@@lepetitchat123 oooh, you would think: I have a friend, who is literally a copy of Carrie but 20 years old one...And I’m not exaggerating: CTRL+c, CTRL+v :|
I think everyone relates to this scene so much because we've all been there before where you didn't feel good enough. And wondering why didn't he pick me instead of her. And it's a well acted scene SJP made me feel her hurt.
things could have been worst if Big picked a skanky chic or someone less than a Carrie. Imagine Big married some girl from Asia that cant even speak English. Still, it was really great writing! This happens, it really does.
@@eduardochavacano i know how petty this will sound. But I would rather my unrequited love marries someone ( seemingly) lesser than me. At the very least I could argue his poor taste. But when you know he is with a younger, more beautiful and more successful woman thank you, you just feel worthless even when you aren't really.
@@eduardochavacano Very true! I had that same experience. I've been with someone from England for 4-5 years left me to marry a young (25 probably) Asian girl from Philippines and bring her in Australia. To me, he needed a girl with less character. But it's my only perception. He wasn't ready to the type of commitment I was looking for. A deep and profound one. Equality in relationship ❤️
That’s their history: that’s how you know there was a closeness there. She was always frustrated that she didn’t get let into his life more but she treasured what he did share like his individual taste in music
“She’s shiny hair, style section, Vera Wang and I’m the sex column they run next to ads for penile implants.” Sigh, I really felt for Carrie here. So specific yet so relatable… I know I’ve felt like this before.
Berger was right. When a man wants o commit he will. Nothing can hold him back. When he doesn't want to commit, he won't. Remember when he was leaving for Paris and didn't even tell Carrie or factor her in? She didn't get the message back then either.
Life is not black and white. Big loved Carry in his own way. Only it's easier to love someone who is being easy to love like Natasha. This is exactly what Big said to Carry at his engagement party: "it's just gotten so hard... and she's..." it answers everything. Btw, we all remember that Big wanted to live Natasha after 7 months already. He didn't love her, she was just right and cliché, that's it, and makes the commitment EASY.
I just don't get why everyone keeps on bashing Carrie. She's a character, an individual with a certain personality, not a caricature of how an ideal woman should react in love. I love how real she is, people are fucked up in real life guys!
No one says she should be perfect no one is perfect. I do not like carrie(love her sence of fashion tho) because she always talks about how she whats a good man to be her bf she finds one and cheats on him. She is a bad friend. She is weak always needing a man to be by her side. She does not listen to what big wants or tells about himself he does not what to marry again, she stalked his ex wive which is weird and she told her that he is a womenizer and she is surprised when he leaves her for another. I dont like her because i think she is not trustworthy, is a cheater, hypocrite, narrow minded, judgmental, bad friend, weak and tries to change another personnot love them for who they are but make them into her perfect vision. Samantha and Miranda they are amazing good friends, honest, independent, strong, trustworthy.
I don’t think I could ever forgive or marry a man who chose someone else over me. Carrie should have married Aidan and left Big alone and old and decrepit.
Aidan and her wasn’t a good match whatsoever. She is a city girl and he is a country boy. They didn’t understand eachother. They were infatuated with eachother looks and that’s all
Not a Carrie fan, but I like this scene. It should have been the end of the saga that was Big and Carrie. It's ok to cry it out, be mad, and get it out of your system. its ok to be disappointed in somebody. Also Charlotte was a great friend. Lucky Carrie.
While in theory; yes this may be the rational choice - humans just don’t work like that, feelings and desires can’t be turned off just because you want them to be
Yeah. I thought the SAME THING! Cause if you watch the episode where Charlotte and the girls are trying on their bridesmaid's dresses- when she was going to Wed Trey-- Charlotte says all the gowns are VERA WANG! So spot on with your comment!
I love Charlotte she's kind of like a mother to her friends and she like one of those friends that want you to rip the Band-Aid right off you it's going to hurt but even get over it.
People keep saying that Carrie should have married with Aidan. But i don’t agree with that. Aidan is good man for sure but they both are completely different. I don’t like a man like Big but he is perfect for Carrie.
I completely agree. I think she honestly really tried to be with a guy that's good to her and she knew that Aiden was the perfect gentlemen. But he and her weren't meant to be together
I can honestly relate to Carrie in this scene. To see someone that you loved or had feelings for choose someone else over you it hurts and it's heartbreaking and it's a moment that I have lived through over and over and over again. And in those moments you start to feel like you're not good enough anymore.
Yes girl. Been there too. Still have that trauma 😢😢😢 I am almost 40 and never been married. He married when I was 22. And the word "marriage" was broken since.
I was with a guy for 7 yrs. We didnt move in together and he never proposed. Its like that whole when harry met sally thing...he said he didnt want to get married but what he meant was he didnt want to marry me. Shiz happens
Krissy S, I hope you around somebody worthy since then. In my book 7 yes is too long to give somebody if there is no commitment. A few months is plenty to figure out if you want to commit or not. Otherwise it's just passing time and females are a bit more vulnerable in that regard agewise, biological clock and all. So use your time wisely in life on people who are kind and sincere to you.
@@rayyana.8538 Don't Cast your Perils before swine. 7 years is way too much time to give a man who is just not that into you. I love Steve Harvey's advice on relationships. Kind regards Kate. 👱♀️💕💕
The fact that few years down the line Carrie will do the exact same thing when she gets married to Big. With all the wedding dresses and Vogue cover and her writing about all of it from her perspective without mentioning Big anywhere.
