“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go and do that, because what the world needs is people that have come alive.” - Howard Thurman 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
After my boyfriend broke up with me earlier this week, this video/podcast episode came to me when I needed it most today. Thank you so much, Aaron! This made me understand my people pleasing tendencies much better and has brought relief to my heartache and internal struggle.
Search for validation ends when you cut the noise out and find your soul. Sit alone, and observe. That's when it speaks. - Much love from a growing RUclipsr
The videos about people pleasing have been really really helpful. Really I've been working on changing that aspect of myself and I can already see my life imoroving, people respecting me more. So thanks Aaron
I’m on day 10 of a detox from men and dating and I am so happy I found this video. The timing is insane (but I’m not surprised). We always get what we need when we need it. Thank you!
Timely!! The dopamine conversation was so interesting. I realized I was doing that with social media and also waiting for a certain person to email me. It was like crack LOL I’ve turned my energy a little bit so that I don’t need that!!! Listening to your meditation is also extremely helpful thank you
Shhhhiiittt, I literally said only this afternoon “I used to be overly concerned about other ppls problems and take them on as my own” It was a dopamine hit!!!!!
Yess!! 27:12 It's awesome that you mentioned becoming humble too.That's what I've realized in addition to becoming whole and complete it's also important to practice humility and kindness, not to be liked by others but as part of your own character. You're my guru, your videos keep me sane
Returning radically to your inner, divine spark is one aspect of this powerful process. Clearing childhood trauma is another. And last, literally saying “I love you” to yourself can be profound. Love you, Aaron.
I have been binge watching your videos for the past few days. You are truly a life-changing individual. Thanks for all you add to the world. You came just at my time of need. - Missy
Wow. I've come to the realization that I was always the "fixer" growing up. I felt it was my job to keep the peace in the house. I had always been the friend that helps with others issues. It stemmed off into my relationships. I realize more and more how disconnected I became from myself. I would be asked about what's going on in my life and I would rattle off about everyone around me issues and accomplishments and not even notice I didn't mention myself. I've basically shut off from everyone outside of my household for about a year or so now and been getting back to me however my main love language is quality time so...its been difficult lol. I'm going to check out your meditations Aaron. Thank you. You are a treasure.
I have fo stay that I have learned way more from your RUclips videos than from reading Dr. Joe Dispenza's books. He is great but your information is so practical and applicable to life. I am constantly sending your videos to friends. Thanks for being you Aaron.
Appreciate your honesty brother. I resonate with every single thing you said. I recently did a dopamine detox and definitely felt it link up with relationship dynamics, it was very interesting. The affirmation “ I am whole “, has allowed me to completely drop any search for validation 🙏🏼 It’s been a very transformational last couple months! 🙏🏼
This content really resonates with me. The knight metaphor both was an eye opener and also made me laugh bc it’s so on point but in a funny way to drive home that point. Chefs kiss
You'll watch an entire Netflix show even when the first episodes are slow and boring just because someone told you "it gets better." *But what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?*
Love your shit man. It’s been a minute but I’ve been really elevating myself in every way possible.. I actually cried during this I don’t know exactly why but maybe it’s because I’m letting go. Thank you Aaron man
Aaron you are one of the most realest and authentic person I have come a cross. 🌟Thats not a nice and yes man thats real frend who everyone would love to have in them life. ❤Thank you for helping us. I send you lots of angel hugs 🤗 Have beautiful week full of miracles.☀️🕊
Hello you beautiful people! I hope you live your life to please yourself. Once YOU validate yourself, others will want what you have. Teach them! Keep shining! YOU have the authority! Validate and value yourself! Live Encouraged!
I love you man. You're probably the most authentic and real life coach I see on RUclips. It can be hard to be authentic. I'm embody myself now and it feels good. My voice get deep i get grounded. Thanks again. We are enough
your best ever episode - amazing, I love how you share your vulnerable stories, I think you should just pick up your notes and read from them when you need to also x
Major synchronicity on everything you said in this video. Spirit has been saying all of this to me this month but I’ve been struggling to make something concrete of it. It’s like you summarized the messages I needed perfectly!
Just listened to the podcast version💙 love how your words flow so freely that’s how I’m trying to be on my channel eventually so that I don’t have to clip and edit as much
Totally needed that Dopamine revelation. You need to raft the Salmon River. 5 days no cell signal. That's usually my big dopamine dump each year 5-21 days on a boat in the wilderness no cell signal.
I kinda checked out on the last two videos Even though they were super relevant to me but I couldn’t hide from this one it’s like you were telling a narrative of my past two months
The dopamine blurb I needed to hear. I feel stuck in overstimulation. I’m going to try your hack of pushing “high dopamine” activities until later in the day. Thank you for sharing that!
