How to unlove someone you can't have

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  • Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
  • It hurts when your love is unrequited. Do these 8 practical things to break free. #Healing #relationshipadvice
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    00:00 - Intro
    00:55 - Step 1
    02:14 - Step 2
    03:25 - Step 3
    04:46 - Step 4
    05:25 - Step 5
    06:26 - Step 6
    08:24 - Step 7
    09:14 - Step 8

Комментарии • 115

  • @alfacentauri3686
    @alfacentauri3686 2 месяца назад +6

    One of the hardest steps is to accept that it's over. It's so easy to hang on to that hope and deny reality.

  • @PredatoryTeeth
    @PredatoryTeeth 3 месяца назад +26

    Acceptance is absolutely the first step, acknowledging the feelings, accepting that we can't change others but we CAN change how we respond to situations internally.

    • @celesteredding1550
      @celesteredding1550 3 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely

    • @so3710
      @so3710 3 месяца назад +1

      You're so right! Acceptance is everything👌🏼💯

  • @Andy_Best
    @Andy_Best 3 месяца назад +8

    Physical and emotional Distance works well for me because eventually love fades

  • @abetterworld96
    @abetterworld96 3 месяца назад +15

    This is why I don't build feelings for someone unless we have a reason to be in a relationship no matter how attractive or close to me they are, I just see them as a any other person, also I avoid too much contact and being too close to my female counterparts, being rare and mysterious is the best way to subconsciously make people attracted to you, engage when they least expect.

  • @BMJ_JUSTICE
    @BMJ_JUSTICE 3 месяца назад +9

    This resonate to me a lot, catching feelings for someone who doesn't love u back.Its drained you mentally and emotionally.Reserve your love and feelings for someone who feels the same way as you do.

  • @DonKheru
    @DonKheru 3 месяца назад +8

    Needed this video on time. I still care about my ex lady and she fully moved on.

  • @intotherealyou9489
    @intotherealyou9489 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you very much for this. This is so timely. I’m currently trying to move on from someone I can’t have after almost 4 years of loving him. This is a real booster. Very helpful 🙏🏽

  • @hassanatubah3595
    @hassanatubah3595 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you very much for sharing this. This is very relatable and is exactly what I have been doing post divorce. 4 years later, I feeling amazing, stong and resilient and very confident in who I am and the decisions I have made. Healing is indeed a journey and not a destination. I remind myself everyday to trust the process.

  • @ojeseconstyonons5976
    @ojeseconstyonons5976 3 месяца назад +6

    You're right
    Thanks for educating us.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      It's my pleasure

  • @Brendan-05
    @Brendan-05 3 месяца назад +1

    First video that I’m an expert, never had a woman like me so have had to get over a few that I fell for and knew I could never have.

  • @jordanyoung1836
    @jordanyoung1836 3 месяца назад +2

    I appreciate you speaking on this...everything that you're talking about, I been there and done that

  • @OdinakaSylvester
    @OdinakaSylvester 3 месяца назад +2

    Tanx so much for this, u are just wow 🔥 I wish I know one tenth of what you know Jessica, u have been a motivator and mentor

  • @ojevweefe6516
    @ojevweefe6516 2 месяца назад

    Moving on ain't easy Jess but realizing that the other party made a conscious decision to leave is indeed helpful. Everyone always has a choice and they've made theirs, you've got to accept it and head on. Very practical and timely. Hard knot to chew but beneficial in the long run. Thank you Jessica, still my favorite RUclipsr.

  • @obichukwuchrist8518
    @obichukwuchrist8518 3 месяца назад +1

    Timely for me!
    Thank you, Jess.

  • @henryifeanyi1775
    @henryifeanyi1775 3 месяца назад +1

    This video is honest and profound.
    You are a healer.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      You are so welcome

  • @shaamadam7893
    @shaamadam7893 3 месяца назад +1

    I learned a lot since joining your channel two years ago. Thank you!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Awesome, thank you!

  • @maybinnsanji859
    @maybinnsanji859 3 месяца назад +2

    This is so good and very educative talk.thank you for your words

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @vensonleviticus
    @vensonleviticus 3 месяца назад +1

    This is the ultimate solution.
    Many thanks indeed
    May God increase your wisdom and knowledge.

