living alone vlog 🌷 journaling tips, self care, getting my life together

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2023
  • yep, here we go again, another depressive episode. I kinda just lost all motivation to do anything to be honest. felt kinda hopeless which is one of the scariest emotions ever. it’s like that feeling just consumes you right when you wake up which is so unfair. but thankfully emotions are always temporary.
    something just switched and I felt the motivation to go out again. this is why I always treasure the good moments. anyways been thinking about learning a new language and trying new things. let me know if you guys have any tips hehe.
    see you guys soon! ily 🤍🌷
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    tags: #livingalone #livingalonevlog #solodate #mentalhealth #depression #anxiety #selfcare
    sub count: 101k
    (tysm for 100K omg! so thankful for you guys! I will be addressing this in my next vlog and maybe we can do a mini celebration hehe)

Комментарии • 872

  • @oceyanna
    @oceyanna Год назад +615

    Is it just me or is via getting more and more happier lately?

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Год назад +312

      aweee 🌷🌷 i have my up moments and i have my down moments but i’ve been better these days!!

    • @swisdom9117
      @swisdom9117 Год назад +42

      She does but you can never trust that. So many people are smiling while suffering on the inside

    • @julicasingh1106
      @julicasingh1106 Год назад +7

      She's indeed getting happier and Prettier too

    • @madeelee953
      @madeelee953 Год назад +4

      I'm really happy to see her happy cuz I was trying to come over my depression episode by looking at her

    • @ShandowGroove
      @ShandowGroove Год назад +1

      ​@@via.ilyouu can you tell the background music during the journal part

  • @hannahmyung
    @hannahmyung Год назад +393

    Via is my comfort youtuber because she's seems so unbothered by other people and I just love that. Also congrats on 100K!! You deserve that and even more 🌷

  • @abinaya276
    @abinaya276 Год назад +70

    UR THE ONLY person on youtube ive found dealing with loneliness, anxiety while going on solo dates and enjoying being an introvert. ur just like me fr fr. college life is so lonely but i enjoy going out alone , thank u for not making me feel pathetic/sad for that and romanticising it

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Год назад +10

      this is so sweet of you to say! we are in this together! sending u so much love bestie 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @finn5656
    @finn5656 Год назад +190

    🌷 I only recently discovered your channel but you have quickly become my comfort youtuber. I am currrently struggling with a lot of anxiety and a depressive episode and binging your videos is bringing a lot of light into my life. Thank you.

    • @katiethewise
      @katiethewise Год назад +6

      i love how fast via has been growing in the span of less than a month. so proud of her!

  • @alessiomarzola5068
    @alessiomarzola5068 Год назад +7

    🌷 I find the "switch" thing you talked about near the end to be a real thing. Sometimes you just wake up and for the coming day, or maybe couple (or handful) of days you just feel off, you overthink stuff, you are louder with your thoughts than with your voice, and you always feel like you come off as awkward.
    And then, the switch turns on again, and the next day, you are as badass as ever.
    I honestly think there's no real reason for it, you just need to deal with it, and to learn something from it, making treasure of every thought you go through (journaling is gold).
    Anyways, great video and stunning editing as always!

  • @kirscheneis4258
    @kirscheneis4258 Год назад +176

    She’s living the main character life and I love it ❤

  • @pallabi.5
    @pallabi.5 Год назад +64

    The best fact about her is she doesn't hide things, she shows both the Good & bad part. She is really good💛 & also here you go- 🌷

  • @karlabonilla802
    @karlabonilla802 Год назад +28

    🌷I’m introverted and very anxious when it comes to going out alone but I’ve been watching your videos a lot recently and you’re inspiring me to want to go out alone and imo that’s a pretty big step out of my comfort zone bc I usually always go out with my friends or one of my brothers🫠 I feel like I’m learning alot from you and I’m really thankful ☺️🤍

  • @FloridaTesfay
    @FloridaTesfay Год назад +33

    I am struggling with depression and anxiety and this video felt validating, it made me want to go out. I could relate a lot, thank you>333

  • @SnehaMulleria
    @SnehaMulleria Год назад +47

    I like how she goes to so many different places alone… I feel obliged to go out with friends (which i don’t have), thank u for inspiring me Via 😭💕💕

