8 Dangerous habits that drain your energy | Stop these Toxic Habits Here if You want to live Happy

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Комментарии • 234

  • @ssgv65
    @ssgv65 3 месяца назад +26

    Nice vlog. Very very correct. All the points are on the spot and well said. I liked the point on ' trying to please at the cost of oneself'. I made this mistake and now I ended being A doormat. Not only I ended up feeling mentally sad and depressed, so much so that I became physically exhausted too and didn't feel like doing any work. No motivation for life. It's changing now... I have been following your videos for quite sometime and feel v happy when I become aware of many things..thank you. God bless you with all good ❤❤

  • @yasminmalik7437
    @yasminmalik7437 2 месяца назад +4

    Every word you said is correct
    I feel sad In past I been ignoring my kids and been making other happy
    My biggest ever mistake.
    Please everyone never make that mistake
    Your husband and children are your world
    Rest are users selfish people backbiting people. 2 numbari hai duniya.
    Akarat mai Allah hum sai yehie pouchay ga bacho ko kia sikaya. Husband k saath kaise rahie.
    So life is with husband and kids

  • @PurvaPatil-5152
    @PurvaPatil-5152 3 месяца назад +6

    U r eye opener for me.bahot fayada ho raha hai muze aapki har bat se.main to khud kahi kho si gayi thi.aaj tak kisi se itani motivation nahi mili. Thank u so much 🙏

  • @Nomankhan-vm7om
    @Nomankhan-vm7om 3 месяца назад +9

    Assalamualaikum Api Jan kaise hain ap tnk u soo much ap ki bato ne meri Zindagi badal de hum pathan hain or pathno ki shayd ap jnti hogi .meri 18 year main shade ho gaiy phir 2 c section 😢 abhi meri body bilkol aise hogaiy hain jaise ki insan ki age 40 umar ki ho .... Bimarion ne bhi gir liya hain reason yeh hain ki main ne khud ko kbhi importants e nahi de apna khyal nahi rakha operation ki bad bachoo ka or susralion ka bas kam kam kam .. har wakq kam na apni room ka aj mera room aisa howa hain ki main dekhti ho toh mera dil buhut udas ho ta hin ki meri ammi ne mujhi itna pyara jahiz bana ki diya or me ne ye hall kar diya likin khair abhi main hosh main aye ho ap ki wajh se. 😂 Thnkkk u sooo muchhhh.

  • @muhammadzuraiz4584
    @muhammadzuraiz4584 3 месяца назад +10

    Aj tu ap n sari baty mery dil ki ki ha
    M bi logo s baty kar k apna time zaya nahi karti
    Very good

  • @monicajoshi1895
    @monicajoshi1895 3 месяца назад +3

    Each and every point is very true, most of us are doing the same things again and again and forget about ourselves, thanks to remind every woman that self care and mental peace are the only things we need in our lives.

  • @samraimtiaz9013
    @samraimtiaz9013 3 месяца назад +3

    Masha Allah betreen vlog amazing batain aik lmby intzar K bad aisa vlog AA gya apka really very happy🎉❤

  • @kausarstailor3172
    @kausarstailor3172 3 месяца назад

    Pehle me aisi hi thi humesha past me rehti thi lekin mene jab se aapka vlg dekhne lagi hu tab se me. Sab bhool kar aaj me jeeti hu. Thank you very much aapi😊. Love from India

  • @Cookingrecipes-sb9rf
    @Cookingrecipes-sb9rf Месяц назад

    Ur a person blessed with a beautiful heart thanks for sharing 🙂

  • @kamranslifestyle1286
    @kamranslifestyle1286 3 месяца назад +5

    Allah pak bless you and your family dear sister

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @AlZaiqafood
    @AlZaiqafood 3 месяца назад +2

    Very informative aur pyari batain hn app ki MN na bohat Si achi habits app sa Sahi ki hain❤❤❤

  • @sanagul9081
    @sanagul9081 3 месяца назад +1

    meri 3 daughters hy byta na hony ki waja sa high depression ap yakin kary apki videos sa itni motivate hui k ab prwa hi nahi and hubby uk ma hy baz dafa bht miss karti hu ma job nahi krti ap ki videos mi jo jo ap btati hy wo krti hy mera ghr meri personality chamak gai

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  3 месяца назад +2

      Relax

    • @memesboys175
      @memesboys175 3 месяца назад

      ​@@herfablifeplz summer mae kon sy brand ka compact powder daily routine ka koe make up skin care py video bnae

