SOME Voices in Our Heads Are RIGHT.

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @Affalterbach1967
    @Affalterbach1967 Год назад +333

    Spirited man reads my mind and then articulates my thoughts.

  • @Sean_S
    @Sean_S Год назад +250

    Van you are an elite story teller.

  • @JordanWelch
    @JordanWelch Год назад +26

    You are an Elite story teller

  • @calmthemonster
    @calmthemonster Год назад +86

    The ideas, the creativity, the videos you make... YES you are... Your are elite at something.

  • @lacruiser80
    @lacruiser80 Год назад +61

    Im not sure if it's serendipity or my mind putting in effort to find the coincidences, but every episode you put out seems to be just what I needed to hear at that moment. Thank you, Van.

    • @mauriciogomez9318
      @mauriciogomez9318 Год назад

      I feel exactly the same.. it’s like fate placed it for you. Thank you indeed Van. 🙏🏼

  • @elliehosk
    @elliehosk 2 месяца назад +1

    Yesterday one of the voices in my head, the one that sounds like a cross between Pat Butcher and Hugh Grant, told me that the world's loneliest worm was crying in the dirt outside my house. I spent 9 hours digging, trying to find it, but never did. If anyone finds it, please let me know. I'd love a best friend.

  • @SecondWindWorkshop
    @SecondWindWorkshop Год назад +8

    Oh man...when I'm hitting that burnout point, the overwhelming phase were every little thing is just another layer of stress...even the stuff of life...I find myself getting frustrated and sometimes even angry about so much. I hit those points where it just feels like I'm angry all the time. Not a violent, destructive angry, but a withholding, brooding angry that makes me unavailable to others. I stew. And stewing is just a slow burn to more frustration. My lovely bride and I have been able to talk about this more and more as I've been able to recognize it happening more readily, but that only came from suffering the consequences of being a jerk at times and some well-timed vacations that met me at a pre-burn-out point, just in time. You really honed in on the value of taking a real break and investing the time in reflection, in a relaxed state. I don't know how to turn off the compulsion to work and push and "succeed", so we're exploring how to incorporate the relaxing and reflection as part of the cycle of our lives. We've got a really great vacation coming up in a couple months, so thanks for the great documentary recommendations. I'll save watching them until then...in a more relaxed state.

  • @TreeHaven
    @TreeHaven Год назад +26

    Van Neistat said he wasn’t Elite at anything but In my opinion, The spirited man is absolutely an Elite story teller, video producer, how to repair man, deep thinker, teacher and so many other things.
    Thank you Van for sharing with us all your Elite skills brother. There is a lot of us out here that really appreciate what you do and how you give back to all of us.💚

  • @Jacob_Dwyer
    @Jacob_Dwyer Год назад +10

    Among other things, I appreciate your soundtrack and your cuts. You have reached an artistry with your videocraft that conveys meaning, and is relatable. Learning and growing, a student sharing your acquired wisdom, thank you so much.

    • @heitorcornelius
      @heitorcornelius Год назад

      and btw, his speech is right on point. Great communicator as well

  • @robertmcgrath7788
    @robertmcgrath7788 Год назад +20

    Since you started your channel, there have been 3 videos that come at the EXACT moment that I need them. Almost like you're in my head, thanks for giving perspective when the exhaustion is not allowing it

  • @dylannelson501
    @dylannelson501 Год назад +2

    Dammit Van, thank you for having the balls to share this with us. I know at some level, even a micro level, it might make you feel uncomfortable. But we are all very grateful

  • @carlgoetzinger6876
    @carlgoetzinger6876 Год назад +9

    I am endlessly grateful I found your channel and subsequently have watched all of your videos and some of them repeatedly. Your story telling is an absolutely force but what keeps me is the ingenuity and relatability. Working yourself to the teetering edge is a constant for me. Constantly yearning for that next challenge or step. Plus being able to completely zone in on watching you do repairs and build things is almost therapeutic. Long winded, I know. But the spirited man inspires me to be a spirited man myself. Thank you, Van.

  • @ReignSovereign
    @ReignSovereign Год назад +12

    I love how your music creates a consistency across all of your work. creates the effect of an album, where each song leads in to the next. very cool. thanks for all your hard work man.. and thanks for you time to relax too. when your overworking, relax. when your relaxing and being too lazy, work. that's what I learned by watching this.

