Screw labels! I hate labels. Calista, you and your girlfriend are kindred spirits. Does it matter what society calls your relationship? Love to see you two smile, and love to hear Jenn’s giggle. Be well, be safe, and be happy!
We love with our hearts, with our minds, and with our souls. It is not the a book jacket or cover. It is what is inside that makes the book special. Sex feels great, but it is mainly there for procreation.
@@TheRageEpisodes If only we could focus on the inside, the thing that makes us unique. Our outside appearances fades over time. But that which is inside endures.
I appreciate Calista pointing out sexuality isn't a choice. Telling gay people it's a preference is like taking things back to the 50s understanding of being gay. On libido imo it's a stereotype that women have lower sex drives as we get put on hormonal birth control usually soon after puberty which also attributes to how "emotional" we get. My libido is high compared to most women and I think it's because I got off birth control at age 18.
Hormones, attraction, penetration- lots to review before commenting, so I'll just say this for now. In the previous episode of The Rage, several viewers commented on Jennifer's hair and hair color. I noticed today a subtle change. Jennifer has styled her hair with it falling partially over her forehead. To me this is a younger look and a bit more alluring. I find that attractive. Okay well, I better shut "my big keyboard" now before I say too much and get myself in trouble! (Written to bring a smile while being based in fact- hahaha.)
You know what I want; I want a polycule. lol! A little more seriously, though I am serious about the polycule, sexual orientation and romantic attraction can be weird. I know that I've been cognizant of my attraction to people of genders both like my own and unlike since I was quite young. But you hide it because it's not always safe to be known to be like that. Hrm, I don't know if I couldn't be romantically attracted to the masculine, and I certainly don't in any case exclude trans binary or nonbinary folk as possible romantic attractions either. But I'm in no rush atm and just want to enjoy my current sexual freedom to explore my options.
Thank you so much! I had my zero depth v surgery 2 weeks ago, And I understand Calista perfectly. I don’t think penetration is THE ultimate pleasure and about cis women, we are part of them even if some of the society isn’t recognizing us as women, the way we feel that pushes us to not be attracted to them in the way it was before transitioning. I love your content! Thank you again 🥰
@tuli rz Calista and Jennifer are explaining that perhaps better than me! I’m not attracted to women like I was before transitioning I said.. it’s clear as water!! I’m still married to my wife before transition and both are lesbians now. Thank you for explaining what lesbians are though!!!
@@nicola3452 Zero depth is like hassle free surgery, no electrolysis, no vaginal dilation, low risk of having complications leading to other surgeries… But, I have to dilate my urethra to avoid stricture! I can manage that, not a big deal when using the right instrument and it’s like 2 to 3 minutes/ day. It’s been 5 years since I transitioned and I have never had any desire to be penetrated neither being with a man, so the zero depth was the right one for me.
I'm going on over 40 years on HRT, My SRS was done in the early 80's and to this day I am still the same. I was never attractived to either the same gender or opposite gender. My sex drive has always been below zero (absolutely not interested). Natural human nature just never interest me. I can proudly say I am 64 year old virgin. Calista, you have seen me on zoom on some Fridays (working on the 2" machine video tape recorder) that I am nothing to write home about. I'm lucky to be very unattractive to a point I don't have to be worried about being hit on from both genders. In the early 70's I was using illegally HRT until I started to see a doctor in the early 80's. The first year of HRT I was feeling better within myself but I was still extremely closed off from the public. Still stuck in the anti-social range even to this day. I'm completely cross wired differently. Jennifer, I work for a TV station and gaffers tape works wonder for everything. We even had a few OSHA violation using this stuff. Use this tape on your camera stand.
Hi Rosalina, thank you for sharing some of yourself here. That’s is interesting about no sex drive at all. Is it possible that aspect of yourself was suppressed as a way to emotionally protect during formative years? Gaffers tape…. Thanks! We did just get some new equipment, so that situation will be improved.
Actually no, My frame of mind I knew as a kid that part of my body should have not been there. emotionally I was extremely angry because it was there, and at that age I always wonder how can I give birth to kids. Something wasn’t right. But I need to say I did not know at that time that sex and that part of my anatomy was related The other way around, until age27. The Company I was working for in North Hollywood was doing a 16mm to video tape transfer and It happen to be a porn company . That’s how I put two and two together because no one ever told me about life. And even then and to present time , I still have zero drive. Also , I’ve never had a preference to any same or opposite gender as well to this point.
I feel valid, although I don’t have any HRT but when I accept that I am trans, I admire women on how the make up, dress and shoes more then fantasying on having sex … which felt strange yet it felt very normal.
Screw labels! I hate labels.
Calista, you and your girlfriend are kindred spirits.
Does it matter what society calls your relationship?
Love to see you two smile, and love to hear Jenn’s giggle.
Be well, be safe, and be happy!
Sweet of you Sarah. Thank you.
I love the Meow mug
Thank you both for your kindness for each other as you find your way.
Thank you Deanna.
We love with our hearts, with our minds, and with our souls.
It is not the a book jacket or cover. It is what is inside that makes the book special.
Sex feels great, but it is mainly there for procreation.
