If Your Life is Falling Apart Do These 15 Things (Powerful)

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @alux
    @alux  11 месяцев назад +26

    Hello Aluxers, some of you are going through a shift, and we're here to help!
    Forget about everyone else and invest in yourself now: www.alux.com/app
    Depending on what you're dealing with, we built a framework to get you going: www.alux.org

  • @hip5748
    @hip5748 11 месяцев назад +54

    Alux I’ve lost almost everything, my businesses, I had 2 businesses that I’ve lost, I lost my cars a sprinter & my bmw where I always listened to you in my bmx I miss my car 😔 I got my license suspended, I lost my mother the list goes on but some how I’m still excited about trying again on which I’m extremely grateful to God for bcuz it’s a huge blessing, might not b wat I was thinking but it can get me to where I wanna go, I can’t give up I have 2 daughters depending on me & have been having a hard time giving them wat they need, and that is eating alive, I beg that this is wat gets me to where I need to be, I am fearless I will give this my all so help me God 🙏🏽 I needed to get this off my chest, thank you Alux

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +20

      We’re glad this got to you! Now turn your life around. We believe in you!

    • @CedricSmith-un6vm
      @CedricSmith-un6vm 9 месяцев назад +3

      How did you lose everything?

    • @therealrodney8561
      @therealrodney8561 9 месяцев назад +10

      So now you know that losing The closest things to you will not destroy you that is something most will never know in a lifetime because they are afraid to let go and find out. You did not have a choice, now do not hesitate to learn from your business failures and live the life you want truly. Something tells me your bliss is where your fortune is and is what your beautiful mother truly wanted for you. Her precious love is with you every minute of everyday uninhibited by time distance and space. Now go to your destiny Young Jedi. I believe in you!❤

    • @S0a0m0i0r
      @S0a0m0i0r 8 месяцев назад +3

      Nice concept of channel that what we needed those days a little of feath from feary life 👍👍👍☺️☺️☺️

    • @dagimadamu2520
      @dagimadamu2520 8 месяцев назад +7

      😢 you got this my man just keep trying

  • @CloneTechDrones-619
    @CloneTechDrones-619 11 месяцев назад +18

    So true about #13, alcohol does put the mind in peace, but when you overindulge, you end up wasting an entire day recovering from a hangover.

    • @SneakerBiscut
      @SneakerBiscut 11 месяцев назад +2

      Alcohol prevents you from getting a decent nights sleep

  • @juliek.2400
    @juliek.2400 11 месяцев назад +18

    The voice in my head has been the “keep on going” voice 😊 I’ve had a few failures and one of them took 5 years of my life. I was upset but not unhappy. The thing is: I’ve learned to block all external factors/influence from affecting my happiness level.

    • @SamL-j1i
      @SamL-j1i Месяц назад

      That’s great advice. I wish I could ask you more about this more

  • @silkcherry1413
    @silkcherry1413 11 месяцев назад +47

    Victory is the point where defeat is overcomed with consistency, acceptance, and rebirth of self.

  • @Chaos1612mr
    @Chaos1612mr 11 месяцев назад +113

    In 2022 I had lost my job, one month after, my girlfriend at the time gave me the "Im not happy" speech. Broke up with me and left.
    No job
    No girlfriend
    Left with an apartment with me now paying all the bills.
    It was tough but I got through this by going to the gym. I always had an gym membership which I renewal yearly. At the gym everyday helped my mind greatly.
    Loosing my job and my ex leaving me happened over 2 months. After those 2 months, I landed myself an new job earning 10K a year more than the job I was fired from :)
    It all turned out well in the end and still kept my health and fitness in check
    VICTORY!

    • @a1jones
      @a1jones 11 месяцев назад +6

      Congrats ! 👏 you only going up from there

    • @ducarmelmoise1194
      @ducarmelmoise1194 11 месяцев назад +9

      Interesting story
      Those are examples of the powerfulness of Alux
      Victory!

    • @steniorodrigo5590
      @steniorodrigo5590 11 месяцев назад +7

      It is very common for woman to break up when the man has no job or money.
      I'm happy that you have turned things around.

    • @Chaos1612mr
      @Chaos1612mr 11 месяцев назад

      @@steniorodrigo5590 Thanks, yeah that's true. That's why I found myself a new job within 6 weeks as I knew the clock was ticking but she never bothered to stay around to see me get back on my feet during the relationship.

