How I Got Through the Darkest Time of my Life
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- #shorts Our journey after 2 miscarriages…
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I miscarried at 10 weeks at the end of January. It was so heartbreaking. My baby’s due date would have been 8/11/2024. It’s been a rough week, knowing that I could have been holding them in my arms now. I pray we both get our rainbow babies soon ❤
That is heartbreaking. I’m very sorry about your loss and I’m praying you get your rainbow baby soon. ❤️
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Anniversaries or their due date are the worst. Mine was due on thanksgiving last year. It was a rough holiday. We were 10 weeks as well. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for your loss. Your due date was my birthday. 😢
Sorry for your loss. 😢
This made me cry. God bless you again with your rainbow baby. You are very good parents and such beautiful children. ❤🙏🙏😇
Loss is heartbreaking. I had my first boy with no issues.. then I lost 8 pregnancies very early, at about 5 weeks. And then lost 2 in the second trimester at 24 weeks then at 16 weeks. After 5 horrid years of trying for another earth we welcomed our rainbow baby girl. She’s such a miracle and my growth through our journey has been so immense. I think how if all the others were here then my rainbow woudnt be and it’s all such a weird double edge sword feeling 🌸
I’m so sorry for you!
I am so sorry for your losses…I don’t know how you had the strength to carry on after that
@@Sammvoy it’s fine I edited it.
You will see all ur babies one day!😊
You will see all ur babies one day!😊
I feel your pain of loss.... Been through for every pregnancy there was 2 miscarriages and now we have 4 beautiful children. God is good. We pray for your beautiful family.
Sarah 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Im sorry for your loss
So many of us go through this and I always want to think that and hope that those babies know that they were wanted and loved. So much love ..
I believe they know and they're waiting for the day you will be reunited with them. Until then, live your best life momma, for all of your babies. God bless you
So sorry for your losses. My husband and I lost two pregnancies back to back. I blamed myself. I didn't understand, no one in my family had suffered losses back to back. I felt like a failure. I got very depressed. I gave the situation to God and I started exercising and focusing on my health. We were sent to a specialist since both losses occurred before 11 weeks. I was diagnosed with a blood clotting disorder. I didn't understand why this was happening to me since no one in my family had ever dealt with this. They said all I needed to do was take a baby aspirin everyday. My doctor also put me on progesterone for the first trimester of my pregnancies. We now have two healthy boys. Prayers for you and your family 🙏🏻❤️
I am so very sorry for your losses. I have miscarried all of my children. In 1980 i miscarried at 8 months, it iwould be the longest i would carry a little one. Had a besutiful still born girl on November 9th 1980, have had over 10 others. Whe i had a tubal pregnancy and had surgery, everyone told me i would be holding a little one by the end of the next year instead we just kept have more miscarriages. One bonus in your situation is that you have your boys and a hubby that stands by you I pray that your dreams come through and that God blessed you with another little one. Its obvious you have a lot more love to share. Appreciating what we have is a blessing in itself 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
I love that you shared your story with both sadness and hope, topped with a sprinkling of joy. The fact that the video *didn't* end with your 🌈 baby yet, is even MORE POWERFUL because you are sharing that no matter the outcome going forward, your love as a family is enough.
We need more of THIS on the internet and less of conservatives trying to be in your family planning and journey.
So sad. I am so sorry for y'all!! Prayers for healing! And comfort and growth for your family
I am having my first miscarriage. Baby’s heart never started beating. I am waiting on my abort now. God bless you ❤
This is i swear me and my husband’s story!! 2 miscarriages and i swear that second pregnancy we thought was our rainbow baby and sadly loss it too (missed miscarriage both times 😢) but hey we tried clomid letrozole hcg shots all the fertility treatments and we’re about to do IVF and BOOM pregnant naturally!!!! And this time it’s sticking ❤🎉so keep going!!!! God bless you both😊
Sending lots & lots of prayers for a healthy yet easy pregnancy, w/ the chunkiest healthiest baby arriving w/ a healthy pair of lungs for a newborn... 🥰🥰🥰🥰 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 👶👶👶👶
Praying for you all! My daughter in law is trying as well, with no luck. It's one of the hardest things we women go through, miscarriage.......I had a couple, it's devastating. You are stronger than you know! Pray, love, hope and don't ever give up
😔💜🙏 it's heartbreak like no other. Saying prayer for you and your family.
