Signs Your Ex Is Hurting After A Breakup

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  • @fleetingfootnotes9133
    @fleetingfootnotes9133 3 года назад +57

    #1 - 1:25 - Going through a meltdown mode.
    #2 - 3:30 - They totally wall you out. (Being in contact would be too emotional.)
    #3 - 5:33 - Going through a destructive spiral. (Numb their feelings, distract themselves.)
    #4 - 7:24 - Having a rebound relationship. ("Look at me! I am so over them!" ... oh. Really?)
    #5 - 9:22 - A good degree of silence on social media. Or excessive overuse. People try to force outcomes; but what's really happening emotionally?

    • @erinknowles8431
      @erinknowles8431 2 года назад +1

      This sounds exactly like my recent ex and now two months later we’ve had a few good interactions via text. Praying it keeps heading that direction

    • @dennisray8904
      @dennisray8904 2 года назад

      @@erinknowles8431 same situation same timeline with getting better just via texting.. I pray things are working out for you and I'm praying my baby heals and get back to me soon 🙏

    • @bleadzeking1
      @bleadzeking1 7 месяцев назад

      wow if she goes for a rebound that willl defog break my soul

  • @Tacotacoblah
    @Tacotacoblah 3 года назад +19

    Stonewalled
    Rebound relationship in a week lol
    Post new relationship on social media
    Definitely hurting, I ll let him being hurt for hurting me

    • @How.Dare.You.
      @How.Dare.You. 2 года назад +1

      Did you get back?

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣???????

  • @carloscabrera5311
    @carloscabrera5311 3 года назад +6

    If you communicate with them and they still angry ? Ask no more...

  • @kispumel
    @kispumel 3 года назад +10

    Sign #6: If they tell you directly, when they call you, while they are being in a rebound. "You know I think about you every day. It hurts how things ended with us, and I regret it. Hurts like hell and I feel miserable, despite I was the one who left." Happened with me. BTW we are @ New Beginnings and we feel wonderful, sometimes sorting out a few issues we have left. Hard one was the crisis point. Lot of back-and-forth between riding the dragon and crisis point. God, for several months limbo between those two stages because of the other guy. Clays, a huge THANK YOU for you!

    • @kispumel
      @kispumel 3 года назад

      @@sandrarr3415 She is already back, but thanks

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆👆📥

  • @pj828
    @pj828 Год назад +2

    My ex Completely ghosted me. Two weeks before she broke up with me she told me I was the most special person she had Ever met in her life Period--she put it this way verbatim. She told me she missed me So Much!! She said she wanted two weeks to decide. So I went full no contact. Two weeks later she completely ghosted me. It hurts so badly... but I think she's hurting too 😞

  • @takingbackmypower9859
    @takingbackmypower9859 3 года назад +17

    Not if they go and get married a month after we split. He’s good

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 3 года назад +5

      All bull. Still hurt..He/she can hide all they want..pretend all they want..

    • @KJBibleBelievingSaint
      @KJBibleBelievingSaint 3 года назад +5

      Look into narcassict behavior traits. Cluster B in the DSM

    • @jasonnewman8680
      @jasonnewman8680 3 года назад

      1% lifetime rate of people diagnosed with narcissism.
      We tend to characterize our partners, yet fail to characterize the environment they were in.

    • @christinemcwaters5186
      @christinemcwaters5186 3 года назад +3

      It won't work.

    • @Tacotacoblah
      @Tacotacoblah 3 года назад +4

      Or get in relationship in a week

  • @fordbronze5439
    @fordbronze5439 3 месяца назад

    In my opinion as a girl I will request to give me a space first and then when the anger goes away we need to talking out and new start will go from there if we going to fix or bye for good.

  • @bernardbarnett4711
    @bernardbarnett4711 Год назад +3

    Damn I thought that I was going crazy. But if time does not work too heal a broken soul 💔 then what the he'll I'm supposed to do? And this was years ago. She dumped me and I didn't want to get any more pain, so I just ghosted her years ago. She was pissed off 😤. There's more to this story but I think it's been years to talk to her.

  • @lestatvamp8865
    @lestatvamp8865 3 года назад +6

    This is great.. had a feeling in my gut this is what was going on.

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥

  • @AmyNCole-luv4God
    @AmyNCole-luv4God 3 года назад +4

    Very nicely spoken, & valuable information. Thank you, for sharing!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +2

    Good video. Thanks for sharing. You shared some good insight on this subject matter. I feel the Lord have been speaking to me about this a lot lately.

