Guys, Always remember to keep calm during disrespect. Sometimes, the person is just trying to get a reaction out of you. Just respond with peace and request respect. The order is to stay calm, disagree, and demand respect. They will eventually get tired.
i live with this person and i have maintained my peace but it has been reoccuring and im honestly tired of having to be the one there to get the punches so now I have lost my patience and now this persons triggers me (which never did) i have decided to removee myself hoping the space will help bc I truley started to become somone I wasnt
@@MariaTorres-gk8ktI too need to remove myself from someone causing me harm. Some people don't get tired of it because they literally know no other way of being and have zero desire to change. Even though their behaviour causes people, who they'd like to have a relationship with, to cease contact with them. I keep reminding myself that just because we share blood ties it doesn't give them special dispensation to treat me like dirt.
"i know how to remove myself. now it's going to hurt, it's going to cause deep emotion within me. but i would rather be someone who is emotional and removing myself from things that are not good for me than staying in things that aren't good for me, being emotional anyways, and acting in a triggered way."
This video popped up on time, going through aggravation at work. I'm glad you brought up and acknowledge that some people are demonic, because you're so right. I always pray to Yeshua/Jesus everyday because of it.
This is totally true, I was having a hard time making peace with a couple of friends leaving my life, and then I made a new friend, turned out she’s been my neighbor for the last 7 years and she is my twin! It’s crazy how the world works
I never comment, but God used you so greatly to deliver this message. Lately God has been helping me with working on my anger & situations have been trying to pull me back to a dark place & this video is so timely. Thank you Hailey!
Thank you so much! I am taking notes: 1) I forgive these people because all they've experienced is nastiness and vileness ,whearas I come from a loving family. So, they don't understand my pure genuine soul because they've never experienced kindness. They arr limited, and you see it with all the stupiduty that comes out of their mouths. So I forgive them. This doesn't mean I am going to let them walk all over me, I have forgiven them because they are doing the best they can and their lives are only going to be miserable from here on. To be continued...
Perfect timing. Out of the country for my cousins wedding and there’s drama with EVERYONE from cousins to aunts to my uncle cheating on my aunt to my own mother acting like a teenager with all the gossiping. I mean, do I really need to just sit back and observe? I’m having SUCH a hard time with all the tension and fake behavior. I really need to work on protecting my energy 😭
I’m seated 🪑 Turns around *clears throat* 🗣️ Girlies with Cancer, Scorpio & Pisces in their big 3 please come keep me company in the front row for the attack that’s bout to take place 😣🫣😅
@@haileygamba 😂 you’re in my prayers!! Found you from your cortisol video, shared it with my Capricorn, Gemini, Cancer sister and subscribed!! I love it here and now it makes more sense why 😂 you understand my crazy and keep it 💯 I’m Cancer, Taurus, Scorpio it’s gang gang ♋️ ♏️ Demons ❌🙅🏾♀️
Yes there is self-mastery, but it is the fixation on SELF that makes a lot of us trigger (the ego) and every human being has it. And I believe that's what is being conveyed here. What we need most of in life is humility AND a less offensive spirit. This is why we must believe inn something higher than us because at least we know someone is looking out for our good, no matter what happens. Just be careful with vibrational stuff and energies because a lot of that is DEMONIC appearing as if it's good. Great vid!
This was SO good, I had to listen TWICE. The second time, I did shadow work while listening to it bit by bit. Some amazing gems and reminders here. ✨ thank you, for this. 💛
Ugh I love these development video so much 🥹 I know you touch on this a lot but I LOVEEEEE hearing you talk about emulation and becoming the person you want to be by acting accordingly. Can you do a video on that?
I ABSOLUTELY NEEDED THIS especially this birthday season omg I have def been cleaning house and really allowing myself to sit w emotions I once avoided but I realized it’s me. It’s what I’m allowing!
Soooo true, my ex had demons he was dealing with and he use to get me out of my character I realized the way he would think and say stuff was just not a normal person thinking he was In a very dark place that I tried to be there for him and bring positivity to him and he would just reject it I had to leave him I was not gonna let him bring me down .
I love your mindset in terms of you acknowledging that you are a good person despite of the wrongs you may have done. I’ve come to realize that I have done a lot of things that I myself am not very proud of. However, I do not find joy or pleasure from inflicting pain or sorrow in the lives of 10:35 others. I am not my mistakes.
