Self-Mastery Pillars: Self (self-respect, esteem, trust, confidence), Circle (people, music, content, books), and Purpose (the reason for self-improvement). Identity Alignment: Changing one's identity to align with their desired self is crucial for lasting change. Circle's Influence: The people, content, and environment one surrounds themselves with significantly impact their self-improvement journey. Clear Purpose: Having a strong reason for self-improvement helps maintain motivation and discipline.
i used to be a literal academic weapon a couple years ago. idek what happened but “somehow” i became an absolute failure. now i figured out that “somehow”. i finally decided to change. thanks for helping out with this change. maybe you don’t know it but you really do help me! ❤❤ love you batman
Self - I am a straight A student and entrepreneurs Circle - I surround myself with people who are better than me so I can learn from them and consume healthy media Purpose - Give back to my parents and love myself with full confidence
This is one of my favorite videos you've made. I've found that Identity and Perception are key to self-improvement. They lead to long term change. Chances are that you won't stick to something if you see it as temporary. Saying that you'll 'Read for x days this month' or that you're 'going on a diet until you drop x kilos' could work, but you're setting yourself up to stop the behavior after you finish the goal (or give up due to unreasonable expectations). I've found that by adopting a behavior as a part of your identity you make far more progress. If you tell yourself and others that you're a person who enjoys reading (or whatever behavior you wish to manifest in yourself) , you'll view the world through the lens that fits your perception, and ultimately act on it. It's important that you practice the behavior you want to incorporate as you adopt it into your identity. It cements the activities role in the entity you perceive as yourself. You'll recognize you fit the mold you set and you'll continue to live in the way that you believe aligns with this idea. The same philosophy can be applied to bad habits. Basically, by telling yourself you're a person who procrastinates and plays too many video games, you'll set the expectation for yourself and therefore, play more video games, and neglect your work. Honestly idk if any of that word vomit made sense but the point is, you'll become the person you believe you are (with some physical limitations ofc) so make sure you perceive yourself as a person who fits your goals. Anyways great video man.👍
no because what you are saying totally makes sense. I have struggle my whole life with being consistent and discipline with my habits, in every aspect of my life. I have been trying to improve myself for a couple of years now. But I started from the wrong perspective. This year I’m learning a lot, and I now understand why my self-improvement journey was not going forward. This video actually made me realise that I need to change the start point. This was so helpful. Thanks!!!!
Honestly as I'm watching this video, im at rock bottom. I've been sleeping late, waking up late and doing absolutely nothing everyday. I have no friends and I'm always down on myself. Your conversation with yourself in the mirror is a story I know very well. I've multiple times wanted to give up on improving myself because it feels so much bigger than me and it sounds crazy but I even hesitated to click on this video. I'm glad I did though. I'll be taking your advice and see where it takes me. Much love
I was that girl, that wasn’t confident at all, but always tried her best, literally, sometimes I just studied for hours because I wanted to learn it. And, yes idk why but I became sad, it was already like this before, but before I was able to do still do things, now, I feel like my world is falling apart. My dad just announced me that my dream isn’t possible and that is actually the only thing that I live for, so I was sad and from that day, I feel depressed, I sleep late. But now I feel like I need to restart everything from zero again, even if I hate my live. I will try to survive for now, cause I’ve always wanted to disappear. Thanks a lot for this reminder.
A close teacher of mine recently told me; ‘If you don’t fight for your dream, it will never be given to you.’ So fight for it regardless of what your dad said and it will come true no matter what.
I was just like you. I searched for so many answers for so long to why do I keep going back to my old self, it was more than frustrating- i felt like I was lost in a black hole, and I have nowhere to move forward. and then I came across this video. you gave me that drive I needed a long time ago. thank you for this!! I'm just in the middle of the process, for several months now, and I know most of everything that the last thing I will do is give up on myself. so thank you again, you are an example of inspiration! and I'm sure this video will help me and many others who need to hear this ❤
I'm on the same journey with yourself back then and how grateful I am to found your video on my homepage! That three pillars of self-mastery are actually what I need to change my life from now on. Thank you very much, Jake!
I really really liked this video! I feel the part where you genuinely told yourself in the mirror that you hated yourself, you were unknowingly telling yourself that you loved yourself. You loved yourself so much, that you worked to improve your life and to become the person you wanted to be, and that is so admirable! It was like, you were telling yourself, "I love you, and I am going to make sure your life is the one you want it to be." While watching, it reminded me of one of my favorite quotes: "Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising everytine we fall." ~Oliver Goldsmith. I think it's highly important to practice self compassion in our moments of weakness or when we have fallen even a little bit back into our old selves. It is important to take a deep breath, encourage yourself, and keep moving forward in the direction that aligns with your positive identity of yourself. That way, it's easier to steer away from frustration, and have a more peaceful and kinder journey! (Frustration is a good fuel though!) Again, I really loved this video! Very intelligent!
Oh wow this is exactly what I thought! To change yourself you should identify yourself as the new version of yourself not saying “i am working on changing -“ For me personally I wanted to change my attitude to other people. So I made a new character for myself who is very polite, able to appreciate, nice to people and then i identified myself as that new character! And that helped me a lot! Thanks for the video💖
mainstream stuff about self-improvement are so overrated.The best investment you can make is in yourself. Books are the ultimate learning tool. Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood helped me build discipline and separate my mindset from 90% of other people
Recently i've been stuck in an endless cycle of trying to do something, failing to do so, and giving up after seeing no progress. The longer this happens the more i've been hating myself, why is nothing in my life enjoyable or worth celebrating. But things are starting to get better like the local weather. Ive been putting in hard work in my studies, even if it might not pay off but I still am cherished that i was able to focus and give it all in. What you said in this video is right. Because i started to see myself as a hard worker, i began to work harder. Personally i think self recognition is one of the greatest sources that pushes people to achieve so many cool things. Be the version of you who does all the work, one day you'll/i'll get there, maybe, but small steps are big changes. Anyways, thanks for this video, more people deserve to see this. Also i clicked cus Jake you look like my friend. I didn't expect to get so much out of the vid LMAO.
