I agree with Drew's take on Deison's partner. As a sibling you cant voice your opinion on their partner when you notice the bad shit because your sibling will always take that person's side. You will create a wedge between the 2 of you and all you can do is just wait it out and be there. You wait till its all over and THEN light that shit up lol
Absolutely true, even more so than with friends. Idk about Deison’s ex but an ab*ser will actively try to isolate you from your loved ones and turn you against them. So anything you say against that person will make your loved one retreat further into the relationship. It’s tough.
Literally tearing up at work at Drew's story about Pili listening to Donovan's playlist...just the fact he wanted to go to your little brother's football practice and be supportive?!?! 🥹🥹🥹
i love the relationship you guys have between your family and each other im gay and latina and wish i had that relationship with my fam i moved six hours away for university as soon as i could and now being back for the holidays has me feeling like a kid being talked down to all over again and two idiot girls is one of the few things getting be through right now so thank you guys (love from canada
I hope it gets better mama, I know hispanic families can create super toxic environments. I hope everything goes well at school, I promise it gets easier, when it comes to hispanic parents the easiest thing is to learn to ignore them, even if it's not a permanent solution its a good temporary one until you're in a position where you don't rely on them. I wish you the best
I had the same issues with my hispanic family and it’s so tough. It took time but my mom, sister, and abuelita came around and now they’re fiercely supportive. I have some support from a tía and some cousins as well, unfortunately had to cut off a lot of my family. But let’s be honest I don’t like the relatives I cut off so I don’t care about their approval lmao. It gets better and you’ll find amazing chosen family too ❤️ distancing yourself is the right move to focus on yourself while your family figures it out.
Also! Wakanda forever!!! That is by far a top tier movie 😢 the plot and characters were so strong! I left crying I watched it twice…being Mexican it was so great seeing the history of indigenous people from Latin America and giving them a spotlight… it doesn’t happen often
not me crying over Drew’s explanation on why Pili is the one 😭😭😭 you guys both deserve all the happiness this world has to offer it, just makes me heart so happy 🫶🏼 I love you guys and this community I’ve found since finding this podcast 🥲 I wish I could come see you guys on tour!!! hopefully next time I can make it workout 💕
I 100% agree with the light weight thing. Nothing is better than taking 2 sips of a vodka redbull and being comfortably tipsy meanwhile you got the peeps who need 50 shots to feel anything. The elite combo is being high and having just one small drink, best of both worlds
5:40-6:00 🙌🏼🙌🏼 this is exactly why I love you two. Drew already said it but the quicker people realize this, the happier they will be! I think that the younger generation will grasp this concept and become UNSTOPPABLE! I’m so excited. 🎉🍾
i really love this episode, largely related to drew and deison talking about their partners and what it’s like to support your friend/family member/close person when you don’t like their partner
951 girlies rise up!! I’m from Moreno Valley (lived in Fontana til I was 10) and no one ever knows where that is, unless they’re also from socal and even then, I have to say “near Riverside and San Bernardino” and then they’re like “ohh, okay” I live in Georgia now but I love when you guys mention the IE bc I’m so proud to also be from there
I completely understand the Sagittarian urge to completely relinquish personal ambition for collective-couple-ambition when you're in a committed relationship. I've found a way to make it work that isn't all-consuming since my partner cares deeply about me and wants me to be successful on my own terms, in my own way. It may help that he's also a water sign. It seems like it will be an uphill battle for Deis since she has such a big heart and so much love to give. Don't pour it all out at once, girl! When someone is the one and loves you for you they won't want to monopolize all your love, energy, and focus. I believe in you and love for you in 2023! I hope you both are as successful and prosperous as you hope to be this year, and I hope this is a big year for decompression, unconditional love, acceptance, and boundaries, and more Squid pics for all of us Two Idiot Stans (Two Idiot Girlies? Is that too personal?) 💓💞💖
Drew knowing the tea about the Santa Ana girlies??? 😭💕 born and raised in SA, and moving back in the summer. I remember for a long time I would get looks when I said where I was from but I got to an age where I wore it with pride because every other town in the OC is cookie cutter as fuck with no personality. I lived on the SA and Tustin border, so I lived in two different worlds at school and at home. I hate the gentrification that’s happening now around 4th st and it’s been pretty tough. Fellow Santa Ana girly here babes 💕💘 we love to see it, so happy for how far you’ve come!!