I never made that connection that her whole wedding to Big got derailed because of the same. Good observation. I feel that he had his flustered moments and he tried to correct it and she overreacted. How many of us have lost our phone or we've lost our charger and somebody comes to the conclusion that is completely wrong. That we were avoiding their calls. He got stuck in traffic, which is totally understandable They could have just had a wedding that started an hour late. It won't be the first of the last time that happens. Poor Carrie definitely escalated the situation by her reaction. I do not sanctify Big but the whole thing about their wedding going off track was one massive misunderstanding. Totally avoidable. And you're right. She should have taken the lesson from what happened in the Natasha wedding.
Carrie is exactly like most of us are at one point or another and it kills me!!! Because we all have felt and done something similar to Carrie and that is why the show is awesome for ever.
She's projecting her own anger at Big towards Natasha instead, because she's still hoping beyond hope that Big will take her back. And then of course she torpedoes her relationship with Aiden.
She's also upset because when she sees Natasha, she sees a younger, more polished and elegant woman, which makes her think that maybe Big never really wanted a woman like her.
She's insecure. And it's understandable (we all are at some point in our lives), especially in a moment THAT vulnerable. You talk about something that hurts you with your girl friends and sometimes (no one is perfect) you project instead of logically explain to yourself that you aren't really angry at someone, you are just hurting. Talking shit to let it out with people you trust? We all have been there.
I was in a similar relationship when I saw this episode and Carrie’s reaction was so real and heartbreaking. The problem was somewhat that Carrie didn’t think she was good enough for Big and the insecurity just shaped a lot of their relationship.
That's ironic, she's criticizing Natasha for what she did in the Vogue article in the movie. EDIT: Wow, three years later and I'm finally reading all these comments. Um you guys need to chill....it's a show haha
But Carrie complained about the Natasha article that he didn't hear Big anywhere in the article, it's all Natasha and Big is just along for the ride. It was the same with Carrie's wedding, Big was nowhere and he was just along for the ride. Except in Carries case he ditched the ride and ran away.
but thats the point though. he walked out on the wedding because he didn't want a big and fancy one. she's saying that he walked out on her but gave natasha the wedding she wanted. until the end part.
It's so lame that it's become so trendy to bash Carrie. The show is about her life, her thoughts etc. so OF COURSE she seems "selfish" -- I bet if we stuck a camera on you and we were able to hear your thoughts all day long then you'd seem pretty selfish too! ANYWAY!
People who has been in an UNREQUITED LOVE can feel this scene. Its extremely painful and real. I wish the show hadn't ended up with Big n Carrie together cz in reality that wud have never happened
I loved this back in the day and as of last night iv had a nostalgic binge and it flooded back to me how genius and real and powerful the actors performances were and this clip yet again had me giggling sadly and then overwhelmed with emotion. What an absolute artistic masterpiece this series was. I'm having so much fun reminiscing laughter and tissues mandatory ❤️😃
Same here in 2023 still watching these amazing videos on YT! I was 29 when I watched it for the first time and it brings me so many memories and also a lot of melancholy thinking in that 2 decades has already passed!
@@crisvanfanbah justement elle ne voulait pas de lui et a vomit quand elle a vu la bague. Mais au delà de l'argent, elle aimait les mecs inaccessibles.
stop with the blame.in a society like ours men have been taught to think they can do what the f they like. they are now learning...never apologise and never explain. a hard lesson i have finally learned
This and how stupidly depressed she got when they did the movie.its like really?? This is how she gets when she gets dumped at the alter, can't imagine how shed get if he asked for a divorce years down the line😒
But interestingly he married Natasha. Why would he marry another woman if he loved Carrie? So it was a big slap in Carrie's face when he told her about the marriage.
ann l I’d love to see how you’d react to being left at the altar. I agree that she’s somewhat melodramatic but clearly they just needed time to figure things out. Things like this happen. People move on in life, meet other people, get married, have affairs, get divorced. It just happens. I think he probably married Natasha because he probably liked her very much in the moment but wasn’t thinking about the big picture. Or also he wasn’t really sure of what he wanted vs what he felt he should want. The idea of Natasha might have been exciting, but it didn’t last. We never see his reasons, but we know something kept him away from Carrie for all those years. I’d argue it’s her inability to compromise because she is so self centred. Perhaps that’s why he chose someone else, As a response to what he wasn’t getting from her. People do that in real life. They get fed up with each other.
The thing about Carrie is she is relatable. Women have done cringy shit in their life. However.... She's in her 30s.... Her mistakes (cheating on Aidan, chasing after a married man, having the audacity to ask Natasha for forgiveness during a lunch date, codependency issues, etc) could have easily been done by a girl in her 20s. I think that's what made the character look "desparate" and annoying.
What Carrie failed to understand is that just because you are ready to be 'forgiven', doesn't mean that the person you wronged is ready to forgive you. Frankly, I don't think Carrie's apology to Natasha was really sincere or profoundly felt, Carrie just didn't like feeling badly about herself but she wasn't really thinking about Natasha or her feelings.
@@CaAnPeSe4ever The fact that Carrie's main comment from the conversation with Natasha was "oh no, she's back on singles' market, as if the New York women didn't have it hard enough" shows how truly sad she was for hurting Natasha...
@@AgnessaMo In the end, it's just a TV show but I'm sticking to my guns; Carrie wanted Natasha's forgiveness so Carrie wouldn't have to go on feeling badly about herself. Maybe she somewhat felt sorry for Natasha but Carrie had more empathy for herself.
