i am glad to know that you have been finding ways to help yourself in terms of personal and mental wellbeing before you are ready to film again. also, thank you for your courage on making this video. hope you can keep on doing what you love in life and continue being who you are no matter what. all the best in your new job and please take care!! :3
Thank you for sharing your stories, Kieko! I discovered your channel while dealing with a terrible situation in my shared house and searched for "horrible shared experiences" on RUclips. And your recent video resonated with me as I've faced a similar situation. I'm originally from Japan, moved to Germany for work but ended up in a toxic relationship with my boss and was dismissed at the end of June. This experience shattered my self-confidence, left me traumatized, and struggling to figure out what to do next. A week ago, I secured a new job and am now preparing to reapply for my work visa in Germany. I no longer feel alone! This is my first comment on RUclips, and I just wanted to tell thank you!
@@NaNa-nl5xd Thank you for your comment! I appreciate it and, thanks for letting me know how you found my channel! Life can be so cruel and it takes time to heal but I'm glad to hear that you have also got a new job, and you can now open a new chapter in your life 😊. Nice to also see another Japanese person here!
You are a genuine and beautiful lady, I knew your a lot of toxic experiences through your previous video, You are a good and really kind person, but sometimes the real world and the people around you are really cruel, So you need to be strong and protect yourself avoid getting hurt, even though you may get lonely living in the ridiculous world
good choice on the career/job change. if u don't enjoy the job then continuing on will only stress u out more. keep up the good work and keep the videos going even if it is just short videos to keep fans updated on how u are. btw i'm from Singapore. love HK and i make it a pt to visit at least once a year.
Hi Keiko! I really like watching your channel, please keep up the good work! You are a genuine person and stay true to yourself. Hope that you will have some videos introducing Hong Kong too. Ganbatte! 💪🏻🌺
Hi keiko, Wishing you well on your new job! I feel like we are on the same boat and I have always struggle with my mental health. I feel like I haven’t find a friend who understands me. They tend to think I’m a negative person. The world can be a very lonely place and I’m glad you are doing better. Take care!
Pick yourself up, take a deep breath and get yourself out there gurl. Life is full of ups and downs. Confront your fear don’t avoid it. Stay strong 💪 God Bless.
I am from Vancouver. I started subscribing to your channel after your interview with Apple Daily. I am glad that you are resuming your videos again. 😊 Thanks for your honest sharing. We are all learning in our life long journey. Take care, you are not alone. ❤
If you can't handle comments from haters, please quit youtube for your own good seriously. Haters always hate. Life is short. Not worth to spend a single minute to read the hater's comment. All the best to your new job and its a new chapter in your life. Take care!
The conversation I had wasn't from a comment left on RUclips. It was a face to face discussion I had with someone who I thought was a friend. I would 100% quit RUclips if I was affected by all the haters comments.
@@KiekoMyou are so real that’s why I like your channel. You will get haters and that’s fine. The world is huge , you have more lovers than haters , that’s your success! You just need to remember no matter how many haters there, your supporters are always your strongest forces! ❤
As my personal experiences, don't vent your negative emotions to anyone you think of as friends unless they are your childhood best friends. Many people in Hong Kong don't really like to listen the negative parts of your life, but the positive things all the time. They don't want to be negatively affected by your negative state of mind 😢. I already learned a lesson and got hurt by my sister in law whom I thought was a good listener.
@@littlegoddess yes, I've also heard this from another friend. I guess it might be a cultural difference? But for me I find this a bit too unrealistic especially when friends ask "how was your day?" or "how's your family?" I can only answer honestly. For me friends should be there for you for the good and the bad. If they can't then they are just acquaintances. I'll only share details of my life if I'm asked questions. But if it's too negative for them then they are not really a friend? As a friend should either reassure you if you're upset or tell you to seek therapy if it's something major. I'm fine with people not wanting to know me if they are judgemental. But at my age I'm not really looking for surface level friendships as quality is more important. I understand what you're saying hence I've stopped looking for friends in HK. Hopefully one day an actual friend will come along 😂
I will recommend The book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*K" - It gives you new perspective to focus on what you should be focusing on. There's some podcast about it in RUclips as well, so you probably do not need to read it (They are like a Podcast by the author himself) STAY STRONG! FIGHTING! ALL THE BEST!