i’ve been binge watching all these episodes from the most recent one you posted and i just have to say that you guys make me wish SO BAD that i had a sister or even a brother. i’m an only child and my childhood was pretty lonely (lots of playing all by myself cuz the friends i did make were always mean to me 🤪) and i just wish i had someone in my family who i’m as close to like you two. you guys are so fucking funny 🖤
Love the way Deison, you recognised the red flags although in hindsight, in your ex relationship. Also Drew, just as her sis being there even though it was probably hard to bite your tongue at times over the years because you love her so much. That sisterly bond is so beautiful to see. I too went through something similar but with my younger sister but I had to wait 7 years for her to realise things on her own. I'm glad you are free. Drew I'm so glad you & Pili have each other! Side note, I wish I was a lightweight with alcohol haha I haven't learnt my limit yet because my body digests it too quick then I break my seal lol. Always love your podcasts, thank you!
I totally get what Drew says about Pili, as a Mexican and older sibling I relate to being fiercely protective of my family especially my little sister. I also heavily relate to giving anything for my mom as the matriarch and needing a partner who understands that. My ex husband was a white American and just didn’t get that. He had such a weird toxic relationship with his family and couldn’t understand how close I am to my family. Like he couldn’t live without his family despite wanting to, I can live without my family but don’t want to. That was a pattern I dealt with when I dated men, particularly with white men.
I completely relate to talking to the people I’m close with about everything but ✨ intimate ✨ details. As far as I’m concerned, every single one of my close family and friends are virgins.
You know how when you work places you get sick of the food? Well I worked at islands and their food is so good I still eat there. Here's a hack, get the tenders tossed in Buffalo sauce.
i fuck with drew superhero hot takes because it reminds me how I made chaos to my DC/marvel loving uncle about "does superwomen count as a demigod since shes been brought to life by zeus?" and he got so mad at me I was arguing back laughing 🤣🤣
The feet kick thing dogs do (my dog does it too): dogs have sweat glands in their paws and they are spreading their sent for other dogs. That’s also why when your dog haven’t been bathed in a bit their paws smell like Fritos, it’s their sweat 🤷🏻♀️
I’m so proud of being born and raised in Santa Ana. So much culture here. Had no idea y’all were born and raised here too! I also lived in Corona for a year, it was not for me though :(
Finally catching up on these eps after a crazy holiday season! I totally resonate with the doing things because your mom wants you to!!! I can't tell you how many of my brother's soccer and basketball games I went to throughout my life (and out of town!!!) because I was expected to. even after moving back in, I still went, because he was my baby brother and I knew there was an expectation from my mom that I would go
i live in socal, in one of the most republican & stuck up area. you guys talking about how orange county doesn’t include santa ana is sooo true 😭 santa ana is where all the good places are though. my area is horrible and i’ve lived here my whole life. whatever you imagine socal to be like, it’s prob worse
I’m from the IE and no one ever knows what tf that is 😂 Why have I had that exact conversation with everyone who asks where I’m from. My line now is just I lived halfway between LA and San Diego lol
Waking up @ 5am to this lovely update, is life 🍾✨❤️ Happy New Year, 2 Gorgeous Angels!!! Tribal tattoos😍 I've literally wanted a sea turtle on my spine for 2 decades, still want it. Do it! 🥰🌊🐢🤗
Honestly the high traffic Adventureland women’s restrooms are fire bc there’s like 100 stalls lol. But my fiancé said the men’s side there is terrible.
there’s an islands in AZ & my bf has been non stop bothering me to go but I kept saying no. THE SECOND you innnflluueeenced me to go, now I keep asking to go !!!
