Girl VS BOY: Should Single Christians stop having sex?

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

Комментарии • 206

  • @beautytawiah7021
    @beautytawiah7021 5 месяцев назад +220

    Hey to you out there who is still waiting to get married to experience it.....we are many out here and it's going to be worth it....Even though it's not easy to wait ,we shall wait on the Lord🙏🥺

    • @onuohaudochukwu6180
      @onuohaudochukwu6180 5 месяцев назад +4

      It's worth the wait... Absolutely!

    • @winnieogbaji5062
      @winnieogbaji5062 5 месяцев назад +12

      I’ve broken my fast sisters😂
      It’s worth the wait😅
      This was wholesome to watch
      Maybe another day, we talk about the struggles that came with waiting and the little initial struggles that come with breaking your fast, cos you can’t expect to be a Pro at something you only barely imagined!
      I got married on Easter Day and all glory to God who’s able to keep us from falling🙏

    • @beautytawiah7021
      @beautytawiah7021 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@winnieogbaji5062 hello dear I would like you to share with us how it went.....I always imagine my wedding night😃....May God help us ooo because sister has no knowledge 😂😂

    • @the_triciaa
      @the_triciaa 4 месяца назад

      Amen🙏

    • @anidora5149
      @anidora5149 4 месяца назад

      Just my thought now. Every wait is worth it.

  • @prisca_rator
    @prisca_rator 5 месяцев назад +67

    “Stop spending idle time - let every meeting be purposeful”

  • @afiangbe
    @afiangbe 5 месяцев назад +103

    It is refreshing to see beleivers talk about sex, and sexual purity. These are important conversations we need to start having. And God bless the guests for encouraging us with their stories.

    • @onuohaudochukwu6180
      @onuohaudochukwu6180 5 месяцев назад +1

      I quiet agree with you. It's a topic we can't afford to shy away from

    • @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb
      @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb 4 месяца назад

      I love it it makes me feel like am not different or tag holy holy.. yes to sexual purity

    • @onuohaudochukwu6180
      @onuohaudochukwu6180 4 месяца назад

      @@VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb if they tag you "holy holy", wear the tag with your full chest

    • @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb
      @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb 4 месяца назад +1

      @@onuohaudochukwu6180 thanks dear... If no be God I for don fall but I wear the tag with my full chest

    • @onuohaudochukwu6180
      @onuohaudochukwu6180 4 месяца назад

      @@VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb God dey for you. No shaking!

  • @tenigma__
    @tenigma__ 4 месяца назад +37

    You see the statement he made about "Not seeing women the way he used to". Is such a valid thing in today's lewd society. Sometimes women wonder why some men treat them casually. It's the lens and we also don't help them when we conform to their/our sexual desires. When people heal from sexual sin they also have to heal from the perspective they see the opposite sex. Else, they still keep disrespecting and hurting people.

  • @okafordivinelove5814
    @okafordivinelove5814 3 месяца назад +8

    "the gospel is not something you preach, it's something you live". I love it❤

  • @alerorichards7073
    @alerorichards7073 5 месяцев назад +56

    NCCF will never die, Hallelujah!!!
    NCCF, impacting lives since 1900

    • @Biblestudywithjoy
      @Biblestudywithjoy 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yes oh my dear nccf will never die

    • @Jeffrey_JFxTrade
      @Jeffrey_JFxTrade 5 месяцев назад +1

      1900? 😮
      When was NYSC formed?

    • @Minstrel_Eno_Essien
      @Minstrel_Eno_Essien 5 месяцев назад

      Yes Ooo!
      💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

    • @favouradeyinka1281
      @favouradeyinka1281 5 месяцев назад

      Hallelujah...
      We are serving a living God 💃💃💃
      That song eh

    • @kiddies_bedtimestories
      @kiddies_bedtimestories 4 месяца назад +1

      Rural rugged will never die, hallelujah.
      Jesus corpers will never die, hallelujah!

  • @A-P...
    @A-P... 5 месяцев назад +29

    The devil thought he had us (this generation), but glad to see break free testimonies and resolutions to love and live for GOD. Our souls is escaped! Glory!!!!!

