
    @sophiemo1270 4 года назад +28

    I am very very sorry! My dad died when I was 18 years old, which is now 11 years ago. Just wanting to let you know: it will always kind of hurt, but you’ll get used to that feeling. And it helps thinking about funny memories you have and be grateful that you have memories with him. Be grateful that he saw you and your brothers growing up! And then, sometime, it’s ok to just cry your heart out. But step and try to live the best life because be sure: that’s what he probably wanted the most. To see you happy. And who knows? Maybe, one day, we all see each other again. Much love and a big hug to you and four family xxx Anna

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад +1

      Only if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

    • @llllIllIIl
      @llllIllIIl 3 года назад

      hahahhahha

    • @lancerussell7482
      @lancerussell7482 2 года назад

      @@JonathanGillies no one cares

  • @dev2926
    @dev2926 4 года назад +13

    I’m so so sorry Tiffany keep your head up We love you🥺❤️

  • @allaabrahamyan
    @allaabrahamyan 8 месяцев назад +1

    My dad had died when I was 3 years old. I'm still paying, have still in pain for that loss. 6 years ago I still miss him.😢

  • @VeroniqaThomasFilm
    @VeroniqaThomasFilm 4 года назад +18

    Sending you love and strength during this time!

  • @amoonheart
    @amoonheart 4 года назад +27

    "words in deep blue" is a book that helped me with the grief of losing two of my grandparents within two weeks. it's a stunning stunning book

  • @keionna7303
    @keionna7303 4 года назад

    I lost my dad too to cancer it is a terrible disease.... I watched my dad pass every step and just everything someone who's body is failing can go through. I am praying for you and if you ever need anything I am here...

  • @SgtMcLovin23PS3
    @SgtMcLovin23PS3 4 года назад +13

    Love you so much. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers every single day. I’m so so so sorry. 🥺😭🙏❤️

  • @maunder01
    @maunder01 4 года назад +8

    I'm so sorry to hear this Tiffany. May God comfort you and your family through this sad time. Praying for you and your family. 💕

  • @דניאללייבסקי
    @דניאללייבסקי 3 года назад +4

    May your dad rest in peace 🌹🙏
    Stay strong! ❤

  • @tommyita1088
    @tommyita1088 4 года назад +13

    Im so sorry for your loss.
    As long as he lives in your heart, he'll never die.
    Stay strong Tiffany ♥️

  • @mosskan
    @mosskan 4 года назад +6

    my dad passed months ago, it's really hard to lose someone you love.
    I'm sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @olielapz3534
    @olielapz3534 3 месяца назад

    My dad passed away 7 months ago. I was lucky he was holding my hands and looked at me when he passed. I think of him every day.

  • @mrhumpty
    @mrhumpty 4 года назад +8

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom 5 years ago. Was over at her house the night before laughing and having fun with my Dad and my two boys. The next morning, after dropping my boys off at school I got a call from my Dad that she was in the hospital. She had collapsed and never woke up. I hope you take this the right way, but I envy you. I'd trade anything for one more laugh filled lunch with my Mom. I'm sure you're the same even though you had the time. It will take a while. I still talk to her and think about her every day. But it's getting easier... and that almost makes it worse.
    Be accepting of everyone around you and how they act. Everybody processes differently and you'll all come out of it at some point. Some sooner than others.

  • @Spewez
    @Spewez 4 года назад +15

    Hey, take your time. I understand this completely. Lost my mom to cancer almost 2 years ago, after a 6 year fight. If you want to talk I'm here.

  • @misshuffy
    @misshuffy 4 года назад +3

    I lost my mum 5 years ago tomorrow ( 28th Sept) she had breast cancer and nothing can ever prepare you for It. I’m so sorry for your loss. Be strong

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @GothamGhost11
    @GothamGhost11 4 года назад +26

    I'm so sorry, Tiffany... May the gods protect his soul. 😔💖

  • @kamile9422
    @kamile9422 4 года назад +6

    As someone who lost their dad I really feel your pain. Stay strong Tiffany.

  • @kellyblackwell8422
    @kellyblackwell8422 3 года назад +3

    I realize this was a while ago. After watching, I hope you are stronger during the progression of processing; with time, you were able to process more of what was happening. You have so much courage for sharing, so I want to say thank you! Losing a loved one or something close to family (family member, pet) is never easy, but it's a blessing that you are able to have family and support team with you.

