Letoya Gives Tommi an Emotional Gift | T.I. & Tiny: Friends & Family Hustle
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- To remember her husband’s late mother and help him cope with the loss, Letoya gives Tommi a thoughtful gift to keep her in his memory.
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When you lose somone you love, the pain never goes away
I understand his pain! I felt this exact way when my father died unexpectedly 10 years ago. And it doesn't get easier. You just end up accepting it slowly over time.Praying for them❤️❤️❤️
i totally agree and understand
So true i understand my dad and grandma passed away and i still cry sometimes its hard and its hurts deeply i love and miss them so much im about to cry now. Thank you God for blessing me with my dad and grandma who raised me and my sister the beautiful and strong and intelligent woman we are. Thank you dad and grandma for everything. Im crying.RIP my dad and grandma.😥🙏🙏
I love how she wasn’t sure wat to do to help him but doing something so small like tht made the biggest difference to him. Thts what a wife does.
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Dope @gardenboysmilez
Amen Tatiana Avian!
LaToya is a BOSS wife and so sweet. That gift was so thoughtful. 🥰💫
Yes it is
Right lol that oven ain't even on
My grown self cried with you bro, it still takes a village, Time doesn't heal all pain but GOD Does! Talk to GOD he'll help you through this remember there's nothings to big for GOD. ✌n❤
Hallelujah 🙏🏽
I did too. I just lost my mother on July 18, 2019. God is why I’m still alive today. I was ready to die when I saw my mom laying there lifeless.
@@cocochanel1541 wow that's heartbreaking. Best wishes to you.
@@cocochanel1541 My condolences so sorry you lost your Mommy.🙏❣
I cried this is hard for him I feel sorry for him even though I never loved my mother the fact he knows how it feels to have a good mother it still made me cry
She was a great wife.
Tommy is surrounded around love and that’s what he needs through the process of his loss. God will give him strength 🙏🏽
🙏🙏🙏♥️ Unfortunately i know the feeling of losing a parent lost My Father to Cancer😓Worst feeling in the world to lose a parent🙏🙏♥️♥️Rip to All Real Parents that have passed away😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️
She's too good for him...point blank
What Latoya did show her love for her husband and it took great COURAGE.
Sometimes you gotta know when to apply pressure. The gift was beautiful but talking about counseling during the gathering was extra! Enjoy the day 1st...feel me?
Tommi just release it bro let you wife witness the true nature of your grief cry and let her rub your back, your rub hers as she cries assists you with consoling your pain . She is in essence your partner in life. As men we think we shouldn't show pain but that's why GOD gifted you Letoya so you can bare your soul to her.
Let the man grieve Letoya just need to be there when he needs and keep up the spirits in the house. I big no do not force the man to go to counseling
It’s easier said than done tbh when you’re in this situation you don’t really know what to do but you can tell she’s doing the best she can
She not forcing him but it's a suggestion because most man don't feel that counseling is not right and that they have to do it alone
I'm crying also!! This was just too sweet and touching, I love the support and love she gives him!!!!
Aww I shed a tear
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🔥🔥🔥🔥💯
Losing a mom...will never be ok!. Mom's are EVERYTHING
T be of courage and stand strong. Losing you’re parents is one of the hardest think in life. If you need to cry you let it out. You’ll be ok.
Tommi is fine
Your mom will always be with you. I really feel when he loss his mom it hurt a part of his heart that just couldn't be mended. I know how strong my love is as a mom but not even the death of my physical body will keep me from my child. I know his mom will always be with him.
Its sad he never took the time to appreciate her.
I felt his pain. I cried with him.
Poor baby 😢 Toya please leave him alone. Let him grieve
I can't imagine that pain, my prayers goes out to the family.
He crying because it hurt to do somebody bad knowing they Love you for real.
Tommi you will get through but your mother will always be in your heart trust i kno the feeling
He didn't express his emotions very loudly like she does towards him, toya didn't even get a kiss lmao
That man didn’t deserve her
That’s rite girl have you hubby’s back 💯❤️✅
I lost my aunt 11 yrs ago and it still hurts till this day because she was my mother since birth because my real mom couldn't care for me...