  • @Beloved_Boahemaah
    @Beloved_Boahemaah 5 месяцев назад +33

    I loveee that she reported both of them to their mentors for accountability. Love the idea of not having idle time, and curating an environment where sin cannot thrive!

  • @mara_eke7
    @mara_eke7 5 месяцев назад +30

    This is a great watch. NCCF remains a blessing. It's an environment to grow in spiritual things.
    Sexual purity remains the goal.

  • @feyikemitomilade6025
    @feyikemitomilade6025 3 месяца назад +9

    It’s not easy, am almost 31 and been single for the longest cos most men don’t buy the idea of celibacy but I keep on going because I know God gat me and will send me his son who is also practicing celibacy

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  3 месяца назад +1

      Yes Sis! I remember the scripture:
      Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9
      Papa can see your work and He’s with you.

  • @betinioo
    @betinioo 5 месяцев назад +21

    😊 Listening to this from NCCF Family House in the city I'm serving as well. 😄 I thank God for her life and her testimony.

  • @asueilouakuru7674
    @asueilouakuru7674 3 месяца назад +4

    Wow.. this is amazing and this is real, alot of us christians have and are still struggling with masturbation and even premarital sex, but as he said "the more we spend time in and with Christ, the more the sin nature drops off and we become more like him", so never ever give up on ur self, as long as you're in Christ, your sure that you are an overcomer and u will OVERCOME 👏👏

  • @MissBryant96
    @MissBryant96 5 месяцев назад +20

    Thank you to the speakers for being so vulnerable and sharing their experiences ❤❤❤

  • @yomide_naturals
    @yomide_naturals 5 месяцев назад +119

    This guy was featured in Pastor Mildred's movie "just us girls" 😊

    • @estheradeoye
      @estheradeoye 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@yomide_naturals Yessss!!! as Tomiwa.

    • @Glory_Pokuwaa
      @Glory_Pokuwaa 5 месяцев назад +13

      Haba! I've been trying so hard to recall the face😂😂😂

    • @sussannamensah-ametume5048
      @sussannamensah-ametume5048 5 месяцев назад +2

      That was why I watched the video

    • @EghenayarioreOmorogbe
      @EghenayarioreOmorogbe 5 месяцев назад +17

      Yeah...he is the one that wants to steal Kayinsola from Munachi

    • @gesiereegbegi7610
      @gesiereegbegi7610 5 месяцев назад +1

      The face was literally why I clicked the video. I was trying sooo hard to figure it out.

  • @nelloigwe9757
    @nelloigwe9757 5 месяцев назад +24

    Thank you Gideon and Tosin, thanks for sharing such sensitive parts of your life to encourage others. God bless you. Nccf has done such an amazing job with Christian Corper’s. You can’t live in that house for a year and come out the same. I lived in that house and also planned to leave after one week because the rules were too much, but now I understand that it was for safety 😂 Well done guys 👏

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so happy to see this comment. God put Tosin in a place of safety. Sometimes God will take us away from certain places and people to reach us.

  • @favourihezie4672
    @favourihezie4672 5 месяцев назад +14

    Wow it's beautiful seeing believers talk about this. I'm sorry y'all had to go through what you went through but big thumbs up that you're able to talk about it like this openly. God bless y'all

  • @innyjosh6964
    @innyjosh6964 5 месяцев назад +11

    I really like and commend this program
    I love the how real the guest are, they shared their story in truth with details. Now this is Christianity not the one you pretend, condemn and still live in sin.
    God bless the host and the guests

  • @jonathanobiri3356
    @jonathanobiri3356 5 месяцев назад +9

    I'm so glad i saw this. Big ups to Gideon. I'm super happy for him. The Lord be praised.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +1

      Hallelujah!!!

  • @KlaraSagay
    @KlaraSagay 4 месяца назад +3

    My baby girl Tosin!!!!!! I bless God for you! I bless God for COVID! I bless God for 2020! I bless God for NCCF! and I'm most grateful to God for God's mercy!!!
    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @josephinekusi4537
    @josephinekusi4537 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you both for being open to talk about this. It’s really hard for people to open up on social media and be truthful and be real so that we can learn. Thank you

  • @Thesalomeomubo
    @Thesalomeomubo 4 месяца назад +2

    I appreciate this people for opening up about thier past

  • @favourihezie4672
    @favourihezie4672 5 месяцев назад +13

    Thank God for NCCF
    NCCF will never die... hallelujah...🎵

  • @NanyadPodcastar
    @NanyadPodcastar 5 месяцев назад +4

    I gained a whole lot from this episode,notes were taken,decisions were made,prayers were made too .
    Thank you so much ❤

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      @@NanyadPodcastar hallelujah!!!

