Why You Need To Stop Caring So Much

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Комментарии • 114

  • @jesuschristlovingyou
    @jesuschristlovingyou 2 года назад +39

    "Whoever you are now you can get better." Words of hope for everyone.

    • @AldenAbleAlvarez
      @AldenAbleAlvarez 2 года назад

      Bro I literally listen to him say that and then I look down at the comments after taking a bite of food and read your comment the timing on that was weird

    • @kimberleeponce1665
      @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

      Thx

  • @crystalmorgan9118
    @crystalmorgan9118 2 года назад +15

    That's so hard my down fall is that i am too forgiving and quick to trust . Its harder when its family however awareness and education helps . Yes the Narcissistic awareness is getting way out of control over the top . but i focus on me rather than studying a person that dont respect me and say they this they that

  • @freespirit9806
    @freespirit9806 2 года назад +7

    I am free. I am detached from everyone and everything. I enjoy being independent in that way. I only trust and depend on God and myself

  • @cazstar8152
    @cazstar8152 2 года назад +2

    Really needed this today , thanks

  • @Micscience
    @Micscience 2 года назад +6

    Good advice on not caring about stuff that may have enraged you from the past.

  • @marieke74
    @marieke74 2 года назад +10

    Yep , facts . I have learned I can not controle people how they see me . It is what it is . In the past I could overthink about it . Not anymore and it is a powerful feeling ! Just go on... new people always arround the corner who do gets you . The most people don't " listen " anymore ....love yourself first ! Heal from narc past people, and good people come in to your live . If they won't...well see yah ! 🥰 love your deep level teaching! It is reality 💯✊

    • @OfficialBROOM
      @OfficialBROOM 2 года назад +1

      You cannot live life according to anyone else 🤪!

    • @marieke74
      @marieke74 2 года назад +1

      @@OfficialBROOM true 😅

  • @freespirit9806
    @freespirit9806 2 года назад +4

    Right on Joel. We are soul. Not the ego. The ego is negative. False self. Observe your thoughts and switch negative ones for positive. That is how to renew our mind and align it with soul. Which is positive energy source

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Loved "youre gonna handle the situation the right way."

  • @tonifool7423
    @tonifool7423 2 года назад +3

    U DO HELP TO EMPOWER. AND I'VE GOT THE POWER!

  • @thegeminiclub
    @thegeminiclub 2 года назад +14

    Just because i go quiet from time to time doesn’t always mean I’m sad. My job is to guide everyone back home by standing up to evil relentlessly. I’ve gone mad a few times so I do need to rest and I’m starting a new routine this week

  • @CRIPZOE8
    @CRIPZOE8 2 года назад +2

    😊 my mom built this heart to care ❤

  • @delonthomas5049
    @delonthomas5049 2 года назад +1

    Thanks

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Loved "you cannot depend on others."

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Loved "you can control how you react to that."

  • @WoziduranJahemter
    @WoziduranJahemter 2 года назад +4

    In case you are wondering: The more good deeds you make the beautier you become, the more bad deeds you make the uglier you become. Simple energy traits that shows.

  • @chrisreimondo102
    @chrisreimondo102 2 года назад +3

    You are really educating people.It helps getting another perspective.Thank you.

  • @s0uthernEyez
    @s0uthernEyez 2 года назад

    You help me daily... So thankful for you

  • @freespirit9806
    @freespirit9806 2 года назад +3

    I don’t expect others to be awake and on the same level as me. We all have our own journey. Have compassion. Be humble. But for the Grace of God here go I.

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Loved "you know what you aré doing."

  • @JayWalks95
    @JayWalks95 2 года назад +5

    Terry, hands down, Genuinely loved!. 💯🗡

  • @carmenc777
    @carmenc777 2 года назад

    When you know better you do better

  • @Jesusmaverick89
    @Jesusmaverick89 2 года назад +6

    This taught me a valuable lesson

  • @jonasteuma4440
    @jonasteuma4440 2 года назад +19

    I'm yet to watch this one TJJ and family, but my first thoughts on the topic: Care less for people pleasing and obstacles, and more on your mission and hobbies.

  • @waragainstmyself1159
    @waragainstmyself1159 2 года назад +8

    They use our good nature, and empathy against us. Us men, the ones who see through these evil mfers, we have to protect this energy. Protect it at all costs. I only now show this side to my children, everyone else gets the stoic me.

  • @maligoonz0116
    @maligoonz0116 2 года назад +10

    Period brother Joel . You on the same exact level as me fr . Words of wisdom . Keep that same energy coming . 'Cause I love it fr 😎

  • @andrewrobertson3894
    @andrewrobertson3894 2 года назад +1

    "You know what? Screw it. I'm just gonna eat this sandwich."
    That's a metaphor for life, and this video actually. Don't get bogged down in the weeds, in the details. Push forward at all costs.