    • @memesboys175
      @memesboys175 2 месяца назад

      ​@@herfablifeplz link send kare dresses py

  • @tayabaabid2825
    @tayabaabid2825 3 месяца назад +1

    اسلام علیکم بہت ہی اچھی باتیں بتائیں جزاک اللہ

  • @simplelifestyleandfood2750
    @simplelifestyleandfood2750 Месяц назад

    Toxic people ko avoid krny sy b hum Apni life ko pursokon bna skty hn. ❤❤❤

  • @sadafmazher9260
    @sadafmazher9260 3 месяца назад +2

    Please ap jo ya handy vacume cleaner use karti hain ya kis company ka hy or is ka result kysa hy

  • @afrinmansuri1328
    @afrinmansuri1328 2 месяца назад +1

    Aap k side me jho masale k box h vo kaha se khrida h plz btaye bda pyara h

  • @Cookingrecipes-sb9rf
    @Cookingrecipes-sb9rf Месяц назад

    Very nice video well said in each & every topic which is very common now a days I usually watch ur videos all are best and best 👌

  • @mahirakhan2675
    @mahirakhan2675 3 месяца назад +2

    Very interesting as always Allah talla bless u always u r very positive

  • @jenniferkhaswala9674
    @jenniferkhaswala9674 3 месяца назад

    V nice practical talks.. After a certain age after some personal experience we start understanding life, our mistakes etc.. It's good to put a full stop n respecting ourselves learn new things n grow there is so much to do if we wish 😊

  • @learncomputerscience509
    @learncomputerscience509 3 месяца назад +1

    I love your vlogs. It helps me in decoring and managing my home. Can you make vlog about how to manage time in excellent way? I am a mother of two children. I dont have maids now a days and I am also studying..

  • @kiranzohaib8607
    @kiranzohaib8607 2 месяца назад

    Maa shaa Allah helpful tips and Alhamdulillah mjh me ye saari achi adaten hy siwaye start k 2 k aik me late soti hn dusra me past me phansi hoti hoon,, ajkl is py struggle kr rhi hn k ye change krn ,, lekin mam aik is masly py video bnaye k me gossip person nhi hn or me bhi bht kam call krti hn or aese logo se kam rabta rakhti hn jo bht toxic hy lekin un se aesa reshta hy k kbhi kbhi bat krni parti hy or wo phr itny gily krty hen k tum to kisi ka puchti nhi ho apne ap me ho bs ghar ki bari bahu ho tum abroad rehti ho to iska ye mtlb nhi k yahan sasural se bekhabar raho pury khandan ki khabar rakho sab ka pucho etc,,aese logo ko kaisy handle krn k unko ap kuch keh bhi nhi sakty because they are inlaws 😢

  • @SabhaKhan-kv7jl
    @SabhaKhan-kv7jl Месяц назад

    Behad sahi hum nikal hi nahi kar pa rahe hai yade mazi azab hsi hai ya rab .asa koi chiz nahi but some time over stress for me

  • @LAUGHERPORTION
    @LAUGHERPORTION 3 месяца назад +3

    Very informative nice sister jazak Allah ❤️

  • @farihaqasim3017
    @farihaqasim3017 19 дней назад

    Very well said❤😊you are right🎉

  • @AsadNawaz-tp9wn
    @AsadNawaz-tp9wn 3 месяца назад +1

    Assalam o alaikum.plz dull skin ko theek krny ka kuch bataen.or ap apni skin care morning 🌅 to night 🌃 bhi zaroooor share karain.main apky vlog ka intzaar karum gi.❤

  • @user-fc1uw6zj6h
    @user-fc1uw6zj6h 3 месяца назад +2

    India se dekh rahi hu apki video bahut pasan ati h

  • @user-nx8sj7rr3o
    @user-nx8sj7rr3o 3 месяца назад +2

    Mujhe vitiligo hai aik Saal sy boht depressed plz is bemari py video banaen apki batan boht achi hoten

    • @primordial345
      @primordial345 3 месяца назад

      Please make a video about vitiligo,my son is suffering about it

    • @user-nx8sj7rr3o
      @user-nx8sj7rr3o 3 месяца назад

      @@primordial345 Zindagi boht mushkil vitiligo k sath

  • @Eemanfatima786
    @Eemanfatima786 3 месяца назад +1

    Bht ache video he ....very informativ ..ur home is so beautiful ..plz apnay ghr ka tour kerwaen .bht dil krta apka ghr dekhny ka