  • @tallntechy3024
    @tallntechy3024 5 месяцев назад +7

    I loved watching this. I have liked, subscribed, and will definitely share 🎉

  • @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb
    @VICTORIAADEJOH-ph1fb 4 месяца назад +10

    Sexual purity involves no sexual activity

  • @afolabiafolayan7370
    @afolabiafolayan7370 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you to the guests for your vulnerability in sharing your stories. It’s so encouraging seeing young people talk about the struggles in the past and how they overcame this. This will be so helpful for young people and the coming generation. This encourages people that they are not going through what they are going through alone.

  • @Beloved_Boahemaah
    @Beloved_Boahemaah 5 месяцев назад +2

    Powerful testimonies! I’ve had the honor of meeting Gideon in a community of women and now I understand why his hands were behind him the ENTIRE time! Glory to God for keeping and preserving you both!❤

  • @adekola_twelve
    @adekola_twelve 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank God for NCCF! Kai! I will never forget the spiritual experiences I had! The back-to-back exposure to the word, prayer and fellowship really sharpened me for the years ahead! Any "gbogboti" family here?

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      haha. I love seeing all these NCCF testimonies. I wasn't part of the fellowship during my NYSC time but its nice to hear that it was a blessing to many

  • @kaylamaecoke
    @kaylamaecoke 5 месяцев назад +6

    Looooooooooooord! Interesting take on this subject. Thank you for your willingness to always have the uncomfortable or even unconventional conversations. I really liked how they broke that down. Needed something like this as a teenager.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      You are very welcome Kayla. I'm glad that it blessed you.

  • @ruthjanet3222
    @ruthjanet3222 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow
    This is beautiful
    I'm super glad to hear young minds talk about this because sometimes I wonder if I'm in the wrong space or something is wrong with me.
    I just discovered I'm only in the wrong place, Christianity for me is an attitude, a way of life.
    It doesn't matter what others say, I will keep living right.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  4 месяца назад

      Yes Girl❤️❤️…There’s nothing wrong with you! You’re for Christ and you should be proud of it. You are light in the place you are in and your light will change the atmosphere because darkness doesn’t overcome this light of God💗

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 3 месяца назад +2

    Her story is just a reminder about the power of environment>>>>. There are places that won’t let some things thrive!

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  3 месяца назад

      Yessss. “Power of environment”

  • @lwanelemathebula461
    @lwanelemathebula461 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for your transparency. This is everything...we need to have more conversations about this. God bless you

  • @joyaliu9884
    @joyaliu9884 5 месяцев назад +5

    Really love the sincerity and honesty in this video thanks alot for been so open minded...not everyday we find videos like this

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching. It took a lot of courage for them but i'm glad that they did.

    • @beautytawiah7021
      @beautytawiah7021 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@eboselume Hello sis please what is the matured age for a lady to get married

  • @xxmamaxxable
    @xxmamaxxable 4 месяца назад +1

    So SO good!! Really loved this! Well done to you all! Also love the set and editing style!

  • @nathanielenoch-ahiamadu2922
    @nathanielenoch-ahiamadu2922 5 месяцев назад +5

    I loved the intro, very captivating. Lovely and inspiring content, very very useful information and great help.

  • @estheradeoye
    @estheradeoye 5 месяцев назад +10

    These are issues that actually need to be discussed. Thanks so much for this video ❤❤

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed it Esther. Thank you for watching

  • @yomide_naturals
    @yomide_naturals 5 месяцев назад +8

    Yesso, God gave us those rules to protect us

  • @abigailoladipupo5578
    @abigailoladipupo5578 5 месяцев назад +13

    Sex is a beautiful thing in the context of marriage. Anything outside that is shortchanging oneself. Sex is way more intimate than just an intercourse. Well done @Eboselume! ❤❤❤

  • @SmoothsayerStudios
    @SmoothsayerStudios 5 месяцев назад +5

    This was such a great watch! it was really interesting and I love how real the guests were. so many useful notes. Thank you!!

