Fantastic tutorial. Tried this with my partner today, we put this video up on our tv and she stood there sipping wine while we watched and followed along with the steps! It was our very first attempt at using ropes like this and it was a lot of fun, we look forward to watching more of your videos as we continue to learn.
For a second I didn't get why the title was called love handles until it hit me a seconds after seeing the thumbnail, also these videos are quite educational and professional which I like but it makes me want to try this someday.
In general, your care with subduing the uncontrolled movement of the rope tails whenever you're pulling through a hitch or knot is something I wish more would mimic. Those tail knots whipping at the end of a 30ft section can be brutal when not controlled. #SSC
Yeah, they can really make an impact, so to speak. There are two ways I like to help control that failing: (1) to move rope like a stick so that one hand is holding the ends as the other hand pulls the rope through, thereby preventing the fail, and (2) putting one hand between your partner and the rope at the pull through point as the other hand is pulling the rope through. 2 is good because it lets *you* be the one that will experience the rope burn, plus your hand is right there to help control the ends as they get close. 1 is good because you have greater overall control, but you can really only do this when you have less than an arm span of rope left. For long ropes, I start with 2 and might transition to 1 depending on the situation...
Great idea to include this! I will see if I can add it to the video itself or the description. (Most of my stuff is on vimeo, so I haven't played with RUclips's capabilities as much...)
@@LazarusRedmayne I was going to say if you just copy/paste this into the description, RUclips will make them into chapters on the video, but you might actually need to add leading zeroes to the first few. RUclips is picky about formatting. Cheers!
@@tbmcqueen4259 Thanks for the tip. I added that, but it looks like YT limits the chaptering for videos that are not for all audiences... Interesting that.
I'm glad you apricated the various options in finishing. A crotch rope is also certainly an option, although it may make it a bit harder to use the harness for the purpose hinted at in the name. ;) 仕上げに様々なオプションをご利用いただけて嬉しいです。股ロープも確かにオプションですが、名前に示唆されている目的でハーネスを使用するのが少し難しくなる可能性があります。
"Pull that loop through" I hate myself for thinking of SpongeBob. I am a wholeass adult and my first thought was "do a loopty loop and pull, and your *shibari* is lookin' cool" 😂😂😂
I started this with my partner but i was only part way through and she said she wasn't in the mood anymore....never happy...before that i was always done too soon 😊
I posted this on another comment, but it is important: I would not recommend that you start with this if it is your partner's first experience with rope. Start instead with things that are fast and fun, but a bit less decorative and time consuming. I would recommend you start with a Wrap & Cinch Double column and a Load-Baring Double Column (both can be found for free here: www.theduchy.com/courses/rope-101/) and just tie them to the bed and tease them until they are squirming and begging for you to do more than tease... Just that simple of a scene can make for one hell of a fun evening... Note that having things take too long is a common critique heard from people new to rope. They want to just get on to the main event. Don't worry. This is very common and is expected. For some, it takes time to build the erotic association with the act of being tied. That association does often come with time however. They begin to associate the act of being tied with the sensations and experiences that they know come after*, at this point, the act of being tied itself can *become the foreplay and they begin entering an highly erotic zone with jus the feel of rope gently caressing their skin ... and then taking firm and irresistible hold of them...
I found that when pulling on the “handles” the lines that circle the legs put quite a bit of pressure on the inner thighs. Aren’t there some delicate structures there like blood vessels that might not benefit from being pinched? Increased tension around the belly was also uncomfortable for my partner. Maybe we’ll stick to handles incorporated into chest harnesses.
This sounds like you are making a wise and caring choice for your partner, well done. This tie works great for some people, but--as with any tie--it may not be the right choice for others. Whether this is suitable for a given person depends on that individual person. As for the nerves and blood vessels; there are several that run through there, but on most people they are deeper under the flesh that close to the torso (they get closer to the surface a few inches down the leg). But as long as there is not sustained significant pressure, this will not normally come in to play. This tie should not be tied super tight. Tight enough to stay put, but not tight enough so that the ropes are sinking deeply into the skin on their own (when you are not pulling on the harness). Momentary pressure is not typically a high risk for most people, but the the longer and tighter the pressure, the higher the risk. But, again, this doesn't really matter. If this does not seem to work for a given person, you are absolutely correct in choosing alternatives that do!
