Aslamu alaikum wrwb Mam, ap husband ,wife k relation pe itni ehm baten sikhati hain ke jo kabi nhi suni hotin. Lekin wo khushi o sakoon ke liey lazm hain. Masha Allah you are very strong and mature lady. Meri dua h Allah ap ki r ap ki family ki hifazat karen. Nazr e bad se bchaen. Sdaa khush aur abaad rahen.
Bilkul sahi kaha. sb sy pehlay ye sochen k ap is bat ka end kia chahtay hain. Usi k according step uthaen. Agar ap chorna ni chahti to then deal accordingly
Assalawalekum from India' bahaut sahi advice diya aapne because aise advice bahaut kam log dete hai watching u for the first time really liked it I am 6o now allah bless you
Unko realise ho gya k unhone ne kitna galat kiya....ab mujhe khud bolte hai k main kitna galat tha....12 sal ki shadi main aisa pehli bar hua tha.... isliye muje b digest nhi ho rha tha.....Allah ka shukr hai k unhe apni galti ka ehsaas ho gya
Assalamualaikum mam!!!!mam ye topic muje bohat relate karta hai...2-3 mahine pehle mere sath b aisa hi hua tha....and jab muje pata laga to gussa to bohat aaya jagda b kiya maine apne husband se ....but inside the bedroom.....kisi ko ni bataya maine sirf apni ek dost ko bataya .....muje laga k main logo ki gossip ka topic bn jaugi and hamara relation khrab hoga ....
M b asi hi situation face kr rahe hon.bt m khamoshi sy sb ignor kr deti hon bachoun ki khatir..apki bat api belkul true h..husbnd chup krny vali wife sy sherminda hoty hain..Allah p bahrosa sb sy bari power hoti h.plz all womens .ap hamesha strong rahye plz.chay anadr sy ap toty huy hon..thanks a lot api for this veloge..salloute h apko..apki batin strong bna deti hain.keep it up.Allah pak apko seht o salamti ata kry.ameen.
Yes your point is very well 👍.... Never share your thoughts of worries and sorrows to anyone accept Allah Almighty...just talk to him say everything to him only Allah that's it...
Hi erum. Nice way of explaining things. But I have a question. So my MIL went thru the exact same thing which you have described. But she stayed strong and put and held her ground. She stayed and worked thru the toxic marriage for her five kids (3 boys 2 girls). But instead this let to over possessiveness of the children. She can’t stand us DIL ki marzi chaley ya kuch. Baki you can imagine. No doubt the way you mentioned and the way my MIL seems correct. But from what I saw it affected badly when the children got married as it somehow made the MIL feel less important to her children once their spouses arrived.
Very serious topic but know one elders will talk to youngesters abt this always the ladies have to adjust ..... In all situations. If a wife makes a just friend if her comes to in next movement she will b out of her house only 😢
Yes truly said don't spoil ur children future for the sake of that stupid third person it's just seems to be like a fake gud topic to discuss & gud suggestion unfortunately u also suffered but I m still here for my daughter
Hello dear Shaadi k apkay jo b events ki rasmain hain ..hamaray b same aisay he hotay hain...bht acha laga dekh k ...i am from quetta too but meri family karachi sai hai...stay happy dear
I rarely comment on any video but i recently found ur channel and i saw alot of ur videos,i have been married for 2 years i dont have mother who can guide me about these stuff i lost her when i was 3,i suffer alot in my married life and i used to tell everyone but now i have learn alot from ur videos i dont share my life with anyone and it became more peaceful now thanku so much keep making more videos like this it really helps❤
Or ma to ab daily subo ready hua bgair room Sy bahir nhi niklti JB Sy ap k vlog dekh rhi hnn .....but Kisi din agr jldi me hnn or ready hua bgr bahir Jany lgu to mirror me dekhty hua mje apka ye dialogue yad aa jata "sar jhaar mun phaar"😂😂😂
Asalam o alaikum Mam I m mentally sick person and I m working women. Mujhy lgta hy k mere waja sy ghar ka mahool kharab ho raha hy to my chahte hu k mery husband 2sre shade kr ly q k mujhy apny halat pata hy k mere tabyat ka kuch bhe pata nhe chlta hy. Aap ke kya advise hy??