59:00 I don’t as never a pick me girl but I didn’t find out how to get matches on dating apps (for hookups). I put “I just want a good beer and a burger” on my profile. Instant matches. I do love both beer and burgers but never really announced it until I figured out this trick lmao
Idk if you guys ever mentioned this before, but there was an Islands in Ala moana that permanently closed due to covid. Miss it sooo much! I definitely have to try the ones in Cali
Hey guys, I love this podcast! I live in corona now lol 😂 so every time you talk about it I love it! I lived in palmdale when I was growing up but I’m originally from Orange County. So now I have lived all over and it’s crazy how differently people treat each area. When I tell my Orange County friends I moved to corona they kind of make fun of me. Which is crazy because I bought a house lol and they can’t afford to but somehow they still think I’m less than lmao. Tbh I like it here because it’s just right in the middle lol not too crazy not too rich juuuuusttt right
21:33 I’m v familiar w/ southern Cali & Beaverton/Tigard/Portland. Beaverton is like 20 mins from Portland F is the difference?? lmao honestly. & my auntie lives in Corona. Ppl r strange.. 😬🤣 it’s honestly all the same bc everyone is doing the same shit, knows the area.. classism is never cute
love the IE with my life 😤 I would do what drew said too and just say "near LA" to avoid the conversation but lately I've just began to care about that less!
I’m from Glendora but my grandma lives in Rialto and my mama was raised there. It’s 100% classist. My friends used to make it sound like a war zone. So dumb.
my favourite red wine is three Mills reserve red it's such a subtle taste and I can chug it down like juice 😏 also the reason dogs do that little dance after they pee/poop is they're rubbing their scent from their paws on the floor
Dude it’s completely reasonable for Drew to think that Black Widow would be coming back in some form lol, literally the writers opened up the multiverse in the MCU so they could bring in ANY CHARACTER regardless of whether they’re living or dead, it would make no sense from a moneymaking standpoint to not bring back a character that big, I STAND WITH DREW ✊🏾
I agree with Drew's take on Deison's partner. As a sibling you cant voice your opinion on their partner when you notice the bad shit because your sibling will always take that person's side. You will create a wedge between the 2 of you and all you can do is just wait it out and be there. You wait till its all over and THEN light that shit up lol
Absolutely true, even more so than with friends. Idk about Deison’s ex but an ab*ser will actively try to isolate you from your loved ones and turn you against them. So anything you say against that person will make your loved one retreat further into the relationship. It’s tough.
I’m genuinely crying about Pili listening to the ENTIRE playlist and being sweet like that’s so overwhelming sweet I’m going to implode
Literally tearing up at work at Drew's story about Pili listening to Donovan's playlist...just the fact he wanted to go to your little brother's football practice and be supportive?!?! 🥹🥹🥹
I really relate to deison saying she cared more about them then they cared. It’s not easy to be with someone like that. Thank you for sharing that
i love the relationship you guys have between your family and each other im gay and latina and wish i had that relationship with my fam i moved six hours away for university as soon as i could and now being back for the holidays has me feeling like a kid being talked down to all over again and two idiot girls is one of the few things getting be through right now so thank you guys (love from canada
I hope it gets better mama, I know hispanic families can create super toxic environments. I hope everything goes well at school, I promise it gets easier, when it comes to hispanic parents the easiest thing is to learn to ignore them, even if it's not a permanent solution its a good temporary one until you're in a position where you don't rely on them. I wish you the best
I had the same issues with my hispanic family and it’s so tough. It took time but my mom, sister, and abuelita came around and now they’re fiercely supportive. I have some support from a tía and some cousins as well, unfortunately had to cut off a lot of my family. But let’s be honest I don’t like the relatives I cut off so I don’t care about their approval lmao. It gets better and you’ll find amazing chosen family too ❤️ distancing yourself is the right move to focus on yourself while your family figures it out.
Also! Wakanda forever!!! That is by far a top tier movie 😢 the plot and characters were so strong! I left crying I watched it twice…being Mexican it was so great seeing the history of indigenous people from Latin America and giving them a spotlight… it doesn’t happen often
not me crying over Drew’s explanation on why Pili is the one 😭😭😭 you guys both deserve all the happiness this world has to offer it, just makes me heart so happy 🫶🏼 I love you guys and this community I’ve found since finding this podcast 🥲 I wish I could come see you guys on tour!!! hopefully next time I can make it workout 💕
me being born & raised in santa ana & now currently living in corona… love the relation lol
I 100% agree with the light weight thing. Nothing is better than taking 2 sips of a vodka redbull and being comfortably tipsy meanwhile you got the peeps who need 50 shots to feel anything. The elite combo is being high and having just one small drink, best of both worlds
I went to a bathroom in Star Wars land and I almost cracked my head open because I slipped and it was pouring rain
Deisons Weeze/laugh is like pure joy
5:40-6:00 🙌🏼🙌🏼 this is exactly why I love you two.
