one of the ladies portrayed in the film is ute heggenn. she is a trans widow and her despicable "husband" wanted to partition the court to have HIM recognized as the children's Mother. this bullshit has got to stop😡😡😡
Yeah this transphobia/misogyny has to stop and within a few years from now you Nazis will eat shit one day and then move on to something else to hate like idk sex workers and I am one myself and I am also transgender as well so yeah and I know you pigs also have a problem with sex workers like myself and it's maybe coz you havent gotten laid that is for sure.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s an idiot. She’s stopped their mother having any access to the children based upon hatred not based upon any tangible harm they have or will do to the kids and the stupid transphobic judge agree what kind of justice is that. I’m sorry actually I’m not say it loud say t proud anyone who removed a parent from a child’s life because of bigotry is a hideous human and shame on you for supporting her
There was a TV documentary thing a few years back about this, and that poor wife was gas-lit into going out to the pub or somewher, with her husband dressed up in her clothes! Hateful selfish man.
Good to see Ute Heggen telling other trans widows “get yourself out”; make sure your money is safe, the children’s college funds are safe, that the home you are living in hasn’t been sold to pay for his surgeries; he doesn’t care about you or the children unless you all affirm him as “mum” - the only relationship an AGP can have is with himself.
This happened to a friend of mine. Her fella decided he was a woman after 12yrs together. His attitude was that he was ‘brave’ for deciding to be his ‘authentic’ self.. his narcissism failed to recognise that he had effectively robbed her of her of 12 yrs of her life when she could have been with someone who didn’t have these issues.. hopefully this doc will shine a light on the victims left behind and the impact on those who have loved someone who lived a lie and took them along on the ride. For me, it is a contemporary manifestation of borderline personality disorder and narcissism.. they bask in the attention this provides them without empathy for the damage left behind
@@BadDriversOz fair point.. it should be called ‘way over the fucking line personality disorder’ but I thought I’d stick to DSM terminology.. honestly thou, have a look at the diagnostic criteria for this, it sums up these people perfectly!
@@gregjackson3651 Yes, totally agree! IF there is a 'borderline', then there must ALSO be an OVER the borderline term! Can't have 1 without the other! With some the border was crossed so LONG ago and is 100s or Ks of km BEHIND the tipping point they crossed!
@@babs_babs when the person who you married no longer identifies as your "husband" because he thinks he magically changed his sex , and changes his name to Bambi , then the person that you married is in effect "dead" so identifying as a widow is completely apt.
@@babs_babs Do you also disapprove of the practice that many people who transition also change their names and their previous name becomes a "deadname"? "Deadnaming" ie using a person's previous official name is considered transphobic. Isn't it a bit illogical to disapprove the term trans widows while "deadnaming" is a commonly used term by trans activists?
I neither use that made up word or give their cause any credence. Anyone trying to force their will, ideology on another person is a fascist, that is what fascism is! It isn't just right wing groups that are portrait in the left wing global media that are the fascists, they are all around us, influencing and grooming our children in echools, colleges and universities. But why is this a western disease? It isn't so prevalent in other societies.
@TransHippie She sounds cool. The fact that you simply used an association of being old as a put-down makes you a bit sad. Oh, just spotted your pic. Feeling called out much!? 😅 How many kids did you have before your paraphillia became your top priority?
The trans community must be treated as being separate from biological women and men, having their own changing rooms, toilets and sporting categories. These are all perfectly reasonable statements, perfectly fair but, to the tiny minority who decide what men and woman are, perfectly unacceptable.
Not so; if, in a responsible adult, there are ongoing physiological, as well as psychological issues which make a person aspire to be the opposite sex, they have every right to transition and I admire the courage and conviction of such a journey; as long as the provisos that I stated are not breached, live and let live. @@paintsilj
The lesbian trans widows are the most tragic for me. They might choose to stay in the relationship after their female partner declares their intranity and starts mutilation treatments and living out their delusions. I call them widows because their partner has died in a way, and now the widow has to pretend to be straight to validate her ‘man’. The whole relationship revolves around the person with an identity crisis which must be exhausting.
Samd for straight women having to pretend they are lesbians though. I'd much rather date a lesbian with internalised homophobia than an AGP any day, hands down.
We don’t hear enough about what is happening in the rest of the world only the Anglosphere. I truly hope this woman is not alone in the push back out there!
Fantastic (and brave) woman! Brilliant interview. I really hope her film raises awareness enough to initiate change quickly in India as that sounds terrible 😞 It’s always the women and children left behind who are tossed aside and silenced 😞
i know, right. while schofeild came out and was lauded as "stunning and brave", his wife must have been reeling to find out her husband had been cheating on her for years, regardless if it was with a male or a female. nobody ever considered how it might affect his wife and children while the media applauded him. karma did bite his ass though. that's something at least.