Hello dear pls make volg on body shamming ...specially on short height ...I am very upset because of my short height my height is 4.11......everyone said to me your height is short....
Me apny husband k affairs 20 saal se jheel rai hn or har doosre saal wo meri hi behnon k sath maan k sath bayen krty hue pakrdy jaty hen bahr to muje jana allow ni h to bahir pata ni kea kea krty hon gy.or wo is bat pe zara 0% b sharminda ni hen or na hi unhen meri koi qadar h or men ne ye bat aj tak kisi ko btai b ni thi or men un se 15 sal choti b hn or pardhi likhi b hn jab k wo sirf 4thy pas hen ...jab kisi bat ki demand krti hn to naraz ho k kai kai din ghr ni aty ...muje btaen men kitna suffur krn or muje allah pak kab phal de ga is ka
Irum plz male video on how to deql with student as a teacher aur teaxher tyyar hon aur kese sb se bt krein plzzxz😢😢 Mene 3 montHs se Apse request krrhi hon
Assalamualaikum sisiter mene wahi Kiya tha 10 years se Jo apne apni vedio me btaya BT ab 10 years ke baad mene apne Ghar apni saas aur Nando ko btaya fir bhi mere husband aur zyada ye sab krne lge mere bachche nhi hai na hi sasural Walo na husband bachcho ko khwaish h na hi sasural Wale qadar hai na husband mene sasural me bht takleef uthayi ki shayad ye log sudhar Jaye BT wo nhi sudhre ab mene apna galbleder ka operation kraya h apne father ke Ghar na hi mujhe koi dekhne aya na koi call ki husband bhi us din aye jis din option tha koi care nhi koi humdardi aap btaye me kya kru bht thak chuki hu me is rishte ko nibhate nibhate plz advice me
AOA.sister ap nay sub tyk Bola but Koch mard kabi ni change hoty .Mary husband dubhai may hoty .13 sal ho gay 2 shadi ke ha may Pakistan hu bachy pas ha Mary boht zada pershan time dakha bacho KO kabi Chor Kay Janny Ka ni socha .mujy itni saza Mili gar pasy ni bajy os nay 6 sal ...bachy ab university ha Mary Kam bi karty ha to gar chal Raha ..gar rant pay ha Mera.. Allah Ka shukar ha bacho sth Khush hu may ..but husband AJ bi ni badla Koch log kabi ni Chang na gilti feel karty ..reply lazmi Kery ga ..mujy kis bat ke saza Mili .😂
Kabhi Kisi ne aise nhi smjhaya...thanku soo much bht bht zaroori hai tha ye topic...hats off
Aslamu alaikum wrwb Mam, ap husband ,wife k relation pe itni ehm baten sikhati hain ke jo kabi nhi suni hotin.
Lekin wo khushi o sakoon ke liey lazm hain.
Masha Allah you are very strong and mature lady.
Meri dua h Allah ap ki r ap ki family ki hifazat karen.
Nazr e bad se bchaen.
Sdaa khush aur abaad rahen.
Exactly no one is sincere ,only ur husband ur kids are important rather than any other relationship❤❤❤❤so be patient
A.s.a I geniuenly don't comment but you really deserves thumbs up .
Bilkul sahi kaha. sb sy pehlay ye sochen k ap is bat ka end kia chahtay hain. Usi k according step uthaen. Agar ap chorna ni chahti to then deal accordingly
Same situation I'm facing badly but I think aese husband k sth survive krna mushkil hai.