  • @davidabhishektheethythee
    @davidabhishektheethythee 3 года назад +8

    The first and foremost sign that your ex is hurting is if YOU are watching this video 🤭🤭

  • @biancavulc5131
    @biancavulc5131 3 года назад +3

    He doesn't even want me or hopes for me to contact him anymore.... he doesn't want to talk about us to his friends.. doesn't want to think about what it was between us, good or bad.. I am scared.. what if he wants to forget us forever.. he deleted 2 pics of me, just kept those with me tagged and one of us and a video of us kissing.... Idk what to do, pls help, Clay... I made big mistakes, I hurt him, but I want him back...

  • @elopez198725
    @elopez198725 3 года назад +4

    Wow my guy is doing more than half of this.....

  • @b.radleypro.369
    @b.radleypro.369 Месяц назад

    Me and my ex are autistic and sometimes it’s hard to tell for sure if he’s hurting, when he broke up with me he didn’t seem that bothered, I screamed all the way home and he claims he tried to kill himself

  • @eleniet
    @eleniet 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for your points..I like your use of language and reasonings on why etc . Great stuff 👌

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it, Elenie. :-) We truly appreciate that.

  • @Artst2010
    @Artst2010 5 месяцев назад

    My ex said never again. My goal is to heal and move forward

  • @LeiraPagaspas
    @LeiraPagaspas 3 года назад +6

    My ex ghosted me and left me hanging

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 3 года назад +2

      Sorry. That's evil.

    • @karleyb9954
      @karleyb9954 2 года назад +1

      Mine to

    • @Babe18-vr1os
      @Babe18-vr1os Год назад

      Mine too for three months. But now, he's coming around... quite difficult cause they will do quite a lot of tests as well

  • @jessicafisher195
    @jessicafisher195 3 года назад +2

    What if there asking your friends and watching what your doing but won't talk to you? Then listen to others who you didn't get along with.

  • @ceeze9923
    @ceeze9923 3 года назад +2

    Happy New Year Clay. Many blessings

  • @lauraciccone9815
    @lauraciccone9815 3 года назад +8

    What if your ex says everything randomly out of their mouth to hurt your feelings?

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +6

      Could be verbally and emotionally abusive, and probably better if you move on altogether. No one should ever put up with abuse of any kind.

    • @christinabellerose2290
      @christinabellerose2290 3 года назад +3

      Hurt people hurt people. He’s just trying to hurt you back like you may have did him

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣?????????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥📥👆

  • @dreamboy2speakstv40
    @dreamboy2speakstv40 3 года назад +2

    They are hurting but they still choice to go away

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      M e s s a g e h i m o n W h a t s A p p

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 7 0 5 7 0 9 8 4 0 1

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥

  • @thefruitygecko
    @thefruitygecko 3 года назад +2

    Hi clay, it’s been 5 months since the breakup at the start she said she needed time to focus on herself and her masters and I was everything she wanted but needed to get back to the person I met, I spoke to her a month ago and she as happy to hear from me and we were gunna meet up in a month, I spoke to her again a few days ago and she said she didn’t want to meet up with me and catch feeling and fall back into the same old patterns and that she’s happy being alone and trying to be her best self and that we’re over, I’m really struggling to come to terms with it and feel like all hope is lost

    • @bravobravo673
      @bravobravo673 3 года назад +3

      Tommy did you keep contacting her through the months of breakup???? I mean did you still had a good conversation daily after breakup if yes then just give her the space becz i think you were always available...at times i think you need to let people see how they can be without you....and also you cant control some situation dont try being some superman let her get through it herself ,,dont force she wont be real ....let her get through it herself and when she is back i hope she will be than before,,,if net then nothing was meant to be....wish you lucky there..

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад +2

      Hi Tommy, there could be several reasons that the situation had happened. Remember that a person may also go through some good and tough times. We have to understand what they are going through, and this is where empathy and understanding would come in.