BEAUTIFUL. Gave me chills. I love your love
Thank you for sharing! I lost my first and trying my hardest to stay positive and hopeful for the future. Sending you so much love and prayers for you on your journey
It will happen, when the time is right, and when you take the pressure off. After 3 pretty bad losses, my mum was told there would be no more babies for her. I was 9, and we had a holiday booked, mum hated it, but tried to go along to make it fun for me. Well, 3 months later she ended up in hospital with suspected gall stones. Yeah, that "gall stone" is now 31, 6' 5" and has 2 kids of his own! And the doctor said it happened because mum had finally accepted it wouldn't, and the pressure to have another was gone. It wasn't even 5 months from that doctors appointment to her finding out she was 3 months gone, and she was in her mid 30s, which was a real issue 30 years ago! "Geriatric mum" and all that! I tell you, she was NOT impressed by THAT title. But she's also a nurse, and they make DREADFUL patients, so that's not too surprising 😂
Here's hoping you'll get your rainbow baby soon. But mum said taking the pressure off made
ALL the difference. Good luck in your journey, I'm sending as many good vibes and positive thoughts as I can❤
I’m praying for you guys throughout this journey. 🙏
You are so strong! I am praying for that rainbow for you soon 🌈. Loss of a baby is so hard no matter the gestation. Keep your head up you are such an inspiration and you have a beautiful and loving family ❤
Prayers sent 🙏🙏🙏 can't imagine the pain of that kind of loss 💔🥺 the time will happen ❤
I am hoping the best for you all. Your family is a breath of fresh air and I love your love
Best wishes and much love to you both! I went through a few miscarriages prior to the birth of my two beautiful children❤ I was told the most beautiful thing by a good friend now that my children are adults…. She said “ I miscarried my son and was devastated! He went to her in a dream saying all he needed was to know what it felt like to be very loved…. She loved him so much that he did not need to experience an entire lifetime… I found that so profound. 😊
Your one strong woman going through that not once but twice ! Stay strong ❤
OOOOOOOOOOOH SWEETIE 💕 😢I'm 63 yrs old. I lost my first pregnancy. Was blessed with three beautiful girls, then, married a terrific man with no children. We lost two more! It was heartbreaking 😢! Don't give up!!💖 We had a wonderful curly haired sweetie...she's 24 now. Everyone says the wrong thing when you are grieving...hold tight to your husband and family. 💖
Praying for you & family & that you will have a beautiful baby AND that mom & baby will be healthy & happy...🌹
I absolutely know your pain and it is gut wrenching… I’m currently on my 5 miscarriage in less than 3 years of trying. Doctors told me I probably won’t ever be able to have kids. Spent over $8000 at two fertility doctors, another $4000 at three different gynos and all the answers lead back to “endometriosis” and “PCOS”. There’s no way to prepare yourself before this or after. I still hold onto my pictures of my positive pregnancy tests from before… only to remember that I once was going to be a mom… I am so sorry. my heart,prays,hugs go out to you and your family💙
I put my arms around you. I miscarried 11 times and had 1 ectopic pregnancy. If I had stopped when friends and family thought it was crazy to keep trying, I wouldn't have my 3 children, now. It's your family, never give up until you want to.
Hugs.
Feel so sorry for you. That's so hard, losing a child. I habe 5 kids and lost one 2016 in 24th week and this year in 13th week. I gave birth to both...holding them in my hands. Buried them. Now I'm hoping to get pregnant again..🙏 God bless you and your family!
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After I miscarried I felt hopeless but then the same year I got pregnant with my rainbow 🌈 baby and she was the light I needed, she is my world ❤ I wish you the best
Awe sweeties. It's okay not to be okay. This made me cry 😢
So sorry for your loss, may you be blessed with a new little soon.