Drew already said it but the quicker people realize this, the happier they will be! I think that the younger generation will grasp this concept and become UNSTOPPABLE! I’m so excited. 🎉🍾
i really love this episode, largely related to drew and deison talking about their partners and what it’s like to support your friend/family member/close person when you don’t like their partner
I just started you guys podcast a few days ago and already obsessed, I can’t stop watching
951 girlies rise up!! I’m from Moreno Valley (lived in Fontana til I was 10) and no one ever knows where that is, unless they’re also from socal and even then, I have to say “near Riverside and San Bernardino” and then they’re like “ohh, okay”
I live in Georgia now but I love when you guys mention the IE bc I’m so proud to also be from there
I completely understand the Sagittarian urge to completely relinquish personal ambition for collective-couple-ambition when you're in a committed relationship. I've found a way to make it work that isn't all-consuming since my partner cares deeply about me and wants me to be successful on my own terms, in my own way. It may help that he's also a water sign. It seems like it will be an uphill battle for Deis since she has such a big heart and so much love to give. Don't pour it all out at once, girl! When someone is the one and loves you for you they won't want to monopolize all your love, energy, and focus. I believe in you and love for you in 2023! I hope you both are as successful and prosperous as you hope to be this year, and I hope this is a big year for decompression, unconditional love, acceptance, and boundaries, and more Squid pics for all of us Two Idiot Stans (Two Idiot Girlies? Is that too personal?) 💓💞💖
I’m DYING at the nail/wiping situation 🤣🤣🤣 I wear long nails too and I always think truly what do you mean by that question 😅🤣???
Drew knowing the tea about the Santa Ana girlies??? 😭💕 born and raised in SA, and moving back in the summer. I remember for a long time I would get looks when I said where I was from but I got to an age where I wore it with pride because every other town in the OC is cookie cutter as fuck with no personality. I lived on the SA and Tustin border, so I lived in two different worlds at school and at home. I hate the gentrification that’s happening now around 4th st and it’s been pretty tough. Fellow Santa Ana girly here babes 💕💘 we love to see it, so happy for how far you’ve come!!
i’ve been binge watching all these episodes from the most recent one you posted and i just have to say that you guys make me wish SO BAD that i had a sister or even a brother. i’m an only child and my childhood was pretty lonely (lots of playing all by myself cuz the friends i did make were always mean to me 🤪) and i just wish i had someone in my family who i’m as close to like you two. you guys are so fucking funny 🖤
Love the way Deison, you recognised the red flags although in hindsight, in your ex relationship. Also Drew, just as her sis being there even though it was probably hard to bite your tongue at times over the years because you love her so much. That sisterly bond is so beautiful to see. I too went through something similar but with my younger sister but I had to wait 7 years for her to realise things on her own. I'm glad you are free. Drew I'm so glad you & Pili have each other! Side note, I wish I was a lightweight with alcohol haha I haven't learnt my limit yet because my body digests it too quick then I break my seal lol. Always love your podcasts, thank you!
as soon as y'all started talking about the mcu i knew a bucky phase was gonna be mentioned and deis DELIVERED
I totally get what Drew says about Pili, as a Mexican and older sibling I relate to being fiercely protective of my family especially my little sister. I also heavily relate to giving anything for my mom as the matriarch and needing a partner who understands that. My ex husband was a white American and just didn’t get that. He had such a weird toxic relationship with his family and couldn’t understand how close I am to my family. Like he couldn’t live without his family despite wanting to, I can live without my family but don’t want to. That was a pattern I dealt with when I dated men, particularly with white men.
My friends and I went to the club for New Years. I snuck in my grapes in my purse and was still under the table 😅
Not Deison saying “the Batman movie is not.. robert not Zoe” I thought Zoe killed that 😂
IE queens love y’all even more now !! ♥️ I’m from San Bernardino !!
IE GORLS RISEEEEE
You make the last hours of work bearable. Always on time 💖💖💖 my overnight friday (obvi tuesday but my friday) shift ends right
IE GIRLIES RISE UP!!! 909!!