Very good advice for our lovely ladies and also for beloved mothers ❤you are such a wonderful person stay blessed always 🤲💞💐👌
Assalawalekum from India' bahaut sahi advice diya aapne because aise advice bahaut kam log dete hai watching u for the first time really liked it I am 6o now allah bless you
W salam. I'm honoured dear 🩶
Unko realise ho gya k unhone ne kitna galat kiya....ab mujhe khud bolte hai k main kitna galat tha....12 sal ki shadi main aisa pehli bar hua tha.... isliye muje b digest nhi ho rha tha.....Allah ka shukr hai k unhe apni galti ka ehsaas ho gya
Assalamualaikum mam!!!!mam ye topic muje bohat relate karta hai...2-3 mahine pehle mere sath b aisa hi hua tha....and jab muje pata laga to gussa to bohat aaya jagda b kiya maine apne husband se ....but inside the bedroom.....kisi ko ni bataya maine sirf apni ek dost ko bataya .....muje laga k main logo ki gossip ka topic bn jaugi and hamara relation khrab hoga ....
Iram g main to apki awaz sun k he fresh ho jati hn..Masha Allah apki awaz apki batn...❤❤❤
Hello di bahut sahi tareke se aapne samjhaya di I agree with u ❤😊❤
Asalam o alaikum dear ❤
Just well said each single word thank you so much for spreading positivity and awareness regarding such sensitive issue❤
My pleasure 😊
Bilkul theek kaha apne husband ki koi bi fault kisi ko nahi batana chahiye
Bht achi advice di hai ap ne ladies ko.
but how left out one feels. that being sincere to ur husband and in return he is giving you his affairs with other women
Yes this is the right way to advice some one
Bilkul sai kaha ap ny q k jis insan k sth rahna usko 2ry k samny discuss kr k apna khud tamashai bno gy ignore krna chahiye buht sari bto ko
Very matured and good advice.surely family is the foremost important one.
Thx
200% true you have good gifted mind
You are 💯 percent right. For the sake of our children we have to digest the dilemma and just focus on your self development
Thx
M b asi hi situation face kr rahe hon.bt m khamoshi sy sb ignor kr deti hon bachoun ki khatir..apki bat api belkul true h..husbnd chup krny vali wife sy sherminda hoty hain..Allah p bahrosa sb sy bari power hoti h.plz all womens .ap hamesha strong rahye plz.chay anadr sy ap toty huy hon..thanks a lot api for this veloge..salloute h apko..apki batin strong bna deti hain.keep it up.Allah pak apko seht o salamti ata kry.ameen.
Mera sath ye ho chuka ha mje koi samjana wala nhi ta es Lia me na bhat galti ki kash ye advice mje pehla mili hoti
Assalmulakum dear! Allah pr Tawaqal is Super power to Our lifeline!! Nice vlog ❤
Jazakallah
Ap apni jeweelary aur clothing collection pr b videos bnaye
Irum ji iam from Bangladesh, i wach your video sach batau bohot peace milty hai love you ap ik gurdian ki taraha ho❤❤
U r great nd sincere lady
Zabrdast shearing sister❤
Salam sis Allah pak apko hemisha kush raky i like u because ap Bht achi ho ap ek teacher ho hamry ly mainy Bht kch apsy seeka hai
I'm honoured dear 🩶
Yes your point is very well 👍.... Never share your thoughts of worries and sorrows to anyone accept Allah Almighty...just talk to him say everything to him only Allah that's it...
100% sahi maa sirf apne bachon k lie sari zalalat bardast karti hai 😢
Allah sabar karne walo ke sath hota he hamesha
Mashallah bohttttttttttt achay way mai explain karti hai her topic❤
App Multi grain 🌾 flour use karyn mery baba diabetic hain ..woh multi 🌾 flour use karty
Hi erum. Nice way of explaining things. But I have a question. So my MIL went thru the exact same thing which you have described. But she stayed strong and put and held her ground. She stayed and worked thru the toxic marriage for her five kids (3 boys 2 girls).
But instead this let to over possessiveness of the children. She can’t stand us DIL ki marzi chaley ya kuch. Baki you can imagine.
