I lost my father a year back very suddenly..I cry for him everyday not complaining Allah but missing him as he was my counselor..Few days back I read a hadith that when Fatima (ra) met prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam before his death he told her not to cry as after this there will be no pain for him and she shall be the first one to meet him after his death..that hadith healed my pain...I still cry for him but it's because I miss him a lot in every aspect of my life..but I have adapted his way of doing zikr from asar to maghrib and sending him this gift everyday so that his status gets raised because of his daughter...😢
May Allah heal you❤ may Allah give your father the highest rank in jannah. And may Allah unite you with your father in the Hereafter Aameen sum aameen. Lots of prayers and love.
Alhamdulilla bhttt bhtttt bhtttt zada faida hua is leacture Sy main in Kuch dino Sy in m Sy aik problm main the koi khain Sy answer nhi mil rha ta but lgta ha Allah pak NY khasssssss mery liy yh leacture bhaja ha Mari har har bat ka har har problm ka answer mil gyaa solution mil gyaaaa❤❤❤❤❤ aur is Sy brh k bht Kuch mil gya mjy jazakallahukhairaa Muhammad Ali Bhai for this video🎉
No wonder that Mugeerah Luqman is the Son of this intelligent women . The big credit of mugeerah's personality goes to the parwarish this lady has done to her kids . Wonderful ,love from INDIAN OCCIPIED KASHMIR .
I'm a diagnosed clinical depression patient and at the start of this podcast i wanted validation and i was offensive that both speakers are negating and denying the anxiety and what we go through, but at the end of this podcast Alhamdulillah I'm determined to play my part, use the capacity Allah swt has given me as an amazing human being to fight my nafs and brain and change myself. Please if you read my comment say a silent prayer for myself 😊 Jazakallah both speakers May Allah swt bless you with peace of heart and mind
Muhammad Ali's voice is like healing . It's like marham . The words of Allah which Allah allows to be spoken from his tounge is healing . May Allah bless you Muhammad Ali . May Allah bless you . I'm going through a very depressed phase and honestly I don't know why am I sad and feeling depressed.
You can always work on it. Islamic belief gives us acceptance that this life is a test and Allah says he will test us. When we understand Allah sent it to us it allows us to see the wisdom beyond apparent aspect. I was bullied in my childhood and took that trauma all life until I embraced Islam and realised how that bullying was imp to make me a strong assertive individual who doesn’t allow bullying anymore.
@@abs96188wow i was also bullied a lot in my childhood It took me years to overcome and protect myself. I'm assertive but those people who bullied me, In front of them i get defensive and mess up completely. I need to overcome this yet
@@Aesthetic-a01 i am still suffering trying mybest to become assertive but yess i am defensive towarda such figures ,i seriously go through so much pain ,but have my hopes and trust high in.Allah
@@Aesthetic-a01 i am still suffering trying mybest to become assertive but yess i am defensive towarda such figures ,i seriously go through so much pain ,but have my hopes and trust high in.Allah
In this society if a girl is unmarried due to lack of modest people or a boy is unemployed despite trying or a couple is childless, society keeps making them believe they are worthless and unsuccessful. It brings about so much of deep wounds. Please touch on that how worldly success isn’t a final criteria to success
This topic is close to my heart. i lost my husband .very sudden... N i just message to whole youth club team individualy that how to come from this trauma.... I ll realy appreciate to listen this...i have two daughters n the journey with him was just 6 to 7 years
JAZAKALLAH O KHAIR ✨... Aunty when my brain got tangled with some thoughts I start cleaning and organizing my house or work place even more precisely & ALHAMDULILAH when I observe everything is at place and neat then before, my brain reflexively relaxes. If then be it linger on's I adapt silence so I may not react wrong , go on morning walk, work on my prayers, always ponder ALLAH has given me a title 'Muslim', this is my direction.
Mashaallah....aap dono ne bahut behtreen tarike se baaton ko sameta hai.... alhamdulillah Bahut sahi kaha ki her heeling Qur'an ke zariye se hota hai....aaj hum sab apne problem ko khud solve kerna chahte hai... Qur'an se heeling hoti hai is per yaqeen nhi hai ❤❤❤
Mera bada bachcha severely autistic child hai 15 yrs ka bistar par hai aur dusra bachcha delivery k 21st day inteqal ho gaya..Mujhe us waqt yehi hadees yaad aayi thi jo Ali bhai ne batai aur Dua padhli thi..maine Sabr kiya kabhi nashukri nahi ki aur depression bhi nahi hua kyuki mere paas deen ka Ilm tha ALLAH par bharosa tha aur Alhamdulillah mere aur teen bachche hain aur sab achche hain..