Thanks for the encouragement man. Starting over at 24 basically and wanting to do better now more than ever. To everyone in the comments, we will get through this ✊🏻
You are amazing. And i feel like the world is turning slowly into 3 types of personas: 1.People who dont want to improve. 2.people who are stuck in self improvements. 3. People who are becoming and controlling their own improvement. And thank you for clarifying that. Because i use to be no.1. So bad... Thank you. Im on my way to no.3❤
@Clutch-sk1if oh! OK I didn't understood I'm sorry. I'm still figuring that myself... I think it's realizing that trying is basically becoming it by belive that you are the journey and not stages✨️
Heyy just wanted to say that this hit me like a running car. When i was little i was smart like super intelligent and i got good grades but my small brother met with an accident and my life changed . It was trauma for me and i stop caring for everything . My grades droped and i got into the bad circle and i was really careless had not self respect and hated myself. When i got older in to srs grades i had to get better marks to pass . But i still dent really care . I saw my bestfriend leveling up her life getting good grades and just being better and i really felt like shit and started compairing my self . I was depressed and i really hit rock bottom . Now since my holidays are going i am starting to change yk for the better cus i don't wana hate my self and i don't want feel like shit. This vid really helped to realize what i could do wrong . You really helped me. Thank you so much .
The first day when I listened to this I couldn't understand what you were talking about identity change. Maybe because my first language is not English. But after two months I came here because I understood what you were talking about. Thanks, Jake. ❤
Oh my god jake, this is so crazy i just found out why i was going back to my past self a few days ago and i saw your video now. This is the first video that was aligned to my day to day hapenning and this video made so much sense to me!! Thank you buddy
Hi, I enjoyed the video. Thanks for the great content! However, I do think there is an minor issue in your methods; You can't hate yourself. I do think your strategy has a point, especially in achieving short term goals like routine improvements with perks like better grades/ better skin etc. In the long term, however, the part of you that you hate is going to surge again. Maybe 5, or 10 years later, maybe from a breakup. Everything is going to de-escalate, as the small part that you once hated has become the entire self. You're not gonna be able to endure it the longer the period you hated that part of yourself. Here's an alternative; love yourself, and understand yourself. Chips are bad, of course, to your health. But are they 100% bad? They taste good, and have a lot of calories thus satisfying. A primitive man would die for the taste. Yes, you know that they are bad from your experience, but did you know it *back then*? You only know because there was your past self, trying to make the best out of its circumstances. As long as I've been observing, people tend to make pretty good choices about 70% of the time. They often seem stupid because of lack of information or strong short term goals, but they are still pretty reasonable choices. In most cases, the quality of choices you made haven't changed, instead, circumstances have(including your inner state). Love yourself, Understand yourself, and change yourself. Now you're just creating a new version of yourself, and you have only one body. The original self is going to try to f up your new self. Also you aren't gonna forget it if you keep feeding (negative) energy to things(this alligns with the neurophysiological research). I hope this helps! From someone who's gone through a similar path. ++ The list of things I want to say goes on and on, but I'll continue on only one thing. With the new self you've created, you'll feel like you can do anything. Not that it's bad in itself, but here's the problem. You'll lose all identity, feeling of self, and feel a big hole drilled into you. Why? Because you're now basically a toddler trapped in an adult's body. You're a being full of possibilities, only depleted of opportunities. Since all the resources that went into discovering your previous self will be unconsciously calculated as a useless loss, you'll be envious of everyone and hate your environment. Likely : Why am I so dilligent while my environment fs me up? Plus, since skill & preferences is dominantly controlled by genetics, you'll most likely form the same identity all over again, just from scratch. It's like running away from a human just to meet a grizzly bear. No point in doing this. Telling from experience. A really strong man isn't someone that runs away from their previous mistakes/ previous self, but who knows to embrace the self and knows to walk the small painful steps. Warning tho, it is painful. 100% reasonable to try to avoid it, which is exactly why many people choose to. I'm not against it, since it does keep you sane.
This is SO REAL. I literally don’t like myself even though I theoretically should. I don’t like the way I act and no matter how desperately I want to change, I end up just slipping back into old routines. Because I don’t trust or even ‘like’ myself I’m deep down so unbelievably unconfident even when I have the skill set to prove it otherwise. Also when you said that you became more confident and sat in chairs differently, that really stood out to me. I want to start loving myself and I think that finding these pillars may be a good start. Thank you so much for this video. I wish you the best!
Heyy.. I'm a student who's really struggling with keeping up the balance in my life along the pressure of preparing for the right career path. I used to be so consistent and motivated but that part of me is gone. Your video really helped me to self-introspect and look for what I was missing on. Thank you so much, I'll give it my best for my future self to be proud!
wow... this is the 1st "how to change life" styled video I watched to the end. This video really touched me. The most important thing is that with my average English, I understood everything. I realized a week ago that I have practically no personality. Under my own pressure that I should be good for everyone, I started listening to the wrong music, the wrong people, eating the wrong food, reading the wrong book.
This video, right here. I've been trying to improve myself ever since my first day as a highschooler had started. And all I want is to be someone I want and neglect all the negativity and the toxic energy's I'm surrounded with. This guy, right here. You really made my day, You really fixed the whole problem, the point. I'm so grateful that I found this video. And I truly hope for anyone who's reading, You'll eventually do it, You'll get through it. Sending support and Virtual hugs :)
Very well said. That feeling when you feel lost. The environment that u shouldn't belong to. The habits - that changed after major change, you simply found yourself as no other real you. One I did is escape from that place/situation and will do it again once sorted things out. I hope people like us could have some community or such. Deep down we know we could empathize to each other that almost feels like people we know will never get this feeling or situation. ... And you don't like it when people think you're just lazy or undisciplined.