You two look like sweet people and you have such a sweet little family. I wish you the best of luck on your fertility journey. 💖
Nobody talks about unimaginable pain of pregnancy loss. I lost a baby at 19 weeks and it was the most harrowing ordeal of my life. However I did go on to have rainbow twins and for that I’m eternally grateful. Stay strong together. ❤🌈
I wish you all the best, happiness and strength for your way.And both of us a little rainbow in our arms next year. ❤️
God bless you , I give you all my love and prayers for this little one who is coming to you ❤❤❤
You are so beautiful and strong. Sending love ❤️
You guys this made me cry 😭😢
God bless you guys, I’ll be praying for you that this baby will go full term. It’s heartbreaking to see a couple such as yourselves, that are openly trying to get pregnant, and there are so many people in the world that don’t care, they use abortion as a form of birth control. I’m so sorry you have had such a difficult time I’m praying that everything goes smoothly. Love you guys!♥️😘🙏🏻
No one uses abortion as birth control. Stop with that myth. Birth control can fail, and sexual education is a joke. Maybe if parents actually educated their children on the matter, there would be less abortions. Comparing people struggling with infertility to women having abortions is gross. There is no shame to not want to go on with an unwanted pregnancy.
I’m an angel baby myself. You’re an amazing momma don’t let anyone tell you otherwise ❤❤❤❤
This hurts my heart. I'm so sorry you went through that. I Love you sister and can't wait to see your family grow! God has Blessed you and it will be okay! Praying for you!
I know how you’re feeling. My wife and I were expecting our first child after 3 years of trying only to suffer a miscarriage a week ago. It’s one of the hardest things to endure 😢
Hey dude I’m sorry that happened, wishing you and your wife all the best
@@Geldof4444 Thank you
Ofcourse, these things are so hard to endure that no one talks about enough
Sending hugs and positive vibes for you both 💜
I’ve not had a miscarriage and I can’t even imagine your grief ❤️ but I did my own fertility journey over 20 years ago and it was hard. Keep positive thoughts and energy. I hope it all comes good for you. I have a son who is nearly 20 now and we were told that we would probably never conceive ❤
Such a sweet family, sending lots of positive vibes for your rainbow baby!! ❤❤❤
So sorry…it’s truly devastating to go through the loss of a little one that you are so excited about. ❤
So sorry for your losses. Losing a child at any stage is always heartbreaking. I've been there. It's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Praying that God blesses you with more babies very soon!!!
A dear friend and her husband are trying for their first and have felt this heartache so many times already. She just told me tonight heartache again. I opened RUclips and your short was the very first thing that popped up for me. Thank you for hearing my prayer and giving me a sign for her that He has both of them in his arms and will take care of them.
Sending love and hugs and support I am so so sorry for everything that you’ve been through and everything that you are going through I hope everything turns out amazing 🩷🩷🩷🩷
You guys can’t give up, you are an encouraging couple and family to lots of people!!💖💖💖
Hatte im Jahre 2022 eine Fehlgeburt und vor vier Monaten eine Eileiterschwangerschaft, die natürlich entfernt werden musste. Habe zwar schon sieben Kinder, aber trotzdem ist es für uns ein großer Verlust gewesen. Auch meine Kinder, teilweise schon erwachsen, hätten sich über ein Baby-Schwester oder Bruder noch mal gefreut. Bin aber sehr dankbar, dass die Eileiterschwangerschaft frühzeitig entdeckt wurde, denn sowas ist sehr gefährlich für die Frau!
Hello, I am French and I have been following you for almost a year but know that you have always inspired me. You overcome the challenges no matter what and you are perseverant. You are beautiful too and you are the cutest family I never seen. That's all but never give up and always believe in yourself. Kisses 😗😗
I feel you. I lost 2 myself and my husband wouldn’t let us try again since the last one almost killed me. Prayers to you! Have good luck for me! ❤😊
Most of my 8 siblings r rainbow babies 👶 💕. My mom is pregnant with baby #9, this baby is the 8th girl 😅. And my mom has had 7 miscarriages. It's been rlly hard, but like u said we must stay strong. And that's what my family has done, we've stayed strong and trusted in God
You are strong and have a beautiful family !! I am sure rainbow will arrive at the perfect time !!