    • @garylperkinsiii5140
      @garylperkinsiii5140 11 месяцев назад +11

      I'm in a similar situation now. Thank you for sharing your story. It only motivates me to keep grinding, knowing it will all work out.

  • @leadgenjay
    @leadgenjay 11 месяцев назад +6

    Solid advice on not starting anything new and focusing on essentials. In times of stress, it's crucial to analyze your existing commitments and cut back on non-essential tasks that don't contribute to your immediate well-being or financial stability. This helps to clear mental clutter and prioritize actions that stabilize your situation.

  • @skdarling_
    @skdarling_ 11 месяцев назад +8

    Alux, I've subscribed to your channel for close to 4years and i must say, this video is for me. Not long ago, i felt like i need to start all over again after difficulty in business. This video is just right on time. Thank you!

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +3

      You're not alone! We got you!

  • @menumlor9432
    @menumlor9432 11 месяцев назад +24

    Unfortunately, this video came 1 week to late for my friend who committed suicide. In the last 3 years, his life was just falling apart. Lost his girlfriend, job, dui, family issue, financial issue, depression and etc.

    • @Mo.cherie
      @Mo.cherie 11 месяцев назад +7

      I’m sorry.

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Mo.cherie thank you. ❤️ 😍 💖

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +9

      We're sorry for your loss and that it took us this long to make it.

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@alux thank you. And life happens. I just hope anybody that is currently going through what my friend went through see this video and fight their inner demons and win.

    • @CS-fz2iw
      @CS-fz2iw 11 месяцев назад +3

      So sorry for your loss.

  • @r.alarcon784
    @r.alarcon784 11 месяцев назад +8

    I'm here for the cussing. Why? I haven't heard it on this platform before and it's refreshing.

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +6

      It’s real

  • @nicolasdelaet7881
    @nicolasdelaet7881 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm completely lost. I'm 38. No job. Feel like I failed everything I tried. Almost no social life. Only 2 or 3 friends and even with them I feel alone. Single. No children. Got my license suspended. I've been to several psychiatric hospitals which didn't really help. I live in a empty apartment in a city that I hate in a country that I hate. All I'm doing is taking medications and stay in bed all day. Lost interest in almost everything. Want to sleep all the time.
    I read a little bit to try to help finding a solution of what to do with my life. Feeling like it's too late.
    I know I need to make a massive change but I don't where to start. Any advices?

  • @patrioticchristians-1
    @patrioticchristians-1 9 месяцев назад +2

    Alux, your intent is to lift people up, not tear them down, and you're doing a very good job. However, today’s trend of casual foul language sabotages any positive atmosphere that may be present, and I hear you drop these words here and there. I ask that you please reconsider the words you use to not weaken your positive that we grow from.

  • @TarotwithPeachez
    @TarotwithPeachez 11 месяцев назад +1

    I have always struggled with eating healthy, primarily because of budget and also habbits taught when I was younger. So now I am at the brink of homelessness after getting scammed at a rent house. We have poor credit but there just so happens to be a gym on the same floor our room is on...I am going to start going at least 15 min a day

  • @belindaealy9141
    @belindaealy9141 11 месяцев назад +9

    Best advice I’ve had this year, thanks Alux

  • @espanner97
    @espanner97 11 месяцев назад +1

    The last one ia very accurate. I have been redundant for four months and I am taking the right actions. I just need to wait.

    • @barney9008
      @barney9008 10 месяцев назад

      Being out of work suuuuuucks, but remember there are other things to better yourself and even help financially. E.g. learn to cook, you cant afford KFC anymore and pot noodles taste like shit. Learn to make some lasagne and eat it over 2 days, now your upskilling and saving money❤

    • @espanner97
      @espanner97 10 месяцев назад

      @@barney9008 I have been cooking since I was eight

  • @Jubee12
    @Jubee12 11 месяцев назад +3

    VICTORY! Thank you Alux for what you do

  • @CrazyMagnificent
    @CrazyMagnificent 10 месяцев назад +1

    VICTORY. Thank you so much. I needed this ❤.

  • @lungelokhumalo1463
    @lungelokhumalo1463 11 месяцев назад +5

    This is IT! THIS IS THAT ALUX MAGIC I WAS TALKING ABOUT! Bang on!!

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +1

      The fact that you doubted us on the lowering status video...

    • @lungelokhumalo1463
      @lungelokhumalo1463 11 месяцев назад

      Your'll cooked!