  • @slickrikx5921
    @slickrikx5921 Год назад +29

    So happy I found you! As an introvert your content feels like a hug

  • @jlluv10
    @jlluv10 Год назад +13

    You will not believe me if I told you that I have spend the past days watching all your videos, watching your vlogs and listening to you talking about a lot of things like self love, loneliness, fear of failure and lots of important topics. it’s really an amazing thing that I found a person who can make me feel better, comfortable, and confident. I really love when you talking with us like we’re your best friend🥺🥺 we’re so lucky to have you in our life, you’re an amazing girl via we love you🥺💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @i_xeeart9143
    @i_xeeart9143 Год назад +18

    I am also feeling kinda same now days and your video reminds me how much journaling helps us to clear our thoughts and to stop avoiding real problems we are dealing with...Just stay healthy and upload more videos 🫶

  • @nyracrypton5938
    @nyracrypton5938 Год назад +10

    she and her videos feel like home , i mean she is like a older sister if i had one , im not saying i idolize her but infact i get comfort seeing her .the fact that she goes everywhere alone is so relatable to me cus firstly i also used to wait for friends to go to a certain place but in end they would take me where they want to ( becs from their perspective the places i want to go is boring ) ,so i decided to not rely on someone and explore new things alone and now i find it so good no one to judge just me my coffee and peace . i go to bookshops , cafes ,library , my institute everywhere alone and trust me it feels nice to be alone .

  • @Pyrax0x
    @Pyrax0x Год назад +5

    I honestly understand the feeling of "when will it get better" I feel like atm I'm having such a bad body image of myself that it effects me everyday when I wakeup I haven't been feeling good about myself especially as I'm so fixated on this one bit on my face. I just know that after my alevels ill start feeling better and will soon do that change if its effecting me too much. 🌷

  • @busraa2761
    @busraa2761 Год назад +6

    you are comforting me more than any youtuber i just wanna thank u for that 🌷🌷🌷

  • @user-tm3do9nj3y
    @user-tm3do9nj3y 9 месяцев назад +2

    🌷I watching your video while enjoying myself with my journal routine, and yeah i feel so much comfortable. Happy to spend my time with you. 🌷

  • @chloes5043
    @chloes5043 Год назад +5

    🌷 going outside while depressed always feel like a huge win for me. Good for you for finding the strength to do all those things 💪🔥

  • @reemzeem
    @reemzeem Год назад +27

    found your channel a few weeks ago, and your honesty in the videos have genuinely helped me understand that I am not alone.
    i was really glad to have found your channel, how you spoke about your experience in the growing up ugly video, I have never related with anyone so much
    I enjoy all of your journal entries as well, and also the first episode of the healing diaries.
    You having the courage to be vulnerable on the internet has helped so many people.
    LOTS OF LOVE AND APPRECIATION TO MY VIRTUAL OLDER SISTER

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Год назад +9

      aweee thank uuu for liking my videos🥹🩷i really means so much to me🌷🩷🩷🩷sending u so much love ☀️☀️

  • @hikimchi4507
    @hikimchi4507 Год назад +2

    do not feel ashamed of your emotions. thank u for that reminder 🥺🌷

  • @adhiswarikar4515
    @adhiswarikar4515 Год назад +9

    🌷 I discovered your channel literally two days ago and you've become my comfort RUclipsr. You're just so real and I feel a bit motivated to go out. Also, your past videos about growing up ugly and finding the confidence to wear the clothes I want really spoke to me. I feel wayy better after watching them. Thank you so much 💗 have a wonderful day~

  • @1747path
    @1747path Год назад +11

    🌷I'm honestly really thankful to have found your channel. There are so many times when I find myself nodding along in agreement and being able to relate with others is one of my favorite things. Love you and I can't wait until the next video :)

  • @_aesthete._.art_8377
    @_aesthete._.art_8377 Год назад +3

    Via congratulations on 100k !!!! You're the best!!!!🌷💌

  • @RanjaRak
    @RanjaRak Год назад +4

    I love watching your vlogs. I just love how relatable and fun you are🌷❤

  • @maggiemoo9311
    @maggiemoo9311 Год назад +5

    I LOVE your editing so MUCHHHHH, so simple and pretty and iconic and so easy to watch!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @SeanMura
    @SeanMura Год назад +5

    listening to you ramble is calming and helps me process my own emotions 🌷

  • @kpepgi
    @kpepgi Год назад

    congrats on 100k !! you and your videos always make my day better and i love how comforting they are 🌷

  • @phanhongloan1978
    @phanhongloan1978 Год назад +1

    I love how you express your emotion and just being your authentic self. You inspire me a lot!!!!