These hypocrites, they want to be respected but imposing, enforcing their problems to others. Did the men and women agreed, accepted to be called cis like you have some disease, or birth giver etc, no, women, men didn't approved. You have no right with other people's children!
Everyone who can, please donate to this woman's project. We need to support those who take risks to raise the issue. As a "woman of colour", she has quite a good advantage she can use against the trans bullies (if I was her, I would give them a taste of their own medicine and call them racists for attacking her)
Are you kidding me? This is someone calling themselves a widow, who is not a widow. I AM a widow. This is BS and they are literally appropriating MY real pain
@@invariablybefuddled4415 it's an apt term, these men no longer exist as the husband that was married, the relationship is permanently over. The wife and children grieve just like you did.
I would be so accepting of them because I know what it's like to have horrific gender dysphoria and my partner is also trans we are a T4T couple and also we dont go around trying to ruin people's lives.
People with DSD's are still males or females. They are not some magical third sex, just because their reproductive organs developed differently, due to an anomolis, condition.
If a rule is flawed to begin with and does not live up to its objectives fairly and reasonably, or if rules are applied to favour one above another, then there is not equal application. Bad legislation cannot be allowed to stand when it punitively punishes the people without clear benefit. This crappy legislation and unrealistic market motivating tax has got to go!
Often it is expected from the women to support their men transitioning, as if it is no problem for the marriage at all. A psychologist told one women (when she went with her husband to his psychologist for one time) she was a lesbian all along because she married a man who became a transwoman, that is so wrong on many levels.
@@cs-lp5qv plus the number of men identifying as women (but not getting any surgeries) is exploding, unlike the numbers in any other desertion, and in this case the women can’t openly speak about the reasons for the desertion because as Vaishnavi says, these men are considered stunning and brave and the wives considered bigots.
The experience is VERY distinct. The manipulations to get them to stay and to uphold the paraphillic "relationship" the man has with his alter. The narratives that you are hateful/transphobic" if you don't believe/dont support, the silencing of your pain because what he is going through needs constant celebration. The rebranding of him loosing himself to a paraphillia as "bravery" . The disgust of seeing the man you have loved intimately and the father of your kids loose himself and all other priorities to this false fetishistic and offensive male idea-of-a-woman alter that he coerced you into worshipping. It's different, similar in some ways but different. Do you have a particular issue with these women speaking out about this unique experience?
India has a history of what they call "third gendered" people born male but not female. Surveys in India show it to be more patriarchal than European and North American countries. The number of males identifying as female far outnumber females identifying as male. It's also more accepting of male homosexuals than lesbians. Females are under more pressure to be conservatively behaved, whereas males have more flexibility especially with sexual behaviour and identity.
Are you saying your wife decided to call herself a man? If so I guess you could be part of a documentary one day especially if you live in Western Europe or North America, where I'm sure there must be a growing number of unfortunate men whose wives have joined the trans train. They would be equally as interesting and sad stories. Kids whose mom is calling herself dad has got to be a mind fck. Divorce courts often favour women so I wonder how that plays out. Do they let a mentally delusional female calling herself dad be deemed the best carer or are they allowed to take it into consideration? It has to be some social stigma for men to tell family, friends and workmates their wife is now saying she's a husband. I'm sure these stories will get told.
Why do you completely ignore autogynephilia and homosexual transsexuals are not the same thing. That lack of specification tarnishes us with that brush.
If they are not going through the physiological testing that a lot of countries want to scrap and only do self IDing then from the outside it can look the same.
@@iluv2b Autogynephiles also known as AGP are heterosexual males attracted to the thought or image of themselves as women. They are narcissistic but cause they’re also straight the sexual target has to be female but cause they’re narcissists they love themselves. So they become the object of their own desire. Call themselves “Lesbians”. Autogynephilia is a paraphilia which usually leads to other paraphilias such as children, bondage, sissification. Often brought about with excessive and extreme porn use. This kind are the ones forcing themselves into women’s sports like that Riley fellow and occupying women’s prisons. They get off pretending they’re women. Point it out though and the “feminine” character the male created disappears as quickly as ‘she’ was invented and you’re left with a very angry man ready to fight for the woman he loves. Homosexual transsexuals otherwise known as hsts are effeminate gay boys. Have typically feminine interests, exclusively attracted to men. Motivation to transition comes from not being or feeling masculine. Firm internal belief a mistake has been made and truly feel should of been born opposite sex. But aware they’re actually their birth sex causing gender identity disorder. Two things totally different from each other but lumped under one umbrella term.