Thanks for the recommendation! I did come across that book at a book shop, but didn't get to finish it. I'll check out the podcast. Had no idea it was on RUclips so good to know! Thank you!
I'm glad that you have self awareness in prioritising yourself over social media. I stumbled into your vlogs in the youtube feed years ago. Watching you being transparent about your struggles makes it so relatable and I thank you for being real 🥺 Take care Kieko!! Ash from Malaysia 👋
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm taking two weeks off work myself to deal with nerve pain that's caused by anxiety (although my anxiety is caused by clients/nature of work more than work colleagues)
We miss you and glad you are doing better! The road to healing is not easy, and it's a lifelong lesson/journey. Please take your time, and as cheesy as it sounds, do listen to your body and heart. Add oil ah!
unemployment is killing ordinary life of modern rural citizen; i have been unemployed for over 1 year after 9 months of searching, economy is not doing well, tough days ahead but we will need to adjust our mind and conquer the obstacle
Have you considered moving out of HK for better opportunities and also better life? As proficient as your english is, I'm surprised you have not moved out of HK
@@mightyx we've weighed out all our options and for now HK is still the best place for us. We are planning to leave after I get my PR. But nothing is concrete.
Hi Kieko hope your well. I know my Mum is very toxic chinese. No one wanted to look after her as shes old and miserable. My wife looked after her till she stressed her out so she was affected and got cancer and also passed away. My heart is so broken and empty. We supposingly did the right thing, but we shouldnt off looked after her. Life is short you need to make yourself happy, You need to stop and cutting every person that either put you down, or not on your side. I find in this age of social media everyone have a voice, however most voices are their views. Keep your chin up.
Thank you for sharing. I'm really sorry to hear that. No one should ever have to endure a toxic parent. It's really not worth the risk and damage 😞. I've learnt from going back to London that nothing will change and there's no point trying. I agree with you. Cutting off people who don't care about you at all is the only way forward.
@@KiekoMthanks for your reply. Now Im just trying to keep doing what makes me happy. Going to toy shops buying the toys I couldnt afford taking my son out. Keep living the best I can. You too need to live the best you can. Also alot of people are judgmental, only you can judge.
You are so wonderful. Please don't let the outside force affect you. Live happy and be proud of who you are.
i am glad to know that you have been finding ways to help yourself in terms of personal and mental wellbeing before you are ready to film again. also, thank you for your courage on making this video. hope you can keep on doing what you love in life and continue being who you are no matter what. all the best in your new job and please take care!! :3
@@adalenechan6475 thank you ❤️
I will try my best!
Thank you for sharing your stories, Kieko! I discovered your channel while dealing with a terrible situation in my shared house and searched for "horrible shared experiences" on RUclips. And your recent video resonated with me as I've faced a similar situation. I'm originally from Japan, moved to Germany for work but ended up in a toxic relationship with my boss and was dismissed at the end of June. This experience shattered my self-confidence, left me traumatized, and struggling to figure out what to do next. A week ago, I secured a new job and am now preparing to reapply for my work visa in Germany. I no longer feel alone! This is my first comment on RUclips, and I just wanted to tell thank you!
@@NaNa-nl5xd Thank you for your comment! I appreciate it and, thanks for letting me know how you found my channel! Life can be so cruel and it takes time to heal but I'm glad to hear that you have also got a new job, and you can now open a new chapter in your life 😊. Nice to also see another Japanese person here!