@@CaAnPeSe4ever My reply wasn't clear enough I guess, because it was meant to be sarcastic - as instead of "poor Natasha, got married only to be cheated on regularly short after" she thought "poor women of New York will now have to compete with Natasha" (as if 1 woman made such a difference). As Charlotte said, Carrie never thought of Natasha's feelings, so actually I completely agree with you
its crazy the connection with the movie. Carry says "I dont hear Big in the article, only Natasha" when talking about the wedding. Like she did after in the movie.
That’s a friend: someone that will sit with you and go through the awful motions of a heartbreak with a glass of alcohol of course lol! Heartbreaks are painful but it’s better going through it not alone.
@kathconserv A great rent controlled apartment in a brownstone in New York City. A closet full of designer shoes and clothes. A job that she actually likes. Then, to become an author. And friends who actually love her and care about her. So yes, I can see people envying her life.
You know Carrie really screws Natasha over in more than one way. First, Carrie helps contribute to the ending of Natasha's marriage (which would have happened eventually) and unintentionally causes Natasha to break her tooth. But, to make matters worse, Carrie then writes about Natasha and having an affair with Natasha's husband in her column which eventually becomes an internationally best-selling book...this poor girl can't catch a break.
Charlotte: He wasn't the right man for you. The only truest line uttered in the entire series, Charlotte had it spot on right. Carrie: She's style section Vera Wang. Me: Do you even know her to make such assumptions?
Good lord you ppl are taking carries character way to seriously. She's a character in a TV series/ movies its for entertainment based on books that were widley exaggerated to sell. Its not meant to depict real life. Jeesh...
The thing I understand about Carrie as I get older is that she didn't love herself enough when it came to Big. She broke up with him because he didn't care about her and their relationship. She put her foot down saying "I can't be with someone who doesn't love me better." So why does she then want to be "friends" when she sees him with Natasha? Why does she ask him to lunch? Where's the self-love? Ladies, we need to love ourselves more.
Elle voulait être amie avec lui car elle espérait le récupérer, car elle n'acceptait pas qu'il l'a rejette et en épouse une autre. Carrie n'avait aucune confiance en elle c'est pour cela qu'elle s'accrochait désespérément à lui plutôt que d'accepter les choses telles qu'elles étaient.
I think this is the one episode I really feel sorry for Carrie another one that stands out as when she is getting rid of her single clothes when she's marrying big
Je suis resté fidèle à cette série depuis 20 ans,je la regarde tout le temps et toujours émerveillé par l histoire de ces quatre presque soeur qui me font tout simplement plaisir .
Carrie mentions how Big was nowhere mentioned in the newspaper article and then she turned around and did the same thing to Big in her Vogue article over her engagement and upcoming wedding in SATC movie. Karma for her thinking she’d never do anything like that.
Going through this right now - didn’t make all the choices Carrie made staying with him for so long etc, but hung on in my head, long enough to watch him move on with someone I would regard as a Natasha. Instead of bitchy comments or judgment, try and understand how much pain a situation like this would cause. I’m trying to not let it break my esteem but it’s hard ❤️ anyone else holding on, please find another way, it can really break you xx
Well, this happens... at least in your case it was with a Natasha. In my case, I was the Natasha and the Carrie was really a dime a dozen nobody. Oh it hurts.
@@eduardochavacano Yes that happens too, think Beyoncé made a whole album about it. Hope you are dealing with it well, but sounds like you know your worth, I’m working on mine.
I think sometimes persons make you cause a damage in your self esteem, could be your boss, your partner, even your family and friend, the important thing is to overcome to the adversities, but sometimes is hard, how to try doesn't affect you when a person makes you feel bad 😥
“‘Nobody is perfect” yeah but most people wouldn’t do half the shit that Carrie did. Normal, sane people, wouldn’t cheat on their boyfriend for a man that never even gave a fuck about them. If the goal was to portray Carrie as a terrible friend, lover and wife , they succeeded 100%. She didn’t deserve any of the good in her life.
You talk like you haven't seen SATC. Carrie was an awesome friend. She stood up for Mirands when a guy in a bar called her fat, she sent Aidan to help Miranda when she sprained her neck. She isn't perfect for sure but she was realistic.
@@rebelraccoon9018 she sent her boyfriend to help her naked friend that fell in her apartment. That wasn’t a good friend move at all, it was selfish. Miranda even got upset with Carrie because of this in that episode. And yeah, she was good to her friends sometimes, but she has far more selfish moments on the show than any of them.
I acted like her when I saw a guy with another girl I had a crush on. My reaction was the same. At Carrie's age it's weird but she SJP played her role cool.
I have been the one who always is used to heal a relationship, every man I have been involved with chose someone else, married someone else, or went back to their ex-wife. I am "Flying Solo" forever and ever.
Carrie wanted to get married.Dont pretend u dont want marriage if thats wat u want.If the guy your with doesnt want that EXIT.Problem is she thought she could keep him by denying herself.She should have slammed the BiG DOOR SHUt after he married Natasha.What he did was disgusting,and the fact that she participated isnt good either.
That was so awesome that Charlotte tried to take the paper from Carrie's vice death grip so she knew being the masochist Carrie is would read the announcement & cry & call her or miranda or sam anyway
People say "Sometimes it's too hard to like Carrie" but I say" it's too hard to hate her too"😔😔I know that guy have trampled over her each and every emotion everytime she trusted him and crushed her soul after marrying Natasha, messed up her relationship with Aiden which was literally perfect but she was too weak to get rid of him ever😑😑but that made Carrie CARRIE 😊😊SHE WAS PERFECT IN HER IMPERFECT WAY
The unintentional hold that Mr.Big had on Carrie is really really scary. She became the worst of herself whenever he came into her life. Miranda's words that the worst part is that you go back to him again and again to get hurt .....that defines Carrie and Big's relationship .