The reply I made earlier was reflective of my genuinely not having heard the term 'auto gynephilia' before and was meant entirely self-deprecatingly; sincere apologies for any offence.
Families did the same cancelling gays and lesbians 20 plus years ago and families would never speak to them again and tell them that they are misusing their body parts. I noticed she didn't highlight that more females transition to become trans-masculine than males who transition to become trans-feminine. I'm sure she'd say toxic masculinity made them do it. People don't have to support your views which I imagine is a first for you.
Not in India they don't. There is very few females who identify as men in India. It is a patriarchal society when it comes to gender identity choice. Part of this is due to India historically having a "3rd gender" for males who identify as women.
How many forty year old women are transitioning like these fetishistic men? They don't. Perhaps we should ask why so many teen girls and young women don't want to be seen as women. Many have been sexually abused, physically assaulted, are on the autism spectrum, many don't fit society's definition of "attractive," and a significant number are lesbians. The reasons for transitioning are completely different.
Historically it has always been men wanting to "transition". The increase in women "transitioning " is culture bound and very much appears to be an imposed condition, especially amongst young girls, who have been influenced by activists, online, in education and in medicine
Okay, now I'm mad. If your spouse is not deceased YOU ARE NOT A WIDOW OR WIDOWER. You are not suffering from the PTSD, you are not raising your child, crying in the shower so they don't see, and trying to hold yourself together at any given moment. These attention-seeking wastes are doing nothing but appropriating other people's pain. The fact that they are trying to appropriate widowhood, is disgusting. I saw my husband dead on the side of the road surrounded by police and gave birth to our only child 5 days later without my husband by my side. This has got to stop. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. They don't wake up with the night terrors. They don't have to handle EVERYTHING alone. They don't have to do these things, but want credit for trying to be strong. This is their attention seeking weak behavior at play, and people need to start protecting the ones that people like this are hurting. They couldn't handle this pain. They just want credit for the strength it takes to continue living with it.
Take your anger to the men who call themselves "dead" then. The name is in response to the men saying they have "dead names", and expect everyone to treat their male history as dead or having never occurred.
I'm sorry about your loss, that sounds pretty horrendous 😔 Have you had any help with processing your grief? I think that's where the anger probably stems from. You're not angry at these women who have also suffered (albeit differently) you're in extreme pain. I agree with you, they aren't widowers. Maybe it helps them process their grief and express how they feel about their loss. I hope you and your son are doing OK ❤ I am raising a son alone, too. I also cry in the shower sometimes. But for completely different reasons. Our kids keep us strong, don't they? Sending healing energies from my family to yours. I hope one day the trauma stops hurting you as much. ❤
I find her to be suspicious. Just a sense. Seems there is a very wokie wolfie under that masculine outward projection. Fine, it's a feeling I have and you can scoff all you want. _Suspicious. _
@@invariablybefuddled4415 sorry that this anti-trans shit is hurting you too. i read your other post in the comment section. wish you and your kid the best
You wouldn't have had it without it being preceded by CONSERVATIVES, pushing strict and rigid sex role stereotypes, making naturally more feminine men, (often, but not always, gay), and naturally more masculine women, (often, but not always, lesbians), feel like they were doing man, or woman, "wrong"! And that, in order to be socially acceptable, it would "make more sense for them to be the other sex"! (The exact, literal words a former love of mine, who was a feminine, bisexual, sexually submissive man, who struggled with these issues, told me. That he would have "made more sense as a woman"! Sh*t is literally sexism 101! And for the record, he was also raised Catholic, which further pushed those strict social norms on him, and made him feel like he was the "wrong" kind of man.) .. Generally SO f*cking sick of conservative dude-bros blaming feminists for this sh*t! Without seeing how conservatism, sexism, homophobia, and misogyny, have been the MAIN contributors to this mess, by far! And how you can't solve it with more of the same! Although you are also right that many women who CALL themselves feminists, (such as for instance Emma Watson), support and push for this sh*t! So I guess to an extent, people's confusion is understandable. But.. the sh*t those people push..? Isn't actually feminism, at all! As it shamelessly centers MEN, hurts women, and fails to even recognize what a woman IS, thus our shared struggles as a sex class!! You should look into radical feminism, the second wave, etc. That is 100% the real thing! What currently passes for mainstream "feminism"..? Is just glorified misogyny, dressed up in drag! Also, maybe look into what that acronym, "TERF", stands for, and the history behind it. Plus what us "TERFs" / feminists that oppose this are actually saying. Real feminists have been fighting this since WAY back, and deserve WAY more recognition! Color me exceedingly unimpressed with the selfish and exploitative Matt Walshes of this world, plus people pretending like conservatism is the only other option to gender ideology. Just.. eff off. :S
You mean the victim of a person that has no care for anyone but themselves. If you marry a man you married a man you didn't marry a man that was 1 day going to tell you that they are no longer a man and that you have to bow to their deranged idea of womanhood. Fuck that.