  • @manjospy
    @manjospy Год назад +4

    You are a ray of sunshine! These videos are my COMFORT ZONE 🌷🌷🌷

  • @y2.nsug0
    @y2.nsug0 Год назад +1

    love the vibes Via and really these days watching your videos just makes my days better and happier 😊

  • @zummilol
    @zummilol Год назад

    CONGRATS ON 100K !!

  • @mutabilidadeconstante7685
    @mutabilidadeconstante7685 Год назад +2

    🌷i found really comforting watching your videos and it's just so weird and good how sometimes i feel better just to see someone i can relate to

  • @betxengi5388
    @betxengi5388 Год назад +5

    🌷 I love the way you say your thoughts out loud. Knowing that someone else is talking to herself in some way calms me down 😂

  • @justsalma.
    @justsalma. Год назад +3

    WAKE UPPP!!! Via Posted!!🩷🫶🏽

  • @ly7712
    @ly7712 Год назад +2

    🌷i love your videos!! the way you talk to the camera seems so personal and comfortable, and as someone who struggles with a lot of things you mention in your videos, its very comforting to watch all of your vlogs

  • @oscar.hdez5
    @oscar.hdez5 Год назад +1

    via you are such an inspiration!!! i've been struggling being alone and this is so motivating to me. i REALLY love your content

  • @shivany99
    @shivany99 Год назад +2

    Omgg your videos are just so comforting i love it so much, have a great day Via 💗🌷

  • @danielledeleon3095
    @danielledeleon3095 Год назад

    Ive been watching ur content for a while and it defs calms me. Ive been staying at home either glued to my bed or pc for the past 3-4weeks and finally ive gotten the motivation to go out and do some shopping today. The weather wasnt great but it made me super happy. Window shopping (well not rly..i bought 2 books 🤭), eating snacks, chilling at a cafe for a bit (solo) made me feel at peace. All this time ive been waiting for my friends to be available but going out solo is just as enjoyable 😌

  • @Latteyeo
    @Latteyeo Год назад +3

    Started watching your videos in the past month and now you are my comfort RUclipsr TT I really feel like my feelings and emotions are valid and real when I see that we share a lot of common thoughts thoughts and feels 🫶🏻 luv u so much 💗

  • @IsmatEjaz
    @IsmatEjaz Год назад +1

    🌷recently found your channel and got addicted to your vlogs love you ❤❤❤

  • @minie.monggggg
    @minie.monggggg Год назад +10

    via, CONGRATS ON 100K, you're literally my source of inspiration im so grateful i found you, i love you so freaking much

  • @katamala6714
    @katamala6714 Год назад +2

    🌷 i love the way you film your videos

  • @mvriyam
    @mvriyam Год назад

    🌷 via you make me feel so much better thank you for existing

  • @aLotusFl0w3r
    @aLotusFl0w3r 7 месяцев назад

    your content just makes me happy its like so comforting 🌷

  • @jaz6880
    @jaz6880 9 месяцев назад

    🌷I just started watching you yesterday and have been binging your videos ever since. You literally made my day.🌷

  • @iloveme4216
    @iloveme4216 2 месяца назад

    You’re my comfort RUclipsr. Thank you so much for posting videos. Lately I’ve been feeling insecure, and watching your videos makes me feel better. Thank you so much❤️

  • @mazu9700
    @mazu9700 Год назад

    your vlogs are so comforting < 3 🌷

  • @Cherry_stan
    @Cherry_stan 2 месяца назад

    your videos bring me so much comfort🌷

  • @elllie3630
    @elllie3630 Год назад

    Congrats on 100k I love watching your videos. Every other I force myself to go outside especially spring summer the sun is shining nice weather going outside always makes you feel better even for a short walk

  • @thefatmaniyyah
    @thefatmaniyyah 5 месяцев назад

    Via, i already love ur humor! You seem like a really fun person. I wish you more good days babe 💗 thanks for being real

  • @Masamaihari
    @Masamaihari Год назад +5

    This was really comforting. I like the vibes :)

  • @keziadantu
    @keziadantu Год назад +1

    the best comforting gift after a long day of writing exams and studying 🌷thank you for being you via!

