Wise advise. I did that a couple times-trying to build someone up. And you are right they look down on you. It really creates a power imbalance. Thank you so much for bringing this up. I’ve never heard of this from others. I feel I have a cool wise cousin giving advise. Thank you so much!
We learn people how to treat us & in any kind of connection we have to put ourselves first 🥇 I will never ever put a guy first I learnt the hard way that all this time I was a people pleaser! The right people will respect our boundaries from day one ✌️ And most important they will admire how strong we become Thankies , Ruzina
Enjoyed listening to that, think it works both ways… and sometimes a wife can put her husband on a pedestal without being perceived as a ‘fan’. My wife is married to a man named Noj, he is her superstar! 😊😊😊 16:19
This guy went out of his way to help,when my husband had cancer,so he is a 'special' person. Then,after his death,there he was again asking if I needed help and how I was doing,so I consider this an entirely different situation. What do you believe?
Guilty of that action!!! Thank you for reminding me there’s no where to look except down!
You are very welcome glad it helped🙌❤️
Wise advise. I did that a couple times-trying to build someone up. And you are right they look down on you. It really creates a power imbalance. Thank you so much for bringing this up. I’ve never heard of this from others. I feel I have a cool wise cousin giving advise. Thank you so much!
You are most welome 🙌❤ IIt makes me really happy that you can resonate with the message. I appreacite your thoughtfuyl comment 🤗
Agreat message 👍 if you treat someone as a star they wil treat you as a fun 🙌 plain truth, self love is the best feeling ever 👍💯
Yes 💯
Golden advice for self-respect and self-love ❤indeed!
Glad you found it helpful ❤️
@@Ruzina ❤️
I put my ex on a pedestal for 11 years....huge mistake...never again
Yes, I did that. Unfortunately, I felt like I was always initiating a conversation not anymore.
Thank u Ruzina.😊
This is wht I need at the moment sister. Much love sis. ❤️
You are most welcome my dear I am really glad you found it helpful 🙌❤🤗
I like the way you talk❤just Amazing
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We learn people how to treat us & in any kind of connection we have to put ourselves first 🥇
I will never ever put a guy first I learnt the hard way that all this time I was a people pleaser! The right people will respect our boundaries from day one ✌️ And most important they will admire how strong we become
Thankies , Ruzina
Yes! 💯 ❤️
Excellent 🎉
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Well said❤
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Enjoyed listening to that, think it works both ways… and sometimes a wife can put her husband on a pedestal without being perceived as a ‘fan’. My wife is married to a man named Noj, he is her superstar! 😊😊😊 16:19
Thanks girl! This is exactly what I needed today
This makes me really happy knowing that it has been helpful and that you and you connected with the message 🙏❤😊
Yup cause when you put men on a pedestal they don’t see it as you being great, they seem themselves as great and will treat you accordingly
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Right👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻😀
This guy went out of his way to help,when my husband had cancer,so he is a 'special' person. Then,after his death,there he was again asking if I needed help and how I was doing,so I consider this an entirely different situation. What do you believe?
Never put woman on a pedestal. :)
yes it can work both ways!
Taking an advice from a 304.. good luck "Women".
Pedestal*
Thank for noticing this!