  • @opaleyeruth4257
    @opaleyeruth4257 4 месяца назад

    NCCF doing the most
    It has always been a turning point and may it ever be😊
    The love of God, personal instructions and opening up to mentors
    Thanks guys for being vulnerable 😊

  • @Julez_baby
    @Julez_baby 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love how real this topic is

  • @oluwatomithomas180
    @oluwatomithomas180 5 месяцев назад +1

    May God bless the two individuals who gave their testimonies. Their testimonies were extremely powerful, and I was deeply moved, almost to the point of tears.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@oluwatomithomas180 wow… all glory to God ❤️

  • @estherwithessence
    @estherwithessence 5 месяцев назад +69

    Not me thinking “I know this guy, but I don’t know where I met him” 😂. It’s just us girls…he’s the guy that annoys me (always feeling too cool)

    • @Simply_yoma
      @Simply_yoma 5 месяцев назад +1

      Lol😂 he's that guy!

    • @church_girl
      @church_girl 4 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂 unnecessary hatred

    • @estherwithessence
      @estherwithessence 4 месяца назад +4

      @@church_girl he was the one that ruined Kayins relationship na, and he was still acting cool😂😂

    • @bvy21
      @bvy21 4 месяца назад +3

      I knew i recognized him from somewhere! that beard is almost a disguise loll

  • @uwandufavour1695
    @uwandufavour1695 3 месяца назад

    This was really helpful 😊

  • @keziahndunda6344
    @keziahndunda6344 5 месяцев назад +16

    Thank you for this topic I love authentic conversations I have been on a journey of sexual purity but off late I have been wanting to have sex .we need more of this conversations

  • @ShalomChidimmaUkwenga-ky2fj
    @ShalomChidimmaUkwenga-ky2fj 3 месяца назад

    I subscribed because I love how real the interviewees were❤

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  3 месяца назад

      Thank you 💗💗✝️

  • @Ella-mu6rn
    @Ella-mu6rn 4 месяца назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this and to think I was like ‘huh?’ in the beginning 😂 when he mentioned not being celibate. You had me there loool

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  4 месяца назад

      @@Ella-mu6rn 😘😘😘😜😜

  • @ikeblessing7157
    @ikeblessing7157 4 месяца назад +1

    I started watching this and fell inlove with it cus this really need to be talked about, most christians feels akward to talk about sex also most churches don't even know how to engage on this topic. So i am reaally greatful to come across this.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  3 месяца назад

      We thank God✝️❤️

  • @gifte1319
    @gifte1319 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks so much Sis God bless you. I was really blessed by the relatable piece❤❤

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      I'm glad to hear this. God bless you dear❤

  • @Victoriaakunyili
    @Victoriaakunyili 5 месяцев назад +1

    Second time I'm hearing this emptiness thing and it's definitely relatable 7:35

  • @jecholiahtimta
    @jecholiahtimta 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ebose❤ I love the contents you're putting out here!
    God bless your creativity.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      @@jecholiahtimta praise God oh!!! He’s the giver of all creativity ❤️

  • @Simply_yoma
    @Simply_yoma 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is wholesome! Thank y'all so much ❤

  • @josico02
    @josico02 4 месяца назад +1

    new subscriber here! i loved it❤

  • @OlayiwolaEniola-rp4sy
    @OlayiwolaEniola-rp4sy 4 месяца назад

    This blessed me a whole lot. God bless you for this session.

  • @malviq
    @malviq 3 месяца назад

    Thank you❤

  • @Minstrel_Eno_Essien
    @Minstrel_Eno_Essien 5 месяцев назад +4

    NCCF to the rescue! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @GetSlappedPlease
    @GetSlappedPlease 5 месяцев назад +6

    A great take on this my community of people

  • @eboselumenimhanyehor5092
    @eboselumenimhanyehor5092 5 месяцев назад +4

    This is wholesome.

