This is the first video I saw from you lol, I can't believe I've been watching all your content and still not subscribed 😀😃 I'm subscribing now 😇. keep up man!
There's a difference between plainly ignoring your existence and barely noticing you, and trying to ignore you on purpose. The first one is most likely due to lack of interest, while the second one is generally a sign of attraction.
@@donbuyshousescash4765 buy a dog, die alone. we in a new era now. with metoo & all that garbage women pushed, men of value are no longer approaching. women who think they are too good to approach will be left with the table scraps when it comes to the quality of men they will get.
This happened to me recently in Target. He actually stopped me and said “You are so beautiful” I smiled and said thank you. But I kept walking because he had no follow up. So I said aww he was probably nervous so I circled the isle like I forgot something and gave eye contact. He then approached me. Been talking since.
He’s absolutely right. Women will notice by peripheral eye and not even make eye contact. But their minds are saying dayuuuum he is handsome af. Been in groups of women to witness this. They will not approach nor shoot a smile with eye contact which is all they need to do to signal that man that they are interested and if he is he’ll make the move. Perhaps👀
And that kills me because I’m like “damn, a smile would let me know you’re interested too” But I guess they feel if they give attention, they might get a guy who doesn’t like them like that
I think looks are not of high value to me. Its something of a bare minimum, prerequisite. I need to like how you look so I wanna see you all the time. But beyond a certain point, being immensely handsome isnt giving more interest points. I need knowledge of his other characteristics to be able to think I like the person. I dont think I can be like "oh you're so gorgeous!". "Ew, I dont like your personality". I need to know all, before I express interest in YOU. Maybe Im sapiosexual.
Some girls act tougher on you when you are handsome because they believe you are a player. It is the weirdest thing ever, to be told you are a player when you don't think you are one.
@@pickledpancakes Sometimes the devil makes women go crazy over guys. You sit there thinking, girl, I am not what you say I am. They think sunshine comes out of your behind and that you are all that and a bag of chips, basically a sort of fantasy. That is also not desirable. It is healthy for a relationship for a woman to feel they really lucked out with you and that it would be difficult to replace you but being at 360m/h while you are 20m/h is not ideal either. I have a high body count because I did some stupid things and I wanted acceptance from other guys. I hung around people who played the game - both girls and boys. I even almost wiped out a whole squad of really gorgeous girls over a 19 year period. Now, I don't have girl friends because time normally destroys that. Only God helped me as I have repented from having no backbone to say no. Have any of you ever done a pity shag because a girl is going so hard or seems to be in distress over "googly love" for you. I am not a Chad by any means, I just have an image and reputation of a good looking guy - don't know how to explain it. I even know my type (the ones who go crazy over me) = above average, say 6-7,5 who like brainy, handsome guys and who wear only slighy make-up, are career-driven, have high standards and are lonely. They be the ones who really go for me.
Being a creep is more about the energy you give off. I always check out women that I find attractive, blatantly at that. But it's more like "Damn, look at this one, she's hot" then I move on and go about my business
That is also true. It’s definitely a spectrum though… They don’t look at you because of any of these reasons : 1) you’re not attractive to them 2) you’re cute and they are shy/ intimidated as he said 3) you’re hot as hell and they know they won’t quality so they don’t want to gas you up. So it’s hard to gauge 😂
I was discussing this yesterday. Women would openly speak to the people in front of me in line at the store, but when it's my turn, they turn super dry like they're trying to downplay my presence. It's Hella rude. I used to feel bad about it until a beautiful lady explained the nature of women 2 me. If you are really handsome as a man, very attractive women will give you strong eye contact and vibes 2 let you know they're interested, because they think you are on the same level as them to a degree. It's the ones who are not as confident that downplay your qualities so that you don't feel superior or so they don't feel inferior. But if you break the ice or kiss up 2 them a lil bit, they soften up too. I prefer confident women with a balanced self esteem. No need to put me down so that we can be on the same level.
I know that friendly cashier who suddenly turns dry all too well. I used to think “What am I doing to these people…??” Now, I get it. (And I’m not even super fine. Heh.)
Facts. They don't even want to acknowledge you, even after you try to strike up a conversation. They just keep it short. Well, I don't say nothing back, and I'm on to the next one. I don't have time to butter up a female whose too afraid to talk to me.
Sometimes i just think its because im black 😂 when i go to restaurants i want to tip but its like they give me bad service on purpose, when i leave i bet they say " blacks never tip"😂
I've learned that a simple uninvested smile and "hello" bypasses all of this. Used to get called arrogant when in reality I was super shy tryna hold it together. Both sexes do this to each other for various reasons that add up to us not wanting to look stupid. We all know it's rough out here. I promise you eye contact, a smile and a basic "hello" will melt the ice. It doesn't mean you're going to be calling that person's phone later. It just creates a more comfortable environment for ppl to communicate, including body language. Even if they turn you down or you turn away someone else, if there was a smile and a hello involved everyone will feel ok about it, probly even be motivated to try again(with someone else lol)
Give an approachable impression, make yourself look more open. That's what I tend to do, and it works. Men and women have an easier time to talk to me.
This dude has no idea what he's talking about and he's not even all that hot if women are walking by him like that they're obviously not interested when women see men they find physically attractive they do the exact opposite they make eye contact flirt make conversation etc I had to assume this dude was trolling
@@Model_Roe Depends on the cultural norms of the women or the setting you're in, for example clubs and parties. Sounds like you don't speak from experience, because that definitely doesn't happen much in public on an average day-to-day setting i. e getting approached, flirted with, strong eye contact
Actual gem that took me till my 30s to realize. The confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to. Attractive woman mostly only give you a sign when there intoxicated because there actually more prone to being insecure than average girls when sober.
had to deal with this heavy in high school, i used to think i was invisable, till i had teachers tell me how much students talked about me behind my back 24/7
Nah, but you should also break necks and get stares. The talking behind your back also validates you. I had a girl and guy behind me say 'Maybe he's a model'
You can’t have this mindset bro. If she walk past you, she ain’t interested bro.😂 Not every women is going to find you attractive even if your good looking. Being good looking can sometimes be subjective. Just keep being you and right people will come into your life.💯
Not me being in a house hold with my dad and mom and full of sisters I was never afraid girls and my sisters was way older than me and I had crush on her friend they use to laugh
It like you wait when she approaches you but in reality they would never ask you because they are either waiting when you ask her out or she doesn’t like you .
When you are attractive and humble people will approach you….. but if you are attractive and give off an arrogant vibe…. Most people just dodge the bullet….. lol
@@johnwise4341 Dwayne is not arrogant and humble…. He is Humble and Comical…. And bro have some respect for women and not call them out of their names…. That’s what I mean by dodging the bullet….what woman would want to be with a man that don’t or won’t respect her just because ….. he……. Thinks he looks good….?
Spot on! I can say it has happened to me 2 times. Girl walked by me and pretended to not acknowledge me, however, I met her a week later thru a friend. That’s when she told me that she remembered me from when she walked by me and was intimidated by how attracted she was to me.
Some women are too intimidated the give you body language signs that their interested AKA choosing signs because a woman showing choosing signals is a form of a man cold approaching so she gives you choosing signals and you don't approach she takes it as a rejection !! Women's ego is soo ridiculous goddamn !!
