11 HARSH TRUTHS - Parenting & Joint Family System... What to Do?

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @ammyzrajput4586
    @ammyzrajput4586 Месяц назад +9

    Ye sb baatyn smjhna bht zruri tha bilkhasoos joint family members k lie meny bhi ye sb experience kia hy aur joint family me rehty huy apny bachy k sath strong bonding bnaye hy bila shuba ek bht bara dil chahie hota hy joint family system me rehty huy aur khamoshi is the key to success ❤

  • @noorayisha4703
    @noorayisha4703 29 дней назад +5

    Plz make a video about house wife dress sense and self care in joint family plzzzzzzzz

  • @Zohra_9150
    @Zohra_9150 Месяц назад +3

    Thanks for this video ❤ much needed....nest month going to stay with joint family susral😅 with kids
    After living abroad 😊
    Much needed

  • @farhatkalsoom896
    @farhatkalsoom896 21 день назад

    Jazaaki Allah kheran kaseera
    Allah ap se raazi ho jaey
    Duniya aur akhrat ki bhalaiyan milen ap ko
    Bht hi mufeed points hain.

  • @shaistahabib8237
    @shaistahabib8237 Месяц назад +3

    V good vlog.i m staying with myinlaws from 21years mashallah but it is difficult also.we keep our heart very big.

  • @memonalifestyle871
    @memonalifestyle871 4 дня назад

    Very nice topic .ap ne bohat Acha explain Kia hai ..good job ❤

  • @madihacookingvlogs1512
    @madihacookingvlogs1512 29 дней назад +2

    Amazing💕😍 thnx my dear💕

  • @Zawi760
    @Zawi760 Месяц назад +6

    Very nice video ma'am as usual but aise b famies hoti ha joint k sas susar nai ha but bara jhet aur jhethani hi dosro k life k faislay krty hen ek ghar jis me sab ka ek ek room aur sab ka ek hi kitchen lkn kamaty pakaty sab alag alag hen, bacho ko bahar khelny nai Dena, etc. Faida b ha lkn nuqsan ziyada ha.... Hum buss yahi Dua krty hen k Allah un k dil me reham Daly aur sab ko apna apna hissa dy dy.... Ameen

    • @mrsimran818
      @mrsimran818 Месяц назад

      Ar Meri Family Mai mere husband bade Hain
      Par chalti mere bade Dewar ki hai
      Sab ki life Mai interfere krna
      Pareshan kr k rakha hua hai
      Ar apni wife ko Galt krne pe bhi Kuch na kehna

  • @atiaraja8236
    @atiaraja8236 23 дня назад

    Very good video,really appreciate your point of view

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  22 дня назад

      I’m so glad you found the video helpful!

  • @farhatrizwan9636
    @farhatrizwan9636 Месяц назад +1

    Bht khoob api so true❤❤❤

  • @SajidaImran-qp4zv
    @SajidaImran-qp4zv Месяц назад +3

    Aoa ...kasi hain ap ??? Joint family m buht tension h ...m b joint family m rhti lakin tension buht ....joint family m same rule hon to good wrna aik ko buht protocol daina aik ko kam wali smjhna not good

  • @aamraali788
    @aamraali788 29 дней назад +2

    Joint family system bohat acha hai agar aik doosray ko space di jay aur koi bhi kisi ko dabanay ki koshish na karay agar brother in law buray character ka ho to bahoo kay liay bohat mushkil hoti hai yeh bhi hota hai agar woh kisi ko kuch batanay ki koshish karsy to bahoo ko bura bana fia jata hai aur sab us ksy perchay haath djo kar par jatay hain aur zindagi ajeetan ho jati hai bahoo aur susral walay agar posditive nature kay hoon to joint system bohat acha hai lekin hamaray religion main bhi kuch rishton say distance ka kaha gia hai

