5 strange things that show your ex still loves you 1. Try to connect you in some sort of meaningful way 2. Is being honest with you 3. Their ACTIONS may indicate they still love you 4. They're avoiding things, trying not to hurt you 5. Pulling away emotionally Communicate effectively. No mind games. Create love bonding connection
My ex invited me to her birthday party which I went too, and stayed the night. We had a couple of drinks 🍹and half way through the night she said too me she regrets breaking up with me, wants the relationship back. She said she was in the wrong and said she will be more understanding with my needs. I don’t know what too do about this, she was being completely honest of how she feels. I guess it’s all the sober thoughts coming out deep down.
I’m sure these are great things for some people, I’d kill for the opportunity to hold her hand, hug her or even just look at her closer than from across a room. My ex is completely radio silent after breaking up with me. She’s full of self pity and doubt, she knows she hurt me and feels overwhelming guilt for that. She says she is messed up inside and needs to grow up, which I believe. I just figured it would be easier to learn and grow with me than without me. We were only together a few months, she asked for a second chance which I offered in the way of “I’d be open to that” and asked her to coffee, she gladly accepted then failed to make plans. Now, it’s all but silent, I see her at work everyday and it’s silent ignoring for the most part. Every time she sees me, I catch her staring at me, it’s a really bizarre situation and frustrating because even she admits the breakup was stupid and didn’t need to happen, yet does nothing to work on it that I can see. Oh well, back to no contact.
I am happy I saw this video. When my avoidant ex broke up with me, he was at least honest. (He monkey branched aided by her family. He wanted to "see where it goes". We had shifted to a situationship). We did hug and say goodbye. He wanted me to remain in his life as a friend. Nope. I let him go. I am happy I handled the situation with grace. No tears, compliants, questions. I wished him well, and let him go. In hindsight as time has passed, I now see the whole thing in a different light.He never meant to hurt me. I know he misses me. He probably feels the loss from time to time. We lasted four years together. He texts briefly occasionally, but we haven't seen each other. It's been nine months now. Knowing him, he feels guilty so I don't expect him to try to come back. He knows I can never be just his friend. Although I am okay most of the time, I still get sad when he comes to mind.
I don't agree with no contact. My gf left me and we are still talking and ive opened up to her huge. She seems very respectful of that and is still talking to me and came to get a few things but has stayed for a drink. And she doesn't drive i took her back to her moms. To be honest i feel like just telling them how you feel but without being a simp is the right way
2,3&5 for me. I look at the overall, "bigger picture". It's gone from no or only angry contact to daily conversations that sometimes last for over an hour.
My ex will come around once a week maybe stay the night or two fill my head with hope and then after she leaves she will ghost me not answer or call me she always keeps verbally commiting too come over or go some where at then doesn't show up not ever call and waits days before contacting me with a excuse or a sorry how do I get myself to stop falling into these traps she can't love I know she is taking me from granted
He’s not really trying to connect but he has offered to give me rides to pick up my vehicle. And came over last Friday but we just hooked up and he left :(
We broke up almost 4 months ago, and I’ve been doing NC for 6 weeks. The last time we spoke, she said she didn’t want to talk to me while she’s dating someone right now. How can I get her to open up without making things worse?
How about when telling you after months of building emotional connection, they are feeling overwhelmed and interested in being friends only ( which I refused) , and need a space to reflect, just to argue after that, and ending things with them asking you to move on !
I'm going through the same thing but she said she just wants to be friends but I can't just be friends I was too much open wound still which I have to let go just don't understand how I don't bug her
@@nirmeenqadi5920 How did you figure out he was manipulating you? It was possible that he wasn't really ready and felt you went too strong on him. Did you even ask him why?
Clay I need help! My ex and I had a bad drunken fight and said mean things. He told me he is done and understands I’m sorry but doesn’t want me to contact him. Blocked me on social media and cell phone. 5 days later calls me and I responded and he asked me for a gift I bought him that he left at my place. I told him I’m confused because you ended things and are contacting me for a gift and he responded if you don’t have it, that’s cool and said that’s all he called for. I’ve been confused ever since
My ex ain’t coming back he got his rebound at home and cheating on her with somebody else but that’s her karma for playing on my phone thought she won a prize now he dogging her out
Hey man I rang her yday and we literally spoke for 2hrs36mins on call. Even tho shes been in a rebound for a year (i checked all signs). She proper wanted to speak to me, dragging the convo. I literally could feel that she was interested and she even messaged me back later. But she told me she doesnt feel the same way as I do.