Im still not approaching..I risk not getting anything just to keep my dignity. If a woman looks away I take that as her being shy or disinterested..women go for what they want if truly interested..ive seen it and experienced it..and shy women are just childish..I dont like ppl that can't communicate and behave like an adult
I've learned this the hard way. Not saying I'm super handsome but I met a girl at a grocery store who is a cashier and she would not even make eye contact or keep the Convo flowing when attending me. After she left her replacement told me how she had a huge crush on me and I never made a move
@@antonymartins8310 bro I had a cashier in sheer shakes bro I'm like staring asking a simple question she was shaking crazy story and she be flicking her hair hard asf
@@earlem9771 basically However, she is sorted correct. I have very attractive males friends, and they wouldn't dare entertain females outside of their 'type'
I don’t entertain (pretty boy type) attractive men because most don’t have that charm and manly wisdom. I love the rough rugged men like my husband. We used to be like bestfriends then he went back to his country and just decided I was his girlfriend. Then he told his parents that he is getting married and brought them to my parents. I am still not sure when I became his girlfriend or fiance but atleast I remember us agreeing to have our daughter. This man is smooth, sweet and so peaceful.
@@earlem9771 You made it to this big age thinking that mature women would like competition, that says enough. Not every woman compares to compete, not every woman gets jealous, not every woman cares to be involved in the drama of emotionally immature females being aggressive or disrespectful over his options as if she doesn’t have more peaceful options as well. Keep that drama with you…. There are some females that’ll allow that, but not one that is emotionally mature and over childish drama.
Most women are narcissist and they don't even realize it just join an online chatroom and you'll see what I mean their user names will usually be something along the lines of Diva,Queen,Beautiful,Goddess,Top-notch,Sexy and they will talk about how they won't date a man that's prettier than them while at the same time talking about how there's no good looking men in the chatroom
I remember trying to get some girls and not being able to do it and i was like, wtf is wrong with me man? I consider myself good looking, i do my clothes right, i m clean, smell good, i m doing everything to my best but still i cant get girls, wtf is going on here... But here it comes the funny story, when i went out for a beer with my buddy after work, looking absolutely normal, most the time i was at least talking to a girl. Sometimes i could even sleep with girls. My friend said the same happened to him and we found it weird. How come we come out looking the best we can but get no bootie but when we looking completely normal we can do it with no effort? That was when we realized going out looking your very best sometimes isnt helping you. Another day i went out at my best, a girl approached me asking where i was from and stuff. She then say, its no surprise girls dont approach you, you are extremely attractive. After that, i got it all. Its like a man that finds a girl extremely attractive but thinks he has no chance so he doesnt come up to the girl to talk to her. And yes, i approach girls, course
Same lol just one example when I sit in the cafeteria of the university almost no girls would sit at my table lol but when I do sit at random tables of girls they'll be shocked in a way
I didn't even think I was attractive (I didn't think I was ugly tho) until a new girl at the job could sense it. She read me like a book. She bluntly said "you know you cute right?" I would've never thought it. I thank her for that cause chicks do not want a man to know he's attractive it seems.
They look at you first then look down when you notice them, I get that at least once everyday when I go out in public others will continue to look at you with direct eye contact telling you to approach them but I never do, not because I'm shy but because I'm not looking to court or have sex with anyone I'm focused on me right now. Also most women are taught to not approach men so they rarely do mostly because they can't handle rejection well, but if women is really in to you she will definitely let you know, it's just up to you to notice the subtle signs I didn't for years I was hilariously oblivious a girl couldn't stripped in front of me and I would've tried to put her clothes back on as if it were an accident.
@@ierrymills5250 she wouldn't be looking in the first place if she didn't have interest. Women aren't morons they know what they're looking for, literally. Now you may do or say something to make her quickly lose interest because most women are fickle like that but if she wasn't interested she wouldn't give your direction the time of day because she knows she doesn't have to. Anything extra is literally to garner attention from you she'll just give you a look of disgust, roll her eyes, or bluntly tell you "I have a boyfriend" or "not interested"
This is real shit, so glad he mentioned this. Handsome men suffer from being hated on by dudes because getting ladies is natural while other work harder for basic chicks. It’s also hard as fuck to have a real relationship because your women start to do to much overthinking and ruin vibes. Rinse and repeat, I thought it was just me!
Not really. If she's looking past me like I'm not shit then it's because I'm not shit and she wasn't thinking about me at all. Sometimes it's really that simple.
thank you for adressing this, holly, everybody says yeah get in shape, tall, attractive, goodlooking, still as a man nobody approaches you, you still have to do all the job it is kinda bad
Exactly 💯 I have no idea what this dude is on about and he's not even that hot he's attractive but he's no nineties Tyson Beckford 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 most women are not into looks as men are women value status stability security than looks this dude has no idea what he's talking about
@@Model_Roe Stop the cap. Lol Why does he have to look like Tyson Beckford? He looks like himself and he's confident in that. Yall women think the world revolves around you when most of you are dusties looking for a come up. 🤣 I guarantee this man has bagged women that would leave you at the end of the roster.
Women tell me im handsome all the time if we actually end up talking. But they always say I look mean or intimidating so they were scared to talk to approach me. So this is definitely true. RBF is real. Sometimes I hate having to fake smile at people but it's better than everybody just ignoring you all the time
This is why waiting for choosing signals isn't all it's hyped up to be as some girls will give you very little, you can still sense if a girl likes you but don't be waiting for warm/open responses all the time.
@@KingGogh how backwards is that? Plus that just lets u know how nasty women are. They don't care about sloppy seconds. They prefer that someone test out the product 1st. What kinda ish is that?👀👀😳😳🤦🤔😐
especially if you dress very well they are even scared to speak, it’s too intimidating they don’t want to give the wrong look or say the wrong thing. it’s the same when we see a very pretty lady you want to be looking your best
Unfortunately everybodys so extra these days so when you have a certain look its a turn off. I see guys doing it too. They kind of ignore attractive women that look too high maintenance. In Chicago you go to some parties and all the guys are on one side and the women are on another and they're not interacting...its weird. The internet is affecting everything.
I totally agree. As I've hit the gym. Grown my hair. Grown my beard. I get tons of looks from afar but up close... Chicks don't really have the confidence they think they do.
Sometimes women will look at you and look down because we don't wanna give you the impression that we're interested. Too much eye contact and here comes the flirting. Has nothing to do most times with intimidating us due to your good looks
As a man I agree 100% .. a woman will give eye contact.. she’ll smile.. she might even say hello and start up a conversation if she finds a man attractive…. When she’s not interested she won’t even look in your direction while she’s walking pass you or walking away from you
Girls get caught staring at me all the time but I’m the one that avoids them so if we both doing the same thing nobody wins somebody gotta take the L women have too much pride and scared to get rejected even though they never have to ask anyone out you can make eye contact with a billionaire and you look down who wins at the end of the day ?
@@ProdJamesCultz it's not pride. They are being women. And there is nothing wrong with resting in your femininity as a woman and not go around throwing yourself at males just because a man looked at you . you stare too long you just look weird. Lol I think too many men today wanna be admired and approached like women are. Waiting on a stare to approach a woman is just silly
@@mahalabones6213 I can understand that I 100% get where your coming from So what is the perfect scenario for u a quick glance then spark a conversation ?