  • @sparklingrabia7626
    @sparklingrabia7626 Месяц назад +6

    But sometimes aisa hota hai like mae apni sagi phupho k ghar shadi hue hai .. lakin mere phupho ko porany grudge hain mery father se or mother se buss wo mujse apni grudges nikalti rehti hain .. or mentally torture krti hain .. dosri bahoon k sth bht achi hain lkn un k samne muje bht zaleel krti hain muje batoon batoob mae sunati hain. Ht ziada tumhre maa tou aisi thi waisi thi .. mjse batain chopana k khandan mae pata chal jaingi .. mjse chop chop k sb krna .. bus Allah hidayat de unhen or mje sbr dey Ameen

    • @sobiajamal1744
      @sobiajamal1744 29 дней назад

      But MERI SAAS Ka treeqa Ulta hai WO bro ki beti pr Jaan deti hai mri saas mujh SE nafret krti Hain Ghar Ka sara kaam main iron or bro ki beti aaram kry

    • @rohanyasir256
      @rohanyasir256 29 дней назад

      Same story MN b phopo ki bahoo hn lakin mjy lgta hai MN bot big enemy hn un ka

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 28 дней назад

      ​@@rohanyasir256aisi phupo wali story meri family meh bhi hain. grudges wali. yaha tak k puphi ne apni maa ko keh diya ta k meri bhateeji agar meri bahu bani toh is se mai ghar k har kam karwaongi. kio k us ko apny bhai k sat koi grudge tee. bataty toh hai nai toh agli nasal kya jany k pichlo ki kya grudges hain. khair maa ko itni fiqar toh hue k us ne apny bety ko phone kiya aur bataya k tumhari behn yeh keh rahi hain. Apni beti na dena in ko. poti k samny call ki bety ko. us k bad maa ka inteqal ho gaya aur beta kio k hai hi begairat us ne pir bhi apni beti apny bhanjy k sat biyany ka faisla kiya! Pir woh larki razi nai hue. us ki kush kismati tee k woh aisi puphi ki bahu nai bani. Allah har aurat ko is hi tarha himmat deh k woh begairat waldehn k khilaf bhagawat karny ka hausla rakhy. Pir us ki shadi kisi aur se hue aur ulad se bhi nawaza gaya.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 28 дней назад

      ​@@rohanyasir256aisi phupo wali story meri family meh bhi hain. grudges wali. yaha tak k puphi ne apni maa ko keh diya ta k meri bhateeji agar meri bahu bani toh is se mai ghar k har kam karwaongi. kio k us ko apny bhai k sat koi grudge tee. bataty toh hai nai toh agli nasal kya jany k pichlo ki kya grudges hain. khair maa ko itni fiqar toh hue k us ne apny bety ko phone kiya aur bataya k tumhari behn yeh keh rahi hain. Apni beti na dena in ko. poti k samny call ki bety ko. us k bad maa ka inteqal ho gaya aur beta kio k hai hi begairat us ne pir bhi apni beti apny bhanjy k sat biyany ka faisla kiya! Pir woh larki razi nai hue. us ki kush kismati tee k woh aisi puphi ki bahu nai bani. Allah har aurat ko is hi tarha himmat deh k woh begairat waldehn k khilaf bhagawat karny ka hausla rakhy. Pir us ki shadi kisi aur se hue aur ulad se bhi nawaza gaya.

    • @aky7674
      @aky7674 26 дней назад

      Allah aapko himmat dey aur sabr kernay ki toufeeq dey

  • @sanaakhtar1697
    @sanaakhtar1697 Месяц назад +2

    Kafi time sy puch ri weared watch ka ap ny btaya ni .

