""you are what you negate" - only a brave and thoughtful person could recognize that as being key to why we have so many negative comments below and in the media today. Thank you Tomas
This gentleman wished to address sexism, an issue which affects all of us. We do live in a world that has expectations that women are to be more virtuous or moral than men and that men should be leaders. I think those were the issues he addressed, and addressed very well with positivity, humor, and kindness!!!
I think we've had centuries of this kind of thinking and it hasn't helped anyone. The fall out is so many people are still healing the wounds from those attitudes from sexism to racism and everything else jn between. Enough. If you cannot respect me as a person without insulting then I have no time for you
10- 20-22 Not really true, because it's few times, a woman doesn't fall for a non manly man. And the women do nit get other men to agree with her opinion. But...but we as men are cruel to women and we stick together in attacking all women. We continually beat women over the head about their every issue.
How do women outperform men in school? Is this subtracting handicaps given to women or biased decisions from school boards and government institutions that favor women over men? Why would women be considered as having been disadvantaged over men throughout history with it only being a recent occurrence to consider this? Where are the citations of empirical data & statistics?
Well, if this guy is serious about looking into data on sexism he will clearly see a systemic failure to boys in our education system. We should design it in a way that it develops skills the same both in girls and boys.
@@jrod25221 One of the things that do work against boys is that they go into puberty later. That has ripple effects of their ability to keep up with the girls when in need for executive functions from the prefrontal cortex. Beside them being later, they get the unhelpful idea they are not good at school compared to the girls. While biologica boys mostly are just a bit later. But the psychologic effect of being behind girls for years has ripple effects in self-esteem and motivation.
His argument based on his research; how convenient. Producing the evidence to support the belief. Would love to see his data, analysis as unrigorous as his weak supposition. As if it were that simple. I’ve listen to several of his talks because his topic is interesting and I wanted to hear an opinion that made me uncomfortable; hoping to learn something or stretch my own views. His presentation and cliche humor only reveal his own lack of original thought on the topic.
All the data he mentions is politically correct. But if some scientist started talking about the effect of a woman's menstrual cycle on her performance relative to men, or anything else that make women look bad for that matter, nobody would be laughing.
It seems your wish wish that scientists will someday come out with at least something unscientific, bizzare &.. something misogynistic... ... isn't so....
Was this guy thinking of Boris Johnson? I'm in favor of what he's saying. I don't care who which gender makes it to the top more as long as it earned on merit and judged on positive traits.
It is offensive to say that men are leaders just because the bar is so low -since this implies that men are plainly incompetent. But fine, let's be more sexist it'd be fun to explore what happens when people finally take responsibility
i think that removing incompetent people from the top and being able to not see the gender of anyone would be good enough, sadly it's yet impossible, i agree less than 50% with you but i think that we definitely have a problem.
If you really ever look into this guy, he is a charlatan. He loves the applause and the laughter, but he really doesn't say anything. His ideas are not based on scientific fact, but based on his observations and opinions. But he is good looking and funny so lets get him a Ted Talk.
We should strive to have female-only companies. Incentivizing female-only companies would ensure that women's contributions are magnified and multiplied across industries and levels of leadership. Imagine female-only city councils, corporte boards, military brass, and any other C-suite opportunities that exist. The benefits would snowball and quickly demonstarte that women could be successful at the top of any industry or nation. Make it so!
I took four days unpaid time off for maternity leave. My colleagues took similar times off. My husband? He got ten days paid time off. I think the company would do just fine.
Women have tried this already. They are literally incapable of using teamwork without a man to force them to do so. Every business that is exclusively female has disintegrated in less than three years. If the world were to be ruled by women there would be no world left at all.
I gotta admit , he had me in the first 1-2 minutes , then he starts speaking a bunch of nonsense and jokes about men The worse thing is that to me , this man looks like a guy on jokes and I treated him this way , he was indeed pretty funny and I like the way he talks...but camera man captured some women who were looking just like this guy hit their mind g-spot...hope they wake up from those dreams soon
Don’t worry. 6 women got killed in the US and one in London just for being women a couple of days ago. Believe me, we women don’t forget. But he is absolutely right.
""you are what you negate" - only a brave and thoughtful person could recognize that as being key to
why we have so many negative comments below and in the media today. Thank you Tomas
This is downright one of the best Ted talks I have listened to. Thank you Dr. Tomas.
This gentleman wished to address sexism, an issue which affects all of us. We do live in a world that has expectations that women are to be more virtuous or moral than men and that men should be leaders. I think those were the issues he addressed, and addressed very well with positivity, humor, and kindness!!!
Women dont like me unless Im man enough. Bi women do not hold the same requirements for me vs women
@@brownbri1983 same
@@brownbri1983 if someone says that they don't like you for not being "man enough", than you just met the problem of the video.
I think we've had centuries of this kind of thinking and it hasn't helped anyone. The fall out is so many people are still healing the wounds from those attitudes from sexism to racism and everything else jn between. Enough. If you cannot respect me as a person without insulting then I have no time for you
10- 20-22
Not really true, because it's few times, a woman doesn't fall for a non manly man. And the women do nit get other men to agree with her opinion.
But...but we as men are cruel to women and we stick together in attacking all women. We continually beat women over the head about their every issue.
this video is 4 years old, how does it not have more views..??
Is that Suella Braverman the cameraman keeps focusing on in the audience?
Well this was much better than I expected 😂 I couldn’t agree more.
How do women outperform men in school? Is this subtracting handicaps given to women or biased decisions from school boards and government institutions that favor women over men? Why would women be considered as having been disadvantaged over men throughout history with it only being a recent occurrence to consider this? Where are the citations of empirical data & statistics?