  • @Ksteenanna
    @Ksteenanna 4 года назад +7

    I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss. He seemed like an amazing person and may he rest in peace.

  • @yuxianchoo5042
    @yuxianchoo5042 4 года назад +6

    stay strong sweetheart, i've had an family member who passed recently as well, but we can all get through this together, know that you are not alone and we'll always be by your side always.

  • @kingstevo2347
    @kingstevo2347 День назад

    Tiffany, my serious condolences to you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss and I understand how you feel. I lost my dad last year. My prayers and condolences are with you.

  • @ZuzkaW22
    @ZuzkaW22 4 года назад +5

    I can't even imagine how hard it must have been to hear that there's just one month left... Your so strong, day by day the pain will become lighter, I hope soon You will feel better. Sending all my love and support to You and Your family

  • @MrNathali10
    @MrNathali10 4 года назад +5

    I’m really sorry to hear this, you’re really strong. I know how hard it is . He’s better know . Heaven got a new angel and his taken care of you . Make him proud .

  • @ashleyoleary2674
    @ashleyoleary2674 4 года назад +1

    My best friend passed away a couple of months ago in a tragic car accident. She was only 21 years old. Losing a loved one will never make sense but don’t ever forget that they are always with you and watching over you. Prayers ❤️ I’ve been watching you since I was 13 and I am now 24. Stay strong!

  • @Dix_Ours
    @Dix_Ours 4 года назад +6

    Tiffany, I'm so sorry for your lost. I follow you since the beginning from France, I remember a (very old) blog with pictures of all your family at Christmas and I thought : "What a wonderful family". Today, after this video, I can still say : "what a wonderful family". Your father is living through you, you always love him as before, he is a very lucky man and I guess he knew that. I think about your family and you, and I feel your pain. From France with love (sorry I have to improve my english).

  • @kidmusician5312
    @kidmusician5312 4 года назад +12

    I am so sorry, sending my love and support to you and your family, Tiffany. We are all here for you ❤

  • @albertmaynard1147
    @albertmaynard1147 3 года назад

    I just saw this now. Been there. By the looks of the family photos in your video, you are blessed with a large and loving family - do not take that for granted. The thing that has helped me move on is to always be grateful for the time that I did get to have with my dad. I try and make a point saying thank you for specific things that I was grateful for. It helps you to remember all of the good stuff. Take care

  • @kendallhoatan
    @kendallhoatan 3 года назад +3

    Losing a dad is too hard that I feel, as well, because it's hard to live without him, too. I hope you have a better life later. I hope you feel better soon, too. :(

    • @JonathanGillies
      @JonathanGillies 3 года назад +1

      The only way that we'll get true peace is if we've repented of our sinful life and asked God to have mercy on us. If we've done that, God promises that our sins will have been punished in Christ rather than in ourselves in eternity. If we haven't turned from our sin and asked for mercy, God promises that we ourselves will have to pay the penalty for our sins in a lost eternity forever. Don't let this happen to you! Why would you? It's completely unnecessary. Jonathan

  • @Ubetchagirl
    @Ubetchagirl 4 года назад +6

    One thing I learned from losing my father was loosing him never gets easier but coping/living without him becomes easier...

  • @samzero8990
    @samzero8990 4 года назад

    I am sorry for your loss.. I lost my sister last year.. When she first diagnosed with cancer.. All in heart is just hope that she will live longer.. Till the days passed when I see her suffering too much and passed few years.. I just can't see the pain she endured.. I tell God.. Fine as long as she is not suffering anymore. When the moments hit me hard that she will be dying I really can't accept the times are just that little..
    Just learned to letting go day by days.. As long the deceased is free from pain and they will look after u from the heaven.
    God blessed

  • @Ryryette
    @Ryryette 4 года назад +12

    Know when someone is going to die or even knowing when you are going to die... Wow....it's such a torture. You're so strong

  • @plattym3
    @plattym3 4 года назад +13

    I'm so sorry to hear this!