  • @AzraImran-h1f
    @AzraImran-h1f Месяц назад

    Very good and informative vlog ❤❤❤❤

  • @saistamalik4811
    @saistamalik4811 Месяц назад +4

    Aaj k time m sath m Laker nhi chalte ydi ghr k bade sabko sath milker chale to joint family bhut ache s chalti h ❤

  • @alizabegum9683
    @alizabegum9683 Месяц назад

    Mam aap ki voice is adourable😊

  • @RasheedaBibi-p1t
    @RasheedaBibi-p1t Месяц назад +2

    Asalam alaikum 😊bina dekhy Hamesha ke tarha like kr diya 👌🏻

  • @chghazan2932
    @chghazan2932 Месяц назад

    ap na bht khub batain khi hn joint family k baray MN MN khud 14 ,15 saal rhi hu apni dawrani k Sath

  • @kamranslifestyle1286
    @kamranslifestyle1286 Месяц назад +2

    Allah pak bless you and your family dear sister

  • @mahamfatima6840
    @mahamfatima6840 Месяц назад

    Thank you soooooooooo much MN Apko roz msg krti the is topic k liye

  • @PrabNoor-zn6je
    @PrabNoor-zn6je 29 дней назад

    Wow de mind blowing vdeo❤❤❤❤

  • @mazaandfun1721
    @mazaandfun1721 29 дней назад

    Humidifier link batayen kaha s liya????

  • @mustafasmro968
    @mustafasmro968 29 дней назад

    kia hal h dear erum allah s umeed h khosh hongi ap m ap k velogs dekhti rehti hm boht faida b hua j, or hme temu app k about kuch btaen

  • @meriummunir3524
    @meriummunir3524 Месяц назад +2

    Api ap bohat pyeri hn ma sha Allah...apse ak bat kahun ma ak choty se city se belong krti hn yaha market itne barhe ni hn but apki cheeze dehk ky un link se cheeze purchase krti hn jis se mera ghar bohat pyera r organize hy thanku so much itna acha share krne kyliye

  • @nishanishakukreja7277
    @nishanishakukreja7277 Месяц назад

    Very nice talk ❤️thanks dear from(India)🙏

  • @sumbalgul3107
    @sumbalgul3107 29 дней назад

    you are such a great women .. kabhi bhi koi showoff nai kia ap ne, hamari tarha hi ghar me rahi he ap dressings bhi very decent. Ap mujhay plz bta dain nonstick bartan greasy ho jai to kaisay clean krain? Tawa bhi Please I request mujhay bta dain lazmi.

  • @sadiaafzaal-sf9vt
    @sadiaafzaal-sf9vt Месяц назад +2

    Bilkul baron ko hi dil bra krna hota hy wo dil khula kriny gi tu bahu r un k bachy wesa hi acha kriny gy.main bi ye bat sb sy kehti hon..sass ka ghr hy wo apny ghr main bahu ko space dy gi wesa hi bahu bi kry gi

  • @zikranaeem8416
    @zikranaeem8416 Месяц назад

    Impressive ❤

  • @SadafKamran-vf1nu
    @SadafKamran-vf1nu Месяц назад +1

    Jo joint family nand or sas susar wali ho to bachon k lye mohabat Milty ha magar devrani or jethani wali joint family bachon k lye toxic Hoti ha.orat k lye bhi jithani or devrani Wala joint family toxic or compitation Wala hota ha

  • @aseerat-zaheer
    @aseerat-zaheer Месяц назад

    I love you vlogs ❤ every day i watch it and do my house chores and loved your soothing voice 😢 you are becoming part of my daiky routine ❤ hugs 🤗

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  Месяц назад

      I'm so glad my vlogs are part of your daily routine! 🤗

  • @SalmanLiaqat-w1d
    @SalmanLiaqat-w1d Месяц назад +1

    Nice sharing

  • @DontPlayWithMe-cd8lc
    @DontPlayWithMe-cd8lc Месяц назад

    I like your videos. Pliz make video about house wife dress sense and self care.