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow...the most educative content I have come across.its so timely ❤❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Glad you think so!

  • @clintonifeanyi1309
    @clintonifeanyi1309 3 месяца назад +1

    You are good at what you do

  • @timtimf.2164
    @timtimf.2164 3 месяца назад +1

    God bless you. God willing it’s hard enough to love & follow Lord Jesus. After examining myself this subject is straight folly.

  • @chakanyukanyatanga4036
    @chakanyukanyatanga4036 3 месяца назад

    This is practical and one has to help self by observing these suggestions

  • @williamperson6301
    @williamperson6301 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and expressing yourself in an intelligent manner!

  • @Freethinker_94
    @Freethinker_94 3 месяца назад

    Right on Time with this one

  • @fakazimleya123
    @fakazimleya123 3 месяца назад

    Informative and helpful Jessica ❤🎉🎉

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @user-fj2gr1rg6p
    @user-fj2gr1rg6p 3 месяца назад +1

    Pertaining to this topic, this is one of the best podcasts I've heard. Keep it up Jessica

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @severinade549
    @severinade549 3 месяца назад

    Thank so much for this video.. Very educative.. I really needed this🙏🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @mawulijo
    @mawulijo 3 месяца назад

    Just what I needed.

  • @simonnikodemus6986
    @simonnikodemus6986 3 месяца назад

    Thanks so much. Very helpful and educative

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad you think so!

  • @Heero_effect
    @Heero_effect 3 месяца назад +1

    Definitely will apply these tips.

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 3 месяца назад

    Lovely episode
    I like the editing & montage of the whole intro, love it!
    Brilliant tips here
    Cheers Jess!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      Thanks so much! 😊

  • @RichardOkyere-hn3fz
    @RichardOkyere-hn3fz 3 месяца назад

    Thank you bae gal for sharing🎉🎉🎉

  • @SKYKID45
    @SKYKID45 3 месяца назад +4

    my crush ❤❤jessica i love you ❤️😘

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      sending love right back

  • @Andy_Best
    @Andy_Best 3 месяца назад +1

    This content is great👍

  • @RyaneMutanha
    @RyaneMutanha 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Jessica I learnt.

  • @georgedean3856
    @georgedean3856 3 месяца назад

    I really enjoy your videos. You help me out soooo much

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад +1

      Happy to help!

  • @user-cn1vk7jj3g
    @user-cn1vk7jj3g 3 месяца назад

    thank you, Jessica. I feel better. ❤

  • @akpenemens5508
    @akpenemens5508 3 месяца назад

    Tnx beautiful Jess 🥰

  • @abdullatifharuna7769
    @abdullatifharuna7769 3 месяца назад

    Hi Jess, thanks for always being there for us in your own unique way. I believe most of us have some of these information but the ability to put them in action is the problem. It's all love ❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      You are so welcome!

  • @songelisus8545
    @songelisus8545 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Jessica for this. I needed to hear this to start my healing process. May the universe continue to guide you.❤❤

  • @mukundelorland6620
    @mukundelorland6620 3 месяца назад

    Thanks my Jess🎉

  • @Mac_TO20
    @Mac_TO20 3 месяца назад

    All thanks to you.

  • @user-ck6pk6yv2j
    @user-ck6pk6yv2j 3 месяца назад

    Thanks Jessica

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 16 дней назад

    ❤thumbs up.

  • @victorvicky1003
    @victorvicky1003 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Jessy, I was strolling through my gallery's today and I saw photos I took with my ex, the whole memories returned back 😢 buh thank u for this vidéo, I'll work towards it

  • @kwasiabaka7507
    @kwasiabaka7507 3 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      You're welcome 😊

  • @johnsantanafreeman9654
    @johnsantanafreeman9654 3 месяца назад

    Deep topic I want to
    Learn

  • @ccmendel
    @ccmendel 2 месяца назад +1

    Can I love someone I don’t love. Like a wife you married for the wrong reasons with no love attached but want to develop this love so you can treat her better. Please make a video about this. Thank you for your videos.