Doesn't matter whether you are handsome or not, women fear rejection more than death. They always want the power to do the rejection so it's always on the man to make the approach. Women only throw themselves at men with fame.
Walked past you? Bro! I had one lady literally slammed on her car brake just to stop to ask me if I had a girl and when I told her I do she replied damn you’re fine. If women thinks your handsome, good looking, fine, whatever, they’ll let you know. They probably wont necessarily want to be with you or anything like that but they’ll let you know you’re good looking, handsome etc,. Rarely you’ll find women walked past an handsome good looking guy and not have a reaction. Either they’ll look at you with a gazed steer or say something, or come up to you. Or slip you their number. The things women do when they find you attractive is mind blowing bro. Trust me I’ve been there.
This is not true at all. What he saying is more true and I have had the same experiences as you many times lol. Women do not approach men like that because they afraid of rejection most of the time, because a lot of them do it to men all the time.
Lol woman don't like rejection either. Men it's okay to make a move bc a truly feminine woman won't. If she's interested great if not it's ok too 🤷🏽♀️Its a masculine trait to make that initial pursuit. If you like a girl to approach that's fine, just know she is more in her masculine energy. Also understand sone men are more in their fem energy and that's ok! It's balance. Someone for everyone. All this other noise is just that.. Be secure in yourself & connect with what's for you🤍
This is semi true. Girls fear rejection probably more than men do. I remember I rejected a girl that was into me and the following day she started telling all my friends that I was “ugly anyway”
He’s absolutely right. I am attractive but I remember I went through a time when I didn’t think I was because I felt like women were intimidated. It wasn’t until I had a few girls who finally broke the ice and said I’m very good looking and I’m extremely confident with how I walk and talk. They said it’s a good trait but it makes them think I’m not approachable until they get to know me. Interesting but important. Also better to come off confident than insecure. Just need a balance
Damn true,when I was younger a older female relative said “I bet you make those girls nervous”I thought she was gassing me up but as I got older I noticed that shit at first I thought they were creeped out but she would start following me around and staring I was like damn, she is just nervous😆 just get that confidence up boys.
For real tho I’ll walk through the mall see pretty women and we lock eyes we see each other but as the guy u gotta take your chance when she give you them eyes and approach her
@@angel_-1890 yeah I feel that some girls wanna do that but how many times do I approach women it’s a numbers game personally I’ve counted 50 women in a month I approach and got 4 dates but only had S33gs with 2 u got it king
Def agree as a woman! When I’m all dolled up and dressed to the nines, dudes can’t even make eye contact with me when I smile. SMILE. I be like damn 🥲 what did I do?? Lol, but now I know it’s cause I probably intimidate them. Which also makes sense as to why I get approached less when Im all dressed up.
You are absolutely right ,but for me it's kinda worse ,they just get in their feelings and they just stand up and leave when they see me passing by, image..just passing by.......hard to believe but true...I just shake my head and move on.
Same bro just happened to me i espected it tho it was a lady we got out car same time she was pacing fast caught her looking at me she went head down to the door as a gentleman I was intended to open it for her but nah she beat me to it lol held the door open without looking at me and I said thanks she's ignored lol
I love you handsome men. Keep being handsome out there fearlessly. I love you ugly men too. Y’all be dope asf and people sleep on the eyes. Everyone deserves to have someone hit on them at least once or twice in life.
It's true !! I have approached a lot of women who didn't believe i was attracted to them because they found me to be intimidating . Being good looking can hurt you with some women who are too insecure to deal with you . Sometimes women make it challenge for you to get at them .
I’m a handsome guy and tall (6’4) and I’ve been curved and dubbed multiple times for being to good looking or intimidating. They don’t tell me I’m intimidating but I can tell they’re by me. But I’m a real chill guy, but the way I look and carry myself I guess scares these girls 🤦🏽♂️
I'm tall, buff and pretty chill. I'm at that stage now where Im financially secure, work crazy hours, eat, sleep or train in my spare time and drive a sports car to work. From what Iv observed in my 37 years of living is if a girl likes you she will make it easy.
The worst is when they think youre so good looking that they wont take you serious cos they think you’ll cheat. Then they give it a go. And *THEY* cheat or act disloyal anyways because of that self fullfilling prophecy they put on themselves. Girls are the most insecure, most unhappy, most mentally unbalanced beings on this planet. No lie. Thats why theyre all naked on instagram like theyre fatherless, begging for attention from strangers they dont even like or care about, just to feel validated.
I've not updated my shoes in years. My grandpa told me woman look for good shoes in a man. Bought a new pair. And I've gotten compliments and smiles from woman so far... Jazakallah Khair Grandpa
This is true. I'm a handsome guy or so I've been told, and I use to think women weren't interested in me because they would rarely make eye contact or smile at me. They would either duck their head when they walked by me or they would glance at me and look away quickly. Sometimes, I would catch women staring at me from a distance, but they wouldn't smile at me or make eye contact when I noticed them. So why is this? The number #1 reason is most women (even attractive women) are intimidated by handsome men and fear being rejected by them. Women fear rejection even more than men and will do everything they can to avoid rejection. This is why you will rarely see women approach handsome men unless they are in a group with their girlfriends or they are the rare women who are extremely self-confident. The majority of women will try to hide their interest or even ignore handsome men when they are attracted to them. It's the same for men who are afraid of being rejected by beautiful women, but the fear is even worse for women. 2) Most women assume really handsome men are arrogant jerks. This stereotype for handsome men is still alive and well. I've been told by women that they thought I was an arrogant jerk before they talked to me. The truth is if you are a handsome and confident man, many women are going to falsely assume you are arrogant or a show off. Less attractive men don't seem to have this problem. An average looking man who is confident is considered attractive by most women. But handsome men with confidence don't get this same treatment from women. Why? Well once again most women feel threatened and intimidated by handsome men. Handsome men threaten a woman's fragile ego. Women want to be the best looking person in a relationship because they put high value on their appearance, and handsome men threaten that paradigm. It's easier for some women to just label all handsome men as arrogant to boost a her bruised ego. 3) Women assume handsome men are players or disloyal. While this can be true in some cases, I don't think most handsome men are players. In fact, I would argue that most handsome men generally behave the same as average looking guys. Its usually the wealthy or high status men who tend to be the players and playboys. Ironically, these men represent a very small percentage of the male population yet women complain that all handsome men behave like this. Bottomline is that if you are a handsome guy, you may be ignored or labeled as a jerk or player by many women. It sucks but it is what it is. The best thing you can do as a handsome guy is to be self-confident while having humility. Also, seek attractive women on your level who have self-confidence and self-respect.
Or guys will grab their girls hand and walk to the other side of the street. Anything to gtfo out of your presence! The male advantage is real (1st man)
@Mo a I empathize more with the guys in that specific situation than I show interest to smash the girl. Cause I'm a guy too and this shows that any girl of mine can be eye flirting with dudes without me knowing.
As someone who didn’t get the guy in school, I have a bad habit of automatically assuming that if I find a guy attractive, he must not find me attractive.