    • @lungelokhumalo1463
      @lungelokhumalo1463 11 месяцев назад

      Please give us an Alux take on Monk Mode.

  • @shirleyliggett776
    @shirleyliggett776 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is such a great confirmation, I really needed to hear this. Thanks ❤❤❤

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +1

      We're happy to be of service

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 11 месяцев назад +4

    narrator says do watch all 15 videos of alux channel daily before your life falls apart

  • @masteryoflife3731
    @masteryoflife3731 11 месяцев назад +8

    This was right on time! Thanks Alux
    VICTORY

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад

      We knew it would come in handy

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 11 месяцев назад +3

    Alux, you are a lifesaver❤❤❤❤Truly, beyond grateful❤

  • @crisgalang3852
    @crisgalang3852 9 месяцев назад

    VICTORY! I'm currently going through many challenges in life then I saw this video. Thanks for this!

  • @merch123456
    @merch123456 11 месяцев назад +5

    Another thing- in Oct/Nov 2020 you removed your video on the US Election because you said it was a little biased towards one of the candidates. Is that video still available somewhere? Your true ALUX fans should be able to see it.

  • @seethakowsalya8144
    @seethakowsalya8144 2 месяца назад +1

    15 Things recommended here
    1) Health, fitness, rest - reset
    2) Get out of the house , sun on your face and put yourself in nature
    3) Stop digging
    4) Don't start anything new - focus on the essentials for the time being
    5) Start a daily routine that jogs your mind and keeps your life predictable
    6) Reach pot to your friends
    7) Have an honest conversation with yourself about what got you here
    8) Let go of the dead weight
    9) Revisit an old source of creative happiness
    10) Get Professional help
    11) Change the difficulty settings on your life
    12) Grieve, feel your feelings, allow them to exit the body (time doesn't heal anything, if you don't use time to work through it )
    13) Don't drown your sorrows into anything that would make it worse
    14) Zoom out (When stress or anxiety overwhelms someone, "zooming out" can help dislodge their mind from a cycle of catastrophizing )
    15) Use your setback as the Origin of story for who you are becoming

  • @Chris-pt1bl
    @Chris-pt1bl 11 месяцев назад +3

    Alux somehow tells you like it is but also gives so much encouragement and uplifting motivation 😊 basically stop procrastinating and get to it 😅

  • @camile358
    @camile358 11 месяцев назад +2

    Victory ❤ thanks for wonderful video

  • @ErrorOptik
    @ErrorOptik 2 месяца назад

    Me: a guy who works outside, sunburned to the max with mosquito bites everywhere…”I can’t be outside anymore then I already am!”

  • @whoopswhatever
    @whoopswhatever 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice… 1/3: I would not hesitate to take good counsel from either a (qualified) priest or Rabbi as well as other therapists. 2/3: I have my own personal collection of over 184 axioms and words of wisdom that I rely on to keep winning and when I neglect or forget to follow them I get off track. 3/3: Don’t knock “butter” it makes almost everything better! Cheers! 😊
    Oh yeah… VICTORY !

  • @alemayehudestaye9806
    @alemayehudestaye9806 9 месяцев назад

    Victory, I am currently passing in this way dear. sure I will overcome the challenge soon.

  • @Guilherme.Soares.96
    @Guilherme.Soares.96 11 месяцев назад

    ALL FACTS But 16:23-16:32 ABSOLUTELY !

  • @princenwaokike4687
    @princenwaokike4687 11 месяцев назад +4

    Alux,this is the exact time I needed this help,am stucked and confused...
    Will use this as a guide

  • @mathogre
    @mathogre 11 месяцев назад +1

    I'm starting a new life chapter, and this one involves exercise and weight loss. Rather than figuring I'll somehow find time for it, I just ripped apart my daily time budget to schedule the meditation and gym time. It's a great chance at securing VICTORY!

  • @aayafina6007
    @aayafina6007 2 месяца назад

    📌
    9:00

  • @Tha-Fyrefly.
    @Tha-Fyrefly. 10 месяцев назад +1

    ✨ VICTORY! ✨🕊️

  • @mannmieetsingh8939
    @mannmieetsingh8939 11 месяцев назад +2

    Victory only belongs to you, if take action and never give up

  • @therealrodney8561
    @therealrodney8561 9 месяцев назад

    VICTORY: I have to find a beautiful home for myself and my husband. One where we can be celebrated not just tolerated. I know that is what my higher power and inner being can commune with. I will return to Alux victorious and illuminate a path to home and communion for my fellow man!❤

  • @Chandank007
    @Chandank007 11 месяцев назад +2

    I usually watch alux and it does make sense. When I watch these videos when I'm really down, it hits differently.
    I am grateful to you alux❤

  • @adayinthelife39
    @adayinthelife39 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Alux! ❤️ VICTORY

  • @Z3ro42
    @Z3ro42 11 месяцев назад +2

    I thank you for this video

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад

      We thank you for watching it.