Having trouble getting to the site for the donation. When I finally found it it diverted to MACS (Male Allies Challenging Sexism) where the paypal donation can be made. @GBNews can this be confirmed as the proper place to donate?
one of the ladies portrayed in the film is ute heggenn. she is a trans widow and her despicable "husband" wanted to partition the court to have HIM recognized as the children's Mother. this bullshit has got to stop😡😡😡
Yeah this transphobia/misogyny has to stop and within a few years from now you Nazis will eat shit one day and then move on to something else to hate like idk sex workers and I am one myself and I am also transgender as well so yeah and I know you pigs also have a problem with sex workers like myself and it's maybe coz you havent gotten laid that is for sure.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
* petition the court
@@DieFlabbergast oh, sorry, didn't realize spelling is so much more important than this subject
@@DieFlabbergast someone could be dyslexic
She’s an idiot. She’s stopped their mother having any access to the children based upon hatred not based upon any tangible harm they have or will do to the kids and the stupid transphobic judge agree what kind of justice is that. I’m sorry actually I’m not say it loud say t proud anyone who removed a parent from a child’s life because of bigotry is a hideous human and shame on you for supporting her
There was a TV documentary thing a few years back about this, and that poor wife was gas-lit into going out to the pub or somewher, with her husband dressed up in her clothes! Hateful selfish man.
She is doing great work.
Vaishnavi Sundar is intelligent, brave and a true journalist! I have great respect and gratitude for her work! 🙏
Good to see Ute Heggen telling other trans widows “get yourself out”; make sure your money is safe, the children’s college funds are safe, that the home you are living in hasn’t been sold to pay for his surgeries; he doesn’t care about you or the children unless you all affirm him as “mum” - the only relationship an AGP can have is with himself.
This happened to a friend of mine. Her fella decided he was a woman after 12yrs together. His attitude was that he was ‘brave’ for deciding to be his ‘authentic’ self.. his narcissism failed to recognise that he had effectively robbed her of her of 12 yrs of her life when she could have been with someone who didn’t have these issues.. hopefully this doc will shine a light on the victims left behind and the impact on those who have loved someone who lived a lie and took them along on the ride. For me, it is a contemporary manifestation of borderline personality disorder and narcissism.. they bask in the attention this provides them without empathy for the damage left behind
'Borderline'? LOL!
@@BadDriversOz fair point.. it should be called ‘way over the fucking line personality disorder’ but I thought I’d stick to DSM terminology.. honestly thou, have a look at the diagnostic criteria for this, it sums up these people perfectly!
@@gregjackson3651 Yes, totally agree!
IF there is a 'borderline', then there must ALSO be an OVER the borderline term!
Can't have 1 without the other!
With some the border was crossed so LONG ago and is 100s or Ks of km BEHIND the tipping point they crossed!
Thing is...they didn't actually 'live a lie' before. They just kept their fetish in the closet where it belongs.
@@sasjab3629 'I'm coming out! I want the world to know, gonna let it show...'
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Fantastic interview. We need to hear more from trans widows and their children. ❤
When is this film being aired and where? 🤔
Have you ever listened to a trans person, or is your empathy solely with cis people?
@@TransHippie There's no such thing as a "cis" person! 🙄
@@TransHippie Dude, people can hear more than one side.
@@TransHippie because cis people are the ones that have more power and they are mostly heard and empathized with.
What a brave lady.
The most insulting thing to happen to real women
identifying as a widow when your partner never died is insulting to real widows.
@@babs_babsspeak for yourself.
@@babs_babs when the person who you married no longer identifies as your "husband" because he thinks he magically changed his sex , and changes his name to Bambi , then the person that you married is in effect "dead" so identifying as a widow is completely apt.
@@evieshore3270 you think changing your name and how you look is akin to death? mate you sound fucking ridiculous.
@@babs_babs Do you also disapprove of the practice that many people who transition also change their names and their previous name becomes a "deadname"? "Deadnaming" ie using a person's previous official name is considered transphobic. Isn't it a bit illogical to disapprove the term trans widows while "deadnaming" is a commonly used term by trans activists?