Ali Bhai Aunty Never Stop Your Precious Podcasts.... May ALLAH bless you all The success in this world nd akhiraah..... Sooo helpfull Lecture... Lots lot's of love From india....❤❤❤❤❤❤
MashaAllah aj ka topic bht sukon itminan dynai wala tha beshuk sb k liye koe na koe point ap dono k batai in sha Allah mufeed hogi is topic pai agai bh karai podcast .jazak Allah khyrun kaserun
Alhamdulillah Masha Allah... learn lots of things & try to implement to my life... Jazakallah khairan Kaseera Ali Bhai & Jazakilla khairan Kaseera Aunty...🤲
I am 29 years old from Pakistan,I have Complex Ptsd since 2016 living With trauma is just like a living hell But Alhamdulillah I have been in Europe since 2015 and Tomorrow I am departing to Pakistan after 9 years. Life is very tough specialy for the people who,re dealing with some kind of mental disorders
Mai pareeshN nhi bht ziada confuse aur itni bikhar chuki hoon k ab drd phlay se hi mehsoos honay lgta hai . Kch ghlt decisions aur un k circumstances bht buray niklay . Kch time bhu bura tha kch log bhi buray milay kch mai bui buri thi . Bs time guzer gya aur guilt hai bss . Parents bhi foat hu gaye aur pyar bhi . Bs Allah pak ne sambhala hua ha
Ik jab humse kuch galat decisions hojate hai life mein aur baadmein Jab hum uspar afsos krte hai toh guilt badhte hi jata Bas Allah hamare liye bht aasani kare aur hamari galtiyo ko maaf karder
کچھ معجزے آپ کی زندگی میں آپ کے اللہ پر توکل کی وجہ سے ہو سکتے ہیں۔ جب آپ کو یہ سمجھ نہ آئے کہ کیا کرنا ہے، تو بس اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھیں کہ وہ آپ کے لیے حالات بہتر بنا دے گا۔ آپ کا توکل کبھی ضائع نہیں ہوگا۔ اگر آپ اپنے توکل کو مضبوط رکھیں گے، تو ہمیشہ کامیاب رہیں گے۔
Like you have a cut on skin it leaves a scar Exactly same when you have brain demage due to stress it leaves scar on your brain Post traumatic stress disorder is traumatic syndrome
Mere father ko dad month pehle heart attack hua hai 2 stents Dale hai. Hamne kabhi une bed par ni dekha bimar ni dekha is trah se. Wo time he nahi bhula jaata jisse ham gujre hai bar bar yaad aata hai wo sab. Jab doc ne reports batai thi tab kya feel hua tha wo time to bar bar aah nikalwata hai. Hamare jo bhi hai papa he hai bhai chhota hai. Har time dar lagta hai chah k bhi us time se ni nikla jaata
I am also going through extremely depression hopelessness and anxiety at this time I am 25 year's old on top of it my parents are forcing me to get married I am unable to Handel myself and I don't know how to say them what I am going through 😢😢 plz pray for me I don't want to get married but the society we live in here people make your life hell if you don't get married
I also passing through this kind of worse situation a although at a time i say حسبنا اللہ ونعم الوکیل Due to which i am still alive.i don't wanna discuss it with people b\c we only complain to Allah.here i think situation is totally drastic and i am looking for guidance from a religious person like Sir M.Ali.i am totally helpless even don't know how to explain my issue.plz pray for me.and yes it is true it is not constrained to minutes only its duration is even upto years.may Allah forgive all of us and heal us ameen😢
Hamare muashre me zulm hote bhi hain ,,guid karne wale bhi buzdil hain ,sehte sehte insan iman wala hae to ise azmaish se jodlega ,aese me Allah se jodna ap jaeson ka kam hae aur ham is ko ham insha Allah logon tak pahunchaenge 'us chanel ka nam hi Allah se jodne ka kuch rakhden Jazakallah khair
PTSD and CPTSD are extremely sensitive topics while both of you are tackling it so casually. Childhood incidents involving domestic abuse, sexual abuse and similar incidents leave a huge impact on human beings. Not able to cope up with nightmares doesn't mean that you are not emotionally intelligent enough or you haven't accepted it. It means your nervous system is dysregulated to such extent that it still assumes that you are reliving the trauma in the present. It subconsciously keeps you trapped making it difficult to operate in real life.