  • @Samreenhamzahofficial
    @Samreenhamzahofficial Месяц назад +4

    Mere susral waly mere bacho ki hr chez me interfere krty hein.. ye khilaya? ye nhi khilao...wo phnao..
    abhi nehlao... abhi mt sulao etc mjhy bht ghussa aata hai mgr me kuch nhi keh skti 😑😑

  • @mahirakhan2675
    @mahirakhan2675 Месяц назад

    9:42 your favorite dialouge sir jhad mu phad 😂😂😂 seriously now this is also my favorite love you stay blessed and happy always❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ShumailaSaeed-nr5tq
    @ShumailaSaeed-nr5tq 29 дней назад

    Mam mjy btayn jin kay husbend abroad hon un husband ko kasay kush raka jai.ye is liye pata kar re hon kay mry husband abroad hotay hain ar jb be mj say baat krtay hain bila waja baat paker kay larna shuru ho jatay hain naraz ho jatay hain.asay husband ko kasay theek ar kush rakain

  • @zahaslifestyle6
    @zahaslifestyle6 29 дней назад

    Apny nishat linen SE bag buy kea tha plz review about quality

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  27 дней назад

      I’ll make a separate video about that soon!

  • @naziaqaiser8976
    @naziaqaiser8976 29 дней назад

    Please bta dy, water proof matras cover kon sa acha hy

    • @naziaqaiser8976
      @naziaqaiser8976 29 дней назад

      Ap Jo b review dete hy good quality hote hy

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  27 дней назад

      Dear I bought it from Daraz

  • @saistamalik4811
    @saistamalik4811 Месяц назад

    Nice sharing ❤

  • @Hareer321
    @Hareer321 Месяц назад +2

    Meri mama abhi v tough time spend ker ryy hn joint family me😢 because mery father NY Meri phuppo ko hmary hi gher me gher bna dya.believe me boht tang kerty hn sb hm sb ko😢

  • @aky7674
    @aky7674 26 дней назад +1

    There remains No privacy for grooming own kids . Moreover comparison hotay hain k unk bachay aisay hain tumharay aisay

  • @fashionartworld8118
    @fashionartworld8118 Месяц назад +1

    Ajkl kisi b kdki ko joint family pasand ni me 7 saal reh chuki ab bs tang agai hn

  • @Herfabstyle_12
    @Herfabstyle_12 26 дней назад +2

    Kitna bhi achi se rehlo badi bahu choti bahu ke ane ke bad zaher hi lagne lagti hai... 😢Aur rhi baat kamre secure rehne ki...wo to bilkul bhi nhi rehta sari checking hojati hai ghr se niklte hi 💀

  • @maxlayne8734
    @maxlayne8734 Месяц назад

    mam please upload on your grooming channel too

  • @Malaikathehomemaker
    @Malaikathehomemaker 28 дней назад

    Aslam.oalikum...mam plz make a video about how to handle careless husband

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  27 дней назад

      Sure, I'll try to make one!

  • @inshakhan7233
    @inshakhan7233 Месяц назад

    Hame apke video ka wait rehta h apke video dekh ke mere andar bhut badlaw Aya h alhamdulillah meri hasband ke saath masle khatam ho gye h hame apki baat achi lagti h meri shadi ko 1 saal hua h lekin mere susral me meri nand jithani bhot negative h aise bat karti jse hame tension ho jati or ham isse bhut pareshan h pls is pe bat kre video bnye meri jo jithani meri nand ko Roz ghar bola leti h kse apni life me unke sath khush rhe

  • @manahainoorwalipartySG123
    @manahainoorwalipartySG123 28 дней назад

    👍👍👍

  • @NabilaDanish-zt1bk
    @NabilaDanish-zt1bk Месяц назад

    ap kon say saher mac hai

  • @Anamoon724
    @Anamoon724 Месяц назад

    Sari baten zbrdst hen or sb pta b ha … but kuch chezen baten aisi hoti hen k bacho ko dantna par hi jata jb wo bat nahi manty ya kuch aisa kr dety hen k jaza or saza ka kam ghar k andr chalta rehta ab hr bat or har chez k liy to kmra bnd kr k nahi smjhaya ja skta jb k ma nay ye kia b ha or agr ik dfa kisi k samny dant lo to log itnaaaaaa faida uthaty us bat ka k bacho ko lgta maa villian h😢