Yeah, several people seem to have been served this and have no idea how... Neither do I The mystery of the RUclips algorithm... www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2018/11/how-youtubes-algorithm-really-works/575212/
Do you have a specific rope type you’d recommend that’s easy on the skin? Also do you know how to measure the amount of rope needed to correlate with someone’s size?
For some reason, this harness lends itself to being pulled on *a'hem*; therefore, the ropes will be likely be rubbing on your partner at least a little; so unless rope burn is on your list of goals, a smoother, softer rope like nylon, MFP, bamboo, silk, coconut (JOKING, do not do this with coconut!), etc would be best for most people. As for amount of rope. that will vary quite a lot depending on your partner's build. So start with a longer rope (most kits have them at ~ 30' (9m)), but you can always just extend your rope if you need more... (Extending rope: www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/)
Gonna try this one for sure. I feel like you could also do another wrap around the lower leg to use up some more rope and spread out the load a little bit more.
Hey great video but was just wondering why wouldn't you just start with a single column tie instead of larks head? Wouldn't that just save having to lock it on way back? Hope u don't mind me asking
It's totally fine to ask, no worries! Sharing ideas is how we all grow, right? - There is nothing whatsoever wrong with starting with a single column around the hips instead of the lark's head like I did here. The way I did it consumes just a little less rope and is a bit less bulky, but it isn't a big deal to add more if you need it. Starting with a SC would give you the advantage of a hard node to use as your initial turning point when running the rope from one leg to the other, but again, would add a little bulk. So I think the Lark's Head way would probably tend to be a bit sleeker, but the SC way could be built to be more rugged ... useful if you *really* want to toss your partner around. ;) - Another modification to consider is doing more than one wrap around the thigh. Again, a bit less sleek, but distributes the force across a larger area, which can have its benefits...
@@LazarusRedmayne thank you so much for taking time out of your day for such a detailed reply I really appreciate it and can totally see what you mean 😊
I was just searching “the bodyknot in bodynamic theory” because that’s what my therapist calls it:bodyknot! Well I guess that’s not what she means… or…WHAAAAT???
Nah, The covering is actually intended to make things much more visually clear. Many times when you see hands and bodies and rope that are all very close to the same colors, it can be difficult to make out exactly what is going on. This way it is super clear and many people find it much easier to follow along.
Does anyone know the exact type of rope he used? In the description there are measurements but my Dom really would like to try this type. (Example: jute, sisal, coconut).
This is 6mm Natural (uncolored) Hemp from Twisted Monk. If you buy through this link, I get a small referral bonus: www.twistedmonk.com/?rfsn=253188.015a.15187
It is indeed. In fact, it is waaay more popular than you might think! In 2015, a group of researchers led by Christian Joyal surveyed over 1,500 adults about their sexual fantasies. Over 64% of women and 53% of men reported fantasizing about being sexually dominated. Conversely, over 46% of women and 59% of men had fantasies about sexually dominating someone else. www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)30944-9/fulltext
I''m running short on rope. Is the wrapping for the handles necessary, or can I just run the line up top over the waist part, come out under the waist part, then do the half hitches?
It was too short even for that, and the handle would keep trying to shorten because the wrapping was not there to prevent it from moving up. What is the recommended amount of rope to perform this tie? I was using a 25 foot piece. I believe 50 would be enough. Is that correct?