Umbearable behaviour did Carrie have. She was lucky enough to make Big tie the knot, and in a movie. I always saw Carrie as an immature girl with far much needs, and never ready to understand what a partnership should be.
OK I went and watched the movies and I just finished watching the series. In this scene Carrie’s talking about Natasha called the shots and the whole article is just and her point of you. But she ended up doing the same thing because she was afraid they did not get married things would end and the whole wedding was Carrie when big just wanted to go to the courthouse.
Even though everyone keeps saying Carrie should have married Aidan but what they don’t understand that they were two different people. Aidan wanted a traditional life, kids and Carrie was anything but traditional. They wouldn’t have been together even if they would have tried
Charlotte is such a good friend
Charlotte is so sweet, I wish I have a friend like her.
Isn't she? She is just so caring and a true friend. Miranda and Samantha too.
Charlotte is adorable.
she wants to see Carrie suffer.
True.
The more people bash on carrie, the better the character was written by the writer. The writer made such a realistic character, nobody is perfect
Well Carries is the writer... Candace Bushnell
not realistic.. just bad and inconsistent writing
Carrie gets too much hate for not being some perfect female protagonist! She's flawed, makes mistakes, and isn't perfect. Just like the rest of us.
@@lepetitchat123 oooh, you would think: I have a friend, who is literally a copy of Carrie but 20 years old one...And I’m not exaggerating: CTRL+c, CTRL+v :|
true
I think everyone relates to this scene so much because we've all been there before where you didn't feel good enough. And wondering why didn't he pick me instead of her. And it's a well acted scene SJP made me feel her hurt.
things could have been worst if Big picked a skanky chic or someone less than a Carrie. Imagine Big married some girl from Asia that cant even speak English. Still, it was really great writing! This happens, it really does.
@@eduardochavacano i know how petty this will sound. But I would rather my unrequited love marries someone ( seemingly) lesser than me. At the very least I could argue his poor taste. But when you know he is with a younger, more beautiful and more successful woman thank you, you just feel worthless even when you aren't really.
@@eduardochavacano Very true! I had that same experience. I've been with someone from England for 4-5 years left me to marry a young (25 probably) Asian girl from Philippines and bring her in Australia. To me, he needed a girl with less character. But it's my only perception. He wasn't ready to the type of commitment I was looking for. A deep and profound one. Equality in relationship ❤️
@@karinagomez4257 Love this response!
@@kaitlynpleasants Thank you 😊
...the moment she says, "no, that's Big". So heartbreaking.
That’s their history: that’s how you know there was a closeness there. She was always frustrated that she didn’t get let into his life more but she treasured what he did share like his individual taste in music
The whole scene in carries apt. Is heartbreaking. Charlotte is such a good friend.
That's what jeff did to me
Everyone has been there at some point. That's the thing.
So sad
“She’s shiny hair, style section, Vera Wang and I’m the sex column they run next to ads for penile implants.” Sigh, I really felt for Carrie here. So specific yet so relatable… I know I’ve felt like this before.
I was devastated when the man I loved married someone else. I feel for her. Wish I'd had a friend like Charlotte at the time.
Same here......
I had a friend like Charlotte when I met him and his new wife at a baptism.
Frankly I don't remember what my friend said but she barely left my side.
Well,I feel for the women that married my ex's.🤣
Oh Lord. How many people are like us
Natasha was like the anti Carrie lol complete opposite. Big made a huge statement by marrying someone like that so fast .
bergercookie cause he was scared to marry the woman that he really loved.
Natasha is that you 👀 lol
Berger was right. When a man wants o commit he will. Nothing can hold him back. When he doesn't want to commit, he won't. Remember when he was leaving for Paris and didn't even tell Carrie or factor her in? She didn't get the message back then either.
Life is not black and white. Big loved Carry in his own way. Only it's easier to love someone who is being easy to love like Natasha. This is exactly what Big said to Carry at his engagement party: "it's just gotten so hard... and she's..." it answers everything. Btw, we all remember that Big wanted to live Natasha after 7 months already. He didn't love her, she was just right and cliché, that's it, and makes the commitment EASY.
You mean a BIG statement ?
Charlotte is THE BEST friend. I hope everyone has a Charlotte in their group.
Carrie is so lucky to have all of them as friends - Charlotte, Miranda, Samantha. Each of them was there for her when she needed them most
I just don't get why everyone keeps on bashing Carrie. She's a character, an individual with a certain personality, not a caricature of how an ideal woman should react in love. I love how real she is, people are fucked up in real life guys!
Yeah I guess
I agree. She’s an imperfect woman in an imperfect world. None of them are perfect. Sure she has her flaws but I still love her.
i like her much more than the others. The others are all a bit too ...and too normal and not like a freespirit like Carrie.
Lynn-Nicole Gatien what fairytale world are you living in where people are perfect!!!