  • @moh_your
    @moh_your 5 месяцев назад +2

    This was worth it ❤

  • @yomide_naturals
    @yomide_naturals 5 месяцев назад +10

    Never been celibate... Let me watch first

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines 5 месяцев назад

    Gideon really came here to preach,bless his heart and Tosin God bless you too❤

  • @TitilopeOtemuyiwa
    @TitilopeOtemuyiwa 5 месяцев назад +1

    I was having some wrong thoughts today and i am glad i saw this video, it was for a purpose 😊

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +2

      Praise God! Stay strong dear

    • @TitilopeOtemuyiwa
      @TitilopeOtemuyiwa 5 месяцев назад

      @@eboselume yes I will
      Thanks sis

  • @babatundeoluwatobi8655
    @babatundeoluwatobi8655 5 месяцев назад

    Good job, brethren.👍
    May the Good Lord forever keep and guide you through life until eternity. Amen.🙏

  • @onuohaudochukwu6180
    @onuohaudochukwu6180 5 месяцев назад

    I love this, Ebose. Please keep it coming. God bless you, sis!

  • @richards_greatman
    @richards_greatman 5 месяцев назад +6

    Eboselume, you are really young looking. I froze when i heard '...my husband'.
    Thank you for putting this together, i love it. I appreciate the lady and guy for walking us through their tunnel. We all have our dark parts but when we find the light they make us wiser not scary. Thank you once again.
    Could you please drop their social handles ?

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      haha yes i am married😄

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      What the devil meant for evil, God turns for Good.... also, their social handles are highlighted in the video.

  • @akunnaanikpe5891
    @akunnaanikpe5891 5 месяцев назад +34

    I was into a relationship, we never had sex as in penetration, but we had foreplay and I was not happy but, i want to live a sexually pure life😊. Nice one guys, i love the fact that you are so real with this. I pray i have the courage to share my story one day

    • @user-Justie
      @user-Justie 5 месяцев назад +2

      Foul play but no sex?🤔😂

    • @Sportlovers18
      @Sportlovers18 5 месяцев назад +6

      Yes absolutely possible was in a relationship also no sex but we had foreplay and it wasn't a good experience after we did it

    • @Vie870
      @Vie870 4 месяца назад +2

      Can you still be with the same person, even though you guys fore played.
      Can you still say you had no sex? I mean you guys actually had no sex

    • @Vie870
      @Vie870 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@@user-Justie
      That is very possible and it's nothing to laugh about. I think we should be more respectful to people's vulnerability

    • @Sportlovers18
      @Sportlovers18 4 месяца назад

      @@Vie870 might sound weird but bro we didn't make out there was no penetration

  • @berniceezechiyere833
    @berniceezechiyere833 Месяц назад

    Amazing 🎉🎉

  • @adunniade7934
    @adunniade7934 5 месяцев назад +2

    Wow...... Thumbs up to Gideon et Tosin❤️

  • @ntenewe3321
    @ntenewe3321 5 месяцев назад +5

    God bless Nccf!!

  • @estheruzoma2140
    @estheruzoma2140 5 месяцев назад +2

    This man is from just us girls❤

  • @Chidera-jx4ip
    @Chidera-jx4ip 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this video, It was so helpful ❤❤

  • @Michaelfiyinfoluwa
    @Michaelfiyinfoluwa 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this.
    I learnt so much.

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  3 месяца назад

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @adoizaoni1535
    @adoizaoni1535 5 месяцев назад

    Good one!God bless you❤❤

  • @VEE_Honeygrace
    @VEE_Honeygrace 5 месяцев назад +3

    My friend @moscakery sent me this link and i cannot but be grateful.
    I have been blessed by this message.
    It's super wholesome ❤

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад

      Hallelujah. Thank you Victoria for watching

  • @247BRIDGE
    @247BRIDGE 5 месяцев назад +3

    In Port-Harcourt, ladies ask you out and so boldly. So weird place. I can't forget 2020.
    And by the way, NCCF does corp members great good with discipline, which some conflate with legalism.
    But there's something quite off about the title of the video.

    • @chinelosynclaire7483
      @chinelosynclaire7483 Месяц назад

      Everything about your comment is negative. I mean, all your 3 points are you highlighting one wrong thing or the other.