I tried empathy, it was really nice for myself and for a new friend, until at some point, she began hurting me and sabotaging the good that i am going and taking it for granted. Now i felt that she sucked all my energy for a whole year
This video is very timely for me. It backs up everything I've been reading lately. Unfortunately the unenlightened person bringing toxicity into my life is a close relative. I've been thinking for a while now that I can see myself having to remove them from my life because although I've tried many tactics, I can't interact with this person without coming to harm 😢
Pray. Pray to God to remove them from your life, not by death. Let God work behind the scenes and pray Phillipians 4:6 4:7. Say the Lords prayer and pray Psalms 23. Stay strong. You got this!!! 💖🫂
This video reminds me of a strong lesson I learned last year that resonates with this quote: “People who have nothing will help you lose everything.” So much was at stake and I did an inventory check. The first was with myself… “Why did I say that? Why did it have to go *there?* I usually am the “bigger” person, but why did I feel a need to prove myself to someone who only plays dirty?” Then I looked at the things that I value in life and in friendships/relationships. The second best thing I learned was to treat everybody like an employee. It doesn’t matter how long we’ve known each other, certain things really are someone’s character flaw and it’s up to me to set that boundary or completely remove myself from the chaos they bring. If ppl are constantly flaking, ghosting, emotionally draining- just not adding any value, then they’re taking yours away and it’s okay to “fire” them. Sorry this is getting lengthy but the last thing I learned to is to just let them have it. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m not arguing with anyone that could potentially jeopardize my money or goals. I have nothing to prove to nobody especially if they’re set on misunderstanding or destroying me. “You’re right.” And I go on about my life😊🫶🏾 Where I’m going is greater than where I came from🙏🏾
What you said was do powerful. You said, "I have nothing to prove to nobody especially if they're set on misunderstanding or destroying me". That statement is so real and powerful because some people's biggest goal or mission is to ruin your reputation, and they can easily do that by purposely misunderstanding you (to frustrate you or cause an argument that looks like you started). They try to destroy you by making you look argumentative, negative, or confrontational...especially in front of important people or around people who may have a positive perception of you. Their goal is to make you look crazy, unhinged, and down-right unappealing in character!
I resonated with you sooo much! I was literally thinking about how to handle road ragers, and then you mentioned it! I’ve been wanting to work on my mental toughness, so this video is right on time! Thank you!!❤🥰
Amazing video! I really needed this reminder 🤗 I currently learning how to surround myself with like-minded individuals and stop trying to fix every broken/ negative person that comes my way 😩 because in the end, I'm always the one left mentally and emotionally drained. It’s okay to leave some people behind because those same people could be the very ones holding you back and bringing you down from your future success.
Right on time . I’m dealing with non sense from family members . They even more mad because I don’t feed into it . I got too many good things to look forward to in my life at the moment.
I ❤you so much! You always come through right on time!!! I just recently lost my place and went back “home” and was attacked by my so called sisters and narcissistic mother. I woke up today and had two choices, retaliation or keeping it cute when I go get my things and your video was the first to pop up for me this morning! And you are right their misery does not deserve my company! I’ll keep you in mind and God in my prayers when I go there today. Thank you. 😊
I needed this so much, I listened to this twice ❤ I'm learning to be stronger and set boundaries and eliminate toxicity in my life, but it's hard when it's coming from your mother. But I realized no matter who it is, if its not healthy or coming from any good intentions, that I need to protect me and my energy. Thanks for this 💕
I'm so glad you showed these Halara pieces. I've had many clothes in my cart on their website so I'm definitely going to feel confident buying from them! And thank you for this video, your ideas are going to help me a lot with a particular person that's was always antagonizing me in the not so distant past. And the person tries me sporadically.
Wow Hailey, you touch on such specific topics and THIS was needed like no other. Please more videos on how to be mentally strong for emotional girlies because these are the type of videos that I come back to for reference time and time again. Your advice is raw and real
Hailey I’ve been in a dark space for years now but watching your channel since last October has helped me get back to my positive space and watch it materialize around me! This video couldn’t have come at a better time, i use to be mentally strong but over the years I find myself getting triggered by negative people around me. It is so nice to come back to myself through your videos thank you so much.
This video was so good and actually practical in application. I've seen other youtubers too covering this topic but nobody explained the things the way you did ! Not making the other person a villian and simultaneously evolving yourself to someone better ❤ Thank you !