@@danscott2059 bro I rang her again today and we talked. It seems like she likes me, she responds etc but she said she dont feelings for me. But she laughs at my jokes and makes jokes herself and tries to drag the convo. She told me shes serious bout the rebound guy which sucks
@@danscott2059 just feel stupid now, it feels like she really likes me. She fully wanted speak and she was being all cute and jokibg around and she was happy i could sense it in her voice. But she was saying she dont feel the same as me
@@gavwillams7018 man I had the same with my ex. We spoke on phone for hours a few times and even just had quiet time listening to each other breathe. She commented that the calls were nice. Still no feelings and no getting back together. It’s confusing and it sucks.
Don't be used bro. Cannot be used for emotional support. Next time you speak with her, tell her if she had feelings for you, she would come to you and show it. End the conversation, get on with your life, and if she comes, be hesitant but willing. If you find someone else, give her the respect and care she deserves, as it is given to you. Make yourself a priority and don't keep your heart reserved for her any longer.
Thanks Clay. The last two points I loved. But one question, why do men say things in the moment (heat of the moment) that they don't really mean? I always knew he didn't mean to say things as like you say the actions is what matter most. But why do they say things they don't mean when they are emotional?
Regardless as to whether we are men or women, human beings always have the tendency to say something that they don't mean whenever that they are highly emotional. Maybe because our defense mechanisms tend to come in that is why some tend to be in a reaction mode instead of being in response mode.
@@ClayAndrews amazing, I actually had no idea what a defense mechanism really meant. Until I looked it up. Us human behaviors are certainly interesting.
We would have no problems 😊 if he would stand up& be a man& put his mother in her place & stop engaging with his ex's& other females being disrespectful on social media?
She says she does not want to get back together but she can't go two days without talking to me and that's been going on for the last couple months she's in a relationship somewhat but this girl is very bullheaded and I improve my life in every which way possible but she won't come off with she wants to be with me so I guess I got to keep playing the game with her eventually she will cave I hope
Thank you for putting up videos like this makes us stable in these confusing situations. My ex and i broke up 2 1/2 mos ago, she cheated and her life crumbled right in front of her. Like very serious stuff life altering. Did no contact gave her what she wanted but contacted me a few times in that period. Finally she decided she was over with that guy. She contacted me 6 weeks post break up. Basically for reasons I know she needed my help and support and I knew she knew I am the one she could still trust and I will never abandon her like that knowing how delicate her situation was. Fast forward, we text daily for a good month now, she initiates almost all the time, even though she is obviously wounded and traumatized as to what happened to her after cheating and the break up. We have seen each other every week. She holds my hand, hugs me, touches me, one time even gave me a kiss. Tells me thank you and she loves me after meet ups. I talked to her first week of contact like wth are we doing. She said sorry and owned up to it, she wants to sort her life out fix herself then maybe we can try again. Told her we need to take it slow because we will be changed by this. I sort of gave her a green light last night that if her texting is out of habit she isnt obligated to do that. She can have all the time a space if she wants. (Some weeks she has been off and I took it personally) She practically disagrees and is still texting. I am a little confused as to how long shall I wait and if this is really good for me. I do love and care for her so much and been working on letting go of the pain she caused me. I've been an emotional support for a month and sometimes do help her in ways I can. But Sir, i really think I need guidance in treading this.😢
(Long Distance Relationship) do you think it would be a good idea to visit my ex after a week after she has blocked me on everything she was feeling like she was a rebound and that I didn’t care about her which isn’t the case so I feel like if I go and show her that I truly do care about her?
What if he is acting weird over text and telling me to sleep when it's plain day? He's been saying that a lot. It's like he's shooing me away, but we've been connecting well lately.
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I'll text my ex cause we share a 1 year old daughter. He won't text me back but he will pop up at my house out of nowhere. He will stay for about 20 or 30 minutes not really talking about anything.. just showing me paint buckets? a few days ago he showed up at my house 2 or 3 times..He's hot and cold. He's texted me funny things a few times. Made a few sexual jokes. Texted me at 2 or 3 maybe once or twice. To say the least I'm confused.