    • @247BRIDGE
      @247BRIDGE Месяц назад

      @@chinelosynclaire7483Go meet soothsayers then. And don't forget to improve your comprehension skills.

  • @julianahthona8756
    @julianahthona8756 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is good content. ❤

  • @olamideogunlade5064
    @olamideogunlade5064 4 месяца назад

    Amazing Amazing testimony

  • @TheCoach_TheCoach
    @TheCoach_TheCoach 27 дней назад

    I love this

  • @OkedejiJumoke-iu8my
    @OkedejiJumoke-iu8my 5 месяцев назад +1

    Well done girl
    This interesting

  • @Biblestudywithjoy
    @Biblestudywithjoy 5 месяцев назад +6

    Nccf will never die

  • @otsimajeeboh6923
    @otsimajeeboh6923 5 месяцев назад

    So Insightful!

  • @JenniferOmemma
    @JenniferOmemma 3 месяца назад +1

    It’s not easy to wait on the lord but please hold on and ask the holt spirit to fill you and control your thoughts because in this kingdom it’s PURITY OR PURITY.

  • @ogechiemmanuel1444
    @ogechiemmanuel1444 5 месяцев назад

    May God help and keep us Amen

  • @mensahaugustina1747
    @mensahaugustina1747 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing

  • @clarksontejiri4630
    @clarksontejiri4630 5 месяцев назад +5

    The rules are to protect us !

  • @goodnewsjohnson9972
    @goodnewsjohnson9972 5 месяцев назад +8

    Are you sure this guy isn't Pastor K's relative? Cos I see the resemblance in his face, gesticulations, smiles and how he talks.

  • @faithBlondon
    @faithBlondon 5 месяцев назад +8

    . It's very difficult if your dating someone whos not on abstinence journey, or doesn't care for it but as hard as it is, its beneficial spiritualy and emotionally, until marriage.

    • @Tosinaiyedogbon
      @Tosinaiyedogbon 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@faithBlondon Hi faith, truth is you need to know if the person you're dating is ready to go on that Journey with you. People talk about red flags, it is a red flag if he doesn't appreciate your keeping yourself till marriage, it is also a red flag if he's okay with it for you but he's having sex. The Nigerian wedding movie that featured Banky W and his wife; he went on the Journey with her because he loved her, he did not complain at all. In our case the Love of God in a man will make him help you on the journey till you both groups married. May the Holy Spirit guide you on what to do.

    • @faithBlondon
      @faithBlondon 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Tosinaiyedogbon thanks but as im single as a pringle so luckily not really a big problem for me

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@faithBlondon lol. But when the man comes make sure he's ready to pursue purity with you because he loves God.

    • @Vie870
      @Vie870 4 месяца назад

      ​@@eboselume
      There's a comment about having foreplay with your partner but no sex. Then deciding to abstain, both parties.
      On the road to abstinence, can you still boast about the no sex?

    • @corneliabayuo6194
      @corneliabayuo6194 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Vie870no ma'am outside marriage foreplay is a sin . I learnt this from a book by Tim Lahaye
      The act of marriage 🎉

  • @Tumi_onlife
    @Tumi_onlife 4 месяца назад

    Blessed wow!!!

  • @clarksontejiri4630
    @clarksontejiri4630 5 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing

  • @edumaba
    @edumaba 5 месяцев назад +4

    “In front of your mother’s shop” That be hardddd😂

    • @Y_B_C_M01
      @Y_B_C_M01 5 месяцев назад

      Frlll

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  5 месяцев назад +2

      like seriously. The guts the woman had is mind blowing

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 3 месяца назад

    Accountability 📌

  • @DailyInspiration77109
    @DailyInspiration77109 5 месяцев назад

    This is not a question at all. Its like arguing against the bible. And that disqualifies to be " single Christian " it is either a christian. ie. Follow of Christ and his word or you are not

  • @ngwabenjamin2310
    @ngwabenjamin2310 4 месяца назад

    My question is when did they start and which bible did they read

  • @funmilayotaofikat9002
    @funmilayotaofikat9002 5 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @ngozinwafor2022
    @ngozinwafor2022 4 месяца назад +2

    29 elderly 😂😊

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  4 месяца назад +1

      lol he was 15 at the time 😄

    • @alysseking1
      @alysseking1 4 месяца назад

      😂

  • @okoroogechi3588
    @okoroogechi3588 5 месяцев назад +3

    Would love a differentiation between celibacy and sexual purity. I saw it being used interchangeably during the conversation and it didn't satisfy per say why I came here. It was a nice watch however getting to understand that youth pursue sexual purity and that it's possible.