Trauma is a heavy word. It should not be used lightly, I agree. However, Trauma whether it is PTSD or CPTSD leaves a lasting impact on an individual if not dealt with earlier. It is worse for when traumas are experienced in childhood where you are emotionally immature and need adults in your life to co-regulate. The list of effects on an adult from a childhood is never ending.What about the coping mechanisms? Fight/ flight/ freeze/ fawn? People are so unaware of their own Traumas, some unfortunately become the monsters themselves.. I'd recommend you look deeper into the matter. It isn't as simple as 12 mins. How do you tell a child to get over a trauma say a sexual assault?? Please be mindful of such topics. This video itself can be quite triggering honestly, although I'm sure, you're trying to help your audience. Getting to know your true self, accepting the traumas in your life while connecting with Allah seems like a way out. May Allah help those who suffer in silence.
DUA FOR WORRY AND GRIEF دار DARUSSALAM اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْهَمَّ وَالْحُزْنِ وَالْعَجْزِ وَالْكَسَلِ وَالْجُبْنِ وَالْبُخْلِ وَضَلَعِ الدِّيْنِ وَغَلَبَةِ الرِّجَالِ "O ALLAH! I SEEK REFUGE WITH YOU FROM WORRY AND GRIEF, FROM INCAPACITY AND LAZINESS, FROM COWARDICE AND MISERLINESS, FROM BEING HEAVILY IN DEBT AND FROM BEING OVERPOWERED BY (OTHER) MEN."
I've been in a dark childhood i was An average student and living in joint family with 7 uncles as my father was elder and i was the eldest girl in house and i was been beaten whenever they get chance to my thighs were chobed when i was just 10 or 11 not only while studying Once I was watching cartoon one uncle cane insisde and told me why u watching tv beat me as blood came out of my nose took me to washroom and washed told me not to tell anyone otherwise ill kill you. Not only this once i Sharped pencil and by mistake i throw the dust on mat one uncle made me pick that with my tounge while i use to pick that he used to beat with me book on my head my eyes were blured i literally cant imagine this😭💔 Once thn i was swimming in pond bihind my house one uncle came and beat me with stick infroth of everyone untill my legs got red rashed💔💔 I can't write much there a book i can write on this I cant get over this 💔
@myhobby4091 my mother knows every single thing and she did fight for me but she had a lot of burden of house on her shoulders so Everytime she wasn't there and my father wasn't there he was doing job far from home
just make yrself strong and ab aap mouke talash kro ar un logo ki ruhh tk zakhmi krdo apne bato se v ar apni success sister aise log ko ehsas dilana jruri hota h wrna ye log kv ni smzte
جب تک اپنی مرضی کا لائف پارٹنر نہ ملے شادی نہیں کرنی چاہیے ۔۔۔ ارینج میرج تو بہت ہی فضول چیز ہے اس میں لائف پارٹنر نہیں ملتا بلکہ وہ بھی پوری ساس ہوتا ہے جس سے نمٹنے میں ہی تمام زندگی گزر جاتی ہے ۔۔۔۔
Achi guftugu thi magar aik baat ye bhi hai k agar kisi k work place ya spouse ya in laws etc k masle aap ko serious nahi lag rahe sun kar to iska ye matlab nahi k aisa he ho.. Har kisi ko apna dukh he sab se bara lagta hai.. Please try to feel empathy with them
Lekin hamari society m councel nh kiya jata ulta apko or chera jata h apki nakamiyan apki rejections or negative experiences ko or zyada chera jata h Or wo cheezein triggers ban k gusse ki surat nikalti hn Or pta nh kab tak ye cycle chlta rehta h fight flight or freeze Or therapy or counseling itni expensive h banda jae kahan
I wanted to become an electronic engineer but due to family issues and lack of support from my father i ended up pursuing commerce. This field didn't suit me and I got stuck in a small job. Now that I'm married, I still wonder why I didn’t follow my dream to become an engineer. Afsoos Afsoos i thinking a lot about This sometime i so worry and make myself punishment
Assalamualaikum ali bhai aapne jo shadi ke bt share ki yahi soch kr maine shadi ki thi lekin aaj ye halat ho gye hai ki shadi ke bad husband hote hue bhi akele life hai is pr bhi discuss kariye
My childhood trauma is totally of different nature..how a real mother could spoil n ruin childhood of her kids..how mother keeps away from love of real father to her own daughter in a very manipulative n planned way..n still doing all these things.. people can't understand..they will take it as disrespect of mom..but it's reality...bap ko betion k khilaf or betion ko bap k khilaf krna...in love of son..so that father apni property ka kuch b part daughters ko na dy day..how this trauma could be healed..we all suffered..