What about if she puts in a get well card that they still have unfinished business & also adds that she will wait for him & signs the card from her & her family but doesn't mention her fiance?Am I over reacting or shall I say something to his ex?
My ex told me you are going to do what you want when he found out I went on a date. He just didnt want to hear about it and wanted to exit talking at that point what does that mean. Most likely he doesn't care
My ex gf took 7 months to walk away - going through phases of saying we shouldn't talk before reinstating contact somehow. The month before this though I thought we were headed in the right direction, she was affectionate, texting and calling, even being intimate... then it stopped and we have been nc for 5 weeks... we where together for 2 yesrs and I love her and her 2 boys dearly, what do I do?
@@ClayAndrews well we have seen each other when she had to pick up some stuff that she had forgot at my place,we had a long lighthearted conversation and at the end I told her I missed her and she said the same
It almost 2 month since we broke up..my ex sometime chatting me specially when he is emotionally heartbroken from his present relationship.. HE SAY he need someone like me to open up what he feel.. If they are ok he stop chatting.. Thar things happen over and over again.. I dont know if he still love me.. Im confuse
He’s been consistently doing #1 and essentially #3. He’s been initiating and making bids to connect when there is no logical reason to do so. He also made a bid to repair after an awkward encounter that we had, and made a point of engaging in a 20 minute conversation with me when there was no reason to do so. I’ve initiated 2x via text and both times he’s responded to me immediately. When he engages with me he’s complimentary, flirtatious and asks questions about my life, while also filling me in on his. He also told me I’ve been in his dreams. There have been a few positive pullbacks as well. We’ve been really building rapport, but I suspect that there is a rebound. Interestingly enough, I believe he met her around the same time he started reaching out to me and continues to flirt with me. His body language says it all, but he is still dragging his feet. @clayandrews, I don’t know what else I can do… It’s also important to note that I did not make any of the typical breakup mistakes (ie: begging, pleading, clinging), nor was there any fall out or any negative reason stated for the breakup. He told me that his, “heart wasn’t in it.” This was after breaking up with me once due to lack of time to spend together due to his work (he’s an entrepreneur), then 18 days later asking if I’d be willing to go to a movie with him. This led to more dates and him eventually asking me if we should try again. A month later, after I had been away for 2 weeks, he caught me off guard with, “his heart wasn’t in it.” 28 days later he reached out to me again asking about specific details of my life. Since then, we’ve interacted over text and in person. After really positive interactions I won’t hear from him for a week or 2 and then out of nowhere I will. What gives, @clayandrews?
@laurenmountain-ledoux6901 I understand that the hot and cold behavior can be fusing. We talked about hat inside the Ex Solution Program in the 5 stages of getting back together. There's a possibility that your ex may still be at the Riding the Dragon phase. I hope you are holding on well despite these challenges. Sending more positive energies on your end.
5 strange things that show your ex still loves you
1. Try to connect you in some sort of meaningful way
2. Is being honest with you
3. Their ACTIONS may indicate they still love you
4. They're avoiding things, trying not to hurt you
5. Pulling away emotionally
Communicate effectively. No mind games. Create love bonding connection
I'll tell you, you reaaaaaaalllllllyyyyy don't reflect on who you love until they're gone
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I really don't care if he has more power as long as we have mutual respect and a genuine connection.
Good for you? Trusting is good as long as you have an out in case it becomes necessary. Every abandoned single mom trusted her husband once after all
It just blows when your ex breaks up with you via phone.. twice!
you cant really read their body language
My ex invited me to her birthday party which I went too, and stayed the night. We had a couple of drinks 🍹and half way through the night she said too me she regrets breaking up with me, wants the relationship back. She said she was in the wrong and said she will be more understanding with my needs. I don’t know what too do about this, she was being completely honest of how she feels. I guess it’s all the sober thoughts coming out deep down.
Start it back up then!
How long yall were broken up
@@lukeskywalker313 6 months, coming too 7 months soon
@@salvulcano6560 yall not back together
@@lukeskywalker313 no, she said recently she doesn’t want too hurt me again. I don’t want too get together if she was only too breakup with me again.