No doubt the way you mentioned and the way my MIL seems correct. But from what I saw it affected badly when the children got married as it somehow made the MIL feel less important to her children once their spouses arrived.
Bahot hi badhiya vdo he ❤❤
Bst vlog always be a strong woman ❤
Excellent vlog....... honest thoughts
Assalam O Alaikum dear sister may Allah bless you and your family
Thank you so much
Erum singal girls also watching u.Hamesha u r foucs married woman.volugs achy hoty Hain.❤❤
Brilliant advice
Very serious topic but know one elders will talk to youngesters abt this always the ladies have to adjust ..... In all situations. If a wife makes a just friend if her comes to in next movement she will b out of her house only 😢
Brown bread healthy hoti hai khas kar ham jasi woman k liy mai bhi brwon bread khati hn
Mashallah good job
Your video Watch every time very nice information
Thank you so much 😊
Hi... Very nice vlog..
Ap ne video me black and white with yellow dupata dress Kon se brand se liya hy??
Sana safinaz
MashaAllah such a nice advice every woman shld handle it like this❤
Thanks for liking
Great advice
AOA apii ar Jin larkyn ke 26 m divorce kr dia H husband me ak beta H wo kesy move on krnn
Yes truly said don't spoil ur children future for the sake of that stupid third person it's just seems to be like a fake gud topic to discuss & gud suggestion unfortunately u also suffered but I m still here for my daughter
Hello dear
Shaadi k apkay jo b events ki rasmain hain ..hamaray b same aisay he hotay hain...bht acha laga dekh k ...i am from quetta too but meri family karachi sai hai...stay happy dear
Thnkw for today message 😊😊
I am from Delhi ur regular viewer like ur videos alot ur videos give us motivational ❤❤
Assalam u alaikum ji.plz make video on narcissistic behaviour s.thanks
Asslam o alaikum ap jo tawa use kr ri hai wo konsa ha?
You are too wise,,,
you are right 💯
I rarely comment on any video but i recently found ur channel and i saw alot of ur videos,i have been married for 2 years i dont have mother who can guide me about these stuff i lost her when i was 3,i suffer alot in my married life and i used to tell everyone but now i have learn alot from ur videos i dont share my life with anyone and it became more peaceful now thanku so much keep making more videos like this it really helps❤
Don't worry dear . Allah hai . And just remember me n my kids in Ur prayers
some men r shameless ..they keep on talking to women despite knowing their wife is not liking this thing
Asalam o alakum! I love your sentence SAR CHAAR MOO PHAR 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Allah bless you and your family Ameen Summa Ameen ❤
Hehe
Or ma to ab daily subo ready hua bgair room Sy bahir nhi niklti JB Sy ap k vlog dekh rhi hnn .....but Kisi din agr jldi me hnn or ready hua bgr bahir Jany lgu to mirror me dekhty hua mje apka ye dialogue yad aa jata "sar jhaar mun phaar"😂😂😂
@@rabiyauzair6872 Irum is right. We must look after ourself.
You are always right mam
Api Great advise
Many many thanks
Best word 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💯💯
Asalam o alaikum
Mam I m mentally sick person and I m working women.
Mujhy lgta hy k mere waja sy ghar ka mahool kharab ho raha hy to my chahte hu k mery husband 2sre shade kr ly q k mujhy apny halat pata hy k mere tabyat ka kuch bhe pata nhe chlta hy. Aap ke kya advise hy??
Apna treatment karwaye i think ya solution ha
Hum orton ko bs ye dar hota hy k ye second marriage na kr lain es liye hum dar k jaldi jaldi main sb ko bta dyty hain sb Kuch 💯
Alot of love for u and ur vlogs
Well Said👍
Good topic dear
You’re right
Really aap bohat acche ho mam.....love from india❤
Love u more
Thank u sister aapny bahot acha vlog bnaya
Jazakallah dear
Mny hi aapko 1 week pehly husband sy tang aa kr reacted video ka kha tha or thank uk aapny bbahot acha vlog bnaya
Best lesson❤
Assalamu alaikum. First comment. Love you so much❤
🎉
Aap bataiye mai kahan se hun?