wow, i thought this was inspiring. i’ve just finished my uni exams for the trimester so im on break now. been procrastinating quite a bit and sleeping super late too - but i was planning on being productive tomorrow. what you’ve said here motivates me to work harder 💖
this really changed how I think of self-improvement and this is the first time I've felt like I actually have motivation that will last forever, thanks man
As a teenager who has been through and will keep going through the three stages/factors you shared, I can admit that it is super correct. Even at my first glance, I felt your content and intention. There is a fact that everyone who has coped with and mostly passed through the "bad habit again" stage as you said, they know that it takes a lot of time. For me, I have always been older than my actual age, I was stuck into that stage which I constantly hated my useless self (at that time, I was 13). I had been obsessed that the thought of life-improvement lives with me daily at every time. And 3 yrs later, when I was more serious about it (at this time, I have changed a lot and realized that my circle was dragging me down, especially my friends), I went study abroad in US, and started over my life. Now, I have another chance from God to filter everything, every relationships. Eventually, in just a first couple of weeks staying here, I can claim I wasn't my old self anymore. For everyone, changing their circles are always difficult, as I used to try to do. I just want to motivate you that, pls clue that thoughts in your mind, don't put it into any trash bin. Be stricter with your choice, not "today i will change" but "it is enough self-destruction, I have my dream, I need to run out of this suck reality, if anyone is pulling me back, they are valueless, goodbye." Don't be scared to frankly break those relationships that you hesitated to break. Valueless friends will always be valueless friends. Because when you have cleared all of that trash, you may feel like me at the moment: this is so satisfied, so fresh, i should have done it earlier. One more thing is when you chose to grow your dream, you have to clear your path. Ps: I am 16 now. And I am glad that I can start my ideal life at this early age. I swear I will pray for anyone choose to watch this video, because when you care about these kind of videos, I know you are trying to be more different, you slowly stand out. Smile:)✌💪📸
I'm so happy for you ,well I was 13 like you when I start thinking how I become rich ,and now I m 16 stuck to all this multiple skill with zero achievements, I just have friends like seeing them daily at school not close to me is that consider like a circle to me ? And if so how can I change my circle and the only place I can go to is School and I don't think they may know about freelance ?like how I can inettracte with them ?(If you find mistakes in the comment plz ignore them🥲)
Honestly, I had alopecia I've been called a cancer patient and more comments that compared me to other people. I was always bullied in elementary and middle school however I'm now in high school 11th grade and I believe I've improved on myself a little bit, but people don't seem to think so. I struggled to gain weight for more than 6 years. I always take cold showers, try and work out on myself but I just didn't know how. You give me strength and positivity to always think clearly and confidently, to always be mindful of the friends you make, and to work on myself. Today I'm so happy because I had done a presentation in front of everyone and i actually did it, I looked to everyone slowly like I was making a speech. I was scared at the beginning but I felt this rush of not caring what others think because if I worry to much on them or how they think, I'm letting myself down including the life I could've had if it wasn't for that. All my life I'd always think about how others perceived me but honesty its been so many years of it and im so done with that. I'm a person just like everyone else and i'm slowly learning to accept that I am who I am and not the person who people want me to be. The story was about how hard it was to make friends looking like me. I now from you think about its not about looks its more about how you treat yourself and do the necessary things to become THAT person. Thank you for making this video, you have such a kind soul and a good heart.
I don't know why i suddenly fell into depression for absolutely zero reason i swear i had no reason but now I'm healing and the whole experience made me realise how i need to built healthy habits improve myself now make my self stronger also to focus toward mental health aswell for the present and the future....
03:50 'Standard of hygiene' 04:37 'Identity vs Habits' - change the origin, not the byproduct 05:56 'The content you consume' 06:30 'Purpose' - who you want to become
I don’t wanna judge you of how lucky you are since I don’t really know you and in wich situation you were. It’s the circle point, where you have to let go of friends relationships and whatever, that don’t fit for you. U know smart people only go with smart ones, and they don’t let you in. Sometimes it’s you parents you siblings or any family member, that discourages you. You just can’t avoid them, even when you try to ignore. You would just find yourself crying in the midnight under your blanket asking yourself what you did wrong. Anyways great video I really appreciate it and sorry if I cussed you in any way and for my bad englisch. (It’s my third language I’m really sorry hope you guys could understand what I mean) lol
Hi! I normally watch videos at 2x speed. You are the first who compelled me to listen to every word you said in normal speed. I don't know whom to thank, RUclips for recommending this video or you for making this video. Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this today ❤️
after going through cycles of "self-improvement" that inevitably end up with me back to my old habits, this video is the best advice i have ever received. you have to change your sense of self to align with who you want to be. you have to surround yourself with the right people and media that align with who you want to be. and without purpose, you will never progress in life. the big 3! it makes perfect sense and you explained it in a way for anyone to understand. also, just reading through the comments and seeing that you gave video replies to people just shows how passionate you are abut helping others succeed. thank you for this great video! i'll be subscribing for more content in the future 💖
Thanks for sharing content like this, I agree with your resolution of the self-mastery, I think that having those 3 things clear helps out to not be stuck in cycles, I was there too with the meditation, cold showers and so on! thanks, keep making this content please!! 😃 Btw, who ever reads this I hope something great out of the blue happens to you, you can do it!👍
i get so in my own head thinking that i am so insignificant in the way of there is nothing about me that stands out in a good way but only in all the bad ways or at leat what society deems as bad. but it wasnt until so recently and honestly hearing you word it so well that the person i want to be isnt for anyone else but for me
thankyou SO FUCKING MUCH DUDE i was literally in tears for a whole year now just whining about why i am slowly becoming someone i used to be, ur actually right im gonna keep going cuz we only go up from here
Hey I just came crossing over your video on my home page this morning and It is truly a wake up call… You just explained my situation in the most detailed way as possible. I’m so grateful to find your video and your page here. The Self - Circle - Purpose hits me so hard because I realized that one of the pillar is dragging me down and that is why. Big big appreciation for making this video man, you truly saved lives 🤍🤍
I was going to start preparing for next year's exam starting tomorrow. I had to change myself. I know for sure that the appearance of this video is a sign. This is the first comment for this video. When I come back after 1 year, I will see that the video and the channel are even more popular. Bye♡
the only video anyone needs on self-improvement. you should start a podcast channel on spotify and maybe make longer videos for 20-30 mins. just a suggestion. keep doing you tho, you're doing great❤🔥
all my life I grew up with my grades being somewhat average relative to my peers, did not have much of a routine, no structure, just went to school, hung out with friends, games all day, and rotted in bed. the last two years of high school we had to choose or study paths/fields and I chose scientific. I went from average to the top in class and it went on to uni as well, my life did a complete 180 and it all was because my environment changed, my friends were people who grew up top of the class or smart, who had specific habits and consumed purposeful media and also had ambitious goals and that affected me as well. so it is very true that what you consume, the people surrounding you, and your environment as a whole have a big role in who you are and how you act.
I can't even make friends, people arround me are not the type I want to keep to yk that will make a good impact, lost my previous friends, stay mostly in my room "yaaa goo out interact" it's not easy I don want to go out alone. You can't just be friends just by crossing ways right online! i tried desperately to gain some friends didn't worked it's so gloomy I want to go out for movies for hangout parks but idk with whom... I hope I get out of this state soon :((
I agree sm. I feel like you just have to write down things the best version of youself would care about and place them in the right order (ofc fundameltal or easiest first). Then just keep working on it i guess and never look back. May cheat in emergency but dont go back to wrong habits.... (u dont realise but consistency is not even ur problem at first, vitamines or sleep schedule may be :D) as i said - order.
Yea.. Every time i'm thinking that such things are really clear. But when you face it irl, you understand what you're worth. Сan you handle it or not? I wish, you can. Good luck.