Love the book analogy and what’s inside that really matters most.
@@TheRageEpisodes If only we could focus on the inside, the thing that makes us unique. Our outside appearances fades over time. But that which is inside endures.
I appreciate Calista pointing out sexuality isn't a choice. Telling gay people it's a preference is like taking things back to the 50s understanding of being gay.
On libido imo it's a stereotype that women have lower sex drives as we get put on hormonal birth control usually soon after puberty which also attributes to how "emotional" we get.
My libido is high compared to most women and I think it's because I got off birth control at age 18.
Thanks for sharing with us Rose.
Interesting topics, like the way it's not taboo anymore and we can talk about this
Thank you for watching and commenting.
Hormones, attraction, penetration- lots to review before commenting, so I'll just say this for now. In the previous episode of The Rage, several viewers commented on Jennifer's hair and hair color. I noticed today a subtle change. Jennifer has styled her hair with it falling partially over her forehead. To me this is a younger look and a bit more alluring. I find that attractive. Okay well, I better shut "my big keyboard" now before I say too much and get myself in trouble! (Written to bring a smile while being based in fact- hahaha.)
Hi David! Definitely brought a smile. Thanks for noticing and commenting. My hair is always a struggle!
You know what I want; I want a polycule. lol! A little more seriously, though I am serious about the polycule, sexual orientation and romantic attraction can be weird. I know that I've been cognizant of my attraction to people of genders both like my own and unlike since I was quite young. But you hide it because it's not always safe to be known to be like that. Hrm, I don't know if I couldn't be romantically attracted to the masculine, and I certainly don't in any case exclude trans binary or nonbinary folk as possible romantic attractions either. But I'm in no rush atm and just want to enjoy my current sexual freedom to explore my options.
Thanks for commenting Drayse. I learn something new everyday….”polycule”. 😊
Thank you so much! I had my zero depth v surgery 2 weeks ago, And I understand Calista perfectly. I don’t think penetration is THE ultimate pleasure and about cis women, we are part of them even if some of the society isn’t recognizing us as women, the way we feel that pushes us to not be attracted to them in the way it was before transitioning. I love your content! Thank you again 🥰
@tuli rz Calista and Jennifer are explaining that perhaps better than me! I’m not attracted to women like I was before transitioning I said.. it’s clear as water!! I’m still married to my wife before transition and both are lesbians now. Thank you for explaining what lesbians are though!!!
@@nicola3452 Zero depth is like hassle free surgery, no electrolysis, no vaginal dilation, low risk of having complications leading to other surgeries… But, I have to dilate my urethra to avoid stricture! I can manage that, not a big deal when using the right instrument and it’s like 2 to 3 minutes/ day.
It’s been 5 years since I transitioned and I have never had any desire to be penetrated neither being with a man, so the zero depth was the right one for me.
Kenzi, thank you for commenting and sharing a bit of your story.
Super episode, very relevant subject matter as I struggle thru my transition.
Thank you Yvonne. Hang in there!
I'm going on over 40 years on HRT, My SRS was done in the early 80's and to this day I am still the same. I was never attractived to either the same gender or opposite gender. My sex drive has always been below zero (absolutely not interested). Natural human nature just never interest me. I can proudly say I am 64 year old virgin. Calista, you have seen me on zoom on some Fridays (working on the 2" machine video tape recorder) that I am nothing to write home about. I'm lucky to be very unattractive to a point I don't have to be worried about being hit on from both genders. In the early 70's I was using illegally HRT until I started to see a doctor in the early 80's. The first year of HRT I was feeling better within myself but I was still extremely closed off from the public. Still stuck in the anti-social range even to this day. I'm completely cross wired differently.
Jennifer, I work for a TV station and gaffers tape works wonder for everything. We even had a few OSHA violation using this stuff. Use this tape on your camera stand.
Hi Rosalina, thank you for sharing some of yourself here. That’s is interesting about no sex drive at all. Is it possible that aspect of yourself was suppressed as a way to emotionally protect during formative years? Gaffers tape…. Thanks! We did just get some new equipment, so that situation will be improved.
Actually no, My frame of mind I knew as a kid that part of my body should have not been there. emotionally I was extremely angry because it was there, and at that age I always wonder how can I give birth to kids. Something wasn’t right. But I need to say I did not know at that time that sex and that part of my anatomy was related The other way around, until age27. The Company I was working for in North Hollywood was doing a 16mm to video tape transfer and It happen to be a porn company . That’s how I put two and two together because no one ever told me about life. And even then and to present time , I still have zero drive. Also , I’ve never had a preference to any same or opposite gender as well to this point.
@@rosalinafarias2757 thank you for your response.
Great discussion.
Thank you Dean.
I feel valid, although I don’t have any HRT but when I accept that I am trans, I admire women on how the make up, dress and shoes more then fantasying on having sex … which felt strange yet it felt very normal.
Thanks for sharing with us Evangeline.
Hi maybe you’re actually coming to the point there you are non binary? because your on a spectrum you can be anywhere? It gets a little confusing.
Thanks for commenting!
If I transition m to f I would be a lesbian.
Thanks for watching and sharing.