So sorry for your loss. 🙏❤
@@mariemarlene7658 thank you sooo much..
@@realistrealist5892 You're welcome!
That made me cry. Perfect gift but maybe a more jovial one in front of the guest and that one in private so he could REALLY cry and get some of it out. Overall, she's such a supportive wife who loves her man to pieces. I wish them the best!
God bless so beautiful
Firstly, may Almighty God be with Tommi during a painful season. Secondly, I remember Letoya from "Destiny's Child" and she is a really beautiful person. She gave him a gift that's worth more than money/jewellery.
Now I see why he is in so much pain.......🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tommy seems like something he doesn't trust about his wife! He intent or something!
I don’t think she should have gave that to him in front of ever and the cameras
❤❤
Someone cutting onions or something
He doesn’t deserve her AT ALL. Does he even work?
Where is is other kid at? This is not cool his friends are there but his other kid isn't?
He was hurting from his mom passing, I’m sure that’s why his marriage didn’t work out
He definitely needs extensive therapy.
This girl is just SOLID, i love her desire to check in on his emotional well-being, respect his grieving process and at the same time be a very present emotional support. Love her!
Yes exactly 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@rdns263 yes, there's this forthrightness about her that is so refreshing especially for a celebrity. God bless them
Very solid
Yes but dont forget to check in with self first. People tend to give too much of themselves away and become codependent.
@@indy_442 True 💯🙏🏾
LeToya is a good woman! Sad time right here.... God bless their family🙏🏿💕
@bass reemer she married him so she loves him she chose to have children with him she will be having his son soon.
He should have hugged his wife and kissed her when she gave him that gift. I'm sorry but its something strange about him and I dont like him for her.
He’s a cheater sis
The comment I was lookin for!
@@caooue7047 me too 🤣🤣
Well he cheated and she announced they’re divorce
@@tw0471 Wow! Really? I don't watch the show. I only saw maybe 3 episodes of the show and they appeared happy with each other; especially him. He wanted more children and seemed to be happy with being her husband and having a family with her, so i am shocked that they are getting a divorce.
He seems so cold towards her and she seems to be tiptoeing idk maybe it's the grief
Yes he is he is narcissistic! And
I’m glad she left him
@@jmcharles75 this is what narc do, use they pain to hurt others
That was a very kind gesture on her part, very kind. I think that was just lovely. I didn't hear a " Thank you Baby".
He definitely said it tho
He said thank you babe after shaking the box
@@morganstigall8283 yep , I rewinded it.
I just think it wasn’t the best time to give it.
A true man isn’t afraid to show his emotions.
How did he lose his mom if u guys don't mind me asking
@@KayAintPressed CANCER..🙏
@@alicetetterton9643 omg. I lost my mom to the same thing smh
Amen to that sista
But he cheating on her allegedly. That is not a true man
Ive never lost a parent but this made me tear up...
Its gut wrenching
datswassup07
Yes me too
The worst 😪
Right 😢
Yes!!! Gut Wrenching for sure. It's like a sick, painful, hurt, it's soooo hard to explain.
He didn’t even hug her or connect with her after she gave him the gift. Literally he is not emotionally available for her but he got to be for another woman. This is sad
Truth!!! I just said the same thing! Hug ur wife for "Trying" to give a One of a Kind gift celebrating his relationship with his mother!!!
Exactly
I feel she loves and respects him more than he loves and respects her. Latoya, please leave him ASAP
Awkward marriage she's afraid to show him love for fear of rejection
Exactly.
Exactly!