Its true because we most likely fall in love with the wrong people. Like a crush, you are really not in love with the person. You are only obsessed with her presens and looks
Women are the prize; no matter how “good looking “ a man is there is always someone better stronger and taller…sometimes women just don’t want to be bothered or catcalled Looks are only the surface Success ambition and confidence are the things women want too not just looks
Sorry to deflate your belief that women are the "prize", they're not. Men are the prize, the catch. Women are a gift to and for men. What benefits does a woman bring to your life compared to the benefits you bring to hers?
Wrong sir. Women are not the prize we are the the prize. Women are a gift to men. What are the benefits that she brings to your life, compared to the benefits you bring to hers.
They don't want to give you validation for a start, Also a lot of women are in love and other men become invisible to an extent which might be a tough pill to swallow for these guys thinking they can steal everyone's chick.
Young bro, when I was your age I was very much like you. I couldn't walk pass a mirror and not look at myself. I had all the ladies. All my sisters friend along with my mothers friends wanted me. As we get a little older and wiser you will come to realize your not as important as you think you are and focus on the things that really matter in life. Good looks are not everything. The relationships you have are.
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300+ languages and you decided to speak nonsense
This is the first video I saw from you lol, I can't believe I've been watching all your content and still not subscribed 😀😃 I'm subscribing now 😇. keep up man!
Damn I must be attractive as hell then
u probably are king👑
@@dowmatthias he wants to be a king, but he ends up at burger king
@@jayg1989 lmao 🤣 😂
@@jayg1989 lmfao 🤣
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Them: “what’s your super power?”
Me: “I make people so uncomfortable with my beauty I become invisible”
Lmao, this dudes ego isn't letting him accept the truth bc his entire stan base kept calling him a tyrone, like that even means anything lol
@@rockysalvatore435what’s the truth?
Dude, you're eating a Zarg Nut...
There's a difference between plainly ignoring your existence and barely noticing you, and trying to ignore you on purpose. The first one is most likely due to lack of interest, while the second one is generally a sign of attraction.
@Rocky Salvatore yet if this would be a womans page talking about her beauty, you would be the first to whiteknight her only fans.
I am the hottest man alive. No girl has approached me in 40 years
Teach me your ways! 😂😂
There not supposed to approach you. You are the man.. They may smile at you..
@@donbuyshousescash4765 ah well...sounds like I missed out
Nah bro, I'M the hottest man alive! Or at least in most women's top 10 lol
@@donbuyshousescash4765 buy a dog, die alone. we in a new era now. with metoo & all that garbage women pushed, men of value are no longer approaching. women who think they are too good to approach will be left with the table scraps when it comes to the quality of men they will get.
This happened to me recently in Target. He actually stopped me and said “You are so beautiful” I smiled and said thank you. But I kept walking because he had no follow up. So I said aww he was probably nervous so I circled the isle like I forgot something and gave eye contact. He then approached me. Been talking since.
Aw yay!
How fucking cute 🥰🥳 I hope it works out for you two ❤
This is so wholesome 🤷🏻👏👏👏🥰
Does 'talking' mean 'dating?'
@@ndaulinendaulina5715 it means smashing with no real intentions of being serious
He’s absolutely right. Women will notice by peripheral eye and not even make eye contact. But their minds are saying dayuuuum he is handsome af. Been in groups of women to witness this. They will not approach nor shoot a smile with eye contact which is all they need to do to signal that man that they are interested and if he is he’ll make the move. Perhaps👀
Sadly in many cases when women cheat the dude they are cheat with be ugly lmao
And that kills me because I’m like “damn, a smile would let me know you’re interested too”
But I guess they feel if they give attention, they might get a guy who doesn’t like them like that
Gotta step up, make moves
Soooo accurate I go home still thinking about that man like damn I blocked my own blessing 😅
I think looks are not of high value to me. Its something of a bare minimum, prerequisite. I need to like how you look so I wanna see you all the time. But beyond a certain point, being immensely handsome isnt giving more interest points. I need knowledge of his other characteristics to be able to think I like the person.
I dont think I can be like "oh you're so gorgeous!". "Ew, I dont like your personality". I need to know all, before I express interest in YOU. Maybe Im sapiosexual.
Some girls act tougher on you when you are handsome because they believe you are a player. It is the weirdest thing ever, to be told you are a player when you don't think you are one.
Its strange. They try to make you feel guilty about being attractive. They are projecting insecurity. You dont have to prove yourself to them.
Fax💯 , & I be taking that sh*t to heart too
@@yungj851 So, I ended up dating certain girls who were readily available. Well, now, I just need attention from one woman and I am happy with that.
I’ve heard that from girls and my body count is incredibly low
@@pickledpancakes Sometimes the devil makes women go crazy over guys. You sit there thinking, girl, I am not what you say I am. They think sunshine comes out of your behind and that you are all that and a bag of chips, basically a sort of fantasy. That is also not desirable. It is healthy for a relationship for a woman to feel they really lucked out with you and that it would be difficult to replace you but being at 360m/h while you are 20m/h is not ideal either. I have a high body count because I did some stupid things and I wanted acceptance from other guys. I hung around people who played the game - both girls and boys. I even almost wiped out a whole squad of really gorgeous girls over a 19 year period. Now, I don't have girl friends because time normally destroys that. Only God helped me as I have repented from having no backbone to say no.
Have any of you ever done a pity shag because a girl is going so hard or seems to be in distress over "googly love" for you. I am not a Chad by any means, I just have an image and reputation of a good looking guy - don't know how to explain it. I even know my type (the ones who go crazy over me) = above average, say 6-7,5 who like brainy, handsome guys and who wear only slighy make-up, are career-driven, have high standards and are lonely. They be the ones who really go for me.
Guys also do this to females who are extremely attractive out of fear of rejection, but also because we don't want to be seen as creeps.
You're right. I do it to males because I am extremely shy.
Being a creep is more about the energy you give off. I always check out women that I find attractive, blatantly at that. But it's more like "Damn, look at this one, she's hot" then I move on and go about my business
@@ivysweet4467 don't be! If you just make eye contact, you wouldn't pass up on so many potentials!
You checking a woman out isn't weird or creepy . The only thing is creepy is your vibe or energy !!
Some of us just dgaf too tho
I personally believe the reason they do that is to not give validation and gas you up
thats part of it women dont like that shit but love when men does it looll
I do the same shit to them
That is also true. It’s definitely a spectrum though…
They don’t look at you because of any of these reasons :
1) you’re not attractive to them
2) you’re cute and they are shy/ intimidated as he said
3) you’re hot as hell and they know they won’t quality so they don’t want to gas you up.
So it’s hard to gauge 😂
As if they don’t be gassed out of their heads all the time 😹😹😹
@@tiger68rafa if u keep eye contact long enough they'll smile and avoid your eyes
I was discussing this yesterday. Women would openly speak to the people in front of me in line at the store, but when it's my turn, they turn super dry like they're trying to downplay my presence. It's Hella rude. I used to feel bad about it until a beautiful lady explained the nature of women 2 me. If you are really handsome as a man, very attractive women will give you strong eye contact and vibes 2 let you know they're interested, because they think you are on the same level as them to a degree. It's the ones who are not as confident that downplay your qualities so that you don't feel superior or so they don't feel inferior. But if you break the ice or kiss up 2 them a lil bit, they soften up too. I prefer confident women with a balanced self esteem. No need to put me down so that we can be on the same level.