  • @savyasoran
    @savyasoran Год назад +2

    At this point, I just like your videos before watching them, Your videos are so comforting and you have sucha positive and kind energy🥰

  • @kami8041
    @kami8041 Год назад

    omg you hit 100 k it's mind blowing ur growing so fast I am proud of you💓💓💓💓

  • @Summer-lx4wo
    @Summer-lx4wo Год назад +4

    🌷lately been so stressed and demotivated but after stumbling up on one of your vlogs one morning it just motivated me to keep going and that we ourselves have to make things better for us💝 Thank you so muchie! I loved your vlogs!

  • @darkblaster8
    @darkblaster8 Год назад +3

    you know it’s going to be a good day when Via uploads 🌷❤🌷

  • @__moonbunny
    @__moonbunny Год назад +1

    I FREAKING LOVE YOUR VLOGS, VIA. I’ve been stuck in a dark place/negative mindset for years now and you motivate me to do things that make me happy and grow as a person🌷 Sending love from Canada🌷❤️😭😭😭

  • @roses6261
    @roses6261 Год назад +1

    I recently found your channel and istg i am hooked!
    I have been binge watching your vlogs 😂❤

  • @gothizzie
    @gothizzie Год назад

    you're my fav RUclipsr for a while now 🥺 I wanna thank you so much for your videos!! it makes me feel so comfortable and they're really good!!! i'm always watching you in the mornings and after school.
    It's awesome that you're dealing well with your problems, i'm really proud of you!
    kisses from Brasil ❤

  • @marseillebelley
    @marseillebelley Год назад

    you are such a comfort to me via 🥺

  • @karinagutierrez8522
    @karinagutierrez8522 Год назад

    getting home from a slow and boring day of work to one of your videos is always so great 🫶🏻 i recently binged all your vids and i literally love your editing and content aesthetic and format, sending lots of love ❤️ 🌷❤

  • @Salma-cq9mz
    @Salma-cq9mz 8 месяцев назад

    I just had one of those depressive episodes & well this video helped me survive...love youuu you're like a bestie whenever I feel down & lonely I watch ur videos

  • @ananyabhattacharya4551
    @ananyabhattacharya4551 Год назад +1

    u inspire me so much!!!! you feel like an older sister 2 me ahaha im glad you make content cuz it comforts me knowing there are other ppl out there who've had the same experiences as me and are doing well (or atleast trying to and even thats enough) 🌷

  • @urmomsfav111
    @urmomsfav111 Год назад

    You're my comfort youtuber 🌷💕 i lovee you're vlogs sm 💕💕🧘🏽‍♀️

  • @zzhangfairy
    @zzhangfairy Год назад

    i love how real u r abt ur feelings

  • @nottheshreeyouknow
    @nottheshreeyouknow Год назад

    i absolutely LOVE your vlogs. i feel so calm and relaxed and I relate so much with you on so many things! and yes, i'd love to go on a journaling date with you, just the thought of it is so fun!! hoping you find your "switch" super duper soon. lots of love!! also, congratulations on 100k!🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @femke4548
    @femke4548 Год назад +5

    Your videos are such a comfort, i love waking up early to be able to watch your videos before school, makes me feel so much better

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Год назад

      awwwww this makes me so happy to hear!! 🌷🩷☀️

  • @oliviartadriani
    @oliviartadriani Год назад

    I'm currently in love with your vlogs!! 🌷

  • @jarofpinar
    @jarofpinar Год назад +1

    you make me so happy, thank you for your efforts on your content

  • @ivyboodoo1025
    @ivyboodoo1025 Год назад

    seeing you happy makes me happy
    this vlog was so comforting.
    🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @hannahcheah9692
    @hannahcheah9692 Год назад

    Your vlogs are just so comforting, love u Via🌷

  • @ayalqumairi
    @ayalqumairi Год назад

    i love your videos so much 🫶🏽 so glad i found you!!!