By using their words, e.g "transphobia", you are giving them power over you!
You sound like my grandfather's sister.
@@TransHippie Good! Our grandparents had common sense. Now it is all about self indulgence and 'look at me'.
I neither use that made up word or give their cause any credence. Anyone trying to force their will, ideology on another person is a fascist, that is what fascism is! It isn't just right wing groups that are portrait in the left wing global media that are the fascists, they are all around us, influencing and grooming our children in echools, colleges and universities. But why is this a western disease? It isn't so prevalent in other societies.
Spot on. That is why principled people refuse to use their newspeak.
@TransHippie
She sounds cool. The fact that you simply used an association of being old as a put-down makes you a bit sad.
Oh, just spotted your pic. Feeling called out much!? 😅 How many kids did you have before your paraphillia became your top priority?
I won’t consider transition into a woman. Sod that, there’s too much housework
LMAO you must not live in the West if you think women do any housework these days.
LOL!
😂😂😂😂.
Keep fighting the good fight!
Fascinating story in that it has now spread to India after surging across the anglosphere .....
Yes, almost as if there were a vested interest with an agenda and worldwide influence and endless amounts of money. I wonder who that could be? 🤔
What a wonderful woman 😊
The trans community must be treated as being separate from biological women and men, having their own changing rooms, toilets and sporting categories.
These are all perfectly reasonable statements, perfectly fair but, to the tiny minority who decide what men and woman are, perfectly unacceptable.
I disagree. They should overcome their gender dysphoria through counselling and no hormone treatment or unnecessary surgeries.
Not so; if, in a responsible adult, there are ongoing physiological, as well as psychological issues which make a person aspire to be the opposite sex, they have every right to transition and I admire the courage and conviction of such a journey; as long as the provisos that I stated are not breached, live and let live. @@paintsilj
They are simply men and women that need non-affiriming therapy. It is ridiculous society is catering to delusions at all.
@@paintsiljthese “men” mentioned in this video do not have gender dysphoria…These men are following a fetish.
Why? They're not a third sex. Just because they pretend to be something else that doesn't stop them being what they actually are.
It’s great that this film is being made and silenced voices are being heard. Wonderful work, Vaishnavi.
Wow. Important work.
The lesbian trans widows are the most tragic for me. They might choose to stay in the relationship after their female partner declares their intranity and starts mutilation treatments and living out their delusions. I call them widows because their partner has died in a way, and now the widow has to pretend to be straight to validate her ‘man’. The whole relationship revolves around the person with an identity crisis which must be exhausting.
Samd for straight women having to pretend they are lesbians though.
I'd much rather date a lesbian with internalised homophobia than an AGP any day, hands down.
We don’t hear enough about what is happening in the rest of the world only the Anglosphere. I truly hope this woman is not alone in the push back out there!
Totally admire her courage, wont be long before the venomous hordes descend on her- Ask JKR!
Fantastic (and brave) woman! Brilliant interview. I really hope her film raises awareness enough to initiate change quickly in India as that sounds terrible 😞 It’s always the women and children left behind who are tossed aside and silenced 😞
Get her in touch with Kellie Jay asap. People need to know and need to act in defense of women's rights.
KJK is a fascist in service of the people who ban abortions. You lot hate women.
Vaishnavi was and spoke at the last Let women speak event in London.
What about gay widows, and lesbian widowers? The spouses of closet cases like Phillip Schofield's poor wife?
i know, right. while schofeild came out and was lauded as "stunning and brave", his wife must have been reeling to find out her husband had been cheating on her for years, regardless if it was with a male or a female. nobody ever considered how it might affect his wife and children while the media applauded him. karma did bite his ass though. that's something at least.
simple, those are not widows. if your partner did not die, you are not a widow.
@@babs_babs the same can be said of men who think they are women. they ARE NOT women, they are men in dresses
look who's suddenly falling over themselves to employ the traditional use of words! XD @@babs_babs incoherence would be a compliment.
...and Quentin Blunt, after he used his wife's money to further his political career.
WHO and WEF are footing the bill.
Which is the money they steal from us.
Amazing woman!❤
These hypocrites, they want to be respected but imposing, enforcing their problems to others. Did the men and women agreed, accepted to be called cis like you have some disease, or birth giver etc, no, women, men didn't approved. You have no right with other people's children!
Brave woman. Godspeed.
Everyone who can, please donate to this woman's project. We need to support those who take risks to raise the issue. As a "woman of colour", she has quite a good advantage she can use against the trans bullies (if I was her, I would give them a taste of their own medicine and call them racists for attacking her)
She mentioned India's Chief Justice. He's pretty "woke".
like the bbc, and eu, echr, wef, labour, unions, who ever else?, council's, ulez, all twisting laws...