No one says she should be perfect no one is perfect. I do not like carrie(love her sence of fashion tho) because she always talks about how she whats a good man to be her bf she finds one and cheats on him. She is a bad friend. She is weak always needing a man to be by her side. She does not listen to what big wants or tells about himself he does not what to marry again, she stalked his ex wive which is weird and she told her that he is a womenizer and she is surprised when he leaves her for another. I dont like her because i think she is not trustworthy, is a cheater, hypocrite, narrow minded, judgmental, bad friend, weak and tries to change another personnot love them for who they are but make them into her perfect vision. Samantha and Miranda they are amazing good friends, honest, independent, strong, trustworthy.
I don’t think I could ever forgive or marry a man who chose someone else over me. Carrie should have married Aidan and left Big alone and old and decrepit.
Well, life never works the way we want it to...constant redirection, disappointment, heartbreak...blah 🤪
Yea Alexander (I think that was his name) is my least favorite character
In my opinion, Aidan was a great guy. He wasn’t the man for her. I agree with you. If you choose someone over me, I want no part of you.
Aiden didn't have money and we all know that deep down, Carrie wanted to be taken care of.
Aidan and her wasn’t a good match whatsoever. She is a city girl and he is a country boy. They didn’t understand eachother. They were infatuated with eachother looks and that’s all
Honestly Sarah Jessica Parker's acting is so good and so underrated.
She got a bunch of Emmys and Golden Globes so not underrated.
Not a Carrie fan, but I like this scene. It should have been the end of the saga that was Big and Carrie. It's ok to cry it out, be mad, and get it out of your system. its ok to be disappointed in somebody.
Also Charlotte was a great friend. Lucky Carrie.
Amen,
Absolutely!!
While in theory; yes this may be the rational choice - humans just don’t work like that, feelings and desires can’t be turned off just because you want them to be
I’d love any of these friends as I don’t have any good friends and always on my own
“She’s shiny hair, style section, Vera Wang” Charlotte was like 👀 she was literally describing Charlotte 🤣
Yeah. I thought the SAME THING! Cause if you watch the episode where Charlotte and the girls are trying on their bridesmaid's dresses- when she was going to Wed Trey-- Charlotte says all the gowns are VERA WANG! So spot on with your comment!
Literally thought the same thing
I love Charlotte she's kind of like a mother to her friends and she like one of those friends that want you to rip the Band-Aid right off you it's going to hurt but even get over it.
She behaves like a mother, maybe that's why she always wanted kids.
@@MsMinoula love this. Perceptive.
0:34 "This one didn't lets move on." Miranda was spot on here.
People keep saying that Carrie should have married with Aidan. But i don’t agree with that. Aidan is good man for sure but they both are completely different. I don’t like a man like Big but he is perfect for Carrie.
I completely agree. I think she honestly really tried to be with a guy that's good to her and she knew that Aiden was the perfect gentlemen. But he and her weren't meant to be together
Yes , because both Carrie and Big are toxic , unfaithful and they deserve each other.
I can honestly relate to Carrie in this scene. To see someone that you loved or had feelings for choose someone else over you it hurts and it's heartbreaking and it's a moment that I have lived through over and over and over again. And in those moments you start to feel like you're not good enough anymore.
You are Good!
You are more than enough! The right person is waiting for you I believe
Yes girl. Been there too. Still have that trauma 😢😢😢 I am almost 40 and never been married. He married when I was 22. And the word "marriage" was broken since.
I was with a guy for 7 yrs. We didnt move in together and he never proposed. Its like that whole when harry met sally thing...he said he didnt want to get married but what he meant was he didnt want to marry me. Shiz happens
Sophia yes it is.
Krissy S, I hope you around somebody worthy since then. In my book 7 yes is too long to give somebody if there is no commitment. A few months is plenty to figure out if you want to commit or not. Otherwise it's just passing time and females are a bit more vulnerable in that regard agewise, biological clock and all. So use your time wisely in life on people who are kind and sincere to you.
@@rayyana.8538
Don't Cast your Perils before swine.
7 years is way too much time to give a man who is just not that into you.
I love Steve Harvey's advice on relationships.
Kind regards Kate.
👱♀️💕💕
Hope you are happy and in a loving and secure relationship now.
Kind regards Kate.
🌹🌹🌹
Did he married?
Carie is not perfect, neither are we. Thats relatable we all messed up somewhere.
that is how Carrie carried the show to the 6th season as the main protagonist.
Every person's nightmare: that your ex you still have feelings for, marries someone hotter and more accomplished.
Ain't that the truth. 😒
More accomplished? I don't really see that.
Natasha may have been hotter than Carrie but had no charisma and was certainly not more accomplished.
Don't forget, younger🤣
@@natalie651 she was comparing herself to Natasha (works for Ralph Lauren?)and how she is only a sex columnist.
The fact that few years down the line Carrie will do the exact same thing when she gets married to Big.
With all the wedding dresses and Vogue cover and her writing about all of it from her perspective without mentioning Big anywhere.
I never made that connection that her whole wedding to Big got derailed because of the same. Good observation. I feel that he had his flustered moments and he tried to correct it and she overreacted. How many of us have lost our phone or we've lost our charger and somebody comes to the conclusion that is completely wrong. That we were avoiding their calls. He got stuck in traffic, which is totally understandable They could have just had a wedding that started an hour late. It won't be the first of the last time that happens. Poor Carrie definitely escalated the situation by her reaction. I do not sanctify Big but the whole thing about their wedding going off track was one massive misunderstanding. Totally avoidable.
And you're right. She should have taken the lesson from what happened in the Natasha wedding.
I was searching for this comment! 🙏🏽
Carrie is exactly like most of us are at one point or another and it kills me!!! Because we all have felt and done something similar to Carrie and that is why the show is awesome for ever.