I know that friendly cashier who suddenly turns dry all too well. I used to think “What am I doing to these people…??” Now, I get it. (And I’m not even super fine. Heh.)
Facts. They don't even want to acknowledge you, even after you try to strike up a conversation. They just keep it short. Well, I don't say nothing back, and I'm on to the next one. I don't have time to butter up a female whose too afraid to talk to me.
Sometimes i just think its because im black 😂 when i go to restaurants i want to tip but its like they give me bad service on purpose, when i leave i bet they say " blacks never tip"😂
@@Kush333 facts
@@Kush333 hiust happened to me 30 min ago I was buying cologne energy don't lie she gave me a weird look and acted dry ASF 💀 with her mask on smh
I've learned that a simple uninvested smile and "hello" bypasses all of this. Used to get called arrogant when in reality I was super shy tryna hold it together. Both sexes do this to each other for various reasons that add up to us not wanting to look stupid. We all know it's rough out here. I promise you eye contact, a smile and a basic "hello" will melt the ice. It doesn't mean you're going to be calling that person's phone later. It just creates a more comfortable environment for ppl to communicate, including body language. Even if they turn you down or you turn away someone else, if there was a smile and a hello involved everyone will feel ok about it, probly even be motivated to try again(with someone else lol)
Yep all the time
Hard to do if they don't hold eye contact, look away.
Give an approachable impression, make yourself look more open. That's what I tend to do, and it works. Men and women have an easier time to talk to me.
This dude has no idea what he's talking about and he's not even all that hot if women are walking by him like that they're obviously not interested when women see men they find physically attractive they do the exact opposite they make eye contact flirt make conversation etc I had to assume this dude was trolling
@@Model_Roe Depends on the cultural norms of the women or the setting you're in, for example clubs and parties. Sounds like you don't speak from experience, because that definitely doesn't happen much in public on an average day-to-day setting i. e getting approached, flirted with, strong eye contact
@@Model_Roe Not all women will look down of course. But the intimidated ones.
I open my legs on the subway, that's enough.
So true. We're taught not to be very expressive around attractive men. It makes us appear desperate.
Actual gem that took me till my 30s to realize. The confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to. Attractive woman mostly only give you a sign when there intoxicated because there actually more prone to being insecure than average girls when sober.
“ the confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to”. Happens to me a lot
Cuz the confident girls have nothing to lose lol.. literally pretty girls be way more insecure than the average looking ones. Such a coincidence
The only time I've been approached by attractive ones was in places where we knew we would most likely never see each other again
had to deal with this heavy in high school, i used to think i was invisable, till i had teachers tell me how much students talked about me behind my back 24/7
Nah, but you should also break necks and get stares. The talking behind your back also validates you. I had a girl and guy behind me say 'Maybe he's a model'
That's exactly what I do.. the more handsome, attractive the more I'll pretend not to notice. Yes its intimidating.
It's also extremely extremely rude and energy off putting
But you'll watch him from a distance... I know these
@@Avareee.BINGO!
He definitely speaking 🗣️ facts ☝️🤌💯
Ok kymani
@@rockysalvatore435 actually I do this to men.
You can’t have this mindset bro. If she walk past you, she ain’t interested bro.😂 Not every women is going to find you attractive even if your good looking. Being good looking can sometimes be subjective. Just keep being you and right people will come into your life.💯
Based African man. This is why we'd rather have y'all in the states than these boys LMAO
Hes aware of this, but this hapoens even with girls who find you attractive
@@oliver-pk3xj yup this even happens from fucking guys hating on you for no reason i guess they see you as a threat
Facts 🚶🏻♀️ trying to understand female brain is like trying to understand why the Scrat never gets the Acorn in Ice Age 🔁
Both are right
It's the same like when we as guys were 12 y/o and we were scared to even look at our crush up close😂 But we learn to overcome it
Not me being in a house hold with my dad and mom and full of sisters I was never afraid girls and my sisters was way older than me and I had crush on her friend they use to laugh
Raees no
who’s we? i shit myself upon female interaction
@@kingdavidpsalm1448 lmfao same I had crushes on my sisters' friends a lot and I'm only 2 years younger than one of my sister
It like you wait when she approaches you but in reality they would never ask you because they are either waiting when you ask her out or she doesn’t like you .
When you are attractive and humble people will approach you….. but if you are attractive and give off an arrogant vibe…. Most people just dodge the bullet….. lol
But sometimes people judge you wrongly
@@Kite166 sometimes…. I have experienced that but it’s also all about the energy you give off…..
FACTS!!!!
But if you’re arrogant and humble you’re Dwayne Johnson. You can have bitches humbly on your D. Smooth Operator like Sade said.
@@johnwise4341 Dwayne is not arrogant and humble…. He is Humble and Comical…. And bro have some respect for women and not call them out of their names…. That’s what I mean by dodging the bullet….what woman would want to be with a man that don’t or won’t respect her just because ….. he……. Thinks he looks good….?
It’s all about the confidence of that person. If you’re truly confident you’ll feel like you can approach anyone.
Exactly!! Handsome or not, it's not even up to her.
How many dudes have you approached?
@@grindhard4312 🤨🤨🤨🤨
Type of dude to get rejected by a woman and tell himself it was because he's too handsome. Crazy
😂
Looks like a homosexual to me
@@americanmuscleup2497 100%
Bakes da bakes
😂😂
I don’t want no woman that gives me 0 energy from the get go.
Absolutely!
Facts
B an asset
👏👏👏
Not a liability
Healthy energy!
How u get energy if u don't smile or approach like a man..
U expect her to read ur mind...
Yep. They almost act as if they don't like you
Keep coping
@@Heisenberg51Lol u mad?
@@jaquaveonandress649 the angriest man on the planet 💀
Yes, that’s very true. We come off cold or look away when we find a man attractive. It’s intimidating for us too. 🤭
This is so so true guys 😁 I get shy when I see someone I like or very attractive
Spot on! I can say it has happened to me 2 times. Girl walked by me and pretended to not acknowledge me, however, I met her a week later thru a friend. That’s when she told me that she remembered me from when she walked by me and was intimidated by how attracted she was to me.
Some women are too intimidated the give you body language signs that their interested AKA choosing signs because a woman showing choosing signals is a form of a man cold approaching so she gives you choosing signals and you don't approach she takes it as a rejection !!
Women's ego is soo ridiculous goddamn !!
@@Ben256MB I applaud your comment brother 👏
Im still not approaching..I risk not getting anything just to keep my dignity. If a woman looks away I take that as her being shy or disinterested..women go for what they want if truly interested..ive seen it and experienced it..and shy women are just childish..I dont like ppl that can't communicate and behave like an adult
Your scared of rejection !! Lol bro ..
facts bro them looking certainly is not enough. too validating
Facts
You won’t know unless you try bro 😎
I've learned this the hard way. Not saying I'm super handsome but I met a girl at a grocery store who is a cashier and she would not even make eye contact or keep the Convo flowing when attending me. After she left her replacement told me how she had a huge crush on me and I never made a move
that’s so stupid on her part
@@antonymartins8310 bro I had a cashier in sheer shakes bro I'm like staring asking a simple question she was shaking crazy story and she be flicking her hair hard asf
@@antonymartins8310girls are weird man
I usually don’t talk to very attractive men because they usually have a type of female that they like and some are very arrogant.