  • @rashdawaseem1689
    @rashdawaseem1689 3 месяца назад

    Iram yrs v logs r very motivating all the time❤jazak Allah❤..
    As Negative people always drain ours energy so v should avoid them as much as possible😊

  • @user-rs6tf9ub8p
    @user-rs6tf9ub8p 3 месяца назад

    What a wonderful vlog enjoyed and seriously more social person ruined peace of mind i was so social but from last 8 years im not that social person at all i feel good to be with me same here my apartment also on boiling temp from 1pm to till maghrib 🥵 unbearable

  • @simplelifestyleandfood2750
    @simplelifestyleandfood2750 Месяц назад

    ❤❤you said very well. All the points are very useful for an energetic home routine for us all.

  • @SabhaKhan-kv7jl
    @SabhaKhan-kv7jl Месяц назад

    A kisi ki khidmat karte hai hir ap ko koi yad nahi rakhta yes hum sab ke liye karte phir jab hum umeed vrakhte na umeed hote and stress yes mind also disturb me

  • @bismillahkitchenofficial3657
    @bismillahkitchenofficial3657 Месяц назад +1

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 very good 💯 you are right 👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @FakharUlHassan-lj6il
    @FakharUlHassan-lj6il 3 месяца назад +2

    Good advice,I follow your tips n advices

  • @saweraubaid3468
    @saweraubaid3468 Месяц назад

    Zabardast

  • @sitwathabib6026
    @sitwathabib6026 3 месяца назад +1

    Meri aik neighbor hn toxic.mra Bhai electrician ha us nay room mn fan lgaya.us k student nay fan lgaya.us neighbor nay kaha AP k Bhai k student nay kuon fan lgaya.us nay kuon ni lgaya.look at the mentality.mn nay kaha mje aam khanay hn na k trees count krnay hn.

  • @aliimranrana6878
    @aliimranrana6878 3 месяца назад +2

    API budget maintain ni hota pesy bht jaldi khtm ho jaty hen please kush btaen Kya kron ...

  • @farzanashaheenfarzana6551
    @farzanashaheenfarzana6551 3 месяца назад +1

    Assalamualaikum
    Apny bilkul theek Kahi sb batain,ap in kaprhon ki designing share kb kren gi

  • @smilewithme6099
    @smilewithme6099 3 месяца назад

    Bahut pyari baat ki aapne. Ekdum true points ko point outkiya. Thanks for lovely sharing. 🎉

  • @khansazahoor3751
    @khansazahoor3751 3 месяца назад

    Habits that drain you
    1. Sleeping late (plan your day)
    2. Holding onto the past.
    3. Over stressing
    4. Trying to please others
    5. Poor diet
    6. Taking things personally
    7. Stop gossiping
    8. Complaining all time

  • @bravosmith2820
    @bravosmith2820 3 месяца назад +1

    1.sleeping late
    2.forget past bad experiences and avoid negetive thoughts and toxic persons get rid of mental burdon
    3.over stress negetive thoughts
    4.trying to please every one live your own life dont let every one to take you for granted
    5.dont have bad diet unhealthy diet
    6.dont assume every bad thing personally learn to say no
    7.gossip back biting
    8.complaining all the time spreading negativity

  • @mona4993
    @mona4993 2 месяца назад

    Hello new subscriber here ...from past some days i am watching your videos and I can't thank you enough for all the wonderful and much needed advises you give in all your vlogs....i have started to note down all the points which you discuss in my diary & try to implement them in my life.....your talk is so soothing to my heart .....god bless you and your family.....it feels like you are like the elder sister which i never had,to guide me in life....

  • @quratqurat3448
    @quratqurat3448 Месяц назад

    Very well said

  • @abaankhan1380
    @abaankhan1380 3 месяца назад +1

    Mashallah bilkul sahi kaha apne

  • @khalb6150
    @khalb6150 3 месяца назад +1

    Very nice vlog mashallah
    Ma bee sadar Bazar sy shopping krti Hon

  • @KhurramHanifAhmad
    @KhurramHanifAhmad 3 месяца назад

    Allah pak ap ko humesha kush rkhy

  • @shahzadi72
    @shahzadi72 Месяц назад

    Had se ziada shopping kerna branded kapro ka dher aor mo de cluttering habits bhi mention karein

  • @user-wj3uu4kk9u
    @user-wj3uu4kk9u 3 месяца назад

    Nice sharing ma daily breakfast krty ap k vlogdkhti hun mra pura din bht positive guzrta hy