Depends on how vigorous you intend to get. Normally, as long as you lock down the nodes in some way so that things don't get tighter in unexpected ways, you should be fine
They are very much around. More than you might think. I have an article that is on a slightly different topic (finding a mentor), but the same steps will also help you find like-minded people, perhaps even a partner! Check it out: www.theduchy.com/local-mentor/
How can I bring the topic into conversation, without it being understood as "I want something casual" . I would really love to try all these things. My previous partner didn't like them, and I want to make sure I date someone who is compatible with me 🤔
That can be difficult, yes. Kinky people are very much around. More than you might think. (www.theduchy.com/home/about/) So one way to find them is for *you* to go where they are and search for a partner there. That way, half the work is already done and it is "relatively simple" matter of finding a person you are compatible with. I have an article on a slightly different topic (finding a mentor), but the same steps will also help you find like-minded people, perhaps even a partner! Check it out: www.theduchy.com/local-mentor/
@@LazarusRedmayne thank you! I'll be doing research, both mentor and partner are important for me...and I have none of them So whoever I find first will be an improvement
This was 30' (9m) ... which is semi-useless information. Every body is different and will therefore require different amounts of rope. So, as this is a harness, just start with a longer piece (usually on the order of 27-30' (8-9m)) and, if you need more, Extend Your Rope (www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/). If you have rope left over when you finish the tie use one of these techniques Use Up Extra Rope (www.theduchy.com/using-up-rope/)
This was 30' (9m) on this particular model, but you really can't use that as a gauge. Lengths change depending on the build of the person and the specific use to which a tie is put. So most riggers use standard lengths and just add more if they need more. Check out www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/ for a couple of useful techniques!
On this model, I used one 30′ (~9m) piece of 1/4' (6mm) rope. But it is important to understand that the amount of rope needed will vary wildly with your partner's build.
@@LazarusRedmayne ok thank you. Gives me a general idea of the rope length. I have two 15 foot lengths now, just starting out. I can use the two together to see if that will work.
On this model, I used one 30′ (~9m) piece of 1/4' (6mm) rope. But it is important to understand that the amount of rope needed will vary wildly with your partner's build.
"There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy." It depends on the people involved. For some, this is just an art. They do the rope, they take a picture, they remove the rope. For some, this is a type of physical attention, bringing them closer to their partner through physical contact, but that is all. For some, this is foreplay, for some, *heavy* foreplay. With this particular tie, you now have a set if strong handles on your partner's hips. I invite you to set your imagination free on what those might be used for...
It can be great for getting a firm grip on your partner if you are wanting things to get ... vigorous... If that is what we want, I personally prefer the variant that has the handles positioned a little further back. You can find more about that version on the main tutorial page: www.theduchy.com/love-handles/
either you're really bad at foreplay, or your partner wasn't really into it and bailed. you want to be the dominant in that encounter? tie their hands to the bedpost, begin the rope work, and if they complain...either a smack on the butt cheek, or a tickle depending on their preferences (don't forget the caresses, little nibbles, and audio play to build up the anticipation) until you finish the work. this is power and control vs. submission and compliance. Do it right, and your partner is yours....do it all wrong, and you would be better served solo with some lotion and tissue.
I would not recommend that you start with this if it is your partner's first experience with rope. Start instead with things that are fast and fun, but a bit less decorative and time consuming. I would recommend you start with a Wrap & Cinch Double column and a Load-Baring Double Column (both can be found for free here: www.theduchy.com/courses/rope-101/) and just tie them to the bed and tease them until they are squirming and begging for you to do more than tease... Just that simple of a scene can make for one hell of a fun evening...
Another quick note, having things take too long is a common critique heard from people new to rope. They want to just get on to the main event. There's nothing wrong with that. That is very common. For some, it takes time to build the erotic association with the act of being tied. That association does often come with time however. They begin to associate the act of *being* tied with the sensations and experiences that they know come *after*, at this point, the act of being tied itself can *become* the foreplay and they begin entering an highly erotic zone with jus the feel of rope gently caressing their skin ... and then taking firm and irresistible hold of them...