All the best for you and your family❤🍀
I suffered 8 miscarriages and was never lucky enough to bring home a baby.
You are wonderful parents and I know you’ll never take your beautiful children for granted. I hope your family continues to grow and you all have a life filled with joy and love ❤
I was crushed in a car wreck at 18 weeks pregnant with my 4th child ,it was devastating 😢but I had to focus on the 3 I had ❤things happen for a reason, god will let you know when the time is right ,your in our prayers, god bless you and your family ❤❤❤
I’m so so sorry 😢
I miscarriaged too
But then I was following medical medium and we have a beautiful daughter
Sending you all love all the way from Brazil 🇧🇷❤️ and loving all the updates so far🎉
Praying for your babies protection ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss❤ that's truly heartbreaking 💔
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious babies. I'm sending lots of sticky baby glitter your way. I lost all 4 of my children during pregnancy. I understand your agony.
I PRAY YALL HAVE A HEALTHY PREGNANCY🙏🏻. Your a beautiful family🥰.
God bless y’all🙏🏻.
Thank you for sharing, we should always share our journeys, happy and sad ones because it helps us all realize we’re NOT EVER alone. The Lord will See us all through😇. I feel in my heart you WILL have another child🙏🏻🌸🌸💜.
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I understand your pain hun. 5/30/24 is the day i lost my little boy. We made it to 20 weeks before they told us he had LUTO (lower urinary tract obstruction) plus no amniotic fluid and was incompatible with life. His bladder was bigger than he was and he was so squished from not having amniotic fluid that his legs were severely deformed. Since his bladder filled his entire abdomen before expanding out ward his lungs never developed so he wouldnt have been able to breathe even a breath before passing if we had gone full term. It weighs on me every single day but it does get easier. There is nothing more heartbreaking than what your going through and what many of us have experienced but you will find your way. There are very very hard days sometimes but you can make it the hard days get easier to cope with eventually. I sincerely wish you luck on your journey and i hope you and so many others can finally get their rainbow baby❤️
Oh so so gard 😢😭😭 can’t even imagine that pain!
We have been trying for 4 years for a sibling to our now 6,5 year old son. But nothing.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢 but indeed! Life is a miracle!! The journey makes you so grateful for the child/children you do have! It’s truly nothing to take for granted.
Sending love and prayers for success❤
bless those two miracle boys!! you're so lucky to have them. ❤
Sending you so many prayers for both past and present! ❤
Praying for you and your beautiful family!! 🥰
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I was like 90% sure I had a miscarriage 18 years ago, but it was brushed off by my, at that time, crappy doctor. Well, 1 week ago, I had to get a medical history print out, and the first item on that list was a miscarriage 18 years ago. Having it confirmed in black and white, not just brushed off as a "young 1st time mum imagining things" actually hit me a lot harder than I thought it would. Because my doctor brushed it, or _me,_ off, I just put it in a box at the back of my mind and forgot about it, so seeing it written down that yes, it DID happen, has actually been harder to deal with than I thought it would. And now I've had a total hysterectomy, so I can't have any more kids, even if I wanted them, and that just made this...harder somehow. So I am so so sorry this has happened to you💔 but I am sure good times are coming your way, just you wait and see. And we will all be here with you, watching this space, waiting for that birth/baby introduction video that I KNOW we will see very very soon. Love and hugs❤❤❤🫂🫂🫂
Prayers up for your rainbow baby ❤
I felt chills watching this! I miscarried between both of my boys, I was almost 5 months when I miscarried my daughter & 10 months later I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow baby & I was blessed to have a healthy baby boy!
They are now both in their early twenties & I just pray for you to find out that you’re pregnant & that you’re pregnancy will go beautifully & I pray for you to have a healthy baby whether you have a boy or girl.