  • @gabrielsoto2245
    @gabrielsoto2245 11 месяцев назад +3

    As always until the very end: VICTORY!

  • @AnnaEriksson-o2o
    @AnnaEriksson-o2o 11 месяцев назад

    A really great video with excellent advice Alux.... I graduated last June and I´m still unemployed and struggling financially- but I will get through this!!!!!

  • @republiccan7138
    @republiccan7138 10 месяцев назад

    Victory Thank You for modeling the best ideas 💡

  • @k.6160
    @k.6160 9 месяцев назад +1

    Victory!!!!🏆

  • @fatiger114
    @fatiger114 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you!

  • @amazingworld9574
    @amazingworld9574 11 месяцев назад +4

    Alux you are not only creating future millionaires you are saving lifes.

  • @primothegreat9022
    @primothegreat9022 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Alux for this golden advice

  • @YanniBarnes
    @YanniBarnes 11 месяцев назад +1

    Alux has helped me in my journey through adulthood more than my parents. Endless thank you's to this invaluable channel🤞🏾❤️

  • @sandrarekker585
    @sandrarekker585 11 месяцев назад +2

    Alux, how did you become so wise!! Thanks for the proverbial reminders!

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад

      Through trial and error. We learned the hard way.

  • @clementifangblog8583
    @clementifangblog8583 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤ thanks so much for always enlighten us in life.
    Victory.
    I missed you guys for a pass few days my best Class.

  • @charlieprothq9430
    @charlieprothq9430 2 месяца назад

    I really resonate with all the ideas and perceptions that you guys have on life here. And how to handle these challenges in life. You know what I do find for myself is that managing my time or getting focused and pursuing that goal at the immediate moment that I need to I always doubt myself that it is not the right time and then when I do that I end up exceeding or not meeting deadlines if that makes any sense. I'm very good at starting things and then seeing them through in a timely fashion is what I struggle with. Being afraid or lacking motivation to follow through on the ideas that I know work.

  • @Thecoloringhermit
    @Thecoloringhermit 11 месяцев назад +2

    VICTORY IS MINE!!!! Thank you Alux!

  • @darrellmoncrief3681
    @darrellmoncrief3681 Месяц назад

    thanks Alux. Have a great day!!

  • @ecstaticabhi
    @ecstaticabhi 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks you very much Alux team, this video is life saving for me❤

  • @amberlee6239
    @amberlee6239 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you 🙂

  • @javaidak4204
    @javaidak4204 11 месяцев назад +3

    🎉 very valuable content ❤❤❤

  • @user-sr4pp1gk1m
    @user-sr4pp1gk1m 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing video ! Thank you 🎉

  • @charleswillis5680
    @charleswillis5680 11 месяцев назад +1

    Victory. Thank you Alux, this is exactly what I needed today!!!!!!

  • @JosephArmbrister
    @JosephArmbrister 11 месяцев назад

    30:32 victory

  • @Lore-Lore1
    @Lore-Lore1 11 месяцев назад

    This is such a powerful video, thank you

  • @sadiasultana8714
    @sadiasultana8714 11 месяцев назад +2

    powerful sppeech

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +1

      Powerful indeed!

  • @barney9008
    @barney9008 10 месяцев назад

    Reminds me of american dad "now i will take your most irreplaceable things in your life, your possessions"😂😂

  • @juanital.5593
    @juanital.5593 11 месяцев назад

    Victory! Thanks Alux for another great video. Have a nice Sunday everyone.

  • @somerandomfella
    @somerandomfella 11 месяцев назад +3

    I might try using the Alux lady as the voice in my head when I think about doughnut or pizza 🍩🍕🤤

  • @samueldrake0123
    @samueldrake0123 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing video actually... Nothing like the usual stuff which illiterates like me can't begin to comprehend..
    These are simple to complex steps to take to witness a change...
    Funny to understand I don't even do the first point in the list and wait for life to be kind to me.....Gotta Get out there to Get some...