  • @falaknaazshaikh7894
    @falaknaazshaikh7894 Год назад +5

    You are the one who makes me feel like there is someone like me out there iam not alone, 🌷☺️

  • @blossom1655
    @blossom1655 Год назад +1

    Your videos are definition of comfort to me ❤️🌷

  • @olliesworlld
    @olliesworlld Год назад

    Im so excited to watch your vlog Via!! 🥹❤️ you’ve been my fav RUclipsr lately (thank god for RUclips recommendation right?) also congrats on 100k!!! 🌸

  • @balqishazwan
    @balqishazwan Год назад

    Congrats on 100k you deserve it omg

  • @yassi9148
    @yassi9148 Год назад

    your videos are my absolute favorite 🌷🫶🏼

  • @user-kx5rr1cv6e
    @user-kx5rr1cv6e 10 месяцев назад

    🌷i absolutely love you cause you make me feel like its okay and normal to be anxious and depressed and that it really does get better.mwah! :))))))

  • @nirmaleesahu828
    @nirmaleesahu828 Год назад +5

    I recently stumbled upon your channel and I've not felt happier.. its like seeing an exact soulmate doing the same things on the other side of the world, its soo crazy. what you said about lowering caffeine but having a coffee then a green tea the same day is so uncanny bc I did the same thing yesterday haha.. also my self dates pretty much look the same. i hope you never shy away from being yourself and making more cute videos

  • @stvrlightt2536
    @stvrlightt2536 Год назад

    ok your the BEST.. Your vlogs make my day, your personality is just amazing... Your videos encourage me to do things and go out... You’re my comfort youtuber 🌷

  • @l4ur4lee.30
    @l4ur4lee.30 Год назад

    🌷i love your videos!! you're so real ahh

  • @orbitingmooooo8335
    @orbitingmooooo8335 Год назад +2

    Felt this so much, Thankyou for the reminder that we aren’t alone 🌷🌷

  • @dinosprouts
    @dinosprouts Год назад +2

    aah omg so excited to watch!! i love ur videos so much they’re so comforting 💗💗

  • @wehspal8a355
    @wehspal8a355 Год назад +1

    You just know it's going to be a good day when via post !💖🎀

  • @mai1tsy
    @mai1tsy Год назад +1

    love your videos especially your editing omg, you're really slaying🌷🌷
    btw i discovered your channel not a long time ago, and it's such a comfortable zone, i feel good when watching your videos and will definitely take notes regarding your tips !

  • @moonyuelune
    @moonyuelune Год назад

    u make me so happy. sending u love!!!

  • @champagne_problems5042
    @champagne_problems5042 Год назад

    your videos are everything 😍 you're so honest and funny

  • @posie_blue5910
    @posie_blue5910 11 месяцев назад

    uhhh your vlogs are perfection

  • @sara-lt2td
    @sara-lt2td Год назад

    Thank you Via for making this videos and making us feel better! 🌷💌

  • @aksharasrija4330
    @aksharasrija4330 Год назад

    For most part of vlogs, Via is just so relatable and I like it so much. 🌷

  • @artlove3929
    @artlove3929 Год назад +1

    🌷🌷🌷🌷I don't know why but I found the things u talk and think about the buying perspective thing and other thoughts to be so related to me just found ur channel but such a comforting person luv u🥰

  • @leticianeves1492
    @leticianeves1492 Год назад

    I love your videos and your advice so much, I always feel great watching your videos, you are an inspiration to me. 🌷

  • @Bbqbbq13
    @Bbqbbq13 Год назад

    🌷 you make me calmer just by watching your videos and advice, wish the best for you fr 🤍

  • @muhayyill
    @muhayyill Год назад

    your videos make me happy and less stressful. Thanks to the video you are pretty!!

  • @jenova6256
    @jenova6256 Год назад

    Your videos are so comforting omg 🛐

  • @k1ny4n19
    @k1ny4n19 Год назад

    Congrats on 102K Via

  • @poorvaavyas
    @poorvaavyas Год назад

    Congrats for 100k💗🥳

  • @sugarsweetberry
    @sugarsweetberry Год назад

    You are literally human sunshine, like you make me so happy

  • @herpersona4064
    @herpersona4064 Год назад

    İ always feel better when İ'm watching your videos . Thank you Via🌷

  • @zzwanning
    @zzwanning Год назад +1

    via i just wanted to let you know that discovering your channel was one of the best things to have ever happened to me. thank you so much! 🌷