Parents Ignored my Elder sister's Brutal Bullying For YEARS so I Finally Moved Out at 18....6 Years.

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @saundrahuff5870
    @saundrahuff5870 День назад +52

    ADHD is not enough of a problem to even think bully behavior is a symptom or allowable. My child had it, and she never grew up a bully. That’s just bad parenting. Has nothing to do with ADHD.

    • @shirleyakins1074
      @shirleyakins1074 День назад +6

      Agreed!!! I was ADHD before it even had a name!!! I never bullied anyone!! I was bullied for not being normal…not being able to focus, sit still etc etc. I got diagnosed at 33 and it was a life change for me to finally put a name to why my brain never stopped. The sister in this story is nothing but an entitled spoiled brat who never once got disciplined!!

    • @saundrahuff5870
      @saundrahuff5870 22 часа назад

      @@shirleyakins1074 now, I’ll be honest. I’ve never been able to figure out if some of the more adventurous decisions she’s made was because of ADHD or her just being weird. Or both. We love to debate that, usually switching sides numerous times. I don’t know how that works in her head, but we’ve had some interesting discussions on what we’ve learned from whatever new hole she fell into.

    • @seanm1319
      @seanm1319 15 часов назад

      It sounds like she’s on the spectrum for something. She probably has bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia.

    • @susiemalphurs5212
      @susiemalphurs5212 14 часов назад +2

      Actually they are normally bullied by the "NORMAL KIDS" . Teachers always blamed the kids ADD, ADHA or anything different.

    • @saundrahuff5870
      @saundrahuff5870 11 часов назад

      @ yeah, I remember,bet that part as well. It was not a fun time. I was always in the principals office. And, I enrolled her in Martial Arts for protection. Which really worked. Kendra was trying to calm herself down singing baby shark, which I don’t recommend, and one of her bullies came up, threw his hands up, like he was going to hit her. She swing her arm up to block. But, I was only going to slap her desk, and she ended up slapping him. Hard. She panicked and started crying, and she had to be taken to counselor office to calm down. She couldn’t, so they called me. And, that was the weirdest convo I’ve ever had with the principal. Your daughter is having a panic attack, she slapped a boy, but it’s ok cause he apologized. And, I was like, what? She slapped Him but He apologized? Yep. She’s not in trouble. I didn’t get the full story until after I got her home. I didn’t know if I should say don’t do that again or good job defending yourself, or ask the real question I wanted to know. How did she get him to apologize to her?

  • @LaviniaKing-hz9ue
    @LaviniaKing-hz9ue День назад +33

    Rose can receive her ADHD meds in jail. She needed limits and she will have them in abundance in jail (where she will eventually end up in) and not only from the guards. She will quickly discover that there are meaner bullies in her cell block than her.

  • @gidgemo1869
    @gidgemo1869 20 часов назад +11

    Dad made it clear when he admitted they only had OP to look after Rose. There’s no coming back from that.

  • @mrsw2923
    @mrsw2923 День назад +12

    Parents FIRST responsibility is the safety and well being of their children. Even if that means you must protect one child from the other.

  • @lindab.716
    @lindab.716 День назад +11

    As bad as my Dad’s revelation. About 5 weeks before he passed he shared he felt guilty for ruining my emotionally and physically abusive brother’s life. Had to ask how 🤔 By having me 😢

  • @lsummers0309
    @lsummers0309 23 часа назад +7

    My son is severely ADHD. He's been bullied but has never been a bully.

  • @samuelbcst
    @samuelbcst День назад +20

    That's not ADHD.

    • @mrsw2923
      @mrsw2923 День назад +6

      EXACTLY. My son was diagnosed with ADHD 25 Years ago. We did not medicate him. We stepped up our parenting. It worked. He is successful father of three. Never did he ever behave like this. He was never mean.

  • @annieh5479
    @annieh5479 День назад +8

    That's closer to bi-polar.

  • @rosco1960
    @rosco1960 10 часов назад +2

    If Rose is over 18, the state would take over with Public Aid.

  • @ronee9587
    @ronee9587 14 часов назад +3

    I think whoever wrote this just picked a random diagnosis without full knowledge of what it was.

