U r 100%right... meri shadi ko 14 saal ho gy hain shuru k 9 saal mein ne esy hi waste kiy.. peechy peechy .. but phir mein ne apny ap ko change kr lia bcho pe focus kr lia apni hobby ko apna profession bna lia mein ne fashion desighning ki hui thi yaha Uk aa k mein ne dress making shiri kr di .. ab believe kren 5 daal se ye roteen hai k husband mere peechy peechy an bhaagty hain k time nai deti tm ab.. but ab mere dil mein un ki wo jaga nai ab mein ne apny ap ko piorty mein rakha hai phir bcho ko phir is k baad hubby ko.. esa hi hota hai mera personal experience hai k apny ap ko mat giraen kisi k samny apni ehmiyat ko jaanen ..
Ma is waqt bohot takleef ma hun , apka comment dekh k ise nasehat samajh k faida lungi , but kya mard apko shaadi k day 1 se ignore karay , zaleel karay , kya meray bachy kush baray hongy ? Chahy ma koshish krlun. Husband to theik nae hoga , dil bhi toot jata hai insan ka
U r very right ...I got lot of manipulation and mental abuse in my marriage...After that slowly and steadily I used to detach with him.I feel when I go close to him I get hurt ..so I ignored him and focused on my kids Alhumdulillah they r gifted and have brilliant minds I really enjoy their company ...plus I have my job I took good care of me and my house...He feels so lonely now..and tries to talk with me occasionally..😂He often feels something is off ...I clearly communicate what I want and what not in relationship...he has changed a lot in 10 yrs from a manipulative partner to a caring one..😅
Same I'm facing from day 1 of marriage but now it's 6 years to be completed, 3 little kids , n I'm heart broken trying to run n constantly trying to make the relationship right , now people suggest me to focus on my kids n ignore him , because it's that time of my life not to leave this marriage , I wish ma ap se eik eik cheez detail ma pooch sakti shayad ma bhi usab se guzr rae hun jise ap guzri hongi
Asslamuallikum very good to see back to back two vlogs in a day I feel very lucky to be your subscriber aap yakeen karenge k ma aapne family k baad namaz ma aap k lya dua krte houn aap hamesha khush rahin aur hamaare saath rahin
My mother in law has always ruled over my married life ..after 3 kids n now after 14 yrs she has kept father in law with us so that he can convey all our matters . .poori jaasoosi..😇 I get so tired but now kids growing Alhamdulillah so hoping for a change . I keep busy n started caring for myself ..at 45 yes pushing my hubby to make me go out n work .I refused .I said this time is my time ..when it was my prime time to go out n live n do job they didnt allow me . Made me work like a bloody servant..abb buss hogai
Thank u so much Erum for sharing this video.This problem is v common.I dont know what husbands think about themselves.Its no use of begging them.Plz Share more tips n tricks of handling these kind of people around us.Hope for the best from u.Looking forward for these type of more videos.Stay blessed Dear 💖😊 ❤❤❤. I also live separate in my fathers house with my 3 children from 6 years but their father doesn't ask them to come n live with him.Then what to do with this kind of person plz tell
Asalam o alekum ap books parhti hn kuch achi books k reviews b dyn jis se hame daily home chorse krne me help ho motivation mily life changer books ho i hope apko maloom hen kindly plz is pr b pori video bnayn
Assalamu alaikum je mera naam shaista hai aur mein mein india se hun apne bikul sahi kha ha jab humri koi value nhi hum kyu izzat du aur mere saat aisa horaha hai jab shohar ko baat karni hoti hai wo khud aate jabardasti baat karne nhi jati han koi cheez ki zarurat hoti hai toa baata di hun apna waqt apne bacho ko deti bhut khushi milti hi alhamdulillah.,...,
Assalam o Aleykum 🌿 well said khud hi apni izat banai parti hai koi nahi karta warna or husband's ko to 24/7 ki maid chaye chaye thek ho ya bimar dil chaye ya na chaye.
Assalamualaikum! Baji you are telling absolutely right. My childrens also are not friendly with me. They listen to my husband but they don't listen to me,no one understands me accept Allah so please tell me how should I stay with them.