First i learn of this!!!
Where is the link on how to donate to her?
Are you kidding me? This is someone calling themselves a widow, who is not a widow. I AM a widow. This is BS and they are literally appropriating MY real pain
It's in the video, lower left corner. See for example 7min, 11 sec into the video.
@@chimak111 Whoops! I totally missed that. Thank you so much.
@@invariablybefuddled4415 it's an apt term, these men no longer exist as the husband that was married, the relationship is permanently over. The wife and children grieve just like you did.
I hope her film does well! 💪🏻
What a lovely woman! Imagine that your husband leaves you to become a woman, good grief, we’ve gone mad!
I would be so accepting of them because I know what it's like to have horrific gender dysphoria and my partner is also trans we are a T4T couple and also we dont go around trying to ruin people's lives.
Leaves you to "pretend to become a woman."
We are for women and man 😎 male and female as God created 🤔👍🕊️
What about intersexed people genius?
People with DSD's are still males or females. They are not some magical third sex, just because their reproductive organs developed differently, due to an anomolis, condition.
@@HeathenGranny if it's GOD'S creation 🕊️ natural by birth no issues dude...all are humans 🙏 mental issues need councelling right?...🤔🙏
Vaishnavi is the only feminist activist in india who is fighting for WOMEN. Brave woman ❤
Good for her
Great guest 👏🕊
Really horrific that this is happening in India. Where a lot of women and children are already treated badly.
Sad !
Never thought of this before, I feel bad for these women& god bless this wee Indian woman
It's heart breaking the loss the family feels the children it's sick and very selfish
Keep up the good work.
This woman rocks
Filed under Art of Film. Should have been at Telluride. 💕💌
If a rule is flawed to begin with and does not live up to its objectives fairly and reasonably, or if rules are applied to favour one above another, then there is not equal application. Bad legislation cannot be allowed to stand when it punitively punishes the people without clear benefit. This crappy legislation and unrealistic market motivating tax has got to go!
Sunday ❤❤❤
Widowed by a freak what next
Selfish
But how is this different from any women being deserted by the husband, why does the reason matter?
Often it is expected from the women to support their men transitioning, as if it is no problem for the marriage at all. A psychologist told one women (when she went with her husband to his psychologist for one time) she was a lesbian all along because she married a man who became a transwoman, that is so wrong on many levels.
@@cs-lp5qv plus the number of men identifying as women (but not getting any surgeries) is exploding, unlike the numbers in any other desertion, and in this case the women can’t openly speak about the reasons for the desertion because as Vaishnavi says, these men are considered stunning and brave and the wives considered bigots.
@@cs-lp5qvreally? That shrink needs to be shrunk
The experience is VERY distinct.
The manipulations to get them to stay and to uphold the paraphillic "relationship" the man has with his alter. The narratives that you are hateful/transphobic" if you don't believe/dont support, the silencing of your pain because what he is going through needs constant celebration. The rebranding of him loosing himself to a paraphillia as "bravery" . The disgust of seeing the man you have loved intimately and the father of your kids loose himself and all other priorities to this false fetishistic and offensive male idea-of-a-woman alter that he coerced you into worshipping.
It's different, similar in some ways but different. Do you have a particular issue with these women speaking out about this unique experience?
Brave woman
Theres no such thing!!
Did you look and listen until the end?
Yes there is
Women being failed in so many countries 😪
What % of tthese men actually remain genitally intact?
Do men whose wives suddenly become ‘men’ get included in this or do they not count?
India has a history of what they call "third gendered" people born male but not female. Surveys in India show it to be more patriarchal than European and North American countries. The number of males identifying as female far outnumber females identifying as male. It's also more accepting of male homosexuals than lesbians. Females are under more pressure to be conservatively behaved, whereas males have more flexibility especially with sexual behaviour and identity.
@@mjones8170 so that’s a no then. Good to know I have it so much easier than these women. How lucky I am!!
Hard to find those but there are men whose wives or partners become lesbians. I guess it's up to a man to make such a film.
@@ileanamuntean7338 I must be very rare then..
Are you saying your wife decided to call herself a man? If so I guess you could be part of a documentary one day especially if you live in Western Europe or North America, where I'm sure there must be a growing number of unfortunate men whose wives have joined the trans train. They would be equally as interesting and sad stories. Kids whose mom is calling herself dad has got to be a mind fck. Divorce courts often favour women so I wonder how that plays out. Do they let a mentally delusional female calling herself dad be deemed the best carer or are they allowed to take it into consideration? It has to be some social stigma for men to tell family, friends and workmates their wife is now saying she's a husband. I'm sure these stories will get told.