She's projecting her own anger at Big towards Natasha instead, because she's still hoping beyond hope that Big will take her back. And then of course she torpedoes her relationship with Aiden.
She's also upset because when she sees Natasha, she sees a younger, more polished and elegant woman, which makes her think that maybe Big never really wanted a woman like her.
OR she knew in her heart that she belonged with Big.
They did end up together!
And he did come back ...nothings in vain 👌
Darell Grant They weren't an epic love story. They settled for each other and ended up in an unhappy marriage.
She's insecure. And it's understandable (we all are at some point in our lives), especially in a moment THAT vulnerable. You talk about something that hurts you with your girl friends and sometimes (no one is perfect) you project instead of logically explain to yourself that you aren't really angry at someone, you are just hurting. Talking shit to let it out with people you trust? We all have been there.
I was in a similar relationship when I saw this episode and Carrie’s reaction was so real and heartbreaking. The problem was somewhat that Carrie didn’t think she was good enough for Big and the insecurity just shaped a lot of their relationship.
He told her many times she was not good enough. He wanted the girl who made him laugh, that’s what he said.
People hate Carrie because she is real, we were Carrie at some point in our lives
Kinda true
I was carrie with the big in one point of her life but i was never carrie outside her relationship with him
no, because she is self absorbed.
No
Speak for yourself, I’ve never been Carrie and real life people like Carrie get on my nerves 😭
One of the very few scenes in which I felt sorry for Carrie.
“But please, you were drunk and he was rich! 👏👏👏
That's ironic, she's criticizing Natasha for what she did in the Vogue article in the movie.
EDIT: Wow, three years later and I'm finally reading all these comments. Um you guys need to chill....it's a show haha
But Carrie complained about the Natasha article that he didn't hear Big anywhere in the article, it's all Natasha and Big is just along for the ride. It was the same with Carrie's wedding, Big was nowhere and he was just along for the ride. Except in Carries case he ditched the ride and ran away.
but thats the point though. he walked out on the wedding because he didn't want a big and fancy one. she's saying that he walked out on her but gave natasha the wedding she wanted. until the end part.
The movie doesn't count tho. To be fair. What SATC movies?! Does don't even exist!!
Nicole Luna I noticed that too.
Charlotte did the same shit with Harry too! All these characters are deluded
It's so lame that it's become so trendy to bash Carrie. The show is about her life, her thoughts etc. so OF COURSE she seems "selfish" -- I bet if we stuck a camera on you and we were able to hear your thoughts all day long then you'd seem pretty selfish too! ANYWAY!
Absolutely!
THIS!!! Preach !!
You said it!
Season 3, writers : ''How original, they fell in love in Paris''... Season 6, writers : ''Fuck it, they're having their happy ending in Paris''.
People who has been in an UNREQUITED LOVE can feel this scene. Its extremely painful and real.
I wish the show hadn't ended up with Big n Carrie together cz in reality that wud have never happened
Charlotte is too precious 😁😍👌🙏👑💗
The most precious. I love Charlotte .
Charlotte is such a good friend. And she has perfect hair!!
I have to dig out my old DVD's and start watching this again from the first episode to the last!
The writing here is excellent. I wish they could bring this back for AJLT, I loved Carrie’s smart self-deprecating lines.
Carrie is talking about bad journalism lol giiiiirlllll byeeee
Lmaoooooo
Carrie never said she was a journalist she said she was a writer there’s a difference..
lmao this is priceless
She (Candace Bushnell) wrote a highly subscribed column and sold quite a few books.
yes it a comedy, show, you know - you with only a half a brain?
I loved this back in the day and as of last night iv had a nostalgic binge and it flooded back to me how genius and real and powerful the actors performances were and this clip yet again had me giggling sadly and then overwhelmed with emotion. What an absolute artistic masterpiece this series was. I'm having so much fun reminiscing laughter and tissues mandatory ❤️😃
Same here in 2023 still watching these amazing videos on YT! I was 29 when I watched it for the first time and it brings me so many memories and also a lot of melancholy thinking in that 2 decades has already passed!
“Oh please you were drunk and he was rich” it’s kinda your logic Carrie
Totally agree, the two men she really really loved in this show are the two with fame and lots of money.
@@BillieLXU aidan wasnt famous.. didnt have a lot of money
@@crisvanfanbah justement elle ne voulait pas de lui et a vomit quand elle a vu la bague. Mais au delà de l'argent, elle aimait les mecs inaccessibles.
This episode hit hard when as women we blame ourselves and compare why her and not me.
stop with the blame.in a society like ours men have been taught to think they can do what the f they like. they are now learning...never apologise and never explain. a hard lesson i have finally learned
that music at the end is sublime. anyone knows what music is?? is just beautifull with the whole scene
A lot to love and not love about the show, but that's such a great moment.
I totally feel her pain
Charlotte was very aware how Carrie was emotionally and she appreciates her for it but it's hard for Carrie to admit because of the current situation.
This and all the country house I can’t afford. Lol
Charlotte is my favourite character, I really love her..she’s so nice
Man Big was the only one her heart really broke for.
They did a good job for pissing me off with Carrie's inability to realize -- get over a man who doesn't love you!!!!