Salaam mam,,,Jo kuch apne kaha us ki leye bahut hosley ki zarorat hy,,,Q ki ye rashta ALLAH ne essa banaya hy,,,hamarey zinadagi ma sirf yahi ek mard hota hy,,,,or bache,,,ma baap koi bhi en ki jaga nahi le sakta,,,,or agr yahi mard beve ko ignore kare to bahut takleef hoti hy,,,,
Dear let me tell you one thing with the passage of time you were you realise that okay fine if the other person is not putting any effort so I should stop trying and I should concentrate on myself and on my kids so sooner or later the person will do this
Mam plz apko phly b kafi dfa mny request ki hy video bnany ki un logon k liye jin k han koi Autistic child hy aam log to apni routines bn jati hn but hm kesy manage karyn plz
My parents dont give me importance, dont care at all.. Im jobless.. I try to focus on myself now.. Wasted a lot of time thinking abt them doin for them, when they don't need me and value it.. So i hve stopped expecting, accepted the reality☺
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U r 100%right... meri shadi ko 14 saal ho gy hain shuru k 9 saal mein ne esy hi waste kiy.. peechy peechy .. but phir mein ne apny ap ko change kr lia bcho pe focus kr lia apni hobby ko apna profession bna lia mein ne fashion desighning ki hui thi yaha Uk aa k mein ne dress making shiri kr di .. ab believe kren 5 daal se ye roteen hai k husband mere peechy peechy an bhaagty hain k time nai deti tm ab.. but ab mere dil mein un ki wo jaga nai ab mein ne apny ap ko piorty mein rakha hai phir bcho ko phir is k baad hubby ko.. esa hi hota hai mera personal experience hai k apny ap ko mat giraen kisi k samny apni ehmiyat ko jaanen ..
Ma is waqt bohot takleef ma hun , apka comment dekh k ise nasehat samajh k faida lungi , but kya mard apko shaadi k day 1 se ignore karay , zaleel karay , kya meray bachy kush baray hongy ? Chahy ma koshish krlun. Husband to theik nae hoga , dil bhi toot jata hai insan ka
"My husband takes very good care of me and gives me a lot of respect. He also tells me to take extra care of myself. I'm grateful."
Mashallah! I'm so happy to hear that, that's amazing.
Masha Allah u r so lucky ❤
Mashallah
Anaa , ego... Hoti.he
Ek saal se ap ke vilog dekh rahi hun boht confident mila ab her kisi ko face karjati hun
Agreee
Your words work as a therapy and you are an unannounced therapist for all of us
Keep it up
You are enlightening so many people
Aww I am honoured dear
Buht hi acha topic pe bt ki apny ....ye esi tkleef hy ju koi dusra ni janskta k orat kis aziyt se guzr rhi hy grate vlog
Thankyou sooooooo much! I agree 100%. Buhat achi aur thek nasihatein ki hain ap ne ❤
Thanks alot erum This vlog will give a power to those women who suffer this situation and never share to others
I’m so honoured dear that I’m helping a lot of women and I’m always in a favour of woman power
U r very right ...I got lot of manipulation and mental abuse in my marriage...After that slowly and steadily I used to detach with him.I feel when I go close to him I get hurt ..so I ignored him and focused on my kids Alhumdulillah they r gifted and have brilliant minds I really enjoy their company ...plus I have my job I took good care of me and my house...He feels so lonely now..and tries to talk with me occasionally..😂He often feels something is off ...I clearly communicate what I want and what not in relationship...he has changed a lot in 10 yrs from a manipulative partner to a caring one..😅
I think sbi husband aesy hi karty hain jitna ziyda hm inka krti hain wo hamy hurt krty hain
Hy. I also get hurt when ever I talk to my husband.. . And feels regret k baat ki hi kion inka calibar hi low ha.
Same I'm facing from day 1 of marriage but now it's 6 years to be completed, 3 little kids , n I'm heart broken trying to run n constantly trying to make the relationship right , now people suggest me to focus on my kids n ignore him , because it's that time of my life not to leave this marriage , I wish ma ap se eik eik cheez detail ma pooch sakti shayad ma bhi usab se guzr rae hun jise ap guzri hongi
Asslamuallikum very good to see back to back two vlogs in a day I feel very lucky to be your subscriber aap yakeen karenge k ma aapne family k baad namaz ma aap k lya dua krte houn aap hamesha khush rahin aur hamaare saath rahin
It's true same here
Erum api ap bht smjhdaar Lady hein mashallah Allah pak apko hmesha khush rkhay Ameen Sumameen ❤️
Thank you so much!