Here before this blows up more than it already has. Thank you man. I actually have a pretty bad problem right now. I'm not sure I value myself in the way that I should. There's things I know that I need to do but just don't do them. I make my bed. I end my morning showers with cold water. I try to eat three meals a day. I tell myself, "I'm going to go to the gym consistently form now on; I'm going to stop hitting the snooze button on my morning alarm; I'm going to make those calls I need to make; I'm going to review those things I need to review; I'm going to make that resume." But I never do these things. I play some video games instead. I say, "Just one more game." But it's never the last game. I like to think I don't need to cut out some of these distractions completely to still be a productive person and not procrastinate, but the more I give myself, the more I take on that regard.
Its because you hate yourself. We all do. Have something bigger to sacrifice for. For me its my future wife, children, my parents, family etc... So im not just doing all this to improve myself, but for the sake of my family. If you "why" is as small as you, you will never go anywhere
you look somewhere between happy and break down. i hope you're ok n i dont mean you are all smiles and rainbows. i mean i hope you get to let out your emotions and also get the smiles and laughter. nothing good comes out of bottling emotions, tried n failed method personally. i sincerely hope this for you. here's to true happiness for you, me and all those who relate to this.
oh my god, without realising this is what i have been searching for like some kind of answer to where im going wrong, this felt very enlightening thank you so much!! it helped me get the answer i have been looking for mindlessly lots of love to you.
i cried. i found myself in the WORST state ever recently… i understood that i lost everything i loved, everything that brought the light to my life and i didn’t know what to do next. i don’t know who i want to be and who i am now… and that video… i don’t know, but it feels like home and i can’t stop crying. i was trying so hard to change, to do at least a little step to be a better version of me… and now i give me another chance to do try because i just know i can do it. i wanna rewatch this video every time i feel bad, i want to give myself a reminder that everything is okay, and i want to settle that mindset in my mind i don’t need to hurry anymore, i need to take my time and start with my inner self 😓 thank you for that video
Giiirl samee😭😭i am Right now in the part returned to what he was in ( the late sleep ,the bad habit ...) i hope everything will pass and we go back to how we were disciplined, confident, with healthy habit 💗🥺
The 'circle' you refer to is definitely not deeper than your own perception of self. If your peers can be replaced, the origin must be the self for it to even exist. Purpose is everchanging and alters based on your surroundings, so ultimately having your perception of self honed in unifies everything together. Good message overall.
I brush my teeth 3 times per day. The hell with cold showers. I don't see the value. But exercising, eating healthily, dropping "friends" that pull me down, and so on with good habits and skills like my drumming.
Mid 2023, I was at my peak, I would go 4 times a week at the gym, getting everything done, I was finally getting better. But then, I got sick for 7 months, sometimes it was really bad, I could only go to the gym once or twice a month. I felt bad. I hated myself. I hated my body for getting sick but also myself for not trying to get over it (which was physically impossible). Now I’m at my worst in terms of shape. Even though I healed and I’m no longer sick, I gained 10kg which makes me at the limit between overweight and obesity. I’m trying so hard to get back on track but I think what’s stopping me is that I do not believe in myself. I try to convince myself I do, but I don’t. Simply because I’ve always been at least a bit overweighted but no matter what I did, I never succeeded at losing weight so now I don’t believe it’s even possible for me. I’m trying my best to forget about my past failures but we can’t just erase our past, but we shouldn’t let it shape who we are.
Attract maxim fulfillment of self, circle, and purpose daily. Not always about pleasure, comfort, lust, pride, or any other self-centered (unproductive and meaningless) habits
One stereotype that genuinely drained me was the graph of progression made by the society. According to the society, improvement is always linear. Goddamn, how stupid is that man. That's not at all how life works. Improvement is a bumpy jumpy line going up to that destination. It's not always satisfactory and That's exactly how it works. You'll fall and You'll bounce back. Therefore the main factor about success is always the mindset. I deadass scored so less in my last exam. I had to tell myself over and over again that it was okay. It's better to face failure at the early stages more you know. Moreover, you dont have to rush anything. Take your time, analyse yourself, love yourself and evolve.
Self-Mastery Pillars: Self (self-respect, esteem, trust, confidence), Circle (people, music, content, books), and Purpose (the reason for self-improvement).
Identity Alignment: Changing one's identity to align with their desired self is crucial for lasting change.
Circle's Influence: The people, content, and environment one surrounds themselves with significantly impact their self-improvement journey.
Clear Purpose: Having a strong reason for self-improvement helps maintain motivation and discipline.
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what if the people dont want you unti you've achivved a level already.
i used to be a literal academic weapon a couple years ago. idek what happened but “somehow” i became an absolute failure. now i figured out that “somehow”. i finally decided to change. thanks for helping out with this change. maybe you don’t know it but you really do help me! ❤❤ love you batman
love it
Dude in video first change your life, then you can change others ok? 😂
you all can turn to Christ still if you have not God bless
@@lucky_asian ohhhh this is cuteeee
@@caleb.9 Christ on top! ✝️❤️
1. self
2. circle
3. purpose
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Sometimes I just want to move to an island and live alone lol
extremely relatable
Thats literally my dream
You and me bro😢
Me too
Hating yourself is the most painful thing
yes :(
Self - I am a straight A student and entrepreneurs
Circle - I surround myself with people who are better than me so I can learn from them and consume healthy media
Purpose - Give back to my parents and love myself with full confidence
This is one of my favorite videos you've made. I've found that Identity and Perception are key to self-improvement. They lead to long term change. Chances are that you won't stick to something if you see it as temporary. Saying that you'll 'Read for x days this month' or that you're 'going on a diet until you drop x kilos' could work, but you're setting yourself up to stop the behavior after you finish the goal (or give up due to unreasonable expectations). I've found that by adopting a behavior as a part of your identity you make far more progress. If you tell yourself and others that you're a person who enjoys reading (or whatever behavior you wish to manifest in yourself) , you'll view the world through the lens that fits your perception, and ultimately act on it. It's important that you practice the behavior you want to incorporate as you adopt it into your identity. It cements the activities role in the entity you perceive as yourself. You'll recognize you fit the mold you set and you'll continue to live in the way that you believe aligns with this idea. The same philosophy can be applied to bad habits. Basically, by telling yourself you're a person who procrastinates and plays too many video games, you'll set the expectation for yourself and therefore, play more video games, and neglect your work. Honestly idk if any of that word vomit made sense but the point is, you'll become the person you believe you are (with some physical limitations ofc) so make sure you perceive yourself as a person who fits your goals. Anyways great video man.👍
Thats amazing. Way to drop your perspective on this. We need way more of it
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well said
no because what you are saying totally makes sense. I have struggle my whole life with being consistent and discipline with my habits, in every aspect of my life. I have been trying to improve myself for a couple of years now. But I started from the wrong perspective. This year I’m learning a lot, and I now understand why my self-improvement journey was not going forward. This video actually made me realise that I need to change the start point.