  • @canadude6401
    @canadude6401 Год назад +6

    Great post Van! Depeche Mode has a lesser known song called "Get the Balance Right" It reminds me to try to get the balance right! I try to balance my work and my chill time, but they are constantly opposed. When I work, I have a strong urge to relax right after, but when I finally get time to relax, my brain keeps giving me thoughts about what I could be doing
    instead. I find it hard to get motivated, and also find it hard to relax.
    Anyway...here is the line of lyrics from the song which are thought provoking....
    Be responsible, respectable
    Stable but gullible
    Concerned and caring
    Help the helpless
    But always remain
    Ultimately selfish

    • @Jose1maneZ
      @Jose1maneZ Год назад

      Love Depeche Mode... Gonna give this one a listen, thanks!

  • @JeffAdairKTM530
    @JeffAdairKTM530 Год назад +7

    Van, you are such an inspiration and thank you for helping fight in the darkness.

  • @shuttlepilot_
    @shuttlepilot_ Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience of being in a place of receiving awareness. This report is oh so familiar to one of my own, which reminds me that I am not unique and that brings me peace. My experience happened 20ish years ago watching Hubert Selby's Requiem for a Dream on a portable DVD player, alone, in a tent, high in the Sierra Nevada Mountains. When it happened I was only planning to pass the time, not for anything profound to manifest. Back then we did not have the RUclips in my pocket lifestyle and the ability of watching a movie far from civilization was exciting. The technology, coupled with the remoteness and being alone was a great place of receiving awareness. Looking forward to the next video.

  • @xdanielgs
    @xdanielgs Год назад +1

    THE BEST RUclips CHANNEL EVER.

  • @marcopruefer
    @marcopruefer Год назад +1

    I feel this so much! I understand myself better now! thank you

  • @becomingabetterhuman.2994
    @becomingabetterhuman.2994 Год назад +1

    This was deep. I can relate. I have been working full time since I was 16, at 36 I am burnt out I quit working for a few months. I planned this i relaxed for the first time in a long time no worries. I am ready to go back to work but I still have a couple of months to learn some good habits.

  • @hiphopsuperman
    @hiphopsuperman Год назад

    I’m returning to work today after a two week vacation to New York City. Setting my alarm clock last night was dreadful, and I was not looking forward to returning to work this morning. This video is exactly what I needed at this very moment. Thank you.

  • @mrmobius
    @mrmobius Год назад +1

    Van, thank you for this one on a personal level.

  • @thetalkingfly
    @thetalkingfly Год назад

    Good thinking, very good.

  • @rocha2333
    @rocha2333 Год назад +4

    This just reminds me of a scene in Pi the order of chaos where they explain how Archimedes was burned out trying to solve a problem and his wife ask him to have a break and to take a bath. Whilst he was taking the bath he noticed that the his weight displaced water an ultimately a way to determine density. Holiday or having a break gives you perspective.

  • @majorlackey5303
    @majorlackey5303 Год назад +1

    Van, thank you for being real and showing us it is ok to be vulnerable.

  • @thomasvillefrance7128
    @thomasvillefrance7128 Год назад

    Stop saying you are not elite! You are a master of this medium, on a profound level i dont find anywhere else. Thank you Van.

  • @Imageyenation
    @Imageyenation Год назад

    I don’t know how to put into words how your videos affect me. I never know what I’m going to get watching you. I’m not a “stupid” person but I find myself wondering why I don’t pick up on the obvious things you point out, when I feel like I should already know these things… yet you had to show them to me. I’m calling this the Van-affect(TM). You make my brain work in a different way; thank you.

  • @KentHeckel
    @KentHeckel Год назад +2

    Wes Anderson for me. Specifically the Life Aquatic. I DON'T rewatch movies. Except for this one... Over and over. Cures my burnout every time. This mixture of nostalgia from the first time I watched it in my friends dorm room in college, and the slap in the face you get the first time you watch a Wes Anderson movie. Works (almost) every time.