Great topic ❤ often people hurt others from the unresolved hurt within them. Like you said, having that understanding of human nature and having compassion for them, even if that has to be from a distance, is the way to help heal the world. At the end of the day the greatest way we can influence people to be good is to simply be good ourselves, to act virtuously in a world that unfortunately doesn’t value those characteristics enough. Don’t overcome evil with evil, but overcome evil with good. Your actions of love and not engaging in nonsense plants a seed somewhere in that persons mind that has the potential to push them to evolve somewhere down the line. Don’t underestimate this power ❤
@2:03 I can attest to how helpful it is to be really honest, and remove yourself from people who are shady, make weird comments and jabs etc if you can. I actually discovered Hailey through her ‘red flags in a best friend’ video back in fall last year. Had a friend who I felt very triggered by because she constantly was critical of me and argumentative. After ending the friendship (no resolution was reached by talking to her) and talking about it/showing our messages for unbiased opinions, I realized that there are people who just don’t want to see you win. This was a theme in our friendship- there was also a lot of competition, weird energy and mirroring from her. The bitterness, evil envy eye energy doesn’t just come from strangers y’all! This was a really strong example of it for me, and I’m so glad I extricated myself from that. Sometimes your triggers are telling you that something is up with you, and sometimes they’re telling you something is up with another person’s energy! Love this longer, chatty video, and holy shit Hailey, you looked INCREDIBLE in those Halara fits 😭🔥
Hailey!! You are so intelligent and self aware. I’m usually the one giving advice, so I rarely receive advice from others. I’m so grateful for your channel. I learn so much 🤍
I really needed to see this as a teen going into another year of high school. Being triggered happens a lot in that environment. I also want to the best version of myself bcs I know I can. We all got this!!🌸
I really enjoyed this! Needed this so badly. I am going to change my language from ‘triggered’ to no longer tolerated. I am doing heavy introspection rn and inner child work. So grateful for the test because I am growing and it will help my elevation.
This is a right on time message. “Stop absorbing and start understanding”. I have subscribed to you before in your early journey but I change channel names. I am a middle aged woman now and sometimes we all lose our way. I am always big on self care but the biggest thing I have done as of this week was to drop the love of my life because he is just a toxic personality. Strangely i dont feel sad but relieved I dont have his burdens any longer on my mind.
ALL OF THIS ❤ I grew up with a very ppl pleasing family member, and as I got older & dealt with rude unappreciative ppl I blamed myself. Nah. Not even close I love this video, it will def help me moving fwd
Yeah I left my job due to an unfavorable situation. A young woman misunderstood what I said and kept accusing me of something I didn’t say. I calmly kept saying that I never said that until I wasn’t calm anymore and allowed her to disrupt my energy. Im definitely not proud of the way I handled the conversation moving forward. I got loud and went up to her desk and tried to explain my position on the matter. My boss felt I should have apologized to keep the peace but that just didn’t sit well with me. I felt I shouldn’t have apologized for something someone misunderstood. In any rate, my boss mentioned the fact that im older than that girl and I should just ignore her and move on so I felt worse about the situation . Further, he then texted his wife about what happened and left out some details. The wife which was very fond of me at some point and kept texting me all kinds of crap which I didn’t agree with, I kept going back and forth until it got so nasty that I respectfully declined coming back to work and finally blocked her because everything I said was flipped back to me being rude to the girl who started the whole thing. So I already had that against me so anything I said circled back to that incident. Since I had that strike against me everything just turned out disastrous. But when I tell you this woman had Demonic energy it was extremely disappointing that this woman tried to drag me down for a situation that wasn’t handled correctly in her company. Unbelievable. The worse part is that she wasn’t even there it was all hear say at this point. I never been in that kind of situation before. I definitely acknowledge that I could have handled myself a bit differently but in all. Im glad I quit.
I think it's easier to do when it's someone you barely see or if you see them often enough they didn't completely alter your life's course for the worst. Especially when family caused you major financial, emotional and physical burdens through deceit
I needed this! I am struggling with a girl who I used to be friends with who keeps trying to disturb my peace, tries to get with my husband, and affect my family. Clearly she wants what I have.. and she’s a police officer. Thank you for all the advice. I’ve gotta change my thinking and compose my energy. I so needed this!
It’s very difficult to remove yourself from somebody especially if it’s a coworker that sits 2 inches away from you 40 hours a week. She is not a nice person and brings everybody in the office down and there’s nothing we can do about it.
This was beautifully said Hailey. We are so similar, this season and hearing this further solidifies that I need to start distancing myself from people who to try to cause my trigger. Love this Hailey keep it up!