This was so helpful. Thanks!!!!
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I can’t believe this amazing person with this amazing mindset has only 7k, it should be 7million broooo😓😓😓
ikr
preach
hahaha thankyou
Honestly as I'm watching this video, im at rock bottom. I've been sleeping late, waking up late and doing absolutely nothing everyday. I have no friends and I'm always down on myself. Your conversation with yourself in the mirror is a story I know very well. I've multiple times wanted to give up on improving myself because it feels so much bigger than me and it sounds crazy but I even hesitated to click on this video. I'm glad I did though. I'll be taking your advice and see where it takes me. Much love
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Omg, this is rn
I was that girl, that wasn’t confident at all, but always tried her best, literally, sometimes I just studied for hours because I wanted to learn it. And, yes idk why but I became sad, it was already like this before, but before I was able to do still do things, now, I feel like my world is falling apart. My dad just announced me that my dream isn’t possible and that is actually the only thing that I live for, so I was sad and from that day, I feel depressed, I sleep late. But now I feel like I need to restart everything from zero again, even if I hate my live. I will try to survive for now, cause I’ve always wanted to disappear. Thanks a lot for this reminder.
A close teacher of mine recently told me; ‘If you don’t fight for your dream, it will never be given to you.’ So fight for it regardless of what your dad said and it will come true no matter what.
gooood
Girl you just described me
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What is your dream? I don't have one. I like to hear people's dreams
I was just like you. I searched for so many answers for so long to why do I keep going back to my old self, it was more than frustrating- i felt like I was lost in a black hole, and I have nowhere to move forward. and then I came across this video. you gave me that drive I needed a long time ago.
thank you for this!! I'm just in the middle of the process, for several months now, and I know most of everything that the last thing I will do is give up on myself. so thank you again, you are an example of inspiration! and I'm sure this video will help me and many others who need to hear this ❤
I'm on the same journey with yourself back then and how grateful I am to found your video on my homepage! That three pillars of self-mastery are actually what I need to change my life from now on. Thank you very much, Jake!
I really really liked this video! I feel the part where you genuinely told yourself in the mirror that you hated yourself, you were unknowingly telling yourself that you loved yourself. You loved yourself so much, that you worked to improve your life and to become the person you wanted to be, and that is so admirable! It was like, you were telling yourself, "I love you, and I am going to make sure your life is the one you want it to be." While watching, it reminded me of one of my favorite quotes: "Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising everytine we fall." ~Oliver Goldsmith.
I think it's highly important to practice self compassion in our moments of weakness or when we have fallen even a little bit back into our old selves. It is important to take a deep breath, encourage yourself, and keep moving forward in the direction that aligns with your positive identity of yourself. That way, it's easier to steer away from frustration, and have a more peaceful and kinder journey! (Frustration is a good fuel though!)
Again, I really loved this video! Very intelligent!
Thanks Jake! This is exactly what I wanted to hear. You're amazing!!!
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Oh wow this is exactly what I thought! To change yourself you should identify yourself as the new version of yourself not saying “i am working on changing -“
For me personally I wanted to change my attitude to other people. So I made a new character for myself who is very polite, able to appreciate, nice to people and then i identified myself as that new character! And that helped me a lot! Thanks for the video💖
awesome
unrelated but i thought we had the same pfp
Saw this at my lowest state
I hope to return with the best energy
a better self
wow.. thank you for your advices. this is just incredible, but so simple and good for understanding! TY🌸
mainstream stuff about self-improvement are so overrated.The best investment you can make is in yourself. Books are the ultimate learning tool. Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood helped me build discipline and separate my mindset from 90% of other people
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Recently i've been stuck in an endless cycle of trying to do something, failing to do so, and giving up after seeing no progress. The longer this happens the more i've been hating myself, why is nothing in my life enjoyable or worth celebrating. But things are starting to get better like the local weather. Ive been putting in hard work in my studies, even if it might not pay off but I still am cherished that i was able to focus and give it all in. What you said in this video is right. Because i started to see myself as a hard worker, i began to work harder. Personally i think self recognition is one of the greatest sources that pushes people to achieve so many cool things. Be the version of you who does all the work, one day you'll/i'll get there, maybe, but small steps are big changes. Anyways, thanks for this video, more people deserve to see this. Also i clicked cus Jake you look like my friend. I didn't expect to get so much out of the vid LMAO.
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Thanks for the encouragement man. Starting over at 24 basically and wanting to do better now more than ever. To everyone in the comments, we will get through this ✊🏻
You are amazing. And i feel like the world is turning slowly into 3 types of personas:
1.People who dont want to improve.
2.people who are stuck in self improvements.
3. People who are becoming and controlling their own improvement.
And thank you for clarifying that.
Because i use to be no.1.
So bad...
Thank you.
Im on my way to no.3❤
How do you go from 2 to 3
@Clutch-sk1if because I'm on my way to no.3 cause I've been in 1...
Read between the missing line. I'm on no.2
@@tomshahar2831 I'm asking how someone goes from 2 to 3...
@Clutch-sk1if oh! OK I didn't understood I'm sorry.
I'm still figuring that myself...
I think it's realizing that trying is basically becoming it by belive that you are the journey and not stages✨️
@@Clutch-sk1if appreciate you for asking❤️
Heyy just wanted to say that this hit me like a running car. When i was little i was smart like super intelligent and i got good grades but my small brother met with an accident and my life changed . It was trauma for me and i stop caring for everything . My grades droped and i got into the bad circle and i was really careless had not self respect and hated myself. When i got older in to srs grades i had to get better marks to pass . But i still dent really care . I saw my bestfriend leveling up her life getting good grades and just being better and i really felt like shit and started compairing my self . I was depressed and i really hit rock bottom . Now since my holidays are going i am starting to change yk for the better cus i don't wana hate my self and i don't want feel like shit. This vid really helped to realize what i could do wrong . You really helped me. Thank you so much .
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The first day when I listened to this I couldn't understand what you were talking about identity change. Maybe because my first language is not English. But after two months I came here because I understood what you were talking about. Thanks, Jake. ❤
Oh my god jake, this is so crazy i just found out why i was going back to my past self a few days ago and i saw your video now. This is the first video that was aligned to my day to day hapenning and this video made so much sense to me!! Thank you buddy
damn thats awesome
Ya man ikr, keep up the good work work bro!