  • @MotoGroto
    @MotoGroto 2 года назад +2

    The best thing to know about all of this, whether you know it or not, God is in control in its most literal sense. Rejoice

  • @ssing7113
    @ssing7113 2 года назад

    This came at the perfect time. I realized a lot of our anger from narc abuse is from unmet expectations. I ask everyone if it’s possible let it go. We just need to reframe it to treat them how they do to you. They don’t care. So then stop caring! We can’t change the past hurts but we can change today how we respond and act. Act as cold as them and see them shiver how the tables flip
    I did this today and took my power back. She wanted another go. I said ok. Then I’m going to behave how You do. What did I get “ I don’t want that” 😂

  • @fetch578
    @fetch578 2 года назад

    Lmao the vape impression 😂

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Loved " people aré going to do what theyre going to do." So you for you to be overly concerned about that, Is just stupid."

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    Better better better better

  • @kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkscum
    @kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkscum 2 года назад +5

    Great message TJJ it's been me myself and I my whole life baby and I plan on keeping it that way!

  • @nofrontvo4426
    @nofrontvo4426 2 года назад

    The vape hit 😭🤣🤣

  • @benjaminbeasley4161
    @benjaminbeasley4161 2 года назад +3

    Facts!!!!

  • @robiness5344
    @robiness5344 Год назад

    Stopped caring this week, have concerns at work that I brought up with my manager on a couple of occasions with no communication whatsoever!
    They don’t care. … now I don’t either! So dam disrespectful!

  • @freespirit9806
    @freespirit9806 2 года назад +4

    We are blessed with being positive energy source. As such we don’t need anybody. We stand alone. Our family is not necessarily our biological family. My family are other true selves. We are not attached to each other .

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 2 года назад +2

    Too much caring , then
    They think you're so weak they can trample you and do whatever.

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Thx

  • @ericstepansky1621
    @ericstepansky1621 2 года назад +2

    And one day ,
    I just stopped caring.

  • @epouranios3553
    @epouranios3553 2 года назад +4

    There will be two groups of people in the last days those who love themselves, and those who love the lord.

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Yes, I understand what you're saying. I just dont want to believe that my clóset friends aré telling me shit. People be acting funny and I dont know how to put my finger on it."

  • @ilovetosingx3670
    @ilovetosingx3670 2 года назад +13

    I don’t care 🤷‍♀️ about my snake 🐍 enemies (I’M UNBOTHERED &+ MY NAME WILL BE CLEARED IN BAD FALSE CASES!) ; - Kim 👩🙏 (I’M DIVINELY PROTECTED!!) ; - I care about myself always ! , - (I CAN CONTROL MYSELF YES!) ; - I REBUKE NARCISM OUT OF MY LIFE FOREVER ♾ !! ; - I MAKE THE RIGHT DECISIONS OF MYSELF WITHOUT MY SNAKE 🐍 ENEMIES ! ; -

  • @OfficialBROOM
    @OfficialBROOM 2 года назад +4

    Freedom is the ability to Not listen to the Mind :)
    "Fail early & fail often." - God damn right!
    Let the mother bird drop you out of the nest, it'll be the best thing ever happen to you!
    Prolongue & Delay pleasure Today!
    Every day be happy & grateful!
    Feel the peace and joy!
    It feels amazing!
    Positive thoughts actually change your genes.

  • @deborahroseboro7292
    @deborahroseboro7292 2 года назад +3

    The more they hit me the more power I receive

  • @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure
    @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure 2 года назад +10

    Don't trust powerful people to much. Trust the ones who love and look up to you 💜❤️

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 2 года назад

      Wrong they are user and abuser

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    You have to exit out of that reality and immedietely create a new one. Bc you do have control over that."

  • @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336
    @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336 2 года назад

    Ppl gave me no other option but to not care....

  • @NG-iu9xn
    @NG-iu9xn 2 года назад +2

    Yo the vape impersonation tho 😆😆🤣🤣

    • @johnleeder7682
      @johnleeder7682 2 года назад

      As I'm literally doing just that watching haha

  • @jessewatt5528
    @jessewatt5528 2 года назад +3

    The narcissist gets supply to run you down later it's a high my father was thus way and we don't talk cause who would run there own blood down and get off on it only a narcissist and not me.

  • @mariasol5805
    @mariasol5805 2 года назад +1

    I'm going to care about other people, regardless, I'm a loving person and nobody is going to stop that except God and he's not going to do that, later for the minions that don't care about anything, they're going to deal with their own evilness soon.