Have been waiting for a video like this 🥹💖 I love the idea of thinking of them as limited or just blocking them out then letting them get to you. Definitely need to protect our energy to stay focused on ourselves and our goals ✨
You have helped me so much, Im losing weight because of your tips and now this!! Wow 😮I feel too much but I will follow your advice We are listening! Keep going ❤
You are such an inspiration to me! I've decided to push myself to shoot for my dreams to pursue youtube due to your chanel! Thankyou for sharing who you are, I am so grateful for you!
this is such a very timely video, hailey. these advice for mental toughness is what i really need rn. it's been chaotic here in our house as my father is such a nuisance brat w/ no eq. now, im really just saving and tryna get my way out of our house through upskilling and part-times
Right on the money 💯 it’s all projections that you unfortunately have to give people the benefit of the doubt, that maybe they might be going through something that you don’t know about. Like you said, many people have not learned to grow from that demonic energy that they bring onto others
You just gained a new sub, I really needed this to keep me grounded. I've made a lot of changes to improve myself and my life, and some of the people around me make it seem as if I'm doing something wrong (specifically, my dad). I'm keeping my boundaries, and I will not tolerate anyone's bullsh*t. 🙏
Helpful video I started a job with an extremely immature work environment a lot of gossip foul language, silent uncomfortable atmosphere coming back to work as a mature woman with life experience it’s tough to tolerate the present atmosphere of disrespect an office manager with very poor management skills. Not fun only 3 days with her and I want to quit but I need the job at least until I find a new one that’s better
Stop Absorbing, Start Understanding
Word!!!! Understanding
Okay?!! 👏🏽
Right, don’t absorb just observe 💯
WORD!!!!!!
“You’re not gonna enter my life doing weird things and think it’s gonna work out for you.” My fav line of the entire video
Guys, Always remember to keep calm during disrespect. Sometimes, the person is just trying to get a reaction out of you. Just respond with peace and request respect. The order is to stay calm, disagree, and demand respect. They will eventually get tired.
Thank you so kindly for this helpful wisdom ❤
I agree i always say this to ppl its crazy
i live with this person and i have maintained my peace but it has been reoccuring and im honestly tired of having to be the one there to get the punches so now I have lost my patience and now this persons triggers me (which never did) i have decided to removee myself hoping the space will help bc I truley started to become somone I wasnt
@@MariaTorres-gk8ktI too need to remove myself from someone causing me harm. Some people don't get tired of it because they literally know no other way of being and have zero desire to change. Even though their behaviour causes people, who they'd like to have a relationship with, to cease contact with them. I keep reminding myself that just because we share blood ties it doesn't give them special dispensation to treat me like dirt.
thankyou l🕊🍑
"i know how to remove myself. now it's going to hurt, it's going to cause deep emotion within me. but i would rather be someone who is emotional and removing myself from things that are not good for me than staying in things that aren't good for me, being emotional anyways, and acting in a triggered way."
This video popped up on time, going through aggravation at work. I'm glad you brought up and acknowledge that some people are demonic, because you're so right. I always pray to Yeshua/Jesus everyday because of it.
Sameeeee
Literally me too
Literally me too! Love all the way from SA Hailey. 🇿🇦
Literally me asf! Rn !!
Literally same 😂
“Stop absorbing, start understanding” GIRRRRRRLLLLLLLL 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is totally true, I was having a hard time making peace with a couple of friends leaving my life, and then I made a new friend, turned out she’s been my neighbor for the last 7 years and she is my twin! It’s crazy how the world works
This is my issue right now
@@Summer15 mine too
@@Chali_Star same, just lost my bsf
I never comment, but God used you so greatly to deliver this message. Lately God has been helping me with working on my anger & situations have been trying to pull me back to a dark place & this video is so timely. Thank you Hailey!
THIS !!
I agree! Wholeheartedly.
I agree as well. I'm growing into an elevated self so the old version has to go.