TELL HER TO GET IN TOUCH WITH THE DAILY WIRE
My darling and I made it work for us. 37yrs together. 29yrs since her operation.
Autogynophilia is not womanhood.
I don't mind them having their own terminology but she/ her is taken.
Congratulations. Just the one "operation"?
Trans has always been a part of Indian culture, but NOT like this!
Why do you completely ignore autogynephilia and homosexual transsexuals are not the same thing.
That lack of specification tarnishes us with that brush.
There's homosexual, heterosexual and bisexual. Nothing else
If they are not going through the physiological testing that a lot of countries want to scrap and only do self IDing then from the outside it can look the same.
@@iluv2b Autogynephiles also known as AGP are heterosexual males attracted to the thought or image of themselves as women.
They are narcissistic but cause they’re also straight the sexual target has to be female but cause they’re narcissists they love themselves.
So they become the object of their own desire.
Call themselves “Lesbians”.
Autogynephilia is a paraphilia which usually leads to other paraphilias such as children, bondage, sissification.
Often brought about with excessive and extreme porn use.
This kind are the ones forcing themselves into women’s sports like that Riley fellow and occupying women’s prisons.
They get off pretending they’re women.
Point it out though and the “feminine” character the male created disappears as quickly as ‘she’ was invented and you’re left with a very angry man ready to fight for the woman he loves.
Homosexual transsexuals otherwise known as hsts are effeminate gay boys.
Have typically feminine interests, exclusively attracted to men.
Motivation to transition comes from not being or feeling masculine.
Firm internal belief a mistake has been made and truly feel should of been born opposite sex. But aware they’re actually their birth sex causing gender identity disorder.
Two things totally different from each other but lumped under one umbrella term.
And in Gods eyes the only one is acceptable is heterosexuals, homosexuallty, bi sexual, and trans, is a sin in the eyes of God.
The reply I made earlier was reflective of my genuinely not having heard the term 'auto gynephilia' before and was meant entirely self-deprecatingly; sincere apologies for any offence.
Always victims in every situation
I found the AGP
Families did the same cancelling gays and lesbians 20 plus years ago and families would never speak to them again and tell them that they are misusing their body parts.
I noticed she didn't highlight that more females transition to become trans-masculine than males who transition to become trans-feminine. I'm sure she'd say toxic masculinity made them do it. People don't have to support your views which I imagine is a first for you.
Not in India they don't. There is very few females who identify as men in India. It is a patriarchal society when it comes to gender identity choice. Part of this is due to India historically having a "3rd gender" for males who identify as women.
How many forty year old women are transitioning like these fetishistic men? They don't. Perhaps we should ask why so many teen girls and young women don't want to be seen as women. Many have been sexually abused, physically assaulted, are on the autism spectrum, many don't fit society's definition of "attractive," and a significant number are lesbians. The reasons for transitioning are completely different.
Historically it has always been men wanting to "transition". The increase in women "transitioning " is culture bound and very much appears to be an imposed condition, especially amongst young girls, who have been influenced by activists, online, in education and in medicine
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Okay, now I'm mad.
If your spouse is not deceased YOU ARE NOT A WIDOW OR WIDOWER. You are not suffering from the PTSD, you are not raising your child, crying in the shower so they don't see, and trying to hold yourself together at any given moment.
These attention-seeking wastes are doing nothing but appropriating other people's pain. The fact that they are trying to appropriate widowhood, is disgusting.
I saw my husband dead on the side of the road surrounded by police and gave birth to our only child 5 days later without my husband by my side. This has got to stop. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. They don't wake up with the night terrors. They don't have to handle EVERYTHING alone. They don't have to do these things, but want credit for trying to be strong. This is their attention seeking weak behavior at play, and people need to start protecting the ones that people like this are hurting. They couldn't handle this pain. They just want credit for the strength it takes to continue living with it.
You clearly have issues. You have no authority over how other people feel, or the language they use.
Take your anger to the men who call themselves "dead" then. The name is in response to the men saying they have "dead names", and expect everyone to treat their male history as dead or having never occurred.
Call yourself lucky you've never been the victim of longterm narcissistic abuse.