They aren't surgical gloves, they are spandex. I wear them to make the details of what I am doing easier to see -- even those with various forms of vision impairment. This way every element has a different color and a different luminosity value. Such considerations may not be crucial for a tie that is as straightforward as this, but when there are many more lines or the angles and body positions make it difficult to get a clean shot, this approach is very helpful. I have gotten many positive comments on it because it enhances understanding.
Nice, now I'm ready for my camping trip.
XD
Fantastic tutorial. Tried this with my partner today, we put this video up on our tv and she stood there sipping wine while we watched and followed along with the steps! It was our very first attempt at using ropes like this and it was a lot of fun, we look forward to watching more of your videos as we continue to learn.
That is awesome! I'm glad it worked well for you!
I was just looking for knit and crochet patterns and this popped up, found a new use for my scrap yarn 😂
I came from doing macrame. So rope certainly connects things…
im amazed this channel actually exists!
Beautiful technique, love the camera angles and the clear explanation with what to do with the tails, easy to follow along
Thank you! I'm glad you found it helpful!
The steps are explained very clearly. Awesome
Glad you liked it!
Thank you. So well explained. Sitting at my sommer cottage waiting for my bunny to arrive. Now I feel more secure about the session. :)
I'm glad this helped!
@@LazarusRedmayne She really liked it and so did I! :)
gonna be honest didn't go looking for this video...youtube knows me oddly well
Same lol!
XD
Same 😒😩
Sameeee
Same🙄
I learned something new today, day not went to waste 🤠🤙🏻
Beautiful, if only I can find someone to partake
To tie you or for you to tie up
@@JohnBlaze295 both ways work for her ig
I'll drink your nectar (partake)
Jo²
For a second I didn't get why the title was called love handles until it hit me a seconds after seeing the thumbnail, also these videos are quite educational and professional which I like but it makes me want to try this someday.
Fantastic videos. Well explained and narrated.
Thank you kindly!
Great tutorial 👌I greatly appreciate your time and skills .
Thank you for taking the time to say that. Ans you are most welcome!
In general, your care with subduing the uncontrolled movement of the rope tails whenever you're pulling through a hitch or knot is something I wish more would mimic. Those tail knots whipping at the end of a 30ft section can be brutal when not controlled. #SSC
Yeah, they can really make an impact, so to speak.
There are two ways I like to help control that failing: (1) to move rope like a stick so that one hand is holding the ends as the other hand pulls the rope through, thereby preventing the fail, and (2) putting one hand between your partner and the rope at the pull through point as the other hand is pulling the rope through.
2 is good because it lets *you* be the one that will experience the rope burn, plus your hand is right there to help control the ends as they get close.
1 is good because you have greater overall control, but you can really only do this when you have less than an arm span of rope left.
For long ropes, I start with 2 and might transition to 1 depending on the situation...
@@LazarusRedmayne thank you!
I wish the boy scouts taught me that
My troop leader taught me. I was so sleepy for some reason
SERIOUSly
See my church group would teach how to do knots.....I wish I payed more attention during those camp outs and lessons.
Thats Eagle Scout level
I LOVE this one!! Thx!!
I just tried this out on my wife! It really works! Works very well too. :)
Woot!
Glad to hear :)
Thanks for making these videos!
Glad you like them!
Excellent videos ♥️
0:00 Core Technique
4:35 The Other Side
7:31 Ending 1 - Wrapping
7:59 Ending 2 - Bunting
11:27 Ending 3 - Extra Belt
13: 24 Alt Handle 1 - Cored Square Knot
17:40 Alt Handle 2 - Cored Granny Knot
Great idea to include this! I will see if I can add it to the video itself or the description. (Most of my stuff is on vimeo, so I haven't played with RUclips's capabilities as much...)
@@LazarusRedmayne I was going to say if you just copy/paste this into the description, RUclips will make them into chapters on the video, but you might actually need to add leading zeroes to the first few. RUclips is picky about formatting.
Cheers!