Hey! Aaron I love your podcasts so much the longer they are the more I can relate! anyways I think I have ADHD because I keep forgetting everything and my focus is very little, even at my job I am a teacher and I make a lot of mistakes and i don't know what to do!!!
Mediate every morning, cut out sugar, and caffeine. Get into nature to ground your mental energy 🙏🏼 Dopamine detox is huge as well because of how quickly an ADHD brain uses it’s dopamine…All of the above have helped me manage my ADHD 🙏🏼
New subscriber here. Loveeee your videos. Pure wisdom and truly helpful. I need to remove these high dopamine distractions, especially near bedtime. My sleep routine is garbage. I’m prone to tv, book, and ear pods in all simultaneously and it’s kind of ridiculous because none of it is relaxing or slowing me down. It’s all overstimulating and creating more dis-ease for me.
I do think we are here to help others….. our egos look for the validation…… we must rise above the ego’s desires and just help other and not worry about what others think
This was right on time and I almost didn’t wanna comment cuz the comments were on 111… but then I took it as a sign to comment cuz this video was meant for me ✨
That really makes so much sense about our dopamine levels. I’m defs going to put this into practice and see how affective this technique is for me. All week I feel like I’ve been really trying to break through the illusion of patters I want to release and somehow some way I feel like for all my hard work maybe finding this technique to apply from u is actually a reward from the universe as a reward for continuing to keep moving forward on my spiritual journey even in the darkest and hardest of times. Ty Aaron 💙
Wow I swear we be having the same epiphanies about dopamine at the same time. Guess I’m tuning into the same frequency! It’s really changing how I approach the things that I do
IMO it's healthy to prefer validation over not getting it, or getting rejected. Validation is the way we know if we're connecting - it's actually wired into our DNA. People pleasing becomes a problem when you NEED it and your actions are largely influenced by getting external validation over expressing authenticity. Often when shedding the habit of people-pleasing, the need for validation addiction is still there, it just moves from getting validation from people to validation from an external aesthetic of how spiritually evolved people are "supposed" to be. When this happens people dump their people pleasing but lose their ability to read a room or relate to people effectively. There has to be balance and imo it's better to err on the side of being gracious and polite bc the world doesn't need more jerks.
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Amazing video. Good job.
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“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go and do that, because what the world needs is people that have come alive.” - Howard Thurman
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
Hey this is powerful
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
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Amazing! Thank you so much! Blessings to all
Thank you. I pray all the best to you too. Amazing text.❤
After my boyfriend broke up with me earlier this week, this video/podcast episode came to me when I needed it most today. Thank you so much, Aaron! This made me understand my people pleasing tendencies much better and has brought relief to my heartache and internal struggle.
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Much love and light
The father of my child made me aware he’s leaving me a well. Keep your head up.🫂
Understand that pain. Must me our Dopamine "withdrawal". 😔❤
Has it gotten better for you?? I'm going through the same now....
WE HAVE TO STOP PEOPLE PLEASING FOR OURSELVES. BRAVO.
"People try to create an outwardly perfect life, but the quality of life is based on the inward."
This was so spot on. “I am worthy just because I exist” ❤️ Thankyou x
Search for validation ends when you cut the noise out and find your soul. Sit alone, and observe. That's when it speaks.
- Much love from a growing RUclipsr
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@@minikas27 ❤️
The videos about people pleasing have been really really helpful. Really I've been working on changing that aspect of myself and I can already see my life imoroving, people respecting me more. So thanks Aaron
AARON. "We give away authority" that hit home....You're an amazing human. In short words.🙌🙏
I’m on day 10 of a detox from men and dating and I am so happy I found this video. The timing is insane (but I’m not surprised). We always get what we need when we need it. Thank you!
Day 10? Try 3 years 🤣
Bravo, Aaron! Well done. When we know we are worthy, we can live life as sovereign beings!
Timely!! The dopamine conversation was so interesting. I realized I was doing that with social media and also waiting for a certain person to email me. It was like crack LOL I’ve turned my energy a little bit so that I don’t need that!!! Listening to your meditation is also extremely helpful thank you
Shhhhiiittt, I literally said only this afternoon “I used to be overly concerned about other ppls problems and take them on as my own”
It was a dopamine hit!!!!!
Your videos are always life changing Aaron! Thank you for posting about this topic 🙏
I hate being a people pleaser! It’s so hard to go through life focusing on making others happy and NOT yourself!