  • @scottmcneil1150
    @scottmcneil1150 Год назад

    You've nailed that. I'm just back from a long weekend break where exactly these issues were plaguing me, work intensely / chill out and go with my flow. Burnout / live healthily, conclusion 'peace between both voices'. Oh and I took my six year old son to the bookshop, I couldn't decide what to buy, he pointed to a book's cover and said what about about that book dad ?
    - Kurt Vonnegut Slaughterhouse Five. He's channelling it man.

  • @OreVsWorld
    @OreVsWorld Год назад

    Damn, I needed this vid.

  • @no-hustle
    @no-hustle Год назад

    Great video, Van, and it's such a valuable balance to find because those voices inside us... geez, can they ruin us unless we use them to inspire us.

  • @nikothedrifter
    @nikothedrifter Год назад +1

    Van, I really needed to hear this. Thanks for sharing your stories with us.

  • @HBCrigs
    @HBCrigs Год назад +1

    I have Holly Blue- looker at moss and dreamer for a better world- and Helen Claire- the woman inside me who will fight back and win any challenge, who will work for 40 hours without sleep. We all have parts, some more obvious. IFS internal family systems (it was on rich roll so you probably already saw it) has been influencing me more than any other philosophy of the interior.
    Ive been trying to hold all the parts with love and gratitude.
    It feels so bizarre to be going through the same battle as someone else. Doing the work of allying your parts, letting them do what they're best at.. and seeing you do the same feels.. really really eerie, a potent kind of art like a painting staring back at you

    • @tmalvey
      @tmalvey Год назад

      I was thinking the same thing
      ruclips.net/video/QtaNBTzXxIc/видео.html&ab_channel=RichRoll

  • @timmcconville4358
    @timmcconville4358 Год назад +2

    A profound notion succinctly put, this is wonderful stuff Van thank you ❤

  • @Mike-108_v_
    @Mike-108_v_ Год назад

    Finally took my old analog Fax machine and donated it to charity... (it worked perfectly fine...my land line was removed), It was cool how it had a tiny phone on it, and she never failed me.
    It was all part of my de-cluttering and giving stuff away phase 8 weeks ago when I retired (semi) at 62... clothes, old TV's, anything not used anymore... a lot of stuff.
    This video is about -"The worthy battle between the urge to be lazy and the urge to work yourself to death."
    Since I've experienced a few years (younger years) of having "time off"... doing anything I wanted to do, travel... basking in a pool all summer... I knew I needed something part time to keep me "balanced" ....mentally and physically. Slowing down a bit and working less, I was fortunate to acquire a part time gig.
    As for my young friend Van... it seems "running"...
    keeps that tennis player at bay. (A fitness instructor on YT says that running keeps him mentally balanced). Me- walking is more my speed , really helps.
    My first day at the new part time gig... in my supervisors office , sitting in the corner- is the exact same year make and model analog Fax machine that I donated...(a sign ...;))

  • @WiktoriaDalach
    @WiktoriaDalach Год назад +30

    I'm in a phase in my life when I'm trying to be more like Fran. I wonder why it is so difficult to maintaIn balance, or even achieve it. Greta video as usual, thank you for sharing, Van.

    • @smashyrashy
      @smashyrashy Год назад +12

      Dont bring Greta into this

    • @wikadal
      @wikadal Год назад +1

      @@smashyrashyhaha you're right

    • @determineddad7935
      @determineddad7935 Год назад

      *great

    • @jamesbizs
      @jamesbizs Год назад

      @@sarbebegood luck with that. How was life before corporate structure ? Just peace and happiness? Majority of people lived every day not knowing if they will eat. Or prick their finger and just die. So tell us. What do you think would happen if everyone just gave up the corporate structure ? I mean, I guess you can go live with the Amish for a bit, if that’s your thing

  • @P1-Engineering
    @P1-Engineering Год назад

    Thank you Van. This one hit home hard for someone struggling to find the balance between both and hasn't been able to enjoy a vacation. Keep doing what you do, ordered some merch to represent the Spirited Man over here in Amsterdam!

  • @reedhallen
    @reedhallen Год назад

    I like this way of not choosing a side, but using both sides to move forward

  • @TheKonstantinius
    @TheKonstantinius Год назад

    This video has therapeutic effect. Thanks a lot for relief and motivation.