@@tbmcqueen4259 Thanks for the tip. I added that, but it looks like YT limits the chaptering for videos that are not for all audiences... Interesting that.
Excellent quality video. I didn't know macrame could be so kinky.
Oh, yes! Lot's of fun to be had there ;)
I don't know why yt recommended this but I'm happy it did
*saves to watch later just in case*
色々な仕上げパターンが参考になりました。股縄にした仕上げも良いかと思いました。❤
I'm glad you apricated the various options in finishing. A crotch rope is also certainly an option, although it may make it a bit harder to use the harness for the purpose hinted at in the name. ;)
仕上げに様々なオプションをご利用いただけて嬉しいです。股ロープも確かにオプションですが、名前に示唆されている目的でハーネスを使用するのが少し難しくなる可能性があります。
Awesome!! I love how simple it is
Glad you like it!
How on earth this included in my recommendation??? Oh well
No idea. The mystery of the RUclips algorithms...
www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2018/11/how-youtubes-algorithm-really-works/575212/
"Pull that loop through"
I hate myself for thinking of SpongeBob. I am a wholeass adult and my first thought was "do a loopty loop and pull, and your *shibari* is lookin' cool" 😂😂😂
😂
Thanks to the algorithm
I started this with my partner but i was only part way through and she said she wasn't in the mood anymore....never happy...before that i was always done too soon 😊
I posted this on another comment, but it is important:
I would not recommend that you start with this if it is your partner's first experience with rope. Start instead with things that are fast and fun, but a bit less decorative and time consuming. I would recommend you start with a Wrap & Cinch Double column and a Load-Baring Double Column (both can be found for free here: www.theduchy.com/courses/rope-101/) and just tie them to the bed and tease them until they are squirming and begging for you to do more than tease... Just that simple of a scene can make for one hell of a fun evening...
Note that having things take too long is a common critique heard from people new to rope. They want to just get on to the main event. Don't worry. This is very common and is expected. For some, it takes time to build the erotic association with the act of being tied. That association does often come with time however. They begin to associate the act of being tied with the sensations and experiences that they know come after*, at this point, the act of being tied itself can *become the foreplay and they begin entering an highly erotic zone with jus the feel of rope gently caressing their skin ... and then taking firm and irresistible hold of them...
Looks fun
I found that when pulling on the “handles” the lines that circle the legs put quite a bit of pressure on the inner thighs. Aren’t there some delicate structures there like blood vessels that might not benefit from being pinched? Increased tension around the belly was also uncomfortable for my partner. Maybe we’ll stick to handles incorporated into chest harnesses.
This sounds like you are making a wise and caring choice for your partner, well done. This tie works great for some people, but--as with any tie--it may not be the right choice for others. Whether this is suitable for a given person depends on that individual person.
As for the nerves and blood vessels; there are several that run through there, but on most people they are deeper under the flesh that close to the torso (they get closer to the surface a few inches down the leg). But as long as there is not sustained significant pressure, this will not normally come in to play. This tie should not be tied super tight. Tight enough to stay put, but not tight enough so that the ropes are sinking deeply into the skin on their own (when you are not pulling on the harness). Momentary pressure is not typically a high risk for most people, but the the longer and tighter the pressure, the higher the risk. But, again, this doesn't really matter. If this does not seem to work for a given person, you are absolutely correct in choosing alternatives that do!
RUclips knows too much about me with this recommendation... 😳
XD
I see a lot people's search history other than RUclips has been spied by RUclips. I don't even mad.
Yeah, several people seem to have been served this and have no idea how... Neither do I
The mystery of the RUclips algorithm...
www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2018/11/how-youtubes-algorithm-really-works/575212/
Are you winning son? ,,,,uuuhmm, just learning to tie a rope dad.
Do you have a specific rope type you’d recommend that’s easy on the skin? Also do you know how to measure the amount of rope needed to correlate with someone’s size?