  • @Lover-of_TRuth
    @Lover-of_TRuth 2 года назад +1

    You ain’t never lied about the sandwich…… 😞

  • @jeridiahwatson3718
    @jeridiahwatson3718 2 года назад

    I’m helping raise my Niece and Nephew who are age 9 & 11. I have changed many a Diaper, I have lived with them, baby sat them. Took them for a ride in an Old School Peterbilt (18 Speed w/ Chrome and Chicken lights) I have taken them to Church and Fishing several times. Not to mention I just paid $180 a head for them to go to Horse Camp for a few days. My baby Sister is having serious Health issues. So while I had my Niece & Nephew with me. I talked to them about their Momma’s Health issues & asked them both who they wanted to stay with if my Sister passed away. Do you know what my Niece said? She said that she wanted to stay with some young guy who got fired from Taco Bell that my Sister just met & moved in with a month ago! I was CRUSHED. I looked my Niece right in the Eye & told her that I am gonna have a serious problem with that. Especially since I have known both of y’all since before you were even born. We’re Kinfolks. Y’all are not gonna to go stay with Zack who you’ve only known for a month! What the hell is wrong with these Kids??? 🤔

    • @andrewrobertson3894
      @andrewrobertson3894 2 года назад +1

      They're just children, bro. Don't pay no mind to their foolishness. They don't even know what they're saying because their mind's aren't developed enough to see the big picture.God knows what you're doing for them and your sister. Take faith in that.

  • @lukaszurb3452
    @lukaszurb3452 2 года назад +1

    1:20 yes AS AN ARTIST I LL TELL YOU POSITIVE EGOISM FIRST,THEN PROCEED TO CLEAN YOURSELF WHIT BODY OF. CHRIST

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    I just be blown around to happy place to happy place , and I always be blown around to only happy place ! People and places don't like care about me out of my control so just leave them alone don't go there then

  • @cynthiadivine7971
    @cynthiadivine7971 2 года назад +1

    All I say is.. "make. it. make. sense" 😇✨💛🙏..

  • @deborahroseboro7292
    @deborahroseboro7292 2 года назад +2

    Bitter or Better I choose Better!!

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +4

    Save all of my incomes to buy eggs milks and all high protein foods to create bigger me as a digital creator ! bro ! My leading life since from I don't looking for food , all good !

  • @stephaniesallie8968
    @stephaniesallie8968 2 года назад +3

    17th like . your A teacher . n. Your Winner Brother . Amen. Bless you.
    Ty 8 6 22. Over caring about uncaring people. They pay double for deceit like this too us. We gotta trust God..n ask to make sure we don't forget..no matter what. Amen

  • @luv1000
    @luv1000 2 года назад

    No one knows themselves & barely anyone loves themselves.
    Sandwiches does not cut what reality with family who completely ruins your life!

  • @lukaszurb3452
    @lukaszurb3452 2 года назад +1

    To heal from narcs invoke thebody of christ use pure intention wileprayng , heal the damaged parts.then proced to split the parts like in yin yang so you have morecontroll over all those part. OPPOSITE IS THE KEY. MAGIC. SHAMAN CHRIST. GLORY TO CHRIST ONLY HIM SAVES

  • @elhuervo6069
    @elhuervo6069 2 года назад +1

    5:20 damn right

  • @luv1000
    @luv1000 2 года назад

    You can't care that f_______ much cause NO one does!!!!!!!!!!

  • @minbh7965
    @minbh7965 2 года назад +4

    Some people are natural born good teachers, meaning teaching is a skill. But that being said, it is also found that some people are very knowledgeable but they are not naturally born teachers or in other words having skills of teaching. But it does not make them less intelligent or less knowledgeable.
    In short, everyone has their own set of unique traits that are gifts from nature. And there are so many other things that one can be skilled at instead.
    The ones who find their own natural gift sitting within and acknowledge it and honour it first in their own selves are the ones called using one’s natural gifts to the fullest.
    Everyone has some gifts sitting within them. God gives different gifts to everyone. No two individuals are gifted the same way. That’s why we are our own unique selves and not the other sitting besides us. We are of our own when it comes to our own gifts. God given gifts. The ones which make you who you are. Finding them is the journey everyone takes on their own accord. That is why everyone’s path is different. Everyone should follow their own inner calling and their own natural path. No one, hence, should also try too hard on others to do this and that. It does not work because too much of interference and intervention as and forcing on others is never going to work. Because everyone works off of their own unique talents and gifts. And that can never be controlled or recognized by others on your behalf. You are the one who is entitled to claim it for your own self and not others.
    When others try too hard to control that right of yours then series of failures happens. Because taking away someone’s own right to grab whatever is their own reality and unique talent and their own life goal or purpose is never for others to dictate, force, decide or find.
    That, which is rightfully mine, no one should try to touch or control or guide or force or manipulate or ask or try to shape.
    My unique self is my own unique expression and over which only I have a right and a say to claim it, express it, take it.
    Everyone else should focus on their own journey of finding their own unique gifts, talents and self expression and achievement of self.
    In short, those behind me, are uninvited and unsolicited pests in my own life. They are not required as well as they are not entertained or allowed.
    They have nothing for me to take. Just because, it is for me to grab my own achievement, that, which is my own unique self and my own inner talents and gifts.
    You focus on yours. Mine is already taken - by me, my own self.
    Give a space and take your own space as well.
    You focus on your own spotlight, and I am doing it for my own self independent of you.
    There is no comparison, no competition and no poking around between us required.
    You are abundant in your own accord - your own natural skills wise. I also have the same for me.
    Each one of us has our own gifts to follow.
    It is the reality.