Women stop spoiling your Sons because they become brats and we suffer because we have to behave like their mamas instead of wives
She’s a great wife ! I love it ! Emotion is cool plus it’s his mother of course he’s emotional ! I’ll cry like a baby bout mine
Hello Big man! 😍
Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2020 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️
~Sharel Sweetz~
God bless you...thank you
You posted this 4 months ago but I definitely needed to read this today... Thank you
Amen 🙏
Amen... 🙏🏼🙏🏼I needed this
Thank you
Sucks watching this and seeing what he's doing to Toya while she's pregnant. 🙄
RIH TO HIS MOM Condolences to his Family
This man is broken. This more than the passing of his mother
Why am I crying 😭🤧
Because you are a caring person. And you have a big ❤️
I aint see no appreciation for such a 💞🙏🏽heartfelt gift🙏🏽💞
My husband lost his Dad a few years ago. It's heart breaking to see someone you love so much, being in so much pain. Today is my FIL's birthday. We miss him so much.
Damn hopefully he can just be the good man every mother wants their son's to be. That's the best way to help yourself through that kind of pain
This goes to show that no matter how good, how supportive, how loyal you are to fkboys they will embarrass and hurt you.
every damn time. I lived it. I will marry again one day but I will always half ass be present because these brothers will dog a good woman
Right! He could've at least given her a hug. 😒
I like LeToya but she needs to stop trying to insert herself in his pain. She means well and I get it but sometimes people need space to process things on their own.
sugar baby Yeah some people like to process alone. But everybody griefs differently!!!!
It’s easier said then done
Its their grief. He may have lost his mother but she lost her mother in law and has to see her husband in pain daily. Its a conjoined grief
They are married!
@@neshie200 Facts‼🎯🎯
Latoya has to let her husband go through his changes and that even means taking the back seat and not to take his anger personal. Sons are closer to their Mothers. His heart is hurting and with hurt there is pain then anger. Only God can heal that hurt. Because it can affect the relationship. Prayer is definitely good for your relationship. God Bless you
Sons are no closer to mothers than a daughter. Every relationship is different, also everyone reacts to sadness different. But he does need the skills to understand how to redirect that energy and not take it out on his family. Or harbor it. And counseling would help with that.
Vanisha Neal Grief affects people in different ways. She needs to allow him to grief in his way. He obviously was very close to his mom. You don’t know how it feels until it happens to you. It just takes time and in the beginning your emotions are all over the place. His emotions will stabilize in time. Sometimes you just need to bestow mercy to a person as they process the loss.
God Bless You
So true
LC Jones Amen
He did not thank her in any way, or did I miss that.....😳
He did, 1:39 right after they showed him getting ready to open the box with the pendant.
TN S....I said the SAME thing. Where is the thank you? I was waiting for a hug, a kiss, a fist bump or something
They got me over here crying 😢
He ain't reach out or nothing. Just stage left. He don't wanna be there.
He's blessed to have siblings, a wife and child at this sensitive time in his life. . I know the feeling of losing a mother. May his mom rest in peace
Very blessed.
Yes, so much Love around him.💖💕
They are such a beautiful couple ❤
I like her, however, she seems a bit overbearing. They both need counseling.
Seems like she's trying to rush his grieving process
extensions she's not rushing the process. She's encouraging the process to start so that she can have her husband back.
This video has me in tears. Life is so fragile..
Such a beautiful family
Toya is So Sweet💖
Such a sweetheart
Wow...that moment deserved him giving her a heartfelt hug
Beautiful god continue to u an ur family!!!
This marriage is in duress. Let's all pray for them to make it..
I lost my mom this year January 30,2020 I know how he feel.its hard losing a mom cause she your backbone your queen your shoulder to cry on I wish my queen was still here God bless yall
Sorry for ur loss,I know the pain,lost mines also.
So sorry for your loss just remember she is heavens gain watching over you every step of the way
My condolences to you🙏🏽
Tanisha Davis oh yes that’s for sure
My condolences to you❤️🌷
Wow, he really loved his mom.
About 99% people do 🙄
She deserves better
She's way to giving. A mistake she'll learn down the road. He's mean to her for no reason a sign of NARCISSISM. You can't change them and they will only change with A LOT of psychological help.