Energy vampires can come in the form of friends, co-workers and employees when you spend a lot of time alone you recognise them much quicker.
girls wake upppppppppppppp Hailey just posted
Rise and shine ❤❤
Hellooo lol❤
The timing! I’ve done so much healing yet I’m letting all these unhealed people around me trigger me constantly! Here’s to being unbothered 🥂❤️
Watching these videos is like talking to a friend on FaceTime while doing myself beauty care routine at home ❤
I’m so happy to be here for you❤
13:05 it’s the “not today Satan” for me Hailey!! Girl this is it right here ❤🙏🏾
Thank you so much! I am taking notes:
1) I forgive these people because all they've experienced is nastiness and vileness ,whearas I come from a loving family. So, they don't understand my pure genuine soul because they've never experienced kindness. They arr limited, and you see it with all the stupiduty that comes out of their mouths. So I forgive them. This doesn't mean I am going to let them walk all over me, I have forgiven them because they are doing the best they can and their lives are only going to be miserable from here on. To be continued...
The timing is insane I was talking to myself about this😭
This video showed up at the right time as I’m currently dealing with somebody who triggers me.
Perfect timing. Out of the country for my cousins wedding and there’s drama with EVERYONE from cousins to aunts to my uncle cheating on my aunt to my own mother acting like a teenager with all the gossiping. I mean, do I really need to just sit back and observe? I’m having SUCH a hard time with all the tension and fake behavior. I really need to work on protecting my energy 😭
I’m seated 🪑 Turns around *clears throat* 🗣️ Girlies with Cancer, Scorpio & Pisces in their big 3 please come keep me company in the front row for the attack that’s bout to take place 😣🫣😅
🫣👀♋️
Cancer Scorpio Capricorn here 😂🙋🏽♀️
@@haileygamba 😂 you’re in my prayers!! Found you from your cortisol video, shared it with my Capricorn, Gemini, Cancer sister and subscribed!! I love it here and now it makes more sense why 😂 you understand my crazy and keep it 💯 I’m Cancer, Taurus, Scorpio it’s gang gang ♋️ ♏️
Demons ❌🙅🏾♀️
@@haileygamba Cancer Capricorn Capricorn here 😊
Cancer Scorpio Libra 😂
Yes there is self-mastery, but it is the fixation on SELF that makes a lot of us trigger (the ego) and every human being has it. And I believe that's what is being conveyed here. What we need most of in life is humility AND a less offensive spirit. This is why we must believe inn something higher than us because at least we know someone is looking out for our good, no matter what happens. Just be careful with vibrational stuff and energies because a lot of that is DEMONIC appearing as if it's good. Great vid!
i LITERALLY needed this, thank you so much hailey 🙏🏻🤍
This was SO good, I had to listen TWICE. The second time, I did shadow work while listening to it bit by bit. Some amazing gems and reminders here. ✨ thank you, for this. 💛
Ugh I love these development video so much 🥹 I know you touch on this a lot but I LOVEEEEE hearing you talk about emulation and becoming the person you want to be by acting accordingly. Can you do a video on that?
Yes thank you for the suggestion ❤
I ABSOLUTELY NEEDED THIS especially this birthday season omg I have def been cleaning house and really allowing myself to sit w emotions I once avoided but I realized it’s me. It’s what I’m allowing!
You dragged me. Thank you.
Girllllll I had a similar thought on not letting ppl get to me because of their own demons? And poof! Your video pops up
Soooo true, my ex had demons he was dealing with and he use to get me out of my character I realized the way he would think and say stuff was just not a normal person thinking he was In a very dark place that I tried to be there for him and bring positivity to him and he would just reject it I had to leave him I was not gonna let him bring me down .
@@Dreacali26 proud of you!
I love your mindset in terms of you acknowledging that you are a good person despite of the wrongs you may have done. I’ve come to realize that I have done a lot of things that I myself am not very proud of. However, I do not find joy or pleasure from inflicting pain or sorrow in the lives of 10:35 others. I am not my mistakes.
Class is in session ✏️ 📑
I tried empathy, it was really nice for myself and for a new friend, until at some point, she began hurting me and sabotaging the good that i am going and taking it for granted. Now i felt that she sucked all my energy for a whole year
I swear God sent me this video I NEEDED this, my soul needed this
19:00 OH MY GOSH THIS IS THE PERFECT ANALOGY OF MY LIFE YOU'RE LITERALLY A GENIUS
THE COLOR WHITE ON YOU IS PERFECTION.
Girl I was just thinking about watching one of your videos. You always motivate me.
This video is very timely for me. It backs up everything I've been reading lately. Unfortunately the unenlightened person bringing toxicity into my life is a close relative. I've been thinking for a while now that I can see myself having to remove them from my life because although I've tried many tactics, I can't interact with this person without coming to harm 😢
Pray. Pray to God to remove them from your life, not by death. Let God work behind the scenes and pray Phillipians 4:6 4:7. Say the Lords prayer and pray Psalms 23. Stay strong. You got this!!! 💖🫂
This video reminds me of a strong lesson I learned last year that resonates with this quote: “People who have nothing will help you lose everything.”