    • @thefruitygecko
      @thefruitygecko 3 года назад

      @@bravobravo673 No I didn’t speak to her for 5 weeks then I spoke to her and she said she still loved me but isn’t ready to see me, I said let’s take some more space about 2 months later I messaged her to see how she was doing we had a good conversation she seemed a lot warmer and I asked if she’d like to meet up when she’s back in our uni city, she said yeah, then fast forward another 6 weeks of space, and she’s happy being alone and trying to be the best version of herself, I asked her a few times to actually meet up and then she said she doesn’t want to and it won’t be good for her, I said okay I won’t ask you again but you know where I am if things change

    • @thefruitygecko
      @thefruitygecko 3 года назад

      @@ClayAndrews yeah I’ve shown nothing but empathy towards her this whole time, but she gets kinda cold and told me to have a nice life and that I’m and incredible person and whether I choose to be alone or find someone else she hopes I’m happy and she was lucky to have known me

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello guys I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

  • @karrynlipsett5187
    @karrynlipsett5187 3 года назад +2

    Time passing for me, from his mostly no contact & 1 night stand & taking strong painkillers when he would Not take 1v mine wen we were 2gethr is not helping me. It's bn 7mths & it was not a living hell, but he was insanely jealous.. but I can't stop loving him & dont want to move on. I just want it 2b ok & him 2b emotionally available & not so fkd up.😕🙁

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯????????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆

    • @karrynlipsett5187
      @karrynlipsett5187 2 года назад

      @@jessicawilliams7210 im not interested thnx, im well over it & him.

  • @margaretcampbell6429
    @margaretcampbell6429 2 года назад +1

    Well my ex certainly has no signs of wanting back, but i knew this when he told me to move on and be happy. Then said he hates me lol

    • @jenniferfoy8895
      @jenniferfoy8895 2 года назад

      Do you still love him?

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣??????

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥👆

  • @NewyJon7787
    @NewyJon7787 4 месяца назад

    My ex is doing 4 out of 5 of these things, I don't know about the rebound, but probably....

  • @brandonpero8742
    @brandonpero8742 3 года назад +4

    My ex posted a bunch of relationship memes which were basically quotes about how things are better off this way. Also smiling on snap stories with friends. Could this be posturing?

    • @23pyromaniac
      @23pyromaniac 3 года назад +1

      How young is she, how many relationships has she been in and how long after the breakup did she do it?

    • @brandonpero8742
      @brandonpero8742 3 года назад +1

      @@23pyromaniac 24 and idk a few, it was shortly after

    • @23pyromaniac
      @23pyromaniac 3 года назад +4

      @@brandonpero8742 How long was the relationship? It does seem like posturing an like she's emotionally immature and begging for attention and validation...

    • @brandonpero8742
      @brandonpero8742 3 года назад

      @@23pyromaniac 2 years

    • @23pyromaniac
      @23pyromaniac 3 года назад +1

      @@brandonpero8742 damn, I'm going through one now after 3 years. I'd suggest just focusing on yourself man, hit the gym,maybe take up a new hobby and just hope for the best but prepare for the worst. If she dumped you then the situation is out of your control, best focus on things that are within your control. Don't reach out and if she does, be polite, respectful and supportive but brief at the same time.

  • @anish4651
    @anish4651 2 года назад

    She is stone walling me the last time we talked in person she kissed me and said she wished we worked out , but then started not talking to me I tired to have a normal conversation but she got mad at me for trying so I decided to go no contact but I know she’s talking to people but i can’t do anything about it

  • @alondraevans6074
    @alondraevans6074 3 года назад +6

    What’s the max amount of time for you to consider something a rebound relationship? My ex went out constantly after we broke up then asked his cousin a month and two weeks later how I was called me for a week I refused to speak to him then a few days later got into a new relationship and is constantly posting his relationship

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад +2

      Hi Alondra, the amount of time may not be the best way to qualify is a relationship is a rebound. But the best way to know is if your ex had moved on 100% from the past relationship and is emotionally available to be in a new relationship.

    • @anitraa1248
      @anitraa1248 3 года назад

      I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back 💕

    • @anitraa1248
      @anitraa1248 3 года назад

      + 2⃣ 3⃣4⃣ 9⃣0⃣5⃣ 6⃣ 2⃣ 1⃣4⃣ 1⃣1⃣4⃣

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯?????????

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 3 года назад

    Good!

  • @luminescentnymph1940
    @luminescentnymph1940 2 года назад +1

    My ex posted some nasty things on Facebook passively directed at me

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️.

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣???????

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥❤️

    • @Babe18-vr1os
      @Babe18-vr1os Год назад

      My DA ex did that to me as well. Quite rude actually. But be strong. He's just trying to get some reaction from you. Don't give it to him.