    • @Tosinaiyedogbon
      @Tosinaiyedogbon 5 месяцев назад +2

      Hi Ogechi, we all know that our body is the Temple of God and should be protected from all things that are not of God. The Bible talks about taking care of your body including your dressing, what you eat, drink etc as the Holy Spirit cannot dwell in an unclean space. In celibacy, some do it till the find the next best person, some do it so they can just be clear and some do it as a sacrifice but it becomes Sexual purity when you're entire being (mind, body & soul) is offered as a sacrifice to God. This shows that your thoughts and actions are of God's will and when God looks within he will not be able to find anything unclean. Jesus said it's not the act that makes it Fornication or Adultery alone but also the thought. I hope this gives a better understanding ❤.

    • @afolayandammy9161
      @afolayandammy9161 5 месяцев назад +6

      Sexual purity is a deeper version of celibacy. See it as the way Jesus Christ described Adultery. In the old testament, when the law of adultery and fornication was given, if you don’t have physical sex with someone, even though you lust after them with your eyes and mind, you are believed not to have committed any sin of adultery or fornication. We can say you are celibate even though in your mind you have slept with like 20people. But when Jesus came, He came to teach sexual purity. He taught us that even if you dont physically have sex with somone, but in your mind, you lust after them or had sex with them in your mind, you have already committed adultery/fornication. So see it this way, Celibacy = Physical abstaining but your mind and spirit is still drooling after the opposite sex. Sexual purity = Your Physical body, plus Spirit and soul is staying totally away from any sexual actions or sexual thoughts outside marriage. So you may be practicing celibacy but not entirely Sexually pure. But sexual purity captures all your spirit soul and body and makes you fear God in thesense that you stay away physically but your heart is also away from it

    • @okoroogechi3588
      @okoroogechi3588 4 месяца назад

      Thank you for this explanation. Both were very insightful and I fully understand now. Thank you

  • @Milyme83
    @Milyme83 4 месяца назад

    Ouf soul ties... o

  • @preztjuswoman
    @preztjuswoman 4 месяца назад

    Swapping spirits is sweet and juicy?
    Sins of the flesh

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  4 месяца назад +2

      @@preztjuswoman having sex with your husband or wife isn’t a sin of the flesh.
      Sex is a lovely thing but it is for marriage. That is what we were saying. When you have it before marriage, it is still nice but doing it then is wrong and a sin.
      We choose to wait till marriage

    • @preztjuswoman
      @preztjuswoman 4 месяца назад

      @@eboselume I was responding to your comment that sex is sweet and juicy. When you made the statement there was no mention of marriage. Anyone having sex outside of marriage is only swapping spirits. My apologies as I too was not specific 🙏🏿

    • @eboselume
      @eboselume  4 месяца назад +1

      @@preztjuswoman ohhhh I get you now. Thanks for explaining❤️.. and when I said it, I had not mentioned yet that I was married so I get you 😂

    • @preztjuswoman
      @preztjuswoman 4 месяца назад

      @@eboselume No problem, thank you for the positive interaction! Much love and respect 🙏🏿❣️

  • @omojesu7
    @omojesu7 5 месяцев назад

    ✝️🎉🎉🎉

  • @faithdogara9843
    @faithdogara9843 5 месяцев назад +6

    I don’t understand you people saying you’re not celibate you’re sexually pure. Part of sexual purity is being celibate. 😂😂😂 Saying it like it’s two polar opposites just sounds silly. No offense. Yes, celibacy needs to be beyond abstaining from sex and should cut into your thoughts as well. However, if not that you were simply baiting us, I don’t see why you felt the need to say you’ve never been celibate, then you go on to explain celibacy 😂😂😂