Feeling lost? Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
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I’m now 86 and I wish I could have told my young self to stay true to myself instead of caring so much about what other people thought about me or expected of me.
God bless you 🙏🏽✨
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Love this ❤❤❤
I wish I could go back and redo. But now just make the most of the precious time you have left here in your life❤@@lorettapickett9648
Being alone is external. Being lonely is internal. Just cos you're on your own does not mean you're lonely. Protecting your peace is everything. Have a great day D from the uk
I like that...well said. 💙❤💙
Being alone is not being lonely.
Amen 🙏🏽
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So true!!
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I enjoy my own company; it doesn't mean I'm lonely 🎯
I don't personally see you as lonely at all. Your life looks like you're thriving and extremely peaceful. I think the way you keep continuously touching on the topic ( a couple of your vids, the live) is making ppl question the topic more. You've answered that question a plethora of times. whoever doesn't get doesn't want to understand
Loved this video. I am much older, and one thing I would have told 20 year old me is to be mindful. Of time passing, of what I eat, who I share my time and moments with, of the kind of life I want. MINDFUL. I definitely do it now, in my 50's.
After being in a 18 yr relationship now going on 6 yrs single. I cherish my alone time, I get to learn new things about me continuously. Even towards the end of my relationship I was being prepared to be single and loving myself before I just had to let that part of my life go. It’s the happiest I’ve been u really get to know ur worth and all that comes with it. I’m doing me and loving it. U definitely take lessons from past experiences but I would never say I wasted my time. Whether I get into another relationship is up to me and God.
Exactly I had to learn that to. Eating out, going to movies, and hanging out by myself is not weird. Waiting on people you will never go. I absolutely love it and you would be amazed how many people you see by themselves doing the same thing.
I've been through so much with these companies-stressed, mentally exhausted, and completely burned out. But my current job was the wake-up call I needed. It made me realize that if I don’t take action toward my goals and dreams, success will always be out of reach. 2025 is the year I step out of my comfort zone and start my business. I have to believe in myself and let go of fear. FAITH OVER FEAR, RIGHT?
Everybody can't handle not being codependent on others for validation, approval, attention, acceptance, affection... dealing with people in small doses is a reflection of emotional and intellectual maturity... there's a reason for every season... they not like us 😊😊😊
Single women here with a 17 year old son. I began to send him your RUclips videos from Time to Time, and it’s not that I don’t teach and encourage him about cleanliness and overall self-care, but I think it’s more so the fact that is coming from me. His dad is in his life, but definitely the opposite of what I would call a role model unfortunately. I really appreciate this video because I feel like the gaming and the snacking..definitely the hot Cheetos stuck out to me in the beginning as far as the stuff that these kids consume lol, but I will be sending this video to him and I hope it inspires him as a young man as much as it does for me as a woman just to constantly see self-care,cleanliness, & singleness. I don’t think there’s a video that I haven’t liked! keep up the good work and continue what you’re doing. Stay encouraged Thank you🙏🏼
#4 SAVE THAT MONEY,SAVE THAT MONEY,SAVE THAT MONEY ❤💯
DEEP!!! 🤔This is an important video for all ages...
Sometimes people project what they would feel onto content creators. The content you make and the videos you create show that you feel fulfilled with where you are now, and you have already said you are open to inviting someone into your life who fits your vibe. That’s really all anyone needs to know.
(Also, even with the notifications on for everything, I’m still not getting livestream alerts. I don’t know what’s going on.)
In my late 30’s I learned being alone is so peaceful and like you said it gives you space to learn and grow , it’s also allowing me to lock in . GREAT VIDEO AS ALWAYS !
I agree with the being alone I’m 55 I have a husband my kids are grown but if the hubs dnt wanna go I’m learning to do things on my own and I’m ok with that 🥰 and I dnt hang out with folks that can’t teach me something ❤
Watching while I’m on break at work. I’m just in time😌. People have no idea how much saving money could be of value for you in the long run. Life happens very unexpectedly and good stability is extremely important.
I appreciate your videos I can tell you’re passionate about making good fresh creative content. You can tell you’re becoming super comfortable with your supporters. Keep shining !!
Being by urself is ok, it takes you to another level of knowing who you are
22:12 My Living Alone diaries were inspired by understanding this very thing. I learned so much about myself and what I wanted my life to look like going forward. Initially not even thinking about how solitary my life was going to be during my time in Savannah, then after awhile just naturally getting used to it and realizing how much of a blessing it was to have that time to reflect and do what I wanted on my time was amazing. This led me to my 1st two MAJOR solo trips to not only places I’ve never been but 2 of the biggest cities I could’ve possibly chose. That alone told me I’m capable of enjoying my life, alone or not.