In other words, you don’t believe you can compete
@@earlem9771 basically
However, she is sorted correct. I have very attractive males friends, and they wouldn't dare entertain females outside of their 'type'
I don’t entertain (pretty boy type) attractive men because most don’t have that charm and manly wisdom. I love the rough rugged men like my husband. We used to be like bestfriends then he went back to his country and just decided I was his girlfriend. Then he told his parents that he is getting married and brought them to my parents. I am still not sure when I became his girlfriend or fiance but atleast I remember us agreeing to have our daughter. This man is smooth, sweet and so peaceful.
@@earlem9771 You made it to this big age thinking that mature women would like competition, that says enough. Not every woman compares to compete, not every woman gets jealous, not every woman cares to be involved in the drama of emotionally immature females being aggressive or disrespectful over his options as if she doesn’t have more peaceful options as well. Keep that drama with you…. There are some females that’ll allow that, but not one that is emotionally mature and over childish drama.
Attractive men are very picky too.
Suffering from success. Wow you're very wise.
SOME MEN AND WOMEN WILL THINK THAT SOMEONE GOOD LOOKING IS OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE.😏
Most women are narcissist and they don't even realize it just join an online chatroom and you'll see what I mean their user names will usually be something along the lines of Diva,Queen,Beautiful,Goddess,Top-notch,Sexy and they will talk about how they won't date a man that's prettier than them while at the same time talking about how there's no good looking men in the chatroom
Exactly
ain’t no leagues bruh, who tf are people to tell me what I can and can’t get
@@moneymakinmitch8130I need this confidence, real talk 💯😭
@@moneymakinmitch8130 💯 you're either someone's type, or you're not
It’s all about how carry yourself bro. Just have good energy and people will gravitate towards you.
Factz
that's cap as hell
@@manofaction5305 very 🧢
@@manofaction5305 i Hope u Have a fun life with that ignorance
@@Superhero-i4w sure!...let's just say other people have tried that road and it doesn't work
That is very true 😢 bro I walk in got everyone looking at me then after that everybody just don't
I remember trying to get some girls and not being able to do it and i was like, wtf is wrong with me man? I consider myself good looking, i do my clothes right, i m clean, smell good, i m doing everything to my best but still i cant get girls, wtf is going on here... But here it comes the funny story, when i went out for a beer with my buddy after work, looking absolutely normal, most the time i was at least talking to a girl. Sometimes i could even sleep with girls. My friend said the same happened to him and we found it weird. How come we come out looking the best we can but get no bootie but when we looking completely normal we can do it with no effort? That was when we realized going out looking your very best sometimes isnt helping you. Another day i went out at my best, a girl approached me asking where i was from and stuff. She then say, its no surprise girls dont approach you, you are extremely attractive. After that, i got it all. Its like a man that finds a girl extremely attractive but thinks he has no chance so he doesnt come up to the girl to talk to her. And yes, i approach girls, course
Same lol just one example when I sit in the cafeteria of the university almost no girls would sit at my table lol but when I do sit at random tables of girls they'll be shocked in a way
Damn I must be super attractive cuz everyone sprints away when they see me.
sprint away😆
Hahaha
Bro you're not😂😂
😂😂 not sprint
@@ignaciokayThat’s the joke. You’re probably 12
So true… my female coworker had to school me on this
I didn't even think I was attractive (I didn't think I was ugly tho) until a new girl at the job could sense it. She read me like a book. She bluntly said "you know you cute right?"
I would've never thought it. I thank her for that cause chicks do not want a man to know he's attractive it seems.
25 years and women don't even acknowledge my existence. They even ignore me in DM, requests and dating app. I must be the hottest man in existence.
Get some game
@@user-ix2uv9er1v the games only start if they accept my req. I am not gonna do game with randoass women. That's creepy.
They look at you first then look down when you notice them, I get that at least once everyday when I go out in public others will continue to look at you with direct eye contact telling you to approach them but I never do, not because I'm shy but because I'm not looking to court or have sex with anyone I'm focused on me right now. Also most women are taught to not approach men so they rarely do mostly because they can't handle rejection well, but if women is really in to you she will definitely let you know, it's just up to you to notice the subtle signs I didn't for years I was hilariously oblivious a girl couldn't stripped in front of me and I would've tried to put her clothes back on as if it were an accident.
Facts i read in a pick up book years ago when she looks down she like if she looks up she’s not into you
@@FBi_. It's not 100 accurate unless you approach her !!
Bruh stop bullshiting yourself !! You can date and work on yourself at the same time .
@@Ben256MB you missed the point, I couldn't careless about the percentage of accuracy.
@@ierrymills5250 she wouldn't be looking in the first place if she didn't have interest. Women aren't morons they know what they're looking for, literally. Now you may do or say something to make her quickly lose interest because most women are fickle like that but if she wasn't interested she wouldn't give your direction the time of day because she knows she doesn't have to. Anything extra is literally to garner attention from you she'll just give you a look of disgust, roll her eyes, or bluntly tell you "I have a boyfriend" or "not interested"
This is real shit, so glad he mentioned this. Handsome men suffer from being hated on by dudes because getting ladies is natural while other work harder for basic chicks. It’s also hard as fuck to have a real relationship because your women start to do to much overthinking and ruin vibes. Rinse and repeat, I thought it was just me!
Damn we all fucken gorgeous then 😂
Pro tip: if a girl looks past you like you ain't shit there's a really good chance she thought you were cute.
Not really.
If she's looking past me like I'm not shit then it's because I'm not shit and
she wasn't thinking about me at all.
Sometimes it's really that simple.
thank you for adressing this, holly, everybody says yeah get in shape, tall, attractive, goodlooking, still as a man nobody approaches you, you still have to do all the job it is kinda bad
Women really get shy the brave ones are usually 304s
True asf
Faxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Shawty one time said she think i’m good lookin but she thinks i’ll cheat so she ain’t take me seriously 🤦🏾♂️😔
Nigga I think ima cheat by the way I look, I once had a bitch say she like me cus she think I get hella bitches😂
@@Dwahada explain what you mean?
I’ve heard it ALL of my life, “I KNOW you have a LOT of women!”
It's your vibe and so presence which makes women believe that .
@@Ben256MBman said everything except for his looks lol
A handsome man ain’t never intimidated me, it’s more about his confidence, aura and stature
Exactly 💯 I have no idea what this dude is on about and he's not even that hot he's attractive but he's no nineties Tyson Beckford 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 most women are not into looks as men are women value status stability security than looks this dude has no idea what he's talking about
@@Model_Roe I say they clearly want a masculine woman …bc why the hell do we need to be approaching a man in the first place
@@Model_Roe Stop the cap. Lol Why does he have to look like Tyson Beckford? He looks like himself and he's confident in that. Yall women think the world revolves around you when most of you are dusties looking for a come up. 🤣 I guarantee this man has bagged women that would leave you at the end of the roster.
@@biz1boom yea bro is very attractive...I don't know what they're talking about LOL
@@Model_Roe he’s actually very attractive. And there is some truth to what he is saying. It’s not going to apply to everyone, and that’s okay.