So much was at stake and I did an inventory check. The first was with myself… “Why did I say that? Why did it have to go *there?* I usually am the “bigger” person, but why did I feel a need to prove myself to someone who only plays dirty?”
Then I looked at the things that I value in life and in friendships/relationships.
The second best thing I learned was to treat everybody like an employee. It doesn’t matter how long we’ve known each other, certain things really are someone’s character flaw and it’s up to me to set that boundary or completely remove myself from the chaos they bring. If ppl are constantly flaking, ghosting, emotionally draining- just not adding any value, then they’re taking yours away and it’s okay to “fire” them.
Sorry this is getting lengthy but the last thing I learned to is to just let them have it. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m not arguing with anyone that could potentially jeopardize my money or goals. I have nothing to prove to nobody especially if they’re set on misunderstanding or destroying me. “You’re right.” And I go on about my life😊🫶🏾 Where I’m going is greater than where I came from🙏🏾
Beautiful beautiful beautiful ❤❤
What you said was do powerful. You said, "I have nothing to prove to nobody especially if they're set on misunderstanding or destroying me". That statement is so real and powerful because some people's biggest goal or mission is to ruin your reputation, and they can easily do that by purposely misunderstanding you (to frustrate you or cause an argument that looks like you started). They try to destroy you by making you look argumentative, negative, or confrontational...especially in front of important people or around people who may have a positive perception of you. Their goal is to make you look crazy, unhinged, and down-right unappealing in character!
Here in italy is 4:39 and I can sleep, I NEEDED a video from our diva 🙌🩷
So happy you’re here 🇮🇹💋
1:57 This is so true! Its the enemy's influence sometimes. But still, choosing what gives us peace of mind is the best way to defeat any negativity.
I resonated with you sooo much! I was literally thinking about how to handle road ragers, and then you mentioned it! I’ve been wanting to work on my mental toughness, so this video is right on time! Thank you!!❤🥰
Amazing video! I really needed this reminder 🤗 I currently learning how to surround myself with like-minded individuals and stop trying to fix every broken/ negative person that comes my way 😩 because in the end, I'm always the one left mentally and emotionally drained. It’s okay to leave some people behind because those same people could be the very ones holding you back and bringing you down from your future success.
Right on time . I’m dealing with non sense from family members . They even more mad because I don’t feed into it . I got too many good things to look forward to in my life at the moment.
I ❤you so much! You always come through right on time!!! I just recently lost my place and went back “home” and was attacked by my so called sisters and narcissistic mother. I woke up today and had two choices, retaliation or keeping it cute when I go get my things and your video was the first to pop up for me this morning! And you are right their misery does not deserve my company! I’ll keep you in mind and God in my prayers when I go there today. Thank you. 😊
I needed this so much, I listened to this twice ❤ I'm learning to be stronger and set boundaries and eliminate toxicity in my life, but it's hard when it's coming from your mother. But I realized no matter who it is, if its not healthy or coming from any good intentions, that I need to protect me and my energy. Thanks for this 💕
I'm so glad you showed these Halara pieces. I've had many clothes in my cart on their website so I'm definitely going to feel confident buying from them!
And thank you for this video, your ideas are going to help me a lot with a particular person that's was always antagonizing me in the not so distant past. And the person tries me sporadically.
This was so good and honest with pro active tips. I needed this. Thank you
I had fallen off but now im back on track and better than ever, i hope you stay blessed your energy just flows through the screen ❤
I love the way you use your platform to uplift, you’ve truly helped me in so many ways!
I needed this word from you. I am going through workplace harassment and demonic energy at work along with a few others.
The universe is amazing because I really needed this right now 🥺
Wow Hailey, you touch on such specific topics and THIS was needed like no other. Please more videos on how to be mentally strong for emotional girlies because these are the type of videos that I come back to for reference time and time again. Your advice is raw and real
Hailey I needed this 😭😭 thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
Hailey I’ve been in a dark space for years now but watching your channel since last October has helped me get back to my positive space and watch it materialize around me! This video couldn’t have come at a better time, i use to be mentally strong but over the years I find myself getting triggered by negative people around me. It is so nice to come back to myself through your videos thank you so much.