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"And do not be like those who forgot Allah."
[Quran 59:19]
I lost my father a year back very suddenly..I cry for him everyday not complaining Allah but missing him as he was my counselor..Few days back I read a hadith that when Fatima (ra) met prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam before his death he told her not to cry as after this there will be no pain for him and she shall be the first one to meet him after his death..that hadith healed my pain...I still cry for him but it's because I miss him a lot in every aspect of my life..but I have adapted his way of doing zikr from asar to maghrib and sending him this gift everyday so that his status gets raised because of his daughter...😢
Darood shareef heals ❤🤲🏻🤍
May Allah heal you❤ may Allah give your father the highest rank in jannah. And may Allah unite you with your father in the Hereafter Aameen sum aameen. Lots of prayers and love.
Mashallah ❤
Alhamdulilla bhttt bhtttt bhtttt zada faida hua is leacture Sy main in Kuch dino Sy in m Sy aik problm main the koi khain Sy answer nhi mil rha ta but lgta ha Allah pak NY khasssssss mery liy yh leacture bhaja ha Mari har har bat ka har har problm ka answer mil gyaa solution mil gyaaaa❤❤❤❤❤ aur is Sy brh k bht Kuch mil gya mjy jazakallahukhairaa Muhammad Ali Bhai for this video🎉
No wonder that Mugeerah Luqman is the Son of this intelligent women .
The big credit of mugeerah's personality goes to the parwarish this lady has done to her kids .
Wonderful ,love from INDIAN OCCIPIED KASHMIR .
❤
Sahi hai
Also from India occupied Kashmir
Yeah. , الحمد لله
I'm a diagnosed clinical depression patient and at the start of this podcast i wanted validation and i was offensive that both speakers are negating and denying the anxiety and what we go through, but at the end of this podcast Alhamdulillah I'm determined to play my part, use the capacity Allah swt has given me as an amazing human being to fight my nafs and brain and change myself. Please if you read my comment say a silent prayer for myself 😊
Jazakallah both speakers
May Allah swt bless you with peace of heart and mind
May Allah help you and heal you.
Allah ta'ala apko sehat day shifa day salamti day sukoon day Aameen..Allah ta'ala apke liye asaaniya kare Aameen ✨
Allah apko dili or zehni sakoon dy.. aafiat dy.. apko himmat dy apny thoughts sy larny ki.. ameen sum ameen.. or mjhe bhi.. 😊
@Aesthetic-a01 pls look into trauma issues and education on it, it is a new domain and can answer some of the issues u r facing
Muhammad Ali's voice is like healing . It's like marham . The words of Allah which Allah allows to be spoken from his tounge is healing . May Allah bless you Muhammad Ali . May Allah bless you . I'm going through a very depressed phase and honestly I don't know why am I sad and feeling depressed.
Allah ta'ala apko shifa day Aameen sukoon day Aameen..Allah ta'ala apke liye asaaniya kare Aameen ✨
@yayshelwa3526 jazakillah Khair for your kind and humble wishes .may Allah bless you my dear ❤️
@@foodistan2475 thank you..Allah ta'ala apko sehat o salamti shifa day..apni hifazat mai rakhay Aameen..Allah ta'ala bless you forever Aameen ❤️ ✨
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I wish I can spread islam like Muhammad Ali
Physical,mentle and sexual abuse from childhood ka bht bura trauma hota hai ,it doesnt leave u as it effects becomes a part of ur personality
You can always work on it. Islamic belief gives us acceptance that this life is a test and Allah says he will test us. When we understand Allah sent it to us it allows us to see the wisdom beyond apparent aspect. I was bullied in my childhood and took that trauma all life until I embraced Islam and realised how that bullying was imp to make me a strong assertive individual who doesn’t allow bullying anymore.