I’m sure these are great things for some people, I’d kill for the opportunity to hold her hand, hug her or even just look at her closer than from across a room. My ex is completely radio silent after breaking up with me. She’s full of self pity and doubt, she knows she hurt me and feels overwhelming guilt for that. She says she is messed up inside and needs to grow up, which I believe. I just figured it would be easier to learn and grow with me than without me. We were only together a few months, she asked for a second chance which I offered in the way of “I’d be open to that” and asked her to coffee, she gladly accepted then failed to make plans. Now, it’s all but silent, I see her at work everyday and it’s silent ignoring for the most part. Every time she sees me, I catch her staring at me, it’s a really bizarre situation and frustrating because even she admits the breakup was stupid and didn’t need to happen, yet does nothing to work on it that I can see. Oh well, back to no contact.
No you grow better alone.
I am happy I saw this video. When my avoidant ex broke up with me, he was at least honest. (He monkey branched aided by her family. He wanted to "see where it goes". We had shifted to a situationship). We did hug and say goodbye. He wanted me to remain in his life as a friend. Nope. I let him go. I am happy I handled the situation with grace. No tears, compliants, questions. I wished him well, and let him go. In hindsight as time has passed, I now see the whole thing in a different light.He never meant to hurt me. I know he misses me. He probably feels the loss from time to time. We lasted four years together. He texts briefly occasionally, but we haven't seen each other. It's been nine months now. Knowing him, he feels guilty so I don't expect him to try to come back. He knows I can never be just his friend. Although I am okay most of the time, I still get sad when he comes to mind.
I don't agree with no contact. My gf left me and we are still talking and ive opened up to her huge. She seems very respectful of that and is still talking to me and came to get a few things but has stayed for a drink. And she doesn't drive i took her back to her moms. To be honest i feel like just telling them how you feel but without being a simp is the right way
Tbh its me doing this sht the most 😂 but I really wont mind as long as the feeling of love is there, which is undeniably strong
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Well did y’all get back together?
@@bryantlong6522 we did 😂
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@@ehibenni9401 Thanks but I'm fine. No need to call him.
2,3&5 for me. I look at the overall, "bigger picture". It's gone from no or only angry contact to daily conversations that sometimes last for over an hour.
How long did it take to get from anger to conversations
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Thank you for all the content and the work you have done , may you have the most blessed life
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My ex will come around once a week maybe stay the night or two fill my head with hope and then after she leaves she will ghost me not answer or call me she always keeps verbally commiting too come over or go some where at then doesn't show up not ever call and waits days before contacting me with a excuse or a sorry how do I get myself to stop falling into these traps she can't love I know she is taking me from granted
Came for the bunny hops and pogo sticks, stuck around for the interesting tips.
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Do you have a video about Ex's withholding affectionate behavior, like holding hands or hugging?
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Thank you, Ari. :-)
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He’s not really trying to connect but he has offered to give me rides to pick up my vehicle. And came over last Friday but we just hooked up and he left :(
Hit the like button even before the video started lol
Great content 🙌
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We broke up almost 4 months ago, and I’ve been doing NC for 6 weeks. The last time we spoke, she said she didn’t want to talk to me while she’s dating someone right now. How can I get her to open up without making things worse?
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So what does it mean when they get angry and say something hurtful and then turn away? Is it because they are really hurt? And want to hurt your back?
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Hey clay for future reference could you put the reasons in the description makes it easier to follow along
I see my ex with other guys she block me again
Out of all the relationship fixers available on RUclips, Clay talks more common sense than most .
How about when telling you after months of building emotional connection, they are feeling overwhelmed and interested in being friends only ( which I refused) , and need a space to reflect, just to argue after that, and ending things with them asking you to move on !
I'm going through the same thing but she said she just wants to be friends but I can't just be friends I was too much open wound still which I have to let go just don't understand how I don't bug her
All that makes sense. But If you tell me to move on, I'm coming cold and leaving fast
Why would you press someone to have a romantic relationship with you?
Nope I was done the moment he said let's be friends, I am just trying to understand a manipulater mind !
@@nirmeenqadi5920 How did you figure out he was manipulating you? It was possible that he wasn't really ready and felt you went too strong on him. Did you even ask him why?