Wah wah.... Super ...... Best advise..... Dil khush ho gya.... Kitni ache bat keeee
YOU ARE MY BIGGEST MOTIVATION. MAY ALLAH PAK KEEP YOU HEALTHY AND FULFILL YOUR LIFE WITH HAPPINESS.
Thank you so much dear. May Allah bless you too 🙏.
JazakAllah dear for such a very good advises and right line of life❤😊
Ys u r right .....i will also try todo all your points..... points about improving myself in studies n job ..... insha'Allah ❤
I hope you found the video helpful!
Aap ki video's s bahut hausla milta hai Appi
Apko sunana hamesha achha lagta h ur words work as magic ❤ keep up d good work 👍
Thank you so much dear 😊
My mother in law has always ruled over my married life ..after 3 kids n now after 14 yrs she has kept father in law with us so that he can convey all our matters . .poori jaasoosi..😇 I get so tired but now kids growing Alhamdulillah so hoping for a change . I keep busy n started caring for myself ..at 45 yes pushing my hubby to make me go out n work .I refused .I said this time is my time ..when it was my prime time to go out n live n do job they didnt allow me . Made me work like a bloody servant..abb buss hogai
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ap k vlog bohut informative hoty hn
Bhuht acha vilog as usual but me late aae hon q k bhuht busy the,but dear sister ap k lia time zroor nikalty hon,u r my inspiration,i always say🥰💝
Erum u r such a brilliant lady love to hear you everydat❤
Thank you so much, dear
Bilkul sahi bzy rkho ! Yaahi haalaat hain 30 saal maried life k...
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Waoooo beautiful vlog AJ to mari Eid hogai ap ka vlog morning ma hi agaya yessss AJ mara sara din bht acha guzry ga apki awaz morning ma sunli
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Mashallah bht achi baten btain ki ap ne Allah apko khush rakhy ameen❤
Aslam o alikum api bht bht zabardast h vlog apka
You are really blessing for us❤❤❤
i strongly agreed with u dear ❤😅
Aslam u alikum irum how r u thanku much needed video jazakallah khair❤
Thank you so much dear 😊
I m a big fan of u and I learnt so much from u
ap bohat achy topics py baat krti hyn nice lady❤
Mein apki tips follow kartiu allah apko khush rakhe sehet se rakhe ameen❤
Excellent topic ❤
Good advice ❤ impressive
Glad you think so!
Very good topic ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank u so much Erum for sharing this video.This problem is v common.I dont know what husbands think about themselves.Its no use of begging them.Plz Share more tips n tricks of handling these kind of people around us.Hope for the best from u.Looking forward for these type of more videos.Stay blessed Dear 💖😊 ❤❤❤. I also live separate in my fathers house with my 3 children from 6 years but their father doesn't ask them to come n live with him.Then what to do with this kind of person plz tell
Dear it's a common problem and I will try to give you more tips on how to deal with such people in my future videos InshaAllah
@@herfablife Thanks a lot Sister 🙏💓
Dear bilkul theek bola hy aapny.
Belkul shi batay bole apnay .thx de etna motivate kernay k leay❤❤❤
Assalamu alekum me aapke video dekhti hoon bohot acche hote h
Thank you so much!
Ap k vlog ka boht wait krti hon
Thank you so much!
Mashallah nice information for married girls.
I’m glad you found it helpful 😊
Jazakalla
Aslam o alaikum main abi AP k bare men soch rhi thi or AP ka vlog a gia ❤
Thank you so much!
As always great vlog ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
U vlog is good Mash Allah 🎉❤u Idias My Idias Allah Tallah khushyain Sahat taraqee day Ameen Summa Ameen 🎉❤
Aameen
Allah pak bless you and your family dear sister assalam O alaikum
Wa alaikum assalam. Jazakallah
Bht achi baat khi ha apny
Aoa iram hope u are doing good!plz share soup recipe..
I will share a soup recipe in one of my upcoming videos InshaAllah
Asalam o alekum ap books parhti hn kuch achi books k reviews b dyn jis se hame daily home chorse krne me help ho motivation mily life changer books ho i hope apko maloom hen kindly plz is pr b pori video bnayn
Nyc sharing ❤❤😊
Soft touch ka jo product dikha ri thi uska b review dyn is ne fragnance he ya nhi?
Love u irum zabrdast maza ajata daikh kr
Thank you so much dear 😊
Assalamu alaikum.pls soup recipe share kare
Meray husband b bhot achay hn Masha Allah ❤
Amazing tips
Perfect suggestion
I'm glad you found it helpful 😊
Great video
Thanks!