@@abs96188wow i was also bullied a lot in my childhood
It took me years to overcome and protect myself. I'm assertive but those people who bullied me, In front of them i get defensive and mess up completely. I need to overcome this yet
@@Aesthetic-a01 i am still suffering trying mybest to become assertive but yess i am defensive towarda such figures ,i seriously go through so much pain ,but have my hopes and trust high in.Allah
@@Aesthetic-a01 i am still suffering trying mybest to become assertive but yess i am defensive towarda such figures ,i seriously go through so much pain ,but have my hopes and trust high in.Allah
@@Noor_ul_ainAKA May Allah swt make it easy for us
اللهمَّ مَتِّعْناَ بِأَسْمَاعِنا وَأَبْصَارِِنَا وقُوَّاتِنَا مَا أَحْيَيْتَنا"
In this society if a girl is unmarried due to lack of modest people or a boy is unemployed despite trying or a couple is childless, society keeps making them believe they are worthless and unsuccessful. It brings about so much of deep wounds. Please touch on that how worldly success isn’t a final criteria to success
May Allah remove all your pains, worries and bring you great happiness in this life and eternal happiness in the hereafter Ameen.🤲 SUM Ameen.🤲
Ameen
Bought the book! La-tahzan .. what an amazing read!
JAZAK ALLAH KHAIRAN ..
Baji Asiya .. you are amazing!
Jazakallah khair.Alhamdulillah aap kai podcast sai positive thinking creat hoti hai 🌺🖊️
This topic is close to my heart. i lost my husband .very sudden...
N i just message to whole youth club team individualy that how to come from this trauma....
I ll realy appreciate to listen this...i have two daughters n the journey with him was just 6 to 7 years
Sister have hope in Allah and talk to him He will definitely make easy for u...
@mdnasirequebal1335 ameen
JAZAKALLAH O KHAIR ✨... Aunty when my brain got tangled with some thoughts I start cleaning and organizing my house or work place even more precisely & ALHAMDULILAH when I observe everything is at place and neat then before, my brain reflexively relaxes. If then be it linger on's I adapt silence so I may not react wrong , go on morning walk, work on my prayers, always ponder ALLAH has given me a title 'Muslim', this is my direction.
وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا🤍
Mashaallah....aap dono ne bahut behtreen tarike se baaton ko sameta hai.... alhamdulillah
Bahut sahi kaha ki her heeling Qur'an ke zariye se hota hai....aaj hum sab apne problem ko khud solve kerna chahte hai... Qur'an se heeling hoti hai is per yaqeen nhi hai ❤❤❤
Mera bada bachcha severely autistic child hai 15 yrs ka bistar par hai aur dusra bachcha delivery k 21st day inteqal ho gaya..Mujhe us waqt yehi hadees yaad aayi thi jo Ali bhai ne batai aur Dua padhli thi..maine Sabr kiya kabhi nashukri nahi ki aur depression bhi nahi hua kyuki mere paas deen ka Ilm tha ALLAH par bharosa tha aur Alhamdulillah mere aur teen bachche hain aur sab achche hain..
Ali Bhai Aunty Never Stop Your Precious Podcasts.... May ALLAH bless you all The success in this world nd akhiraah..... Sooo helpfull Lecture... Lots lot's of love From india....❤❤❤❤❤❤
Assalam o alaikum brother apne hamesha hi masail ka hal btaya hai May Allah bless you
MashaAllah aj ka topic bht sukon itminan dynai wala tha beshuk sb k liye koe na koe point ap dono k batai in sha Allah mufeed hogi is topic pai agai bh karai podcast .jazak Allah khyrun kaserun
Alhamdulillah
Masha Allah... learn lots of things & try to implement to my life... Jazakallah khairan Kaseera Ali Bhai & Jazakilla khairan Kaseera Aunty...🤲
JazakAllah khairan may Allah swt blessed you all for your great reminder.