Yess!! 27:12 It's awesome that you mentioned becoming humble too.That's what I've realized in addition to becoming whole and complete it's also important to practice humility and kindness, not to be liked by others but as part of your own character. You're my guru, your videos keep me sane
WOW. So much to absorb here and put into practice. You just keep evolving on your ability to help us be our best selves. Much light to you.
Returning radically to your inner, divine spark is one aspect of this powerful process. Clearing childhood trauma is another. And last, literally saying “I love you” to yourself can be profound. Love you, Aaron.
I have been binge watching your videos for the past few days.
You are truly a life-changing individual.
Thanks for all you add to the world.
You came just at my time of need.
- Missy
Wow. I've come to the realization that I was always the "fixer" growing up. I felt it was my job to keep the peace in the house. I had always been the friend that helps with others issues. It stemmed off into my relationships. I realize more and more how disconnected I became from myself. I would be asked about what's going on in my life and I would rattle off about everyone around me issues and accomplishments and not even notice I didn't mention myself. I've basically shut off from everyone outside of my household for about a year or so now and been getting back to me however my main love language is quality time so...its been difficult lol. I'm going to check out your meditations Aaron. Thank you. You are a treasure.
I have felt like glue to my family. You made my day. Thank you
I have fo stay that I have learned way more from your RUclips videos than from reading Dr. Joe Dispenza's books. He is great but your information is so practical and applicable to life. I am constantly sending your videos to friends. Thanks for being you Aaron.
Appreciate your honesty brother. I resonate with every single thing you said. I recently did a dopamine detox and definitely felt it link up with relationship dynamics, it was very interesting.
The affirmation “ I am whole “, has allowed me to completely drop any search for validation 🙏🏼
It’s been a very transformational last couple months! 🙏🏼
This video helped me understand why I avoid “boring” work tasks…right on time!!💯
This content really resonates with me. The knight metaphor both was an eye opener and also made me laugh bc it’s so on point but in a funny way to drive home that point. Chefs kiss
You'll watch an entire Netflix show even when the first episodes are slow and boring just because someone told you "it gets better." *But what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?*
Love your shit man. It’s been a minute but I’ve been really elevating myself in every way possible.. I actually cried during this I don’t know exactly why but maybe it’s because I’m letting go. Thank you Aaron man
i really really appreciate your vulnerability
Love seeing how far you’ve come. Back in 2019 I started following you. somewhere between then and now I lost myself so back to the basics. Thank you ✨
Incredible, thanks Aaron. I am writing this all down and going to try to change that inner voice
Aaron you are one of the most realest and authentic person I have come a cross. 🌟Thats not a nice and yes man thats real frend who everyone would love to have in them life. ❤Thank you for helping us. I send you lots of angel hugs 🤗 Have beautiful week full of miracles.☀️🕊
What ever stories we put on it, it becomes the story. It is time to find self being raw 🙏🌺
Hi, I relate to everything you say. But I also see in you a beautiful soul, because I now see it in myself. Much love for sharing everything you do.
Hello you beautiful people! I hope you live your life to please yourself. Once YOU validate yourself, others will want what you have. Teach them!
Keep shining!
YOU have the authority!
Validate and value yourself!
Live Encouraged!
I love you man. You're probably the most authentic and real life coach I see on RUclips. It can be hard to be authentic. I'm embody myself now and it feels good. My voice get deep i get grounded. Thanks again. We are enough
Thank you for being you! Love your videos❤
Do what your soul craves and that’s to help people! Spiritual enlightment some will stay others will go. The ones ment for you will stay❤️
Please please please make your way to Pittsburgh, I would love to hear you speak.
Thanks Aaron! The dopamine part is a real eye opener!
I can relate to everything you said. IV just had that A-ha moment. Thankyou,👌
Wow... the best dopamine detox break down I have ever heard!! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you !!! I needed this. So true!!!
You changed my life by your videos. infinite gratitude ❤❤❤
your best ever episode - amazing, I love how you share your vulnerable stories, I think you should just pick up your notes and read from them when you need to also x
Thank you for always being vulnerable on your channel 💛 it's not easy
Thank you so much for sharing Aaron all of your videos are very important to me understand myself more
thank u so much for this, i will be binge watching ur videos now that i have found ur channel & take notes- ur literally amazing
Thank you for reminding me on who I am !
Thank you for being you ♥️🙏
I love how passionate you become ❤ 😊
Major synchronicity on everything you said in this video. Spirit has been saying all of this to me this month but I’ve been struggling to make something concrete of it. It’s like you summarized the messages I needed perfectly!