  • @sohailshah-z3h
    @sohailshah-z3h 11 месяцев назад +2

    give me motivation!!

  • @ejionyegrant4583
    @ejionyegrant4583 10 месяцев назад +1

    Victory ❤🎉

  • @AfroSenpai
    @AfroSenpai 11 месяцев назад

    Powerful indeed, When you're at the bottom it's the best time to rise

  • @denisemcdougal6445
    @denisemcdougal6445 4 месяца назад

    Amen !!!!! Thank you. When I finally understood my situation, I took action and accountability. I planned my work and worked my plan. Time and dedication, now I’m in a better position.

  • @Laasyaslays
    @Laasyaslays 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much for advice!
    VICTORY!!! 😊🎉

  • @Towanda-xq2xg
    @Towanda-xq2xg 11 месяцев назад

    VICTORY! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @krazzysu
    @krazzysu 11 месяцев назад

    Bitamin? 😅 Vitamin! At 4:59

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 11 месяцев назад +3

    When the night gets dark ,
    And the sky offers a lightening spark ,
    It would nourish us with rain,
    To wash our face and transcend the pain...
    Love and peace we see again ...

  • @Alex.R.O.P
    @Alex.R.O.P 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you

  • @antwanthorogood4921
    @antwanthorogood4921 11 месяцев назад

    This was a classic! Well done Alux

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for showing up

  • @Rodelaporte
    @Rodelaporte 11 месяцев назад

    I liked the first half advices, the rest it felt just like to be happy with being poor and becoming a people pleaser

  • @Mscocoapuffz
    @Mscocoapuffz 11 месяцев назад +3

    Victory! I hope one day I can update this comment with how these videos changed my life❤

  • @botortamas
    @botortamas 11 месяцев назад

    Best video of the year so far 👍

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад

      Really glad you think so

  • @luisduran2357
    @luisduran2357 11 месяцев назад +1

    VICTORY ❤🎉 thanks ALUX

  • @jocelyneramos1584
    @jocelyneramos1584 11 месяцев назад +2

    VICTORY. This video came just in time for Sure was God sent! God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌 you are light into the darkness.

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 Месяц назад

    thank u.

  • @missmarple8378
    @missmarple8378 11 месяцев назад

    ❤ shori 🙏🏾

  • @patelfalak
    @patelfalak 11 месяцев назад +2

    Victory by effort 💯

  • @andersonstepper
    @andersonstepper 11 месяцев назад +1

    A SUCCESS STORY.
    VICTORY

  • @skdarling_
    @skdarling_ 11 месяцев назад

    Zoom out! That's a point Alux!

  • @grahamwithinshaw5575
    @grahamwithinshaw5575 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you my friend

  • @bvmsr11
    @bvmsr11 11 месяцев назад

    I’m watching this in a point where I really need it. To everyone out there in the same situation, we’ve got this. 💪🏻
    VICTORY

    • @alux
      @alux  11 месяцев назад +1

      Go make it work

  • @oswavee
    @oswavee 11 месяцев назад

    VICTORY 🎉

  • @CoachAdaobiSandra
    @CoachAdaobiSandra 11 месяцев назад

    Victory ✌️

  • @benoequinox4799
    @benoequinox4799 11 месяцев назад

    Victory!!!

  • @ImmiCiti
    @ImmiCiti 11 месяцев назад +1

    Victory

  • @Saffeyah
    @Saffeyah 11 месяцев назад +1

    Another great video Alux

  • @YUNGMILAS1
    @YUNGMILAS1 11 месяцев назад +2

    MAN I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!

  • @kathleenmorrison3707
    @kathleenmorrison3707 10 месяцев назад +1

    VICTORY

  • @dotnationja5617
    @dotnationja5617 11 месяцев назад

    VICTORY ALL THE WAY

  • @trae_seymourmotivationalsp4102
    @trae_seymourmotivationalsp4102 11 месяцев назад +1

    VICTORY!!!

  • @mrhypeone
    @mrhypeone 11 месяцев назад

    VICTORY!

  • @AndyPrimo1
    @AndyPrimo1 6 месяцев назад

    VICTORY! ❤

  • @charles8784
    @charles8784 11 месяцев назад

    VICTORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @azukaabrahamnduka5242
    @azukaabrahamnduka5242 11 месяцев назад

    Very interesting narratives and insights