  • @user-ik3xr3eh3m
    @user-ik3xr3eh3m Год назад

    I agree with this with the caveat that you cant stay on vacation forever, you HAVE to listen to the voice telling you to get back to work. Sometimes I dont listen to that voice and EVERY time it puts me in a rut. Your mind knows what it wants, you just have to convince your body to listen to it.

  • @SaschaRissling
    @SaschaRissling Год назад

    4:17 - what is it with neistats and high vis gear 😄

  • @gstevens6948
    @gstevens6948 Год назад

    Van, we love you man, you’ve made a huge difference in all our lives that love your work. Shalom.

  • @ericvega1
    @ericvega1 Год назад +1

    Bravo. I love the concept

  • @pascaletorfs8100
    @pascaletorfs8100 Год назад

    The intensity of Van Neistat is mesmerizing. Just discovered him now literally, as I feel lost, ineffective, losing control and bonded by all sorts of negative gunk... I'm 64, business owner, overworked, trying to keep up with technologies, changes, info and battling. Van may be one of the little stars shining in the dark I'll hang on to, that will help me face it all and learn.

  • @augustal4243
    @augustal4243 Год назад +5

    Van.....
    You have unique and extreme qualities, obviously you have gifts for building and making things and fixing things but you have a gift of communication and a very strong gift of being able to film and put together videos that are interesting and helpful for your audience.... I wish with all my heart and soul I could do what you do The reason I became addicted to your brother's videos years ago is because of his extreme talent and then through him I found out about you..... I'm very happy for your success and I hope it grows and grows, *This video you made It's my favorite video so far from you 👍🌟🌟🌟🥇

  • @tejang682
    @tejang682 Год назад +1

    Amazing video Van. Exactly what I needed to hear today!

  • @willmiddlebrooks7
    @willmiddlebrooks7 Год назад +3

    Gratitude for a little nudge of balance in a seesaw world. Glad you found that magic in Mexico you were seeking. You've hit your stride and we welcome the return!

  • @RachaelPadilla
    @RachaelPadilla Год назад +5

    A brilliant exploration of searching for balance in oneself. I have shared in the joy that comes with "Pretend It's a City" and you've now inspired me to watch "Untold". Thank you for all of your hard work.

  • @a99a66a
    @a99a66a Год назад

    Gotta go on that sweet little vacation! Thanks for the reminder!

  • @BrendanRaftery
    @BrendanRaftery Год назад

    So true. Thanks for sharing.

  • @christopherp.3479
    @christopherp.3479 Год назад

    This is spot on. Too many people are stuck on medium whether that is their work life or physical fitness. They need to focus on alternating hard and easy. Abolish medium effort.

  • @yoyopg123
    @yoyopg123 Год назад +1

    the tracing paper layovers are so effective. The message of the video is too.

  • @alexfridley799
    @alexfridley799 Год назад +2

    This one really spoke to me. Now to figure out how to balance 6-7 voices

  • @mr_mr
    @mr_mr Год назад +1

    Damn you're good at making videos

  • @mcfaultier388
    @mcfaultier388 Год назад

    Wow! Beautifully said an done!

  • @JCRoShow
    @JCRoShow Год назад

    your videos and voice have filled a gap left behind from a dear mentor of mine giving up on life.. your videos and message makes me want to live and thrive... so thank you for being such a brilliant example of how to navigate the chaos of the world, and of the self.

  • @fotografick
    @fotografick Год назад

    Expressing your thought by overlaying paper on a light box is such a great and simple format of presentation. I love it

  • @lakecityransom
    @lakecityransom Год назад +3

    Its interesting how 2 brothers are both so creative.

  • @pedrogaller3838
    @pedrogaller3838 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing Van. Feels similar to my thoughts too. 😮

  • @AbstractAggregate
    @AbstractAggregate Год назад +4

    I think for me one of those voices is David Goggins. Maybe I should listen to him more.

  • @ChristopherDecker
    @ChristopherDecker Год назад

    I continue to be blown away by your work. Some days it keeps me going when I feel like giving up.