  • @KofiAClement
    @KofiAClement 3 месяца назад

    Be yourself ✌️

  • @user-hj6qu2hp9i
    @user-hj6qu2hp9i 3 месяца назад

    Here already

  • @musahasulo2660
    @musahasulo2660 3 месяца назад +1

    But is sometimes hard to unloved one you love ❤

  • @fredrickkoech8396
    @fredrickkoech8396 2 месяца назад

    prioritize self care

  • @malmeningakuri.malimusic281
    @malmeningakuri.malimusic281 3 месяца назад

    I just unlove her. And this video is helpful. Thank you Jess

  • @allisonwilliams2177
    @allisonwilliams2177 3 месяца назад

    Hi Jessica 😄 love your content... hopefully one day I will take on the Ghanian government invite to come home to Ghana

  • @AineelAdu
    @AineelAdu 3 месяца назад

    My situation right now 💔

  • @ringsteadrashai9059
    @ringsteadrashai9059 3 месяца назад

    Hie Jess

  • @user-ck6pk6yv2j
    @user-ck6pk6yv2j 3 месяца назад

  • @tonykent8005
    @tonykent8005 3 месяца назад

    Eeeh! The signs! These signs!

  • @Official_Suave
    @Official_Suave 3 месяца назад

    At time if we can't have them in our life's then it's time to move on

  • @gmatrki
    @gmatrki 3 месяца назад

    What about the song , I will always love you ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @josephdordzi7247
    @josephdordzi7247 3 месяца назад +1

    Me right now...

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      you'll be alright

  • @evbuomwanmanasseh8242
    @evbuomwanmanasseh8242 3 месяца назад

    You just create this video for me ma 💔

  • @EmmanuelWiredu-ve8yq
    @EmmanuelWiredu-ve8yq 3 месяца назад

    First to comment ☺️

  • @miriamsilata8498
    @miriamsilata8498 3 месяца назад

    ❤🙏

  • @magicsimon
    @magicsimon 3 месяца назад

    Is really hard accepting it, I want to move on but is not easy 😕

  • @chem2344
    @chem2344 2 месяца назад

    Its different when you have a child together

  • @zamushodge4590
    @zamushodge4590 3 месяца назад +1

    Un love someone who love u is a hard thing to do 🤰💤🖤🔥✌️💯👁️ imagine a girl like u of great status' loving me how could I leave u are want to see u cry over the matter

  • @Yourstrulymusic860
    @Yourstrulymusic860 3 месяца назад

    First one to comment

  • @marlonramos2170
    @marlonramos2170 3 месяца назад +1

    I already unlove her she pushed me away

  • @Kemet09
    @Kemet09 3 месяца назад

    I posted this in a group chat of my high school friends who are Chicago sports fans!!! They might kick me out!! lol

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @geethamadhuri4.033
    @geethamadhuri4.033 3 месяца назад

    💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @br_josh
    @br_josh 3 месяца назад

    The best place to find whatever you need is in the 'market' for that item. Where, then, do you think is best for finding a suitable partner for wedlock? There's a useful link in the description section of my account here. Share the glad tiding with your circle. God loves you more.

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya 3 месяца назад

    🫶🫶🫶

  • @mfabanwy
    @mfabanwy 3 месяца назад

    🙄

  • @CountryBossReaktionz
    @CountryBossReaktionz 3 месяца назад +1

    At least this is not for me either.. 😂😂😂 y’all better learn

  • @user-jc5ih8jp3s
    @user-jc5ih8jp3s 3 месяца назад

    Love is love and if its true love then why would one want to unlove someone?
    Having more people to love in one's life actually enriches one's life.
    Infatuation though is another thing as most people confuse infatuation as love.
    This has to be one of the false info being spread around the world now all in the name of content creation.
    Try to love as many people possible in your life cause the world needs more love and not less love.
    You are not a machine but rather a being of love. 🙏

  • @michaelg7456
    @michaelg7456 3 месяца назад +1

    👍

  • @obichukwuchrist8518
    @obichukwuchrist8518 3 месяца назад

    Timely for me!
    Thank you, Jess.

  • @princesenghor1881
    @princesenghor1881 3 месяца назад

  • @healthytummynourished
    @healthytummynourished 3 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 месяца назад

      You're welcome 😊

  • @kieranmcgarvie2902
    @kieranmcgarvie2902 3 месяца назад