I tell my nephew these things all the time. I can’t reverse time, but I can give wisdom. Wisdom is not money but it can others make and keep theirs
Very powerful VLOG!
Thank you!
Even at 64, I am learning and have made so many mistakes in life.
30 years of wasted on emotional road blocks.
However, as of now, I have decided that was my destiny to learning life.
So true what you speaking about. I been here. When I was younger. I know just what you speaking about. I'm older now and still holding back on some things. Starting to just do. If it works out it does. If it dont move on to something else. Dont stop trying. Dont quit. Your havent failed until you stop trying things. That's how you learn. Learn from mistakes, and things you didnt do. Dont beat yourself up about it. Just keep moving forward. I have God now amd my Faith in him. Now, whatever I do. I ask God to help me in all areas of my life.
DWho I couldn’t agree more @22:12!! You were preaching in this moment. I use to wait on my friends to travel to different places, but after a while I got tired of not going bc they didn’t have the money or couldn’t get the time off. So I started traveling by myself and haven’t looked back!! Also LOVE the part about taking care of your credit. I learned the hard way too, but started working on it years ago and I now have a 844 credit score!! 😬😬
Hi DWho, I came across your channel & really admire you as a young man you seem to be “lifen” right! I remember you mentioning ur faith in God but you never discussed what church’s you were visiting. I want to invite you to Embassy City Church in Irving, TX. Services are at 9am & 11am. Hope you come out one day. The pastor is Tim Rivers. Keep doing what you are doing. You are inspiring. God has great things in store for you. I’m Momma Chris 🫶🏾
My grandad always said keep your credit straight and save your money. Great advice
To thine own self be true! Age is a blessing denied to many, wait until 40 baaaaaaaby!
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Being alone is peace sometimes. Many times for me
Precious living lessons for everyone,wise talking ❤
RUclips is a company and when it shuts down, have something to fall back on. Stay consistent tap into your own creativity.
I want you to know that your videos are helping a lot of people in a good way.. You are a real good person. I support you and will share your post..because I want other creatives to know about you. It's not about me! Right now... I'm behind on things that I need to do, I allowed distractions to infiltrate my mind. In 2025 it's do or don't for me. I am also a entrepreneur and love people who do more than just roll the dice. They search for there purpose and elevate their lives. What's not to love about you or your videos King.😊❤
This video was so well put together! Kudos to you on a job well done, and we all appreciate your perspective and info that you're giving! 🥰🙏🏾💪🏾
Thank you for this video! It was so comforting. I’m 23 and love learning from those older than me.
People who are able to be alone are very confident in themselves! Those that cant be alone are very insecure! No need to justify your love for alone time❤
Gotta say I watched your "Bandemic" movie😂😂😂 your editing skills are really amazing! The movie was cool and funny! Loved your cameo, too!🤣🤣❤❤
I felt this video DEEPLY! 😮 you spoke nothing but facts!! One thing I would go back and tell myself in my 20s is to DEFINITELY SLOW DOWN! Not to be too hard on myself, and stop being so serious! 😮💨😊😅....❤❤❤ I enjoyed the video!
Glad to see your journey in Dallas has been positive! I've been here a few years now, and it's a refreshing take after almost a lifetime in the Midwest. Stay positive 💯🙏
7 great self lessons, at 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s I've learned something new and different about myself. Life us a continuous lesson...only if we learn
your videos never make me sad, just inspired ✨enjoying my peace too
Totally agree. I’ve learned the same lesson. I’ve been an entrepreneur for over 15 years and i wouldn’t change my peace for anything in the world.
My Dad has always said, "Your credit is your name. Keep your name in good standings. You dont have to have EVERYTHING right now. If you go after things too fast, you'll lose it as fast as you got it."
Hello! I watch all of your videos, but I never comment. I really appreciate you sharing your journey especially the encouragement to start our own RUclips journey. I am working on it and yes, you have to be very patient! Many blessings to you!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I have been watching your videos for a little while. This one really touched me because of what I'm going through. I am going through a divorce and trying to decide if I want to sell my house and move out of town. I am 52 and on my own. My kids are grown up with their own family. The part you said about being alone is what is getting me after 24 years. Thank you for this video ❤❤🙏🙏 U pray for you and your success.
You got this. I'll be 53 next month never married and no kids. I find myself loving more on myself, staying in touch with the Lord and doing what I want to do. It's nice just being responsible for me.