Clay I need help! My ex and I had a bad drunken fight and said mean things. He told me he is done and understands I’m sorry but doesn’t want me to contact him. Blocked me on social media and cell phone. 5 days later calls me and I responded and he asked me for a gift I bought him that he left at my place. I told him I’m confused because you ended things and are contacting me for a gift and he responded if you don’t have it, that’s cool and said that’s all he called for. I’ve been confused ever since
My ex ain’t coming back he got his rebound at home and cheating on her with somebody else but that’s her karma for playing on my phone thought she won a prize now he dogging her out
Hey man I rang her yday and we literally spoke for 2hrs36mins on call. Even tho shes been in a rebound for a year (i checked all signs). She proper wanted to speak to me, dragging the convo. I literally could feel that she was interested and she even messaged me back later. But she told me she doesnt feel the same way as I do.
She's lying. She wants you back, but wants you to chase.
@@danscott2059 bro I rang her again today and we talked. It seems like she likes me, she responds etc but she said she dont feelings for me. But she laughs at my jokes and makes jokes herself and tries to drag the convo. She told me shes serious bout the rebound guy which sucks
@@danscott2059 just feel stupid now, it feels like she really likes me. She fully wanted speak and she was being all cute and jokibg around and she was happy i could sense it in her voice. But she was saying she dont feel the same as me
@@gavwillams7018 man I had the same with my ex. We spoke on phone for hours a few times and even just had quiet time listening to each other breathe. She commented that the calls were nice. Still no feelings and no getting back together. It’s confusing and it sucks.
Don't be used bro. Cannot be used for emotional support. Next time you speak with her, tell her if she had feelings for you, she would come to you and show it. End the conversation, get on with your life, and if she comes, be hesitant but willing. If you find someone else, give her the respect and care she deserves, as it is given to you. Make yourself a priority and don't keep your heart reserved for her any longer.
Thanks Clay. The last two points I loved. But one question, why do men say things in the moment (heat of the moment) that they don't really mean? I always knew he didn't mean to say things as like you say the actions is what matter most. But why do they say things they don't mean when they are emotional?
Regardless as to whether we are men or women, human beings always have the tendency to say something that they don't mean whenever that they are highly emotional. Maybe because our defense mechanisms tend to come in that is why some tend to be in a reaction mode instead of being in response mode.
@@ClayAndrews amazing, I actually had no idea what a defense mechanism really meant. Until I looked it up. Us human behaviors are certainly interesting.
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Hi Clay, I tried effortless connections and the link is not working for me. Can you send me it?
Thank you for your considerate video. I am delight of seeing several good signs in your talks.
I appreciate that!
We would have no problems 😊 if he would stand up& be a man& put his mother in her place & stop engaging with his ex's& other females being disrespectful on social media?
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Hey clay I wish I could afford your coaching call been stuck for 5 months now as much as I try everyday to stay positive
She says she does not want to get back together but she can't go two days without talking to me and that's been going on for the last couple months she's in a relationship somewhat but this girl is very bullheaded and I improve my life in every which way possible but she won't come off with she wants to be with me so I guess I got to keep playing the game with her eventually she will cave I hope
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Thank you for putting up videos like this makes us stable in these confusing situations.
My ex and i broke up 2 1/2 mos ago, she cheated and her life crumbled right in front of her. Like very serious stuff life altering. Did no contact gave her what she wanted but contacted me a few times in that period. Finally she decided she was over with that guy. She contacted me 6 weeks post break up. Basically for reasons I know she needed my help and support and I knew she knew I am the one she could still trust and I will never abandon her like that knowing how delicate her situation was. Fast forward, we text daily for a good month now, she initiates almost all the time, even though she is obviously wounded and traumatized as to what happened to her after cheating and the break up. We have seen each other every week. She holds my hand, hugs me, touches me, one time even gave me a kiss. Tells me thank you and she loves me after meet ups. I talked to her first week of contact like wth are we doing. She said sorry and owned up to it, she wants to sort her life out fix herself then maybe we can try again. Told her we need to take it slow because we will be changed by this. I sort of gave her a green light last night that if her texting is out of habit she isnt obligated to do that. She can have all the time a space if she wants. (Some weeks she has been off and I took it personally) She practically disagrees and is still texting. I am a little confused as to how long shall I wait and if this is really good for me. I do love and care for her so much and been working on letting go of the pain she caused me. I've been an emotional support for a month and sometimes do help her in ways I can. But Sir, i really think I need guidance in treading this.😢
2-3 but I’m skeptical
(Long Distance Relationship) do you think it would be a good idea to visit my ex after a week after she has blocked me on everything she was feeling like she was a rebound and that I didn’t care about her which isn’t the case so I feel like if I go and show her that I truly do care about her?