Masha Allah Alhamdulillah. I have red 3rd time complete fabulous Book.
MAshaAllah zabardast topic, JazakaAllah, first taime is topic pe bat hoe,,,hr insan ke ly zarore topic ,,,, great 👍
Masha Allah buhut achi baten discuss ki hen❤
Superb superb superb JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
I am 29 years old from Pakistan,I have Complex Ptsd since 2016 living With trauma is just like a living hell But Alhamdulillah I have been in Europe since 2015 and Tomorrow I am departing to Pakistan after 9 years. Life is very tough specialy for the people who,re dealing with some kind of mental disorders
Kya apse bat ho skti hai
@aamirsohail8756 Yes tell me
@@HamzaKhan-sy2vd not many know cptsd much the knowledge on this can help many ppl a lot
@aneeqaqureshi4223 this one. Khanqah: For Trauma, Wound, Emotions Healing
An incredible and very good podcast jazakallah kahir.
Assalam o alaikum... Life is a big deception ..and it is very difficult to live..
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Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.
Main aj main na hoti agar main un sab hardships se na guzarti
@@Noor_ul_ainAKAAllah ap ke haq mei behtri ka mamla farmaey sister Ameen .
Jazakallah it helps us alot...🎉
51:25 ❤ subhanallah
Mai pareeshN nhi bht ziada confuse aur itni bikhar chuki hoon k ab drd phlay se hi mehsoos honay lgta hai . Kch ghlt decisions aur un k circumstances bht buray niklay . Kch time bhu bura tha kch log bhi buray milay kch mai bui buri thi . Bs time guzer gya aur guilt hai bss . Parents bhi foat hu gaye aur pyar bhi . Bs Allah pak ne sambhala hua ha
Ik jab humse kuch galat decisions hojate hai life mein aur baadmein Jab hum uspar afsos krte hai toh guilt badhte hi jata Bas Allah hamare liye bht aasani kare aur hamari galtiyo ko maaf karder
@@amtulhafeez7863 ameen
Jazakallah khair ❤
Very informative and much needed podcast.. jazakallah khair
One of the best topic . Thank you so much 😊
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزأ ❤
Great n most needed podcast❤
کچھ معجزے آپ کی زندگی میں آپ کے اللہ پر توکل کی وجہ سے ہو سکتے ہیں۔ جب آپ کو یہ سمجھ نہ آئے کہ کیا کرنا ہے، تو بس اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھیں کہ وہ آپ کے لیے حالات بہتر بنا دے گا۔ آپ کا توکل کبھی ضائع نہیں ہوگا۔ اگر آپ اپنے توکل کو مضبوط رکھیں گے، تو ہمیشہ کامیاب رہیں گے۔
Excellent 👌..we need this type of video jazakallah khair ❤
Jazak Allahu khaira, Lots of duas for yoy
Jazak Allah ❤❤
جزاک اللّٰہ خیر ♥️
وَّ ذَکِّرۡ فَاِنَّ الذِّکۡرٰی تَنۡفَعُ الۡمُؤۡمِنِیۡنَ ﴿۵۵﴾
"And remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believer" ( Al-Quran 51:55)
JazakAllah ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Jazakillahu khairan wa kaseera ❤
Jazak ALLAH
I was eagerly waiting for your new podcast
Mashallah allah bohot buland kare ap logo ko,ameen❤
Sir very helpful you are doing excellent work
Tremendous job
Barakallah❤
Like you have a cut on skin it leaves a scar
Exactly same when you have brain demage due to stress it leaves scar on your brain
Post traumatic stress disorder is traumatic syndrome
Jazak Allah both❤
JazakAllah
Mashallah ❤❤
Mere father ko dad month pehle heart attack hua hai 2 stents Dale hai. Hamne kabhi une bed par ni dekha bimar ni dekha is trah se. Wo time he nahi bhula jaata jisse ham gujre hai bar bar yaad aata hai wo sab. Jab doc ne reports batai thi tab kya feel hua tha wo time to bar bar aah nikalwata hai. Hamare jo bhi hai papa he hai bhai chhota hai. Har time dar lagta hai chah k bhi us time se ni nikla jaata
Pls mention all these duas with references in the description
*Very good question*
JazakAllah khair
every week hona chahye ye program
I am also going through extremely depression hopelessness and anxiety at this time I am 25 year's old on top of it my parents are forcing me to get married I am unable to Handel myself and I don't know how to say them what I am going through 😢😢 plz pray for me I don't want to get married but the society we live in here people make your life hell if you don't get married
Sister.