I’m only at 7 minutes and the Epithany about blew me over!! You speak directly to me🙏🙏🙏🙏namaste
Love and appreciate this video especially before Thanksgiving!
Just listened to the podcast version💙 love how your words flow so freely that’s how I’m trying to be on my channel eventually so that I don’t have to clip and edit as much
Totally needed that Dopamine revelation.
You need to raft the Salmon River. 5 days no cell signal. That's usually my big dopamine dump each year 5-21 days on a boat in the wilderness no cell signal.
I kinda checked out on the last two videos Even though they were super relevant to me but I couldn’t hide from this one it’s like you were telling a narrative of my past two months
AMAZING video, thank you
Thank you for everything you said in this video!
On another note, great video content!! As always, an inspiration!! Thanks for helping balance the dark with your light!!
The dopamine blurb I needed to hear. I feel stuck in overstimulation. I’m going to try your hack of pushing “high dopamine” activities until later in the day. Thank you for sharing that!
Thank you so much for this video. It is such a value to me. Your wisdom is so true that I even cried. Xx
Yay i was the 1k like! +1 tx so much for your videos bro. I used to live in vegas. Hella tight that your from there.
I know you do not need my validation, so I’ll offer gratitude for the validity your perspectives have in relation to my life. Thanks!
Hey! Aaron I love your podcasts so much the longer they are the more I can relate! anyways I think I have ADHD because I keep forgetting everything and my focus is very little, even at my job I am a teacher and I make a lot of mistakes and i don't know what to do!!!
Mediate every morning, cut out sugar, and caffeine. Get into nature to ground your mental energy 🙏🏼 Dopamine detox is huge as well because of how quickly an ADHD brain uses it’s dopamine…All of the above have helped me manage my ADHD 🙏🏼
@@justinwickee tysm!!!
Really deep video
Aaron you are the best
Always great listening to you
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New subscriber here. Loveeee your videos. Pure wisdom and truly helpful. I need to remove these high dopamine distractions, especially near bedtime. My sleep routine is garbage. I’m prone to tv, book, and ear pods in all simultaneously and it’s kind of ridiculous because none of it is relaxing or slowing me down. It’s all overstimulating and creating more dis-ease for me.
I do think we are here to help others….. our egos look for the validation…… we must rise above the ego’s desires and just help other and not worry about what others think
Best video yet ! Aweaome !
Thank you for your videos 🥰
Great video Aaron
This was right on time and I almost didn’t wanna comment cuz the comments were on 111… but then I took it as a sign to comment cuz this video was meant for me ✨
Thank you 😊 Aaron ❤❤❤
That really makes so much sense about our dopamine levels. I’m defs going to put this into practice and see how affective this technique is for me.
All week I feel like I’ve been really trying to break through the illusion of patters I want to release and somehow some way I feel like for all my hard work maybe finding this technique to apply from u is actually a reward from the universe as a reward for continuing to keep moving forward on my spiritual journey even in the darkest and hardest of times.
Ty Aaron 💙
You have come so far Aaron. Really proud of you. Also, thank you for this video..super helpful.
Thank you dopamine has been my validation recently
Aaron Doughty Thank you for this video so much. This video came right on time for me. 🙌🏾👑💯
My job. I’m a nurse. I e seen things on the daily. Trauma. Trauma
Closed FB for a few days and felt great
Wow I swear we be having the same epiphanies about dopamine at the same time. Guess I’m tuning into the same frequency! It’s really changing how I approach the things that I do
Thank you.
great Aaron !
thaaaanks.. this changes alot
love thia aaron ❤🙏 thanks so much bro
Thank you
This one is a banger bro!
Holy I just went thru that same thing recently
Very helpful information
IMO it's healthy to prefer validation over not getting it, or getting rejected. Validation is the way we know if we're connecting - it's actually wired into our DNA. People pleasing becomes a problem when you NEED it and your actions are largely influenced by getting external validation over expressing authenticity.
Often when shedding the habit of people-pleasing, the need for validation addiction is still there, it just moves from getting validation from people to validation from an external aesthetic of how spiritually evolved people are "supposed" to be. When this happens people dump their people pleasing but lose their ability to read a room or relate to people effectively. There has to be balance and imo it's better to err on the side of being gracious and polite bc the world doesn't need more jerks.
I’m going to start working out and keeping my phone in my gym bag. I’ll let u know how it goes!
Yes, my friend
Love this!
Okay love this hair look though boiii 😁
100% resonated 🙌🏻clarity
Thank you💗
Right on Brother
More work more clean and healthy , work work , let's go , just get a simple easy job first !
Great video 👍
Big red pill! Thnx!
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Nice!