  • @annly666
    @annly666 3 года назад

    great vid thx xx

  • @zeroonezero7852
    @zeroonezero7852 3 года назад +1

    mines didn’t post on social media before or after the break they just started following more people and got back on the dating app but never logs in after making the new account

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣????????

  • @rachaelrandell5166
    @rachaelrandell5166 3 года назад +2

    Been 2 months since he dumped me. Tried no contact but he text all the time. Text a mixture of easy and angry. He even drove 2 hours too bring Xmas present round and a romantic card. But he still brings up the break up and how he doesn’t want me, now he’s talking about other women that ask him out. Then sends photos of places we’ve been to. Should I just give up or is he just hurting and wants me to hurt too? So confused.

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣???????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️

  • @biancavulc5131
    @biancavulc5131 3 года назад +1

    What does "living hell" mean?
    I fought with his family a lot..... some fights I started, bc they were toxic for him and the relationship and I was trying to fight for him and us.... he said he wasn't so stressed before we got together..

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️

  • @zcopeland3928
    @zcopeland3928 Год назад

    Do you do one on one sessions ?

  • @alexp8918
    @alexp8918 3 года назад +2

    Is it possible for an ex to be testing me if they wrote that they want me back and that they've been thinking about me, but then sharply pull away and say that she meant to say that to someone else? That she mistook me for someone else. Am I really crazy for thinking she is playing a game or testing? Then she posted a picture of her with the quote "playin as if you deserve me"

    • @Silver-Lining1111
      @Silver-Lining1111 3 года назад +2

      How Old is she, that’s stupid Childish behavior. 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @bravobravo673
      @bravobravo673 3 года назад +1

      Childish behaviour really,playing with peoples feelings

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

      Ah yeah that is not healthy behavior. Could be narcissistic, save yourself and move on in Jesus name. Spare yourself.

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

  • @papi922
    @papi922 2 года назад

    Thank you!

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣??????

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️

  • @erikaortiz5524
    @erikaortiz5524 3 года назад +3

    Hey clay my bf and I broke up about a month ago but it we were supposed to brake up a while ago. But now He is in a relationship and I found out it’s the girl he was talking to during our relationship. He has tried contacting me but I communicate w him. I just want to know weather this relationship will last? I feel as if I wasn’t good enough and I’m still hurting a lot after just 1 month

    • @lovelysky7798
      @lovelysky7798 3 года назад +2

      My ex bf broke up with me for another girl he was talking during our relationship and same as you just a month ago. Girl, i know its hurt and its hard but you need to do the "no contact rules" its effective and it takes time.
      They cheated on us, and its a sign to let them go and know our worth. Yes, i am still struggling and still miss him but i need to be with someone who really value me.
      We should know our worth, try to focus your on self erika and improve yourself as what i am doing now.
      Focus on yourself, love yourself, treat yourself and you will see it will be worth it without them. We can do this together. Remember the do no contatc rules. God bless💕

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      M e s s a g e h i m o n W h a t s A p p

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 7 0 5 7 0 9 8 4 0 1

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

  • @elaineswanson8578
    @elaineswanson8578 3 года назад +2

    Clay I need some advice my ex and I still get along we text and hangout ever now and then he even still tells me he loves me but he says he wants to be single and he's not looking for anyone he's very introverted he lives at home with his mom goes to work comes home plays his PC game it's the same routine every day he doesn't really leave the house unless he has to he invited me for Christmas Thanksgiving and his birthday he does not have social media I don't even know how he's feeling and he says he's not mad at me he doesn't hate me that he still loves me as a person and a friend but I think it's more I've been trying to get him to spend more time with me but he comes up with reasons not to 90% of them are I just want to be alone what should I do

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣??????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥📥👆

  • @LeiraPagaspas
    @LeiraPagaspas 3 года назад +1

    He stone walled me

    • @togomori3008
      @togomori3008 3 года назад

      I broke up with her but I still want her

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣????????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️

  • @marcelacouture5309
    @marcelacouture5309 3 года назад +2

    Clay my ex is dating a rebound and he is asking all these questions about if I am dating someone so I like him how did I meet him he keeps trying to dig for information and he said glad you found someone I want you to find someone who makes you happy is he just being polite or does he still harbor feelings for me?

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      M e s s a g e h i m o n W h a t s A p p

    • @emmanuelokkaka6369
      @emmanuelokkaka6369 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 7 0 5 7 0 9 8 4 0 1

    • @togomori3008
      @togomori3008 3 года назад

      I'm doing the same with my ex, i'm digging = it means I still want her, He wants you back

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

  • @BOO-sy2oz
    @BOO-sy2oz 3 года назад +1

    Why would them hurt matter?
    They’ve hurt us too. I’m genuinely asking why it would make a difference?