Pray Tahajjud
@ayeshasiddiqa2331 nothing is working for me
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Don't get stressed sister...aapka naam kya h?
Aor kya aap sister hi hain
Ya brother hain
So that I will talk to you personally
@ayeshasiddiqa2331 I am a girl from kashmir india
I also passing through this kind of worse situation a although at a time i say حسبنا اللہ ونعم الوکیل
Due to which i am still alive.i don't wanna discuss it with people b\c we only complain to Allah.here i think situation is totally drastic and i am looking for guidance from a religious person like Sir M.Ali.i am totally helpless even don't know how to explain my issue.plz pray for me.and yes it is true it is not constrained to minutes only its duration is even upto years.may Allah forgive all of us and heal us ameen😢
La Tahzan(Don't Be Sad): Aaidh ibn Abdullah al-Qarni, Arabic
Beautiful
Jazakallah khair
So relatable talk
22:35 actually it is in surah mudasir ayat 11 to 26
Amzing
Love from india 🎉
Very informative video 😢
Dr Asiya ma'am, do you provide counselling?
Hamare muashre me zulm hote bhi hain ,,guid karne wale bhi buzdil hain ,sehte sehte insan iman wala hae to ise azmaish se jodlega ,aese me Allah se jodna ap jaeson ka kam hae aur ham is ko ham insha Allah logon tak pahunchaenge 'us chanel ka nam hi Allah se jodne ka kuch rakhden
Jazakallah khair
women ky liyea best field kon se h ? please answer me
PTSD and CPTSD are extremely sensitive topics while both of you are tackling it so casually. Childhood incidents involving domestic abuse, sexual abuse and similar incidents leave a huge impact on human beings. Not able to cope up with nightmares doesn't mean that you are not emotionally intelligent enough or you haven't accepted it. It means your nervous system is dysregulated to such extent that it still assumes that you are reliving the trauma in the present. It subconsciously keeps you trapped making it difficult to operate in real life.
Dr Ashia ❤❤❤
Kindly dua ka verse mention kardijiye plz
Ya allah ye toh mere bare me bata rahi hai 4 saal se mai trouma me hoo namaz Qur'an ibadat sab karke v mughe sukun nahi milta 😢
Trauma is a heavy word. It should not be used lightly, I agree. However, Trauma whether it is PTSD or CPTSD leaves a lasting impact on an individual if not dealt with earlier. It is worse for when traumas are experienced in childhood where you are emotionally immature and need adults in your life to co-regulate. The list of effects on an adult from a childhood is never ending.What about the coping mechanisms? Fight/ flight/ freeze/ fawn? People are so unaware of their own Traumas, some unfortunately become the monsters themselves..
I'd recommend you look deeper into the matter. It isn't as simple as 12 mins. How do you tell a child to get over a trauma say a sexual assault??
Please be mindful of such topics.
This video itself can be quite triggering honestly, although I'm sure, you're trying to help your audience.
Getting to know your true self, accepting the traumas in your life while connecting with Allah seems like a way out. May Allah help those who suffer in silence.
Exactly
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I am your sister I am going through extremely though time I am extremely depressed plz pray for me I am feeling worthlessness 😢😢😢
May Allah make it easy for you❤
MAY ALLAH GIVE YOU SHIFA
After hardship comes ease
I think Ma'am should start her own channel for women so that the prestend ser for women
Ali bhai jo b dua btaty han usko screen pe sath show kiya krain … arabic version and translation
DUA FOR WORRY AND GRIEF
دار
DARUSSALAM
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْهَمَّ وَالْحُزْنِ وَالْعَجْزِ وَالْكَسَلِ وَالْجُبْنِ وَالْبُخْلِ وَضَلَعِ الدِّيْنِ وَغَلَبَةِ الرِّجَالِ
"O ALLAH! I SEEK REFUGE WITH YOU FROM WORRY AND GRIEF, FROM INCAPACITY AND LAZINESS, FROM COWARDICE AND MISERLINESS, FROM BEING HEAVILY IN DEBT AND FROM BEING OVERPOWERED BY (OTHER) MEN."