This video was so good and actually practical in application. I've seen other youtubers too covering this topic but nobody explained the things the way you did !
Not making the other person a villian and simultaneously evolving yourself to someone better ❤
Thank you !
this was just so helpful, thank youu🤍🤍
Great topic ❤ often people hurt others from the unresolved hurt within them. Like you said, having that understanding of human nature and having compassion for them, even if that has to be from a distance, is the way to help heal the world. At the end of the day the greatest way we can influence people to be good is to simply be good ourselves, to act virtuously in a world that unfortunately doesn’t value those characteristics enough. Don’t overcome evil with evil, but overcome evil with good. Your actions of love and not engaging in nonsense plants a seed somewhere in that persons mind that has the potential to push them to evolve somewhere down the line. Don’t underestimate this power ❤
Beautifully articulated ❤
This video came at the right time. Having a hard time at work and trying to make it through the week. Thank you so much for this video.
Omgg i used to watch you like 2-3 years ago. You look gorgeous and healthy!
Girl you really help me today I’ve never had anyone read me so quickly this video was amazing 🎉💕
this video has been out for a month but it really helped me. I have struggled with this and i know Hailey will help me out!! love you girl❤
@2:03 I can attest to how helpful it is to be really honest, and remove yourself from people who are shady, make weird comments and jabs etc if you can. I actually discovered Hailey through her ‘red flags in a best friend’ video back in fall last year. Had a friend who I felt very triggered by because she constantly was critical of me and argumentative. After ending the friendship (no resolution was reached by talking to her) and talking about it/showing our messages for unbiased opinions, I realized that there are people who just don’t want to see you win. This was a theme in our friendship- there was also a lot of competition, weird energy and mirroring from her. The bitterness, evil envy eye energy doesn’t just come from strangers y’all! This was a really strong example of it for me, and I’m so glad I extricated myself from that. Sometimes your triggers are telling you that something is up with you, and sometimes they’re telling you something is up with another person’s energy! Love this longer, chatty video, and holy shit Hailey, you looked INCREDIBLE in those Halara fits 😭🔥
This is a beautiful testimony ❤ sometimes people are incapable of being good to us. And thank you so much!
Hailey!! You are so intelligent and self aware. I’m usually the one giving advice, so I rarely receive advice from others. I’m so grateful for your channel. I learn so much 🤍
I really needed to see this as a teen going into another year of high school. Being triggered happens a lot in that environment. I also want to the best version of myself bcs I know I can. We all got this!!🌸
I’ve been having the hardest time. Thank you for this
Really needed this today, sad even when family members hate and bring you down.
I really enjoyed this! Needed this so badly. I am going to change my language from ‘triggered’ to no longer tolerated. I am doing heavy introspection rn and inner child work. So grateful for the test because I am growing and it will help my elevation.
This is a right on time message. “Stop absorbing and start understanding”. I have subscribed to you before in your early journey but I change channel names. I am a middle aged woman now and sometimes we all lose our way. I am always big on self care but the biggest thing I have done as of this week was to drop the love of my life because he is just a toxic personality. Strangely i dont feel sad but relieved I dont have his burdens any longer on my mind.
you should TOTALLY have a podcast i would support it til i die
I do have one !! Linked in description ❤
ALL OF THIS ❤
I grew up with a very ppl pleasing family member, and as I got older & dealt with rude unappreciative ppl I blamed myself.
Nah. Not even close
I love this video, it will def help me moving fwd
Hell yes! This video was VERY helpful to me. I love when you mentioned "instead of using the word triggered, use not tolerate"❤.
Thank you Hailey for your wisdom and wonderful advice. We love you girl🌷💗
Love you right back ❤❤
Yeah I left my job due to an unfavorable situation. A young woman misunderstood what I said and kept accusing me of something I didn’t say. I calmly kept saying that I never said that until I wasn’t calm anymore and allowed her to disrupt my energy. Im definitely not proud of the way I handled the conversation moving forward. I got loud and went up to her desk and tried to explain my position on the matter. My boss felt I should have apologized to keep the peace but that just didn’t sit well with me. I felt I shouldn’t have apologized for something someone misunderstood. In any rate, my boss mentioned the fact that im older than that girl and I should just ignore her and move on so I felt worse about the situation . Further, he then texted his wife about what happened and left out some details. The wife which was very fond of me at some point and kept texting me all kinds of crap which I didn’t agree with, I kept going back and forth until it got so nasty that I respectfully declined coming back to work and finally blocked her because everything I said was flipped back to me being rude to the girl who started the whole thing. So I already had that against me so anything I said circled back to that incident. Since I had that strike against me everything just turned out disastrous. But when I tell you this woman had Demonic energy it was extremely disappointing that this woman tried to drag me down for a situation that wasn’t handled correctly in her company. Unbelievable. The worse part is that she wasn’t even there it was all hear say at this point. I never been in that kind of situation before. I definitely acknowledge that I could have handled myself a bit differently but in all. Im glad I quit.