There's really not much to say. I just felt it 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞😌💫#muchlove
He looks at her with contention
He never once acknowledged her for bringing them together or getting that gift Smdh
She was so sweet to give him that very beautiful
Wow he didn't even say Thank you smfh
He didn't even kiss her or thank her
Watching this brought some emotions that I feel from losing my mother almost 7 months ago and I will have to celebrate my 1st bday without her in 15 days not looking forward to it. Sending my prayers to this family. #motherlesschild
I lost my Mom over 20 years ago and I can tell you it will not be easy, However try to remember all the funny and good times with her. It also helps to cry and let it all out, just know that she is watching over you guiding and protecting you ALWAYS‼🙏💝
Sending you lots of prayers and sunshine!!!
@@mariemarlene7658 I lost mine in 2011 that's how I cope I remember the happy moments from my childhood and the news that I was giving her a grand 👶 when I used to tell her I wasn't having any babies lol she has 7 grandkids total from all of her kids.
I understand that pain. I just got through the first birthday of my mom's without her alive and I spent it paying my respects to her at the gravesite. It was surreal. I miss my bestie. But I feel like she's watching over me now. Love that woman with all of my heart ❤ until I see her again. If you're a believer, just remember we will see them again. Stay blessed. God will take care of you.
@@mariemarlene7658 my mom predicted the first grand baby I gave her would be a girl she was spot on what a beautiful memory I will treasure forever.
I feel Tommie..I lost my mom October 22, 2016..I still hurt, cry and remember her in my heart...There is nothing his wife can say do to make him understand...He just miss his mom...My wife do not discuss my mom with me...I like that....Some things are left alone...All Tommie needs from his wife is a hug....Tears are falling down my eyes...
John Hull I’m sorry
@@eyt1985
Thnx...Hurts....Mommy told me life don't stop SON...you got keep moving
You let a good woman go Tommy.. you know u realize u messed up now😊
Seems like Tommy thought he has LeToya on lock and stock regardless of his behavior 🤔!!! She showed him though! I feel like he may have had some unresolved issue with his Mom, but Toya couldn’t do anything about that! It’s natural and painful to grieve a parents death, but I feel like his wife could have been a great source of his healing had he let her in and went to therapy as suggested! Foolish pride gets nowhere!!!!
He’s not emotionally available
That's so sweet. Watching him open the gift, made me cry too. Rest in peace Ruby Walker. ❤
Why 😌 I felt that this relationship/ Marriage wasn’t going to last. Ok, 1st Clue 😊 When he first saw Latoya and he acted like he didn’t know who she was 😳 come on Tommy Everybody know who Latoya is. 😅I’m just saying 🤷🏽♀️
Tommy is a child. Point, blank, period. He was unfaithful & a fool, & that is means for divorce.
Awww Beautiful Black family! Build families ❤🇺🇸
Letoya has intimacy issues too because she couldn’t even embrace him when he released , I feel like they have huge intimacy issues that cause problems in their relationship
She told one of their friends that he doesn't cry in front of her. I hope this wasn't her way of getting him to show emotion in front of her. Especially since like you said she didn't even embrace him...so why would someone even feel comfortable opening up to someone like that
Now we know why he treated her so SHITTY...he was CHEATING!!
OK, I know I'm late w/this comment BUT could he Not even say: "Thank You Baby???" Letoya was Trying. Dang!!!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥺
Yes, she did her best to uplift her hubby and she is on it about grief counseling. Some men find it hard to express themselves emotionally they in turn may act out or look for a release elsewhere which could bring problems into their marrying. Wives can be there in many ways, but in areas like these it will take a professional to help him through these feelings so he can better learn how to cope. That is what their profession is grief counselor to aid one through the grief. Keep praying and supporting your man Letoya.
Man deal with there emotions different an just cause he not all out there with it doesn’t mean he don’t show them earlier in the show he said he still cries every night
That's a myth. Men deal with the same type of stress, sadness, anger, and the sort but yes it does varies from person to person. It's definitely not a man vs. woman unless it's hormones then yes men take the backseat on that against a woman because they have none.
I really feel she have herself a good man. It took a long time but it is the right time
I agree he’s going through a rough time in his life. He love his mom and wife he just need some time to grieve and grief counseling is perfect
O ok 🥴