This and how stupidly depressed she got when they did the movie.its like really?? This is how she gets when she gets dumped at the alter, can't imagine how shed get if he asked for a divorce years down the line😒
He did love her tho he just wasnt ready to be with Carrie
But interestingly he married Natasha. Why would he marry another woman if he loved Carrie? So it was a big slap in Carrie's face when he told her about the marriage.
ann l I’d love to see how you’d react to being left at the altar. I agree that she’s somewhat melodramatic but clearly they just needed time to figure things out. Things like this happen. People move on in life, meet other people, get married, have affairs, get divorced. It just happens. I think he probably married Natasha because he probably liked her very much in the moment but wasn’t thinking about the big picture. Or also he wasn’t really sure of what he wanted vs what he felt he should want. The idea of Natasha might have been exciting, but it didn’t last. We never see his reasons, but we know something kept him away from Carrie for all those years. I’d argue it’s her inability to compromise because she is so self centred. Perhaps that’s why he chose someone else, As a response to what he wasn’t getting from her. People do that in real life. They get fed up with each other.
nichegoseberazdvatri this is relatable, because even I can't. I tried everything.
It’s funny that when she’s describing Natasha it sounds like Charlotte too.
The thing about Carrie is she is relatable. Women have done cringy shit in their life. However.... She's in her 30s.... Her mistakes (cheating on Aidan, chasing after a married man, having the audacity to ask Natasha for forgiveness during a lunch date, codependency issues, etc) could have easily been done by a girl in her 20s. I think that's what made the character look "desparate" and annoying.
What Carrie failed to understand is that just because you are ready to be 'forgiven', doesn't mean that the person you wronged is ready to forgive you. Frankly, I don't think Carrie's apology to Natasha was really sincere or profoundly felt, Carrie just didn't like feeling badly about herself but she wasn't really thinking about Natasha or her feelings.
It was the end of 90s, women in 30s were different than now
@@CaAnPeSe4ever The fact that Carrie's main comment from the conversation with Natasha was "oh no, she's back on singles' market, as if the New York women didn't have it hard enough" shows how truly sad she was for hurting Natasha...
@@AgnessaMo In the end, it's just a TV show but I'm sticking to my guns; Carrie wanted Natasha's forgiveness so Carrie wouldn't have to go on feeling badly about herself. Maybe she somewhat felt sorry for Natasha but Carrie had more empathy for herself.
@@CaAnPeSe4ever My reply wasn't clear enough I guess, because it was meant to be sarcastic - as instead of "poor Natasha, got married only to be cheated on regularly short after" she thought "poor women of New York will now have to compete with Natasha" (as if 1 woman made such a difference). As Charlotte said, Carrie never thought of Natasha's feelings, so actually I completely agree with you
'Oh please, you were drunk, and he was rich. This is just bad journalism.'
its crazy the connection with the movie. Carry says "I dont hear Big in the article, only Natasha" when talking about the wedding. Like she did after in the movie.
That’s a friend: someone that will sit with you and go through the awful motions of a heartbreak with a glass of alcohol of course lol! Heartbreaks are painful but it’s better going through it not alone.
Carrie is envious of Natasha's style and life... not realizing how many females would envy her life.
I don't envy the life of a Imelda Marcos type
Envy Carrie’s life?
@kathconserv
A great rent controlled apartment in a brownstone in New York City. A closet full of designer shoes and clothes. A job that she actually likes. Then, to become an author.
And friends who actually love her and care about her.
So yes, I can see people envying her life.
@@natiliee.s.5476 envy is a deadly sin. Remember that.
@kathconserv
Well...no sh!t!!!🤦♀️🤣
miranda tells charlotte to let it go when charlotte is the one who comes through for carrie.
Rise your hand if you has felt like Carrie at least once in your like! I go first!
Miranda's outfit is so bright! It's quite different from what she usually sported...I like it :D
You know Carrie really screws Natasha over in more than one way. First, Carrie helps contribute to the ending of Natasha's marriage (which would have happened eventually) and unintentionally causes Natasha to break her tooth. But, to make matters worse, Carrie then writes about Natasha and having an affair with Natasha's husband in her column which eventually becomes an internationally best-selling book...this poor girl can't catch a break.
Charlotte: He wasn't the right man for you. The only truest line uttered in the entire series, Charlotte had it spot on right. Carrie: She's style section Vera Wang. Me: Do you even know her to make such assumptions?
It wasn't a put down.
Good lord you ppl are taking carries character way to seriously. She's a character in a TV series/ movies its for entertainment based on books that were widley exaggerated to sell. Its not meant to depict real life. Jeesh...
The thing I understand about Carrie as I get older is that she didn't love herself enough when it came to Big. She broke up with him because he didn't care about her and their relationship. She put her foot down saying "I can't be with someone who doesn't love me better." So why does she then want to be "friends" when she sees him with Natasha? Why does she ask him to lunch? Where's the self-love? Ladies, we need to love ourselves more.
Elle voulait être amie avec lui car elle espérait le récupérer, car elle n'acceptait pas qu'il l'a rejette et en épouse une autre. Carrie n'avait aucune confiance en elle c'est pour cela qu'elle s'accrochait désespérément à lui plutôt que d'accepter les choses telles qu'elles étaient.
"what's next? Big and Natasha the movie?"😂😂😂😂
I think this is the one episode I really feel sorry for Carrie another one that stands out as when she is getting rid of her single clothes when she's marrying big
Je suis resté fidèle à cette série depuis 20 ans,je la regarde tout le temps et toujours émerveillé par l histoire de ces quatre presque soeur qui me font tout simplement plaisir .