Thank you for listening to God's plan for your life! This video was perfect Hailey and you are inspiring so many! 💖💖
OMG!!!!!! You posted this at the perfect time because I needed this video today!!!!!! 😭😭😭
I thoroughly enjoy watching this channel because it provides me with a wealth of enlightening content.
There’s a whole lot of value in all of your videos! I love tuning in to you ❤ keep going !!!
I think it's easier to do when it's someone you barely see or if you see them often enough they didn't completely alter your life's course for the worst. Especially when family caused you major financial, emotional and physical burdens through deceit
I needed this! I am struggling with a girl who I used to be friends with who keeps trying to disturb my peace, tries to get with my husband, and affect my family. Clearly she wants what I have.. and she’s a police officer. Thank you for all the advice. I’ve gotta change my thinking and compose my energy. I so needed this!
i 100% needed this video
Just the video I needed right now ‼️😩 Hailey your always on point !
It’s very difficult to remove yourself from somebody especially if it’s a coworker that sits 2 inches away from you 40 hours a week. She is not a nice person and brings everybody in the office down and there’s nothing we can do about it.
God is powerful. Pray for her
KEY 🔑 dont call it triggered, call it "I'm not tolerating this"
Oooooo i needed that, ty!!!
Hailey babe you dropped this on time for me ❤❤❤❤
You just gained a subscriber. I’ve been watching your videos all morning.
Stop absorbing and start understanding . New subscriber
This was beautifully said Hailey. We are so similar, this season and hearing this further solidifies that I need to start distancing myself from people who to try to cause my trigger. Love this Hailey keep it up!
GOD BLESS YOUR WISDOM
Thank you Miss Hailey
Perfectly timed! I love how you present yourself in a way that is straightforward and not discouraging/negative. 💟
u fr make a video for every situation, and thats why you will STAY on top of
🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
This has to be video of the year soo sooo helpful
Have been waiting for a video like this 🥹💖 I love the idea of thinking of them as limited or just blocking them out then letting them get to you.
Definitely need to protect our energy to stay focused on ourselves and our goals ✨
You have helped me so much, Im losing weight because of your tips and now this!! Wow 😮I feel too much but I will follow your advice We are listening! Keep going ❤
Hey Hailey, thank you so much for this video. You shine gurl ⭐✨
You are such an inspiration to me! I've decided to push myself to shoot for my dreams to pursue youtube due to your chanel! Thankyou for sharing who you are, I am so grateful for you!
That’s incredible and wow I’m so honored ❤ congrats to you I’m wishing you a beautiful journey. It’s very rewarding !!
This feels like spending time with a big sister giving me life advice. thank you girl. Hope you are having an amazing day☀️
this is such a very timely video, hailey. these advice for mental toughness is what i really need rn.
it's been chaotic here in our house as my father is such a nuisance brat w/ no eq. now, im really just saving and tryna get my way out of our house through upskilling and part-times
Right on the money 💯 it’s all projections that you unfortunately have to give people the benefit of the doubt, that maybe they might be going through something that you don’t know about. Like you said, many people have not learned to grow from that demonic energy that they bring onto others
You just gained a new sub, I really needed this to keep me grounded. I've made a lot of changes to improve myself and my life, and some of the people around me make it seem as if I'm doing something wrong (specifically, my dad). I'm keeping my boundaries, and I will not tolerate anyone's bullsh*t. 🙏
Helpful video I started a job with an extremely immature work environment a lot of gossip foul language, silent uncomfortable atmosphere coming back to work as a mature woman with life experience it’s tough to tolerate the present atmosphere of disrespect an office manager with very poor management skills. Not fun only 3 days with her and I want to quit but I need the job at least until I find a new one that’s better
Hailey is the real IT girlie 😊❤❤❤❤
I’m obsessed with your content girl I needed this message today
Communication is definitely one of your strengths! Your words flow like poetry❤️
All that you said i have recognized myself, thank you very much for sharing❤❤