I've been in a dark childhood i was An average student and living in joint family with 7 uncles as my father was elder and i was the eldest girl in house and i was been beaten whenever they get chance to my thighs were chobed when i was just 10 or 11 not only while studying
Once I was watching cartoon one uncle cane insisde and told me why u watching tv beat me as blood came out of my nose took me to washroom and washed told me not to tell anyone otherwise ill kill you.
Not only this once i Sharped pencil and by mistake i throw the dust on mat one uncle made me pick that with my tounge while i use to pick that he used to beat with me book on my head my eyes were blured i literally cant imagine this😭💔
Once thn i was swimming in pond bihind my house one uncle came and beat me with stick infroth of everyone untill my legs got red rashed💔💔
I can't write much there a book i can write on this
I cant get over this 💔
Where is your parents why they are not protecting you 😢
@myhobby4091 my mother knows every single thing and she did fight for me but she had a lot of burden of house on her shoulders so Everytime she wasn't there and my father wasn't there he was doing job far from home
just make yrself strong and ab aap mouke talash kro ar un logo ki ruhh tk zakhmi krdo apne bato se v ar apni success sister aise log ko ehsas dilana jruri hota h wrna ye log kv ni smzte
@@bibisajida-sf3ob inshallah I'm working hard 🥺
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جب تک اپنی مرضی کا لائف پارٹنر نہ ملے شادی نہیں کرنی چاہیے ۔۔۔ ارینج میرج تو بہت ہی فضول چیز ہے اس میں لائف پارٹنر نہیں ملتا بلکہ وہ بھی پوری ساس ہوتا ہے جس سے نمٹنے میں ہی تمام زندگی گزر جاتی ہے ۔۔۔۔
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Salam,
Could you please provide the Spotify link to the MA podcast? Jazakhallah
Achi guftugu thi magar aik baat ye bhi hai k agar kisi k work place ya spouse ya in laws etc k masle aap ko serious nahi lag rahe sun kar to iska ye matlab nahi k aisa he ho.. Har kisi ko apna dukh he sab se bara lagta hai.. Please try to feel empathy with them
59:30 koi b 4 ruku prh skte h ?? Ya koi specific ruku h ?? Plz guide
Provide time stamp
Lekin hamari society m councel nh kiya jata ulta apko or chera jata h apki nakamiyan apki rejections or negative experiences ko or zyada chera jata h
Or wo cheezein triggers ban k gusse ki surat nikalti hn
Or pta nh kab tak ye cycle chlta rehta h fight flight or freeze
Or therapy or counseling itni expensive h banda jae kahan
I wanted to become an electronic engineer but due to family issues and lack of support from my father i ended up pursuing commerce. This field didn't suit me and I got stuck in a small job. Now that I'm married, I still wonder why I didn’t follow my dream to become an engineer.
Afsoos Afsoos i thinking a lot about This sometime i so worry and make myself punishment
Main bohot presan ho......personal kuch issue lekar
Assalamualaikum ali bhai aapne jo shadi ke bt share ki yahi soch kr maine shadi ki thi lekin aaj ye halat ho gye hai ki shadi ke bad husband hote hue bhi akele life hai is pr bhi discuss kariye
DUA KA TIMESTAMP PLEASE SHARE
Book recommendation: don't be sad
Not a criticism but the podcast was all over the place. M. Ali wanted to talk about losing loved one but the conversation went to another tangent.
Ye dua jo btayi gyi please koi mention kr dy comment's mn
Trauma ufff
My childhood trauma is totally of different nature..how a real mother could spoil n ruin childhood of her kids..how mother keeps away from love of real father to her own daughter in a very manipulative n planned way..n still doing all these things.. people can't understand..they will take it as disrespect of mom..but it's reality...bap ko betion k khilaf or betion ko bap k khilaf krna...in love of son..so that father apni property ka kuch b part daughters ko na dy day..how this trauma could be healed..we all suffered..
I am totally agree with you,I also face alot ,
Childhood trauma is real we cannot deny it have to heal it
Trauma = Sadma (=ٹراما = صدماہ/سدما)