Wish your love with Kurt can empower you a lot to face any adversity in HK. Pray for you both.❤❤
I think sharing sad story or feeling is okay. So pls dont hestitate and hope u feel little bit of warm feeling
You are a beautiful person both inside and outside, believe in yourself and you are much better than many people I see in this world. Take care!
You are a genuine and beautiful lady, I knew your a lot of toxic experiences through your previous video, You are a good and really kind person, but sometimes the real world and the people around you are really cruel, So you need to be strong and protect yourself avoid getting hurt, even though you may get lonely living in the ridiculous world
I agree, thank you!
Kurt is a simple kind person. Please treasure him. I am sure with his support, you can face any difficulties.
good choice on the career/job change. if u don't enjoy the job then continuing on will only stress u out more. keep up the good work and keep the videos going even if it is just short videos to keep fans updated on how u are.
btw i'm from Singapore. love HK and i make it a pt to visit at least once a year.
Thank you! Yes I agree. Never stay in a job that makes you unhappy.
Yes I'll be making shorter videos more often☺
I love Singapore!
Hi Keiko! I really like watching your channel, please keep up the good work! You are a genuine person and stay true to yourself. Hope that you will have some videos introducing Hong Kong too. Ganbatte! 💪🏻🌺
Hi keiko,
Wishing you well on your new job! I feel like we are on the same boat and I have always struggle with my mental health. I feel like I haven’t find a friend who understands me. They tend to think I’m a negative person. The world can be a very lonely place and I’m glad you are doing better. Take care!
welcome back❤ Take care💪
Pick yourself up, take a deep breath and get yourself out there gurl. Life is full of ups and downs. Confront your fear don’t avoid it. Stay strong 💪 God Bless.
I am from Vancouver. I started subscribing to your channel after your interview with Apple Daily. I am glad that you are resuming your videos again. 😊 Thanks for your honest sharing. We are all learning in our life long journey. Take care, you are not alone. ❤
Thank you ❤️
Really like to watch your videos❤❤❤! Life is not always smooth and easy. Just breathe hard and go ahead! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Welcome back. Thanks for being genuine! Hope you have great start on new job! 👍
I'm from Vancouver, and am glad that you are getting better
If you can't handle comments from haters, please quit youtube for your own good seriously. Haters always hate. Life is short. Not worth to spend a single minute to read the hater's comment. All the best to your new job and its a new chapter in your life. Take care!
The conversation I had wasn't from a comment left on RUclips. It was a face to face discussion I had with someone who I thought was a friend. I would 100% quit RUclips if I was affected by all the haters comments.
@@KiekoMyou are so real that’s why I like your channel. You will get haters and that’s fine. The world is huge , you have more lovers than haters , that’s your success! You just need to remember no matter how many haters there, your supporters are always your strongest forces! ❤
As my personal experiences, don't vent your negative emotions to anyone you think of as friends unless they are your childhood best friends. Many people in Hong Kong don't really like to listen the negative parts of your life, but the positive things all the time. They don't want to be negatively affected by your negative state of mind 😢. I already learned a lesson and got hurt by my sister in law whom I thought was a good listener.
@@littlegoddess yes, I've also heard this from another friend. I guess it might be a cultural difference? But for me I find this a bit too unrealistic especially when friends ask "how was your day?" or "how's your family?" I can only answer honestly. For me friends should be there for you for the good and the bad. If they can't then they are just acquaintances. I'll only share details of my life if I'm asked questions. But if it's too negative for them then they are not really a friend? As a friend should either reassure you if you're upset or tell you to seek therapy if it's something major. I'm fine with people not wanting to know me if they are judgemental. But at my age I'm not really looking for surface level friendships as quality is more important. I understand what you're saying hence I've stopped looking for friends in HK. Hopefully one day an actual friend will come along 😂
@@lealee2647 thank you ❤️ yes I really appreciate all my supporters.