  • @mufejashaikh6752
    @mufejashaikh6752 Месяц назад

    Hi dear me indea se hu me aapki sab video dekhati hu meri na aek problam mere hasband ki kangan stor ki dukan he unhone helpar ke tor par aek ladki rakhi hui he lekin vo hamare dono ke bicha me ladai jagda ho to vo dukan pe jake us ladki ko sab bate karte he plz koi upay bataye plz plz plz a bat seapka bahot bahot sukriya hoga plz plz daer me bahot paresan rehti hu is

  • @dayanrehman5996
    @dayanrehman5996 29 дней назад

    Salam mam aksar bade bahu ke sath nainsafi hoti hai usmein main bhi shamil ho SAS sasur Fark karte Hain

  • @aseerat-zaheer
    @aseerat-zaheer Месяц назад

    Love from dubai ❤ 😘

  • @TalhaJutt-p9y
    @TalhaJutt-p9y Месяц назад

  • @asiaghazal8893
    @asiaghazal8893 Месяц назад

    Dear i am also stucked this kind of situation i need your help now i need someone who teach me i have never discussed any one i only want to learn from you .

  • @saleemsk4352
    @saleemsk4352 Месяц назад +1

    Yes mam it's all true points. Mashallah ur vlog. 👌❤️

    • @herfablife
      @herfablife  Месяц назад

      Jazakallah for watching!

  • @amirrashid73
    @amirrashid73 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Aminasarfraz-n7y
    @Aminasarfraz-n7y Месяц назад

    Mam next video single mothers k liye bnaye please me wait kr rhi

  • @Vloggingwithsyeda-p8e
    @Vloggingwithsyeda-p8e 29 дней назад

    Thanks for 146 subscribers ❤❤❤

  • @PamposhaBegum
    @PamposhaBegum Месяц назад

    Nice nice ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aseerat-zaheer
    @aseerat-zaheer Месяц назад

    I have huge problem can I personally message you and talk to you 😢

  • @FaizaMuddesser
    @FaizaMuddesser Месяц назад

    L u so much 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @mahamyaseen8050
    @mahamyaseen8050 Месяц назад +6

    Joint family mein bchcho ko rkhna extremely difficult mein aj isi bat pr shaded depress hon humy to pta hota hy k ghr mein Kon toxic hy kis trha ussy dhoor rahein lykin bchcho ko smjhana bht muskil hy agr AP unpr skhti karein to bchchy smjhty hmari maa buri hy 2 sal k bchchy ko k sy smjhain k kia sahee kia Galat hy

    • @sparklingrabia7626
      @sparklingrabia7626 Месяц назад

      Same here .. hum log portions mae rehtay hain but still mery jeth ka beta tere ko tuje kr k baat krta hai or abb mera beta b krta hai even though bht tooka hai daant b liya maar b liya lkn still mera beta abb aisay he bat krta hai .. 😢

    • @mahamyaseen8050
      @mahamyaseen8050 Месяц назад

      @@sparklingrabia7626 Allah tallah hmari aulad ko naik or sualeh bnaye bchchon ko bigharny mein 90% hath UN logon ka hota hy Jo bchchy ko bighar kr maa ki trbiyat ko bura khty hyn

  • @manahainoorwalipartySG123
    @manahainoorwalipartySG123 28 дней назад

    Bilkul barabri zaruri hain.akoon nahi unbalance rawayi bardasht kar rahi ab b. 20 Saal se... depression sar dard patient bangayi ho.

  • @SajidaImran-qp4zv
    @SajidaImran-qp4zv Месяц назад

    Meri saas aik jasa salook ni krti ... Betjyan insult krati baho ki ....jo ghr m zyda pasy wala us ko protocol

  • @mahamfatima6840
    @mahamfatima6840 Месяц назад

    Jb sb k bchy age fellow hoty hn to bht lrae hoti h

  • @umeedmaham7716
    @umeedmaham7716 29 дней назад

    Kae baar saas toxic nae hoti devranian hoti hn