  • @tonieve8836
    @tonieve8836 4 года назад +1

    I lost my dad when i was 14 and my brother 12 to Colon cancer...
    this was almost 5 years ago and i still miss him every day.
    But one thing i never wanted to loose and never lost is my faith and the memorys i have with him.
    In my mind he is and will be there for me whatever i do and whatever life has to offer me.
    It’s hard sometimes... especially at chistmas or his birthday but it get‘s easier every year.
    I send you strengt to heal and progress the traumatic situation.
    Toni

  • @Jeffwaifei
    @Jeffwaifei 4 года назад +7

    Whatever you've gone through, your fans, we are with you! Please stay strong.

  • @sorrybutnotreally87
    @sorrybutnotreally87 4 года назад +7

    Tiffany you’re one of the sweetest people I’ve ever come across online, I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Sending you our love... ❤️

  • @Yenhaiquach
    @Yenhaiquach 3 года назад

    I know the pain of every words, every sentences you said. Maybe our dads are smiling somewhere in the heaven, watching us everyday. Hope We can be their daughters again in the next life

  • @vincentfavorada6072
    @vincentfavorada6072 4 года назад +7

    my mom died on july 9 because of cardiac arrest.
    but until now im feeling loss and sad but life must go on IDOL .. i know ur feeling idol. always pray to god. and condoleces to the family 😢💪

  • @hodonyassin9760
    @hodonyassin9760 4 года назад +6

    My condolences to you and your family. May your father be at peace.

  • @blucky1250
    @blucky1250 4 года назад +1

    Oh pretty girl. Your dad lives on in memories. Losing my mum was awful but my therapist taught me to be grateful, as not everyone gets a mum who is so special. It brings me solace to know that grieving is all the love I couldn’t give her as she was amazing like your dad. Payers and grace to you honey. It’s heartbreaking and I’m sorry. Xxxx

  • @lmenascojr
    @lmenascojr 4 года назад +31

    When you start out on that lonely journey,
    You’ll feel without a doubt like the only soul left in the world,
    But not too far out, you will see a bright light
    Shining with God’s light from above,
    In it, all your long lost friends
    Will be waiting there to greet you,
    And you’ll say how long it’s been,
    But they’ll say “we got here just before you”,
    Then you’ll realize what had seemed a lifetime
    Was less than a moment long,
    And in a few more moments, I will be beside you,
    Then you won’t have to go alone,
    Together we’ll make our journey home...

  • @jonia368
    @jonia368 4 года назад +5

    Hey Tiffany;)
    I‘m very sorry for your loss. Try to preserve all these beautiful moments with your dad within your heart.
    Wish you all the best🤗, take your time.
    Joni

  • @WivoRN
    @WivoRN 2 года назад

    Sending you love and support, my dad passed away 61 days ago, and I really feel you...

  • @BrewCityGillz
    @BrewCityGillz 4 года назад +5

    Praying you find peace and comfort during these difficult times. Take all the time you need. Stay strong! God bless!

  • @HermanKDaily
    @HermanKDaily 4 года назад +11

    Hearing about this news on your Instagram last month was heartbreaking and I'm sure you're still going through all the emotions as it's never an easy pill to swallow. Processing any death no matter how it happens will never be easy especially when it's somebody close to you or that you've known growing up. You can never care too much about someone and having grown up listening to your music, your videos and perspective on life for what felt like the past decade, you've taught us all so much and your dad now lays resting knowing how proud he's been with you and your family.
    Unfortunately, eventually all good things come to an end even when we least expect it. When you're living in the moment, time feels infinite even though you know it's not and the clock is constantly ticking. When something like this has happened throughout my life, I found that running, reading, music and thinking all helped whether that be alone or with friends. Reflecting on your past, your present and what you can make of it for the future has left me forever grateful of the memories and experiences endured. You have helped many of us through our difficulties without even knowing it and now is the time we do what we can to help you even if that just means leaving a little piece of what we're thinking. Stay Strong!

  • @time4chai995
    @time4chai995 2 месяца назад

    I'm 3 years late... I actually just re-discovered your page after 10 years and am happy to see you are still active. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is such a heart-wrenching experience, and a lasting journey. I pray you are re-united with him some day

  • @jjwws48
    @jjwws48 4 года назад +4

    I am so sorry for your loss. That is so hard to go through. Sending love and peace your way. 🤍