For some reason, this harness lends itself to being pulled on *a'hem*; therefore, the ropes will be likely be rubbing on your partner at least a little; so unless rope burn is on your list of goals, a smoother, softer rope like nylon, MFP, bamboo, silk, coconut (JOKING, do not do this with coconut!), etc would be best for most people. As for amount of rope. that will vary quite a lot depending on your partner's build. So start with a longer rope (most kits have them at ~ 30' (9m)), but you can always just extend your rope if you need more... (Extending rope: www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/)
revolutionary
Gonna try this one for sure. I feel like you could also do another wrap around the lower leg to use up some more rope and spread out the load a little bit more.
You absolutely can! I did so in the example I put together here: www.theduchy.com/bts-210112/
some random, unspecified reason. :D love it! Subscribe!
;)
So, why did i have this recommended? Is RUclips trying to awaken something in me?
The mysterious vagaries of the RUclips algorithm...
Mind blown….
Hey great video but was just wondering why wouldn't you just start with a single column tie instead of larks head? Wouldn't that just save having to lock it on way back? Hope u don't mind me asking
It's totally fine to ask, no worries! Sharing ideas is how we all grow, right?
- There is nothing whatsoever wrong with starting with a single column around the hips instead of the lark's head like I did here. The way I did it consumes just a little less rope and is a bit less bulky, but it isn't a big deal to add more if you need it. Starting with a SC would give you the advantage of a hard node to use as your initial turning point when running the rope from one leg to the other, but again, would add a little bulk. So I think the Lark's Head way would probably tend to be a bit sleeker, but the SC way could be built to be more rugged ... useful if you *really* want to toss your partner around. ;)
- Another modification to consider is doing more than one wrap around the thigh. Again, a bit less sleek, but distributes the force across a larger area, which can have its benefits...
@@LazarusRedmayne thank you so much for taking time out of your day for such a detailed reply I really appreciate it and can totally see what you mean 😊
This guy's mannequin / partner / model has a really hot body
I was just searching “the bodyknot in bodynamic theory” because that’s what my therapist calls it:bodyknot!
Well I guess that’s not what she means… or…WHAAAAT???
Who knows :) Lots of counselors out there these days are much more open-minded about alt stuff than they used to be.
@@LazarusRedmayne I know right? Haha I’m a counsellor myself😜
This video is really informative and well put together might i ask what is the length of rope you’re using?
On this model, I used one 30′ (~9m) piece of 1/4' (6mm) rope
Very well shown and explained.
Thank you 🙏🏼.
Pity you need the American voice over and both of you covered so as not to scare the xenophobes.
Nah, The covering is actually intended to make things much more visually clear. Many times when you see hands and bodies and rope that are all very close to the same colors, it can be difficult to make out exactly what is going on. This way it is super clear and many people find it much easier to follow along.
@@LazarusRedmayne Good to hear.
Macrame handles.
😉 yep! Sometimes, when I want to be coy about what I do, I describe my job as “Macramé ... As applied to enthusiastically consenting humans”
What is the length of rope that’s being used here?
~30' (9m) on this model, but you will need very different lengths for different people
Does anyone know the exact type of rope he used? In the description there are measurements but my Dom really would like to try this type. (Example: jute, sisal, coconut).
This is 6mm Natural (uncolored) Hemp from Twisted Monk.
If you buy through this link, I get a small referral bonus:
www.twistedmonk.com/?rfsn=253188.015a.15187
Is there a technique that allows for the harness to partially undone so that it could be easily re-used in the future?
Not with this pattern, no. But this one is actually rather fast to tie once you get the pattern down.
Also called the cobra knot for anyone involved in paracord 🙄🙄
🤣🤣 what the hell did I watch that made RUclips think I was into this..I didn't even know this was a thing 😂🤣
It is indeed. In fact, it is waaay more popular than you might think!