Women tell me im handsome all the time if we actually end up talking. But they always say I look mean or intimidating so they were scared to talk to approach me. So this is definitely true. RBF is real. Sometimes I hate having to fake smile at people but it's better than everybody just ignoring you all the time
Skin color plays a role also
This is why waiting for choosing signals isn't all it's hyped up to be as some girls will give you very little, you can still sense if a girl likes you but don't be waiting for warm/open responses all the time.
This is exactly y chicks never get the guy they want. a closed mouth don't get fed
They wait until another woman has him and THEN, they attack lol
@@KingGogh how backwards is that? Plus that just lets u know how nasty women are. They don't care about sloppy seconds. They prefer that someone test out the product 1st. What kinda ish is that?👀👀😳😳🤦🤔😐
A closed mouth is a closed destiny
especially if you dress very well they are even scared to speak, it’s too intimidating they don’t want to give the wrong look or say the wrong thing. it’s the same when we see a very pretty lady you want to be looking your best
Unfortunately everybodys so extra these days so when you have a certain look its a turn off. I see guys doing it too. They kind of ignore attractive women that look too high maintenance. In Chicago you go to some parties and all the guys are on one side and the women are on another and they're not interacting...its weird. The internet is affecting everything.
Is not about the act, is about the perception of the act 💎
I totally agree. As I've hit the gym. Grown my hair. Grown my beard. I get tons of looks from afar but up close... Chicks don't really have the confidence they think they do.
At all brother. At all. It’s all fake
Make up, waist trainers, BBLs, hell naw women ain’t confident lol I’m short and lowkey ugly but confidence has gotten me far
100%
Sometimes women will look at you and look down because we don't wanna give you the impression that we're interested. Too much eye contact and here comes the flirting. Has nothing to do most times with intimidating us due to your good looks
As a man I agree 100% .. a woman will give eye contact.. she’ll smile.. she might even say hello and start up a conversation if she finds a man attractive…. When she’s not interested she won’t even look in your direction while she’s walking pass you or walking away from you
He said MIGHT. As in SOME. Women who are intimidated.
You have done this before naturally to a guy out of your league.
Girls get caught staring at me all the time but I’m the one that avoids them so if we both doing the same thing nobody wins somebody gotta take the L women have too much pride and scared to get rejected even though they never have to ask anyone out you can make eye contact with a billionaire and you look down who wins at the end of the day ?
@@ProdJamesCultz it's not pride. They are being women. And there is nothing wrong with resting in your femininity as a woman and not go around throwing yourself at males just because a man looked at you . you stare too long you just look weird. Lol I think too many men today wanna be admired and approached like women are. Waiting on a stare to approach a woman is just silly
@@mahalabones6213 I can understand that I 100% get where your coming from So what is the perfect scenario for u a quick glance then spark a conversation ?
Doesn't matter whether you are handsome or not, women fear rejection more than death. They always want the power to do the rejection so it's always on the man to make the approach. Women only throw themselves at men with fame.
Most accurate observation
Sometimes they just don't look because someone so handsome might be taken
I must be attractive af cause I mean they passing me by everyday… 😂😂😂😂
maybe it's because you look MEAN. lol... women have to learn how to be down to Earth, learn how to talk, and know how to handle men in conversations.
Both a curse and a blessing. But we really handsome guys do our best to get through it
Literally what I’ve struggled with for so long!
Hi
Facts no cap 🧢
Nice pic bro
Looks gets you in the door, substances keeps you in her mind
Walked past you? Bro! I had one lady literally slammed on her car brake just to stop to ask me if I had a girl and when I told her I do she replied damn you’re fine. If women thinks your handsome, good looking, fine, whatever, they’ll let you know. They probably wont necessarily want to be with you or anything like that but they’ll let you know you’re good looking, handsome etc,. Rarely you’ll find women walked past an handsome good looking guy and not have a reaction. Either they’ll look at you with a gazed steer or say something, or come up to you. Or slip you their number. The things women do when they find you attractive is mind blowing bro. Trust me I’ve been there.
This is not true at all. What he saying is more true and I have had the same experiences as you many times lol. Women do not approach men like that because they afraid of rejection most of the time, because a lot of them do it to men all the time.
Your comment is true cause I’ve experienced similar but GENERALLY the opposite is more the case
I agree I tend to treat guys like this, they just seem so unapproachable🤷🏽♀️🤣🤎💋
*This is true. I get this all the time. Oh God these hot looks you gave me come with a lot of responsibility to always make the first move!* 🤔😂😂😂
Lol woman don't like rejection either. Men it's okay to make a move bc a truly feminine woman won't. If she's interested great if not it's ok too 🤷🏽♀️Its a masculine trait to make that initial pursuit. If you like a girl to approach that's fine, just know she is more in her masculine energy. Also understand sone men are more in their fem energy and that's ok! It's balance. Someone for everyone. All this other noise is just that.. Be secure in yourself & connect with what's for you🤍
This is semi true. Girls fear rejection probably more than men do. I remember I rejected a girl that was into me and the following day she started telling all my friends that I was “ugly anyway”
😂😂😂this is so true
Exactly
I don't fear rejection, I am extremely shy.
She got emotional !! 😂😂😂
The only thing this man has said in a while that actually holds some water 🌊
He’s absolutely right. I am attractive but I remember I went through a time when I didn’t think I was because I felt like women were intimidated. It wasn’t until I had a few girls who finally broke the ice and said I’m very good looking and I’m extremely confident with how I walk and talk. They said it’s a good trait but it makes them think I’m not approachable until they get to know me. Interesting but important. Also better to come off confident than insecure. Just need a balance
We have the cheat code💀
I can relate, unfortunately my game is real bad ! 🤦♂️
Same lol.
Not one lie was told ... & I am a woman
I don't agree t everything you say but your spot on that one boss.
Damn true,when I was younger a older female relative said “I bet you make those girls nervous”I thought she was gassing me up but as I got older I noticed that shit at first I thought they were creeped out but she would start following me around and staring I was like damn, she is just nervous😆 just get that confidence up boys.
Handsome and Humble Thanks to GOD ❤❤❤❤ALWAYS GOD BLESS🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
For real tho I’ll walk through the mall see pretty women and we lock eyes we see each other but as the guy u gotta take your chance when she give you them eyes and approach her
some chick gave me the eyes more than 3 times and made it clear that she wanted me to approach then when I did I got rejected for a ego boost😂
@@angel_-1890 yeah I feel that some girls wanna do that but how many times do I approach women it’s a numbers game personally I’ve counted 50 women in a month I approach and got 4 dates but only had S33gs with 2 u got it king
@@angel_-1890 yup idiot girls thats why them just looking is not enough for me. Tooo validating
@@angel_-1890 your probably had some trash ass game brother
Def agree as a woman! When I’m all dolled up and dressed to the nines, dudes can’t even make eye contact with me when I smile. SMILE. I be like damn 🥲 what did I do?? Lol, but now I know it’s cause I probably intimidate them. Which also makes sense as to why I get approached less when Im all dressed up.
Rejection is GODS Protection 🎩👑🧠🙏🤭💪💯🏆
You are absolutely right ,but for me it's kinda worse ,they just get in their feelings and they just stand up and leave when they see me passing by, image..just passing by.......hard to believe but true...I just shake my head and move on.