Hi, I enjoyed the video. Thanks for the great content! However, I do think there is an minor issue in your methods; You can't hate yourself. I do think your strategy has a point, especially in achieving short term goals like routine improvements with perks like better grades/ better skin etc. In the long term, however, the part of you that you hate is going to surge again. Maybe 5, or 10 years later, maybe from a breakup. Everything is going to de-escalate, as the small part that you once hated has become the entire self. You're not gonna be able to endure it the longer the period you hated that part of yourself. Here's an alternative; love yourself, and understand yourself. Chips are bad, of course, to your health. But are they 100% bad? They taste good, and have a lot of calories thus satisfying. A primitive man would die for the taste. Yes, you know that they are bad from your experience, but did you know it *back then*? You only know because there was your past self, trying to make the best out of its circumstances. As long as I've been observing, people tend to make pretty good choices about 70% of the time. They often seem stupid because of lack of information or strong short term goals, but they are still pretty reasonable choices. In most cases, the quality of choices you made haven't changed, instead, circumstances have(including your inner state). Love yourself, Understand yourself, and change yourself. Now you're just creating a new version of yourself, and you have only one body. The original self is going to try to f up your new self. Also you aren't gonna forget it if you keep feeding (negative) energy to things(this alligns with the neurophysiological research). I hope this helps! From someone who's gone through a similar path.
++ The list of things I want to say goes on and on, but I'll continue on only one thing.
With the new self you've created, you'll feel like you can do anything. Not that it's bad in itself, but here's the problem. You'll lose all identity, feeling of self, and feel a big hole drilled into you. Why? Because you're now basically a toddler trapped in an adult's body. You're a being full of possibilities, only depleted of opportunities. Since all the resources that went into discovering your previous self will be unconsciously calculated as a useless loss, you'll be envious of everyone and hate your environment. Likely : Why am I so dilligent while my environment fs me up? Plus, since skill & preferences is dominantly controlled by genetics, you'll most likely form the same identity all over again, just from scratch. It's like running away from a human just to meet a grizzly bear. No point in doing this. Telling from experience.
A really strong man isn't someone that runs away from their previous mistakes/ previous self, but who knows to embrace the self and knows to walk the small painful steps. Warning tho, it is painful. 100% reasonable to try to avoid it, which is exactly why many people choose to. I'm not against it, since it does keep you sane.
This is SO REAL. I literally don’t like myself even though I theoretically should. I don’t like the way I act and no matter how desperately I want to change, I end up just slipping back into old routines. Because I don’t trust or even ‘like’ myself I’m deep down so unbelievably unconfident even when I have the skill set to prove it otherwise. Also when you said that you became more confident and sat in chairs differently, that really stood out to me. I want to start loving myself and I think that finding these pillars may be a good start. Thank you so much for this video. I wish you the best!
Heyy.. I'm a student who's really struggling with keeping up the balance in my life along the pressure of preparing for the right career path. I used to be so consistent and motivated but that part of me is gone. Your video really helped me to self-introspect and look for what I was missing on. Thank you so much, I'll give it my best for my future self to be proud!
self, circle and purpose
thank you for simplifying it to what's actually important
wow... this is the 1st "how to change life" styled video I watched to the end. This video really touched me. The most important thing is that with my average English, I understood everything.
I realized a week ago that I have practically no personality. Under my own pressure that I should be good for everyone, I started listening to the wrong music, the wrong people, eating the wrong food, reading the wrong book.
This video, right here. I've been trying to improve myself ever since my first day as a highschooler had started. And all I want is to be someone I want and neglect all the negativity and the toxic energy's I'm surrounded with. This guy, right here. You really made my day, You really fixed the whole problem, the point. I'm so grateful that I found this video. And I truly hope for anyone who's reading, You'll eventually do it, You'll get through it. Sending support and Virtual hugs :)
Very well said. That feeling when you feel lost. The environment that u shouldn't belong to. The habits - that changed after major change, you simply found yourself as no other real you. One I did is escape from that place/situation and will do it again once sorted things out. I hope people like us could have some community or such. Deep down we know we could empathize to each other that almost feels like people we know will never get this feeling or situation. ... And you don't like it when people think you're just lazy or undisciplined.
wow, i thought this was inspiring. i’ve just finished my uni exams for the trimester so im on break now. been procrastinating quite a bit and sleeping super late too - but i was planning on being productive tomorrow. what you’ve said here motivates me to work harder 💖
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@@preaas469isn’t that mari?
@@terraofearth yeah lol i was gonna answer back that
this really changed how I think of self-improvement and this is the first time I've felt like I actually have motivation that will last forever, thanks man
As a teenager who has been through and will keep going through the three stages/factors you shared, I can admit that it is super correct. Even at my first glance, I felt your content and intention. There is a fact that everyone who has coped with and mostly passed through the "bad habit again" stage as you said, they know that it takes a lot of time. For me, I have always been older than my actual age, I was stuck into that stage which I constantly hated my useless self (at that time, I was 13). I had been obsessed that the thought of life-improvement lives with me daily at every time. And 3 yrs later, when I was more serious about it (at this time, I have changed a lot and realized that my circle was dragging me down, especially my friends), I went study abroad in US, and started over my life. Now, I have another chance from God to filter everything, every relationships. Eventually, in just a first couple of weeks staying here, I can claim I wasn't my old self anymore.
For everyone, changing their circles are always difficult, as I used to try to do. I just want to motivate you that, pls clue that thoughts in your mind, don't put it into any trash bin. Be stricter with your choice, not "today i will change" but "it is enough self-destruction, I have my dream, I need to run out of this suck reality, if anyone is pulling me back, they are valueless, goodbye." Don't be scared to frankly break those relationships that you hesitated to break. Valueless friends will always be valueless friends. Because when you have cleared all of that trash, you may feel like me at the moment: this is so satisfied, so fresh, i should have done it earlier. One more thing is when you chose to grow your dream, you have to clear your path.
Ps: I am 16 now. And I am glad that I can start my ideal life at this early age. I swear I will pray for anyone choose to watch this video, because when you care about these kind of videos, I know you are trying to be more different, you slowly stand out. Smile:)✌💪📸
omg we r of same age and i totally get you
you're amazing, keep going!