  • @TarnumSheikh
    @TarnumSheikh Месяц назад

    Bahot pyara ghar hai

  • @ss.7606
    @ss.7606 2 месяца назад

    Salam aap ki baat shi he me apne past ko bhula ne ki kosis kar ti hu fir bi yaad aa jata hai,or fir bure khayal aate rehte hai,or kisi kam me dil nhi lagta, kuch motion kriyega

  • @Nikki-km7hy
    @Nikki-km7hy 3 месяца назад

    Each and every word of this vlog ia absoulutely correct. Thank u for sharing. Please share ur diet plan with us. Thx❤❤

  • @user-ou7xm9mv8y
    @user-ou7xm9mv8y 2 месяца назад

    Plate kaha say li hain seagreen

  • @user-xj9dh3cv8u
    @user-xj9dh3cv8u 3 месяца назад

    Erum sister bht khoobsorat ho aap Allah nazr e bad se bachayen Ameen ❤❤❤❤

  • @NajmaKarimMirrani
    @NajmaKarimMirrani 3 месяца назад

    You are first you tuber they vedio as reality and ture as well as I believe only your vedio👌👌

  • @asmawaseem2389
    @asmawaseem2389 3 месяца назад

    Assalamualaikum dear.. why don't u use gas lighter?? Match box kyun

  • @Aesthetezain01M
    @Aesthetezain01M 2 месяца назад

    Jazakallah khair.. thank you so much ❤

  • @aliimranrana6878
    @aliimranrana6878 3 месяца назад

    Bilkul feel hota he chawal after 6 khbi ni khaen
    And fast food is a poison seriously...

  • @english_speaking112
    @english_speaking112 3 месяца назад

    You r very inspirational personality love to watch your vlogs its something very soothing and learning i learnt good things from your videos and applied in my life 🥰

  • @zarkazaman594
    @zarkazaman594 3 месяца назад

    Nice
    MashaAllah stay motivated...n plx share tips for healthy relationship for happy married life

  • @LifeWithNida
    @LifeWithNida 3 месяца назад

    Masha ALLAH ...very informative video ❤

  • @nadiairfansohail2813
    @nadiairfansohail2813 Месяц назад +1

    Agr husband apny ghr walon k samny boudaries na bnay wife ko un k hawaly kr day wo jo dil may ay us say behave krain or wo apni bv ko defend na kry

  • @salmansaleem550
    @salmansaleem550 Месяц назад

    Boht khubsurat batein kein ap ny.really acting upon already.

  • @samim_643
    @samim_643 2 месяца назад

    Mashallah bahut achcha Vlog ❤❤❤❤

  • @mylordsworld4462
    @mylordsworld4462 3 месяца назад

    Your thoughts are progressive. ❤

  • @hinakhan-qy6bh
    @hinakhan-qy6bh 3 месяца назад

    Assalamoalekum appi.Very nice video. Apne jo bhi baat kahi sab humare hi life se related h. But ye sasural ke log hume foot mat hi kyu samajhte h. Me bhut hi depression me hu.. mujhe kuch nhi samajh aata in logo ko kaise samjhaya jaye😢

  • @Taseerwrites
    @Taseerwrites Месяц назад

    Ap meri favorite RUclipsr hn

  • @samreenshakeel3275
    @samreenshakeel3275 3 месяца назад +1

    Susral mein rehty hue insan ko na chahty hue bhi majbur hota hai bachy bhi ignor hoty hain

  • @user-vr4zf9ut6d
    @user-vr4zf9ut6d 3 месяца назад

    A.a v good point I agree with you 😊❤

  • @poulotheparrot
    @poulotheparrot 3 месяца назад

    Asalam o alakum! Bohat he aala observation so true jazak Allah. Allah bless you and your family Ameen Summa Ameen ❤

  • @Shabnamkhan78-mh
    @Shabnamkhan78-mh 2 месяца назад

    Bht shukriya sister main teesre bache ki ammi banne waali hun 😊 bht zyada energy loose thi lekin ye vlogs dekh kr bht achha mahsoos hua suchhi Allah aapko jazaaye khair de.

  • @aishaimtiaz8472
    @aishaimtiaz8472 3 месяца назад

    Muje ak baat ap se share krni hn..mere nandun ki wja sy mere or mere husband ki lrai hoti hy or galt fehmiyan ati hn..mere nandain married hn..wo jub bb ati hn bht fasad krti hn..or mere husband hr baat k liye muje he galt kehte hn..ab to wo muje ye kehne lge hn k jub mere bhne aya krenge main apne maiky chli jaya krun.
    To ap sy ye mashwra krna tha k kya ye baat mere liye thk rhe ge..muje chle jana chahye.