Assalamu alaikum je mera naam shaista hai aur mein mein india se hun apne bikul sahi kha ha jab humri koi value nhi hum kyu izzat du aur mere saat aisa horaha hai jab shohar ko baat karni hoti hai wo khud aate jabardasti baat karne nhi jati han koi cheez ki zarurat hoti hai toa baata di hun apna waqt apne bacho ko deti bhut khushi milti hi alhamdulillah.,...,
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Assalam o Aleykum 🌿 well said khud hi apni izat banai parti hai koi nahi karta warna or husband's ko to 24/7 ki maid chaye chaye thek ho ya bimar dil chaye ya na chaye.
Bohot khoob 😊
Thank you so much!
Thanks for this video
I hope you found it helpful 😊
Nice ❤
Motivational vdo
Assalamualaikum! Baji you are telling absolutely right. My childrens also are not friendly with me. They listen to my husband but they don't listen to me,no one understands me accept Allah so please tell me how should I stay with them.
It's so important to remember you are loved and cherished by Allah
Very nice vlog osm❤
Thank you so much!
Aoa sis please weekly food menu py vlog bana dy plz
sure
Right dear
V well said ❤
😢😊 really nice really very nice your word
I'm glad you found it helpful 😊
1st comment and like 👍💗
Thank you so much!
Offf itna sach ❤❤❤❤❤
Allhamdulilah ❤
I hope you found it helpful 😊
Very nice dear❤️( India)👍
Luv frm India ❤
Salaam mam,,,Jo kuch apne kaha us ki leye bahut hosley ki zarorat hy,,,Q ki ye rashta ALLAH ne essa banaya hy,,,hamarey zinadagi ma sirf yahi ek mard hota hy,,,,or bache,,,ma baap koi bhi en ki jaga nahi le sakta,,,,or agr yahi mard beve ko ignore kare to bahut takleef hoti hy,,,,
Dear let me tell you one thing with the passage of time you were you realise that okay fine if the other person is not putting any effort so I should stop trying and I should concentrate on myself and on my kids so sooner or later the person will do this
@@herfablife yes, Allah ke waaste kaam karein, lekin Apne aap mein (aur bachon ke saath) kush rahein. Chahe to Dua bhi kijiye jo dil chahta
@@herfablife mam can I talk with you not on social media
Right sis
Perfect
Nyc information ❤
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much!
Please pray for my brother, unka ghar tootne se bach jaye. Allah kare mere bhai ko unke bachche mil jayein.
Aameen
Ameen
Erum u r doing excellent job my name is nausheen
Mam plz apko phly b kafi dfa mny request ki hy video bnany ki un logon k liye jin k han koi Autistic child hy aam log to apni routines bn jati hn but hm kesy manage karyn plz
Sure
Very nice sharing
I hope it gives some insight!
Zabrdast...Ur way of teaching tactics awesomeness 😅
Please make a video on class management
V impressive
Irum aapi you are so cute ❤ love from India
Thank you for your love from India ❤
My parents dont give me importance, dont care at all.. Im jobless.. I try to focus on myself now.. Wasted a lot of time thinking abt them doin for them, when they don't need me and value it.. So i hve stopped expecting, accepted the reality☺
Only tc of your health
Khud ko grow kreim❤❤
Api apky masala box plastic ky hn ya sheeshy ky
Plastic
Ap ne apny new suit sana safinaz k stich krwa ley hn to plz dikha den
Always waiting for your vedio❤
Thank you so much!
Nice vlog plz make vpogs on women over forty
Sahi baat hai Mai bi Eslia job nai Karti merea husband Jo Ghar ka soada Lea kar aatea hai wo bi nai lanea
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Pls give bracelet with maroon stones link and price pks
It’s from Swarovski n it was a gift from US . Don’t have link dear
Thks❤
dear Kash ye sab kuch 16 saal pehly me sunti
Very nice velog osm 💕
Thank you so much!
Khush rehy api dua me yad rakha kre 😘
Good morning dear
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Good morning! 😊
Good vlog
I'm glad you found it helpful 😊
Assalamualaikum ma'am ajkal sach m yehi topic chal rha hai mery mind m apko kaisy pta chla😢😢😢😢😢😢
Allah is there he makers connections
@@herfablife beshak🤗
Same thing
Aap ki soanch mai mejia khud ki jalak nazar aati hai ❤❤❤❤❤
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