@@rayyyyooo27 Appreciate it. You, too!!🔥🔥
I'm so happy for you ,well I was 13 like you when I start thinking how I become rich ,and now I m 16 stuck to all this multiple skill with zero achievements, I just have friends like seeing them daily at school not close to me is that consider like a circle to me ? And if so how can I change my circle and the only place I can go to is School and I don't think they may know about freelance ?like how I can inettracte with them ?(If you find mistakes in the comment plz ignore them🥲)
người Việt ???? ui đỉnh quá cậu ơii , không ngờ luôn ấy , cậu cùng tuổi với mình luôn này :)))
@@ngocdieple4848 😳tớ cảm ơn😸
Hes got the "i can fix you" rizz
Honestly, I had alopecia I've been called a cancer patient and more comments that compared me to other people. I was always bullied in elementary and middle school however I'm now in high school 11th grade and I believe I've improved on myself a little bit, but people don't seem to think so. I struggled to gain weight for more than 6 years. I always take cold showers, try and work out on myself but I just didn't know how. You give me strength and positivity to always think clearly and confidently, to always be mindful of the friends you make, and to work on myself. Today I'm so happy because I had done a presentation in front of everyone and i actually did it, I looked to everyone slowly like I was making a speech. I was scared at the beginning but I felt this rush of not caring what others think because if I worry to much on them or how they think, I'm letting myself down including the life I could've had if it wasn't for that. All my life I'd always think about how others perceived me but honesty its been so many years of it and im so done with that. I'm a person just like everyone else and i'm slowly learning to accept that I am who I am and not the person who people want me to be. The story was about how hard it was to make friends looking like me. I now from you think about its not about looks its more about how you treat yourself and do the necessary things to become THAT person. Thank you for making this video, you have such a kind soul and a good heart.
2:45 gotta be the best part that spoke to me
I feel you brother. Overcoming insecurity is just so challenging
I don't know why i suddenly fell into depression for absolutely zero reason i swear i had no reason but now I'm healing and the whole experience made me realise how i need to built healthy habits improve myself now make my self stronger also to focus toward mental health aswell for the present and the future....
03:50 'Standard of hygiene'
04:37 'Identity vs Habits' - change the origin, not the byproduct
05:56 'The content you consume'
06:30 'Purpose' - who you want to become
I don’t wanna judge you of how lucky you are since I don’t really know you and in wich situation you were. It’s the circle point, where you have to let go of friends relationships and whatever, that don’t fit for you. U know smart people only go with smart ones, and they don’t let you in. Sometimes it’s you parents you siblings or any family member, that discourages you. You just can’t avoid them, even when you try to ignore. You would just find yourself crying in the midnight under your blanket asking yourself what you did wrong.
Anyways great video I really appreciate it and sorry if I cussed you in any way and for my bad englisch. (It’s my third language I’m really sorry hope you guys could understand what I mean) lol
Thanks for this sweet message ❤ I hope everyone outside there is going to have a better life
tysm man
awesome. Thankyou, im proud of you and keep going.
i felt this on such a personal and emotional level , i really needed to hear this! thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi! I normally watch videos at 2x speed. You are the first who compelled me to listen to every word you said in normal speed. I don't know whom to thank, RUclips for recommending this video or you for making this video. Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this today ❤️
after going through cycles of "self-improvement" that inevitably end up with me back to my old habits, this video is the best advice i have ever received. you have to change your sense of self to align with who you want to be. you have to surround yourself with the right people and media that align with who you want to be. and without purpose, you will never progress in life. the big 3! it makes perfect sense and you explained it in a way for anyone to understand. also, just reading through the comments and seeing that you gave video replies to people just shows how passionate you are abut helping others succeed. thank you for this great video! i'll be subscribing for more content in the future 💖
Awesome
Thanks for sharing content like this, I agree with your resolution of the self-mastery, I think that having those 3 things clear helps out to not be stuck in cycles, I was there too with the meditation, cold showers and so on! thanks, keep making this content please!! 😃
Btw, who ever reads this I hope something great out of the blue happens to you, you can do it!👍
your energy is sooo catching
He actually fixed. It's insane how I understand it very well, and it truly makes sense.
i get so in my own head thinking that i am so insignificant in the way of there is nothing about me that stands out in a good way but only in all the bad ways or at leat what society deems as bad. but it wasnt until so recently and honestly hearing you word it so well that the person i want to be isnt for anyone else but for me
yeah its honestly normal to feel that way these days, keep going. You know what to do
thankyou SO FUCKING MUCH DUDE i was literally in tears for a whole year now just whining about why i am slowly becoming someone i used to be, ur actually right im gonna keep going cuz we only go up from here
Jake you have no idea how you have litrally helped me with my anxiety with this one video. Thank you soo much.
That is beautiful, I love that, you’re a big person, you can go far , you need to be proud of you
I'm taking my future in my hands , next year I'm graduating high school a lot of ✨anxiety ✨but also motivation
same with me 🥀
Lets go.
Hey I just came crossing over your video on my home page this morning and It is truly a wake up call… You just explained my situation in the most detailed way as possible. I’m so grateful to find your video and your page here. The Self - Circle - Purpose hits me so hard because I realized that one of the pillar is dragging me down and that is why. Big big appreciation for making this video man, you truly saved lives 🤍🤍
I DO REALLY appreciate it.
keep going i wish you and all the best 😊🪄
I was going to start preparing for next year's exam starting tomorrow. I had to change myself. I know for sure that the appearance of this video is a sign. This is the first comment for this video. When I come back after 1 year, I will see that the video and the channel are even more popular. Bye♡
amazing
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@@JakeYuJune Congrulation!! Ur video been popular !.
Thanks man, you don’t know how much these words helped me, really really thank you
The Minecraft music “background” is so high
the only video anyone needs on self-improvement. you should start a podcast channel on spotify and maybe make longer videos for 20-30 mins. just a suggestion. keep doing you tho, you're doing great❤🔥
Wow. RUclips really knows my situation I'm struggling rn. Thank you you just saved the current me.
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all my life I grew up with my grades being somewhat average relative to my peers, did not have much of a routine, no structure, just went to school, hung out with friends, games all day, and rotted in bed. the last two years of high school we had to choose or study paths/fields and I chose scientific. I went from average to the top in class and it went on to uni as well, my life did a complete 180 and it all was because my environment changed, my friends were people who grew up top of the class or smart, who had specific habits and consumed purposeful media and also had ambitious goals and that affected me as well. so it is very true that what you consume, the people surrounding you, and your environment as a whole have a big role in who you are and how you act.