    • @PureEvil3D
      @PureEvil3D 3 года назад +1

      If you want to get them back, then you care about them, right? If you care about them, and you know they're in pain, maybe you can do or say things to ease that pain. In the end, you avoid coming off as the immature vengeful ex and probably increase your chances of actually getting back together.
      It's basically the old saying "two wrongs don't make a right". You don't make things better by being awful back to them. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you just let them walk all over you, either.

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥📥👆

  • @austindougherty8890
    @austindougherty8890 Год назад

    Well it seems like they are currently doing all of these things lol

  • @JoseChavez-dl8ec
    @JoseChavez-dl8ec 3 года назад +2

    what about if she is nice for 3 day and then she act like im her enemy .

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад

      Sounds like a positive pull back for me. ;-)

    • @JoseChavez-dl8ec
      @JoseChavez-dl8ec 3 года назад

      @@ClayAndrews ok thank

    • @JoseChavez-dl8ec
      @JoseChavez-dl8ec 3 года назад

      @@ClayAndrews even if they have a new partner for 6 years

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯????????

  • @jessicamoeller7918
    @jessicamoeller7918 3 года назад

    So my ex and I have been togeather for 22 years we are still married even though he says he wants to get a divorce. He moved out 10 months ago and we have 2 kids togeather a 20 year old and a 18 year old .we seen each other alot after the breakup at my sons soccer games we had good communication even traveled and stayed in the same bed and hotel room .after Christmas and the shared time at my sons soccer tournament which our interaction was great he pulled back and had a rebound relationship that lasted less than 2 months and I believe hes over now. He still has everything at our house but 1 suitcase of clothing which he took when he left even now that he moved into an apartment 3 weeks ago and out of his step moms house.I am using smart contact and I allow him to reach out to me .I am working hard on myself doing a great bible based class that helps with past hurts ,going to the gym and focusing on my growth. My quiestion is does this still sound like I have a good chance that he may want to work on things even after so much time?

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад

      HI Jessica, when it comes to changes, some situations may seem positiver and the dynamics between two person. We always believe that hope and changes will always be there but it will depend on the actions and commitment in doing the process. :-)

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥

  • @amoghmhatre7645
    @amoghmhatre7645 3 года назад

    Can you please make a video on what to do if your gf is still in friend circle..

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥

  • @sindiyadesai3884
    @sindiyadesai3884 3 года назад

    Is one month of proper dating going to make him miss me?.....we had great emotional connect......and he claimed we were in relationship......shared almost everything......due to some fights and then distance may be......he said he no more feels the same way

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣??????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆

  • @deedonnalee7879
    @deedonnalee7879 3 года назад

    Can anyone answer this married 22 years with kids my wife said 3 months ago no feelings for me anymore so i walked away .doin nc for 3 months my boss gave my son a work top same as what i use but smaller he wore for 2 nights as a pj top had shower lifted up his pillow top gone is it hatered for me

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 года назад

      Hi Dee, I'm not sure but do you have a specific question so anyone would be able to guide you? :-)

    • @deedonnalee7879
      @deedonnalee7879 3 года назад

      @@ClayAndrews why would she take the top

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣?????

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 👆📥📥

  • @xKUNAIxCHICKx
    @xKUNAIxCHICKx 3 года назад +1

    Just because they were hurting tho doesn't mean they have any intention of coming back

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣❣???????

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️

    • @jessicawilliams7210
      @jessicawilliams7210 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️

  • @KAOSDEGHIS
    @KAOSDEGHIS 3 года назад +1

    My ex is prideful so they are keeping me at distance. I’m transitioning out of damage mode, so I been minimizing my contact with them in order to not bombard them with text and calls. They are hot and cold to me when we do talk. I know that there’s more going on with them. But I don’t know what or if there’s anything I can do to show them that I’m serious about us and improving on myself. Any advice?

    • @handersonvanessa155
      @handersonvanessa155 3 года назад

      ✝ 2348152220785📞📞⏭⏭

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my broker relationship has been restored my ex is back after left me for another woman I was helping 2 month ago by someone he can also help you too❤️❤️

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      †16512789445💕⏯⏭⏯❣????

    • @rosekolo1371
      @rosekolo1371 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him 📥👆❤️