@dewanajohnson6028 thank you ♥️🙏♥️🙏
Yoooo D. this video hit home; Im lying here at 12:45 am watching this video, stressed about my job! Im financially comfortable, but emotionally & mentally burned out & just over it all...
Seen this video at just the right time. I just turned 28 last week and found myself making comparisons. Seeing people that are 21 and 22 doing things I can’t financially afford was bothering me. So needless to say I needed to see this video.
Your videos are so grounding and wholesome. Love the chill vibe.
You just need the courage to take the risk/ to never give up 🙏🏿💜
I enjoy being alone thanks for the Vlog blessings 🙌
DWHO is SUPERFANTASTIC content! 👏👏👏👨🎨🎭
Hey, I'm a person who doesn't have a man in my life right now,I love it, been married before, it's okay to be by yourself ❤❤❤
Wow…thanks for this video. It opened up my eyes. I agree with you 100%.
It’s true, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF; listen to your heart and gut. Just remember; it’s your life; don’t listen to other people. Stay focus on the information your Mom, Grandparents, etc. gives you, because they’ve been there and has more knowledge and experience.
I need to watch this video every time I try to talk myself into missing a workout. When you get older you need to keep moving.
GOD BLESS YOU!!
I resonate with all of this. Literally every point you made. 31yo here.
Thank you so much for sharing these positive nuggets!! Quite a few things you mentioned, I wish I would have thought in my twenties. I'm 67 and retired now. I'm grateful where I am now. The nuggets you share are great for the younger generation. You are very inspiring, and I enjoy your videos, vlogs, and your music. Again, I thank you and continue on your journey. I'm locked in!! Blessings always to you and your family 🙏🏾 💖
I love being home away from everything. These are great advice to use.
This was much needed...❤❤ 20s definitely hit different than being in my 30s now...
Loved the vlog and content! Being alone equals freedom to me and being happy with your life no matter what your relationship/friendship status is. There are some people that enjoy being social and around others. And there are some that enjoy being alone in their own space. As long as you are happy, it's all good!😜
Respect gang… 💯 Seeing this on time.
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@@LIFEOFDWHO Um Derwynn.. did you delete my comment?? I shared a serious/profound comment on this video per your invitation and now can no longer find it..
@@LIFEOFDWHO PS If you don't want a comment you can mute it. Rather than delete it meaning the person then cannot go back and access their content.
It’s always a vibe here.Peace,Love and Blessings ❤❤❤❤
“When we cannot bear to be alone, it means we do not properly value the only companion we will have from birth to death - ourselves.”
You live & learn! Keep pushing 😊
You spoke the absolute truth especially about the workforce and changing you situation
Alone is a physical state. Lonely is an emotional state. People don't know the difference between the two. Doing things alone and having moments of solitude replenish the mind, body, and spirit ✨️
Less hat wearing 👀❤️👏🏾 ...
I think DWho gettin comfortable with us y'all 🎉
I feel like we all just had a nice relaxing/down to earth/chill session with each other. Great vibe in this vlog D ❤
That's good you are sharing this info. Sometimes folk have to hear it to come out of the clouds.
Yes, so right. I'm teaching my grandchildren now generational wealth. That you can't obtain wealth working for someone else's dream and they care less. My father and grandfather taught me and my sibling this when I were around 9 years old. Although I worked in incorporated America, I also learned what I was taught was true. You have to use your gift, that's why it's valuable because you create your own wealth and income. I'm glad you spoke on this, Darwin.😊 I really enjoyed this video. Since watching you, you have really grown personally. It's amazing to see this for a Black man. Stay focused spiritually, and the rest is all yours.😊
I turn 29 next month and all ima say is you know exactly what youre talking about 😂 The 20’s are TOUGH. But ima go out swinging for sure 🫡 Your videos are top tier 🤝🏾 very knowledgeable and inspiring!
Man I relate to everything you said on this video! However I will say that everything I went through good or bad In my 20’s lead me to where I am now but only better I’m still working on something’s like a better job with better pay but I live in a new state so I’m more than half way there good stuff big bro ✊🏾
Appreciate the motivation bro. I’m 25 now and I struggle with thinking ahead so much. Keep putting on for our kind, black representation in media and social spaces goes a long way.
I love this video!! I’m still in my twenties but our journey is similar & I have the same mindset. All jobs have a cap but pursuing entrepreneurship can lead to great heights. Please believe in yourself and bet on yourself you really can achieve all your dreams if you put ur mind to it & put in the work.✨👏🏽
Always remember each person has do and don't,that what makes all of us different.