Same bro just happened to me i espected it tho it was a lady we got out car same time she was pacing fast caught her looking at me she went head down to the door as a gentleman I was intended to open it for her but nah she beat me to it lol held the door open without looking at me and I said thanks she's ignored lol
True. Make sure what you say to her is on point, it's all about delivery and not being nervous.
I love you handsome men. Keep being handsome out there fearlessly. I love you ugly men too. Y’all be dope asf and people sleep on the eyes. Everyone deserves to have someone hit on them at least once or twice in life.
I may not be as handsome as Jungkook from BTS but i go to the gym consistently to improve my physique and muscle definition
Interesting mindset
Happens all the time 😞
This is true. I get nervous when I see a man I find attractive. Don't want to come off as weird. Won't even acknowledge him. It sucks.
It's true !! I have approached a lot of women who didn't believe i was attracted to them because they found me to be intimidating .
Being good looking can hurt you with some women who are too insecure to deal with you . Sometimes women make it challenge for you to get at them .
This is actually true! Too handsome = heartbreak 😢
Therapy is needed!!!
She put a restraining order on you
This guy: “Cos you’re TOO handsome!”
I’m a handsome guy and tall (6’4) and I’ve been curved and dubbed multiple times for being to good looking or intimidating. They don’t tell me I’m intimidating but I can tell they’re by me. But I’m a real chill guy, but the way I look and carry myself I guess scares these girls 🤦🏽♂️
6’4? You should be training for nba bruh
@@YungPhilosopher 6'4 isn't really tall enough for NBA. That's 6'8+ you're talking about.
I'm tall, buff and pretty chill.
I'm at that stage now where Im financially secure, work crazy hours, eat, sleep or train in my spare time and drive a sports car to work.
From what Iv observed in my 37 years of living is if a girl likes you she will make it easy.
@@hankscorpio6924 Depends, but ig so
The worst is when they think youre so good looking that they wont take you serious cos they think you’ll cheat. Then they give it a go. And *THEY* cheat or act disloyal anyways because of that self fullfilling prophecy they put on themselves. Girls are the most insecure, most unhappy, most mentally unbalanced beings on this planet. No lie. Thats why theyre all naked on instagram like theyre fatherless, begging for attention from strangers they dont even like or care about, just to feel validated.
I've not updated my shoes in years. My grandpa told me woman look for good shoes in a man. Bought a new pair. And I've gotten compliments and smiles from woman so far... Jazakallah Khair Grandpa
This is true. I'm a handsome guy or so I've been told, and I use to think women weren't interested in me because they would rarely make eye contact or smile at me. They would either duck their head when they walked by me or they would glance at me and look away quickly. Sometimes, I would catch women staring at me from a distance, but they wouldn't smile at me or make eye contact when I noticed them. So why is this? The number #1 reason is most women (even attractive women) are intimidated by handsome men and fear being rejected by them. Women fear rejection even more than men and will do everything they can to avoid rejection. This is why you will rarely see women approach handsome men unless they are in a group with their girlfriends or they are the rare women who are extremely self-confident. The majority of women will try to hide their interest or even ignore handsome men when they are attracted to them. It's the same for men who are afraid of being rejected by beautiful women, but the fear is even worse for women. 2) Most women assume really handsome men are arrogant jerks. This stereotype for handsome men is still alive and well. I've been told by women that they thought I was an arrogant jerk before they talked to me. The truth is if you are a handsome and confident man, many women are going to falsely assume you are arrogant or a show off. Less attractive men don't seem to have this problem. An average looking man who is confident is considered attractive by most women. But handsome men with confidence don't get this same treatment from women. Why? Well once again most women feel threatened and intimidated by handsome men. Handsome men threaten a woman's fragile ego. Women want to be the best looking person in a relationship because they put high value on their appearance, and handsome men threaten that paradigm. It's easier for some women to just label all handsome men as arrogant to boost a her bruised ego. 3) Women assume handsome men are players or disloyal. While this can be true in some cases, I don't think most handsome men are players. In fact, I would argue that most handsome men generally behave the same as average looking guys. Its usually the wealthy or high status men who tend to be the players and playboys. Ironically, these men represent a very small percentage of the male population yet women complain that all handsome men behave like this.
Bottomline is that if you are a handsome guy, you may be ignored or labeled as a jerk or player by many women. It sucks but it is what it is. The best thing you can do as a handsome guy is to be self-confident while having humility. Also, seek attractive women on your level who have self-confidence and self-respect.
Or guys will grab their girls hand and walk to the other side of the street. Anything to gtfo out of your presence! The male advantage is real (1st man)
LMAO THIS IS FACTS, Nigga will cuff her FAST. like bro your girl is a 5 chill out
Happens to me a lot bro 😂
@Mo a lol feel bad? why
@Mo a True lol it's a sad way to approach life
@Mo a I empathize more with the guys in that specific situation than I show interest to smash the girl. Cause I'm a guy too and this shows that any girl of mine can be eye flirting with dudes without me knowing.
As someone who didn’t get the guy in school, I have a bad habit of automatically assuming that if I find a guy attractive, he must not find me attractive.
Same
Its true because we most likely fall in love with the wrong people. Like a crush, you are really not in love with the person. You are only obsessed with her presens and looks
Women are the prize; no matter how “good looking “ a man is there is always someone better stronger and taller…sometimes women just don’t want to be bothered or catcalled
Looks are only the surface
Success ambition and confidence are the things women want too not just looks
Sorry to deflate your belief that women are the "prize", they're not. Men are the prize, the catch. Women are a gift to and for men. What benefits does a woman bring to your life compared to the benefits you bring to hers?
Wrong sir. Women are not the prize we are the the prize. Women are a gift to men. What are the benefits that she brings to your life, compared to the benefits you bring to hers.
Women are Not the Prize bro, they're just nothing but a bunch of body count and DNA collectors!
"women are the prize" sounds like something an elite Simp would say
Women are not a prize if men are providing and protecting you.
What he's saying is true...I'm beautiful myself but really attractive guys did make me nervous as a young gal
Lol you're beautiful?
Being physically attractive can be a gift and a curse
I get approached by multiple females daily, when your pockets match your looks 👀, they get territorial.😏💯
I’ve experienced that a lot, I’ll look and they’ll look timidly 😂
If ego was a person
Nothing wrong with it. If th advice dosnt apply to you just move on
@@pyres1165he's just booty tickle and envious that it doesn't happen to him🤣
This was kinda funny 😆
@@pyres1165 lol he is talking about even males get intimidated by you
@@MrRop-yp3wtHow many ugly guys do you in a group of good looking dudes? Most feel like that one ugly girl in a group of baddies
He spittin facts...I'm really chill af
Makes sense. That's why some guy's that also don't know you be seeming like you pissed them off and don't know you.
They don't want to give you validation for a start, Also a lot of women are in love and other men become invisible to an extent which might be a tough pill to swallow for these guys thinking they can steal everyone's chick.
Young bro, when I was your age I was very much like you. I couldn't walk pass a mirror and not look at myself. I had all the ladies. All my sisters friend along with my mothers friends wanted me. As we get a little older and wiser you will come to realize your not as important as you think you are and focus on the things that really matter in life. Good looks are not everything. The relationships you have are.