I will recommend The book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*K" - It gives you new perspective to focus on what you should be focusing on. There's some podcast about it in RUclips as well, so you probably do not need to read it (They are like a Podcast by the author himself) STAY STRONG! FIGHTING! ALL THE BEST!
Thanks for the recommendation! I did come across that book at a book shop, but didn't get to finish it. I'll check out the podcast. Had no idea it was on RUclips so good to know! Thank you!
I'm glad that you have self awareness in prioritising yourself over social media. I stumbled into your vlogs in the youtube feed years ago.
Watching you being transparent about your struggles makes it so relatable and I thank you for being real 🥺
Take care Kieko!!
Ash from Malaysia 👋
@@ashleychaw really happy to read your comment and appreciate it. Thank you Ash from Malaysia 🙏
Just be yourself Kieko! I like you being real and honest to the public. Hope you and Kurt are doing well in Hong Kong with 🐶💕
Thank you ❤️ we are doing well! 🥰
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm taking two weeks off work myself to deal with nerve pain that's caused by anxiety (although my anxiety is caused by clients/nature of work more than work colleagues)
@@en0000 Sorry to hear you deal with nerve pain. Hope you recover soon. And thanks for watching!
We miss you and glad you are doing better! The road to healing is not easy, and it's a lifelong lesson/journey. Please take your time, and as cheesy as it sounds, do listen to your body and heart. Add oil ah!
Thank you 💕. Yes absolutely. I agree!
God bless, have a good start, fingers crossed
Welcome back ❤ Take care ❤
Thanks for your video Kieko 💕bad things happen but it’ll also go away eventually keep fighting ☺️
@@szeyanleung-q8t thank you 😊
Been waiting for your update!! Good to see you!! Excited to view your video now 🤣
Being an educator is very hard these days, especially in Hong Kong, I feel. Stay real, Kieko! ❤❤❤
unemployment is killing ordinary life of modern rural citizen; i have been unemployed for over 1 year after 9 months of searching, economy is not doing well, tough days ahead but we will need to adjust our mind and conquer the obstacle
Please take good care of yourself, cheers!
FYI - I am from Toronto, Canada
@@brianchan31-180 thank you Brian from Canada!
Keep doing ❤❤👍👍
I hope you getting better
Take care Kieko.
God bless you❤
Have you considered moving out of HK for better opportunities and also better life? As proficient as your english is, I'm surprised you have not moved out of HK
@@mightyx we've weighed out all our options and for now HK is still the best place for us. We are planning to leave after I get my PR. But nothing is concrete.
Hi Kieko hope your well. I know my Mum is very toxic chinese. No one wanted to look after her as shes old and miserable. My wife looked after her till she stressed her out so she was affected and got cancer and also passed away. My heart is so broken and empty. We supposingly did the right thing, but we shouldnt off looked after her. Life is short you need to make yourself happy, You need to stop and cutting every person that either put you down, or not on your side. I find in this age of social media everyone have a voice, however most voices are their views. Keep your chin up.
Thank you for sharing. I'm really sorry to hear that. No one should ever have to endure a toxic parent. It's really not worth the risk and damage 😞. I've learnt from going back to London that nothing will change and there's no point trying. I agree with you. Cutting off people who don't care about you at all is the only way forward.
@@KiekoMthanks for your reply. Now Im just trying to keep doing what makes me happy. Going to toy shops buying the toys I couldnt afford taking my son out. Keep living the best I can. You too need to live the best you can. Also alot of people are judgmental, only you can judge.
I feel like you are tied to HK life which is not something you truly want... just saying~ hope you find what you actually want soon :)
Support
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don rememebr how i came acrosos ur channel... im frm london,
turn over a new leaf. hope everything will work out the best for you
It is random algorithm to see thie video, but would like to suggest away from city people life long time for recharge.
If you and Kurt want, my wife and I can talk with you. We are social workers in HK for years....
Thank you for offering. I currently don’t need any counselling but I’ll let you know if I do.
Doesn't really matter, you only have 18k subs.