Sorry for the long response but with much love from my sons & my family & I in Canada to you & your family! 🥰🇨🇦
Ohh I'm terribly sorry... I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart! I wish you succeed in achieving what you want!🥺🙏🏼🤞🏼🍀🥰
If only everyone could be so lucky as to be parents and have two healthy children ❤❤
Sorry for your loss.
You have 2 beautiful children. Enjoy them. Children are a blessing from the Lord.
💔 Lost my first son at 20 weeks. We lost the next baby early (6 weeks). After that we lost our 2nd son at 24 weeks and baby number 4 early at 7 weeks. Finally after 5,5 years we got our rainbow boy two years ago ❤️ and last december a little girl. I'd love to have more kids, but we won't try for more. I can't handle more losses
Love and prayers to you all❤
My daughter had 3 miscarriages before she finally was able to carry her first child, who is now 8 and her second who is 6. We found out she had 2 blood clotting disorders and that's why she kept having miscarriages. She had to give herself heparin shots every day throughout the pregnancies.
Much love from Asheville, NC. ❤
Yes sweet girl, my daughter is pregnant now with her 2nd child both IVF. She's due in January 2025 with a little girl named Hannah. It was a hard expensive and heartbreaking road for my daughter and her husband too. No one really knows what's the reasoning behind all the pain and nothing will replace the ones in heaven waiting on you but you are loved and you're in my prayers. God bless you and your beautiful family
Heart breaks for your two losses. I hope and sending prayers for this rainbow baby
Ive been on a trend with these pregnancy videos. Im scared i might lose my kid when I get pregnant. But even watching this i feel ready for whenever that happens.😊
Wishing you the best baby girl
I don’t have a similar story but my mom does she had 3 miscarriages before she had me
sending prayers!!🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗
Heyy I’m sorry all this happened but you’re both so strong! You already have two amazing kids, Cru and Indi!
You are truly blessed
Wspaniała rodzina , oni wiedzą kim są dla siebie.
Pełne wsparcie, żadnych egzystencjalnych fanaberii mimo że mają problemy jak wszyscy.
We’ve been trying for three years with a couple losses. I’ve decided to take a mental break and try again with our fertility doc in a couple months. It’s a hard decision, but praying one day God will bless us with another baby.
My little boy just turned 5 and I’m due to give birth next month.. we started trying when he was 2 and it’s taken us all this time to get here with 4 losses including a complete molar pregnancy. People often ask me why I chose a bigger age gap.. this journey definitely wasn’t our choice and made us really value the true miracle of life through our son and focus on the strength of our family unit. ❤
Wishing you the very, very best.
The loss must be so painful….❤
Sending you best wishes and hugs from across the Atlantic
She has such beautiful eyes!!!!!!
Prayers for. U n youre family it will happen for do t give up
I pray all goes well this time!
From one mama to another who has felt this pain more then once there is a rainbow after every storm and no one should feel this pain and fear I am looking at my double rainbow babies and it’s incredible
I am not a believer that “everything happens for a reason” I believe that some times shitty things happen to wonderful people just because… no explanation its just what it is, but I am also a firm believer that people get what they deserve in life! You are already wonderful parents to two kiddos and I am sure you will be rewarded with your third baby very soon! Just stay positive cause getting pregnant through assistance is hard, and I mean HAAAAARD! But the reward at the end its the best gift of your life! Sending sticky and positive vibes
❤❤I wish you all the strength and love you need. God bless your family.
I love ya guys so much!! sending prayers and love
Have you considered adopting? The world is already so overpopulated and this would be an amazing thing to do for a child who is really in need ❤
So sorry to hear about those miscarriages.
I had 3 miscarriages. 2 back to back. When the next pregnancy came afterwards, I wasn't even thrilled because I didn't want to get excited just to be crushed with another miscarriage. I carried that baby to full term. I had a baby girl. I named her Zoe meaning Life. I thought it was fitting after the two previous ones before her were miscarried.
Much hugs
Yall are so strong ❤ 🙏