Well, if this guy is serious about looking into data on sexism he will clearly see a systemic failure to boys in our education system. We should design it in a way that it develops skills the same both in girls and boys.
@@BeerSougionsystematic failer towards boys in education system? Can y give me maybe one deception just curious 🤨
So your questioning his Data do y have any of ur own? I'm convinced y don't actually want a answer to his date fr
@@jrod25221 One of the things that do work against boys is that they go into puberty later. That has ripple effects of their ability to keep up with the girls when in need for executive functions from the prefrontal cortex. Beside them being later, they get the unhelpful idea they are not good at school compared to the girls. While biologica boys mostly are just a bit later. But the psychologic effect of being behind girls for years has ripple effects in self-esteem and motivation.
Monty Python, Benny Hill, Carry Ons. Yes classics.❤. Not reading your book mate!
I bet his wife's boyfriend loved this talk!
I bet your wife's girlfriend does too.
His argument based on his research; how convenient. Producing the evidence to support the belief. Would love to see his data, analysis as unrigorous as his weak supposition. As if it were that simple. I’ve listen to several of his talks because his topic is interesting and I wanted to hear an opinion that made me uncomfortable; hoping to learn something or stretch my own views. His presentation and cliche humor only reveal his own lack of original thought on the topic.
Put this on Twitter and you will be ratio’d
Steve why so insecure? Lol
Brilliant!
pls girls can do everything you can do while bleeding and having pain that feels like a heart attack in their stomach
PERIODT😤👏
no
@@Vectron90 yes
We're all capable of great things. :)
@@Vectron90 who
@@pearllils who asked
All the data he mentions is politically correct. But if some scientist started talking about the effect of a woman's menstrual cycle on her performance relative to men, or anything else that make women look bad for that matter, nobody would be laughing.
So what?
clearly the scientist you've mentioned would be YOU
It seems your wish wish that scientists will someday come out with at least something unscientific, bizzare &.. something misogynistic... ... isn't so....
@@barnaliadhikary9421 Not everything is "misogynistic" just because it's an opinion you don't like... you know this, right?
@@barnaliadhikary9421
I mean, it is known that there are mood swings affected by the menstrual cycle.
I... no. Thats a bad idea.
What????
Was this guy thinking of Boris Johnson? I'm in favor of what he's saying. I don't care who which gender makes it to the top more as long as it earned on merit and judged on positive traits.
Ehh sure I will go with it.
wut!!
I like how I see some men putting up a straight face like they're offended lmaoo
It is offensive to say that men are leaders just because the bar is so low -since this implies that men are plainly incompetent. But fine, let's be more sexist it'd be fun to explore what happens when people finally take responsibility
@@leooram1959 it'd indeed be fun to explore what would happen when MEN FINALLY take some responsibility for THEIR BS
@@monabohamad2242 that's why I said that
@@monabohamad2242 We clearly do.
> "like they're offended"
They probably are.
I hope 50 years are enough, would love to see that change in my lifetime.
Shawtie at 4:46 falling in love😂
i think that removing incompetent people from the top and being able to not see the gender of anyone would be good enough, sadly it's yet impossible, i agree less than 50% with you but i think that we definitely have a problem.
sigma male
Sig...what? He is a "pick me boy".
"I'm not like other men, I'm a good guy!"
Gamer title
Hilarious! But good thoughts for someone who deals with the inequality of expectations on a daily basis.
Awesome just awesome
Noooooo!!!!!!!
Perfect
If you really ever look into this guy, he is a charlatan. He loves the applause and the laughter, but he really doesn't say anything. His ideas are not based on scientific fact, but based on his observations and opinions. But he is good looking and funny so lets get him a Ted Talk.
Just the opposite; he has the scientific base.
The opposing ideas generally have an emotional, maybe hormonal base.
@@manufactum004 Define hormonal? And how that would/could effect anything...?
Gender Binary?
Ughhh this guy rlly annoys me
Ok but who cares?
We should strive to have female-only companies. Incentivizing female-only companies would ensure that women's contributions are magnified and multiplied across industries and levels of leadership. Imagine female-only city councils, corporte boards, military brass, and any other C-suite opportunities that exist.
The benefits would snowball and quickly demonstarte that women could be successful at the top of any industry or nation.
Make it so!
Amen! Errr....AWomen!
Wait until the employee start a family and pregnant. I don't think the company would run well.
I took four days unpaid time off for maternity leave. My colleagues took similar times off. My husband? He got ten days paid time off. I think the company would do just fine.
Women have tried this already. They are literally incapable of using teamwork without a man to force them to do so. Every business that is exclusively female has disintegrated in less than three years. If the world were to be ruled by women there would be no world left at all.
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
This seems interesting but I’m not turned off by his voice, it’s too annoying
I gotta admit , he had me in the first 1-2 minutes , then he starts speaking a bunch of nonsense and jokes about men
The worse thing is that to me , this man looks like a guy on jokes and I treated him this way , he was indeed pretty funny and I like the way he talks...but camera man captured some women who were looking just like this guy hit their mind g-spot...hope they wake up from those dreams soon
get back in the kitchen
Don’t worry. 6 women got killed in the US and one in London just for being women a couple of days ago. Believe me, we women don’t forget. But he is absolutely right.
@@BeGlamourlicious need evidence on this
@Sues Anna and yet even more men die for being men... in quantity and per capita... So are you saying that men are being marginalized?
This is at least going off of U.S. statista statistics for the year of 2019
We as men excel at narcissism. Well, at least it's a somewhat honest statement. He didn't actually say that.
4 years later… I would really like to hear him on this “woke” stupidity…
You r crazy