I completely relate to talking to the people I’m close with about everything but ✨ intimate ✨ details. As far as I’m concerned, every single one of my close family and friends are virgins.
You know how when you work places you get sick of the food? Well I worked at islands and their food is so good I still eat there.
Here's a hack, get the tenders tossed in Buffalo sauce.
New dream- have a smoke circle with drew 😂❤
def in the dream blunt rotation
Girl that’s my dream rotation rn hahah
i fuck with drew superhero hot takes because it reminds me how I made chaos to my DC/marvel loving uncle about "does superwomen count as a demigod since shes been brought to life by zeus?" and he got so mad at me I was arguing back laughing 🤣🤣
The feet kick thing dogs do (my dog does it too): dogs have sweat glands in their paws and they are spreading their sent for other dogs. That’s also why when your dog haven’t been bathed in a bit their paws smell like Fritos, it’s their sweat 🤷🏻♀️
just woke up gasping for water but good morning & happy new yearrrrr!!
wishing for all of you (and specifically Deison) radical self love for all of 2023
My Tuesday sustenance has arrived YEP 👍🏻
Now i need to take a road trip to Cali just for islands ...
I’m so proud of being born and raised in Santa Ana. So much culture here. Had no idea y’all were born and raised here too! I also lived in Corona for a year, it was not for me though :(
best way to start my year
Ill be at the SF show!! Literally dying inside cannot wait
The way I said “yah” in unison with Drew when Deison asked if she thought Dr Strange was a Leo as a Virgo I feel connected 🤣
Knowing that your from SA just made me love you guys 10000000000000000% more. I will never be ashamed ❤
Happy New Years from New Zealand 💜
Episode was amazing as always, but PEAK ENERGY and EXCITEMENT was talking about Islands 😂
Finally catching up on these eps after a crazy holiday season! I totally resonate with the doing things because your mom wants you to!!! I can't tell you how many of my brother's soccer and basketball games I went to throughout my life (and out of town!!!) because I was expected to. even after moving back in, I still went, because he was my baby brother and I knew there was an expectation from my mom that I would go
I'm with you Drew, Riesling wine for life.
HAPPY NEW YEAR! 🎆🎊 🎉💜
here's to prosperity, health, and growth in 2023.
love y'all xx
love the pod and happy to find u in the new year. great start. love the vibe and love u both
Omg literally yes Barefoot is finally what got me to be able to drink with my family LOL
Born in Beaumont & living in Redlands ✊🏼
My favs! Happy New Year :)
i live in socal, in one of the most republican & stuck up area. you guys talking about how orange county doesn’t include santa ana is sooo true 😭 santa ana is where all the good places are though. my area is horrible and i’ve lived here my whole life. whatever you imagine socal to be like, it’s prob worse
I love this podcast.
“I just shake my ass and hope whatever’s supposed to come out comes out” 💀😂😂😂
As an ie girl I love y’all !
went to islands yesterday after watching this, and i’m still thinking about the kona pie
I’m from the IE and no one ever knows what tf that is 😂 Why have I had that exact conversation with everyone who asks where I’m from. My line now is just I lived halfway between LA and San Diego lol
The grapes I did but I didn’t do them at midnight bc I was tired …I did them earlier and went to sleep😂 let’s hope they work 😂
Waking up @ 5am to this lovely update, is life 🍾✨❤️ Happy New Year, 2 Gorgeous Angels!!! Tribal tattoos😍 I've literally wanted a sea turtle on my spine for 2 decades, still want it. Do it! 🥰🌊🐢🤗
Honestly the high traffic Adventureland women’s restrooms are fire bc there’s like 100 stalls lol. But my fiancé said the men’s side there is terrible.
there’s an islands in AZ & my bf has been non stop bothering me to go but I kept saying no. THE SECOND you innnflluueeenced me to go, now I keep asking to go !!!
Also double replying to agree with drew that black widow is still alive!
If you want to get into sweet red wine that’s good, get Stella Rosa Black, Roscato and Risata Red Moscato. They’re all moscato, and fantastic 🤪
Every single time I get on Indiana Jones, it breaks down and I take a mini Disneyland nap. Every single time.