    • @marieke74
      @marieke74 2 года назад +1

      Following you inner calling and purpose in live is the best you can do . No matter what other people thinks .

  • @joshuatolloti1556
    @joshuatolloti1556 2 года назад +2

    I searched my name in RUclips one day and you popped up. I've been catching your videos since then.
    It always seems like your videos are directed towards me lol. I really like what you have to say.

  • @HijadeDiosS.____..
    @HijadeDiosS.____.. 2 года назад +2

    yes should never matter, God will deal with others who only judge other nd thats all they do. hurting others for their sake.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    Lots of low value individuals try to run their social circles on me 🥊🥊🥊

  • @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure
    @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure 2 года назад +8

    I've had so many powerless predicaments. That I just don't want that ever again for myself. I want to be powerful and to be around powerful people. I didn't realize or live up to my own power - that I regret. But different things led to that. I need a strong man in my life, strong person to build with, to work with to do for and be done for. Don't trust powerful people to much.

  • @victoriasrandomthoughts8698
    @victoriasrandomthoughts8698 2 года назад +1

    Some bad stuff is happening please watch out. The spiritual world is fired up.

  • @kimberleeponce1665
    @kimberleeponce1665 Год назад

    Okay cool so like have options.... "Either ask them to remake the sandwich or accept the sandwich as Is" & "completely leave that reality behind."

  • @guacamole_kid3187
    @guacamole_kid3187 2 года назад +2

    How does one love his neighbor as he loves himself, if he doesn't yet know how to properly love himself??
    And where do we learn love from?
    the man himself of course
    The Lord Christ Jesus
    Stay humble and thoughtfully true beloved
    🫀

  • @zakradford6488
    @zakradford6488 2 года назад

    Just had someone try be a rat to me because of who I am like rats man lucky I don’t rip him to shreds blood pressure goes through the roof

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    There are no women are important in my life , there are only happiness important in my life , I only control my happiness and where make me happy ! For example museums ! Everytime when I am in museums , that fresh air make me so fullfiled

  • @williamckama8470
    @williamckama8470 2 года назад +2

    World going to shit. Did all that. This place is forsaken. When done young blood.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    Huhuhuhuh wooo ! Bro , I already saw those got their karma . I saw their later on life be like . Their life is doomed ! I don't have Instagram , I am strict businessman

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

      Smoke Vaper everyday ? Smoke hookah everyday ? What kind of life is that ! Pretend to be cool

  • @jingleval8469
    @jingleval8469 2 года назад

    from your story i feel your gril hurt you so deep(emotional)

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 2 года назад

    They don't care about you , so , you gotta care about you.
    If you care about you , enough so that you got a career etc then they care about you, cause you're all that

  • @Relax-Qc
    @Relax-Qc 2 года назад

    That vaping imitation make me laft

  • @JamesHawkeYouTube
    @JamesHawkeYouTube 2 года назад +1

    What would Jesus do?

  • @tanyakashyap6944
    @tanyakashyap6944 2 года назад

    💞💞💞

  • @albertfuentes9791
    @albertfuentes9791 2 года назад

    Hey I have a question is your nose okay ??

  • @nielsk85
    @nielsk85 2 года назад

    🐻‍❄️

  • @yeshua333
    @yeshua333 2 года назад +3

    Me and husband are jeshua I want this chip out of me know no more

  • @lacrossslounge5403
    @lacrossslounge5403 2 года назад +1

    I could care less FOR REAL

  • @candyosborne214
    @candyosborne214 2 года назад

    ☮️👍💜🎯

  • @andrewwilkins6553
    @andrewwilkins6553 2 года назад +1

    Small minded people love minuscule clout

  • @manwithanamethystheart
    @manwithanamethystheart 2 года назад

    I'm sorry but no.. That is not the answer.
    Having the ability to care is what sets me apart from most.
    The answer is people need to care more.
    Stop being @$$holes!

  • @farrellhuff3889
    @farrellhuff3889 2 года назад

    ya