What if he is acting weird over text and telling me to sleep when it's plain day? He's been saying that a lot. It's like he's shooing me away, but we've been connecting well lately.
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still love you could just simply mean they still care about you..how can you tell if they're still IN LOVE with you?
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Thankful for your wisdom.
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I'll text my ex cause we share a 1 year old daughter. He won't text me back but he will pop up at my house out of nowhere. He will stay for about 20 or 30 minutes not really talking about anything.. just showing me paint buckets? a few days ago he showed up at my house 2 or 3 times..He's hot and cold. He's texted me funny things a few times. Made a few sexual jokes. Texted me at 2 or 3 maybe once or twice. To say the least I'm confused.
Its been about a month of no contact.. Last thing she said to me, I'll be here I'm not going anywhere.
Work on your self and go get her
Yes!! She wants U yo improve, ... improve, go slow!! Then go get her!! Such great words from her!!
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Could he be pulling away because of something that happened between us recently? I'm so confused
That could be another possibility why a positive pull back happens.
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I don’t know if this applies to me I can say there was contradicting actions but nothing I can make a logical deductive reasoning on.
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What about if she puts in a get well card that they still have unfinished business & also adds that she will wait for him & signs the card from her & her family but doesn't mention her fiance?Am I over reacting or shall I say something to his ex?
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My ex told me you are going to do what you want when he found out I went on a date. He just didnt want to hear about it and wanted to exit talking at that point what does that mean. Most likely he doesn't care
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My ex gf took 7 months to walk away - going through phases of saying we shouldn't talk before reinstating contact somehow. The month before this though I thought we were headed in the right direction, she was affectionate, texting and calling, even being intimate... then it stopped and we have been nc for 5 weeks... we where together for 2 yesrs and I love her and her 2 boys dearly, what do I do?
Maybe the relationship took off too quickly. Give it time and prayer. Prayer works a lot. Good luck!
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What if u live 20 miles away and communicate by text?
Is text the only medium of communication your ex has made herself available to?
@@ClayAndrews well we have seen each other when she had to pick up some stuff that she had forgot at my place,we had a long lighthearted conversation and at the end I told her I missed her and she said the same
Is unfollowing me but not changing their profile picture with me on it one of them ?
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It almost 2 month since we broke up..my ex sometime chatting me specially when he is emotionally heartbroken from his present relationship.. HE SAY he need someone like me to open up what he feel.. If they are ok he stop chatting.. Thar things happen over and over again.. I dont know if he still love me.. Im confuse
Don't be confused, you are not his main priority, you're the back-up plan.
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He’s been consistently doing #1 and essentially #3. He’s been initiating and making bids to connect when there is no logical reason to do so. He also made a bid to repair after an awkward encounter that we had, and made a point of engaging in a 20 minute conversation with me when there was no reason to do so. I’ve initiated 2x via text and both times he’s responded to me immediately. When he engages with me he’s complimentary, flirtatious and asks questions about my life, while also filling me in on his. He also told me I’ve been in his dreams. There have been a few positive pullbacks as well. We’ve been really building rapport, but I suspect that there is a rebound. Interestingly enough, I believe he met her around the same time he started reaching out to me and continues to flirt with me. His body language says it all, but he is still dragging his feet. @clayandrews, I don’t know what else I can do… It’s also important to note that I did not make any of the typical breakup mistakes (ie: begging, pleading, clinging), nor was there any fall out or any negative reason stated for the breakup. He told me that his, “heart wasn’t in it.” This was after breaking up with me once due to lack of time to spend together due to his work (he’s an entrepreneur), then 18 days later asking if I’d be willing to go to a movie with him. This led to more dates and him eventually asking me if we should try again. A month later, after I had been away for 2 weeks, he caught me off guard with, “his heart wasn’t in it.” 28 days later he reached out to me again asking about specific details of my life. Since then, we’ve interacted over text and in person. After really positive interactions I won’t hear from him for a week or 2 and then out of nowhere I will. What gives, @clayandrews?
@laurenmountain-ledoux6901 I understand that the hot and cold behavior can be fusing. We talked about hat inside the Ex Solution Program in the 5 stages of getting back together. There's a possibility that your ex may still be at the Riding the Dragon phase. I hope you are holding on well despite these challenges. Sending more positive energies on your end.