  • @LeahreTard
    @LeahreTard Год назад

    Brilliant, been awhile since I fullscreened a video and not sped it up. In my friendship group we've coined holidays and other "fun" "relaxing" activities as activities that are earned through hard work.

    • @LeahreTard
      @LeahreTard Год назад

      If we haven't earned it, we shouldn't get it.

  • @pda1799
    @pda1799 Год назад

    On vacation. Thank you, great video.

  • @micnole5038
    @micnole5038 Год назад

    I took 1/2 of July off last month. It was a vacation with some work in between to pay for the trip. During the time off I realized my heart had not been happy and started to relax and feel great after the 1st week. Taking a break and relieving my stress probably prevented me from having a heart attack. Scary thought…

  • @Daniel-mq3qb
    @Daniel-mq3qb Год назад

    This is the idea of a harmonic sound. It is created when two opposite poles resonate with each other. Only in the tension do you find peace.

  • @TheHoleshoes
    @TheHoleshoes Год назад +1

    This is incredibly helpful. Also, I loved the use of tracing paper.

  • @marinakhananayev
    @marinakhananayev Год назад +1

    The universe has been giving me signs to SLOW THE FUCK DOWN lately. I didn't want to look at them or believe them. One morning, I woke up with horrible low back pain. Then, my computer started working dreadfully slow. Next, the planner I bought online to help me organize my to-do lists was delayed in shipping by two days. After all of that... I finally listened to the universe. I let myself do nothing for a whole day. A day to just BE. And not beat myself up in my head for not accomplishing more. Then, I see this video pop into my feed.... Thank you Van Neistat and thank you Universe

  • @POCHVEN
    @POCHVEN Год назад

    Dude! Glad your back!

  • @MattFirdous
    @MattFirdous Год назад

    one of the very few channels that brings you value, let alone for free.

  • @YUKITSUNODA1090
    @YUKITSUNODA1090 Год назад

    how much time and effort u give for a single vid shows in the last 20 secs of this video YES CASEY is right YOU ARE A GENIUS

  • @ParzivalPheonix
    @ParzivalPheonix Год назад

    I can totally resonate with both these complimenting mindsets.

  • @Matt_from_Florida
    @Matt_from_Florida Год назад +1

    To me the purpose of a vacation is to reconnect with my wife. It's the only time we can ever refocus on each other.

  • @natetavares4569
    @natetavares4569 Год назад

    I am currently on vacation and am about to embark in my second year of college. Van can read minds through storytelling.

  • @lucia26
    @lucia26 Год назад +2

    Please Van, don't wear yourself out. Protect yourself by a mediocre lifestyle and live your own best life while doing that, built a unique relationship with others and with things and through writing at your own pace. Take. It. Slow. You don't need to make a living by putting so much pressure on yourself. Paint houses, repair cars, and be grateful to be forgotten. There is freedom in not being seen. You. Are. Loved.

  • @AndyLifeInVideo
    @AndyLifeInVideo Год назад

    That last bit really got to me. I've been working so hard for so long that I feel like I haven't earned a vacation, but taking a break is part of the process and it's just hard for my brain to fully accept even if it makes perfect sense.

  • @chrisignacio1791
    @chrisignacio1791 Год назад

    You The Man Van ❤️

  • @studioahedo
    @studioahedo Год назад

    Thank you Van

  • @marleykepano
    @marleykepano Год назад

    What a great video Van!

  • @StravaigingMTB
    @StravaigingMTB Год назад

    Fantastic work as always. I particularly loved the device of the drawings over the light box switching to a front light. Remind me of a photo series of hand written letter I made 18 years ago.

  • @expluizig
    @expluizig Год назад

    Besides the quality of your videos and presentation of your ideas, I want to thank you for all the book/writer/documentary/movie recommendations!

  • @ChrisStaplesMusic
    @ChrisStaplesMusic Год назад

    There is nothing about you that seems lazy to me.
    Thank you so much for your videos. I love your writing, and your ability to tell a story. You have become a source of inspiration for me. I want to make loads of money with my art so I can buy a bunch of land and make a creative destination for people to escape the city and find inspiration in nature.

  • @franciscomartinez9157
    @franciscomartinez9157 Год назад

    Really enjoyed this. The illustrations were really nice. Thanks, Van.