Your Videos are Very Helpful Bro and I feel like the life you live it’s nothing wrong with it. Rs as I sit hea and text you bro you just giving me strength to do better. You Sit a very high standard for others and I feel like God has blessed you in so many ways bro keep living life and doing what makes you happy. 💪🏾💪🏾😎😎
Solid advice and absolutely true. At the end of the day, doing what you love is key no employer is responsible for your financial stability or well-being. That story about your own uncle firing you was wild, and your friend getting fired for overperforming is next level ridiculous. Investing in yourself is always the right move totally worth it. Appreciate you sharing your experience. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I star falling you a few months a go and I loveee this blogs and you🥰 whit all the respect.But this video men this one touch me a lot.Thank you for what you do don you ever dout of you self don't give up.Than you from Puerto Rico❤️👑🇵🇷
I feel like in my twenties I was told everything I needed to hear, But with being so young the maturity of being teachable was not a perspective I found valuable due to me always having to provide for myself. (Which sometimes produces a sense of pride while living in protection mode)
Now that I am older, I appreciate and take heed to the wisdom told to me in my twenties.
Time and Maturity always has a way of opening our lens of acceptance and direction to be more receptive of teachable wisdom.
I absolutely ❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ this video!
I have always been a person that gravitate to self development and this video was definitely 💯.
I’m in my 20s & you gave a lot of confirmation I needed to hear. Love this type of content 🙌🏼
Finding myself again has been the best experience. I do everything by myself.
I see you coming along with the meal preparation. Looking good!
Dropping gems the whole video. I'm 31 and I wish I knew all of this in my 20s. Great video ❤
Loving this kind of videos and your journey is amazing GOD bless brothee ❤🤍
Something I wish I would have done differently in my 30's is to enjoy more alone time. When I did enjoy it or at times when I was alone, I was criticized. I realized over time that some people don't know how or are scared to be alone and they classify it as being lonely. Another thing I wish I had done was made good financial investments. Awesome video, you dropped some serious gems in here!
I love the shirt lol 😆 love to watch your videos and I appreciate to see a peer share their lived experience. You are out here doing big things and I hope all the best in your journey!
These are spot on tips and serves as a reminder. Thank you God bless you❤
The weight is looking good on you, D! 👏🏻
That’s so funny 😂My dad says the same thing all the time. “You act like that money is burning your pockets”
Good day DWHO, I'm really grateful for the word of advice, definitely am applying those words of wisdom.
yo im 34 and this was a blessing to watch
D you had so much inspiration and motivation in this video everything you spoke of I wish someone in my 20's would have told me and here I am in my early 30's just now getting my life in line...I needed to watch this video and hear the message you spoke it was giving very much spoken word how you just spit so much knowledge 🤌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
Omg, I’m kind of new to the channel 🙈 and thought you were every bit still in your 20s lol. All the best. I love that wolf 🐺 tattoo too! Yes, there is a difference between solitude and loneliness. Not everyone is capable of sitting and being at peace with themselves.
Loved this! Your parents must be so proud of you!
I resonate with this video so much!!!!! the risks I took in my 20's was the foundation for me now at almost 40. Im going to share this with some people I know can benefit from this.
From the time we’re born, we are taught to believe we should desire to be in a relationship. That’s fine if the object of your desire is compatible with you, and genuine. I decided to stop “chasing skirts” and work on improving myself and my skill set. Breaking free from traditional thinking was hard. But fast forward to now, I can’t even really put into words how I’ve grown as an adult and a man. A lot of things are no longer priorities in my life, and I’ve found that my alone time to think is my most precious commodity.
You are a good person and I am glad we are all a community together helping each other out! Good vlog! 😊
Loving this topic! Giving us some real facts on life!
An amazing video D....thank you so much for sharing. It means more than you could ever know and is going to help and inspire SO many people young and old...now and in the years to come!💙
All the trials and tribulations you went through in your life have brought you to where you are in life right? Continue doing you. You're such an insightful young man. 🙏🏾
This is definitely something that I needed, I'm planning on taking a pretty big risk but it's something that I've been wanting to do and I can but I feel that taking the risk is something I needed to hear. I plan that hopefully in the middle of this year getting a motorcycle, but I just wanted to say thank you and love your videos
I got to the place 3 years ago. I like
being by myself, it’s peaceful and therapeutic. Not the potato fell in the drain🥴🥴 I see you chef Dwho 😋😋😚
You a real one bro I needed this 💯
I see your getting that cooking down. Good topic today, I like the variety of your blog today.
Keep up the good work🥰
Thank you Derwin; that was an absolute MASTERCLASS!