In 2015, a group of researchers led by Christian Joyal surveyed over 1,500 adults about their sexual fantasies. Over 64% of women and 53% of men reported fantasizing about being sexually dominated. Conversely, over 46% of women and 59% of men had fantasies about sexually dominating someone else.
www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)30944-9/fulltext
That is one of the reasons that you see this in movies so often! ;)
Dude are you a rancher? Pretty fancy tier. 😍
Nah, but I am ex-sailor ;)
@@LazarusRedmayne “The army is essential, the marines are tough guys, the air force is bad ass, but it takes a navy to rule the world.”
- Marcie Free
@@LazarusRedmayne I fly the navy flag everyday outside my house. 🥰🥰
Hoorah!
That is soooo hotttttt, deffs trying this
I'm gonna repurpose my tow-rope !
Gives new meaning to the phrase “rope burns after sex”
i-i think this is the actual meaning bro
I''m running short on rope. Is the wrapping for the handles necessary, or can I just run the line up top over the waist part, come out under the waist part, then do the half hitches?
It was too short even for that, and the handle would keep trying to shorten because the wrapping was not there to prevent it from moving up. What is the recommended amount of rope to perform this tie? I was using a 25 foot piece. I believe 50 would be enough. Is that correct?
Depends on how vigorous you intend to get. Normally, as long as you lock down the nodes in some way so that things don't get tighter in unexpected ways, you should be fine
I typically tie waste harnesses starting with a 30' rope and then, just extend the rope (www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/) if needed.
I want a woman that’s into this type of stuff
They are very much around. More than you might think. I have an article that is on a slightly different topic (finding a mentor), but the same steps will also help you find like-minded people, perhaps even a partner! Check it out: www.theduchy.com/local-mentor/
So who else was recommended this ?
How can I bring the topic into conversation, without it being understood as "I want something casual" .
I would really love to try all these things. My previous partner didn't like them, and I want to make sure I date someone who is compatible with me 🤔
That can be difficult, yes.
Kinky people are very much around. More than you might think. (www.theduchy.com/home/about/) So one way to find them is for *you* to go where they are and search for a partner there. That way, half the work is already done and it is "relatively simple" matter of finding a person you are compatible with.
I have an article on a slightly different topic (finding a mentor), but the same steps will also help you find like-minded people, perhaps even a partner! Check it out: www.theduchy.com/local-mentor/
@@LazarusRedmayne thank you! I'll be doing research, both mentor and partner are important for me...and I have none of them
So whoever I find first will be an improvement
How many meters is the line?
~9m
Ending 5: do this as a test run, then use a sorter rope. Keep a notebook for each tie.
Nobody ever says what length RoP they are using
This was 30' (9m) ... which is semi-useless information. Every body is different and will therefore require different amounts of rope. So, as this is a harness, just start with a longer piece (usually on the order of 27-30' (8-9m)) and, if you need more, Extend Your Rope (www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/). If you have rope left over when you finish the tie use one of these techniques Use Up Extra Rope (www.theduchy.com/using-up-rope/)
I Love....I cam....💕💕💕
mames youtube... enserio? :v
I don't know how I ended up here.
Neither do I. The mystery of the RUclips algorithm...
www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2018/11/how-youtubes-algorithm-really-works/575212/
You got anymore like this one?
If you are looking for more ways to highlight your partner's ... assets ... there are several more hip harnesses on TheDuchy.com!
After all that work I would hate to untie or cut it.
The more you practice, the faster it becomes. After awhile you could get something like this on your partner is just a few minutes... ;)
Wait a minute, the model isn’t real!?!
The model for this particular tie is a posable mannequin. I used that method quite a bit early on. These days we almost always use a live model.
What length do you use?
This was 30' (9m) on this particular model, but you really can't use that as a gauge. Lengths change depending on the build of the person and the specific use to which a tie is put. So most riggers use standard lengths and just add more if they need more. Check out www.theduchy.com/extending-rope/ for a couple of useful techniques!
Sounds like Joe Rogan narrating lol
What was the length of rope you were using
On this model, I used one 30′ (~9m) piece of 1/4' (6mm) rope. But it is important to understand that the amount of rope needed will vary wildly with your partner's build.