  • @BirdDogg
    @BirdDogg Год назад

    Sometimes. Sometimes, we don’t have to try so hard.

  • @ceciliastanciu8947
    @ceciliastanciu8947 Год назад

    I like ❤ how beautiful you extract the existentialism of this two situation work and rest! There is a saying "Pray and work! " and ask ourself what I am doing now? I am in a mood of work or pray? If not one of these situation then choose one and do it in the moment! Sometimes the routine physical work can be done when the mind/soul can say little pray, when aware! Take care of the balance! And I Iike how beautiful you extract the essential things in life, in this video!

  • @PerryLevy
    @PerryLevy Год назад

    Both amazing docs and well put Mr. Neistat!

  • @Mix1mum
    @Mix1mum Год назад +1

    Idk Van, I think your scoring of your vids is pretty elite. Shit, I thought you had someone doing it for you and said as much in a different comment and your lady slapped some sense into me.
    Theres a very...Koyaanisqatsi vibe to you vids, but not in a manner meant to unbalance us, like was intended with the immersive poem. I feel like you're sounds layer like a painting and convey the other half of your emotional cannon - the real part, the hard to say part, the maybe impossible to say part.
    Idk if that means anything to you, it's all quite esoteric, but I think what you're making here is done at a pretty high level.
    I hope for your sake, that these vids flow out of you easier now than at the beginning, if you're able to knock em out without having to translate the entirety of the vision into words. I get the feeling a lot of the unspoken is allowed to improvise as you make it. There's a dance there, if one has eyes to see it, of the creator enjoying the experience of their creation as they create it. You know what I'm talking. Where you become the composer, performer, and listener all at once, and then, it's like being a child in play, that flow state, that joy.
    The first vid of yours, in fact, the first time I ever heard of you, was your Men Cry in Private video, which made me cry. I subscribed before the video was over and watch yr shit as soon as I see it's dropped.
    Keep doin you homie. From one handyman to another..
    Oh, I feel like you should totally narrate a remaking of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Pirsig, or Illusions by Bach.

  • @LeonardoDaVinci01
    @LeonardoDaVinci01 Год назад

    I think, to an extent, we each have similar voices in our heads (maybe they take alternate forms or embody other people) but the larger underlaying features are still in common

  • @pat_makes_stuff
    @pat_makes_stuff Год назад

    5:37 I believe you are an elite artist, Van.

  • @hailey_holmez
    @hailey_holmez Год назад

    Thank you

  • @beyondher
    @beyondher Год назад

    Work life balance is hard for me because sometimes inspiration won't allow me to rest.. or the fear of falling behind and losing momentum and catastrophic thoughts about ended up in dire poverty... I think it's a mixture of intense inspiration plus fear of poverty that makes me over-achieve at times. Often my body will protest and I get really sick and then have no choice than to be like Fran. And I actually love being lazy more than anything, it's not even laziness, it's just BEING.

  • @tjd04081
    @tjd04081 Год назад

    awesome, wonderful, well done

  • @CurlysCurated
    @CurlysCurated Год назад

    I call it the Grind and Glide cycle. Grind is pretty obvious. It’s work. It’s craft. It’s organization and regiment. Glide is daydreaming. It’s the artist temperament. It’s jumping from place to place like a bee. It’s inspiration and revelation. We need both.

  • @dcozy
    @dcozy Год назад

    One of Van’s best.

  • @DonBolas00
    @DonBolas00 Год назад

    Thank you for this

  • @heitorcornelius
    @heitorcornelius Год назад

    powerful! thanks

  • @lightcaretaker-km6jh
    @lightcaretaker-km6jh Год назад

    Wow! I did not know I needed to see this.

  • @caiouvo5723
    @caiouvo5723 Год назад

    tks man thats lovely!

  • @grindz145
    @grindz145 Год назад

    This is one of my all time favs

  • @dpfeiferjr
    @dpfeiferjr Год назад

    Thanks Van.

  • @stone2k
    @stone2k Год назад

    Awesome vlog Van...always enjoy your thoughts and your art

  • @Silverpicker
    @Silverpicker Год назад

    Wow, I really identify with this. I always describe myself as the most productive lazy person I know 😂