Hello dear pls make volg on body shamming ...specially on short height ...I am very upset because of my short height my height is 4.11......everyone said to me your height is short....
Sure 😊
Good advice dii thanks 😊😊
Maa sha Allah zbardst❤❤
Me apny husband k affairs 20 saal se jheel rai hn or har doosre saal wo meri hi behnon k sath maan k sath bayen krty hue pakrdy jaty hen bahr to muje jana allow ni h to bahir pata ni kea kea krty hon gy.or wo is bat pe zara 0% b sharminda ni hen or na hi unhen meri koi qadar h or men ne ye bat aj tak kisi ko btai b ni thi or men un se 15 sal choti b hn or pardhi likhi b hn jab k wo sirf 4thy pas hen ...jab kisi bat ki demand krti hn to naraz ho k kai kai din ghr ni aty ...muje btaen men kitna suffur krn or muje allah pak kab phal de ga is ka
stay blessed.
Bohtt bra msla or boht achy sy isko takcl krny ka btaya v nice
Apki chanal b abi sy strt kiya hai dekna but i really love you
Jazakallah
Reality of life.... 👍
i agree with you💯
Plzz make a video jo husband apne bivi k liye stand laete always choose family against wife
Arrange marriage main esa hota ha aksar
Good and impressive vlog
Very well said
Love ur vlogs😊
Love u sis😘for beautiful advice
Assalamualaikum me upper Dir se ap ko sms kr rahi hun Lakin ap jawab hi nh deti
Ap konsay pathan hain, What caste? i am pashtoon too, I really like it when i hear you speak pashto
Great ❤❤❤❤
Zabrdast advice
Nice vlog, could u advice a wife whose husband is having multiple affairs ...around 7 at a time...
Irum plz male video on how to deql with student as a teacher aur teaxher tyyar hon aur kese sb se bt krein plzzxz😢😢 Mene 3 montHs se Apse request krrhi hon
Ager apke student ki age 7 say 15 k beach ha tuh strict teacher bano
Male boys is age main sexulize karte female teacher ko
Yes esay rshtay khush hojatay hen,kbe b apna ghr nh chorna,sabar k sath bethna chahye,
True
Bohat zabrdst bat ki
Very sensitive advice,God Bless You❤❤
Bilkul sister a sub main ne hud deka hain..app ne sub sach kaha hain
Assalamualaikum sisiter mene wahi Kiya tha 10 years se Jo apne apni vedio me btaya BT ab 10 years ke baad mene apne Ghar apni saas aur Nando ko btaya fir bhi mere husband aur zyada ye sab krne lge mere bachche nhi hai na hi sasural Walo na husband bachcho ko khwaish h na hi sasural Wale qadar hai na husband mene sasural me bht takleef uthayi ki shayad ye log sudhar Jaye BT wo nhi sudhre ab mene apna galbleder ka operation kraya h apne father ke Ghar na hi mujhe koi dekhne aya na koi call ki husband bhi us din aye jis din option tha koi care nhi koi humdardi aap btaye me kya kru bht thak chuki hu me is rishte ko nibhate nibhate plz advice me
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Same case with me
AOA.sister ap nay sub tyk Bola but Koch mard kabi ni change hoty .Mary husband dubhai may hoty .13 sal ho gay 2 shadi ke ha may Pakistan hu bachy pas ha Mary boht zada pershan time dakha bacho KO kabi Chor Kay Janny Ka ni socha .mujy itni saza Mili gar pasy ni bajy os nay 6 sal ...bachy ab university ha Mary Kam bi karty ha to gar chal Raha ..gar rant pay ha Mera.. Allah Ka shukar ha bacho sth Khush hu may ..but husband AJ bi ni badla Koch log kabi ni Chang na gilti feel karty ..reply lazmi Kery ga ..mujy kis bat ke saza Mili .😂
Right n agreed
Irum main app sy milna chati hon