"THIS IS THE BIIIIT THAT NEVER EEEEEEEEEEENDS IT GOES ON AND ON"
Civil war Bucky with the red Henley is the most attractive Bucky to me😂
59:00
I don’t as never a pick me girl but I didn’t find out how to get matches on dating apps (for hookups). I put “I just want a good beer and a burger” on my profile. Instant matches.
I do love both beer and burgers but never really announced it until I figured out this trick lmao
I'm working on a chart with pictures of the best Disneyland bathrooms.
happy new yearrrrr
At 2 in the morninggg bestie?
the way I am emotionally attached to Drew at this point is prob unhealthy but like that’s mommy✨💕
Idk if you guys ever mentioned this before, but there was an Islands in Ala moana that permanently closed due to covid. Miss it sooo much! I definitely have to try the ones in Cali
If I saw either of you out of context, I would legit shit my pants. So no worries about me touching you/following you 🤣🤣🤣
Happy new year to my fav family on here, love ya ♡
My cat's name is Gregory, but we call him Greg. I love naming pets human names lol
HAPPY TUESDAY!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR FAM 🥳❤️
GaAaAaHhHhHh, I’d love to see y’all on tour, but I’m all the way in South Africa. But alas, I’ll be there in spirit 😔✌🏼
I need a east coast tour (Boston specifically) 💕
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I WISH I WAS GOING TO SEE YOU GUYS
Barefoot Reisling 100% the best wine
Hey guys, I love this podcast!
I live in corona now lol 😂 so every time you talk about it I love it!
I lived in palmdale when I was growing up but I’m originally from Orange County.
So now I have lived all over and it’s crazy how differently people treat each area. When I tell my Orange County friends I moved to corona they kind of make fun of me. Which is crazy because I bought a house lol and they can’t afford to but somehow they still think I’m less than lmao.
Tbh I like it here because it’s just right in the middle lol not too crazy not too rich juuuuusttt right
21:33 I’m v familiar w/ southern Cali & Beaverton/Tigard/Portland. Beaverton is like 20 mins from Portland F is the difference?? lmao honestly. & my auntie lives in Corona. Ppl r strange.. 😬🤣 it’s honestly all the same bc everyone is doing the same shit, knows the area.. classism is never cute
I went to Hawaii too and I would always go through the whole list just for them to say they don’t know where riverside is. IE girlies rise up💪🏽💪🏽
love the IE with my life 😤 I would do what drew said too and just say "near LA" to avoid the conversation but lately I've just began to care about that less!
Also DEIS! The plant based wrap with the cucumbers and kimchi slaw at galaxys edge is 🤌🏽 and I’m not vegan
I’m from Glendora but my grandma lives in Rialto and my mama was raised there. It’s 100% classist. My friends used to make it sound like a war zone.
So dumb.
I really wanna know if y’all have had the Jo Bros popcorn because it is FIRE 🔥
wow do we all have a computer lab story? why was no one watching over the computer labs 😭
Shout out to popcorn one time 🍿
I’m with Drew. Black widow is alive! 😂
note to self: if i ever meet drew, bring biscuits
you guys should do an episode where you guess tv/movie characters zodiac signs!
I’m from Corona too, born and raised! Went to centennial/LeeVPollard lol
BEST PODCAST QUEENS 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
My favorite food at Disney is the gumbo in New Orleans and the Dole Whip 🤤🤤🤤
literally me crying hearing about your brother and PP
deison ur eyebrows look so good
my favourite red wine is three Mills reserve red
it's such a subtle taste and I can chug it down like juice 😏
also the reason dogs do that little dance after they pee/poop is they're rubbing their scent from their paws on the floor
Tony Stark makes his own stuff, Batman just has money 🙃
Girls you have to try Stella rossa for wine it's so sweet delicious
Dude it’s completely reasonable for Drew to think that Black Widow would be coming back in some form lol, literally the writers opened up the multiverse in the MCU so they could bring in ANY CHARACTER regardless of whether they’re living or dead, it would make no sense from a moneymaking standpoint to not bring back a character that big, I STAND WITH DREW ✊🏾
Please come to Australia 🇦🇺 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Perth to be specific, just stay at my house its fine