It’s obvious that YOU are not her priority and she’s Gaslighting you. She puts her Job and her ex ahead of you. You are plan B. Just walk away from her selfishness.
This woman love her Ex more than you,that's why she did this to you.She should have not married you in the first place and stay married to her Ex husband.
The wife disrespected OP by prio to helped her ex and didnt go on honeymoon with him. Thats a giant red flag already. She maybe dont have alot of friends but in her little circle, the ex was included. Im so glad OP devorced her and move one becouse a woman like that will never change her behavior and never gonna see her own flaw. Now she can stay with her ex permenently. And the audacity to called OP for being insecured and jealous and yet, she was the one who lived in a delusion-bouble and still think it was right to skiped the honeymoon to be with the ex. Woman like this is NOT a wife-materia at all 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
Jan2025: Wwwwhhaaaattt? Wife ditches hubby on honeymoon via txt to look after her Ex???? Too bad that didn't happen BEFORE the wedding. Now hubby will have to pay for a divorce. Perhaps file on the grounds marriage was not consumated? Retired in Sacto.
For heavens sake man act like a man and stop overthinking everything.you have done NOTHING!!! wrong.SHE have!! your not married she is not yours run away fast.
Annulment. Ended this farce of a marriage. She is probably cheating at work and most likely with her ex. You are not insecure she is disrespectful and she should not have a relationship with her ex.
I cannot understand why he insisted so much in that lost cause. Actually, certainly, he had some hint from her values (or lack of them) before to marry her. Another weakling trying to play macho man role. Thumb down.
She had already cheated, permanently. I have no clue why she wasn´t together with the ex, but for sure she nailed him every possible moment. Otherwise she would not have left Hubby at the airport, with a text telling "my ex have a twised ankle, i will not coome to the HONEMOON". That w§ore is just scum...
To the women wanting to say something negative, reverse the sexes. He didn’t go with her on the honeymoon because his ex-wife had car trouble. Now what do you say!
Sounds like the ex made a plan and it worked out in his favor. He doesn't want her, but he doesn't want her to be with anyone else. OP needs to cut and run and not get lost in the sunk cost fallacy. Women with the personality like the wife are not wife material. They will always prioritize their job and career over any husband or children. There's no empathy or consideration for others because she's got tunnel vision.
a divorce? you should qualify for an annulment.
OP is possibly the most clueless guy I've heard in these stories.
She feels her ex is more important than you. Divorce her.
LEAVE HER!!
The ex is no longer the ex.
Time to get a divorce she does not respect you
Does not respect? I would go far as to say she has contempt for him.
Annulment. Marriage under false pretenses. She's still in love with ex
Oh, she chose her ultimate Honey Moon alright ... It included Her Only Husband, just not the Current One.
There is no one in the world who would think it's normal to skip your honeymoon for an exit twisted his ankle
Twisted ankle? It's a life threatening indeed. Lol.
Mans been gaslit so much he believes sending her some pictures of him having fun and not doing anything wrong makes him a bad guy.
He twisted his ankle doesn't he have a friend or a neighbor? I had a full-on heart attack and still managed to call 911!
in the story he says that the ex has friends, one of them even at the end of his block
If you don't have kids with an ex, then there is ZERO reason to keep in contact with them once you remarry... my $0.02
I was thinking the same!
It’s obvious that YOU are not her priority and she’s Gaslighting you. She puts her Job and her ex ahead of you. You are plan B. Just walk away from her selfishness.
This woman love her Ex more than you,that's why she did this to you.She should have not married you in the first place and stay married to her Ex husband.
There are reasons why an ex is an ex and should stay as an ex
S1, huge Red Flag, separate and get a Divorce lawyer, the marriage is gone
Your brother is right now get divorced! She was back with the ex!
Forget your wife file a divorce find a real honest parent!!!😂
She missed the honeymoon for her ex. Yeah, annulment is the only path
So basically this is a story of a guy with no self respect who gets walked all over by his wife and her boyfriend.
Run Forest Run. She still has feelings for her EX and you should file for an Annulment.
The wife disrespected OP by prio to helped her ex and didnt go on honeymoon with him. Thats a giant red flag already. She maybe dont have alot of friends but in her little circle, the ex was included. Im so glad OP devorced her and move one becouse a woman like that will never change her behavior and never gonna see her own flaw. Now she can stay with her ex permenently. And the audacity to called OP for being insecured and jealous and yet, she was the one who lived in a delusion-bouble and still think it was right to skiped the honeymoon to be with the ex. Woman like this is NOT a wife-materia at all 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
And the ex couldn't call 911?
Run away, run away and don't look back. This woman is not committed to the marriage and is too close to her ex.
listen to your brother.
He will be raising that couples child.
Ex-wife blamed him after she clearly chose her ex over her own honeymoon? He’s the on who’s better off without her.
Your honey moon phase is supposed to be the best time of your marriage. So if this is the best time then your marriage is really going to be toxic..
Jan2025: Wwwwhhaaaattt? Wife ditches hubby on honeymoon via txt to look after her Ex???? Too bad that didn't happen BEFORE the wedding. Now hubby will have to pay for a divorce. Perhaps file on the grounds marriage was not consumated? Retired in Sacto.
OP made lots of mistakes and missed lots of red flags.
She doesn't really love you. Don't be a simp.Have the marriage annulled and be thankful you dodged a missile.
Ofcource she cheating you already!!!
Why should you apologise?
Run!
For heavens sake man act like a man and stop overthinking everything.you have done NOTHING!!! wrong.SHE have!! your not married she is not yours run away fast.
He didn't need a divorce, he could get an annulment .
Op ignoring so many red flags makes this problem partly your fault. Your wayward wife is a classical narcissist.
Annulment. Ended this farce of a marriage. She is probably cheating at work and most likely with her ex. You are not insecure she is disrespectful and she should not have a relationship with her ex.
Move on now and save the wasted time...
nope, not the bad guy at all.
I got one word got you DIVORCE!!
I cannot understand why he insisted so much in that lost cause. Actually, certainly, he had some hint from her values (or lack of them) before to marry her. Another weakling trying to play macho man role. Thumb down.
Good for you, she would cheat later on
She had already cheated, permanently. I have no clue why she wasn´t together with the ex, but for sure she nailed him every possible moment. Otherwise she would not have left Hubby at the airport, with a text telling "my ex have a twised ankle, i will not coome to the HONEMOON". That w§ore is just scum...
Weak man!!!
Don’t need all the background information!
Dumb ending
You wanted him to remain married to her?
To the women wanting to say something negative, reverse the sexes. He didn’t go with her on the honeymoon because his ex-wife had car trouble. Now what do you say!
crickets
I’m a woman and both scenarios are terrible.
Sounds like the ex made a plan and it worked out in his favor. He doesn't want her, but he doesn't want her to be with anyone else.
OP needs to cut and run and not get lost in the sunk cost fallacy. Women with the personality like the wife are not wife material. They will always prioritize their job and career over any husband or children. There's no empathy or consideration for others because she's got tunnel vision.