Please don't aim your hurt at others who are hurting
I'm sorry about your loss, that sounds pretty horrendous 😔
Have you had any help with processing your grief? I think that's where the anger probably stems from. You're not angry at these women who have also suffered (albeit differently) you're in extreme pain. I agree with you, they aren't widowers. Maybe it helps them process their grief and express how they feel about their loss. I hope you and your son are doing OK ❤
I am raising a son alone, too. I also cry in the shower sometimes. But for completely different reasons. Our kids keep us strong, don't they? Sending healing energies from my family to yours. I hope one day the trauma stops hurting you as much. ❤
A widow is a woman who has lost her spouse through death.
A trans widow is a woman or man who has lost their partner through paraphilia and delusion.
Ooooh look more victims.
Real ones.
I find her to be suspicious. Just a sense. Seems there is a very wokie wolfie under that masculine outward projection. Fine, it's a feeling I have and you can scoff all you want. _Suspicious. _
A feminist looking for another angle in the oppression olympics.
She is doing good work
Then again, feelings are not facts.
@@SatuSusanna Agreed. But not to be entirely dismissed unless reasonably refuted.
I think you might be noticing she's a feminist but from a country where women are very poorly treated and need actual change.
she’s a bitter divorcee, not a real widow. disgusting how she victimized herself. so disrespectful to real widows
As a widow, I can tell you, I am livid right now. So you are absolutely correct
You didn't even watch it. She never claimed to be a widow.
@@kai-jm7bb calling yourself a widow (even for click bait) is NOT acceptable. AT ALL. PERIOD
@@invariablybefuddled4415 sorry that this anti-trans shit is hurting you too. i read your other post in the comment section. wish you and your kid the best
@@kai-jm7bb you’re right, i didn’t. i responded to the title which is wildly inappropriate
Come on stick to reality guys, aren't there enough real world stories for you?
You wouldn't have trans issues without it being preceded by feminism.
You wouldn't have had it without it being preceded by CONSERVATIVES, pushing strict and rigid sex role stereotypes, making naturally more feminine men, (often, but not always, gay), and naturally more masculine women, (often, but not always, lesbians), feel like they were doing man, or woman, "wrong"! And that, in order to be socially acceptable, it would "make more sense for them to be the other sex"! (The exact, literal words a former love of mine, who was a feminine, bisexual, sexually submissive man, who struggled with these issues, told me. That he would have "made more sense as a woman"! Sh*t is literally sexism 101! And for the record, he was also raised Catholic, which further pushed those strict social norms on him, and made him feel like he was the "wrong" kind of man.)
.. Generally SO f*cking sick of conservative dude-bros blaming feminists for this sh*t! Without seeing how conservatism, sexism, homophobia, and misogyny, have been the MAIN contributors to this mess, by far! And how you can't solve it with more of the same! Although you are also right that many women who CALL themselves feminists, (such as for instance Emma Watson), support and push for this sh*t! So I guess to an extent, people's confusion is understandable. But.. the sh*t those people push..? Isn't actually feminism, at all! As it shamelessly centers MEN, hurts women, and fails to even recognize what a woman IS, thus our shared struggles as a sex class!! You should look into radical feminism, the second wave, etc. That is 100% the real thing! What currently passes for mainstream "feminism"..? Is just glorified misogyny, dressed up in drag! Also, maybe look into what that acronym, "TERF", stands for, and the history behind it. Plus what us "TERFs" / feminists that oppose this are actually saying. Real feminists have been fighting this since WAY back, and deserve WAY more recognition! Color me exceedingly unimpressed with the selfish and exploitative Matt Walshes of this world, plus people pretending like conservatism is the only other option to gender ideology. Just.. eff off. :S
The quiet part out loud: they don't actually care about trans people - it's women they really hate.
Yes because it’s these women who are victims not the people who were forced to be something they aren’t. Was there such a thing as gay widow
A trans widow is a person who betrays their vows.
You mean the victim of a person that has no care for anyone but themselves. If you marry a man you married a man you didn't marry a man that was 1 day going to tell you that they are no longer a man and that you have to bow to their deranged idea of womanhood. Fuck that.
What are you talking about?
@@jodawson5268He's a man in a dress. What do you think he's talking about?!
The vows to take a man to be your lawful wedded husband you mean?
@jackhadroom4540 the vow to love. It's one which hateful bigots often have a hard time with.
So she calls trans women "men" and she's confused why people call her transphobic?
That's because they are all men. #LGBWithoutTheT #istandwithjkrowling
Having trouble getting to the site for the donation. When I finally found it it diverted to MACS (Male Allies Challenging Sexism) where the paypal donation can be made. @GBNews can this be confirmed as the proper place to donate?
How bout you donate to me so I can get me a PS5 for my channel I mean I got myself this new gaming PC but all Im missing is a PS5
Hi, thank you. MACS is helping with the fundraiser. 100% proceeds go to the project
Sad!