  • @naptime1900
    @naptime1900 День назад +14

    Try social services for adults.

  • @DianeYoung-it6ls
    @DianeYoung-it6ls День назад +5

    I have 5 grandchildren that have ADHD and they don’t bully anyone they know what would happen to them Grammy don’t play them games

  • @kathleensimpson7369
    @kathleensimpson7369 11 часов назад +1

    Oppositional Defiant Disorder needs to be addressed in childhood. The parents failed in so many ways.

  • @LibertyWolf1
    @LibertyWolf1 День назад +5

    I'm a doormat. I'm a doormat. I'm a doormat. - OP -

  • @risingwind8943
    @risingwind8943 9 часов назад +1

    Once it reaches a point where reconciliation means that the victim ends up feeling worth lesser, reconciliation becomes unhealthy. Move on.

  • @davidward3991
    @davidward3991 11 часов назад

    I am ADHD and have an IQ of 189. I learned to control it. 5 college Degrees and 5 minor Degrees. I have such a healthy heart I may live to be 120. I had a brother who beat me up and our mother never stopped it. He went to jail and refused to accept his action and he died at 55 years of age in 2016. He was such a horrible brother.

  • @loqutisborg5416
    @loqutisborg5416 13 часов назад

    1 - You REALLY need a competent EDITOR
    2 - You REALLY need a TL;DR section.

  • @jhill4874
    @jhill4874 5 часов назад

    I have a younger special needs sister. Though she took up a lot of my parents time they worked worked very hard to make sure my quality of life was good. And we didn't have the emotional issues seen here. My sister was a truly loving person. And she was younger. I've known a number of people who were younger than the special needs sibling, particularly the immediate sibling following the special needs child. And emotional problems are particularly difficult. These parents completely dropped the ball. It sounds like they didn't even try. I took care of my sister after my parents passed. Not even a question if I would. They asked, not demanded. But I can fully understand OP's position here. I would probably be the same way.

  • @Catperson11
    @Catperson11 12 часов назад

    I'm only 5 minutes in and I'm feeling my blood boil..... there is one thing I can say for sure..... ADHD is her least problem (me and my son are both ADHD's). The biggest problem is the parents' ignorance about their child's pathology and the entitlement to not seek help for her.

  • @southernsal3113
    @southernsal3113 Час назад +1

    Did Rose bully other kids? Or is Rose just a mean sister?

  • @unclelink
    @unclelink 14 часов назад

    What a pair of selfish, egotistical parents.

  • @catherinetiernan5888
    @catherinetiernan5888 5 часов назад

    Your Parents have spent all their money on Rose and I doubt very much that they have a retirement fund so the pleas for financial help is just waiting around the corner,brace yourself hunny,it's not over yet.

  • @editor0018
    @editor0018 День назад +2

    NTA.

  • @ronbutler3431
    @ronbutler3431 8 часов назад

    I remember reading this same story elsewhere -- except 'Rose' was male. Nothing original here.

  • @muleypallavia
    @muleypallavia 9 часов назад

    I heard same kind of story but in that story bully was brother not sister... All other is same

  • @JMF527
    @JMF527 9 часов назад

    Is this story mixing up ADHD with Autism

  • @derokdeathaxe6984
    @derokdeathaxe6984 День назад +2

    this story isn't even new, it's been months since this story was shared the first time, in the original story the sister is actually the older brother, the rest is pretty much the same.

  • @Misanthropic_Antrhopoid
    @Misanthropic_Antrhopoid 11 часов назад

    This is just a gender swap of an identical story posted about 2 months ago. I wish people could find some original content for once.

  • @CherylBlaszczyk-nl2up
    @CherylBlaszczyk-nl2up 13 часов назад

    Dosent sound like hdhd

  • @thesquigz616
    @thesquigz616 День назад +1

    Frida is JFK's supplier og

  • @tonyhemingway7980
    @tonyhemingway7980 День назад +4

    Why can't you speak at a normal speed? You make it seem like you are in a verbal marathon!

  • @xyzzyx348
    @xyzzyx348 3 часа назад

    Bullshit story. The guy was born to give his evil sister care and serve her. Yet he is older than her. How stupid you think is your audience?