@@LazarusRedmayne ok thank you. Gives me a general idea of the rope length. I have two 15 foot lengths now, just starting out. I can use the two together to see if that will work.
About how many feet of rope did you use?
On this model, I used one 30′ (~9m) piece of 1/4' (6mm) rope. But it is important to understand that the amount of rope needed will vary wildly with your partner's build.
@@LazarusRedmayne thanks I appreciate it.
While it's almost mesmerizing to watch, what's next? You spend 20 - 30 minutes tying up, then what?
"There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy."
It depends on the people involved. For some, this is just an art. They do the rope, they take a picture, they remove the rope. For some, this is a type of physical attention, bringing them closer to their partner through physical contact, but that is all. For some, this is foreplay, for some, *heavy* foreplay. With this particular tie, you now have a set if strong handles on your partner's hips. I invite you to set your imagination free on what those might be used for...
What the purpose of being tied that way
Some people enjoy being dominated and tied up by someone they fully trust.
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@@stonemedia8901 now that's what I call fucked up
@@cheap_clips How long did you watch the video?! 😉😉
I want to know that where can I buy that praticing dummy??
XD ...I have an article on that! www.theduchy.com/home/about/model/
@@LazarusRedmayne Thanks :)
Update!?🫣
Понятно и без русского языка.
что понятно? Как узлы вызать-да. А что связали то? Трусы? Пояс верности? Для чулков держатель?🤔😁
Is that just to be tied? Cause seems kind of useless
It can be great for getting a firm grip on your partner if you are wanting things to get ... vigorous...
If that is what we want, I personally prefer the variant that has the handles positioned a little further back. You can find more about that version on the main tutorial page: www.theduchy.com/love-handles/
serves to suspend?
No, this is not suitable for suspensions in the form I show here. There are several sliding knots that would cause trouble.
by the time i was done tying only halfway up , my partner had already called in uber...
either you're really bad at foreplay, or your partner wasn't really into it and bailed. you want to be the dominant in that encounter? tie their hands to the bedpost, begin the rope work, and if they complain...either a smack on the butt cheek, or a tickle depending on their preferences (don't forget the caresses, little nibbles, and audio play to build up the anticipation) until you finish the work. this is power and control vs. submission and compliance. Do it right, and your partner is yours....do it all wrong, and you would be better served solo with some lotion and tissue.
I would not recommend that you start with this if it is your partner's first experience with rope. Start instead with things that are fast and fun, but a bit less decorative and time consuming. I would recommend you start with a Wrap & Cinch Double column and a Load-Baring Double Column (both can be found for free here: www.theduchy.com/courses/rope-101/) and just tie them to the bed and tease them until they are squirming and begging for you to do more than tease... Just that simple of a scene can make for one hell of a fun evening...
Another quick note, having things take too long is a common critique heard from people new to rope. They want to just get on to the main event. There's nothing wrong with that. That is very common. For some, it takes time to build the erotic association with the act of being tied. That association does often come with time however. They begin to associate the act of *being* tied with the sensations and experiences that they know come *after*, at this point, the act of being tied itself can *become* the foreplay and they begin entering an highly erotic zone with jus the feel of rope gently caressing their skin ... and then taking firm and irresistible hold of them...
"🙄How do we untie?"
How many feet?
I used a 30' (~9m) rope
Two
What
Why are you wearing surgical gloves ffs
They aren't surgical gloves, they are spandex. I wear them to make the details of what I am doing easier to see -- even those with various forms of vision impairment. This way every element has a different color and a different luminosity value. Such considerations may not be crucial for a tie that is as straightforward as this, but when there are many more lines or the angles and body positions make it difficult to get a clean shot, this approach is very helpful. I have gotten many positive comments on it because it enhances understanding.
Who is this one person who dislike?
lol. perhaps they accidently hit the wrong button? :) But if not, no worries.