  • @AkberAmreen
    @AkberAmreen 3 месяца назад +1

    Dua chahiye plz

  • @komal-vu3qm
    @komal-vu3qm 3 месяца назад

    Please make video for working moms especially jab bachy choty hon or koi helper b na ho.

  • @user-mj5my9ne9t
    @user-mj5my9ne9t 3 месяца назад

    Kash hmman ya pyaree batan smj a jayn.😊❤

  • @sanagul9081
    @sanagul9081 3 месяца назад

    ap hmaisha meri dua mi rehthi hy Allah apko seheth and bhttttt khushya dy ameen

  • @cookingtips2908
    @cookingtips2908 3 месяца назад

    وعلـــیکم اســلام ورحـمـتہ اللہ برکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمـشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس اللہ پاک ہم سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین 🤲 😊 💕 💕 💕 💕

  • @athiya7860
    @athiya7860 3 месяца назад

    Thank u maam for ur energetic advices.Jazakaklah

  • @user-qc9ux8fq9f
    @user-qc9ux8fq9f 2 месяца назад

    Ma apki vdeo dakhti hu v.nice .ap apny dress kha sa purchase krti ha plz give me link

  • @pakistanimomvlogs831
    @pakistanimomvlogs831 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Erum . Very nice and informated vlog ❤

  • @fatimaschannel2295
    @fatimaschannel2295 3 месяца назад

    Hi please weight lose k bare main bhi ek video banae

  • @azkatahir5654
    @azkatahir5654 Месяц назад

    Super ❤

  • @rukhsanaakhtar6129
    @rukhsanaakhtar6129 3 месяца назад +1

    Good advice

  • @sanagul9081
    @sanagul9081 3 месяца назад

    Aoki videos sa ma but powerful feel karti hu and kam krny m mazaa atha hy

  • @SabaKamar-je9lo
    @SabaKamar-je9lo 3 месяца назад +1

    Logo ko such ma khush kr kr k ma thak gi ho

  • @shabnambepari2056
    @shabnambepari2056 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much

  • @emanstitchingexpert5275
    @emanstitchingexpert5275 3 месяца назад

    nice vlog sahi kah rhi hn dosro k chkr mein apny AP ko bhol jaty hn

  • @salmaumbreen3291
    @salmaumbreen3291 3 месяца назад

    Very nice vlog like always 👌 👍 🙂
    Stay blessed ❤

  • @poorvakaul1459
    @poorvakaul1459 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much mam

  • @mrsrashid8658
    @mrsrashid8658 Месяц назад

  • @misbahhina1270
    @misbahhina1270 3 месяца назад

    Very informative allamduillha 😊😊😊

  • @zikranaeem8416
    @zikranaeem8416 3 месяца назад

    Very beneficial ❤

  • @nadiairfansohail2813
    @nadiairfansohail2813 Месяц назад

    Saimaazam g nay swal pucha mera b yhi hai plzzz reply krain

  • @ReshmaThupsee
    @ReshmaThupsee 3 месяца назад

    Nice info sis jazakallah khair

  • @jalaljalal7006
    @jalaljalal7006 3 месяца назад

    Aap k motivational vdo s are super

  • @asmafazalgoodmemoriesvlog4918
    @asmafazalgoodmemoriesvlog4918 3 месяца назад

    U r go great personality Aapi ❣️

  • @saweraubaid3468
    @saweraubaid3468 Месяц назад

    BILKUL SUCHI BATEN KI
    MAI BHI ESY HI RHTI HUN
    DOST KAM DUSHMAN ZADA H QK MUNAFIQ NHI HU SUCHI BAT MU P KHTI HU
    OR KHUD MAI KHUSH RHNA SEKHI HU BHT KRLIA LOG KBHI KHUSH NHI HOGY KTNA B KRLEN

  • @lilyvlogs214
    @lilyvlogs214 3 месяца назад

    Thanks

  • @ItsMe-gq3pm
    @ItsMe-gq3pm 3 месяца назад

    Kindly plz signl girls k life sai related bhi bata diya kary..
    Over thinking bhut karti hu mai kuch zikat azkar bhi bata dai ta k e over thinking khatam hojaii plzzzzz

  • @Nasir-pt3dd
    @Nasir-pt3dd 3 месяца назад

    Thankyou dear

  • @ranagul144
    @ranagul144 2 месяца назад

    Nice sister.