You really did change my life, thankyou ❤
Cancer patient is crazy work 😂
hahahahaha
I can't even make friends, people arround me are not the type I want to keep to yk that will make a good impact, lost my previous friends, stay mostly in my room "yaaa goo out interact" it's not easy I don want to go out alone. You can't just be friends just by crossing ways right online! i tried desperately to gain some friends didn't worked it's so gloomy I want to go out for movies for hangout parks but idk with whom... I hope I get out of this state soon :((
I just saw this video first thing when I was scrolling my phone and I feel blessed for having videos like this ..... thankyou
Thank you so much for making this valuable video, Jake. ❤
Self acknowledgement is really under rated in my opinion, I used to be cringed at the idea of self-care, but it is now my priority :)❤
i really needed to hear this
thank you jake
I agree sm. I feel like you just have to write down things the best version of youself would care about and place them in the right order (ofc fundameltal or easiest first). Then just keep working on it i guess and never look back. May cheat in emergency but dont go back to wrong habits.... (u dont realise but consistency is not even ur problem at first, vitamines or sleep schedule may be :D) as i said - order.
Thanks Jake for the amazing video, Wish you all the best too!
all the best🔥
Yea.. Every time i'm thinking that such things are really clear. But when you face it irl, you understand what you're worth. Сan you handle it or not? I wish, you can. Good luck.
I wanna hangout with you one day, Man, crazy self awareness! GJ!
that would be crazy
Here before this blows up more than it already has.
Thank you man. I actually have a pretty bad problem right now. I'm not sure I value myself in the way that I should.
There's things I know that I need to do but just don't do them. I make my bed. I end my morning showers with cold water. I try to eat three meals a day.
I tell myself, "I'm going to go to the gym consistently form now on; I'm going to stop hitting the snooze button on my morning alarm; I'm going to make those calls I need to make; I'm going to review those things I need to review; I'm going to make that resume." But I never do these things. I play some video games instead. I say, "Just one more game." But it's never the last game. I like to think I don't need to cut out some of these distractions completely to still be a productive person and not procrastinate, but the more I give myself, the more I take on that regard.
Its because you hate yourself. We all do. Have something bigger to sacrifice for. For me its my future wife, children, my parents, family etc... So im not just doing all this to improve myself, but for the sake of my family. If you "why" is as small as you, you will never go anywhere
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this so badly.
anytime brother
you look somewhere between happy and break down. i hope you're ok n i dont mean you are all smiles and rainbows. i mean i hope you get to let out your emotions and also get the smiles and laughter. nothing good comes out of bottling emotions, tried n failed method personally. i sincerely hope this for you. here's to true happiness for you, me and all those who relate to this.
People relate to me because im not perfect, and im not ever gonna pretend to be. Great comment
Thank you so much for your videos 🥰
those 2 things would be enough to make me start a villein arc
Bro this video changed everything about me
oh my god, without realising this is what i have been searching for like some kind of answer to where im going wrong, this felt very enlightening
thank you so much!! it helped me get the answer i have been looking for mindlessly
lots of love to you.
thank u for this lessons. we are on the our road. keep going bro
no problem brother
i cried. i found myself in the WORST state ever recently… i understood that i lost everything i loved, everything that brought the light to my life and i didn’t know what to do next. i don’t know who i want to be and who i am now… and that video… i don’t know, but it feels like home and i can’t stop crying. i was trying so hard to change, to do at least a little step to be a better version of me… and now i give me another chance to do try because i just know i can do it. i wanna rewatch this video every time i feel bad, i want to give myself a reminder that everything is okay, and i want to settle that mindset in my mind
i don’t need to hurry anymore, i need to take my time and start with my inner self 😓 thank you for that video
sorry for mistakes I’m not that good in english + i’m sleepy haha i hope your eyes are okay!
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im glad i found this
I dont understand, why and how will self-improvement help me, when I have a hard time staying disciplined?
Our life timeline matches so much..😭.not only this video but the other one's also 💙
Giiirl samee😭😭i am Right now in the part returned to what he was in ( the late sleep ,the bad habit ...) i hope everything will pass and we go back to how we were disciplined, confident, with healthy habit 💗🥺
@@jomanjoman-im7ioNothing changes if nothing changes
The 'circle' you refer to is definitely not deeper than your own perception of self. If your peers can be replaced, the origin must be the self for it to even exist. Purpose is everchanging and alters based on your surroundings, so ultimately having your perception of self honed in unifies everything together. Good message overall.
awesome gcomment man
I genuinely needed this. Thank you so much.
i genuinely made this for people like you
Immersive translate is also a great app for generating bilingual subtitles. It allows you choose translation tools.
Thank you, Jake!
The thing I really appreciate with Jake YuJune is that he makes unlisted videos to reply to comments, it feels very authentic :D
I felt that you were talking to me while watching this video,thank you ❤️
I brush my teeth 3 times per day. The hell with cold showers. I don't see the value. But exercising, eating healthily, dropping "friends" that pull me down, and so on with good habits and skills like my drumming.
It's a hard journey but that's what makes the most of living life, so keep going and keep changing for the better y'all 💯
Mid 2023, I was at my peak, I would go 4 times a week at the gym, getting everything done, I was finally getting better. But then, I got sick for 7 months, sometimes it was really bad, I could only go to the gym once or twice a month. I felt bad. I hated myself. I hated my body for getting sick but also myself for not trying to get over it (which was physically impossible). Now I’m at my worst in terms of shape. Even though I healed and I’m no longer sick, I gained 10kg which makes me at the limit between overweight and obesity. I’m trying so hard to get back on track but I think what’s stopping me is that I do not believe in myself. I try to convince myself I do, but I don’t. Simply because I’ve always been at least a bit overweighted but no matter what I did, I never succeeded at losing weight so now I don’t believe it’s even possible for me. I’m trying my best to forget about my past failures but we can’t just erase our past, but we shouldn’t let it shape who we are.
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Attract maxim fulfillment of self, circle, and purpose daily.
Not always about pleasure, comfort, lust, pride, or any other self-centered (unproductive and meaningless) habits
always. Thankyou
Thank you so much for this video. Realising that we are all just humans and i'm not a disaster really helped me a lot rn
One stereotype that genuinely drained me was the graph of progression made by the society. According to the society, improvement is always linear. Goddamn, how stupid is that man. That's not at all how life works. Improvement is a bumpy jumpy line going up to that destination. It's not always satisfactory and That's exactly how it works. You'll fall and You'll bounce back. Therefore the main factor about success is always the mindset. I deadass scored so less in my last exam. I had to tell myself over and over again that it was okay. It's better to face failure at the early stages more you know. Moreover, you dont have to rush anything. Take your time, analyse yourself, love yourself and evolve.
Minecraft and your voice mix so gooooood
i loved those tips fr. (btw kinda off topic but ya'll he's got sm rizz😭)