One of the most great series I have ever seen. What really happens in real life.🙂😃🥰
Where are my home fries? 🍟🤪🤣
Carrie mentions how Big was nowhere mentioned in the newspaper article and then she turned around and did the same thing to Big in her Vogue article over her engagement and upcoming wedding in SATC movie. Karma for her thinking she’d never do anything like that.
Can somebody tell about the music that plays at the end of this scene?
What's that song at the end?
Lol when they use the same issues Carrie criticised with and use it in the first movie plot line!
Your "home fries" are sitting with you, girl.
SJP was the only actor who couldn’t cry when acting.
Going through this right now - didn’t make all the choices Carrie made staying with him for so long etc, but hung on in my head, long enough to watch him move on with someone I would regard as a Natasha. Instead of bitchy comments or judgment, try and understand how much pain a situation like this would cause. I’m trying to not let it break my esteem but it’s hard ❤️ anyone else holding on, please find another way, it can really break you xx
Well, this happens... at least in your case it was with a Natasha. In my case, I was the Natasha and the Carrie was really a dime a dozen nobody. Oh it hurts.
@@eduardochavacano Yes that happens too, think Beyoncé made a whole album about it. Hope you are dealing with it well, but sounds like you know your worth, I’m working on mine.
I think sometimes persons make you cause a damage in your self esteem, could be your boss, your partner, even your family and friend, the important thing is to overcome to the adversities, but sometimes is hard, how to try doesn't affect you when a person makes you feel bad 😥
I'm a life single, and there is NO WAY I would be a sloppy seconds.
still a life single?
How many of you cried when Carrie cried😭
😪💞
“‘Nobody is perfect” yeah but most people wouldn’t do half the shit that Carrie did. Normal, sane people, wouldn’t cheat on their boyfriend for a man that never even gave a fuck about them. If the goal was to portray Carrie as a terrible friend, lover and wife , they succeeded 100%. She didn’t deserve any of the good in her life.
You talk like you haven't seen SATC. Carrie was an awesome friend. She stood up for Mirands when a guy in a bar called her fat, she sent Aidan to help Miranda when she sprained her neck. She isn't perfect for sure but she was realistic.
@@rebelraccoon9018 she sent her boyfriend to help her naked friend that fell in her apartment. That wasn’t a good friend move at all, it was selfish. Miranda even got upset with Carrie because of this in that episode. And yeah, she was good to her friends sometimes, but she has far more selfish moments on the show than any of them.
This should've been the moment she wised up and forgot about him. I hate how she still chased him
Good acting here...she tried to hold the tears until the very end and it looked real
And she married him anyway.... because there are no eligible men in NY. lol
I acted like her when I saw a guy with another girl I had a crush on. My reaction was the same. At Carrie's age it's weird but she SJP played her role cool.
Well I would say Carrie is imperfectly perfect❤❤....White or Beige is Not always perfect...I wonder who used that as a symbolism
I have been the one who always is used to heal a relationship, every man I have been involved with chose someone else, married someone else, or went back to their ex-wife.
I am "Flying Solo" forever and ever.
I'm so sorry. Men suck.
Carrie wanted to get married.Dont pretend u dont want marriage if thats wat u want.If the guy your with doesnt want that EXIT.Problem is she thought she could keep him by denying herself.She should have slammed the BiG DOOR SHUt after he married Natasha.What he did was disgusting,and the fact that she participated isnt good either.
That was so awesome that Charlotte tried to take the paper from Carrie's vice death grip so she knew being the masochist Carrie is would read the announcement & cry & call her or miranda or sam anyway
I like the background music that's played at the end of the clip.. does anybody have a clue what music it is?
She’s not even really broken hearted over him, she’s just butt-hurt over Natasha. She wants Big with her or single and unhappy.
I feel Carrie's pain in this episode. felt the same way in my divorce in 2012.
Everyone can relate to feeling this kind of self hatred at some point in our lives
ALL JOKES ASIDE IF YOU'VE EVER BEEN IN THIS POSITION IT HURTS LIKE FREAKING HELL ... I HATE IT
People say "Sometimes it's too hard to like Carrie" but I say" it's too hard to hate her too"😔😔I know that guy have trampled over her each and every emotion everytime she trusted him and crushed her soul after marrying Natasha, messed up her relationship with Aiden which was literally perfect but she was too weak to get rid of him ever😑😑but that made Carrie CARRIE 😊😊SHE WAS PERFECT IN HER IMPERFECT WAY
The unintentional hold that Mr.Big had on Carrie is really really scary. She became the worst of herself whenever he came into her life. Miranda's words that the worst part is that you go back to him again and again to get hurt .....that defines Carrie and Big's relationship .
Umbearable behaviour did Carrie have. She was lucky enough to make Big tie the knot, and in a movie. I always saw Carrie as an immature girl with far much needs, and never ready to understand what a partnership should be.
OK I went and watched the movies and I just finished watching the series. In this scene Carrie’s talking about Natasha called the shots and the whole article is just and her point of you. But she ended up doing the same thing because she was afraid they did not get married things would end and the whole wedding was Carrie when big just wanted to go to the courthouse.
Charlotte looks so pretty! 🌸
Does somebody knows the song at the final?
low key this is my worst fear
Sasa Bowtie it sucks 😂
Absolutely
Even though everyone keeps saying Carrie should have married Aidan but what they don’t understand that they were two different people. Aidan wanted a traditional life, kids and Carrie was anything but traditional. They wouldn’t have been together even if they would have tried
I like carrie's outfit!!
"oh how romantic, they met in Paris ... "
Is anyone know the instrumental music title at the end?